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Healthy Self-Care Practices for Mind and Body | RHXO Tips
Self-care is a combination of things, from looking after your mind and body to taking time out and enjoying life. You must practice self-care in order to recharge and destress. So, to help you out, here are a few ways you can practice more self-care! Your Diet Eating healthily, or at least improving your diet, is not all about going without all the things you love to eat. It is about making…
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Is that canon!?! Was Machete just really naive/didn't really understand the implications of his relationship to Vasco? Did his mentor ever find out about them or discuss such things with him? I assume bc he didn't have parents, he kinda didn't get educated on sex or anything. Was it a big shock to realize he was "sinning"?
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#eh I was just exaggerating it for comedy because the page was so unintentionally funny and fitting#he might've been a little bit naive but was painfully aware he was in a relationship with a man and that it was forbidden#his mentor was all about asceticism and mortification and extreme self-denial#and had drilled it into his head that practically all romantic feelings let alone sex were foolish and sinful and should be shunned#so his feelings about the whole thing were complicated but in the end Vasco was more important#not to sound corny#but there was a hole in his heart that he had desperately tried to fill with god that never seemed to care about him#and once he got some of that love he had been aching for#from another living person#he had to do what it takes to make room for that in his belief system#how could such a tender fulfilling and healing thing be wrong#answered#anonymous#his mentor did eventually find out about them and wasn't very happy about it#to put it mildly#but by that point Machete had managed to mostly inch his way out from under his heel#he was graduating and getting ordained and wouldn't be going back to Naples#if it were up to him he'd never want to see him again
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#mgs#revolver ocelot#more painting practice bc i cant sleep#him and his stupid triangle tanline#idk if i like the freckles as a permanent thing but you know he's not putting on as much sunscreen as he should#much to think about when you're under self hypnosis. for some reason#every day i think about how long it took before kaz noticed something was up#or if he knew he was doing it from the start or what#idk. idk. so much of that doesnt make sense to me but whatever. whatever!!#id in alt text#like i feel like he couldve just kept up the lie he did it for nine ye-- [i am dragged offstage by a cartoonishly large hook]#mgsv spoilers#for the tags. if anyone cares
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i need to write more for switch eris this is not a drill
as usual im yapping in the tags 💀
#i am a firm switch!eris truther#i just KNOW hes a versatile switch#he could totalllyyyyyy be a mean rough dom#super controlling and kinky like we already KNOW he can conjure fire cuffs and hes deffff good at degrading- etc#but i also could see him as a service top or pleasure dom who can be a lot gentler and focus on praising you#or just pleasuring u in general#but i ALSO see him as like a BRATTY sub like this man is practically BEGGING to be put in his place#he teases and talks back like he's the shit but the next thing u know he's whining and bitching ab how u wont fuck him#BUT I ALSOO see him as like a very gentle or fragile sub when he's exhausted or just not feeling great#beron has pretty much ruined his self esteem and his self preservation in general and i think that deep down he'd thrive#if he was being pampered and praised#like he'd turn into the male version of a pillow princess (as a wlw person i am aware that that id a wlw term but idk how else to describe)#but like he'd gen just want u to take care of him yk?#anyways yea versatile switch eris my beloved#i could take him#(not in a fight)#rose rambling#anyways plsss send sub/switch/dom eris requests i am MORE than willing to oblige#(especially sub eris there is such a painful lack of that and ik he can be one bc he told me himself)#hehe#eris vanserra#eris vanserra x reader#eris vandaddy#eris headcanons#eris vanserra headcanon
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I beg people in the MW to think very carefully when they talk about mental illness and physical disability cause it’s not as straight forward and easy to diagnose/depict as you think…
#it’s less I hate the analysis more so the way people talk about these real mental disorders in really demonizing ways#like there aren’t people who leads normal lives#and are well adjusted with these disorders like only people like them can do shit Jimmy does and it’s in a really fear mongering way like#please be careful with how you handle those subject matter not every bad character needs a reason why some people are just like Jimmy no#no clear diagnosis or if ur gonna pick something you don’t need to be on the apd spectrum to be narcissistic it’s just like I wish people#would understand that like people like him just exist he would not be diagnosed as either in like a clinical setting cause it’s more than#just hitting the boxes plus like it’s stated that Jimmy still choice to do what he was doing#like a big thing with sort of violent apd personalities is they don’t show any regret or remorse at all for these actions and he does it’s#born from self preservation but to this extent to classify he’d have to still not feel anything like it’s just a touchy thing and we are#bordering on the same fear mongering people had about schizophrenia or bpd#like I just feel like he def has something but it’s not named or define for a reason like he practically fits everything and it’s likely i#intentional so you can give him that excuse but it’s likely he’s just like that like some people are cruel with no sort of neurosis like hes#def delusional but sociopaths and psychopaths tend to have a better grip on reality than he does#did and more factors point to himself than anything going on in his head#this is just the psych in me but pls be super careful with how you discuss mental illnesses cause it’s still his choice to do the things he#mouthwashing
