#I'm an independent woman
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The truth is that I'm free and indipendent and I can do whatever I want. I can go any place I want and then I can leave whenever I want. I go places because I want to. Not because some person I might have a crush on OR NOT invited me
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Being spoiled by him <3
THEODORE NOTT HAS A LOT OF MONEY. and even though that's a relief that indulges his own impulsive spendings to pamper himself, it still doesn't feel like he properly makes use of it.
the large bookshelf on his bedroom, at the nott mansion, might suggest otherwise.
( what? theodore enjoys special editions; no, it's not silly to want a first edition of one of his older favorites, or a hard cover version with a better illustration, really. much less having paid more for a book on his native language, given that he's in london, a bit too far away from the city he was born, millan. )
but then, ah— there it is! the reason why his family's ridiculous wealth makes sense, now!
because what theodore nott lacks in a few matters, such as communication or spending a lot of time with you, when he needs his time alone, he'll compensate like this.
one might perceive this as a heartless, uncaring way to press bandaids over emotional wounds; believe me, it couldn't be farther than this.
theodore just likes to see you smile, and given that his black card is a means to such an end, well, why not?
things are just things; but things do bring happiness, so yes, you can buy happy feelings!
theodore would love to know if you collect something— mugs? he's bringing a new one for you, now paying extra special attention to crockery themed stores. snowglobes? there's this one he found, with a charm to it! if there's a comic series you like, theodore would discreetly surprise you every week with a new volume.
only for you to go and break his heart, standing in front of his door with his gifts in arms, extending them for theodore to take it back.
cluelessly, and looking a bit like a kicked puppy, theodore frowns. are you angry at him? isn't this the type of thing you like? should you reassure him that your only issue is the excessive money spent on you, theodore feels like a weight left his shoulders.
huff; so, he does know how to please his girlfriend and what she likes!
... but why are you rejecting him? 'hey, bella, don't offend me— this isn't going to empty nott's vault any time soon.'
should his puppy eyes work, well then, you're doomed.
because theodore will use this same excuse over and over again, when he brings another thing that reminds him of you. what? you mentioned that you like coats like these! it's a color you like to wear, and you'll need warm clothes like that in a matter of weeks!
do you not like his gifts? theodore will give you a look that, if you didn't know better about his cynical shenanigans, you'd believe that his heart was being shattered to pieces.
that's the reason why dates at hogsmeade are so dangerous. i'm being serious— you might as well keep your eyes on the road, stare at the snow beneath your feet, because if you spend more than four seconds staring at something inside a shop...
there isn't time to process anything else; theodore's mind works fast. you saw it, you seem to like it, he's buying it. in a blink of an eye, theodore already has his card between his index and middle finger, nonchalantly making his way inside.
'can't a man spoil his girl? goddamn it, dolcezza.'
clothes are almost worse. if he sees something that you're staring at, and likes it, theodore is putting so much (discreet. not so discreet,) effort into convincing you to let him buy it for you.
'you'd look good in it. see, it's a color you like, it would look really good, given your skin tone.' and then, he takes a different approach: 'trying it on doesn't hurt, right?'
a cruel plan, you see, because then you fall in love with this dress, as much as theodore fell in love with the idea of you wearing such pretty clothes.
his arms embrace your waist, like a snake slowly trapping its victim; the fabric feels right under his skin, the dress looking as if it was sketched for you, fitting better than a glove.
theodore rests his chin on your shoulder, holding back a smirk as he sees you mourning the idea of leaving the dress here— it's just so pretty! and theodore's compliments don't help!
🗯️ : but teddy, it's really cold these days. i wouldn't be able to wear it, anyways.
t : and that's why we learned simple warming charms during third year.
🗯️ : sure, but— i don't have where to use it, so it's not worth it if it's just going to look pretty in my dresser.
t : no worries, bambina. i'll think about a perfect date for you to wear this, looking so pretty for me. bellissima, la mia bella ragazza.
