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"People only rate BG3 highly because of the romances" has got to be one of the most inane takes I have seen so far.
It's good to be critical, but I just had to block someone who decided to shit over BG3 and the BG3 fandom because they enjoyed Veilguard and didn't like any of the criticisms.
Sorry for the negative posting again. It's good to be critical, but why do you have to insult others in doing so? Why bring BG3 and the BG3 fandom into it?
#might delete later#fandom wank#vagueposting#Also I am wnjoying Veilguard but I have a ton of criticisms#I love BG3 and think it deserved all the awards but I can also recognise it's flaws#Preferences are subjective and I don't think I could even begin to compare the two games#They are different#You don't like people comparing the two when criticising Veilguard but then turn around and do the exacy same thing#If you want to enjoy the game just ignore the criticisms or block them and enjoy it
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Alright, we need to have a little chat about Dutch van der Linde and some of the truly bizarre discourse I’ve come across here recently. If you’re someone who ships Arthur and Dutch, that’s your business. Enjoy what you enjoy. But—and it’s a big but—if you’re going to ship them and simultaneously argue that Dutch isn’t narcissistic or manipulative, I’m going to need you to take several seats.
I just stumbled across a post where someone was upset about how the fandom "dogpiles" on Dutch because "he’s only human, and humans make mistakes." Fair enough, I thought—everyone is entitled to their perspective. But then I got curious and looked into their blog and realized this same person is reposting Arthur x Dutch dub-con content like it’s a casual Tuesday. Look, read whatever you want, it’s your life—but you can’t sit here and preach empathy for Dutch while simultaneously engaging with material that explicitly highlights his manipulative nature.
This kind of double standard? It's exhausting.
Dutch van der Linde is one of the most unique characters in Rdr2. He’s charismatic, intelligent, and passionate—qualities that draw people to him, including the members of his gang. But he’s also deeply narcissistic, manipulative, and utterly incapable of taking responsibility for his actions. These traits are the very foundation of his downfall, and they’re written so clearly into his character arc that it’s impossible to miss.
Dutch weaponizes loyalty. He preys on the vulnerabilities of people who trust him, especially Arthur and John. He creates an illusion of a "better world" to justify his increasingly erratic and self-serving decisions, all while framing himself as the misunderstood hero of his own story. This isn’t slander; it’s canon.
So when a big portion of the fandom calls Dutch out for being manipulative, it’s not because we’re "ignoring his humanity." It’s because we’re recognizing that his humanity is deeply flawed. That’s the point. You can empathize with his complexities without excusing his actions or demanding others do the same.
It’s wonderful that more people are discovering the game. Seriously, welcome aboard! The more people who experience this masterpiece, the better. But if you’re new here, take a moment to read the room. Dive into the rich narrative, explore the characters, and engage with the fandom thoughtfully. Don’t come in hot with takes like “disliking Dutch is ableist” or accusing people of lacking empathy for pointing out his glaring flaws. Not only does it derail meaningful conversations, but it also alienates people who are here to discuss the complexities of these characters in good faith.
Also, using heavy terms like "ableism" in a context that doesn’t apply? That’s not it. Critiquing a character’s actions isn’t an attack on their humanity—it’s an acknowledgment of it. Let’s save those terms for situations where they’re actually relevant, not for defending fictional characters.
Enjoy the content you like, ship the pairings that make you happy, but don’t expect people to turn a blind eye to Dutch’s faults just because you’ve decided to romanticize him. The beauty of Red Dead lies in its ability to spark debates about morality, loyalty, and the gray areas of human nature. Let’s not dilute that by refusing to acknowledge the darker sides of certain characters.
And for the love of all things, let’s stop accusing people of lacking empathy for engaging critically with the narrative. There’s a difference between analyzing a character and trashing them, and most of the fandom is doing the former.
If you’re out here dropping takes that don’t hold water, don’t be surprised when people disengage—or, in my case, hit that block button.
#rdr2#red dead redemption 2#arthur morgan#red dead fandom#dutch van der linde#red dead redemption two#red dead redemption community
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INFO POST
Name: Kylee (they/them). 30+
A totally normal Korean American mostly known for my drawings, specifically my Pokemon nuzlocke comics. But I will talk about other things on occasion because I do have periods of being fixated on certain topics. I also am a doctor!
Interests: Pokemon, League of Legends (everything except the game lmao), Fire Emblem, Advance Wars, Animal Crossing, Mother series, Korean history/culture, character design
General FYIs:
General inquiries/commission work/etc should be sent thru kynimdraws [at] gmail [dot] com! Tumblr messaging/asks/etc is not 100% reliable
I will not follow NSFW accounts but I am fine talking/interacting with them. There may be suggestive shitposting but I like keeping my content on the SFW side
I am VERY picky about who I follow/interact with online. Fandom content in particular is a minefield for me aka I have many things I dislike and don’t want to see, even if it might be a popular thing in media that I otherwise enjoy. Therefore, I will unfollow/block/mute liberally. There are times I accidentally block a blog bc I mistake them for bots. So if you got hit with that, just send me an ask or email me
I am very open about what I like and dislike, and none of those things are a direct attack on your sensibilities. I have never gone out of my way to directly send hate or whatever have you if I end up seeing shit I don’t like. My complaints in my little online space ain't a personal attack on you.
My ask/submission box/DMs are open for criticisms if you have any issues you want to resolve in private. No one is perfect and I may have done ignorant shit that needs to be pointed out. I have deleted or edited posts in the past if people tell me what I did wrong. PS I get that some of my stuff may upset you, but try to act civil when pointing shit out please.
I try to tag all my things whenever I can. Again, send me a message if anything bothers you. I am all for good debate but if you send me excessive hate or threats bc I have different opinions about matters that are trivial, I will block/delete them.
If you wish to use any of my hcs, please credit me. And if you are comfortable with it, send me the works so I can check them out! Or @ me if that is easier.
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FIRE EMBLEM FYI: Specifically for 3Houses/3Hopes because I need a separate one for this franchise specificially given how many crazy things I got due to being involved in this fanbase via my fanworks:
DO NOT try to convince me to like or tolerate Byleth/student ships, ESPECIALLY the ones with the lords (aka CIaude, Dimitri, EdeIgard). I already summarized why I don’t like FE3H Byleth ships with student chars here. While the spinoff game FEW3H has now removed that teacher/student problematic situation, the fandom keeps putting the FE3H elements into the FEW3H fanworks (i.e. remembering Byleth from “another life” trope)...so no thanks!! DO NOT SHOW ME IT!!!
