#ITS ME IM AEGOSEXUALS

[herboretum]

OH MY GOD HES ACSSESPEC I CAN MAKE HIM ME I CAN MEAKW HIMME HE IS ME OH MY GOD IM ACESPEC TTOO AGAHAYQH HES AEGO HES AEGO CANON CAAANON FFUCJ!!!!!! I WIN!!!!!! I M LIKE TREMBLING A LITTLE FUCK IM IN CLASS WHAT ON EARTHI

[aspecassasin]

It's just so lonely sometimes

[c1trvswurld]

I tried so hard to selfship that it made me realize that I was aegosexual, and that's somethin man

[fragiledate]

this is just like when i figured out i was objectum 🤦 awh hellll nawhhh not AGAIN!!! i thought i was DONE

[thewindbandit]

You're lgbtq+ right? Is it okay if I ask what labels you use? Sorry if that's more personal I was just curious

You're all good! I usually just call myself queer/gay/trans as general terms but here are more specific labels I currently identify with~

Omniromantic and somewhere on the aromantic spectrum (maybe demiromantic?)

Aegosexual/asexual

Transmasc and on the nonbinary spectrum (he/they pronouns)

[phoenixwench]

Sad but true

Am I the only one that every time I get myself into new fandom I just sigh, knowing fully well that I just got next 20+ x reader, y/n, x Oc!whateverthefuck or just any form of self insert tags to blacklist?

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

i genuinely feel like less of an aegosexual and aegoromantic for not liking garlic bread and not being as dramatic about not being interested in romance and s*x. i know its just stereotypes but its seriously making me feel like im not aroace

(I wrote a whole thing and then it fucking crashed and deleted on me)

No I get it anon!! It’s like me with my gender. I’m pretty comfortable in my own skin like 76% of the time and because of that I don’t feel as “valid” as everyone else who’s gender queer.

But remember

It’s your box. And this is my box. Don’t let anyone take your box. Don’t let anyone tell you you can’t but your box there or that your box isn’t a real box because it isn’t brown.

It’s your box and you should be damn proud of it anon. Because I sure as fuck am proud of mine

[fzjp]

Lowkey want to do a comic about my experience being aroace (and realizing aesthetic attraction and realizing im aego aroace) but maaaaannnnn i don't know where to start

Actually I do, not as a comic... not anymore

I'm one of those aces who thought they were bi/pan before realizing zero attraction is still zero, also one of those aces who have the horniest, most degenerate thoughts and laugh it off and move on with my life

I realized I was aro when I was in a romantic relationship and thought "Why do I suddenly feel nauseous??? How to delete??? Now????" And that was my first and last romantic relationship. 0/10. Would Not Recommend. (Unless you want to then go wild. Who am i to tell you what you can or can't do??)

I first learned about aesthetic attraction while learning more about asexuality and its spectrum and lemme tell you one thing

IF I LEARNED ABOUT AESTHETIC ATTRACTION MY LIFE WOULD BE SOOO MUCH EASIER

YOU MEAN TO TELL ME PEOPLE SEE OTHER PEOPLE PRETTY AND MOVE ON???? CUZ IT ME!!! ME TOO FRIEND!!!!!

Now I've heard aegosexual as a microlabel before and moved on but now looking back at it... yeah... yeah it me

While there are many definitions for aegosexual, this definition

"Liking the idea of sex, and/or enjoying sexual content, but not actually experiencing attraction or wanting to have sex with anybody"

FITS ME SO MUCH!!!! IT ME!! IT ME FOR REAL!!!!

[alelathedragon]

Self indulgent

Both of these lil ladies are my Boosona, I wasn't sure how I wanted to self insert myself to hold the TV mans' hand so I just went. Fuck it. Boo Form to King Boo, Human form to Puzzles. It works out

I am a Variant of Ace

I think I'm aegosexual-- cus i like the idea of smooches and hugs but anything further will kill me

Thus: any time im self indulgent its going to be shy girl pov awkwardly holding the hand of her boy/girlfriend or maybe dying from a smooch lololol

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King Boo is a flirt, and comfortable with intimacy. He's one of those people who mean well but doesn't fully understand the other person's feelings.

