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listen I'm a hard believer in total name anarchy but I am still begging white parents to take at least a minute envisioning their babies as fully realized fully grown human beings before filling out that birth certificate
#i have encountered so many kid names recently where its like 'you picked this name bc it pairs cutely with instagram baby photos'#as someone who has an unusual name i think its rad to get creative w names but i think you gotta spend at least a little time#imagining them as a peer when you do so#i especially notice it with young girls ive seen some young girls with extremely diminutive names in a way where its like#the name itself doenst make me mad as much as the thought that your parents never imagined you as an adult woman when coming up w it
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Me, episode 1: Oh, a relatable protag! And a relatable female protag, at that. Sweet! That never happens.
Me, a few episodes in: Wait, the protag really is going to be my character? The one I identify with the most? Seriously? It's not going to be a strange, at least somewhat sinister, seemingly hostile male side character? It's gonna be a female character and the protagonist? That's insane, that literally never happens... what's the catch??
Me, more than halfway through the season: ... huh, I guess Maomao really is it. Okay, then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Me to myself, after episodes 22/23:
#i let my guard down#i should have known#like really i should know better by now lmao#that's probably the best depiction of prosopagnosia i've seen in fiction ngl#also luo//men's suggestion re: using other attributes to tell people apart??#A++ approach what a guy#mine isn't nearly as severe but i totally use footsteps/gait/mannerisms as my primary means of distinguishing people#the very few people i care about i can definitely recognize by facial features#and people i see frequently; though i do have trouble recognizing them if they appear in a context i'm not used to#like. if i were to see one of my sword classmates at my workplace for instance i would have trouble recognizing them#but anyone else? forget it#the most difficult part of working veterinary front desk was returning animals to their owners#bc even though i could have /just/ spoken with the owners like. ten minutes ago#i couldn't tell you which animal belonged to which owner#faces just don't register with me#dogs were easier in that i'd just let them lead me to their owners#but if it was a cat in a carrier i was fucked lmaooo#it's why if there was another receptionist working i'd let them handle any hand offs XDD#i don't remember most of my childhood but i have some very vivid impressions of moments like#my mother asking me to go give a cash tip to the hairdresser who did her hair and me being unable to pick who it was out#of everyone that was working even though i'd been there with them for two plus hours.#or like. taking the school bus home and being unable to recognize my bus monitor and so getting on the wrong bus#and also getting ridiculed about this by my parents lol. ah good times.#on the other hand i can easily recognize a dog i've met once or twice even years later. and remember their name.#i think it all mostly comes down to disinterest for me. i've tried to change this but it's just how i am#so. he's very relatable. painfully so#also the pragmatism and rationality and hyperfixating on things.#i've never hyperfixated on another person tho and i am so grateful for that every single day#i know in my bones it would be an absolute disaster XD#withoutwords
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wah i looove their designs and animation...
#sketched last night looped ''hot air balloon'' track last night rewatched elemental last night you know just how it is....i love it all augh#elemental#elemental 2023#pixar elemental#elemental fanart#ember lumen#wade ripple#it's so fun how just going w/the flow waviness drawing a wade is Correct. some flamey shiveriness / jaggedness in ember's lines is Correct#and it's all the more fun how it's like oh ofc not quite hitting the mark of how great their designs really are....so so good#and of course the expressive elasticity not only with their faces but the way their bodies ft. respective elements can be expressive#in addition to just usual [assume you have a usual literal human body] expressiveness options in posture / movement etc lol#also was thinking about how like we know everything we Need to know re: wade & his dad but also have so [zero details there]#which is interesting to wonder about. kinda assumed like oh a parent got sick & died but now considering how it could've been an accident..#the tiny layer of A Reaction he has when ember's talking abt parents giving up everything for you: could be nothing much; or Anything#also noting i Didn't note the first instances that they hear each other's names or introduce themselves thusly lol#or at least i sure can't recall it. just start knowing the other's name partway through which Isn't A Problem but it's like#ooh just more to consider & reexamine. i love to pick up More Details & that's helped by my difficulty in catching them in the first place#one thing about me i don't Catch things i don't Notice shit i don't Get stuff. and also of course: i do though lol#always a trip when it's like oh i love this movie i'm seeing it probably the two dozenth time#and then i notice something for the very first time that was clearly straightup meant to be Gotten upon the immediate viewing#even to the extent that smthing later seems to be kinda happening out of nowhere if you didn't. & i'd just rolled with it#like ok i'm autistic ofc that's something i gotta do all the time. & the adhd means i might keep getting distracted around the same pts.