As for the Byleth ships with faculty members, my response is here so don’t try to bait me about that topic either thanks.
I do not care whom you ingame S-support. 3Houses limits the dating-sim part of the game to that character, so I cannot care less about how you play the game. The main issue I have is when people treat Byleth the “character” as a legit ship material when I personally think they are a cool character ruined by fans who are too obsessed with badly executed self insert otome tropes bc they self-project super hard onto them. Just to be clear, any FE3H or FEW3H OC/Canon >>>>>>Byleth ships personally. Even Byleth-sonas that remove the teacher/student aspects are better than canon FE3H!Byleth
Please don't drag FE VA statements as some sort of “gotcha” on my opinions like this post here. IDC what other people prefer with ship shit, that’s their problem and not mine. I am not gonna bother them about it. So don’t bother ME about it.
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Myths of Unova + Episode Grey (Pkmn White/White2 Comic)
Tales of Sinnoh (Pkmn Diamond Comic)
Art Site (Portfolio)
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Welcome to my criticism and drama blog!
Here is where I'll most criticize shows, films, other artist/content creators and such as well as talking about drama.. Originally, I use to do this on my main blog but after recent events I decided to separate it since I know that some of my followers may be sick and tired of me getting into fights with weirdos or helluva/hazbin stans for just wanting to express my opinions. Please note that I may do a lot of ranting on this blog as well as critiquing some series that you may like, if you are a huge fan of said series or a stan.. for your own mental health (I can't stress this enough) PLEASE do not follow me or interact with me, PLEASE block or ignore me if you do not wanna hear me criticize someone you look up to or a show/movie/game that you really really REALLY enjoy and you don't see any "flaws" in it. ‧₊˚🌈✩ Remember, Shows, Movies, Games and everyone else are not flawless.. we all have our flaws ‧₊˚🌈✩
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~Small Info about me~
. I’m Panromantic, Polyamory and Genderfluid going by He/She/They/Them pronouns.. I came out as Genderfluid last year (2022)
. I don’t like receiving messages that is literally just ‘hi’ or ‘hello’ (unless it’s from a close friend or someone i know) because I get easily panicked so I rather you just get straight to the point xp /nbr
. My bad for not including this here until now but, if you are reblogging my critic posts towards Vivziepop, Helluva Boss or Hazbin Hotel.. PLEASE do not use any "anti" tags because I'm not anti helluva boss or hazbin hotel, yes, I hate Viv but I do not hate her series plus, I do not want to be seen as an "anti Vivzie" to the stans since they already have that "all critics are evil" mindset no thanks to her and I do not want it to get worse.
. Please be aware that I will be sharing or talking about adult topics that some people may find sensitive, I'll put the appropriate tags if I do mention said topic . I will be criticizing series like Helluva Boss, Hazbin hotel, Muffins and people like Vivziepop, Reitanna Seishin.. If this is not your liking then I highly advise that you don't follow this blog. . Another thing to note is yes, I am a fan of Helluva Boss, Hazbin Hotel and Muffins but however I obviously do NOT support the creator (Yes, I am those type of people that believe that you can seperate art from artist in some cases) Also YES, you can criticize someone while also liking it too.
. I'll also be criticizing fandoms and communities (communities like people who support proshipping)
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Do not interact with me if you are the following or support the following: - You are a Reitanna Seishin Stan. - You are a FNAF stan or Scott Cawthorn Stan or a Scott/FNAF anti - You are a Vivziepop Stan or Vivziepop Anti (and PLEASE do not reblog my posts and use any anti vivziepop, anti hazbin hotel, anti helluva boss or anything with the anti tag in them, ESPECIALLY if it posts about criticism) - You support Pedophilla/lolicon/Shotacon. - You support Zoophilla, Necrophilla or anything problematic. - You support Proship, profic (Yes, I do realize there are some people that label theirselves profic while not fetishizing/romanticizing problematic content but still, this is mostly aiming at people who DO), non-con, comship, cub-con, nsfw babyfur artists/supporters, abdl ect. - You are homophobic, transphobic, racist, zionist, sexist, ableist or basically just a problematic person in general. -You support bullying people for just drawing non-problematic art (like scenecore, canon x oc ship art, canon x self-insert ship art or what people consider "cringe") - You are a trump supporter.
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Feel free to ignore if you don't want to talk about it (since I know folks have been super weird to you about gaming), but I'm really curious what build you went for in Disco Elysium, since, at least in my experience, it REALLY colors the information you get about the world (and also how the game flows).
Hey anon! I am happy to talk about it. I'll give you the build and then, honestly, I'm going to give a rundown of The Weirdnesses since talking around them is probably making shit more confusing. I may have even done this before or I may have drafted it and deleted it. I honestly do not recall, and it doesn't hurt to repeat.
I went with thinker, in a move surprising no one who has been subjected to my "never dump intelligence when you can dump wisdom" rants about D&D. I want to know what's going on; this has made progress slow in a few places due to the mediocre physical stats/horrifically bad psyche stats, and also it means my available health and morale are garbage, however, I do not care because I want to know what's going on. It does mean I haven't been able to get through several doors, however.
Anyway re: video games. This isn't unique to them but I think bc I am up to date on Critical Role this just doesn't happen much, but anyway two things are going on.
the overfamiliarity problem. I mean this so seriously: If we have not interacted recently and/or frequently (or uh. at all) saying shit like "I'm so excited for you to be playing this game!" is actually deeply off-putting to me. I am sure it is INTENDED to be friendly, and so I usually quietly delete comments or hide reblogs instead of blocking, but it really is like...this is a normal thing for casual acquaintances to say and it's fucking weird for strangers to say. like the posts if you like them! reblog them! Even "oh it's a fun game, enjoy yourself!" is fine by me. But like, something about "I'm excited for you" or talking about your own experience when I do not fucking know you makes my skin crawl.