NO USE IN ARGUING WITH HIM; theodore nott always wins these rounds. the battle is won, and the war is benefitting his side.
even if you do not let him spoil you with such impulsive thoughts and freedom, theodore would never, for the life of him, let you pay for a single coffee or meal while you're with him.
lunches at hogsmeade are a favorite of his. obviously, he's paying. this slytherin doesn't joke about the topic; will give you the biggest side eye if you take out your wallet.
who do you think he is? his mother raised a man that knows how to treat a girl right, and a good boyfriend! no way in hell is any soul at hogsmeade, scotland, europe— hell, galaxy!— considering that he's not taking care of his amata ragazza properly.
ALL IN ALL, THEODORE FINDS IT SWEET how much you worry over it, and insist that he could spend this same money on things that he likes.
but that's what you fail to understand— what theodore likes, more than a new book with a promising synopsis, or an exquisite astrolobe— is seeing you smile for something that he got you.
﹙★﹚ won't give you gifts to earn his forgiveness earlier, though. he wants his presents to feel like he genuinely thought you'd like it, not as a bargain or bribery.
anyways, i love this man. 🌷
#would I accept that in real life?#probably not#I'm an independent woman#doesn’t hurt to imagine it though :)
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as a woman who grew up with an emotionally abusive mother constantly telling me I needed to wear more makeup/more revealing clothing/date (boys) more/go out to "normal" parties more, I despise "she should be at the club"
god forbid some people- especially young women, who already have to deal with a thousand different behavioral standards from a thousand different directions -not have the same dreams and desires for their lives as you do for yours
fucking hell. the correct response to "women should stay at home and have kids and be submissive wives" prescriptivism was not MORE PRESCRIPTIVISM
(I also just saw a poll asking if people partied as teenagers, and OP responded that the answers were "killing them" because No was winning. like? why is everyone so personally invested in other people having a very specific kind of fun?)
#memes#s t o p telling women what to do#being the partying type does not automatically equal being a Free Independent Woman and vice versa#guess what? I'm a 30-year-old lesbian with no kids (yet) and a career and I have NEVER liked clubbing.#I didn't like it when I was 19 or 21 or 25 and I still don't like it now#(I do love my mother; we have a complicated relationship. but the fact is that she did some things fitting the definition of emotional abus
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Everybody's looking for you.
#lois and clark: the new adventures of superman#clois#clark x lois#lois lane#superman#lnc: tnaos#m: lnc#mine: edits#otp: you are way out of your league#you know what i love?#clearly lois is an independent woman with a long successful career on her mind#but it's clear from the get go that she's open to romance she just hasn't found that Someone yet#the two aren't mutually exclusive#is what i'm trying to say
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#Independent#oldest daughter#relationship#dominance#older man younger woman#older men do it better#relatable#me core#me coded#im just a girl#manic pixie nightmare#manic pixie dream girl#live laugh girlblog#hell is a teenage girl#girl interrupted syndrome#girlhood#girlblogging#kat stratford#10 things i hate about you#patrick verona#julia stiles#i'm just saying#just girly things#dollcore#girl blog aesthetic#this is a girlblog#this is what makes us girls#girl blogger#girly stuff#lisbon sisters
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Day 5
Prompts: Dom/Sub, Lingerie
Pairing: Secondo/Reader
Tags: dom/sub relationship, lingerie, alcohol
Notes: I have been SO excited for this. i had a ton of fun writing it. can you tell i'm a people pleaser? also soft, loving dom secondo? sign me up!
“Good evening, Papa. Welcome home.” Instantly, the sour, tired expression on Secondo’s face melts away. Stepping through the heavy oak door to his chambers, he smiles gently as you rise from your seat on the bed to greet him.
“Good evening, pet.” His powerful, mismatched eyes rake over your form as you approach. He’d given you the freedom to choose your attire for this evening’s session, and based on the way his tongue quickly darts across his upper lip, you can tell he’s quite happy with himself. Black lace on emerald green silk, this set is his favorite, hugging your curves in all the right ways. Your hair is in a half-pony, tied back with a black ribbon exactly how he likes it. He regards you as if you’re a work of art, and pride blooms in your chest knowing you’ve made the right choice. Wordlessly, you step behind him, gently grasping the lapels of his finely-tailored suit jacket and helping him shrug out of it. He watches as you take the garment over to the armoire and hang it up. You would just hate for such an expensive piece of clothing to get wrinkles.
