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Do you guys think that if Yang hadn’t stepped in front of Blake while Ruby marched towards her, that Ruby might have gotten in Blake’s face? Like screamed at her at a closer range? Maybe even say more hurtful words directed specifically to Blake and less about the new Bee relationship
Also would it have affected Blake more? Cause thinking about her past, she had a verbally abusive partner she looked up at that wore red and Black, similar to Ruby’s color scheme, could it have possibly triggered a memory ?
#rwby#blake belladonna#yang xiao long#bumbleby#ruby rose#depressed ruby#sad#It hurt me to see Ruby direct her anger like that#angst#I hope they are able to resolve this#adam taurus#verbal abuse mentions#sad bees#rwby spoiler tag#rwby spoilers
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I am begging you, if your partner insults you, curses at you, screams at you, starts many conversations by accusing you of something (and if you two talk about this situation - you continue having arguments instead of just solving problems together), you feel in danger when near your partner, you feel safer when away from your partner, or your partner hits you, please please consider leaving them.
Just consider leaving the space they're in, and going to a friend's house or a family member's and staying for a day. Do you feel safer? Calmer?
You do not have to be friends with a person who disrespects or harasses you. You do not have to be friends with someone who hits you, who tells you you're stupid/ugly/annoying whatever, who screams at you when you spill food or forget to do the dishes instead of just asking "hey could you please clean this?", who doesn't accept a "no" from you such as "No I do not want to be touched right now." Please tell me you'd be kind enough to yourself to stop seeing a friend who hit you or told you you're worthless or screamed at you for not reading their mind (no one can read minds).
So if a partner does those things, you're allowed to stop seeing them too. You are allowed to love someone, to care about their wellbeing and want good things for them, and also REMOVE YOURSELF from their space and life. You're allowed to think "wow I love this guy, I am sad he's depressed, I hope he feels better" and also think "but he keeps calling me ugly and stupid, and every time I see him he insults me and screams and I get scared, I should stop visiting him and stop answering his calls and texts so I am no longer in situations where I could be insulted and screamed at." You are allowed to love someone, and ALSO protect yourself from them! You deserve to be safe! You deserve to protect yourself first, care about your own wellbeing first, care about if YOU are safe and content, even if it means upsetting someone else. Even if someone else would rather you were hurting, if it meant you kept seeing them.
You deserve to be respected. You deserve to be spoken to kindly, to feel you are safe from physical harm, to be talked to as a person with value. From strangers, friends, and lovers. If people are hurting you, if you feel worse being around them, you are ALLOWED to leave and put yourself in a place where you are no longer being hurt. You deserve to prioritize your own well being.
#rant#i just.....#i learned this lesson as a teen. putting up with abuse until i realized even if i loved an abuser#i am able to hope they have good things and also GET AWAY from them so they don't hurt me in the mean time#so many people think if they love someone they should endure all suffering if the other person hurts them#im begging you to be smarter than teenage me.#i have a friend who's lover screams at them multiple times a day. and much worse#and i... i wouldn't even continue a friendship with someone who screamed and yelled at me weekly let alone daily.#if someone cares about you... respects you... then they'll try to problem solve in a calm constructive manner#you might occassionally yell if emotions are heated and its one of your first fights together#but if you CARE about each other you'll ultimately eventually be able to say#'hey the screaming scares me and i want us to be able to work stuff out without screaming. lets talk about why you're upset and see what we#can change so we both feel better and dont fight about this again'#but like... if you dont even feel safe enough to have THAT conversation... frankly you shouldn't be together#you shouldn't have to feel your ONLY options are feel in danger and accept abuse OR never bring up your discomfort#and pain in the hopes you'll be abused less.#if you dont feel you have the safe ability to discuss problems and resolve them? maybe you NEED to break up#before you get hurt for longer and longer and it feels less possible to ever be treated fairly again
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It might actually be possible for me to sell stickers and whatnot in the near(ish) future! I've had a small win in the realm of personal autonomy today.
First and foremost, I am definitely planning on making stickers of my hazard sign drawings (and can already think of a few improvements to layout and readability on a small scale) but if anyone has any suggestions or ideas on what you'd like to see: Gimmie. I'd like to hear it.