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hitting them with the girl beam (+ pre-judgment era beam)
#kuwagami#kitakata sensei#jin kuwana#kuwana jin#yagami takayuki#takayuki yagami#lost judgment#judgment#jichanart#sorry for making this about sensei again... sensei era is so important to me#for the record i dont think she'd smoke in the staff room but that's the pose i wanted to draw#ANYWAY#hard to imagine their canon era selves looking much different#but at least pre-Life Defining Incident there's more wiggle room i think#there's probably something to be said about having them go from visibly feminine to more androg#like it's partly practicality. because do you want to do what they do while having to worry about your clothes or managing long hair? no#but for kuwana i think of it as kind of part of the freedom of self determination after being forcibly ejected from mainstream society#she doesn't have to make herself palatable anymore. no boss to scold her for cutting her hair so short#it's easier to take care of. she likes how it looks. it just makes sense#i reckon she would've gotten more piercings if she could but holds off to have less obviously identifiable features#in case she needs to go on the run#<- also a hc for kuwana in general not just girlkuwana#not sure if that's silly to think especially since he probably has scars and those are ALSO identifiable#ANYWAY enough rambling#kuwana should pull yagami's hair.#reminder to myself to make more girl art of them
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Great news its not my birthday today you know what that means!!!
*puts party hats on all of you* what do you mean thats not traditional of course everyone wears party hats when its not my birthday thats the tradition a-according to who? look I think it's important that as time goes on, we grow and change as a society, staying stuck in the past, never growing, how can we survive that way? we are sharks, move forward, survive, breathe, wear the party hat. Okay now we're going to play the first party game, its called whos the best person in the room you go first, the rules are you gotta tell me why you're the best person I know and why im lucky to have you in my life <3 yeah you gotta, its tradition, you know, with the party hats-everyone knows that on silentstares unbirthday you gotta wear party hats and claim youre the best person i know, if you dont do that is it even my unbirthday? you dont want me to have a sad unbirthday do you? of course not, so chop chop start complimenting yourself <3 <3 <3
#yes actually reblog with compliments about yourself#no self deprecating humor allowed#we're practicing self love today#compliments#compliment#self love#self care#self worth#self healing#love#peace and love and joy#love you#unbirthday#party hats#party time#yeehaw#yoink boink#how many nonsense tags can i add#more than i can think of thats for sure
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also i think people's opinions on what they're comfortable being called or would prefer being called can differ from what they find as acceptable as an umbrella term to describe the experience itself, so saying "would you be comfortable if someone called you specifically a certain label" is MUCH different than "would you be comfortable if someone labeled the experience that you also have as a certain label"
for some, the answers would be the same. for others, they might understand why the umbrella term(s) might differ from their comfort term(s)
#altho again: i really don't care either way personally.#they're all synonyms with slightly different connotations and implications depending on who's using them#also what you consider 'valid' will definitely skew how you feel about umbrella terms and such#if you think endogenic plural systems aren't really multiple/plural/systems/whatever? then you might not want to use the same terms they do#or might prefer umbrella terms that you see as excluding them#if a person uses plural to try and force personhood onto parts that aren't people? that's fucked up#if a person uses system to try and enforce a 'different disordered parts' idea onto headmates that are unique people? that's also fucked up#...idk where i'm going with this. i'm just experiencing feelings.#to me system has a slightly more medical and psychological tone to it#whereas plural is slightly more metaphysical and spiritual#but they both encompass roughly the same idea of more than one 'self' in some form#it's like arguing over whether “beautiful” or “gorgeous” is better. they're synonyms!!#some people might not like one or the other but they're basically the same thing they're practically the same word#why do we caaaaare#why are we lowkey going back to cdd = system and endogenic = plural againnnnn
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playing Astarion's romance and rewatching Vanitas has given me so many vampire writing thoughts--