Secondo doesn’t like to talk about work in the bedroom, so you don’t ask him about his day. Based on how he looked only moments ago, you probably don’t want to know anyway. Instead, you stroll over to the armchair in the corner of the room and kneel on the small pillow on the floor next to it, hands resting on your stocking-clad thighs. You look to him then, not expectantly — that would be far too presumptuous and you know he can’t stand that — but merely as if to say here I am! Please look at how good I’m being! With a low chuckle, Secondo paces over to you, undoing the top two buttons of his dress shirt as he approaches. He takes a seat, relaxing into the plush chair with a pleasured groan, finally able to rest his weary, old bones. The hand closest to you cups your cheek, and it takes everything you have to not lean into his touch. As his pet, above all you must have self-control.
“Did I keep you waiting long?” He asks, stroking your cheekbone with his thumb. You shake your head.
“No, Papa.” It’s technically not a lie. You’ve been ready for him for a least half an hour, but that’s your own doing. Punctuality is very important, especially when it comes to your time with the Second. It’s one of the reasons why, out of all the submissives he’s had, you’re his favorite. He likes the finer things in life, well-trained pets being paramount. You like to be early. You like to obey. It’s not hard to please him.
“Good.” Secondo hums appreciatively, eyeing the glass of scotch (on the rocks, of course) waiting for him on a small side table. He has such large, strong hands, but he handles the fine crystal so gently, taking a slow sip. His eyes shut for a moment as he savors the taste. When he looks back down at you the gears in his head are clearly turning, a bemused twinkle in his gaze. Gently, he puts the glass to your lips, and although you absolutely despise scotch you let him tip it back, pouring a small measure of the amber liquid into your mouth. It’s impossible to keep a straight face when you swallow, cringing as the harsh liquor burns your throat. This is likely some sort of test and for a moment, you worry he’ll be cross with you for losing your composure, but he just laughs softly, using his thumb to wipe away a stray droplet at the corner of your mouth.
“You would drink poison if I told you to, amorina.”
You giggle, feeling your cheeks flush. A warm feeling spreads in your stomach, though you doubt it’s the alcohol. “I would do anything you told me to, sir.” At this he laughs again, the hand on your cheek moving to pet the top of your head.
“Silly little thing.” He sighs wistfully. “You would like a treat, yes?” From day one he’s been able to read you like a book. You bite your lip, knowing you’ve been seen, and dare to nod. “Come sit in my lap, then.” He pats his thigh and relieved, you rise from your seat, mouth watering as you spy his steadily growing erection. You straddle him on the chair, your own pounding arousal so close, and yet so far away, from your true prize. Secondo takes a moment to admire how you look in his colors before pulling you in for a claiming, yet tender kiss. When he pulls away, your head is spinning.
“Thank you, Papa,” you say, breathless already. He shakes his head.
“No, darling. Thank you.”
#my writing#the band ghost#the band ghost fanfiction#the band ghost x reader#ghostober 2024#papa emeritus ii x reader#i am WEAK for him you guys#like i'm a strong independent woman or whatever but... goddam
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Clara's father being an Earl means that her family outranks Baron DeVries' family in terms of the hierarchy of the nobility. DeVries - a mere Baron, the lowest rank of British nobility - is constantly making references to his family's heritage and history and the responsibilities that come with it. Meanwhile, Clara - the daughter of an Earl (which is two ranks above a Baron) - actively avoids mentioning her aristocratic heritage and is making every effort she can to construct an identity and a life that is separate from that heritage. DeVries' adventuring is a continuation of his family's legacy; Clara's is a rejection of her's.
#Victoriocity#Victoriocity spoilers#Idk I just think it's interesting#I think they should have a conversation about it#I'm not going to say that Clara herself outranks DeVries#because she isn't the holder of her family's title#and she's a woman in a patriarchal system#but she is from a more 'noble' family than DeVries#Presumably her brother inherited the Earldom#which also has potential to be interesting#Clara's brother encouraged her to educate herself#which her mother blames for her desire for independence#which led her to move to London and reject her family's aristocratic heritage#the heritage which her brother is now the figurehead for...#Could be a really interesting dynamic#I hope we meet him at some point#the empty man posteth#Clara Entwhistle#Baron DeVries
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prefer to get drunk?
