#I am just tired and mentally drained
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And what evidence of harassment do you have? Everything you’ve ever reblogged is from the people who harassed the big blogs themselves, insulted them needlessly, or has been proven otherwise to be someone spreading lies and twisting the truth because they refuse to post anything against their own personal opinion. All your harassment evidence relating to the doc is just harassment made towards THEM with the occasional unrelated actual harassment evidence.
Most of the supposed victims of the big blogs even claim they’ve gotten NO harassment since the doc dropped. At most, one person said they thought of self harming. THOUGHT of it, but didn’t.
I exclude Lux from this as he brought what’s happening to him on himself by mentioning being on a callout doc before and causing people unrelated to what originally happened with his victims and the big blogs look for it. Literally, when I first saw him say that all it took was a single google search of “ShatteredSparks” and “callout” to bring up the original doc of the grooming allegations posted to tumblr immediately. It isn’t hard to find.
But somehow everyone wants to blame the big blogs for that getting around again (when the members of Alex’s crew weren’t even the first people to reblog it, it was fandom minors) as well as the new doc with more evidence and the persistence of Lux’s victims.
I want to start off by saying there is a difference between venting, callouts and harassment.
I say it’s a false harassment document not because the big blogs weren’t being harassed, but because the people who they are claiming were harassing them, were venting and calling them out.
Second off, it’s rather lucky that most of the victims that were initially named, dropped by them in the false harassment document haven’t gotten harassment. I do suspect it’s because 4 individuals have spoken out against the effects (the minor who nearly self harmed the day it dropped, Another person mentioned in the document immediately called out how they falsely accused people who had barely any to no interaction with them as harassers, not to mention two people admitted to contemplating taking their own lives.)
Of the posts I have re-blogged, most of them are either venting about how the big blogs were acting, and how they got away with attempting to send a harassment to people much smaller than them, but also the false inclusion of people.
Not to mention there have been people who associated with the people mention in the document that have gotten harassed. It was quickly shut down, but it does not change the fact that the document did lead to people targeting others.
And again, I know about that document. But for both the sake of consistency with the purpose of this blog and my mental health, it is not being included. I have mentioned this earlier.
And I never said Alex’s crew were the ones to cause that document to spread. If you could tell me where I implied that I am willing to correct it, but to my memory, I never said that they are at fault for it spreading.
#exposing the truth#sams#sun and moon show#the sun and moon show#tsams#tlaes#laes#the lunar and earth show#serious talk#I do apologize if I’m coming off harsh here#I am just tired and mentally drained
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When these tears finally dry I will no longer open up , I will no longer share my feelings or make it known that I even have them . If it means I have to rip out some part of me I will do so .
#tw depressing stuff#mentally exhausted#im sad as fuck#im just tired#tw depressing thoughts#sad thoughts#i am drained#depressing life
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What is it like for things to be different and good and complete and so so resolute and being content with yourself?
#borderline personality disorder#bpd#actually bpd#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#spilled ink#3am thoughts#adhd problems#adhd brain#adhd things#bpd problems#fuck you bitch#bpd triggers#vent blog#adhd#actually adhd#i am so tired#mentally drained#i feel so drained#emotionally drained#fucked up#we are so fucked#can i just die
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#depressing shit#hell is a teenage girl#i am so tired#i am just a girl#mentally exhausted#mentally fucked#pls help#tw depressing thoughts#school#devil may cry#sad thoughts#hot as hell#not happy#bad day#artists on tumblr#like#lana del rey#girlblogging#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#girlhood#feminine sissy#feminine urge#nostalgia#screaming crying throwing up#moodboard#help#this is what makes us girls#im crying#screaming#brain drain
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#it's so mentally draining nd taxing for me to live w my family...#they are never considerate towards me and always treat me like a bother#even after my surgery my sisters kept making sure i knew i was a burden and took up too much space#i could tell how sick my mom is of me too#it's just so exhausting#bc like now when i only slept 3hrs bc of tooth pain nd then couldnt sleep more#nd now still have tooth pain nd im rlly tired nd need to wake up early tmrw to call the dentist#my mom nd sister r in the living room watching tv#so i asked if they could plz be mindful of the volume#nd they sighed nd rolled their eyes nd said yeah yeah whatever#like im an awful demanding person for even daring to ask them this#it's just not fun to have to deal w constantly#sorry im in pain nd i wanna try to sleep as much as i can but i cant even try when i can hear u laugh nd talk etc etc#just rathet be alone :((#but yeah idek if i'll be able to sleep bc the pain isnt fun#im trying to just breathe nd accept that it is there nd that hopefully the dentist can help T-T#am i bad for wishing to be shown consideration nd sympathy? sometimes i even wanf them to feel sorry for me
