#Happiness and joy

[realm-of-tas]

Happiness?

I used to seek happiness in one person so intensely that now nothing seems to bring me happiness anymore.

[reginalusus]

Hiya. I just wanted to say that I love all of your Harvey Dent Artwork. He has such a neat design, I adore the broad shoulders and tiny waist. He’s like a dorito

HELP, let it be known that my Harvey will go down in history as 'dorito' Harvey with the slutty waist...

Harvey is an inverted triangle to me and Bruce is a rectangle.

BUT, thank you! <3 I flip-flop on his design sometimes but I'm glad you like him, it means a lot. <3

[omegaphilosophia]

Exploring the Notion: Why a Heaven Might Not Be Ideal

Throughout human history, the concept of a heavenly afterlife has been embraced by various religious and cultural traditions. However, upon closer examination, one may find that the idea of a heaven, as traditionally envisioned, presents certain philosophical and practical challenges. In this thought-provoking blog post, we will explore some compelling reasons why the existence of a heaven, contrary to common belief, may not be as desirable as it initially appears.

Stagnation of Personal Growth: The notion of an eternal paradise, where all desires are fulfilled and suffering is absent, raises concerns about the stagnation of personal growth and development. Human existence is marked by challenges, struggles, and the pursuit of improvement. The absence of adversity and the constant fulfillment of desires might hinder the drive for personal growth, the acquisition of knowledge, and the pursuit of new experiences. It is through overcoming obstacles that we often find meaning and purpose in life.

Loss of Free Will: A fundamental aspect of many conceptions of heaven is the absence of pain, suffering, and moral dilemmas. However, this raises questions about the preservation of free will and individual autonomy. If heaven is a place where everything is predetermined or where individuals are stripped of their ability to make choices, it might lead to a loss of personal agency and genuine human experiences. The freedom to make choices, learn from mistakes, and navigate moral complexities is essential for personal growth and the development of moral character.

The Problem of Selectivity: The concept of heaven often raises concerns about fairness and selectivity. If a heavenly existence is granted only to a chosen few, based on certain criteria or religious affiliations, it can give rise to feelings of exclusion, inequality, and arbitrary judgment. The idea of eternal bliss for some and eternal damnation for others contradicts principles of fairness, justice, and compassion. A heaven that perpetuates divisions and exclusivity may not align with our moral intuitions and desires for a just and inclusive world.

The End of Existential Meaning: The concept of heaven as an eternal paradise can potentially undermine the inherent value and meaning of our finite earthly existence. The recognition of life's impermanence and the limitations it imposes often drives individuals to seek purpose, personal growth, and meaningful connections. The notion of an eternal afterlife might diminish the significance of our earthly pursuits, relationships, and accomplishments, leading to a devaluation of the present moment and the experiences that shape our character.

Compatibility with Human Flourishing: The human experience encompasses a wide range of emotions, challenges, and opportunities for growth. Happiness and fulfillment often arise from overcoming obstacles, forming meaningful connections, and pursuing personal and collective goals. If a heaven were to remove these essential aspects of the human experience, it might hinder our capacity for authentic joy, empathy, and personal fulfillment. The complexities and diversity of human existence contribute to our ability to appreciate and value the full spectrum of human emotions and experiences.

While the concept of a heavenly afterlife holds allure and comfort for many, a closer examination reveals potential philosophical and practical challenges. The notion of an eternal paradise raises concerns about personal growth, free will, fairness, existential meaning, and the compatibility with human flourishing. Engaging with these thought-provoking considerations invites us to contemplate the importance of the human condition, our capacity for growth and development, and the significance of our experiences in shaping our lives. It is through our engagement with life's challenges and uncertainties that we may find the true richness and fulfillment that come from embracing our shared human journey.

[xueling2008]

[callmethirtysomething-blog]

13 years ago I joined Tumblr because I was searching for happiness. 13 years ago this blog was "Justkok" and "Call Me Thirty" was my username; A call back to the days of yore when TRL, AOL Instant Messenger, and Xanga took up the most real estate in my mind. Laughable now. You should know why this fact tickles me so: I can see it now; a little fuzzy around the edges but the sounds are clear. Listening to Lady Gaga, twisting open a bottle of "wine" in a dimly lit Chicago apartment, and the slice of scissors cutting too close to my ears. The fact is I can barely drink wine, I am a born-again Swiftie, live in Portland, Oregon, and resist any urge to get bangs. To put it plainly getting bangs is a cry for help.

Besides the above changes, there are age-related developments afoot. For example last week my heel randomly started hurting when I got up off the couch; yesterday my back started to spasm while wiping my ass; and a few months ago I found my first gray hair. Let's see, what else? Call Me Thirty has evolved into Call Me Thirty Something. Isn't that a scream? Yes, these past few years have been oozing along; the face of time is wincing from relentless winds of change. As we age one comes to expect that, thankfully.

Does change excite you? I've always wondered about you people, if so. While doing a stint in the wonderfully horrifying world of Human Resources this question came up often during interviews. In this vein I must reveal to you a shocking revelation: everyone most people lie in these scenarios. No one Most people don't love change—particularly when it occurs in the workplace. Even the most positive changes require periods of adjustment and leaders equipped with emotional intelligence, a penchant for organized chaos, and a sense of humor.