Like many people I have a number of hangups about using leisure time for leisure instead of productivity, or even using leisure time for a leisure activity like video games specifically, which are both time consuming and, while very enjoyable and imo rewarding, do not have the same cultural cache as books nor the finished products as crafts, nor the ability to simultaneously clean your kitchen or crochet as podcasts or TV/movies. I've found from some conversations with friends that I have...more than average hangups, and that's a conversation I do genuinely intend to have in like. a therapy setting. and I'll leave it at that. But anyway to that point feeling like I am having demands put on me, even something as vague and well-intentioned as "I'm excited to hear your thoughts!" or "do you think you'll do another run" before I've independently formulated said thoughts/done another run kicks in a whole bunch of contrarian and also "why are you giving me a fucking TASK related to this when I already had to manually override seventeen warning lights to get to the point of doing something purely for fun and for myself" instincts. (This is also a factor in why I'm extremely sensitive to any spoilers; even "oh you'll have fun when you meet Bob" sets my brain into "well now you can't focus on anything until you meet Bob, obviously, all that matters is finding Bob" mode, which may fuck up my experience until I meet Bob. It's not all the time, depending on the nature of the spoiler and the work and my own ability to be like hey. brain. stop. But it is sometimes, and given that there's very valid reasons to avoid spoilers anyway, such as "random stranger on Tumblr usually does not reveal them in a way that feels nearly as rewarding as the work itself" I am spoiler averse.) Really, when it comes to me exploring video games, or life, one must treat me as a shelter cat or a toddler: I gotta do it myself, let me figure it out myself, only stop me if I'm going to like, fall down a flight of stairs or chew on a lamp cord. And honestly? I think this is a good way to treat everyone who is getting into something you like unless they ask you for advice.
ANYWAY mortifying ordeal of being very slightly known/lecture on how to welcome the independent to a fault and perhaps beyond that into your fandoms aside, asking about what I've already done? 100% ok, do not worry about doing this, just make sure from my posts it is indeed a thing I've already done.
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DISCLAIMER: Don't engage with a toxic user that's being called out, just block, report, ignore, & move one.
Remember when I made a public apology for making a callout tweet about a certain Tumblr group of IDW Sonic critics (a certain fox was one of them) on Twitter like roughly 2 years ago?
Yeah, I was in good terms afterwards, but a year later, when I randomly saw the edgy sadist fox man wishing death on a comic book writer showing up in my personal Twitter timeline, I took my apology back from him (plus some of his associates overtime) & gave my two cents about it.
The reason why he wished death on a comic book writer was because the satanically evil boogiestans were harassing & doxing his friend who had cancer. You know the old saying, 2 wrongs don't make it right. This isn't the only toxicity thing he has done & I got several evidence to show below.
CW/TW: Excessive Slurs, Bigotry, SH, & SA
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BONUS EXAMPLES
Plus archived links to his Twitter & Tumblr accounts.
There are way more than what are shown in the images & I can't expect to find them all. Several or so of them are from a few years or nearly a decade ago, but it does prove that he's always been an heartless irredeemable sadist, even before IDW Sonic existed & before you pull that "years ago" defense card, his behavior hasn't changed for the better, like these for example (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13).
What do I think about him?
He's overly smugged, to a point of being arrogant.
He gets overly insecure whenever, for example, any Sonic game gets any criticism &/or negative opinions from people who're either fans of Sonic or not.
Most of his "critiques" are in bad faith.
He has extreme accusatory behavior (I.E. He accuses people of hating Sonic & not playing the games for daring to like anything non-game Sonic related, getting things about Sonic wrong, & making AU fan fics that differs from the games).
He has a habit of blocking anyone over the most pettiest things (I.E. Anyone using the term, Mobius, being told to calm down, people liking transgender Bridget, people liking SnapCube & Team 4 Star (he also wants them banned over it), etc.).
He constantly relies on ad-hominem attacks & vulgar insults whenever he talks to anyone he doesn't agree with, either directly or behind their backs by screenshotting their posts then posting them in his clique chamber to complain about it or both.
He's got this obnoxious Anti-WokeTuber vibes going on despite claiming to be against bigotry.
He gets easily butthurt over people enjoying any non-gaming media or anything in general of not just Sonic, but also Kirby, Castlevania, Dragon Ball, TMNT, & more as well.
He's a massive hypocrite, like for example, he hates anyone making & enjoying non-canon Sonic material while he's faving/making rule 34 fan art & fan fics involving sonic characters voring each other or any other fetishy things (which are also non-canon material).
etc.
If you're wondering if I'm aware about his certain questionable fan fics & favs, I knew already cuz I was the one that caused a chain-reaction on Twitter in the first place by randomly DMing some one rando about it & I honestly wish they shouldn't bring it up whenever they argue with said fox. If you want me to talk about what I think of this Dwai guy nowadays, maybe, but not right now.
How do you think I found out? I just googled the username, checkout their account on some furry site, & went to their profile from some controversial bunny site that's publicly shown on their profile bio out of morbid curiosity. Before you ask, I don't have an account on that controversial bunny site & never will.
My reaction to said content on there was disgust & uncomfortable. I hardly engage with those UCP addict types cuz they're not the most pleasant people to talk to & they're always predictable.
Did you know that he was banned on Twitter seven times, plus all tweets made before 2023 aren't searchable & apparently his first 6 bans had something to do with involvement with you know what? If you're morbidly curious about it, examples here. Remember, don't waste your time trying to argue about it.
The more I see toxicity from him, the more I having trust issues increased & regret making an apology to him, to a point where I think he's too FUBAR to deal with.
If he sees this, he's gonna be like, "TWEEGARD ZNOHVWEHK!", "MUH VWEE ZPEECH/VWEE KONTWEE!", "DOT TEEL MEE WAT 2 DOO!", "PEEOHWEETON!", "KOHTIZT!" "VWEEN/EYEDEEDUBBAHEW STAEN!", "CHUHZT SEH YOO HEHT SAWNIK GEHMZ & GOH!", "YOO HEHT MEE CUZ I KWEETESEYEZD VWEEN!", "CHUHZT PLEH DA GEHMZ!", "SWAENDOHAHR!", "STAHKR & HOHWAZZAHR!" the no you card, strawmanning, "At least I don't (Insert whatever bad thing the stans did)!", ad-hominem attacks, the "Stans are being mean to me!" sob stories, the whataboutisms, screenshotting then whine &/or being smugged about me in his clique-ish echo chamber, & more, guaranteed.