Like: you love me so why don't you want to do more than a kiss? "

He's trying his best to understand and doesn't push Loyboos boundaries so that's the important part UvU

Showers her with affection and causes her to flusteredly die/pos

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Mr.Puzzles I feel like will match the energy of his partner, starting off awkwardly not knowing what to do in the slightest aspect. It's different living it rather than just seeing it on TV... BUT... Once he figures out Loyboos comforts along with his OWN comforts I feel like he would be such a wholesome lil guy

[so-i-macedup-abit]

MORNING STAR!!! ⚔️

(should have probably made an intro post first but hey, better late than never I suppose)

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hiya! Welcome to my humble little abode I call my art blog :)

-you can call me flail or mace! or any object that has a sharp point - like knife, crest, triangle, go nuts :3

-filipino!! 🇵🇭 (GMT+8)

-14! No creeps or you WILL be getting blocked

-he/him, but I don't mind any other pronouns!

- click here if you wanna get more specific

(pronouns cc page)

-im aegosexual and aromantic!

-I'm fine with rp! Feel free to @ me on posts and such, you can talk to me by sending me an ask,

-but if you wanna talk more you can send a friend request on discord! My user is anonslash!

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-i have autism, so i usually have a hard time understanding jokes or take time to respond, so please use tone tags if u can

-please dont send me any donation asks- as much as i want to help, i am a minor, i have absolutely zero money to give you, and i cant tell whether its a bot or not

-im very VERY shy when it comes to talking to dms, so its best to just talk to me via asks, reblogs, comments, etc.

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-proshippers, p//dos, terfs, racists, ableists, homophobes, nsft/nsfw/blogs with sexual material, just dont be a creep in general ty

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anyways here's an img with a bunch of my favorite characters, say what you want, but that'll be all <3

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TOODLES!

[stuck-in-a-forest]

★ intro post ★

dividers by:@hyuneskkami

hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii and welcome to my blog :3

basic info part 1: names

[ colored text means currently in use ]

Clover* Onyx Shenanigan/Shen* Axes Sparrow* Jinx Rumor Forest* Flux* Bug*

basic info part 2: pronouns

pronouns page (its not done yet just so ya know)

mainly they/them but my gender is weird asf so therefore use whatever the fuck you want /silly including neopronouns :3

basic info part 3: age :o ?????

just kidding not giving away my exact age lol but im a young teenager and my birthday is on february 2nd

GENDEEEEEEEEEEER

so i have a very funky gender but imma explain it using termss

agender: absence of gender/not having a gender

agenderflux: when somebody is usually agender but experiences random spikes of other genders

genderqueer: very cisn't

nonbinary: not a boy and not a girl mwahhhhaaaaa

multigender: kind of, depending on the day

attraction :o

romantic attraction: aromantic, aegoromantic, im fine with romantic stuff sometimes but sometimes it makes me feel icky

sexual attraction: asexual, aegosexual, same deal with sexual stuff sometimes its fine and sometimes it makes me spontaneously combust

platonic attraction: aplatonic, aplspec, aplflux, grayplatonic, but it varies so much like omg all my online frens r so cool so yeah

familial attraction: afamilial, afamspec theres literally one person im familialy attracted to. one person. oh and im also @zithergiltscorner dad now so also that :D

aesthetic attraction: omniaesthetic? lesbian but aesthetic attraction? idk women r pretty tho

bork bork im a creature (alterhuman things)

sooooo ok

labelz:

nonmorph: somebody who is decidedly nonhuman but otherwise undefined

otherfix: somebody whose identity changes based on hyperfixations

quadrobist: somebody who does quadrobics

mental thingies

um ok sooo

i've been diagnosed as a highly sensitive person and i suspect i am some other kind of neurodivergent but idrk how *shrug*

my fandomssssssss

Hilda, Carmen sandiego, epic the musical, arcane, Hamilton, riordanverse, osmanverse, Harry Potter

tags

#shens doggos = posting about my doggos

#art in a forest = art tag

#posting about my very cewl irl sibling :3 = posting about my one friend/sibling because he does funny shit all the time lol

userboxes :3

[splashstar01]

Love letter to Merthur (11 year anniversary🎉💐) TW: suicide, spoilers for end of the show

Okay so it's been 11 years since Merthur has been my OTP. Since they've entered my life I've literally felt like I've been in a relationship with their relationship if that makes sense. For a little while until I met my spouse, I even identified as aegosexual, which for me meant being asexual except for attraction to other people's relationships such as my OTPs. 

