#Menorrhagia

[werewolf-kat]

"Victim of My Own Body"

Something a little experimental I made over the weekend with personal emotions involved in it. But, using a very general werewolf design instead of my own persona.

Feelings from chronic illness, "invisible" disabilities, and gender dysphoria combined.

I'm not really the type to make "vent art", but maybe this will speak to others as well. I'm trying to stay a bit detached from it.

(You can view any of my art 2+ days early, with fewer watermarks, and the WIP stages on my Ko-Fi as a VIP member or higher)

[suzypfonne]

Period havers,

Have you ever sat on the toilet for so long (reading, doing whatever) that you forget about your period, until cleanup, then have a split second panic attack? "OMG I'M DYI-- Oooh, right. 🤦🏼‍♀️"

30 years of these bitches so far. Roughly 475 of them and at least once each damn cycle I go blonde.

*sigh*

[enberlight]

Does anyone know? Could my vitamin D & iron deficiency have caused the 20 years of crippling pain I had before taking a multivitamin +4k iu/day of D?

Without vitamins, I'm short of breath after minor daily activity, inflamed, aching to my BONES, stiff, and my colon is ON FIRE and, to be blunt, not cooperating.

But blood tests have NEVER spotted low iron & low D is "new" within the last 3 years. I've been trying to chase this down since 2000 ish, my energy took a nosedive after I tore my meniscus in 1998 and developed tendinitis after. And I've gradually been collecting more inflammatory issues since.

"Chronic Fatigue" was a new term around then and one they didn't want to diagnose me with, they just shrugged when I didn't line up perfectly with Rheumatoid Arthritis or Fibromyalgia. I ticked a lot of the boxes, but didn't go past the "threshold for diagnosis." They were just like, eat right and take your antidepressants.

That's never been enough. But going on a multivitamin (WITH IRON) seems to have been the tipping point. The high doses of D helped (50k iu/week wore off in 3 days, so I took 4k a day and WOW hi awake now), but I was still getting anemia and fatigue and constant soft tissue and tendon pain.

Those nearly disappeared until the doc took me off vitamins for surgery prep :\ Now OMG I'M ON FIRE AND STIFF AGAIN.

It would honestly be nice, in a way, if most of my chronic pain, inflammation, and fatigue turns out to be "you just need vitamins & sleep, let's fix your sinuses, here's a pill."

But it will be UNSATISFYING after a flare up & $$$$ bill

(uterus is still trying to kill me, the vitamins didn't tame it.)

For extra context, because who knows what counts? Maybe y'all do, the docs don't... Anyway. My fingernails have minor ridges along the length, and twist a bit (they look like broad side-bent shovels if I let them grow out). And I have tinnitis, chronic depression, anxiety, ADHD, possibly autistic and bipolar. And was super flexible til all this inflammation turned me into a board. (Not double jointed or anything though.) Just uh. Hi Chronic Illness Tumblr, you know more than Google. Help? XD Thyroid checks out fine, btw, but my liver and kidneys are sus.

[insipid-drivel]

If you feel comfortable sharing - you've bled out twice before?? What happened?

Menorrhagia and doctors putting my reproductive organs and imaginary babies I will never, ever have before my health, safety, and wellbeing.

Menorrhagia is medical jargon for "the worst menstruation imaginable". I like to call it Crotch Stigmata, because for me, once I turned 13, my cycles became non-stop. I haven't been able to stop bleeding for longer than a few weeks with high-octane doses of birth control pills at double the normal dosage the average patient needs them for. When I cramp, I actually go into false labor, have full contractions, scream, vomit, cry, and never get pain intervention. I've been trying to get a hysterectomy/oophorectomy (uterus + ovaries) for 20 years. My current doctor first tried to talk me down by warning it might cause me chronic pain for the rest of my life if I got one, and I went home and responded with a trauma-induced psychotic break, caved a metal trash bin lid with my face, and scribbled "HYSTERECTOMY" on my body in permanent marker several dozen times and tried to gouge my uterus out with my fingernails.