#important question. in a vampire situation would caleb or molly let the other drink their blood--#it makes me so soft to think about relationships with astar that begin with you trusting him enough to take that step almost immediately#but also. theres just something very compelling to me about the iconic vnc scene where noe nearly begs and. as close as they are.#vanitas looks him in the eye and says if he tries to drink his blood he'll kill him--(the fact that he's saying it for noes sake too#that it seems to be something he truly has no control over. that they're both at risk of lashing out and hurting the other if they're#not careful--)#anyway--#thinking about how so much of molly's power is tied to blood. how in the orders it was a common practice for lucien and the rest of#the blood hunters to mix their blood together and drink it. the way lucien gives cree a necklace with his blood in it#that she considers sacred--#lucien would drink caleb's blood no problem he was already doing that with the tombtakers. no vampirism required--#but I think in something like a vampire situation molly would be more hesitant. more worried about losing control---especially if he#associates all those powers and that hunger with lucien--#I think caleb would probably. try to make deals with people for some of their blood. would probably be starving a lot of the time and#molly would happily help him--#in the reverse. I feel like caleb would probably refuse to let anyone drink his blood. as a matter of holding onto his autonomy--#anyway!! blood hunter orders are very fun I feel like they lend themselves well to these kinds of AUs since they're already#so thematically similar to vampires--#this is just silly self indulgent ramblings I just think vampires are fun
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I have so many thoughts on look back... But I'm gonna let them fester and marinate
#you know it's bad when u look at kyomoto and see yourself but at the same time. ugh#my friend came out of the cinema and we were talking and they mentioned how fujino was too much on kyomoto#and i know that and i saw that but during the montage. where kyomoto was draping a jacket over fujino or when fujino said im back#and kyomoto said welcome home and the way they took care of each other and slept in the same bed and whatnot.#i just. i kinda wanted that. even though i know their dynamic was not very healthy#it wouldve been nice if she got out of art school and became competent at the things she wanted to be and more confident and self reliant#and then they could work together#but. ugh#idk i have had relationships where i was a fangirl and a supporter and practically idolized the other person#and i would've liked it if my fujino didn't let go of my hand#alas#im gonna watch it again#ik a lot of ppl said it got them back into drawing so i really want to feel that too
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feeling like a Whole Person tonight despite feeling so tired that i could pass away. that's always nice! i don't care for the alternative (feeling so tired that i could pass away coupled with wanting to pass away).
#maybe because i've been doing stuff with my hands#had a first GIS class tonight... ditched it because i realized it would be nearly 6 hours long. twice a week.#i literally and physically cannot do that lmao dropping and getting that money back#will have to look at some university extension programs again instead#local community college only has like one gis class that they can barely get anybody to do so it's cancelled more often than not#but been doing some carving and been taking care of my plants#set up some ginger and garlic and yarrow cuttings to sprout#need to get some larger pots my poor little juniper needs a bigger home#and then some aloe and cactus cuttings are ready to get their own spots too :)#and some research on how to make some diy orchid fertilizer#was going to do some coding practice tonight but siiiigh my brain simply cannot hack it#i think i'm still recovering from doing things on saturday#just gonna have to live with that#watching some resident evil playthroughs and piddling about the house#it's nice#oooh and found some good sdr videos today so i'm excited to pick up radio stuff again when i'm less completely wasted#also a couple of very fitting job listings to apply for that pay way more than what i'm getting now#heartening!#prattling about the self
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*picks up various favorite characters from random media and puts them in scenarios together like I'm playing with dolls* what if 10 and bill met
#10 like from dr who i just dont wanna put it in the show tags#dropping the doctor into the events of j3 would be the most self indulgent thing i could ever make#the 10 and bill banter would practically write itself. only thing stopping me is that i would cringe at myself </3#10 and ford interactions too. he has 1 percent more charisma than ford but other than that#he is probably worse.#would just show up. give a melodramatic speech about how dangerous this was. would make ford feel very condescended to.#and then he would blow up the portal and need to deal with the very very messy aftermath of all that#sorry for caring about melodramatic men with ego issues. as if its my fault#alternatively: 10 finding ford right after he fell in the portal. ford cant believe his luck at first#10 gets to feel like a hero for 5 min. but he cant get coordinates right for taking ford home.#cue adventures where 10 shows ford the ropes of interdimensional things. half of it is bad advice. ford would probably be smitten. sorry#it culminates in ford deciding he cant deal with ANOTHER condescending ancient alien with a savior complex. the similarities get to him#it inevitably ends with a messy situationship 'breakup'. they are both too stubborn and sensitive to condesension#oh god. oh fuck. the master and bill teaming up. someone stop me#bill in a human body: heehee hoohoo violence. bill in a body that can regenerate: so youre telling me not even death can stop me?