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so going by Symmetra's behavior about it, it seems like "Niran" is...not quite a deadname, but like...not really a name friends use for him? like I thought "Bua" was more like a silly little nickname he gave himself in addition to going by his legal name, but Satya outright says how weird it feels to call him "Niran" because it sounds like she literally never did. like Bua is his preferred name, at least coming from friends.
and once she gets comfortable enough with him again, Satya switches away from using "Niran", and neither she nor the story's narration ever call him that again.
#overwatch#lifeweaver#niran pruksamanee#overwatch heroes ascendant#overwatch spoilers#I feel like the name stuff is all tangled up in family trauma and probably some gender/gender expression stuff#picking an objectively Way more feminine name#and distancing himself from what his parents wanted him to be#good for him honestly#yes yes im looking way too much into 'a guy goes by a nickname'#but it's the clearly negative reaction to his legal name for me
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i feel it's so fucking stupid and ungrateful but it still hurts a little when someone gifts me something i just don't like. i don't know. i know it's dumb and inaccurate to astrain that much meaning to a simple gift, but it feels kinda like they don't know me. i guess it feels like people don't see me, like a reminder that the person i reflect and the person i feel like are incredibly different.
#two fairly recent examples jump to mind#last year my class did a secret santa#the guy who got my name barely knew me so instead he asked our litterature teacher for tips#i was doing an effort to participate a lot in her classes and discuss stuff and i felt like she was an adult i could really trust#and adult who Gets It#and she picked just. the wrong gift. a classical philosophy essay.#stuff i hate reading. stuff i hate thinking about.#i said thank you to both of them and tried to read it during christmas break still. but i was right. i hated it.#and this year's christmas#recently i tried patching things up with my parents and we are a lot more communicative now#so they've opened up that my demand not to receive any gifts was painful to them#so we had an agreement: we write open-hearted letters to each other on christmas.#and they can gift me something if they'd like but no pressure if they don't find anything they feel would be a good gift#bc i myself opened up about the whole ''inaccurate gift'' thing being one of the reasons i dislike receiving stuff#and guess what. christmas comes. they got me a printed card from an artist whose work we saw at a local art thing earlier that year.#that artist does mainly either plants or nice architecture. stuff i love.#they picked the ONE work of hers that doesn't look like that. some reinterpretation of the great wave of kanagawa#a piece which i dislike with a passion for aesthetic reasons#i had promised i'd be honest if their gift missed the mark but tbh i couldn't. it's just an aesthetic thing it's completely begnin.#it's not like they spent lots or tried to pick something that was USEFUL#so i smiled and the picture is hanging with other stuff in my room#and i thanked them and i can't express how genuinely glad i am we have a better relationship#but man i felt my heart break a little under the tree in that moment#idk#i know it's silly but it makes me feel weird. and cold.#broadcasting my misery#vent
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hey. look at that! they figured out a framing device, good for them.
ok no that sounds really snarky but I really like how the episode ends with both sisters about to get a bigger picture of the night of the fire (Osha, already prone to visions, diving into the Force under the helmet, and Mae hearing Sol's side of the story), as a lead in to the flashback. I know there's been a lot of theories floated around that Sol/someone manipulated Osha's memories....but I actually think the flashback episode is presented as being true to life. I think if this was meant to be on a tight Osha perspective (with a fundamentally altered memory), I don't think we'd have also gotten scenes that she had no way of witnessing, like the conversations between Aniseya and Koril, or the advisors scene after the girls have been sent to bed. And I don't think whoever manipulated her memories would have left in the part where she hears the scream from the coven, as presumably they're killed. Like that seems like a big clue you'd try to remove if you were trying to convince someone that a bunch of people died in a fire and not in some single concentrated act.
so I do think that the next episode will be the same way: roughly everything on screen is as it really happened, an objective version, but given their current orientations to the truth, it will change the twins' perspective in different ways. Osha has been completely trusting of Sol and blaming Mae: finding out Sol was more at fault that she believes could shift her vengeful anger onto him (and make it easy to manipulate her into a darker turn). Mae blames the four Jedi, but might understand their perspective better (because I'm still on team the Jedi 'thought they were doing the right thing' and made mistakes but were generally acting defensively, rather than in cold-blood slaughter 🙄) and be willing to forgive.
