#I am the eldest daughter
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#Hell to the no#I didnt want to have kids when I was a kid#The idea of bringing life onto this planet makes me physically ill#I was never meant to be a parent#I am the eldest daughter#I've been there done that and it was Hell#Not to mention our planet is dying and we are in the sixth mass extinction with humans along with it#Look around you for 10 minutes and tell me its a good idea to bring more life to this hellscape
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Some Batfam Headcanons because the brain never stops;
Jason hates being called "Bruce's Son". But he hates it more when hes called "One of Wayne's Orphans/Wayne's child" because fuck you I'm his son-! wait no--
With the exception of Damian, they rarely refer to Bruce as "Dad/Father". Either it didn't occur to them/didn't see the need to/thought it would be strange. But when Dick/Jason/Tim/Cass are tired or injured it might slip out. And Bruce might just crumble a bit at it
Doesn't mean they don't say it to their siblings when Bruce is out of Earshot.
"Dad said you couldn't." "What do you mean Dad said I couldn't use that mug? It's my mug!" "You snooze you lose Timmy Boy-" "Jason don't be an asshole-"
That being said Bruce says "son/daughter/child" at every available opportunity he can after he knows that they have acclimated enough that they wouldn't be uncomfortable/know they can tell Bruce that they don't want to be called that.
First time Bruce called Dick "son" in a way that meant "You are my kid" and not in a "This police officer just called me son with a brow furrow" way Dick grinned and carried on with the conversation. Later he wondered if his dad wouldn't like someone else calling him Son; but Dick thinks about the life he was given because of Bruce and thinks maybe his dad wouldn't mind.
Calling Jason "son" is a hit or miss situation, even before he died. The first time it happened he was confused, he didnt think that was the relationship they had and it made everything change for him. He got frustrated--not angry--with himself and Bruce at this sudden emotional turmoil. Wasn't he just the kid Bruce picked up in an alleyway? Wasn't he just some street rat in bright Robin clothing? (He lets himself believe that he can be Bruce's son. If for only a little while).
Tim cries after Bruce is out of earshot, it would've been a year or so after his parents died and he was adopted. He didn't think he could have been wanted like that again. Even if you think the Drake's had A+ Parenting or not, I don't think he would have gotten a lot of confirmation of being wanted otherwise.
Cass smiles, emotions carefully concealed under her expression. She's grateful she found Bruce and he doesn't mention it if she leans a bit closer in a request for closeness.
Damian doesn't expect anything less, he only appears satisfied. But also relieved that he has gotten the confirmation that yes, Bruce wants and accepts him.
EDIT 10/11; hiii, i have added Duke, Steph & a Bonus in a reblog you can find on the same blog under my 'batfamily headcanons' / 'sore rambles' tag. have fun :)
#these are just my thoughts#they dont have to align with your own!#i am also trying to find a healthy balance between being emotional and being Angry for jason--#he wasnt the angry robin dammit! maybe emotional and a bit more physical but cmon#points at Dick 'Eldest Daughter Syndrome' Grayson#when dick gets older i would imagine that he would resent being called anything in relation to bruce#if its just for his angst phase when he first becomes nightwing or if hes dealing with his own identity/or going through a fight w bruce#i also find the father / son dynamic with dick & damian interesting so i might ponder on that a bit more#also giving tim insecurity issues about where he fits in with the batfam is important to my soul (i have problems)#sore rambles#lotuspowder rambles#batfam#dcu#bruce wayne#dick grayson#jason todd#tim drake#cassandra cain#damian wayne#batfam headcanons#dc headcanon#headcanon#batkids#batkids headcanon#HI IF YOURE LOOKI
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i want to scream. and then i hate myself for wanting anything at all.
