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I honestly tried to like Kaia, I truly did, but I can’t stand this shit anymore. Her desperate attempts to be popular, seem interesting and ”deep” are driving me insane at this point. I know it’s probably not her fault, but her parents’, they made her this cringy attention-seeker after all. I can’t understand what Austin sees in her other than her family’s connections or just a plain PR agreement. She has no personality, she always tries to gain popularity by copying her mother(or people she’s dating). It’s funny how she doesn’t even look that much like Cindy, sure, she’s beautiful, but Presley literally stole Cindy’s face. Her attempts to seem intelligent are also miserable. I’ve never seen any of her book club readings, because for me, most of her book recommendations are just airplane reads, but I’ve seen many people say that even when she’s talking about books, it seems scripted and staged. Like someone just gave her a summary and she retells what happened in the book, that’s it. I mean, what intelligence? She never even bothered to take basic acting classes. Her comments about nepotism speak volumes too. During the pandemic she bragged about having dinner reservations and partying with her friends. Her merch is awful. With all her money and resources, she could have made some really good stuff, but why would she?Her small insane fan base will pay 50$ for an ugly white shirt with a caption either way. She’s desperately clinging to anyone who can give her even the smallest amount of fame, her following people and then unfollowing them if they don’t follow back. The way she was clinging to Austin hardcore in July, dragging him away from his fans, when he wanted to interact with them. Her stupid cake for his birthday. Don’t even get me started on how she makes out with her female friends constantly or throws herself on her male costars or short SNL guys. I don’t know why I feel so annoyed and disgusted by her all the time. I swear, this girl spoils my excitement for Austin and his work every fucking time. Nepotism is not always a bad thing, there are talented nepo babies, but she’s like the epitome of everything I hate about nepotism. I don’t know how she can rub shoulders with people who actually have talent, get invited to all these awards and red carpets. Kaia had plenty of time to prove that she’s worth something, she’s been in the industry since she was a child, but no. Why would she prove anything? Her mother is Cindy Crawford, her father is a millionaire worth 400 million, her boyfriend is Austin Butler. I just wish she will go away finally. No matter how hard I try, I can’t warm up to her. Sadly, looking at the state she is now, you can clearly tell that the girl has issues, but sadly,having no brain,she can’t understand that she’s a tragedy about to happen.
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Girl! I wish I could give you an award for this post. You basically hit the nail squarely on the head with the many various reasons why a lot of us in Austin's fandom don't like this girl! I'd be saying the exact same thing if Austin were dating another woman just like this. I'm actually verrry surprised that people haven't called Kaia out on her very obvious clout-chasing by now.
I'll be honest, I never really cared for her even when she was dating Elordi. I don't hate her, she's just meh to me. Always has been. So my thoughts and feelings about her are not about Austin. It's more so about what I've observed about her over the years.
Her dating Austin just makes things even more unbearable though -- especially when you know that he could do so much better. 😩 But hey, it's his life, not mine!
When I realized they were dating however, I really did try to like her too, or at least give her a chance. I saw that Austin was with her, so I was trying to be a "good fan"and see what he may see in her. But last year, I started seeing more and more negative things that I just didn't like about her.
I really don't have much to add to this wonderful post, because you basically touched on the many various reasons why a lot of AB fans don't really care for her. I also think she makes Austin look cheap with her weird behavior and interests. 👀 She really cheapens his brand imo. But that's a topic for another day lol.
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An Shiraishi Mizuki Akiyama
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Left the puroseka fandom in shambles after one of their events
True... We were both like "no this is too much, they wouldn't do it" and then they did it. Irrecoverable damage caused. Nobody does it like my girlies I suppose
#jay rambles.txt#jay gets asks.txt#I think the fallout from Mizu5 is bigger and will last longer though#all things considered we moved on from lutf fairly quickly but rn even imagining what'll be the next event is kinda difficult#the fandom's got tunnel vision and I do mean literally everyone. lutf mostly devastated vbs-adjusted part of it#I don't mean it negatively it's just an observation#the first episode of mizu5 on YouTube has more than triple number of views than Lutf1#and the lutf number - 47k rn and some 25~ ish on release afaik - was absolutely unheard of as is#so this is definitely a new level of devastations afoot#this is very interesting to watch unfold
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how are you?
Honestly I've been better. Thanks for asking!