I came into the fandom end of 2013 and became interested because they were all over my tumblr dash. I know, the show ended at the end of 2012.. I'm not sure why Tumblr had a sudden influx of merthur content. Maybe due to the slash tourney?

But I kept seeing the final end scene all over my dash and I kept seeing a ton of articles celebrating that merthur was now canon (imagine my surprise when i found so many in the fandom don't see it that way even tho it was literally confirmed……………………..). 

I knew literally nothing about the show and assumed it was a serious adult show about the Arthurian legends. But I shipped them anyway due to the ending, particularly with Merlin waiting 1500 years (I didn't even realize Arthur was also waiting)!

At the time I had just got into shipping for half a year, so I was super new to all this slash stuff. My slash OTP at the time was very quickly replaced by merthur after I began watching the series bc merthur was just way more touchy-feely and had actual boyish fun around one another, not to mention waiting 1500 years for ea other! That is EPIC LOVE!!!! Their dynamic was the opposite of my previous OTP. 

With merthur I got really, really into my feelings. I've literally bled for them. Rest assured, I have never cut in my entire life. it's only due to me becoming so emotional and hyperventilating in joy that I bit my fingers and bled a little bit. Like, the amount of blood i lost was akin to literally a paper cut from my teeth lol. Because I cover my mouth when I hyperventilate… I think most people cover their mouths when they do this. Lol.

But when I hyperventilate over Merthur, it is EXTREME. like, i have almost out-of-body experiences. i���ve literally cried from being so happy thinking of them having sex. One time in the shower I was thinking about them and I was so happy I nearly blacked out and fell into the shower curtains. 😂 But even when I cry over Merthur/Arthur, im still having fun. Because I know it's not real, so it’s only a pseudo-grief but its NOT psuedo-joy!!! LOL. It's kinda like going on a roller coaster. You’re screaming but you dont actually fear for your life. It’s psuedo-fear. 

At the time, I was severely depressed in my non-fandom life, but Merthur never actually contributed to that hurt, because i could see the lines of reality vs real shit i had to be upset over. Merthur gave me an outlet. With merthur I felt free to cry and fall apart whilst at the same time, as I always tell my ppl, "they're not real, THANK GOODNESS!!" so I can grieve bc I'm not really crying for anyone!

At the time, I wasn’t seeing anyone for my severe depression/anxiety because I thought I could handle it and i was self-medicating with psychedelics since they've been proven to be able to heal mental health issues. LSD at parties healed my c-ptsd, since I had gone to see someone for my ADHD & ended up being diagnosed w c-ptsd! I thought it could heal my other issues too.

But then I took a 7-year break from merthur due to my attempted suicide.

My life was going so well too. I literally seemed like i had the perfect life while in college. Just landed a good-paying 1-yr temp job, I was majorly popular and partying every weekend, I had a long-term partner (we’re now married), I had a 4.7 GPA, was in 9 different school clubs. I seemed to be thriving. But I’d been battling severe anxiety/depression since I was 12.

How the fandom saved my life….. Literally. 

Before I was going to do it, I had to say goodbye to the fandom bc I always felt like the merthur fandom was like my family.

I wrote a goodbye post on Tumblr that I set to queue and I had assumed it would post much later. But ig i somehow miscalculated and it posted too early. So someone managed to find my Facebook which is just insane bc blogs are essentially anonymous. I didn't post any personal info on Tumblr. It should have been impossible but they alerted my sister and I was found 45 min away.