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Would you rather have a twink dad or lesbian daughter
#I have a big crush on chilchuck’s lesbian eldest daughter#I too am the eldest daughter mayjack we have so much in common#listen I haven’t gotten too far into dunmesh yet I dunno if they ever show what his wife looks like#doing on reverse genetics on anime characters#dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#chilchuck#chilchack#which is it I’ve seen it written as both#fullertom#packpatty#digital art#my art#commissions open#doodle#i just saw anime clips and heard his voice for the first time in both of them and I dunno man 😭#whole time I’ve been hearing it as a more tenor grown man voice ya know???#artists on tumblr#procreate#dungeon meshi fanart#delicious in dungeon fanart
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How do we forgive ourselves for the things we did not become? How do we live with ourselves after things don’t go right? How can find peace after the plan has been mucked up? How can we?
#as the eldest daughter I always felt so sure#I put aside my confusion and my doubt to light the way for my younger siblings#I had to be sure because often my younger sisters needed direction#in doing that#have I lost myself?#i don’t know if I have created a false sense of direction based on the things I have tried to be for my sisters#I don’t know if what I’m doing is right#but I can’t tell them that#I can’t let my baby sisters know that I am confused and afraid#that I am afraid for what comes next?#I am the eldest daughter#I must uphold the standards of the life they thought I should have#there should be no deviating from what is right because I have an example to set#I must do things right so my baby sisters have a path that is lit#so they know where to go
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touya todoroki embodied the profound eldest daughter pain in every single way. the vigilance of not giving in to the love you’re finally offered too late because it feels like a betrayal to the pain your younger self has felt and carried forever…..vs the screaming, wailing, childlike ache at the mere thought that the ones you always begged for attention have finally looked your way, and the misery it took to get there…..the mental image of the child you were when you finally broke, recognizing that that part of you has never really gone away……and then his final scene…the guilt of leaving your innocent younger sibling behind in all the terror so that you can seek out what YOU need, likely to their detriment….the pain of knowing you harbored hatred toward them because they were beloved when you were not….and coming to understand that they, too, suffered, even if it didn’t look the same, and that now you’ve contributed to that suffering, and what does that make you?…..god i will never ever ever recover from him. he carried too much, too long, just like all of us.
#whew! that shit hurted!#i am in profound pain :)#eldest daughter trauma anyone????#toya todoroki#touya todoroki#mha#bnha#my hero academia#boku no hero academia#mha touya#bnha touya#mha dabi#bnha dabi#dabi todoroki#dabi#eldest daughter
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#eldest daughter#eldest child#desi#desi teen#desiblr#feels like my brother hates me#why am i so shitty#cant i be happier#smth is wrong w me lmao
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#i am so normal about him#rarl posting on main sorry#ron anderson#twd#the walking dead#text post meme#carl grimes#rarl#hes so eldest daughter coded#my beautiful disorded princess
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The fact that shiro fucked up so bad at parenting that both rin AND yukio are victims of parentification is so crazy
#Ive said this before but i think shiro did the best he could considering her own childhood#But holy shit dude how do you fuck up that bad#That both of his kids are jealous of eachother and their relationship with him#The difference is that shiro had an active role and yukio's trauma but an inactive role for rin#Idk how to explain this but rin has really strong eldest daughter vibes to me#This is why hes haru no noroi natsuki coded#Nobody liked that post but i will not be silenced#Its also important that both twins are just like....wrong about eachother#'You got to know him as your dad and grow up normally'#No he didnt yukio shiro spent all his time with u and rin was busy fighting thugs for your honor#'You got to actually know our father'#rin yukio spent the majority of his childhood feeling like if he didnt grow up as fast as possible you were gonna be killed#Thats a lot to put on a 7 yr old#Also just to be clear im not like...compairing their traumas#Well i am but i mean like saying one is worse than the other#okumura twins#blue exorcist#ao no exorcist#yukio okumura#rin okumura#shiro fujimoto
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Lando and Penelope being best friends sounds like something out of fan fiction but it's 100% true. They really grew up together 🥲
Like something something championship rivalry, blah blah norstappen divorce but Max really spent the season defending Lando and their friendship above all else, to the point his "bonus" child clings to Lando because she feels so safe around him, pls don't tell me Max hasn't taken alll the wounds of his childhood and turned into something golden for this little girl.