#have you 3ver just wanted to stop existing? like you wanna be dead but you don't want to kill yourself. that#also I guess I'm a lazy person. so much so that I've been thinking about going the easy route if things don't work out the way I want them#but enough of that. enough depressing thoughts. it's not even noon#ask#anonymous#not art#text#I like saying what I really feel and answer questions truthfully but sometimes it's 'impolite'.#'no I'm not doing good' is not really an answer that's considered polite#I get it that sometimes we ask things out of idk. politeness?#but if you don't want to hear a negative response as much as a positive one just don't ask#I'll never understand social cues. just say what you wanna say and don't make me guess what you might mean#this isn't about you anon don't worry. it's a general observation I have made with interactions I've had in the past
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my thoughts on silver spoon & candle in iii18
#juice.txt#osc#silvercandle neg#ii neg#literally the most classic misogyny ever#motherly perfect wifey woman gets punished the moment she isn't kind and loving and sweet to a man#and i don't wanna hear “she isn't being PUNISHED! it's just the plot; silver didn't mean to hurt her!”#cause he still did#and im well aware that they did not write this with the intention of “mwahaha we're so evil we are going to punish this woman”#they were ignorant to the implications of letting a man hurt a woman to possibly the point of DEATH the moment she stopped coddling him#and those implications are important to observe and address#anyway i fucking hate silvercandle with all of my heart#absolute garbage ship and i will never change my mind on that
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do you also have like. casual suicidal thoughts. like you'll see the littlest details or hear stories abt the most inconsequential things and go "oh haha, that's a thing i can't do because i am simply not built for life itself. i hope i die" and it's like that literally all the time abt everything. or is it just me
#this is NOT a vent just an observation 🧐 and a genuine question.#atp suicidal thoughts aren't even some big grand angsty thing for me. more of a routine. or a reflex#don't get me wrong they're still unbearable but that's only bc i'm alive? bc i mean they exist for a reason#suicide //#negative //#i GUESS
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Man so much happened that I felt like a looot of time has passed since Sunday and now I realise it's only. Tuesday..
And on the other hand apparently its 202"4" not 3? Girl like since when🤨
#I don't mean it either in negative or positive way just an observation💁♀️#and what does that mean? idk
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like genuinely imagine cutting off a song about how you'd fight dragons with your fans and how they were genuinely a essential part of getting you to where you are now, to make space for a song where you tell them to go fuck themselves because they hate your racist boyfriend. something went so wrong along the way of the past couple of years in taylor's brain like I genuinely cannot recognize her any more lmao
#the last part of this post isn't referring to long live being cut. I know it doesn't have a deep meaning. that's just a general observation#like something changed™ in the way this woman see other human beings like. her empathy has gone to a zero#and it's just so frustrating to see this happen when I loved her so#like. I'm stuck here forever. taylor is a permanent fixture in my life#but my god.#but hey. new outfits pretty. or whatever.#tw negativity#or whatever the fuck you guys need me to tag this as so you don't hate me#for being so frustrated with how this entire era is a swifties with common sense hate campaign lol#rambles*
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combatting my same face syndrome by drawing 80s al vs post-lasik al
#no bc like. i know it's the same person#as i draw i Can see the similarities. like you know his Al Features#but they still look so different#im p sure it's just like#cheek bones#bc al's cheekbones weren't as prominent in the 80s and 90s pre-lasik#also the glasses i think??#his glasses makes his eyes look bigger methinks#also i think his shorter hair made his face look smaller/shorter#bc in the 80s his hair was. Big but Short#post-lasik his hair was not as big (still big but not as much)#and like i think the length makes his face look longer#i mean none of this negatively im just noticing things as i sketch#because i AM fighting the hard fight against same face syndrome unfortunately </3#sorry if this comes off as being weird about him i don't mean that#i just like observing things#vex rambles#weird al yankovic
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Sometimes I want to rant about something small and criticise something I don't have strong opinions about but I also know people have really strong opinions about this (and I don't blame them I can understand them problem is not this) and they are sometimes reply my post (again no problems I love people sharing their opinions to me I have no judgement) but think is they are very angry and I am not and I actually enjoy it and actually we are not in same frequency in our rant here.
