#I wasn't at the party but my friend was
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Be mindful of when, where, and how you groom in public. Avoid grooming habits in public that are going to leave a mess, and if they will leave a mess at least clean up after yourself. But overall, try to keep what grooming you can at home or in some sort of private space.
If you were to take out a pair of toenail clippers and start clipping your toenails at someone's housewarming party, you'd get some pretty strange looks, and probably asked to stop if not asked to leave. First of all, toenail clipping is something likely to leave a mess, a stray toenail clip just might fly off into another party-goer's drink. Or, it might just make other party-goers feel uncomfortable and squeamish.
Grooming is often considered something personal, which is why a lot of people might feel awkward seeing others groom themselves in public.
Keeping a brush or comb with you and occasionally running it through your hair might be fine depending on where you are, but be mindful of where you do it, especially if you're someone who tends to shed a lot, and clean up after yourself if you left behind any hairs on surfaces such as chairs or desks.
The general rule of thumb is that if it's something the majority of people in your culture keep to doing in the privacy of their bathroom at home, a lot of people are going to find it awkward if they see you doing it in a public space. Not only does it feel awkward to see someone doing something usually kept to the privacy of their bathroom at home, but things such as clipping toenails, plucking your mustache hairs, ect. are also things that can leave a mess, and most people are going to feel grossed out by finding someone else's toenail clippings or mustache hairs in public.
#the clipping your toenails at a party is based on true events btw#I wasn't at the party but my friend was#this guy who only kind of knew the host just invited himself to the party#and as soon as he showed up he sat down and took out his hunting knife and started cutting his toenails#he was asked to leave#manners#good manners#courtesy#etiquette#politeness
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ORC FACTS
Orcs go crazy over labour rights. Are you not getting paid overtime? Why not tell an Orc and they'll give your employer a bit of... Gentle Persuasion...
#I got mad my friend was being worked 50 hours in a week and I said if he wasn't getting overtime pay I was gonna get killing#He said that I was gonna go orc mode#Wild that those guys had to work so hard for saruman though that was fucked up I hope they were getting paid properly#Double wild that warcraft has a questline where you stop the peons from unionising by throwing them a dinner party#Orc#Orcs
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Made an Omori OC! Her full name is Rubella Kleinmann (don't ask, her parents were kind of dumb). I love her so much guys rnekjrgek
#yes I know I'm 5 years late to the party shhhh#I like to join popular things late so I don't look like a bandwagon hopper /j#jk that's not true I just wasn't interested until I saw my friend play it#omori#omori oc#rpg horror game#rpg game#art#my art#oc
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@ the mag7 fam, I realize I have no way of convincing you this is not a 'and then everyone clapped' fake post, but i LITERALLY MET MANUEL GARCIA RULFO this weekend at a TIFF party, and we LITERALLY SPOKE FOR LIKE 5 MINUTES
Takeaways:
he is really ridiculously handsome, excellent brown eyes, A+
really not as tall as he seems in character, and much slighter, i may have to revisit how 'looming' i've written him in fic lmao
(on that note it is biZARRE meeting someone whose character you've written fic about, that is the first time that has happened to me. i can only be grateful i haven't written too much with him, i'd have withered if it was ethan hawke or LBH lol)
he was extremely friendly! and as it transpired he lived in my hometown for about a year so we just chatted about that. he loves poutine and hates the winter, and he has my full agreement on both counts 👍
he also appears to be dating vincent d'onofrio's daughter which is sO cute, the mag7 fam lives on 🙌 (she is gorgeous btw. and I don't think this is like a 'scoop' or private info or anything lol, I asked if he had anything going on at tiff that day and he was very openly like 'no only next week, today I'm just supporting her!)
(also the context for All This is my gentleman friend is a journalist and i joined him at TIFF for the weekend and basically larped as a famous person all weekend lol good times. weekend was crazy but this part felt the most relevant to tumblr)
#this was at an apple tv party promoting the new cate blanchett show which also stars Vd'O's daughter#so i was emotionally prepared to see cate blanchett lol (she wasn't there though)#was /not/ emotionally prepared to turn around and see MGR right next to me lmao i died#internally though. i was very cool and collected all weekend thank you very much lol i'm not a heathen#Gentleman Friend was even like 'you were so chill with all these other huge people why was he the coolest for you'#that was when i had to explain he is big in certain homoerotic corners of the internet lmao#but i ended up chatting with him because gentleman friend was interviewing his gf next week and they were talking about that#so MGR and i are both standing there just like '....soooo how's it going' lol#and resorted to the gold standard of any conversation in canada aka bitching about the weather#anyways swank party would have been very uncouth to take pics lmao so you'll just have to take my word for it#but i'm telling you.....outside i was perfectly collected but inside i was shooketh lol#shares
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an add-on to this post. if you've been annoyed by my latest reblogs, sor ry!! I've been hooked on the muppets lately. i got emotionally attached after spending several hours alone in Disney's California('s?) Adventure with a two foot tall kermit plush. picture it. random guy going through ride lines cuddling Kermit The Frog. single rider? nah I'm here with my buddy kermit. 45 bucks and you too could have one. carried around all day as my emotional support muppet. sat at an empty table in san fransokyo and drank hot chocolate with kermit. that changes you.