If you're saying I made this because of that one argument or whatever, I always had issues with him before it, not because of different opinions, but because he's the most insufferable individual to talk to due to his arrogant, nihilistic, cuss-happy, & creepy nature regardless if it's about Sonic or not.
For those who're about to ask me to make more callout posts about the people associated with him, I'm not interested & please don't beg me into making them.
If you also have issues with him, share your thoughts here, it also doesn't just have to be about IDW Sonic or Sonic general.
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[if this ask makes you uncomfortable then please just ignore it] love your art, love dratchrod.
but i think you should know there's a big account on twitter who qrted your art on their private criticizing it greatly because the proportions of drift and roddy look "child-like". they've got their followers insulting your art too.
the private account is @/Ecto_BioIogist, his public account is @/RobotF1sh. He's no stranger to dragging random people into drama, but his private account is especially vitriolic.
Hi anon,
Took me a while to reply to this bc I was a little upset. Also, hello dratchrod enjoyer 👋😊. Thank you for telling me.
semi- long post incoming:
I don't know why someone would look at my art and think of children. It feels extremely gross to hear that. It really does.
I feel the need to point out that my main inspiration is our beloved Ultraman, mostly Ultraman Tiga (face, big eyes and alien-like features) and Kamen Rider GEATS (helmet, eyes, armor) and the very talented Shane Glines (shapes and bodies).
Fashion dolls and dress-up games as well.
It's an odd thing to say when there are art styles that have similar approaches (Scott Pilgrim, Panty and Stocking, Jucika, and Betty Boop, all inspirations as well).
If the problem is that they look "distorted" compared to Ratchet, I'm just not an expert at drawing. I only draw for fun and I'm still practicing.
I just see that retro cartoon pin-up women have fluid and sexy shapes and that characters like Rodimus and Drift would be fun to draw in that similar style, given how curvy their designs are.
(more beautiful Shane Glines art)
I loved how Transformers characters are free from the usual concepts of sex and gender. There were male presenting characters with wide hips and female characters with blocky frames. Some of them even had struggles with their bodies that I could relate with.
I wanted to take advantage of the fact that I found characters I could deeply connect with that happened to be male and had faces i find attractive along w curvy frames that would be fun for me to draw.
Drawing male characters that shape the way women were usually portrayed in the cartoons I grew up with made me more comfortable and feel in control of my body. I know not many will understand. I grew up in a way that made me be ashamed of my sexuality and hate my body because of trauma and dysphoria. It was terrible.
I just wanted to take an art style that I love and grew up with into something I feel like drawing: Sexy robots. That's all.
I see some people hate my art for that and that's fine. They don't need to like it.
If anyone still feels like they look like children, please just block my account for both of our sakes. P*dos ruined my life and I don't want anyone joking about my art like that.
Thank you anon for having my back. I appreciate having people who enjoy my art so I'll focus on that. Thank you also everyone who supports my art. It helps me to continue doing what I love.
#anon#ask#does this count as vent?#art style#rant#sorry for the long rant#also a reason im a bit slow at art lately#allow me to explain my goon art#im also too focused on driftrod to draw anything else
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About the blog:
Asks are open! I like chatting with people so feel free to drop by. That said:
I do not want bad faith discourse on my dash. Block button will be used unapologetically.
Stance on shipping (do I really have to make this?):
I do not want to be harassed for what I ship or how I ship it. People are multifaceted and fiction is an opportunity to explore ideas. I don’t consider myself a “proshipper” or an “anti”. What I read is not a reflection of myself nor my moral values. Quite frankly I am very tired of the morality correlation games that seem popular these days. Mind your business and remember that you can always close the tab.
Just because I ship something you personally disagree with doesn’t mean I don’t know how to read.
Just because a certain topic or character makes you uncomfortable, that does not give you the right to harass anyone about it.
I don’t foresee this being an issue, but I’ll just make myself clear here so certain kinds of people know not to bother me with “X is abusive / wrong”. I am capable of engaging with relatively upsetting content when in the right headspace, and if you aren’t, that’s fine. I have my line and you have yours. Know how to police your own content. If anything I post makes you uncomfortable, block me and leave.
All that said, if you’re still interested please enjoy the blog and have a nice day :)
General:
The blog itself is mostly Part 7 focused, but I’m also a fan of jjba in general. I don’t see myself doing deep dives into any of the other parts, but I’m happy to talk about them if anyone’s curious
Long posts and analyses can be found under #sbr analysis and general thoughts under #my posts
I am a big supporter of media literacy and critical thinking. If I see a bad take, I'll probably ignore it, but, as seen above, block button will be used liberally.
Some of my favorite analyses I've done to get you started:
Johnny and Religion
Gyro and the True Man's World
Deciphering Civil War
Does Johnny actually hate Diego?
Enjoy!
#my posts#yes the bit about shipping is about diejo#based on what I see on twit there’s already all sorts of nonsense being spouted#I’m very nice I promise I would just like to shut down that before it starts and be clear about my intentions
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ABOUT ME:
• you can call me charmy or char
• I am an adult. my pronouns are she / her
• I am a cis futch lesbian and chronically ill (and online) spoonie
• my blog is primarily for posting my art or reblogging things pertaining to my interests. I have unmedicated adhd so when I like something I REALLY like it until I don’t (you have been warned. never follow me for specific content). I’m also multiship
• link to my lovely girlfriend’s blog 🧸💌
• link to my after dark account (NO MINORS) 🔞
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DO NOT INTERACT IF:
• just kidding! I don’t have a DNI, I will simply block or ignore you if I don’t like you or the things you post. unless you’re a proship / propara freak in which case stay the fuck away from me good lord
BEFORE YOU FOLLOW:
• I am a very “fact-over-feeling” type of person and I do my best to be logical and critical in my responses and interactions. as a result I can often come across as untactful or cold but I promise I am not trying to be an asshole I’m just a bit socially inept
• please keep in mind that I am a grown adult with bills to pay and I am only here to make friends and have a good time. having said that, I do not have the time or energy to engage in discourse, fandom or otherwise. my opinions are my own and I am just as entitled to them as anyone else. I will not censor myself for the sake of an online stranger’s comfort. however, I will be more than happy to have a civil and respectful conversation with you if I post something you don’t like and sort things out without conflict.