Tldr I wanna rant sometimes about small things complain a little and it turns into immediately super negative place while I was mostly not caring soo I can't complain about small things :(
#i feel like comic fans are sometimes so angru and i realised this affects me#like i was fine before not going into comic places i was not a famdom girl for years then i decided to explore#and even lurking it is so so negative#now here i started to post and everything became normal again like i love my mutuals people i follow talking with strangers etc.#even sharing our negative and conflicted opinions make me feel not insane but actually a normal person discussing things#like this person hates my fave okay its normal#but then some topics just creates negativity and i dont want this i also discuss it in normal level without strong feelings#and i can understand strong feelings and i also don't blame people for being ranty in my posts#its absolutely not your prinlem#but also it is not what i wanted kinda#like i dont have that stromg opinions about krakoa anymore i used to be hater but i am enjoying now#but if i write something negative then people who hate it despite it also will come maybe#and i don't blame them i can understand but also i want to continue my media feeling normal about it#sooo i cant rant#without lo pointing this rant is neural and i actually don't feel that strongly#like krakoa kinda sucks hehe post is not means i am going to mail bombs to some men it means just hehe my observation still enjoying tho#but then it turns into so so negative place#oh not my mutuals or people i already talked about things tho like we already talked so being negative don't affect me#because we also be positive together#sorry sorry for long long posts
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Today a coworker of mine said that I "look like one of those Japanese anime girls" and I still haven't figured out whether it was a positive thing in his mind or he meant it in a derogatory way. 😅
#about feyna#or maybe it was just a completely neutral observation idk#he tends to be quite blunt and without much of a filter#and it isn't the first time he has something to say on how i look#he has remarked several times on my long hair#and the fact i often wear it in a plait#'you don't really see girls styling their hair this way anymore these days'#which... yeah okay you're right but does it mean you like it or not??#and there was also that time i apologized for being in the way and he sort of... chuckled and said#'how can you possibly be in the way you're so slim'#which once again... is my being slim a positive thing?? does that mean he thinks i'm *too* slim??#(I'm definitely not btw -- in truth I can hardly be called slim -- but mileages can vary after all)#anyway i cannot understand whether these comments are positive or negative or (most likely) don't actually carry any implication#but are just completely neutral factual observations of what he sees#and trying to sort it out is driving me crazy#...of course i *had* to get a crush on a guy who says this sort of stuff 🙄#I bet I would just register all these just as neutral statements (they most likely are) and move on if it weren't for this
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Sometimes Sam's side profile is too thin, non existent cheeks, very caved in, also his mouth area looks old, idk there is just something about late seasons Sam that is really unattractive to me, but like s1-6 he looks great, infact s4 and s5a Sam are like peak man hotness to me.
#Again its so weird#To think so much of it#I find it very annoying to say something negative about looks#Obvs i don't mean anything negative its just an observation but thst in itself is weird#Hmm wasn't i bullying him for his fugly hair and flat cheeks and naking me dry for months rfghht#Sam bullying
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Let's talk about zoo animal welfare for a second...
(And I want to preface this by saying I have a 4 year Bachelor degree in Animal Science (focusing in welfare and behaviour with a major in Canine and Equine Science) before I got sidetracked into zoo animals and did 3 internships working with wild canids, ungulates and marine mammals - this involved both hands on behaviour modification/desenitisation as well as hands off behavioural observation and welfare study. I worked for 2 years as a marine mammal specialist and worked specifically in facilities to improve husbandry, behavioural training and welfare practises.
I also worked in a facility in the Asia Pacific, working to improve welfare standards for bottlenose dolphins and continued to work with cetacean welfare researchers after this. I also did a course in zoo management, husbandry and welfare and this involved working in an accredited zoo facility learning things like exhibit design, behaviour management and husbandry with multiple species.)
So a few points to say about zoo animal welfare when discussing zoo standards and practises:
The average person does not have the expertise to do behaviour observation and welfare evaluation in zoo animals - that's why when the general public visits a zoo and says "the animal looks sad" it's worth being skeptical of that claim. But it doesn't mean a gut feeling about a zoo's quality can be completely invalid. Just that it might be worth researching further or seeking more information.
However, with experience, it is possible to analyse behaviour in the context of welfare. And context to that behaviour is always important (for example, Moo Deng showing stress related behaviour towards the specific context of being touched or followed around by her keeper - very much an indication of poor handling practises)
Poor animal husbandry and welfare is not limited to specific countries or regions, however it can be more normalised and accepted under the influnce of cultures and laws. Or even just the culture of the zoo itself such as the "this is the way we've always done it" places.