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#it's funny to tell my psych that I've been struggling with feeling suicidal and angry and hopeless bc of the genocide#and her ultimate advice is to limit my screentime. to disengage from the news. this her caring. this her being well meaning#its why i dont think I'll ever go back to therapy again bc this is the best western mental healthcare has to give#distraction. disengagement.#i have done everything to rebuild myself admist the trauma of more than a decade of abuse#i continue to try to be my best self no matter how much I've lost#i could not change my surroundings entirely so i learned to live with it. i learned to thrive in it.#i cannot escape the world. when it is the world that is choking me i am never able to escape it.#what a difference it would make if i could work with someone who can recognize there is no escape. only feeding hope#i have to practice hope otherwise i will resort to self destruction. i dont want to hurt anyone. i shouldnt lose hope
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you know it's bad when you hit the 30 tag limit
#like shut up i wasn't done#i feel so unbearably hurt and betrayed like how can i be SO. unimportant to him so less of a priority that he's literally organising his#desk instead of talking to me taking five mins to talk to an agent book a ticket in tatkal#i told him i had to be back by 20 even before coming here on like 5th#and ive been reminding hin this everyday since after diwali#still he just. doesn't care?#and im his daughter? am i his daughter? does it even mean anything?????#ive never felt more alienated from my family than today#isn't it sad i don't even expect anything from mom all she does is tries to lighten the mood by making jokes#im so sick of her even the sight of her her voice makes me want to shout at her#i don't do it ofc but still#everyone is so selfish she's so selfish too she's always complaining about how i don't love her how i don't give her a chance#but that she'll stay away from all important thinhs that actually matter to me like what's the point of having a mother then??? i have my#siblings to listen to me i have my friends you i need u to be an adult and fucking help me in real terms#nvmind that path is just hopeless#anyway in tired of my small fucking life and my same small fucking problems and my own fucking self#everything would be okay if i just studied a little bit harder#idk ive been practicing saying it out loud that i can't study more than tui and after seven times i can say it out loud now#without crying or my voice watering#so hopefully it will go well#tho in my experience i never actually get to sya the stuff i practice to say to him because he dominates the convo so early so fast im#left speechless and shocked and on the verge of tears AGAUN#it's fine im calm now#but after crying headache ugh i did not miss u at all going back to storing all breakdowns in a bottle
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STILL wide awake! i did not put down my phone! and now im hungry. so i will not be sleeping tonight ♥️
#purrs#also… im gonna admit it. ive been up for hours cleaning out… my toyhouse accounts. not cleaning them out but cleaning them up. and im so#FUCKING mad at my 18 year old self for giving away characters that meant so much to me to 12 year olds on warriors amino who never finished#their half of the art trade… and now so many of them are like. completely out of my reach and i can never get them back. im trying to ask#for the characters ive been able to find and track them down. which for ppl who actually love and care for them im sure is predatory and#annoying bc it’s like ok you made that choice so live with it. but im so fucking mad at myself and i wish i could undo it. i know it doesn’t#matter bc i don’t do that kind of deviantart stuff anymore but like.. i gave away characters who were so special to me growing up and now so#many of them are like.. on locked / unauthorized toyhouses or deleted or the person already owns them and is never trading them and#imjust so SAD!!!!!! over pixels i know. PULLING AN ALL NIGHTER over pixels. but im so saddddd aughhhhh#delete later#(i also did clean out photos and do practice drivers tests btw. but ive mostly been doing toyhouse stuff)#also im so sad and angry charahub went down and i didn’t even know it and i can’t access my data at allll like so much precious info#on there is gone forever. pain and suffering. also it’s worth naming im not in this to like have the best most expensive whatever designs im#doing this bc i desperately want to salvage every piece of my childhood / adolescence and never let go of anything in my life ever and when#i was 18 i thought i could run away from deeply permanently hurting and betraying a friend by selling all of my characters starting w the#ones they made me and then branching off into baiscally all of them to not make it look like it was just abt them bc i couldn’t bear to be#reminded of what i had done. and now i live with the consequences. in more ways than just the characters obviously. so there’s that#(i had my reasons for doing what i had to do btw. but i will never stop feeling guilty about it or regretting how it must have felt for them#bc we were like best friends and then i turned cold and awful because i didn’t know how to communicate my needs so instead i just shut them#out and didn’t even have the decency to explain why. and it fucking sucked that i did that. lol)#* and still sucks. and i think abt it all the time and try not to talk about it for a lot of reasons but here i am so. lol
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Sometimes, you just need a bath.
#so much more relaxed right now#i wasn't expecting the house hunting process to go so quickly#so i'm a tad overwhelmed#but i know how to practice mindfulness and self-care#hence the bath
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