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THINGS I LIKE AND MORE ABOUT ME:
• I enjoy a variety of online forum and pet collector games as well as other media like don’t starve (#1 wxson fan since 2018), horse life, l4d2, tf2, scott pilgrim, etc.
• I love animals big and small! I’m a huge fan of niche critters like bugs and marine life and I keep many pets of my own. I have two dogs, three cats, two zebra finches, three different species of isopods, and some fish.
• I fucking love dragons, unicorns and other medieval fantasy creatures
• I enjoy producing (rarely) and looking at art, especially art that is weird, unique and conventionally “unappealing” or bizarre
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MY TAGS AND ART:
• main tag guide for filtering: #reblog for posts made by others, including other's art, #char talks for general text posts or reblog commentary, #yapping for any particularly long winded or ranty text posts, and #char responds for replies to asks
• I have so many pets it’d be a pain to tag them all respectively lol. if you want to see my animals, my pet tag is #char pets
• my art related tags are #char art and #char ocs (though each of my ocs has their own respective tag). for older art pieces, you can also search up #bohiggie art or #bohiggie ocs to find things I posted before my username change.
• I do take requests and commissions, please DM me for any inquiries
• you NEVER have to ask to draw my ocs! I love and appreciate fanart a lot
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🔍 WHERE ELSE YOU CAN FIND ME:
• Instagram
• Artfight
• Dragon Cave
• The Final Outpost
• Chicken Smoothie (rarely active)
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Can I ask for your opinion on people comparing sanders sides to iris/Jacksepticeye’s egos when it comes to the wait time and how the stories have been handled? I’ve seen some discussion on people comparing both from that angle, and would be curious to know if you have any thoughts on that.
Btw I understand if you choose to ignore this ask since it does involve criticism stuff. Just would like to get perspective on this from someone who knows both a lot better (I am not super familiar with jse myself but I have been in the tss fandom for a while).
Hope you have a good day regardless!
Thank you, I hope you have a good day as well!
And yeah, I’ll talk about this a bit. As long as this is coming from a view to discuss and think reasonably and rationally and not a view of pure, burning, blind rage just cause. (Also, this is going to be long because I have a lot to say)
Personally, I have no problem with the wait from either creator. I can consume other forms of media for the time being. I enjoy their content greatly, and I dabble in artworks and fanfictions while I wait, but I’m not reliant. And it's not like these people are creating nothing. They still have other stuff for us to enjoy. Like Jack’s gaming content or Thomas’s shorts or videos with Sleep or the star signs or the planets. Hell, Thomas is working on a video for Picani right now!
Also, people don’t realize that these things take a long time. They both have to go to places, set up equipment, record multiple takes, and repeat since both of them deal with multiple characters. And then the whole thing has to be spliced together and edited to make a coherent story. And of course, Thomas is going to take longer because he’s doing more. Yes, Jack has to add glitchy effects to his editing, but Thomas is literally making music for us to consume and enjoy. Do you know how long it takes to make music? That adds more writing, more editing, background music production, and more recording on top of the stuff he already has to do.
And both come from small teams of people with a lot of things to do, so it's going to be expected when things take a while to come out.
The stories, on the other hand, I find a weird thing to compare (if they are being compared, I haven’t seen anything since I blocked the tag.) They are completely different genres after all. Thomas’s series is supposed to be more feel-good mental health help, with a hint of drama. (That, naturally, is gonna take more research.) Jack is making an analog horror. Things are going to be different. Also, Jack is just starting his series! He had to pause production because of COVID and just finished his video with Chase that he wanted to finish in 2019! We shouldn’t compare apples to oranges, but we definitely shouldn’t compare when one of the fruit isn’t even ripe yet.
Lastly, I find it weird to compare these people at all. Why? Because they’re people. It's like not going to college and then your mom going “Your brother went to college, you know.” We shouldn’t compare Thomas to Sean because Thomas isn’t Sean. People go at things at their own pace. People have their own personal struggles to deal with. And these people are people, not a content farm for you to throw your rotten tomatoes at whenever you feel.
And I’m not saying you have to like these people, I just think other factors go into both series that people don’t consider. Like personal struggles or where they live. (Not to get political, but Florida is kinda a shithole right now. Stay safe if you live in that part ❤️)
But yeah, sorry if this was long, these are my feelings on the matter.
(Also, if you want to compare, Markiplier made a movie, so 🤷 /j)
#thomas sanders#sander sides#jacksepticeye#jacksepticeye egos#sanders sides#ts criticism#ts critical
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Haiii <333 I'm Ender or Coy (or Rose when I'm regressed!) Welcome to my agere blog 🌙
✨ Here's (under the cut) some stuff you should know about me before interacting, following, or if you wanna be friends! ✨
The information listed is:
my DNI and a misc important section- you MUST read these before following/messaging/commenting.
a section for if you wanna be friends- you MUST read this if you wanna message to be friends
my wishlists- just for fun but if you gimme gifts I will love your forever and ever
my likes/dislikes- you should read this to make sure there's nothing on my page that may make you uncomfy, but you don't have to
my tags- these will help you find posts you're looking for
(this DNI banner is free to use if you want, idm)
DNI List
🌙 Actually, I don't really have much of one but:
⭐ Basic stuff, obviously, like no NSFW (abdl and other kink variants included) and no homophobes/racists/ect on my page.
💛 I'd also prefer AI "art" users stay off my page, but I probably won't block or even notice if you're not heavily interacting!
✨ Other than that, I'll just block anyone who makes me uncomfy... it's usually nothing personal <3
Important About Me
🌙 I like media from problematic creators.
⭐ I won't take it personally if you block me over that, I know it may make some people uncomfy!
💛 I will not, however, let you fight me on it... I'll just block you first.
✨ When I say separate the art from the artist, I don't mean give them money and pretend nothing happened- I mean piracy is easy and bootleg/second hand merch is abundant!
🌙 I will block people who post slander on things I enjoy, but not people who simply hold the creators accountable or are just slightly critical.
⭐ It's hard for me to understand heavy baby talk or typing quirks, especially when I'm regressed.
💛 If you message/comment with them, there's a fair chance I'll ignore it since I can't read it. It's nothing personal, just try to add a translation if I ignore you the first time!