#formula 1#lando norris#max verstappen#norstappen#like MV realllllllllllllly said I am the eldest daughter and I will be breaking the generational trauma for my bloodline#golden boy#and dont even get me started on Lando#our resident arrogant dude bro pal dickhead#who literally is one of the only other driver's that this kid interacts with#they're building a family in monaco#a town littered with bitterness and friends turned enemies#these two really said we're going to live our childhood dreams#and it will be hard and competitive#but we'll be damned if we let the poison drip through#not on our fucking watch
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Not me imagining my life as a single mother every time my period is a day late.
(I have never even held hands with a man)
#no but what am i even panicking for-#it's like i forget what biology is#desi tumblr#desi shit posting#desiblr#desi romantic academia#period cramps#periods#desi humor#desi girl#desi#desi academia#spilled ink#artists on tumblr#writers on tumblr#desi blr#desi blog#being desi#desi dark academia#im just a girl#this is what makes us girls#just girly things#tumblr girls#girl problems#girlhood#girlblogging#desi daughter#desi eldest daughter#desi household#posts
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I'm trying really hard not to just be The Complainer because that's an energy I don't want to bring here when I love (present tense; I rewatch it like 5 times a day) arcane season 1 so much but does anyone remember when powder was taken in by silco and being raised by this very utilitarian merciless 'the ends justify the means' type character made jinx turn out violent and merciless as well. and vi was horrified by her and the lanes were terrified of her and piltover was falling over itself trying to scapegoat her as the one bad apple of the undercity to kid themselves into believing that everyone else was perfectly fine with being treated as less than. and that contrasts vi after vander etc. died because she was raised by him and internalised the idea that no one wins in war and fighting back against systemic oppression isn't worth the damage it causes to your own community which is why she ended up working with cait and the council like vander worked with grayson. the people who raised them shaped them into who they are today but then in season 2 jinx has a daughter and she's suddenly completely normal and well adjusted and her attachment style isn't digging her nails in until she draws blood at all. like What. what happened. didn't things used to mean something
#arcane#arcane critical#powder was raised by vi more than vander#she barely spoke to him#and powder always cared more about vi's reaction than the dead parents on the ground 2 feet away from her#which does a lot to explain 'I am the monster you created' when season 1 was so heavy on children being shaped by their parents#vi did eldest daughter syndrome too hard. vander told her it was her fault if things went wrong and then most of her family died#vi having a momentary bad reaction to her little sister causing all of this and realising that vander was right about violence#because she's so used to it that she just hit powder in the face and made her nose bleed and it seeped into every aspect of her life#and needing to step away for a moment and just feel and cry and be a child#ruined everything and it's always framed as her 'abandoning' powder (which I understand how powder would see it that way#because I'm such a youngest sister that's my first thought too. I have to remind myself that's Not What's Happening. also powder has bpd#she demonstrably cannot handle what she perceives as rejection or abandonment or betrayal or the truth being withheld)#vi has to do So Much. why is everything her fault. I so adore how much she wants to look after powder because of course she does#but jinx isn't seven anymore. she doesn't want to be treated like the helpless little girl she was that day. she's an adult#she had to nuke the council for vi to understand that she isn't the same anymore#and she's responsible for her own actions#ITS ALL SO GOOD ITS SOSOSOSO GOOD I LOVE SISTERS#*correction: I believe jinx is vaguely a teenager in s1. not an adult (being imprisoned by piltover would be as wrong as when she was 7)#but not vi's kid sister anymore either
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When ghar ki badi beti meets nobody because usko kahi jane ki permission hi nahi hai.