#joker out#kris gustin#*my gifs#i'm a strong independent woman but i'm not strong enough for this#i am on the floor actually#dying
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Incredibly niche post but Bayonetta and Æon Flux are in the same genus of woman and I think they'd get on great.
#brieuc.txt#bayonetta#æon flux#aeon flux#they would have an intense psychosexual relationship that would culminate in one of them betraying the other for their own goals#and while theyre both pretty bitter over it they also both know it was inevitable and wouldn't have wanted things any other way#when you meet a woman as dedicated to freedom and indulgence as you are who is untamable as you are#and you want each other but know it's the qualities that make you both so independent and strong that will drive you apart#I'm normal
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i realise that the 2010s were a very different time, and a lot of fanfiction at that point was being written by heterosexual women who wanted to fuck richard armitage and i guess lacked the ability to project themselves onto any fictional character who wasn't also a heterosexual woman that wanted to fuck richard armitage. but. what the fuck was up with the insane amount of heterosexual genderbent bagginshield fanfic.
#the ao3 description for every single one of them reads like outlander but worse#like ohh i'm just a fragile repressed irresistibly attractive Strong Independent Woman who needs ravishing by a gruff brooding rugged Man#while we go on adventures and i get mildly to severely sexually harassed (depending on the author's personal preferences)#idk i only watched like 3 episodes of outlander i'm just making wild allegations here but you all get it.#like i'm open-minded! i enjoy the occasional het ship!#not this one though!#i maybe wouldn't have minded the het if more people were genderbending thorin but obviously the vast majority were not#society if more people had gone the full genderbend and written bagginshield lesbians to be quite honest.#wait i just remembered at least a couple of actors from the hobbit were literally in outlander. goodbye. i regret this post already.
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#currently on the worst road trip of my whole entire life! well. i don't want to jinx it lmao but#today i popped TWO TIRES at once in the middle of the Katy Freeway in Houston TX (the widest highway in the US; 26 lanes btw)#managed to make it over to the shoulder without DYING but then had to sit there for like an hour? and panic called a tow truck because duh#I know how to change a tire but I was – again – sitting on the shoulder of the widest freeway on the continent so#anyway I called a tow; a guy showed up. I assumed it was the tow! turned out it was not. but he helped me put on the spare and then was lik#“follow me to my shop I can do the tires for you” and I was like okay! 👍 but then the ACTUAL tow called me and I realized this was#just a random guy (very nice up to that point but then I got scared about following him to a secondary location?) and so I didn't lmao#I just kept driving and didn't follow him but the guy on the phone was then mad at me because I wasn't where I said I would be because#AGAIN – I thought the original guy WAS the tow company that I called? but anyway guy 2 on the phone was like “YOU OWE ME $200!!!!”#and I said for what? also how would I pay you? and he tried to get me to cash app him lmao?? I didn't. I hung up on him#he called me like 6 more times yelling at me until I finally just blocked his number 💀#however NOW at this point I'm driving on one spare tire and one rapidly-flattening second tire and I still have 3 hours left to get where#I was going for the night and to top it all off I'm in the middle of a city I've only been to one time before? so I manage to get to a hote#like a nice-ish one where I'm like “okay if I get stuck here this won't be the end of the world”#because keep in mind today is a national holiday so basically everything is closed!!!! btw!!!!!#but eventually I'm sitting there and it's literally 100F outside and I remember oh right lol I have car insurance which pays for a tow#(a normal one; not a random one I panic-found on google who calls me screaming at me to cash app him $200)#so anyway I call my insurance and the guy on the phone is very nice and is like “it's okay; we'll have someone to you in 45 min”#and I'm like okay. OKAY. 🙌💪 I am a strong independent woman who is figuring this out and no longer on the side of the highway#but instead in a nice calm neighborhood and all I have to do is wait 45 min and everything will be okay#one hour goes by. I call back. get redirected to the tow company that was dispatched. guy says oh! is my guy not there yet?#I say no. he says okay – I'll have him call you. hangs up.#okay. 20 more min go by. guy finally calls me. says “I'm 20-25 min away” at this point I've been waiting about an hour and a half#I say. okay? okay. 30 more minutes go by. I try to call the guy back. straight to voicemail. three more calls. three more no answers.#I call my insurance back. sit on hold for 15 min. eventually get put through to a different person who's like “okay let me check on him”#get put on hold. eventually she comes back and says “okay he says 15 minutes” I've been waiting over 2 hours at this point. I have to PEE#I just... burst into tears. on the phone with this poor random woman from Geico Insurance. I'm bawling my eyes out.#she was trying to get claim info from me but I'm crying so hard she's like “oh baby no. okay. okay. we can get that from you tomorrow.”#when you cry so hard that even the insurance company is like “you know what we're just going to let this one slide”#anyway guy eventually shows up. he's very nice even though I hate him a little for being so late. he drives me to an OPEN TIRE SHOP
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You ever just yearn for someone you haven’t met yet?