The doctors declared me brain dead and it was this huge thing. I had to relearn to feed myself, walk, etc. It took me 6 months just to have the strength to use a walker because my leg muscles had atrophied so much. 9 months later and I was able to walk again on my own. Now it's been 7 years and I'm still physically disabled but in a much better place emotionally. After my attempt, a limelight was cast on my mental health and all a sudden i was seeing all sorts of therapists. I was medicated for the very first time, and i felt so much better. I’m no longer actively suicidal.

So….. enough about my sob story. 

Merthur will most likely always be my OTP!! I did find book!Drarry 8 months ago, and boy did i go wild for them too. (Like, i stayed up 36 hours straight because i couldnt stop thinking about them and i’m the author of the Drarry Bible, a 98k doc of all the drarry book moments along with meta proving that in their universe, they are in love and soulmates lol. Drarry is such a huge ship that I was honestly so surprised that there wasnt already something similar to it!!)

But even with Drarry, I always knew Merthur was OTP!! I never once questioned that I loved Merthur more even during my Merthur hiatus. ^-^ I’m not sure why i took such a long hiatus after my suicide attempt. But I recently got back into Merthur just 6 months ago due to this video by imaginedragonlords: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4zDknYGf0s. The video reminded me of why Merthur was so amazingggggg. Like i always knew they were but ig the passion was gone after the suicide attempt. (Gone but not forgotten lol! :D)

I wont promise the passion will always be here. Like in any relationship, passion sometimes ebbs and flows (happening rn w my irl partner lol i mean, they’re great n all but they like to interrupt me when i write fanfic 😂), but I’ll always know that Merthur will never be replaced. Because at the end of the day, there will never be another love as epic and with as much chemistry as these two gayssssssss<33333 i did find another ship I love that i feel has a more healthy love for ea other than merthur and also waited a whole lifetime for one another, but they dont have AS much chemistry……………)

I love Merthur SO DAMN MUCH!!!!!! And i love my Merthur fandom. <3 I can always rely on fandom to give me my drug of choice: that MERTHUR DOPAMINE HIT!!! I’ve grieved Arthur’s death way longer & more intensely than any irl person/pet’s, & I blame the fandom for that! Each gifset or post will bring all the feelings of pseudo-grief back in full force, plus I cry EASY when it comes to fandom. I can smile a genuine smile after my grieving session is done, because thank SOURCE THEY’RE FICTIONAL! 

And anyway, they’re so obviously going to end up married with so much sex once Arthur finally returns from training with the Sidhe and being granted immortality so that Albion (Merlin) won’t ever be in such crisis (losing his mind from grief) ever again.

I’ve also cried from looking at a gifset of Leon just being Leon (this one literally tagged ‘literally crying’ & i only use that tag for stuff that has me actually crying with real tears).

And he’s not even one of my fave knights!! This gifset wasn't meant to be sad either. lol. I dont know why i cried. It just be like that on Tumblr.

Back before my hiatus, I literally had a Kleeenix box next to me whenever i went on tumblr bc I’d cry over every little thing. This was bc i was bound to see some sad merthur gifset/post/etc, cry, and after i cried once, anything else made me cry……..

Even gifsets of Leon just being Leon lool. x’D I would get soooooo overly emotional. 

My spouse once said, “All you ever talk about with ur fandoms is ‘they’re so gay.’” YES. THAT IS THE MAIN POINT, WHAT ABOUT IT 😂 like im now in the Harry Potter book fandom & i literally dont give a shit about the book plotlines [I barely remember them], but i can write up a whole Bible about Drarry……. It’s PRIORITIES! I have a very 1-track mind with my ships lol.

Ok this was way longer than intended. 

Tldr;

merthur (fandom) literally saved my life during my suicide attempt by alerting my family,

grieving Arthur’s death is a safe outlet bc i know he’s not real so none of my grief is real.