Anyway Walter's a goofball and i love him too but he has zero merch in the california disney parks (like all the other muppets, to be honest).
#sigh ok#walter muppets#walter the muppets#muppets walter#the muppets walter#the muppets#the muppets fanart#my art#I wasn't kidding when I said that changes you by the way.#disney parks are so .. just not made for one. no parties of one in Disney. its kind of sad#or maybe I'm the sad one lol? should've taken a friend or somethin but I don't got that kind of money#kermit was my savior people were so nice to me just so they could ask Where Can I Get A Kermit Can I Hold Kermit
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Here I go, again... The ride just never ends.
Shiro's reaction to Allura sacrificing herself for him in Season One, when he was still a character who mattered:
Shiro's reaction to the exact same thing in Season Eight, when the writers had long since stopped caring about him:
Shiro's response to Ulaz, who he barely knew, sacrificing himself to save him, back in Season Two:
Shiro saying goodbye to one of his dearest friends, who saved his life and gifted him with his new arm, and the power source for it, in the final episode of the absolute disaster that is Season Eight:
#Takashi Shirogane#Shiro#You're nothingness but shining and everywhere at once.#Allura#The Silver-Haired Princess and Her Silver-Haired Paladin.#Voltron: Legendary Defender#Meta.#VLD Meta.#Bless Josh Keaton's heart for carrying Shiro's parting words to Allura because the animators failed him AND Shiro so hard#here#it's not even funny.#If I wasn't attached to these characters I would feel nothing during this exchange.#I saw someone say that the staff on this show were afraid of emotions and this scene is all the proof that you need.#It's a good thing that Shiro and Allura are now under my protective custody and having tea and cakes with Allura's mice after Shiro bought#her a nice sparkly necklace to make up for her sacrificing the Balmeran crystal from her tiara to power his arm.#They're best friends and he's a member of her bridal party and her future children adore him.#God I hate this show.
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All he wants is friendship :)
#tw: blood#tales of vesperia#yuri lowell#zagi#flynn scifo#estellise sidos heurassein#crest art#came up as a joke when discussing zagi after I beat the game LOL#your party was like “He just wanted a friend :(”#and im like “HE WASN'T PASSING NOTES ASKING FOR MY FRIENDSHIP LIKE A SCHOOL GIRL WITH A CRUSH”#“HE WAS TRYING TO KILL ME”#But the thought was VERY funny
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As someone who hasn't considered the ship of ichigo and byakuya in more than a "oh that'd be an interesting ship", getting to the whole fullbringer arc really made me interested.
Like Tsukishima is able to place himself in memories and shit, which he does with the important people Ichigo has in his life. And all these people, Ichigo's family, his close friends, and the girl who loves him, instantly turn on him when Ichigo attacks Tsukishima.
The people who care the most about Ichigo and trust him with their lives are unable to break out of the ability or even question it. Orihime and Chad do try and fight it near the end but even they don't manage it before being removed from the situation entirely.
Tsukishima does this too with Byakuya and yet, out of all Ichigo's friends and family, it's Byakuya who actually goes against the enemies ability and cuts him down because anyone who dares to hurt Ichigo, even if they're a friend, must be cut down. And he does this almost instantaneously, without mulling it over unlike Chad and Orihime who only started to question things later.
That's just. . . Very interesting that out of everyone, it was Byakuya who would do such a thing, especially since, up to this point, we've not seen a lot between him and Ichigo.
Anyway I can see why my friend was a bit obsessed with these two when she was reading the manga. I can certainly see the potential even more now than I did and I certainly did earlier.
