#Me and my dyke boyfriend

[salempie]

Ohhhh my wife’s really not gonna like this one

Original without effects under the cut

[boytransmission]

Well hello,,,,,

Top surgery fund! <3 $tips <3 wishlist

[femmenetuno]

i LOVE being femme4butch/masc bc yeah he fucked me until i cried but we also went to opera afterwards . we are classy like that yk

[menlove]

realized the way I flirt w cis men is exactly like pulling on their pigtails. literally everyone else I'm just overly nice to but I see a mildly attractive cis man and I have to heckle him. listening and learning and working on this flaw 🙏

[vzajemnik]

i should be kissed and i should be fucking someone right this second

[theygender]

Going to visit the more conservative side of my gf's family who she's 0% out to sucks but it's also kinda funny bc like. I only have three presentation modes I can possibly pass as: turbodyke, genderfucker, or cis man. I can't look like the first one around that side of her family since she's not out as a woman to them so my presentation automatically loops back around to one of the other two in trying to avoid it, and since I'm specifically trying to NOT look queer it usually means I get read as a cis man—which completely defeats the purpose bc then I get people asking if I'm her gay boyfriend. Last time we were preparing to visit them I put on an unassuming T-shirt and jeans, looked in the mirror, and just told her "I don't think I'm beating the gay boyfriend allegations"

[shirleyjacksonesque]

apparently my dad also thinks im a lesbian???? i was talking to him and my mom tonight and she was like. you're sure you're not a lesbian right? lucy isn't your girlfriend? and i said no. and then my mom looked at my dad and said "i told you" 😭😭😭 at least im not technically lying (im bisexual)

[cxsmicvega]

happy pride month friendly reminder im a bi lesbian who loves men in a lesbian way and i will Not Stop Doing So

I'm going to go kiss my boyfriends in the most lesbian way possible and I will not be stopped

[lesbianloveisreal]

It's really easy to tell queer people who are active, involved, or otherwise in the community culture (to the best of their ability) compared to one's that use "queer" as a fun little label.

Is their label still valid? Sure. I don't care. I honestly am over having to say "you're valid you're valid you're valid" to people because they are, and that's that. I'm not spending my entire night at the only place I can hug my gf in public to explain why someone more privileged than I am is valid. We can discuss other things about it.

But just because you are valid doesn't mean you aren't harmful to the community with your behavior and lack of understanding of our community and culture.

Etc. (As a nonbinary lesbian that is "straight passing" when im alone (I hate this term but whatever) )

If I'm saying or doing something that harms people in the community that are MORE OPPRESSED THAN I AM then I am actively harming our community.

If I go in and start harassing butches or trans people I am using my privileges to hurt our community.

If I start getting mad that butch women aren't talking and flirting with me when (at least in my local community) it is more often expected for femmes to make the first move, I am actively not using our queer cultural "rules" in that moment in my local community.

So, maybe if you notice your local queer community (especially people more oppressed than you) getting upset with you being there MAYBE it's not about your identity at all.

MAYBE if they kick you out, you are doing a disservice to your local community *after all nonqueers are usually allowed in those spaces too*

And please don't give me that "straight passing isn't a privilege" yes it is.

Can it still be annoying? Yes. But I know butch women that can't get jobs, get attacked while walking down the street, have had to leave places because someone threatened them, have gotten things thrown at them, had people scream at them at work, etc.

[livvyofthelake]

also the greys anatomy season finale is on my birthday again this year so if i don’t get what i want i’ll scream and cry and throw up especially considering i have literally nothing else going on on my birthday this year like literally nothing. i’ll watch movies and call my mom and maybe pull weeds from my garden or something like literally nothing is happening no one will be around except my dad. so the three hour block of television i have that day is kind of it. krista this is your last chance with me.

[a-nybodys]

thinking about them <3 (anne and mary ofmd)

[femmenetuno]

love my butch bc in a 4h call we go from: i need you to fuck me im going insane but also do you remember my favorite flower and like i really think we were meant to know each other in this lifetime uhh i’m thinking about fundamentally changing Myself and hey what did you eat today

[quillkiller]

i literally only started this blog to spread the quillkiller agenda and now i barely talk about them anymore and…………. only talk about lilyrosekiller ?

[menlove]

the thing is. I'm a fag to fags and a dyke to dykes and to fagdykes I'm a dykefag and sometimes that's confusing and that's okay!

[violencebian]

shout out to femmes and their dyke boyfriends

[entinullbutno]

God its such a pain in the ass being queer in a small fucking midwestern town with a church on every corner.

Like, i would *die* to become a big-time academic and spend my days researching topics like history and mythology and art, but i can’t, because the only one whose in charge of my money is me