I dont cut, never have, never will—I just hyperventilate way too hard in fits of joy, usually crying “they’re SO GAY!!!” & bite my fingers a tad too hard on accident at times..... i get really super emotional and i love it becos that free dopamine hit is on another lvl fr lol def up there w real drugs, like my out-of-body experience sometimes xD

I feel like im dating them due to being partly aegosexual. and i love them <3 :D So my 11 yr anniversary fr feels like my 11 yr anniversary w an IRL lover lol XD

[c1trvswurld]

I know for certain I am somewhat on that aroace spectrum or whatever but idk where exactly. I find certain people "attractive" yeah... but not in a "I'd want to have sex with you/your body gives me a physical reaction" way more so "I like the set of genetics and chromosomes that had coincidentally aligned all your facial features to be set that way, and maybe if your REALLY aesthetically attractive paired with a cool personality... I might get a small amount of butterflies in my stomach" type of way

[snailstrees]

HEY so like u may be wondering What the Fuck Happened. basically tumblr decided to decimate my main so i had to create a new account. for some reason though it didnt annihilate my snailtrees sideblog so im creating a new one that i actually have access to. anyway copy and pasted intro time

> hi u can call me snailtree! ive shown up in a few crit blogs before and i wanted to create my own blog to interact w the community more. i sign off w 🐌🌴 on other blogs

> genderqueer aegosexual gaybian (closeted everywhere except here because people can't be normal about it, i know i'd be shat on) any/all pronouns interchangeably

> i have been professionally diagnosed with ADHD and anxiety. my adhd diagnosis also mentions i show sign of depression and autism, i also believe i have OCD from personal research and experience

> i am a minor

> i will mostly use this account to reblog others' posts and make content related to the sparklecrit community or just sc in general. i may make criticism every once in a while. also general rule of thumb: if i speak on something, it's because i can

> i will also note that i do NOT hate sc. its been a hyperfixiation of mine for over a year and i love it dearly. however ever since i read it i had some gripes with it, even though i still loved it, which i never had the courage to address and this blog finally lets me do so. in fact, i was part of the fandom, but after i realised how fucking shitty it was i decided to leave it and finally join the sparklecrit scene as an anon and here we are now

> I DO NOT ENDORSE OR CONDONE HARASSMENT TOWARDS KC. I AM HERE TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM BECAUSE I LOVE AND ENJOY THIS COMIC AND DO NOT WANT TO PROMOTE A WITCH HUNT OR MINDLESS HATRED TOWARDS HER.

> i myself am not immune to criticism! i am prone to fucking up and when i do so do not hesitate to reach out to me and say "hey bro u fucked up. u said something wrong". or just giving constructive criticism to my other content, like art

> when tagging ships i just put // where the other character's name start, and for insividual characters i just put their first/common name they're referred as

> tagging system was created on 15/11/2024, poats before that date dont have it implemented (except for #infernuscare, #critopia, #snailtrees, and the outdated #snails currently unamed wip sc au)

last updated: 03/02/2025

[zerostyrant]

MEGA UPDATE/REVAMPED INTRO!!!

HELLLLLOOOOO everynyan, my name is Zenith Petrichor! I am usually referred to as Zen, but other names include Zero, Zennie, and on joking occasions, Till and Giyuu. (its not a joke anymore for Till)

Im the most active on my ALNST side blog, @verdantlights !!

I am 18, and my birthday is January 26th! I was on tumblr very briefly a long time ago and I never really returned until my irl moot ( @alien-til-i-stage ) dragged me on here by my hair. (i know where you live, loser)

My pronouns are zey/zem/zeirs and hy/hymn/hymns. If not that, then you can use he/him/it/its.

I am cupio/aegoromantic and aegosexual. Basically, the idea of romance/sex is appealing in theory, but not in practice for me. I also wish I could experience romantic love normally, hence being cupioromantic! I project this onto my ocs on occasion, but usually, my ocs are more allosexual or alloromantic than I am. Do not sexualize me, specifically, unless we are close and I know you well enough/am comfortable with you (you can just ask me, too). I don't mind people simping over or sexualizing my ocs unless I specifically say not to. <3

I have Autism, ADHD, and OCD!! I'm diagnosed as much as I can be with the sources I have available to me. I am a germaphobe and emetophobe as well as a perfectionist. This shines through in my artwork and so sometimes it takes a while for me to get art out.

I write and draw!! My art will be posted throughout my different side blogs!! (listed below) But here's my ao3!