Wanna be my friend?
✨ My DMs are open, but I'm a bit shy and I've never been the greatest at making friends or responding to messages, so please be patient with me!
🌙 I'd prefer only to be friends with people who are 17-21 bodily, and 16 and 25 are my absolute limits (I'm 18).
⭐ If you don't want to be friends with me outside of little space, I'd prefer not to be friends at all. This is a pretty small (hehe) part of my life after all!
Wanna buy me something?
No you don't! Here are my wishlists anyways :3
main:
little:
art:
Likes/Interests
💛 Big:
Shows: Hazbin Hotel, The Amazing Digital Circus, Don't Hug Me i'm Scared, Boy Meets World
Movies: Dead Poets Society
Games: OMORI, The Sims, Fortnite, Overwatch, Cukt of The Lamb, D&D, MTG (sometimes), Cards Against Humanity
Books/Comics: Boyfriends (WEBTOON), If I Stay, All The Bright Places, The Art of Being Normal
Misc: Reborn Dolls, Character Design, some things not suitable for this account lol
✨ Big and Little:
Shows: The Owl House, Angel Hare (YouTube Series), Centaurworld
Movies: The Velveteen Rabbit, The American Girl Historical Collection
Games: Just Dance, The Wii series, EA Playground, Minecraft, Roblox, Old Flash Games, Candyland, The Very Hungry Caterpillar
Books/Comics: Heartstopper (more big but little too), The American Girl Historical Collection
Misc: Arts & Crafts, Collecting things (sunglasses, sloth stuff, and stickers), American Girl Dolls, MCYT, Playing Dress-up, Fashion Design
🌙 Little: (my little age fluctuates a lot so there's a lot of different age ranges in here)
Shows: Too many to list! Word Party and Bluey for modern stuff, and then 2003-2010 PBS kids and Nick/Disney Jr. The goodnight show with Nina and Star!!! Also, veggie tales!
Movies: N/A?
Games: The Imagine Series
Books/Comics: The Monster at The End of This Book, Goodnight Moon, The Very Hungry Caterpillar, anything by Kate DiCamilo, Dork Diaries/Diary of a Wimpy Kid/Dear Dumb Diary
Misc: hmmm I don't think there's any
My Tags
#endys sleepy rambles misc (mostly text) posts
#endys dreams little doodles, coloring pages, ect
#endys dreams pt 2 mood boards, playlists, ect
#endys half asleep ideas recipe/game/craft/activity ideas for fellow regressors
#endy shares reblogs/reposts from other sites
#age regression#sfw littlespace#agere#agere friends#new agere blog#sfw little friends#endys sleepy rambles#endys dreams#endys half asleep ideas#endy shares#endys dreams pt 2
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I'm just going to get this out of the way...
All you ever do is ignore the obvious and just flat out insult people who were never in the wrong with a dumb meme. (I mean, memes are funny, but not your's)
People have different opinions on comics and the games and that's okay. You can't just be a hardass to Sonic fans who like media or characters you don't like.
Like, I follow people who don't like Sonamy but do I bash on them because of that? Uhhh, no. I don't. Because I respect other people's different opinions, despite the fact it's not like mine.
You, however, do not. And that is sad.
Also?? I am convinced you are homophobic, because I just noticed you didn't bring up the fact Tangle and Whisper are a thing now. Knowing you, I should've known that that was the case.
Sorry for being honest, I guess, but you're probably the most butthurt person in this hellsite. I didn't make my blog just to see your dumb posts about you criticising fans and people who work at SEGA who are doing their job.
If your life is based on constantly ignoring valid points or looking at the negative side of things in the fandom or being snarky and rude to people who just simply disagree with you, there's a good reason why a lot of people block you.
I hate to disappoint you, but unfortunately, you're an asshole.
I tried so hard not to get in your way, but your posts have been bothering me every time I look up Sonic's name because I want to see funny posts, cool fanart and all that awesome jazz.
You are just one of those people who drains out all the fun and makes fun of the fandom for simply ENJOYING stuff that you don't.
I want you to understand that. I'm not here to attack, I'm just telling you how you make me feel.
You're the living embodiment of the No Fun Allowed panel from the Archie comics, and I don't think that you'll change for the better anytime soon.
Also, don't even think about responding with a meme or your usual: "I have no idea what the hell your talking about, therefore I'm right. Checkmate."
Cause that just proves you don't care.
I know you're reading this, but choose to think I'm wrong. I know, but I'm posting this to you anyways because maybe someday, you'll reconsider how you act towards certain people.
Or maybe you won't, and I'm certain at the second option.
Really sorry, but you're just not a good person.
Either leave the fandom or grow up, which ever comes last.
Credit where it's due, you're not being a punk-ass and going Anonymous. That said, your claims are full of more holes than a fine Swiss cheese.
• "All you do is ignore the obvious and insult people who were never in the wrong..."
You're making shit up. Have you SEEN the sorts of things I get in my inbox? Oh wait, of course you (supposedly) haven't. That would require admitting that the other side of a coin exists, and that these people you claim are "innocent"... simply aren't. The only ones "ignoring the obvious" are the jackasses who make shit up about the games they never played.
• "Memes are funny, but not your's"
There's no apostrophe in "yours". Next!
• "People have different opinions on the games and comics, and that's okay."
No shit, Sherlock. You say that, yet, whenever someone (ie folks like myself, @darklightheart, @crusherthedoctor, or @aquillis-main) lists any and all grievances or problems said comic has from our perspective (with reason), the fandom takes a defensive stance almost immediately and swarms our inboxes with their own brand of unsavory behavior... but said fans are "innocent" according to you, right?
• "Also, I'm convinced you're homophobic because I just noticed you didn't bring up the fact that Tangle & Whisper are a thing now."
Did you break your back and pull every single muscle in your body or something, because that's a goddamn massive leap of logic you just made based on literally nothing.
• "...you're probably the most butthurt person on this hellsite."
• "I didn't make my blog just to see you criticizing fans and people at SEGA who are doing their jobs."
No, you made your blog to cry your way into people's inboxes about people not doing it enough.
• "If your life is based on constantly ignoring valid points and looking at the negative side of things in the fandom..."
