#Female Strength

[mithliya]

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Women just keep winning no matter what we do. Men are weak and they're afraid we'll all recognise it one day.

i hope the women who dwell on physical strength & feel like having female bodies makes us inferior watch this and realise there are many strengths to being a woman

[4bwitch]

This really makes one think... Any articles, essays or book suggestions on this subject are welcome please.

[floatingbook]

Rachel, une femme forte de ses convictions.

[imadititom]

[jadebrightwind]

Might as well just write them how you want if it is a losing game regardless!

As I’m writing this script (85 pages and counting), sometimes I worry that I have made Hanako too kind and too soft...Too feminine, merciful, forgiving. But I’ve also written her holding her own in a fight while still exhibiting these traits. People are multi-dimensional. Sometimes a character can seemingly contradict themselves and still be in character.

As an aside, writing a female character that exhibits feminine traits isn’t bad writing in and of itself. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: let women be tender and soft. Sometimes gentleness is a form of strength. There is nothing weak about kindness and softness, and sometimes, being kind and soft is the strongest thing a person can do.

The strength tarot card is a great example. It highlights feminine strength, a woman gently holding the jaws of a lion with calmness and compassion. The lion’s raw strength and vigor is just as much part of the definition as the woman’s courage, inner power, and compassion.

You can’t win as a woman in fiction. Be too positive, you become a Mary Sue, have flaws and those flaws are why almost nobody likes you. Be moderate, you have wet-cabbage personality, be exuberant, you are an unrealistic example. Have strong morals, and you’re badly developed, be morally corrupt and you’re hated with such vigour fans will send hate mail to the actress who plays the character. Be kind and soft and in love, you’re a representation of sexism, be cruel, harsh and cold and you’re just a bitch. Be a complex, realistic, ambiguous character, and either your flaws or your positive traits will be ignored or blown out of proportion and into oblivion. There is no winning for female characters.

[shebravelypoems]

SheBravely

I never promised it would be easy only that you wouldn't walk alone. The path ahead is yours to create, One brave step after another.

When doubt whispers in your ear, Remember the strength that lives in your bones. You've survived every storm so far— Each one has only made you more resilient.

This is not about perfection. This is about showing up, fully yourself, Even when your voice shakes, Even when your hands tremble.

SheBravely isn't just a name, it's a reminder that courage lives in the quiet moments between heartbeats, in choosing yourself when the world says otherwise.

We rise together. We fall together. We learn together. We brave this life together.

[reply2001]

Before I Have a Daughter

maybe not have one! Before I have a daughter, I want to learn how to love myself. Not in the surface-level way where I post affirmations I don’t believe, but in the quiet, unshakable way that feels like coming home. I want her to grow up knowing that loving yourself doesn’t mean being perfect—it means forgiving your own messes, laughing at your quirks, and showing up anyway. I want to travel to…

[pier-carlo-universe]

The Strength and Beauty of Modern Women: Reflections on Contemporary Femininity

A Look at the Complexity of Female Identity and the Role of Women in Today's Society

A Look at the Complexity of Female Identity and the Role of Women in Today’s Society The woman in this image embodies the ideal of modern femininity: a serene yet determined face, an expression that conveys both strength and gentleness. In her gaze, we can glimpse the history and evolution of all women, their journey towards self-determination and freedom, a path intertwined with struggles and…

[4bwitch]

[pulchra-fortitudo]

Strong and beautiful . .

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[obsesssedblerd]

thinking about tipsy gojo—face flushed, giggly and more ridiculous than usual—wrapping an arm around nanami's shoulder and pointing over at you, who's talking to shoko. "who's that cutie? is she single?" he asks.

nanami rolls his eyes and sighs in annoyance. "that's your wife, idiot."

gojo gasps loudly and dramatically, and he grins so wide that it almost hurts. "no way, really?! wow, lucky me! guys, i have a wife, and she's so pretty!!!" he shouts over the music at the party.

behind him, geto groans and drags a hand down his face. "you are never drinking again."