Here's my pronouns page!!

Here's my straw page!!

Here's my commission info!! vv

I talk about pretty gruesome and heavy themes as a metaphor in my writing quite often, such as cannibalism, stalking, obsessiveness/possessiveness, murder, gore, etc. I would like to mention that I personally get nauseous at visuals of any of these things (i was in the mlp fandom as a young child with internet access, that speaks for itself) so I won't be drawing anything visual to go along with my writing. The most I'd do is draw blood and very ambiguous perspectives of a scene.

Current Hyperfixations include:

ALNST (side blog is @verdantlights )

KNY (side blog is @abundantsnow )

Kaiju No. 8

Wind Breaker

Sk8 the Infinity

Genshin Impact

Honkai: Star Rail

TOUCHSTARVED VN (side blog is @lockedbehindtheambereye )

MASHLE: Magic and Muscles (side blog is @grimscripter )

All of my OCs!!!!! :D i love my sillies

Thanks for stopping by!! <3

[our-aroace-experience]

Hi! I was on the asexual tag saw this blog and just wanted to see if anyone else who is aspec can relate to my ramblings. Rambling tldr: not claiming a label despite that label actually relating to my experiences because it just doesn't fit perfect enough and because it doesn't fit perfect enough in my mind I don't think I want to use it.

Now, back in 2020 I claimed being 'asexual' by name and then a couple of months later claimed being aroflux which eventually changed to 'greyaro' over a year later. And those two terms fit me the best, grey aro ace is me. However, because I'm greyaro I still feel romantic attraction though it is rare but its still present enough in my mind to continually be wondering about what label to put it as. For the most part, I don't have a label even when the attraction - romantic/sensual/alterous/aesthetic - arises. Which again doesn't rise often, but I daydream about it a lot or reminisce about old crushes - particularly the one about a girl way back in high school days. (Let me tell you that was a wild time in my mind). Back then I was thinking I was bisexual only to cancel it out because I didn't want to have sex with her. However I never questioned if I wanted to have sex with boys (I just assumed I would, thanks heteroallonormativity). But the romantic feelings I had for her were the same like the boy crushes (which came up every few years). And for a timeline purposes, before her my last crush (boy) was in the 7th grade, she was the 11th grade, and my last crush currently was senior year of undergrad college (the best one honestly I could actually talk to him and not be overly ridden with anxiety and embarrassment). And despite so many years passing I always wonder - does the bi label fit? Was that with her an bi experience? I know its whatever I feel like it was but also I'm wondering if my hesitation is because deep down having that bi label attached makes the 'im not straight' thought more permanent? If that makes sense? Like 'im not straight' in any way, not even hetero aro/ace? And maybe that thought just makes my head spin a little. I thought about the pan label too; but when I read the definition to see the differences between bi and pan I realized that pan definition doesn't connect the closest but bi does. However I still can't always make it fit. It's like when I was going by aroflux despite the fact it did not fit for me, it was clunky in my brain calling myself that. But then I read about grey-aromantic and it fit perfect! But not my romantic orientation is still in murky waters; I ID as a girl so for the most part of my life boys have been what I've been romantically attracted to, however hetero isn't me. I usually just go as fluid for all my attraction titles which I do like but that opens up more discussion of "okay, but who, what gender?" So in that case I guess bi would be the correct answer...despite the fact gender doesn't play a part (hence fluid label I go with and or queer) but it isn't all genders I fall for, I lean in some directions more than others. So it kind of does, doesn't it? But again I'm like "....meh it just doesn't fit/doesn't fit the way I want." And I am one of those people who agree that you don't have to use every label or any label including micro (for example, aegosexual I can relate to but I don't feel the need to have two microlabels) however, once I start thinking in depth I start to question myself as I do because I'm a thinker. And I think a lot because in real life I'm not in the space where I can speak about this openly with the people in my life.

Wonder if anyone else has had something like this on and off throughout their life too?

Thanks for listening~

you can be bi and greyromantic at the same time, if that helps! but not wanting labels is totally valid and if that feels best then go for it!