Being an accredited zoo is a start to good welfare, but it doesn't make any sort of welfare concern obsolete. And accreditation is supposed to ensure that welfare concerns are addressed but because they are mostly run as a volunteer based organisation, they often don't have resources to check into every concern (unless it's a government funded organisation)
A zoo contributing to conservation research is great, but not if it is at the expense of the animals' welfare - welfare should always be prioritised, with research and conservation efforts to follow.
Welfare is a state that is in flux. So a negative welfare state can move into positive welfare state under different influences.
There are multiple factors that influence zoo animal welfare: enclosure/habitat, expression of natural behaviour, guest interaction, diet, enrichment, water quality, hygeine ect. It'll rarely just be one factor, though it does depend how salient that factor is.
Just because a keeper or management of a zoo have been there for a long time, doesn't mean they can't be criticised - it is possible to be still using outdated practises and believing in methodologies and management practises that need updating - that's the whole point of continued education
Having limited resources can often impact welfare. Giving a facility the resources they need to improve is a good start to improving welfare.
Even if an animal is being handled in an inappropriate way for a short time, that doesn't mean that can't have long term implications for welfare eg. if every time your dog jumped on you when you got home and you smacked him in the face once before going on with your day, that doesn't mean that your dog won't learn negative associations with your arrival just because it was one time.
Best practise husbandry of zoo animals involves:
Use of positive reinforcement based voluntary husbandry and health care
All interaction based on choice and voluntary interaction that is reinforced with primary reinforcement such as food
Mostly hands off approaches for the species that require them (ungulates, large primates, large carnivores)
Relatively stable social groups with aggression only in specific situations/contexts that are normal for the species
Back areas for animals to rest outside of public view
Species appropriate habitats to meet species specific behaviour requirements
Five freedoms of welfare being met but goes above and beyond the bare minimum
Poor zoo animal husbandry involves animals:
Being forced into anything such as presentations, education programs, medical procedures/gating
Any use of physical punishment such as chasing, slapping, pushing or poking - negative reinforcement such as bull hooks are also fairly outdated in handling species like elephants
Being excessively handled, chased and touched/restrained for no reason (eg. for social media videos)
Showing signs of avoidance and aggression constantly towards their keepers
Have constant conflict happening in their social groups
Are living in enclosures that are not suitable for their specific specific needs - size is only one factor in this. Substrate, habitat design, water quality ect. are also things to consider.
Are too close to the public/at risk from the public
Have no areas to retreat from the public/rest away from potential stressors
Have no enrichment program/no daily enrichment
Those are all flags that there could be some poor welfare happening and that a zoo is not prioritising welfare
Okay there's the ramble of the day done. Feel free to ask questions for further clarification if needed.
#I kind of hate when my posts break containment because it's a full time job trying to explain things to people who think they know better#zoo politics#animal welfare#zoo animal welfare#or want to bend over backwards to justify shitty animal husbandry because of whatever reason
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Astrology notes #3 🎀
Please do not copy or plagerise my work, if you want some of my observations to be included, please mention my username, thx
SYNASTRY EDITION ✨️
🎀 Saturn is what glues two people together, but mostly negative aspects. There are other indications with bad aspects but they aren't strong as ones with saturn. Saturn makes bonds between people to mature more and grow through lessons
Ex. Saturn square Sun can make Sun person seem immature with their actions to Saturn person but at the same time Sun person grows with them
🎀 SN conjunct Sun can make the SN person feel connected to the Sun person (had this more than 5 times and they kept coming back 😭), same thing goes with Vx
🎀 Moon in 8th house is also a huge indicator of connection between two people, the moon person can read the house person very well or vice versa
The time just hit 12:22 PM while editing 😭
🎀 Mercury opposite or square Mercury is a BIG NO NO for me, these two people can't communicate with each other appropriately and the amount of miscommunication is overloaded 😭 (seriously I don't know how any of yall can manage to still have conversations with those people)
🎀 Moon aspects with other one's Moon are huge indicators of soul connections, especially conjunctions. Could possibly mean soulmate connection.
🎀 Asc conjunct Moon means that the Asc person can really treat the Moon person well and fulfill their needs. (This one is the cutest for me)
🎀 Twin flame connections are usually opposites or conjunctions in synastry (can be quincunx too, but I don't really work with that minor aspect)
Ex. Sun opposite Sun, Moon opposite Moon, Mercury quincunx Mercury, etc.