#Without going into too much detail: My problem has been that I do not have any access to a bank account.#(which is also why cashapp is my only payment option for commissions)#If all goes well... I should be able to resolve this sometime next month. Perhaps around my birthday? (wishing and hoping)#funny talking tag#Anyway if you would buy art of mine: Which one. I need money to get out of here. I miss having running water.
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i’ve been in a lot of undiagnosed pain recently and struggling with medical care for it, but your art and bits of lore have been giving me a wonderful distraction. you have my gratitude and appreciation!
I'm sorry to hear you've been in pain and not getting the proper treatment for it, that's awful. But I'm glad my art and ramblings have been able to take your mind away from it. I hope things work out for you soon!
#I can relate years ago I got spontaneous nerve pain on my right leg/hip it hurt so bad I could barely sit up/stand/walk for months#it lasted for over two years and no one seemed to be able to figure out what was causing it or treat it effectively#I messed up my stomach lining with painkillers as a side effect#hopefully whatever is ailing you gets resolved quicker and with less hassle#answered#crow-ho#it was pretty unbearable I remember starting to genuinely hope that they would amputate the whole thing (?)#if it meant it would stop it from aching every second#sorry I don't mean to make this about myself I just suddenly remembered that time really vividly and how much it sucked
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today's sadness brought to you by the way zayn had only recently started talking about 1d again publicly and positively like he really took the time he needed & was able to reflect on a lot of it differently than how he felt right after he left but he still hadn't really ever gotten specific about the individuals in the band yet and then the tribute he wrote for liam sounded straight out of 2013 like no time had passed and i am just so sad they didnt have more time
#just hoping they were able to talk privately and at least resolve some things#but ugh it just breaks my hearttttttttt#but i really kept being like why is zayns post fucking me up so bad#and it really just is written like tmh was yesterday like its crazy
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has chizuutan been sitting this close to aizo in class all this time…?
#when the classroom is huge but you’re only like 3 seats away from the dude you’re delulu about#careful chizuchan one wrong move and aizo will see your pics of him looking incredibly dumb mid-jump#but man. all of them suck at keeping secrets. lxl and hiyo suck at pretending to not know each other.#and chizuchan sucks at pretending to not be a crazed aizo stan. juri never had any secrets to begin with so she’s all good. good girl.#tried rereading the [redacted] manga to check (big mistake) and left wonder wth the [redacted] anime writers were on when they wrote it#chizuutan’s personality flipped too abruptly. and wdymmmm she was able to sneak pics of aizo properly pre-notice board scene#o n l y to suddenly become a very obvious and suspicious stalker the moment she outed her bestie#and her throwing her bag and colouring hiyo out of her stalking snapshots was. very weird.#it’s as though she only did it so that a randomly spawning yujiro could catch her in the act to expose her for her misdeeds later#lord forbid people write flawed women properly#man. it feels like the [redacted] anime writers wrote themselves into a brick wall one too many times#and resorted to butchering their characters to plothole their way out of it.#they totally bit off more than they could chew with their attempts to resolve and rationalise all existing plot points in the series so far#that someya bros bar scene is still dumb as heck im sorry#anyway live laugh love kawaikute gomen manga: the spinoff that’s >>>>>>>>> the original (aka the [redacted] anime)#mmmmmm anyway i hope there won’t be an mv tomorrow (delusional) i may be hauled off to bid my bro safe travels s o.#wouldn’t it be funny if we finally got kimikawaii tomorrow though lol#ik we probably wont since the mona album countdown is still goin but. still.#if we must get an mv… nakamahazureplsplsplspslsplspslpslsssssd#chizuutan chizpost
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Pros of my Portal 2 AU not actually following the plot of Portal 2: so much room to play around with the premise!