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Dread be dreading
#ughg#i usually have awful thoughts randomly popping up here or there#make me pretty anxious for a few days then i won't think about them for a while#but man i can't handle doubts suddenly resurfacing#like this monday i was listening to my last lecture and everything bad i cooked up a in the past few months hit me like a truck#couldn't even focus i was too busy internally chanting shit fuck i don't want this i made a huge mistake shit shit#i won't be able to handle all this responsibility i'm so tired this will butcher my mental health should have chosen media studies fuuuck#what was i thinking what am i gonna do help#then proceeded to distract myself with an electric outlet otherwise i might have started crying#:/#and those thoughts aren't wrong unfortunately#i love this university and the classes and the things i study#the teachers and my classmates and the kids i got to take care of#but i don't think i could do this for real#i'm not even struggling with anything i'm just scared and tired as hell#and thought i could just. power through it- like if i'm stubborn enough it won't matter that it's draining#but damn#and hell originally i came here because i wanted to teach english to kids#i guess my expectations were too high i don't feel like i've learned anything that useful this far#and turns out it won't get better#we just gonna do presentations again#to be fair i loved researching nursery rhymes but i hoped we would have... more. of that#also about media studies. chief... i crave to be there#could have picked the english specialization there too- i'm a moron. a bozo. holy shit#well. gonna go through this semester either way. because again everything i study here (almost everything) is genuinely great and useful#and perhaps i'm just in a Pit right now#the dread pit#should probably break this to my sister. somehow#random squeak
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I am so exhuasted.
#Personal blah blah blah#but I am just like...#so mentally drained.#and I'm not getting a chance to recuperate until next weekend at the earliest.#so I apologize if I seem less 'present' for a bit#I'm fine so don't worry about me or anything#I'm just really tired.#Z speaks
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I was in a car for 14 hours because, if anyone is unaware, I recently became aware of the fact that the man who was my father in everything but blood passed away in 2020. I am NC with that side of the family, and for my own physical and emotional safety, I had to cut everyone off. I couldn't chance reaching out and leaving a trail for my abusersers to follow. Not when I already had to change my number three times and move four times just to ensure they couldn't find me.
That didn't mean I couldn't visit his grave, though, and I did. It was. Hard. Seeing his grave made it real. Up until that point, I could tell myself it was a trick or it was the wrong man, until I saw that grave.
But, I spent 14 hours in a car, had to see the grave of someone I loved. Perhaps the only family member on that side I still loved at all. And now I'm once more stuck in insomnia. It's been, 30hours no sleep because my body can't handle stress in any capacity and is now throwing a full blown tantrum.
There's not much of a point to this post. I'm not aiming to garner sympathy or pity. I just needed to talk about it even if no one sees it. I don't like to talk about my issues to people close to me, I don't like to complain. Sometimes, it's easier to let these things out when I'm hiding behind a fake name and a fake face.
#tw: death#death#family death#loss of a loved one#tw: abuse#abuse#tw: child abuse#child abuse#its hinted at least#ill cover all my bases#im like three minutes from a full breakdown#im so tired#not just physically#im tired emotionally and mentally too#just#utterly drained#i really am not looking for pity or sympathy#this isnt even the first death in my life#but it was the most important one#he....was so much to me#honestly most of the time i think he was the only adult in my life that actually loved ME for who i was#he was my safe person i trusted him wo much even when i had been trained by my family's behavior to never trust anyone#he was so good and kind and genuine and wonderful#and ill never get the chance to speak to him again because hes gone#and ill have to live with the guilt of knowing I put that rift between us. im the reason i never got to say goodbye.#im the reason i didnt know he was dead. and i have to live with the guilt of knowing if i was given a second chance id do it all over again#because at the end of the day im always going to value my own mental and physical health over anything else. and thats not going to change#but fuck if i dont wish i couldve sent him a letter or an email or something. he died not even knowing if i was alive or suffering#he deserved so much more than what i left him with. and ill never get a chance to make it right now.