🎀 Uranus aspects to Mars or Venus are indicators of attraction or sudden connection, same as any planet conjunct Dsc or Asc
🎀 Pluto in 6th house is not ideal for for them to do daily routines together as the house person can be really aware and sense a lot of skeptical energy from Pluto person, but it doesn't have to be true IF the Pluto person doesn't have any negative aspects in their NA to Pluto or the house person doesn't have any bad aspects to Pluto in synastry.
🎀 Mars square personal planets is at the same time extremely attractive but deadly as many conflicts might arise 😭 (Can't help it but attract them in my life 🤷🏼♀️)
#astro notes#astrology#astro observations#astroblr#astro#astro community#astro placements#astro posts#astro tumblr#synastry
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Thought of this post when we got to the plot point where it actually was their fault.
imagine trying to destroy the worlds, just so you can live a real life. then you get a chance at life...
then immediately get blamed for the next threat and having to solve it yourself.
all you get is a t-shirt.
(alt with no text because my hand-writing it terrible)
#valkyrie connect#spoilers#i mean#they don't remember creating the observers and takes full responsibility for them#so they get a pass#nothing negative the thought just popped into my head and annoyed me for half a year
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Astrology observations #3
These are my personal observations and should be taken in the context of the whole chart, never isolated 😊
Some of this is 18+, no minors allowed
♦️Mars-Uranus aspects can indicate a liking for risky activities and extreme sports, like motorcycling or base jumping. They can even like to put themselves in danger as they need the adrenaline. Routine is super boring for them, they need to try new things very often. They should be careful to release this nervous energy with sports, work they're passionate about or things like that or it can backfire. This aspect can be tempered down with Saturn aspects or a lot of earth energy in the chart.
♦️Venus square mars aspect: can often be mean to the person they like, classic "if he pulled your hair it's because he likes you" stuff. Can be very passionate, might have difficulty to separate feelings from lust. They might have talent for artistic sports like dancing or ice skating. For women, they might like a more sporty fashion style.
♦️Sun-saturn aspects: especially for harsh ones, this can really change the expression of the sun sign. I know someone with sun and several planets in Leo, but they are all square to Saturn and you could never tell she's a Leo; she is very reserved, shy and restrained in life. But as with all Saturn aspects this can change with age, the personality coming through more and more while keeping an amazing sense of discipline, wisdom and grounding.
♦️Moon-uranus aspects: with harsh aspects (conjunction, square, opposition), the mother might have been emotionally cold during the childhood, and she might have been a bit erratic and unpredictable. This could have showed up as frequently moving places, or having a mother considered weird or crazy by society. With soft aspects like trine or sextile this could show up as an untraditional family, maybe having two fathers or two mothers, or parents very into technology, but this was not hard on the person and it helped them develop their individuality and independence.
♦️Taurus mercury: these people can learn much slower than other people (this does not mean they are not as intelligent, their rhythm is just different). At school they might have felt behind their schoolmates or felt like they didn't have enough time to finish their exams/homework. It is important that they don't feel bad about this and take the time they need to do their work. This might be less strong with Uranus influence on mercury. ♦️ Aquarius moon natals and their need to always read and watch self-development content without ever actually feeling their feelings 🙃
♦️ Venus conjunct moon: these people are so kind, they have such a big heart and do not wish harm on anyone, please stay mindful of who has access to you as many people might want to be in contact with this energy but sometimes also energy vampires.
♦️ Mercury conjunct/square pluto and their dark humor! I have this in my chart and one of my colleagues actually said to me three days after she started: "your jokes can be really dark sometimes" 😂 it gets worse when I'm tired as I don't filter my jokes so much before saying them. These aspects might also think a lot about death and dark themes, they can be the type to think "what happens if I die tomorrow", or "I could die if I do this" but not in a worried way, just thinking rationally about what is possible.
♦️ Leo mars women and their secret backup plan of becoming a stripper or an exotic dancer 💃 these women often have a talent for dancing, and performing can make them feel desired and confident.
♦️ Aries moon/mars placements and their road rage! Both my parents have these placements and my god the number of stressful rides to school I had when I was a child 😂 this can also apply to the other fire mars.