[4bwitch]

[antiyourwokehomophobia2]

I wish women did not feel so strongly about the fact men, on average, are physically stronger than them. I feel like women have such negative feelings about this that it drives them to ridiculousness. Listen, I get it. I get it, I get it, I get it. The fact men are stronger is frightening. It’s scary to know that if a man decided to physically attack you then you are probably fucked. The USWNT, women who have spent years honing their skills on the field, lost to teenage boys who—when compared to the women—were basically just beginning to develop their talents. I understand how demeaning that can feel to every woman who hears this fact. I can imagine how demeaning it was for the USWNT. I’m sure every woman has been in a situation, playful or threatening, where they have tested their strength against a man and lost miserably. I’ve seen videos where women hit and slapped men with genuine rage and fury and the man barely even flinched. I understand how embarrassing and scary it can be to come to terms with the strength disparity between men and women, but you simply must come to terms with it. Far too many women have taken to pretending that it's not there—this is not a good approach.

Women choose to pretend it's not there because acknowledging that it's there makes them feel inferior. I ask women to remember that this world was built with the ideals of men in mind and to cater to their specific strengths. Men value strength and violence so of course the world is going to seem like those two things are all that’s valued in it. It's no coincidence that many male heroes are physically strong/easily able to cause harm—such as Naruto or John Wick or the Avengers. Of course it feels shitty, as a woman who inhabits this world, to have to acknowledge that your biology generally prevents you from being able to have the ‘can beat anyone in a fight’ type of strength that gets constantly praised.

However, I implore women to consider that men being physically stronger than them is no more of a significant fact than women being able to give birth while men cannot. Women also have biological advantages over men but when was the last time you saw a man calling himself inferior because of them? Imagine if the world was built with female advantages in mind. Imagine a world where the ability to give birth was seen as some sort of pinnacle of human worth. I mean, the ability to give birth is crazy. You are literally creating a whole new life. The female body is capable of providing the necessary tools to bring about a whole new person. Every brain that has thought of something life changing and every hand that has built something new was brought into existence by a woman’s reproductive system. Every single person that has ever so much as breathed was brought to life by a woman, but men never think women are superior for this fact.

Oh, but women couldn’t get pregnant without men, right? No. IVF exists. But even without it, the correct thing to say would be that women cannot get pregnant without sperm. A woman can get artificially inseminated. She never has to go out and find a man to have sex with. Is that not an advantage? Because, I mean, what can a man do if he wants to have a child but no woman is willing to give him one? Hire a surrogate? That comes with a list of complications, is far more intimate than artificial insemination, and is incredibly expensive. How is that not a disadvantage of being male? You may be thinking that you, as a woman, never want to become pregnant, but that is not the point!  The point is that it's arbitrary to look at biological advantages as anything other than completely neutral.

Women also survive famine better and live longer than men. Imagine a world where women held this over men’s heads? But we don’t live in that world. In this world, I’m certain a man would say that they die sooner because of being braver, taking more risks, and doing dangerous jobs. However, if it were women putting themselves in danger and dying as a result, men would not be quick to call us brave; they'd call us the opposite. Idiotic. Foolhardy. Too stupid to take the necessary precautions to keep ourselves alive.

It is just so painful to see women lamenting over the physical disparity between men and women. Let it go. Consider being neutral on the subject of biological advantage. Consider that male strength isn't something to pretend doesn't exist and isn’t something that proves women are inferior.

I understand that acknowledging vulnerability is against the survival Instinct—I get it—but come on. How can we let this get to a point where we’re saying it’s okay for males to enter female sports and beat the absolute crap out of/wipe the floor with women? Them being stronger is neutral! It does not mean anything! But it’s fact. Pretending it’s not only serves to put women in a losing position. Pretending it’s not only serves to make women into a laughing stock. Men will gladly collect medals that belong to women—they’ve been doing that forever. If there was no reason for male and female leagues then there wouldn’t be any. You cannot deny your way into something being true. I also wish it were true that the average woman was evenly matched against the average man, but it’s simply not reality. In the same way that it’s not reality that the average woman is taller than the average man.

I am begging women to think neutrally about this topic instead of being in such deep turmoil over it that they open the door for men to walk all over us.

[bibibusinessman]

gym rats and athletes of tumblr how many pushups can you do? Also open to couch potatoes