In my mid-20s, my menorrhagia got so bad that one day I just woke up and felt a constant trickle between my legs. I hadn't been injured or harmed at all, but I had just randomly in my sleep begun to bleed out from my uterus. I only avoided hospitalization by my doctor jacking up my BC dose.

A few months later, it happened again.

This is why I despise doctors as a rule, hate the American medical system, and especially loathe OBGYNs as the lowest scum of the fucking earth. "I've hemorrhaged from this disorder TWICE," is still not enough to convince most OBs in my area that it may just be necessary to give me a hysterectomy. Every OBGYN I've gone to has browbeaten me about how I should try to have at least 1 baby before they'll give me a hysterectomy. One decided to correctively rape me in front of my mom when I asserted I was asexual and would never, ever want children.

I've been told to have a baby to "save" my own life since I was 14 years old. By OBGYNs. OBGYNs would sooner advocate underaged child pregnancy than perform a hysterectomy on one that's already suffering.

I'm trans.

[katarh-mest]

tw for female reproductive issues:

you know what I don't miss, eight months after my hysterectomy? periods. nope. don't miss 'em. toooooooootally okay not having them.

this isn't even a gender dysphoria thing since I'm technically still cis hetero and identify as female, I just. never liked my period. I am not one of those women who didn't mind them. I hated the pain and suffering and misery and I'm very, very happy the monthly menace is gone.

10/10 highly recommend if you can convince a doctor to do it

[thepatronsaintoffilth]

ooh the blood loss hittin heavy today

[mcatmemoranda]

You can do Depo-Provera 7 to 10 days prior to menses for three months to regulate menorrhagia in women in their 40s. It's like a a chemical D&C. It thins the endometrial lining so periods are less heavy.

[ace-exploring]

my uterus tried to kill me

Besides being married for nearly 10 years, my only other relationship was 2 years with my high school boyfriend (I do loyalty really well!) who left me for someone who would fuck him.

I think he thought I lied about getting my period more than once a month as an excuse not to fuck, which, if he had asked me AT ALL instead of making an assumption, I could have told him my surprise periods are related to stress, and are quite common in people who menstruate. I got my period twice a month in October-November due to exam stress for exactly 7 years, from Grades 10-12, then 4 years of an undergrad degree + post grad. It MAGICALLY stopped the year after I graduated.

MAGICALLY.

Not to mention that years later I would nearly die from menorrhagia.

[caught-tumbling]

Many people have already said it but this isn't normal. Most people just get more moody, changes to their libido, cravings, that kind of thing. Severe depression, increased anxiety, increased impulsive behavior, and suicidal ideation are signs of PMDD, not regular PMS. If you feel like your period is ruining your life that's not normal. This difference should be taught. This difference kills people.

Similarly, the difference between kind of heavy menstrual bleeding and menorrhagia should be taught. Menorrhagia is defined as bleeding that exceeds 80 ml per menstrual cycle or:

• Soaking through one or more sanitary pads or tampons every hour for several hours in a row.

• Needing double sanitary protection to control your menstrual flow.

• Getting up at night to change sanitary pads or tampons.

• Bleeding for more than a week.

• Passing blood clots larger than a quarter.

• Limiting daily activities due to heavy menstrual flow.

• Feeling tired, fatigued or short of breath as the result of blood loss.

Here's a link to Mayo Clinic to learn about some causes of menorrhagia to look into if any of this sounds familiar:

Unfortunately the most common treatment for either is birth control, which has its own list of issues and isn't a good fit for everyone. But you and a doctor should look into all options and how they fit into your life, as well as checking hormone levels and other screening tests. Even if you don't find effective treatment you should have the knowledge anyway. You deserve to know what's going on with your body and if something is abnormal.

Pre-menstrual depression is always depicted as like "He He! I had a box of icecream bars and cried while watching the Titanic!" But in reality, it's more like, "I'm standing the edge of an abyss. There is nothing good inside of me, I'm filled with rage and desperation."

It's crazy that being told how to deal with that is never a part of anyone's menstrual sex education.