Yes babe ! Do you ever have those dreams about being deeply in love and you wake up feeling empty and longing for something you're not sure is attainable?
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so here's how the dee x yak x taem agenda can still win
#it can't i'm just delusional#but i don't understand where are they going with taem#we all thought she wasn't into yak and liked ohm#and then they flipped that script to have her heartbroken AND molested#i guess they're going for the strong independent woman who needs no man#(i agree she needs two)#but poly dreams aside i don't really see the narrative purpose of this whole scene with ohm#also im very dumb and never understand shit so there's also that#just have her kiss dr kwan and let's call it a day#wandee goodday#wandee gooday the series
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me: why does my brain feel unglued
My underwear when I take my bathroom break: 🟥🟥🟥
#cipher talk#Anyway. Has anyone ever had a sore scratchy throat as a pre menstrual symptom#Because that might explain something#Something I am thinking about now again because of my unwilling absence from T is that oh yeah I actually don't hate menstruation#As much as I'm expected to#The symptoms can be frustrating but it doesn't actually make me dysphoric- I just said that to my Dr to get him to give me my boy juice#I remember blocking a major cis Jewish blogger on here once because I found her additions to a post I made talking about gender and mikvehs#Very annoying#I am not really bothered by being a man- or at least a not-woman- who menstruates even though I frankly really wish I had a dick#And on some level I like to commemorate it when it happens. Because it's important to me.#That there are men who do not fit the 'correct' shape of a man. That I don't want to simply pass and politely regard my birth as a mistake#It's also why I find medieval discussions of cis men being referred to as menstruating interesting#It's a very weird space to be in because I do have bottom dysphoria; it's just completely independent of wether or not I bleed
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thinking about what rubs me so wrong about the writing of furiae really felt like "woman who really only has control over her own mind and fantasies, hardly unable to do anything than what's expected as her both as a goddess and a woman" and how the way the staff viewed the writing of furiae as "woman who can't do anything"
I feel like Tadashi really summed it up good in this passage here
#gu6chan's musings#drakengard#furiae Drakengard#hot take i suppose but it makes so much sense looking at woman later in the series that their writing isn't based in anything actually HUMAN#so much as 'subversive of ORDINARY woman' without consideration of where any of that is routed#kainé; A2; Zero; etc. CLAIM to be subversive - 'what other jrpg woman has masculine-like violence and swears a lot'#but they're all surmountably treated as jackoff material at the end of the day; regardless of how 'progressive' their narrative treats them#that women's 'worth' by the series creators is really only seen in how 'subversive' they can be while still being comfortably appealing#and the only one whose main point of terror and tragedy LIES in the terror of being forced into submission; objectified and being unable to#do anything for herself because of that is viewed as 'plain' and 'annoying' and 'boring' makes a lot of sense and it's so.....#the moment it comes to that being treated as a subject of terror and discomfort on the behalf of the people DOING it it becomes an issue#otherwise they just slap a 'oh she's INDEPENDENT and sticks up for herself which is better than a LOT of women but that's all in a way that'#'she looks and acts in a baddy way where *I* can still feel comfortable objectifying and jacking off to her at the end of the day'#anyways many thoughts I'm taking a shower#maybe ill ramble about how they got seere wrong next too lmao
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@reallyndacarter and Nic Cage go way back
#Wonder Woman#National Treasure#I'm gonna steal the Declaration of Independence#Nic Cage#Nicolas Cage#Lyle Waggoner#Steve Trevor#Diana Prince#DC#DC Comics#Warner Bros#Vintage#70s#1970s#1979#Video#Blu-ray
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