#sari life to mummy papa se permission lene aur milne me hi nikal gayi#phir bhi I'm tagged as irresponsible#koi to hoga jiske sath I won't feel just “ghar ki badi beti”#i want to feel as a person#i want to feel as myself#i don't know who i am#desi#being desi#just desi things#desi shit posting#desi poetry#desi problems#desiblr#desi academia#desi aesthetic#desi core#desi dark academia#desi light academia#desi literature#desi blr#desi chaotic academia#desi blog#eldest daughter bante bante thak gayi hun#eldest sibling#eldest daughter#pyaari naari pyaari baatein kaise kare?
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web-weaving — eldest daughter syndrome
Repose – John Singer Sargent // Eldest Daughter – Isabel Pless // Old Soul – The Highwomen // I Miss Her and I Blame You – MALINDA // Goodbye – MARINA // Surface Pressure – Encanto
Violet Sargent – John Singer Sargent // Study for Carnation, Lily, Lily, Rose – John Singer Sargent // My Ego Dies at the End – Jensen McRae // You're On Your Own, Kid – Taylor Swift // The Hardest Part – Bre Kennedy and Hadley Kennary// Older Than I Am – Lennon Stella // seven – Taylor Swift
The Black Brook – John Singer Sargent // Eldest Daughter – Isabel Pless // 26 – Carol Ades // Eldest Daughter – Isabel Pless // You're Losing Me – Taylor Swift // champagne problems – Taylor Swift
Girl with a Sickle – John Singer Sargent // The Breakfast Table – John Singer Sargent // Surface Pressure – Encanto // Older Than I Am – Lennon Stella // Control – Bre Kennedy // Surface Pressure – Encanto // Old Soul – The Highwomen
A Dinner Table at Night – John Singer Sargent // this is me trying – Taylor Swift // Let the Rain – Sara Bareilles // The Hardest Part – Bre Kennedy and Hadley Kennary // Half Truths – JOSEPH // this is me trying – Taylor Swift
#hi y’all! it’s my birthday today!! 🥰#to celebrate i decided to do a web weave of lyrics that really resonate with me#i ended up theming is around the concept of eldest daughter syndrome bc i am an eldest daughter lmao#but that was really more just so there was a coherent them rather than just ‘a bunch of random shit that charlotte likes’#so uh yeah anyway — i hope you enjoy!!#eldest daughter#eldest sibling#eldest child#eldest daughter syndrome#john singer sargent#isabel pless#the highwomen#malinda#marina#surface pressure#jensen mcrae#bre kennedy#lennon stella#taylor swift#carol ades#sara bareilles#joseph#web weaving#web weave#art#art history#lyrics#lyric art
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Miguel is so you outgrew our little neighbourhood coded. So very we always knew it would be you. Big fish in a small pond, with even bigger ideas. Destined for the ocean. So, we knew you would be the one. we knew you would outgrow the shit and stink, why won't you let us celebrate you? He's so, stop looking back because we are too far gone. covered in the stench and you were meant to rise above it. every one of us grew into skeletons laid out like bear traps and you were the only one that grew out of it. out of sharp ribs and crooked spines. grew up. thinking about him getting that place in the academy, getting that job at alchemex and feeling on top of the world. And looking at all the little people, all the ghosts and ghouls who couldn't make it. yeah.
#miguel o'hara#miguel o'hara x reader#across the spiderverse#writing a fic about this#this is also so very eldest immigrant daughter coded#so i am projecting hard as usual
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i’m the black swan…
#black swan#eldest daughter#coquette#hell is a teenage girl#manic pixie dream girl#youngest daughter#this is a girlblog#girl blogger#this is what makes us girls#girlblog#girl interrupted syndrome#female hysteria#girl blogging#white swan#girlblogging#aesthetic#mad girl#i am just a girl#delusional girl#autistic girl#lana del rey#sensitive girl#not my pic#not my pics#cinnamon girl#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#tag yourself#rose quartz#this what makes us girls#girlhood
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