I have met a few people whom I believed when they said change is exhilarating. Characteristically speaking these people weren't necessarily pie-in-the-sky folks. Rather, their ability to emotionally detach provided security and flexibility in the chaos: their routines don't have feelings so you can't hurt them. As I explore this thought I have come to a riveting realization in real time: I don't have routines, I have feelings. Please pause while I telepath my therapist with this bombshell. I would tell her through traditional channels but I just stopped going last month. Later: more on that. Maybe. ADHD and all that.

Is the expectation of change the same as anticipating it? I guess I had an idea of what change meant. But anticipating the changes? No one prepares you for coincidentally meeting your life partner, unexpected deaths, or sudden job offers that take you 2,000 miles away from the place you were born.

From my first post on Tumblr where I talked about happiness and change, here is a response to my younger self:

You will start to cultivate a sense of happiness from doing more fun stuff, especially after your Dad passes away. The first person to die other than a grandparent is truly awful. As a result you will make the transition to relying less on the promise of "bigger and better" things because there is nothing bigger or better than life and death. Once you realize you don't belong in an office you'll boycott all things timestamps and cubicles; you'll start asking people what they do for fun instead of what makes them happy. As a Thirty-Something you'll still struggle adjusting to most changes but you'll put on a better face; a more hopeful one content with watching the paint dry while life settles from the most recent dust up. Pausing will become second nature and asking questions will come from a place of curiosity. You'll feel shame over your discomfort with change but will no longer feel obligated to defend that which you are working on.

And please, for the love of God, stretch! You have the time and the means to do so. Most days you work in your pajamas. The last thing you want is to die from a back spasm while wiping your butt, in your pajamas, at 3pm.

[manifestyourdreams555]

Happiness 😊

[hinamie]

in spite of everything, I had fun <3

[chloeworships]

Also someone tried to steal from your business or your company could have gone bankrupt. Someone wanted to see you FAIL.

Now that you know, remember VENGEANCE IS THE LORD’s and that will come by way of your success.

God will give you back everything you lost and MORE.

For some of you he is giving you back your YOUTH and your VITALITY because that too was taken from you.

Yellow represents HAPPINESS and JOY 💛

Whoever this message is for, the LORD revealed to me that you suffered. He saw it all and HE has come to rescue 🛟 YOU. You will be delivered soon.

Ps. Do you see the hand reaching out to help another on the Nokia phone? I had a vision of Jesus reaching out to me just like this recently pulling me out of the couch 🛋️ I was sleeping on. Wow. 🤩 I was to share that with you all because this is what will occur for YOU.

You now have the answers you were looking for. Praise Jesus.

❓❓❓

Time for a new wallet // purse lol 🛍️

So when you see certain folks getting DOUBLE what they had,

THIS. IS. WHY.

Guess who did it? Ha!

This isn’t a game 🎲🃏 and even if it was, YOU WIN.

You know what’s crazy, God showed me Bounty Killa with blue eyes just like Joe in the above image. But this was an Angel 😇 God has a way of showing me ppl with good hearts but who are also warriors of God ⚔️ What’s also crazy is I asked the LORD recently how Nas was doing. He was on my mind and you know me and God love to check in.

Uuuuuuuummmmmm 👀

I just can’t make this stuff up

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[crow-person]

save a horse ride a cowboy !!!!

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

getting older can be so amazing? you get more familiar with yourself. learn tips & tricks for troubleshooting your own brain. trial & error helps you build routines that minimize discomfort, maximize reward. your preferences/interests don't get set in stone, but you do find out which ones are going to stay with you in the long-term, and which ones are fun but transient joys to appreciate in the moment.

you learn that the world is so much more complex than you were taught, and that that's okay, and that there's an endless supply of things you can learn or watch or experience or think about if you want to. if you're lucky, you loosen up, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. if you're lucky, you learn to recognize that negative inner voice, and whack it with a baseball bat until it hushes up. if you're lucky, you learn to treat yourself gently, not because you are fragile but because you are worthy of gentleness. (i hope you are lucky.)

and some things will change. some things will get better. some things will get good. and maybe you start to recover from the dehumanizing stress of childhood/education. maybe you learn the power of your own autonomy. maybe you learn how to walk away from bad situations (which is a superpower even if you don't realize it yet). and you get to choose your own clothes. and your own food. and which relationships to pursue! and what you do with your free time. and with your life (but don't worry you get to choose that gradually). and that's crazy! and sometimes scary. and extraordinarily, indescribably precious.

[lastoneout]

when florence and the machine said "I find that happiness is an extremely uneventful subject" and when romeo x juliet said "a simple life with you would be paradise" and johnathan coulton said "it's okay, I like you in glasses" and everything everywhere all at once said "in another life I would have really liked just doing laundry and taxes with you"

(edit: I made a longer thing with more examples here)

[shepscapades]

Contrary to popular belief etho and bdubs are not divorced and in this essay I will

[xueling2008]

     Happiness In Life

If l teach you to love you will be happy forever...

If I teach you to walk on the moon and the stars you will be happy forever...

You’ll be happy if I make you a home above the sky...

If i teach you how to talk to the wind you’ll be happy forever...

If I make the story of your memories into a beautiful book you will be happy...

If I bring you the happiness of the whole world then you will be happy...

You’ll be happy if I make both the beautiful you hear in your ears...

If I teach you to love yourself then you will be happy forever...

By- Xueling...

[aubryjoi]

Happy Pride Month!! 🏳️‍🌈💖

[doomedclockworkdotmp3]

his therapist woulda had a field day at their next appointment