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operation do not cry at my irl bestie’s wedding: FAILED
#kayleigh.txt#if the pets didn’t need to be watched i would’ve been one of the bridesmaids#she gave me the same giftbag she gave them and so we’re wearing the same jewelry but alas#but yeah uh. i cried. a lot. struggled hiding it lmao#my bestie looks so fucking beautiful and perfect and her now husband immediately started crying when he saw her#honestly same lmfaooo#she made direct eye contact with me when the officiant mentioned that this wouldn’t have been possible without their loving friends and fam#which. didn’t help stop my crying lmfaooo#i’m fine this is fine; the only other wedding i’ve been to was my sister’s and i was one of the bridesmaids so 🤷🏼♀️#i was not emotional at all during that because idgaf about my sister tbqh#she and i stay civil and tolerate each other for the sake of our father but that is it 🤷🏼♀️#good thing i didn’t wear any fucking makeup because it would be ruined 😂#i am going to hang out eat dinner drink wine socialize and dance a bit#hug my bestie and her husband and cry some more probably#and thej hopefully head home before 10pm 😬🤞🏻#the pets need their pm medications and also just like. attention and all that lmao#because i am their petsitter until tomorrow afternoon/evening#also i am chronically ill and mentally ill and tired and in pain from helping set up the venue yesterday#also also i desperately wanna just. vc with friends and play genshin impact/honkai: star rail/fallout 4 🥲👍🏻#my social battery had been drained dry meeting everyone yesterday so today is. difficult
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Now what ? What should I do with this much hurt and betrayal ? How do I go on being kind ?
#tw depressing stuff#im sad as fuck#mentally exhausted#begging for death#im just tired#tw depressing thoughts#sad thoughts#i am drained#depressing life
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me while at work: im gonna write so much when i get home :)
me as soon as i get home:
#🧸; dally speaks#just…… so tired#and mentally drained bc of how burnt out i am at my job :(#sniffles.. cries..
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Can someone explain to me wtf is wrong with this fandom!?
I’m upset and pissed off with some of the community right now and most of us know why. What will it take for everyone to finally stop getting one people’s nerves because “It’s the right thing to do!?”. I have heard and witnessed falling outs due to pity squabbles due to lack of communication and assumptions. Harassment. ARE YOU ALL FOR REAL
there is a thing called “ personal space and respect”, a lot that some have forgotten about apparently.
I’m AT MY FUCKING LIMIT
I rejoined this fandom to finally enjoy something after a long year of bullshit, just to come back and seeing that some of you all are the reason someone’s joys is utterly shattered because some of you ignorant fuckers won’t actually look and see the truth for yourselves and just automatically resort to aggression. OOHHHOHOHO! Buddy you need help!
I’m tired, so fucking tired and burnout and I apologize if this bothers my mutuals.
IM FUCKING DONE. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.
HARASSMENT IS NEVER GIVING YOU WHAT YOU WANT IT SLOWLY DESTROYS SOMEONE FROM THE INSIDE OUT. You don’t like someone? KEEP IT TO YOUR FUCKING SELF AND LET THAT PERSON KNOW YOU ARE NOT COMFTORABLE SEEING THEM ANYMORE AND GO YOUR MERRY WAY ITS NOT THAT FUCKING HARD.