But yeah, this double framing device actually works for me. Almost makes up for not having one last flashback episode.
Anyway now it is time to ✨log tf off✨ because it is a long weekend, I think I need to stop theorizing before I spin myself off into chaos, I'm pretty confident with my general expectations, if not the details — but I should stop overthinking this...and also some of the theories floating around are ✨upsetting me.✨(...Vernestra/Indara/Sol as the Sith master, any variation of 'the Jedi came to Brendok to purposefully cold-blooded massacre the coven, no nuance' (there's a bunch of variants of that I'll be really disappointed if they end up being true), Qimir is Imri (stahp), Sol broke Osha's brain and that's why she can't use the Force (reddit, she's seen struggling before she even meets Sol, what are you even doing—), Indara faked her own death for some reason, etc etc.) And that means it's time for a break! Touch grass! Or....tree. Lake. I'm going to go look at a lake. Peace, see you next week
#star wars#the acolyte#the acolyte spoilers#i will say as much as i'm getting upsetti sphaghetti by some of the wilder ones....gratified to see my 'sol gets framed' theory picking up#i've now seen it pop up more on reddit and i'm like...hm interesting#but yeah i think all the yelling about vernestra and imri (....idEK)....people have forgotten the witches again#like there's still something sus about the witches#also that…did not feel as shippy as the posts implied but I’m notorious for being able to dodge romantic subtext#anyway I’m maintaining 1) my parent trap theory 2) my tragic framing of Sol theory#and thus…I sign off until at least next episode#good night#I’ve had a lot of fun theorizing but right now watching it with my dad was more fun that theory#i just want to talk about it with him he has 0 online brain rot#can’t pronounce any of the character names#it’s perfect#really theorizing was fun! i just need a break before I ruin it
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i just realized that my name isn't in my bio. what da hell i thought i put it in there like sevral months ago... anyways the name's mirza. yes like... that mirza it's a nice name okay
#updated!#my parents didn't name me that dw it's just an online name LMAO#needed to pick a name to go by on here and i couldn't be calling myself satinderpreet singh (NOT MY ACTUAL NAME) or some shit#if your name is satinder... i'm sorry. but i will associate that name forever with satinder sartaaj#or even worse#i could have an english name. the horror
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Fallout 4's biggest crime is that I & 99% of the OCs I'm interested in creating and playing would never in a MILLION years agree to name a kid Shawn. I don't have anything against the name or people with it, but it is very much not one I would ever pick or say yes to when there are other names to pick from unless my partner had a REALLY strong sentimental reason. Even THEN I would negotiate and see if we can't have it as a middle name rather than a first name.
#side note I care so little about this kid that I spelled it Sean instead of Shawn in this post originally lmfao#This is exaggeration obviously its biggest crime imo is that the story MAKES you a parent to begin with#I think slaughtering an entire vault of people you KNOW would be sufficient enough motivation to go seek revenge#Like BITCH YOU DEFROSTED MY FRIENDS IN A WAY THAT KILLED THEM!!!!#If we REALLY need family involved give the player some very kind elderly parents/grandparents!#don't get me wrong I'd burn the fucking world down for my niece but I don't really want that experience in a video game#& I'd pick Philip or Sylvia so like. I'm not immune to 'names other people would probably not pick for their kids' either but Shawn? 😭#not much to report with Michael right now I'm doing more sidequesting with Hancock- took out covenant or whatever it's called#still having fun dungeon crawling! Going to hunt down the Railroad so I can join it next!#fallout#fallout 4#fo4#kat plays fo4
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i'm so glad i never gave myself a cringe name when i first came out as trans. one of the only good decisions i've made in my life.