[gynecologistcare]

 Understanding Period Problems in Teenage Girls: Causes, Concerns, and Solutions

Periods can be challenging for teenage girls, with many experiencing discomfort and irregularities that cause both physical and emotional strain. During adolescence, a girl’s body undergoes significant hormonal changes, which often brings about period-related issues such as irregular cycles, cramps, and heavy bleeding. In this article, we will delve into common period problems faced by teenage girls, why these issues can be particularly concerning for them, and how Dr. Gayatri Kar Soni, one of the Best gynaecologist for Periods problems in south Delhi, can offer solutions and support.

Why Do Teenage Girls Experience Period Problems?

The menstrual cycle in teenage girls is influenced by a variety of biological and environmental factors, and it can take years for their cycles to regulate. Here are some common reasons:

Hormonal Imbalance The onset of puberty brings a surge in hormones, which can lead to irregular periods. The body is still adjusting to these changes, which can result in inconsistent or even missed periods, especially in the first few years after menarche (the first period).

Stress and Lifestyle Factors The pressures of academic life, social dynamics, and physical changes can cause stress, which may disrupt a girl’s menstrual cycle. Additionally, irregular sleeping patterns, poor nutrition, and lack of exercise can also impact menstrual health.

Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) A common condition among teenage girls, PCOS leads to hormonal imbalances that can cause irregular periods, excess hair growth, acne, and sometimes weight gain. PCOS requires medical diagnosis and treatment to help manage these symptoms effectively.

Diet and Body Weight Extreme weight loss, gain, or restrictive diets can impact a girl’s menstrual cycle. A balanced diet is essential to maintaining a regular period, as the body needs adequate nutrition to support healthy hormone production.

Underlying Health Conditions Conditions such as thyroid disorders, diabetes, and other hormonal imbalances can contribute to irregular or painful periods. These conditions often require medical intervention to regulate hormone levels.

Common Period Problems in Teenage Girls

Teenage girls frequently encounter the following period issues:

Irregular Periods: During the early years of menstruation, cycles may be inconsistent. This irregularity is generally normal but can sometimes indicate an underlying condition.

Painful Periods (Dysmenorrhea): Menstrual cramps are common, but severe cramps can interfere with daily activities and cause distress.

Heavy Menstrual Bleeding (Menorrhagia): Excessive bleeding can lead to fatigue, anemia, and other health complications.

Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS): Many girls experience mood swings, bloating, and other symptoms before their periods, which can impact their mental and emotional well-being.

Why Are Period Problems a Concern for Teenage Girls?

Teenage girls often worry about their periods for several reasons:

Discomfort and Physical Pain: Pain and cramps can disrupt their routine, affecting school attendance, social activities, and even self-esteem.

Fear of Stigmatization: Discussing periods is often still seen as taboo in some social circles. Many girls feel uncomfortable talking about their concerns, which can lead to anxiety and confusion.

Impact on Mental Health: PMS, mood swings, and hormonal changes can lead to emotional ups and downs, making teenage girls more vulnerable to stress, anxiety, and sometimes depression.

Concerns About Future Fertility: Girls experiencing irregular periods or conditions like PCOS may worry about their future reproductive health.

Misconceptions and Lack of Knowledge: Many teens receive limited education on menstrual health and may not fully understand what is normal, making them more prone to unnecessary worry about their symptoms.

Dr. Gayatri Kar Soni: A Trusted Best gynaecologist for Periods problems in south Delhi

For teenage girls experiencing period-related issues, expert guidance is essential. Dr. Gayatri Kar Soni is a highly respected gynecologist in South Delhi, known for her compassionate approach and expertise in addressing menstrual and reproductive health issues. Dr. Soni helps young girls understand their bodies and provides treatments tailored to each patient’s needs, including managing irregular cycles, alleviating painful symptoms, and addressing conditions like PCOS.

With her extensive experience and patient-centered care, Dr. Soni empowers girls and young women to take charge of their health, ensuring they are well-informed and comfortable discussing their concerns. Her holistic approach includes lifestyle recommendations, medication when necessary, and education on menstrual health, all designed to give teenage girls confidence and reassurance regarding their period health.

