#MEDIAS

[tightsunderpants]

tights under pants

[memorias--sin--titulo]

Quiero tener mi momento “medias de abejita” y sentir que alguien me ama tanto que nota hasta el mas pequeño detalle.

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ

[make-pantyhose-great-again]

[que-ri-co]

AshleyCarolina

[allthingseurope]

Medias, Romania (by Werner Funk)

[ghostgoth-doll]

🎀

[jloisse]

Vidéo d'enfants retrouvés par des douaniers à l'arrière d'un camion à Londres

Mais bien sûr ce n’est qu’une théorie du complot comme dirait les medias mainstrean

[lsissysophiel]

Almorzando

[tightsunderpants]

tights under pants

[pollherepollthere]

how many fandoms/media are you currently focused on (try to only count the main ones, not ones you were previously active in but arent still interacting with or ones you think of for a day then they go to the back shelf of ur brain) as an autistic person? - none - 1 to 3 - 4 to 6 - 7 to 9 - 9 to 11 - more than 11 - nuance - obligatory not autistic / results / im bald button

(asking bc im curious, i cant rlly keep track of that many things anymore so i curious what thats like for others:3)

*try to only count the main ones,not ones you were previously active in but aren't still interacting with or ones you think of for a day then they go to back shelf of your brain

so I'm not autistic but I'm definitely involved in 11+ fandoms lol

[que-nal-gas]

AshleyCarolina & AnhastaciaGabriela & SabrinaAndreina

[make-pantyhose-great-again]

[que-po-ses]

MirbelysPineda

[queendomella]

Yo que me pongo falda y el cielo que se nubla… 🤣

[charlie-theidiot]

So, if you're into Hugh Jackman right now and if you're spending a bit too much time on tiktok watching edits (I'm not judging, I'm doing the same)

You've probably seen edits of this movie called Swordfish which came out in 2001.

And you've probably seen lots of edits on a particular scene depecting the test that Stan (Hugh Jackman) has to pass to prove how good of an hacker he is.

This test involve three things: a computer, a gun against his temple, and a non-consesual sexual act. (Whoever thought those three things could mix up well is a fool, but that's not the point).

You're probably asking yourself why I'm bothering you with this piece of information. Well, good question. This scene rather erotic was of course used in edits and lots of people love it, commenting on how Hugh Jackman looks in this scene. Which of course raised multiple questions from other people.

First, why are we all romanticizing a scene of evident rape?

Second, why are we all normalizing it?

And thirdly, and maybe more from me, why are we portraying male SA like this?

Today I'll try to answer those answers the best I can and from my point of view only.

First of all, two questions in one really, why are we normalizing and romanticizing this scene of blatant SA? Well, for me there's multiple reasons to it.

As a society we're too used to see male SA like something to joke about or to sexualize. Because they're men. They had to enjoy it, right? After all that's what all men always think about.

Wrong of course. Men are human like everyone else, and they of course think about other things than sex. And they can be victims of SA, even though they are not the majority of the victims. But since when as a society we decided to make fun or to hide a minority of victims? Anyway.

But there's an other reason why we romanticized this scene. It's the way it is portrayed of course.

When doing a movie, and I'm not teaching any of you anything, the way of filming and representing thing is a big part of the project.

If you watched this movie (for the plot, Hugh, or any reason really) you'll see that this scene is not portrayed as terrible. Yes, he is in a dangerous situation and there's stress put on him. But he doesn't look horrified. Lots of the shots are big plan on his face. And I don't want to write details but he doesn't seem terrified, or scared, or like he doesn't want it.

And I can see why it can lull the viewer in a false sense of security. Of course he's enjoying it. He doesn't look like anything else. Then it must be okay.

No. Wrong.

That's where we, and when I say we I'm talking about society and I include myself, that's where we are wrong. There is no excuse for what's happening and we should be horrified. But we're not. Because it is not portrayed as something horrible.

I haven't see the whole movie, this scene saying everything I had to know. Maybe it's a good movie, but I'm sure this scene is not talked again like a trauma or something horrendous. Once again, downplaying the horror of the situation.

That, for me at least, is why as a society we let ourself see this scene as something erotic. Especially with the way Hugh Jackman is portrayed as a big sex symbol (I could do a whole presentation on that too).

That leave us with my question, why are we portraying male SA like that?

Well, Jamie, that's a good question. I'll tell you why. It's because male SA is still a pretty sensitive and dirty subject for society. We're still not able of talking about female SA victims, so certainly not male victims.

And that vision is translated into our movies and TV shows. Most of the time, male SA is downplayed or acted as a joke or an erotic thing. And it's not always the producer's fault, it's also the public reaction to it. There's the 'Swordfish', but also Morty in 'Rick and Morty', Angel Dust in 'Hazbin Hotel', and in 'Hunger Games', and in 'Baby Reindeer'.

The list is long of male SA representation in the medias that are either now played seriously or not taken seriously. And maybe it's time we change our point of view on this matter.

To conclude, can we blame the people who made edits or enjoyed edits of this scene? I don't think we should. It is pointless, and the way the scene was made played a big role in it. It also shows that most people didn't really watch the movie and just wanted to make thirst traps, which is not something to condemn.

Thank you for reading this. I don't know if I make sense or if it's even a smart thing to say. Maybe I'm wrong or maybe I'm already saying something that was already said. In either case, thanks for reading and have a good life.

PS: I'm always open to hear always points of view. I'm not always right, and who knows maybe I'll learn a thing or two.