#what's the point of transitioning if your name's gonna out you anyways 💀💀💀💀#by 'cringe' i mean shit like some anime name or one picked from harry potter or some fake ass sounding name i know very well your parents#didnt give you#like hey my new name is Draco Severus 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
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there’s a certain flavor of conservative thought where people start to get mad about Accents Existing that i always find truly bizarre
#so-called english language purists living in the american midwest. like grow up#to be clear i don’t necessarily mean political conservative although there may be some correlation#i just mean like. people who are soo staunchly against the idea of language changing#and that expands to people saying things differently#i’m sorry i brought it up bc my coworker today started trying to drag people who say like. grossery and cyoupon#i’m still thinking about it tbh. why does that upset you so much lol#it’s also i feel like. very telling that she thought the Southern Affectations were cute#idk if it’s unique to michigan but i’ve encountered SO many people who like to cosplay as texans or tennesseeans#(i’m sorry idk if there’s a different word for that)#or like. another coworker making fun of another guy who is from hawaii and pronounces it differently than she does#my parents and i got it a bit when i was growing up too bc they’re from philly and i picked some of that up#like yknow. the way my name is pronounced lmao. it’s always wild the way people just don’t register or care that it’s said differently#i’ve given up caring bc i got made fun of enough as a kid. it’s whatever at this point like i guess it is just an accent#but i’m getting off topic lmao#mine
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connie thinking she must tell her parents steven has a nuclear family in fusion cuisine is so relatable to the kid experience of knowing your parents discipline you but not knowing why. connie’s parents would absolutely be fine with steven having a dead mom. but to connie, when all she has in her mind is that her parents are strict, nothing of value is actually happening through their parenting style. and with that is the odd feeling of: “you’re okay with that?” because when your parents object over every little thing and you have to tip-toe constantly around them, finding out what doesn’t cross their barriers isn’t as relieving as it should be.
#of course this is under the assumption that connie had no specific reason to think her parents wouldn’t understand steven doesn’t have#a traditional mom#i could be wrong and like connie parents could’ve made a snide remark abt a single parent household once that’s totally possible#picking a much lighter and funnier way i relate to this feeling#once we got a new pet—let’s say we named him rover#and my parents told me to ‘not tell my neighbor friends about rover’#for some reason kid me took that as ‘don’t tell my friends about the NAME we just chose but telling them about the pet was just fine’#(i later found out my parents didn’t like me inviting them over to see our pet all the time#why didn’t they just say that??)
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Need to finish my Dave design so I can draw him with Mori
#luly talks#as in Lucis. Mori is like calling me myself my second deadname which I'll reveal bc who gives a fuck its Luz#luluco literally is bc each is an initial of my names#but like i dont Have much to draw w L.L. and Dave like they're just dating.#LUCIS on the other hand has some weird familiar platonic love hate relationship w the guy#bc a Huge trait of them is that if they dislike you you won't find out. bc they're very polite.#bc they're shy y'know? and just honestly a dgaf-er. like they dont like you but that's ok they wont be rude there's bigger worries#that is unless they like. pick trust. in which case they lose the shyness.#and while L.L. is sopping wet i need y'all to understand Lucis killed himself on a suspicion of danger.#like they're volatile as FUCK#they keep it down mostly bc there's No need to let it out but sometimes something tips them over and they go wild#and they love Dave but they'll also hold him hostage for a while if they have to. doubt he'd mind THAT much#this is a joke bc of me using him for emotional stability btw#Lucis digging their nails into his shoulders like YOU'LL HELP ME. and he's just like ugh fine -_-#i like to think of Dave seeing them in a paternal light. i mean lucis is a young cryptid without parents too so he sees some of himself in#them. lucis doesn't always Pick on this tho so they get a bit uncomfortable like fuck does this guy want.#lucis does appreciate having a fellow cryptid tho. even if they're way different dave is some lizard mori is a little demon#but hey. he has a tail.#it's also an excuse to have this be like. a happy au. bc it means less reasons for Dave to kill kids he's busy being the dad he never had to#this weird freak. and! jack is helping him :)#jack is technically related to lucis too. brothers in law 🙏#lucis still can't stand Dave bc he's obnoxious and also mean but likes him bc he's silly and nice and sticks with them#wags hand around tis but thr nature of them. ask lucis about the mermaid.