Cons: can't actually resolve the main plot by shooting Izzy into space
#i like how i resolved it! hoping for the next chapter to go up tonight once i finish editing!#but i do wish i'd been able to shoot izzy at the moon. sadly without actual portals that did not pan out
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chat I'm asking this seriously genuinely for realsies what did Junko mean by this
#ooc ramblings.#suggestive //#i rewatched the final trial of dr2 and i completely forgot the details of this exchange my GOD#the real Makoto appears and Junko perks right up. it's kind of crazy!! Makoto is not beating the infinite rizz allegations#i think what she said about Makoto's entrance being 'the gallant entrance of the main character' is really conspicuous in a game like#DR2 that's very concerned with its metanarrative about games. What happened to Makoto after DR1 is that he more or less became#the main character of the world because he was able to resist and defeat its ultimate villain. like Junko says he even makes a very tropey#and MC-like entrance! The MC appearing late in a pinch but just before everything is lost is a trope as old as time itself#the protagonist of DR2 is undoubtedly Hajime but I would say the protagonist of DR's world is Makoto. Hajime ends up making a resolve#for the future and freeing himself of that hope/despair dichotomy that defines a lot of the conflict in the series. this idea is also in#NDRV3 with how the audience are clamoring for either the ''hope'' ending or the ''despair'' ending but Saihara rejects both#and ends the entire system third choices included
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Fun fact: Takeuchi the guy who wrote those MineDai RGGO stories said that he thinks Mine and Daigo should be together. Like yeah bro. We got that memo loud and clear already
(if you have a link to where he said that id LOVE to see it btw)
YEAH he made that pretty fucking Obvious.
you know……with the combined power of takeuchi wanting minedai to be together and yokoyama being super into mine and wanting to bring him back…………you see where im going with this
#THERE IS HOPE. THERE IS HOPE IN THIS CHILIS TONIGHT#minedai#rambling#mine’s gonna make the wildest fucking comeback ever if the stars align and we see it happen#for real tho especially now that daigo’s a civilian it’d be great to see him get his happy ending. like that man never gets a fucking break#and hasn’t been able to make a life for himself that he Wants to live. and we know he’s a really soft guy under the chairman face he puts on#I think all he really wants (that I think he gave up on a long time ago) is to be in love and be loved and do the things a Normal person can#do that he’s never been able to. maybe travel. maybe try every hobby he can think of to find out what he actually Likes to do. start#collecting vinyls again after shoving the pink part of him away in storage for so long. and yeah. do it all with the love of his life#something just possessed me there but. anyway. you get it. point is I think after having such a strict high-pressure life for so long this#is the kind of resolve he Deserves
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bad news the 2 carts I have from my favorite brand both contain all 3 of the terpenes from the cart that I definitely had an allergic reaction to last night lmao 🙃
#actually every single cart i own has at least 1 of those terps#but since they don't all have the same ones at least I'll be able to do some ruleouts#gonna wait a couple days til this flareup resolves before i try that tho lmao#i don't think I've ever reacted to an edible so that gives me hope it's a terpene and not a thc allergy#tho im gonna avoid all forms of wead before i start Testing. for science#...which also means no melatonin gummies for now. cause taking those without also taking an edible is a bit brutal#sigh. those two carts are by far my favorite.#i also wonder if my sensitivity is seasonal tho bc I've used that cart so many times before#but this has been a rough autumn allergy-wise#and oas symptoms can vary based on environmental pollens#in any case! this is a doth hell scenario but i shall prevail
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my teeth hurt but i cant afford to go to the dentist. im enrolled in school this semester but i cant afford my tuition. im just not making money fast enough & neither is my mom. only feeling desperate now that my teeth are Hurting
0 note embarrassing post vibe but. if anyone can help At All,, my venmo is @ mia-semolina . thank u for even reading this. i hope u all are having a wonderful night & life. much love always ♡
#genuinely will prob delete later. but its 1:27 AM & all i can think abt is my teeth aching. it came so sudden#there is So much pressure in my mouth on my bottom front set of teeth. ik the issue is my small mouth#when my wisdom teeth came in 6 years ago all 4 had to be removed Immediately bc they started a Push forward in my mout#h & that just hasnt stopped#i havent even been able to afford a cleaning in a year. the thought of needing invisalign to resolve this clutter pain is#devastating. espec while im pushing to make enough money to pay my tuition#im just trying to be kind to myself about it all. holding back before i severe overshare in these tags#again. love and light to u all. if ur reading this i hope ur body is acheless and your mind is clear#and your tummy is full and all the good things#thnx for even just. reading this. hearing me rn#♡#personal