Like those so-called "innocent fans" who blow up the inboxes of multiple users on this site to do that very thing? Yeah, no. Try harder.
• "...your posts have been bothering me every time I look up Sonic's name..."
Translation:
• "I'm not here to attack..."
Could've fooled me.
• "...I'm posting this to you because maybe someday, you'll reconsider how you act towards certain people."
So, what you're saying is the next time soy boy stans like you bombard the inboxes of myself and other users for the express purpose of trying to silence other people's opinions, we're supposed to just acquiesce? Yeah no, you're living in a bubble.
• "Really sorry, but you're just not a good person."
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10 Years In And My Biggest Mistake As a Writer
I let my writing fear the void all of me is terrified of.
This isn't going to be a fun one about cancelled works or bad ideas. This is your reminder that I've been a writer for ten years. I've been in therapy for 8 3/4s and depressed for roughly half a year before that. But if I look upon the failures of me as a writer, especially with how I am now, it's kind of impossible to ignore.
I fear silence in all things. I compulsively check everywhere I post when I post because my brain is terrified of having done something wrong. For this to be when I lose everything because of a mistake. It perceives everything I do as a mistake waiting to collapse in on itself. I have Avoidant Personality Disorder and that's just kind of a part of that. I am a MUCH more scared person than I probably come across as in these blogs.
With my writing though... The only fanfics I've written since getting on Ao3, with the exception of one I want to convert still, I haven't posted are because I have to brace myself when I post my works and for these works, I just never found the strength despite liking them. It was so bad at one point that I would be in essentially meltdown mode for an entire day after posting something because of the standards my brain had for what should be a success. What even could be a success. What meant that the work had not been thrown into the void.
What meant the time had not been a waste and only done more damage. And yes, this has affected my content. I've talked in my Discord about how it's MUCH harder for me to even consider writing erotica because that's not the audience I have. I know if I made a big erotic work again and was really open about it, pushed it like my other books, I would lose a not insignificant amount of people with 'NSFW DNI' in their bios. The silence I'd get is almost as terrifying as the backlash I'd potentially get, even if I have ALWAYS had this twin nature to my writing.
So how do I ever fight that? Well... Essentially with manic energy. I have described most of my books as having been written in sprints. These periods where an idea is so strong in my head that it fills the void. I don't hear it because ALL of my being needs to be working on the project. I have trouble doing literally anything else and just work and work until the story is done. Of course, any crack during these time periods becomes MUCH worse as it's holding back the void, not eliminating it. My worst nights always come when I'm manic.
And in terms of my analytical blogs, well... There's a reason I do TOH mostly. I can get emotional enough talking about TOH that even if it doesn't always come across in the blog, that annoyance and anger manages to block out the void as well. To help me remember that I know what I'm talking about and can do something with that fact, just like I know I'm a good writer who people enjoy when my inspiration for a story takes hold. But have you ever wondered why I don't do more blogs for Star Rail? I just feel so much more uncertain, for a lot of reasons, when it comes to my opinions with that game and don't usually have the fervor to help coalesce those into something more concrete or strong enough to get on the page without panicking and shelving it.
And I want to make something clear about all of this: It is good to understand your audience. It's good to be open and inviting to criticism so as to make yourself better at what you do. You shouldn't let that make you afraid to do what you want to do. You should meet your creative passions with the enthusiasm of a fanfic writer just wanting to explore the thing they love, regardless of reaction or attention or reward. You should be happy to be cringe in your creation as that will set you free.
I just wish I knew how to make it so my mind could accept that wisdom instead of saying, "Okay but not for you."
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I have a public Discord for any and all who want to join!
I also have an Amazon page for all of my original works in various forms of character focused romances from cute, teenage romance to erotica series of my past. I have an Ao3 for my fanfiction projects as well if that catches your fancy instead. If you want to hang out with me, I stream from time to time and love to chat with chat.
A Twitter you can follow too
And a Kofi if you like what I do and want to help out with the fact that disability doesn’t pay much.
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All the hate messages are just because they like the attention. Just instantly delete them and don’t even address them. It just fuels their tiny egos.
This game - that’s for fun - is none of their business. They could just move on but they don’t, because they like that you engage. People acting like you have no right to release this game, as if your version hasn’t already been out there and available for literal years now is so funny. (Not to mention you’ve got permission from the og maker). Ppl don’t realize too that HetaOni itself is based off a preexisting game called AoOni. Is that a rip off? No. It’s a fan adaption. Your version is the only playable version of the English translation too.
Where were these haters before? The anon hate is only here because your game got popular again when you announced the remaster and they’re seeing an easy target to get attention, even if it’s behind an anon mask.
Literally stop spending time addressing every negative comment and just work on the game at your leisure. You’ll find the hateful messages lessen when you just don’t answer them. 95% of them are trolls and the other 5% offer genuine criticism. Just care about that 5% if you want to address criticism. Otherwise, just delete the hateful asks. There’s nothing you or anyone else can say to them that hasn’t been said a million times. They just like being noticed.
Also: those sprites and other resources exist online already because they were…*check notes* posted with the intention they would be downloaded and free to use! Wow!! RPG Maker has always been the beginners guide to coding a game. That’s why there are so many resources online for these downloadable sprites, graphics, etc. Google it, ppl.
The hate is really stupid. What I'm working on, as a friend said, is a fangame of a fangame. I can literally do whatever I want lmao if people don't like it all they have to do is not play or follow it. Simple as that.
Working this game on RPG maker is not only the only way I can do this, but also is a homage to the original one that was made in an earlier version of the software. Of course I'd go down the same path. I'm not some coding specialist or whatever, I'm just another fan working on another fan project.
And yeah, I know. I already blocked a lot of people and turned off anon. The thing about not responding to them is that they'll keep talking shit behind my back and that's not something I really enjoy knowing about. They can use the fact I don't respond to them to try to justify their words which is pretty annoying. But I honestly don't have any more energy to deal with them so I'll just have to ignore them. Plus, I feel bad for the good anons out there. But what can I do.
Thanks for your supportive words!
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@shitirishaterssay aka Leah Heddington:"It costs zero dollars not to harass people. OR spread private information on them. It's called "being a decent person"."