Sigh, I’m tired and so fucking done
#update#rant post#personal rant#IM FURIOUS#ENRAGED#WHEN WILL OTHERS FINALLY LEARN AM I RIGHT!?#im so tired#mentally tired#mentally drained#emotionally drained#emotionally exhausted#just one good thing#i’m done
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#soo blah blah need to vent again abt my health issue situation 💀#yuh so like im so sick nd tired of whats going on. nd not being able to just eat whatever i feel like whenever#it's emotionall draining tbh. im always thinking abt what i could maybe try nd im always like ohh gotta make sure the portion is small etc#it's annoying me sm bc i can def feel the effects of me not getting the right nd enough nutrients nd vitamins etc etc#i get dizzy nd my vision is hazy sometimes. nd im like forgetful bc the other the when i walked home i kept getting lost nd had to walk back#nd forth several times nd i was like ?!?!? what?! i've lived here for 25yrs nd now i just cannot for the life of me rmbr the way#also i am so weak in my body. like carrying even a small amound or books nd groceries nd walking for 30min makes me exhausted#my legs are actually shaking when i get back home nd every step feels like im walking in cement#plus i just wanna be able to go to the gym nd build muscle. but if i dont get enough protein in me i cant build muscles T-T#what else... yeah also i do miss food bc of comfort. like my coffee + chcolate everyday makes me genuinely happy lmao#but i just want the food situation to be normal bc even w veggies im like oh no that is too gas building that is too hard to digest etc etc#it's mentally gruelling to not know how tf to get all the important nutrients!! i def have several deficiences lmao :((#im so over it. but theres nothing i can do. i wish i could just not think abt it 24/7 tho#also. im the thinnest i've ever been BUT. i am constantly bloated so i look fkn pregnant. so i cant even enjoy looking the skinnier
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i just cried so much because i’m so tired of everything!
#girl blogger#girlblogging#hell is a teenage girl#just girly thoughts#lana del ray aka lizzy grant#lana del rey#girlhood#gaslight gatekeep girlboss#girl thoughts#coquette#mentally drained#emotionally exhausted#stay numb and carry on#madison beer#i am tired#i want to go to bed#ultraviolence#blue banisters#young and beautiful#jennifer check#jennifers body#ariana grande#arianator#bows and ribbons#lana core#lana is god#sleepy#going to bed now#goodnight friends#sleep well
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there are plenty of good parts of me finally having looked into deconversion resources (validation that i'm not alone in my experiences, examining my beliefs to find out where they come from and if they're harmful, developing a healthier mindset and worldview, etc.) and i would make the choice to do so again
however i gotta say the process of deconstructing things i've been taught literally since birth, realizing how fucked up a lot of it is and how much it's harmed me and most of the people i've ever known, and starting to unlearn perspectives and thought patterns that i had never thought to question before is. well. let's just say it feels like dissolving in acid and not being sure yet what parts of me will make it out the other side
like this was absolutely the right choice for me, i know i'm going to be happier and more mentally well once i've actually examined and worked through the ways christianity shaped my mind and thoughts, it's just fucking scary and overwhelming to pull my perspective on reality apart at the seams and rip out the parts that are rotting yknow. especially since it means confronting a lot of shit i didn't realize i was repressing
#pat.txt#personal#not really a vent just me talking#deconversion is. a lot.#it's the right choice but goddamn is there a mental toll#i don't even know what i believe any more#but i do know the only thing keeping me even slightly identifying as christian was fear. and i am so incredibly tired of living in fear#so. ultimately a positive development the process is just gonna Fucking Suck#like a body raising its temperature to burn out a sickness#or cutting into an infected wound to drain the rot and clean it#painful but necessary
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me when it’s the week before my period:
#I’M TIRED OF THIS SHIT!!!#why is this week worse than my period#like as soon as I get my period??? everything’s fine#but that week and a half before??? category five extinction event for my mental health#and I’m so tired and drained and so angry all the damn time#tired of this#anyway#we ball 😤#(I am in tears)#the best part is when you go to the doctors and they’re just like oh well are you eating?#sleeping? you’re a student so you’re probably stressed about exams#so you should be fine there’s nothing really wrong#…thanks doc yeah it’s so normal for me to imagine a world where I don’t exist#it’s so normal for me to lie awake thinking about what would happen if I just peaced out of this mortal plane#haha but yeah I guess I’m stressed about exams!! :P#but ANYWAY I’m fine. I’m okay. don’t worry.#just needed a rant because whew it’s been a day#mini rant warning#vent post#ramblingeyes
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