#yeah yeah I'm late to the party.#i read bleach a long time ago and stopped before the fullbringer arc cause the manga wasn't done and I decided to wait till it was and then#promptly forgot about it till this year cause I've been in the middle of like 50 manga titles#bleach is still definitely up there in my top five favs though. I love it#this couple though is just so interesting. I wish they got more attention now that I'm seeing the possibilities#im sure someone will point out that it doesn't mean shit and byakuya is doing it for 'some other reason' but I don't care too much.#I just think it's an interesting difference between byakuya and Ichigo's family and friends#bleach#byakuya kuchiki#ichigo kurosaki#byaichi#fullbringer arc#tsukishima shukuro#don't mind me obsessing over bleach in my little corner. it's normal#especially since all we've seen with Ichigo and byakuya is their fight. no downtime or anything between em and byakuya has THIS reaction??#kinda love it to be honest with ya#i think it's one of my favorite scenes from the arc now that I think about it. plus I've been obsessing over this entire scene for like a wk
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teehee i now have a very very wonderful photo
#me leaning and slightly sleeping on the guy i like#🤭🤭#for those who follow my lore closely (so i think only milo) this isn't the cute guy in history whom i have never spoken to#this is the now pretty close friend in my school friendgroup who i had a big crush on for a few months#i became less obsessed with him but that was definitely a good thing i think crushes get unhealthy when they're too strong#and i still think he's cute obviously i mean i liked him for looks alone the first couple weeks#anyway today at this party i was sitting next to him and ended up sleeping next to him three times in succession#i mean kind of sleeping looking back i probably did doze off at points but it was kindaaa fake sleep#first time i edged toward his shoulder but didn't fully have my head resting against it#then i ducked my head up and said i wasn't asleep just resting and we laughed a little#i think he said he wanted to draw on my face avjddhbd#anyway second time my head inched toward his shoulder and was fully on there teehee#then when i ducked my head back up he was like awwe its okay and kinda tucked my head back against his shoulder#i was GEEKING bro 😭😭 i opened my eyes those three times when people questioned my sleepiness bc i could not keep a straight face#i was fighting to contain a grin the whole time#uuughh and he was saying how he didn't want to move and was getting people to pass him things abdjbdhd#he could have kicked me off but he didn't!! that's so cute#i was hoping someone would get a photo and a couple people did and they're so cute#gawwddd idk if now is the right time for anything but i really like him i enjoy his presence immensely#he's so nice he's not absolutely perfect of course but he's such a sweet guy#im thinking of that one tumblr relationship advice post about how the ancients didn't stumble across fully built temples#they found a flat place with good grass and water nearby they found a good place to build and then built#if there's any chance of things happening between us iiii think it's a good place to build#literally my only personal downsides for him are such minor things that could definitely change with age and maturing#it's just a lack of motivation or passion toward things and sometimes a bit of a lack of consideration#but i know im guilty of that too and he really is so nice he never acts maliciously#never at all augh he's so sweet
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*throws confetti in the air* sagittarius season babey
#jam draws stuff#happy birthday to me!#in case it wasn't obvious enough that this is a birthday post lol#the converse pictured are held together by duct tape and i have been banned from wearing them by my physical therapist#funnily enough 1/5 of those tattoos is cowboy themed n another is matching with a friend where mine has a party hat n hers has a cowboy hat#self portrait#art#illustration#someone please hire me for the love of god#digital art#sagittarius#meet the artist#cowboys#vampires
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[ I'm casually awake at 4:20am again, thinking about Gale not knowing how to smoke a pipe with a carb and he is too intimidated by bongs cause he is afraid he is going to slurp up bong water so he just gives you puppy eyes to shotgun him anytime you take a hit but he insists it's just cause it's hot and not because he has no idea what the fuck he is doing and is too afraid to ask for help ]
#wisdom check#tw: drugs#I don't even want to tag this lmao#but this is genuinely based off of my personal experience as a young adult back in the day#I saw an old photo of me at a toga party my ex threw#and I was mortified both by the dirty ass bong water AND not understanding why the pipe my friend had wasn't working (it was the carb)#and I'm just sitting on this deep deep couch non-verbally begging my friend to make out with me so we could shotgun the smoke#and I'm in this goofy ass toga - can you imagine the God of Ambition like that#cause when I think about it I start wheezing#Gale just trying so hard but being an absolute dork nevertheless#I wake up at 4:20 to think about this a lot - it keeps me going honestly
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uuuuuuuuuugggghhhhhhh
#there were people at my house today for my sibling's birthday party [happy bday to them]#but god. it was exhausting and i'm never doing it again#the reason i wasn't active this week was because we were setting shit up and cleaning the house all day for a week#like. my mom hasn't had guests over in years so she kinda panicked and went ham on everything#made the house look spotless#and on top of that we had to set up so many decorations [also it was xmas themed. so.]#like it was fun. we had a bouncy castle and i hung out with one of my sibling's friends and there were snacks and games#but even if it was fun t oday that does NOT mean that i didn't hate every second of the preparation stage#ajdjsjd i'm ranting. tldr sibling had a fun birthday party but it made the past week a living exhausting hell#and i am so glad its over#ethan's yapping again
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ppl always say that autistics don't get jokes but honestly when has a neurotypical person ever clocked the fact that I've told a clearly telegraphed joke like. I'm the one who takes everything too seriously?