When to Seek Help for Period Problems

While it’s normal to experience some irregularity at the beginning of menstruation, certain signs may warrant a visit to a gynecologist, especially if a girl experiences:

Extremely painful cramps that interfere with daily activities

Heavy bleeding that lasts more than seven days

Periods occurring more than once a month or less than once every three months

Severe mood swings or signs of depression related to menstruation

Any symptoms that seem unusual or concerning

Tips for Managing Period Problems in Teenage Girls

Stay Active: Physical activity helps reduce cramps and improve mood.

Maintain a Balanced Diet: Nutrient-rich foods support hormonal health and reduce PMS symptoms.

Track the Menstrual Cycle: Using a calendar or an app can help identify patterns and potential issues.

Seek Support: Encourage open discussions about menstrual health at home and school.

Conclusion

Menstrual issues can be challenging for teenage girls, but understanding these issues is the first step toward managing them effectively. With the right guidance from experts like Dr. Gayatri Kar Soni, teenage girls in South Delhi have access to compassionate and knowledgeable care to address their menstrual concerns. By breaking the stigma around periods and encouraging informed discussions, we can help teenage girls lead healthy, confident lives.

For further assistance, parents and teenage girls should consider consulting a professional like Dr. Gayatri Kar Soni, who can provide individualized care and advice for a smoother, healthier journey through adolescence.

[mxoleander]

save me tranexamic acid

[insipid-drivel]

Going to my first appointment with my surgeon soon (as in, like, a couple of hours from now). I'm both excited and terrified. I have menorrhagia and endometriosis, so the silver lining is that the surgery to cure me of both is also bottom surgery, which I've desperately wanted for a long time, but I'm still scared of complications or being sent home with bad post-op pain with no post-op pain meds... or my chronic pain turning out to not be cured at all :S

[kimberlychapman]

Don't delay in asking for help, either. It takes years on average for any period-related stuff to get any reasonable, worthwhile attention from HCWs.

Play your HCWs off against each other if you have to. I've been begging for peri-menopausal help since pre-covid times but only after I got long covid and convinced my long covid team that the long covid is exacerbating existing peri-menopause stuff did they push my GP enough to get the GP to finally put me in the queue for specialist menopausal attention. The GP filed that referral at the end of May 2023. I finally got the appointment last weekend (February 2024) and that was bumped up from the original April 2024 appointment only because some specialists came up from London on a weekend to help alleviate Cambridge's backlog.

Now I've got a likely diagnosis that needs confirmation via a scan, and at that scan I can finally get some HRT, so I'm in the queue for those things. No idea how long I'll wait. Google says wait times for the HRT alone are 10 weeks to a year depending on your post code lottery.

I am white, cis, English-speaking, fairly affluent, educated, and practiced at advocating for myself medically and yet it's been over 5 years trying to get help for this agony and associated problems. I now have hope of maybe getting help within the next 10-52 weeks. Imagine how much worse this is for people outside of my privilege set.

Seriously, if you are having any kind of period problems, start talking to multiple HCWs now. Expect to be disbelieved, told to do CBT about it, told to lose weight about it, told to exercise more about it, told to do a thousand things that won't help. Expect sighs and rolled eyes, even from women doctors. Expect to be treated like you're just whining about nothing. Expect possible referrals to psych (which is why it's key to be talking to multiple HCWs so one can't just go off on you).

You need to approach this like a long-term battle campaign. It sucks because you don't have the energy for that, but most of us will go through this to get any attention at all.

hey so it’s march now aka the beginning of endometriosis awareness month and i feel obligated to remind you that debilitatingly painful periods are not normal. if you or someone you know is ending up sick or bedridden every month, you are not crazy and deserve medical attention from someone who will take you seriously

[drasmitadongare]

Struggling with menorrhagia?

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[thepatronsaintoffilth]

big appointment tomorrow, discussing potentially surgical options for my pussy problem ... wish me luck!