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happy cryptid splatfest everyone! a little contribution to team aliens based on this song! 🛸
#splatoon#splatoon 3#splatfest#team aliens#splatoon oc#minatoast#<- begrudingly adding his name tag as he laughs at me for not being able to figure out what the fuck his actual name is. its been 4 months#lizzy does art#gif#THIS WAS SOMETHING TO WORK ON ALRIGHT. there were a lot of moving parts for this and even though its relatively simple there was a lot of-#layers to keep track of!!! but i had a lot of fun working on something animated cos its been awhile!!#i just want to have more art of my squid kid out there... he is the Best and I Love Him and Will Give Him My Everything#making the clap gif was so funny. i was like. yeah i'll do this in davinci resolve except i didnt know how to use it bc i have only edited-#one whole thing in that bc i mostly have experience in AE. but then it was too much work so i just made it in csp KGLDHLDHFFD#ANYWAYS I HOPE EVERYONE HAS A GOOD SPLATFEST. can't wait to have a losing streak and shit myself when i see comp players in the wild#will go back 2 ur regularly scheduled nonsense soon... i just had 2 get this out of my system. splatoon refuses 2 leave my brain :D#EDIT: ALSO I WANT 2 ADD THAT I FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS SONG LIKE. 6 years ago thru kradness. loved his covers back in the day
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#I don’t know how the fuck I’m gonna make it through this period of my life#I want to see how certain situations resolve because I’m tired of hanging on by a thousand fraying threads#each with no promise of a resolution I’ll be able to tolerate—much less one I desire—and that is if anything even resolves at all#too many darts frozen in midair to even bother hoping they’ll land where I want them to#I want my gratitude for what I DO have to be unencumbered by the pain of hope#I want to want what I want in a way that isn’t shackled by my fear of the danger that accompanies that want#I want to trust myself to catch myself but I just keep ending up facedown in my bed#as far as I can tell nothing is going to improve emotionally anytime soon but I’ve dragged myself through worse emotional states somehow#I’ll figure it out or I won’t. but either way is a way through
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i'm starting to get skeptical of the value of Hunter S. Thompson-ing it as a writing method, as it seems to only have a 50% usefulness hit rate for me
which perhaps is b/c i'm not on nearly as many as drugs as that guy was on
but i'm kinda boringly hopelessly square so i'm not gonna, like, go get the other drugs
and i've been stuck on this one part of the story so long that i MIGHT AS WELL see if beer helps
#if i drink enough pacifico will i be able to figure out the right way to resolve the weird political situation i've got my characters in.#please pacifico you're my only hope
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So I just got my new lab partner group assignment for my second year of vet school, and one of my partners is the girl in the class who already has a PhD and acts like she’s above everyone else simply because of that… and who said some really crappy things about people who were emotionally impacted back in February when our class went through a phase of mean gossip and grumpiness to invalidate people’s feelings about it. And in general, she’s made some remarks toward me that feel like she’s trying to imply I’m an idiot. Great…
#vet school life#I’ve been literally *praying* it gets better with that being the only thing I really can do (after other ways I’ve tried to resolve it)#all I can say is at least I’m not partnered with the other girl who just snaps and blows up on people when she’s the slightest bit stressed#but I cried some ugly-ass tears after opening that spreadsheet#Insanitypost#delete later?#I’m hoping maybe being partners we’ll be able to work it out… but I’m not believing that’ll happen unless it does
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Sorry Vault, but I don't think there is any chill when we have seen 2/3 of DT throwing shade. :(
I just think people outta close the socials for a day or two. This initial knee-jerk reaction to things is always the most damaging
#DT is justified in being upset but people make it sound like they wont ever be able to talk about it resolve it. its barely been a day !#maybe im on some copium but i dont mind trying to be hopeful#this just feels a lil out of proportion#there are layers to this whole thing but im not talking about most of them rn tbc#we all have ptsd from trench warfare and need to remember to breathe and step back sometimes#pull yourself back kicking and screaming if u gotta#itll be okay#discourse
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