#like one time i was playing mario party with some (ex)friends#and someone said something abt 'i should be winning bc im playing as a princess' clearly joking right#so i tried to add on with a CLEARLY joking voice like 'um acktually im playing a GODDESS so'#like i was clearly talking in a dumb voice for the joke#and everyone was like 'don't be like that dude you're being too egotistical abt this :/' LIKE WHERE WAS I BEING SERIOUS THERE#ALSO. I DID NOT START THAT JOKE??? AND I WAS IN *THIRD PLACE* LIKE I WASN'T GETTING A FUCKING EGO WHAT???#anyway i don't talk to any of those people anymore bc they did this on multiple occasions#like can. can we PLEASE learn how to do a 'yes and'#everyone else would get to participate with jokes! but when i tried i was 'getting too serious abt it' TELL ME WHERE THAT SOUNDED SERIOUS#but nooooo autistic people don't KNOW how to be funny right!!!!#shut up im the most hilarious person in the room you all just hate disabled ppl#(they did. they did hate disabled ppl. once i started getting too physically disabled leave my house they all ghosted me)#like i was like 'hey can we maybe hang out at my place since i can't leave my bed much'#and would either be told 'no i don't feel like hanging out today' (when they were talking abt plans to hang out already??)#or 'sorry i don't like ur apartment for (arbitrary reason)'#and they were arbitrary reasons bc they were fine with other friends' houses that had the same 'problems'#and like they'd just constantly tell me to my face that i was boring or awkward to be around#like maybe I'm boring bc you make an effort not to include me ever so i never know what's going on?#and like. it's not like they ever made an effort to learn abt us. when we tried and tried so many times to come out abt things#we'd literally get no response then get our messages steamrolled by a new conversation hours later#and ppl would be like 'i didn't see those!' YOU were the one who spammed my messages out of the chat dude
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My main issue is that I'm competitive and I've become TOO good at gift giving. I was at a friend's birthday party once and she was obviously the most excited about my gift (something that also cost the least money out of the other gifts there). I'm literally riding that high still. But now I have to try and top myself year after year.
#i love love love giving birthday presents cuz it's a way to tell people that i KNOW them and PAY ATTENTION to everything about#because i LOVE THEM#and also i have made people cry over birthday cards.#deadass. i had a friend say she wasn't gonna read my card at the party cuz she knew she might CRY#this is what i WANT#i also have a friend who i paint for every year and he just as a shrine to me in his house#that's the tea
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I'm a little insane about the fact that YOU are the final boss in isat. It's so cool and scary and I almost cried several times. I love this game's combat both in a fun mechanics way in a narrative way I'm gonna thruppppp
#isat spoilers#caw.txt#I'm going insane#this GAME...#I also absolutely did not attack my party when that fight happened I couldn't#(s/h cw for just this one tag) I didn't want to make Sif hurt himself either but I couldn't hurt the others. I wanted to thrup#when Mirabelle healed Siffrin for the first time I almost cried#I also almost cried when Odile attacked them and then felt bad about it after like what else can you DO#a lot of near-tears from me in general at the end. and maybe I did cry at the end during the fall. so what. runs away#in general the way this game used combat for its story was fantastic especially towards the end#the dread I felt as Siffrin's lvl slowly climbed higher and higher above their friends. the horror as I was one-shotting sadnesses#I'd have something eloquent to say about ludonarrative if I wasn't going insane rn. and also someone has probably said it better
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#i went to a party (it was sort of a party)#until 1am#my favourite band from school played which was very cool#i love them they're really good#and talked to my sort of friend while he was mildly intoxicated for a few hours#which was better than it sounds actually he was just himself but *extra*#anyways#i had a teenage experience#and it wasn't awful yay#have a gold star#i survived a teenage social experience
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