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Thinking about Tangerine Junction again. Maybe one day I'll finalize designs for the main trio.
#Hayley Speaks#Tangerine Junction#Benny doesn't count; I hit gold with his design the first time around#But Polly and [Demon I still need to pick a name for] still need their designs set in stone#Also I feel like I might be toeing the line if I name the demon anything that sounds even remotely close to Bill#BUT......I considered the name Zill the other day and was like 'HMM. I kinda like that.'#I want it to be similar so his full name can be like...Zilliam or something#SIMPLY BECAUSE I might toss Mina in there at some point and I struck gold with her name the first time around#So I cannot change it now#And therefore her twin has to be something that can be shortened in the same way a name can be shortened to Mina#Yes this means her name will probably be like...Zillamina#Their parents hated them or something#ANYWAY the main trio will be a weird girl; a robot boy with memory issues; and a demon who's begrudgingly stuck with them#And eventually will involve...well MINA#We can immediately tell they are a Tangy-brand batch of OCs
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✂️ and 🍕 for both and 💀 for Anton from ask game?:3
(from this ask game)
✂️ - What is one of your OC’s worst memories?
one of Dew’s worst memories is when he got into an argument with his friends and they blew up his minecraft world
one of Anton’s worst memories is when somebody ate the last cookie from his secret stash :(
(sorry my brains farting i can’t really think of super specific bad memories for Anton and Dew besides things i’ve already talked about (Dew’s parents dying, getting kidnapped, or Anton spoiler stuff, so you get the silly stuff :P)
🍕 - What is their favorite food?
Dew’s favorite foods are pizza and spaghetti and meatballs
Anton’s favorite food is lasagna he’s just like garfield fr
💀 - Does your OC have any phobias?
Anton has a phobia of spiders, but that’s it i think! he thinks it’s super annoying being scared of spiders, but never has the guts to actually get over his fear lmao
thanks for the ask!
#i like lasagna#i was scared of spiders my whole life until a few weeks ago when i randomly picked up a huge spider#and let it crawl all over my hand for 10 minutes straight#the whole time i was thinking this spider is super cute i’m gonna name it jerry#and then it jumped outta my hand and was never seen again#and now i’m not scared of spiders for some reason#ask#tllr ask#dew oc#anton oc#spiders#parent death mention
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the party in-game btw :^)
#cinnamon's half hrothgar so both of her ''looks'' are glams she uses in my canon till i can mod her again#i want her to be a little wrinkly she's a woman in her 40s....#ravya is just some guy they picked up in radz cuz cin loves fishing and she was a bit too abnormal about it#and this guy was like ahhh i know a lesbian when i see one. i'm coming with you#and she was like what do u mean by that. what. and he never elaborated and she just let him tag along#val joins up for a temp thing and he's terrible and cin and eden don't really like him but he's unfortunately#very good at killing things and so they Deal With Him with the intention of ditching him when they find another caster#they do not. they are stuck with him#he's such a bastard that like if he does ANYTHING nice they're sus of it#anyway cin's a trans lesbian who uses glams and hrt#eden is something. nobody knows what's going on with him but he's bi#ravya is cis gay#valentine is trans by fantasia and his parents were totally there for it. they gave him a new name and everything#they were like ohhh our son. your new name is eugene! and he's like what? no. you cant do this to me#they still have old portraits of him pre-fantasia at his home but both he and his parents pretend it's his dead sister#like his parents get so into it they cry and wail but they're just really committed to the bit#crocodile tears and then a pause to look through their fingers and resume type of bit
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can i live
#since returning to my parents house i have not known peace#i keep getting jumpscared by the sound of my full name#accidentally discovered some insane news that i wasn’t supposed to know that is objectively very good but puts me personally in a bad spot#and i have to pretend like i don’t know about it and it doesn’t affect me#then one of me kids had to go to the er last night so the other 2 slept over on our couches an i just slept on the floor with them#the 3rd kid is fine now and their mom picked up the other kids after breakfast but it’s just been. wah#haven’t even had the time to finish my laundry
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