♦️ Lilith conjunct ascendant: these people often provoke reactions everywhere they go, they rarely go unnoticed whether it is positive reactions or negative. The women with this aspect might get sexualised a lot, and the men with this aspect might attract animosity from other men. ♦️ Sun-jupiter and moon-jupiter aspects: they might always see the bright side of things, "it will get better", "this is temporary", seeing the glass half-full. A lot of optimism, faith in a higher meaning, maybe too optimistic sometimes and too trusting that things will unfold in the right way.
♦️Mars square pluto women often attract creepy men on the street, interactions with aggressive men might be unfortunately common. It is important to not repress their anger and channel their power in something like martial arts.
♦️Gemini moon/IC: they might love to talk with their loved ones at home, a lot of communication and learning in their private life. If they live alone they might be a lot on the phone or always have music or tv or radio on.
♦️Mercury square saturn: they might doubt their intellectual abilities when young, their learning style might not fit the classic school system. It is important that they are encouraged by their family, and with time they will gain confidence and master the learning techniques that fit them best.
♦️Mars in virgo might care too much about pleasing their partner in bed and have a hard time receiving pleasure without giving anything. They might also feel self-conscious if they do not feel "clean" like not fresh out of the shower. It is important for them to practice letting go of their thoughts and doubts and be present in their body. They deserve pleasure as much as everybody else!
♦️ Jupiter in the 2nd house might have a very good self-esteem, if the moon and venus are not too afflicted. And if it is the case it helps the native deal with the harder aspects.
♦️ That's why it is so dangerous to interpret an aspect in isolation of the rest of the chart, a challenging aspect might be very beneficial in a chart and less in another one. For instance moon conjunct saturn might be more challenging for a Capricorn moon which is already quite controled and closed off, but in the sign of Aries it might help the native tame their impulsivity and control better their emotions.
♦️ Or moon square Uranus might be beneficial for a Capricorn moon or a Taurus moon as it might help them break out of their routine and become more adaptable and flexible to change.
Thank you for reading!
@lunaa007
#astro notes#astro observations#astro placements#astrology#astro posts#jupiter#pluto#uranus#planets#Jupiter in the 2nd#mars uranus#mars in virgo#mercury square saturn#gemini moon#gemini ic#mars square pluto#sun jupiter#moon jupiter#lilith#lilith conjunct ascendant#aries moon#aries mars#leo mars#mercury pluto#mercury conjunct pluto#Aquarius moon#taurus mercury#venus conjunct moon#venus square mars#sun saturn
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Shame
this is a rather personal piece; it's primarily based on my own struggles
It probably could've been executed better (like having more of the interaction she's agonizing over), but I really wanted to focus on that visceral reaction of shame, guilt, and self-criticism
here's a long ramble I wrote while starting this ...
I realize, perhaps much of the reason certain depictions of moon trigger me so much is due to my own overwhelming shame and guilt. It's a defense mechanism crafted because I yet lack the strength to accept myself. I suppose that's why characters like Five Pebbles are so appealing to me — he is someone I've given the room to express his faults, his flaws, his hatred, his despair, his pain, and all his imperfections... For him to be mean or angry is natural and expected, so it's not as scary to express my negative feelings with him as the instrument. He's not a "good person", after all, so it's fine if he is "bad." His standards aren't as high.
Conversely, because I idealize LTTM so much and connect her to myself, I deny her the same things I deny myself. I do it without even thinking, really...
I've often thought, "but this sort of emotion doesn't really suit her... isn't this sort of projection too self-indulgent? If I made this, it'd be too obvious that my own emotions are bleeding through onto the canvas..."
So, I wonder if she's experienced that same sort of emotional repression. It'd be cathartic, in an unfortunate way. To see someone else struggle to grapple with such things, because they want to be pure and virtuous and not upset others...
It's harder when you spend so much time shaping that perfect, faultless, virtuous sort of image, especially when you do it reflexively. Unconsciously. You're making the pressure for yourself worse, but you can't stop... I'm actually not a very friendly person. I'm actually quite afraid and irritable, and I push people away when they get too close. I don't want to hurt anyone, and I don't want anyone to hate me... I don't want to cause suffering or strife. Sometimes, I wish I could just be a completely passive observer.
But I suppose I'm a human being instead, so I have to accept that. Thanks for reading, I guess. I'm not really looking for emotional support here... I just want to be understood.
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