It now costs 233+ billion dollars for me to stop coming after you for good. Admitting that rabid XY haters targeted XY fans first since 2013 however, in your own words, costs zero dollars. Sorry not everyone loves your waifu iris and that you completely tolerate bullying like I suspected all along. Logically speaking, you tolerated my bullying to you. I'm gonna call myself Iris from now on, same with all of her name in other languages even if most of them are the same according to bulbapedia so I'm gonna bully all the inexperienced people.
*i'm not toxic btw (you always were from the day you made the account) *you have that covered (see the first one) *now leave me the fuck alone (No I will never leave you alone anymore. until you or anyone else admits that rabid xy haters attacked xy fans first, i will continue this until i'm old, gray and even in a retirement home i'll still continue, even in my death bed. i promise you here and now that's the case.) *if they had valid criticisms about iris i'd be fine with that (they always existed, no exceptions. No one cares about your fake racism, misogyny, sexism, so on and so forth) *but it's always “bawww she called ash a kid!” (next time, never give a fucking brat 32 game badges, 4 orange league, 7 frontier symbols and let him catch 59 Pokemon prior to BW and retcon the shit out of it at the beginning of BW. Even the TRio mentioned their previous Pokemon which is safe to say they're unironically the true main protagonists. By now it's like the Palestine genocide which if there are Pokemon fans there, they deserve to die bcs of everything in a span of a decade and by now, includes family and friends even if they're not pokemon fans. that's what it feels like killing off all of Ash's achievements and I'm glad XY even happened as it's karma for bashing anyone who is completely different than you.) *though good on you for admitting you're a vicious violent bully with zero redeeming qualities who would assault someone irl (I guess I'm Iris then. I can't wait to bully people bcs they're inexperienced) *i shouldn't have posted my paypal. that was dumb. (that was your own fault.) *but it's also not hard to just be a good person? which is clearly a foreign concept to you. (If you really wanted me to be a "Good person" which from now on I've decided to label as "think exactly like you" now and forever, I guess I'm a drone. As for XY, it's perfect the way it is and you've fully inspired me to ignore all their flaws from now on.)
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"I'm okay, though I'm trying to be careful. I've considered going to the cops, though I don't know what his current blog is. That and I don't want to admit I was dumb enough to link my paypal, even if that particular post has been deleted".
Do it! I dare you to call the cops, even the FBI. I'm actually challenging you to do this. Same goes for anyone else coming across this!
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"Holy shit, this lunatic just won't give up. I'd seriously consider taking this to the police if it continues. Block evading, harassment and stalking. All over a fucking kids show, Jesus Christ, what is wrong with this freak?? Legitimately, are you ok? I've been a fan of this blog for a few months and it's upsetting to see you get this sort of unhinged lunatic bothering you over and over."
No one admitted that rabid XY haters attacked XY fans, myself included for 10 fucking years!!! I will never admit that Pokemon is a kids show. It's now an adult show, made for true fans like me. What do I know, you know ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about that era at all. I have no reason to give up now so enjoy having me do this until we're all old. @sugar-pink-poison
#leah heddington#shitirishaterssay#sugar-pink-poison#rabid xy haters have always attacked xy fans first but this fandumb is too retarded to admit that
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DELETING PPL OFF FACEBOOK (Part 2)
I don’t cull people off Facebook that often, I’ve had the same people on my Facebook friends list for years. I only delete people if they have Facebook but never use it, they ignore me for a long duration of time, they have bullied or abused me (they are toxic)… DELETE.
There are times I block people, but I don’t go to that extreme unless someone is harassing me or toxic. If I delete someone, I don’t automatically block them.
Judy, was looking at my mum’s Facebook account and she noticed how many Facebook friends she had. I said, ‘she never deletes people’. My mum rarely used Facebook when she first got it and when she was working. She used to only go on it once a week or something and then log off. She only started using it more after she retired. My mum didn’t care what people were doing online because she was rarely on. When she retired and she was on Facebook more she started culling people. Some people leave people on their Facebook because they just can’t be bothered dealing with it.
There are people on your Facebook friends list who will ignore you on purpose, this is a form of abuse and bullying. They will do it on purpose to make you feel worthless, to be vindictive and cruel. They think they are better than you and look down on you and don’t want to waste a second of their time on you. They may treat you the same way in real life. People like this are two faced. If they don’t like you, they would delete you; they wouldn’t keep you as a friend. This is a person who has disdain for you, most likely bitches and criticises you to other people behind your back. They lurk on your Facebook to passively aggressively hurt you. They will watch what you do to nit pick or make critical remarks about you to others.
You will find that there are complete strangers you have on Facebook that will like you, care about you and have more time for you. It’s sad that strangers care about you more than your own friends and family, but sometimes that’s the way it is. People are cruel.
I don’t turn my nose up at people and look down on them, and if I find someone so toxic, I will delete them rather than pretend to be friends with them. I used to always be the one who would go out of their way for people. These days I’m only there for those who are there for me, which is a few people. I don’t want to play games. I’m over LIKE’ing people’s posts who just ignore me all the time. These are the games people play and then turn around and pretend they are innocent and make other people to look like the bad guy. When you ignore them in return or delete them, they will deflect and pretend they haven’t ignored you in 2 years but make out you to be the bad guy. There’s a lot of people who behave this way, toxic people.
When I’m on Facebook I don’t over post, I try to post only a couple things on my Facebook feed a day, sometimes none, it depends. I’ve heard people say that people ‘over post’, I have friends who do this online. Post about 10 or 15 things a day. All their thoughts and lots of photos. Drowning out your Facebook feed. I had a friend who does this, but I take it in my stride. This person had depression and was getting things off their chest. They weren’t always sad or angry, they also posted things they enjoyed online as well. I just think, well, maybe that’s what’s going on in their life. They don’t have the same life as other people do; they aren’t that fortunate. Maybe we are the only ones that they’ve got to interact with. Whether they have people in their life or not, maybe they just want someone to hear them, to listen to them, to be there for them. What they were doing online wasn’t impacting me all that much, so I kept them online. They’re not a bad person so I wouldn’t treat them like they are. I’ll rather people who post opposed to those who don’t. I find interesting people more appealing on Facebook than those who don’t post. If I deleted all the people who posted and kept all the people who don’t post, my feed would be rather boring. Everyone on Facebook is different, nobody should have to feel that they must be the same as others.
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