#FTM adhesive packer

[translgbtq]

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[pansyfemme]

I’ve got a question about packing- so I know some packers can be used as dildos as well (at least that’s what my high school trans friends said) so my question is- can *every* dildo be used as a packer? Or is it like- some packers are dildos but not all dildos are packers. I��m messing around with my gender identity and just trying to have fun with it. I’d like to wear my 9 inch sparkly pink n blue dildo out but im not sure if there’s a difference in the way packers lay in the underwear vs dildos. Sorry if this is convoluted ahsjfjsk I always talk too much

hey yeah this is a good question. this gets somewhat detailed and has a lot involving sex and masturbation for ftms so putting the rest under the cut.

so packing as an actuon is generally divided into two catagories, soft and hard packing.

usually when people talk about packing they mean soft packing. If packing in general is the action of inserting an object into your pants to create the illusion of a penis- soft packing would be creating the illustion of a soft or flaccid penis. this is for everyday use. this type is usually unoticable and can aid with passing or just be affirming for a person. This can be a sexual act but it’s most often a nonsexual act. When you look for packers, they’re usually made for soft packing. So they will be of a soft material and usually smaller. You can’t really penetrate with them because they are 1) much softer than a dildo and b) usually don’t have a lot of usable length. They’re not designed to have penetrative sex with. It’s also why people use socks or another soft object. You are simulating a flaccid penis.

The other type is hard packing. You are simulating an erect penis. So generally, you would use a dildo for this. However. because you are purposely putting an object that resembles an erect penis into your pants, it will look like you have an erect penis in your pants. There aren’t a lot of packers sold for this specific purpose, so you would usually just use a dildo. This is pretty much exclusivly for sexual use. Not always ‘i am going to have sex’ but if you are going to go somewhere purposely looking like you have a very noticable and very large erection, that more often than not will be for some sort of sexual purpose, whether it be exhibitionism/humilation, crusing or signaling to others you want to have sex or whatever else you may want to with it. I’m sure there are exceptions. but that’s the basic idea.

essentially if the object resembles a flaccid penis in softness, shape and size, that’s soft packing. if the object resembles an erect penis in softness, shape and size, thats hard packing.

What your friends were describing could be a few things. the first is often refered to as a 2-in-1 or 3-in-1 (or however many features it has) prosthetic. These are pretty special in a few ways. They are 1) usually on a spectrum from pretty realistic to ‘holy shit that’s not an actual penis attached to your body??’ 2) extremely expensive 3) handmade and often made to order 4) a very niche market and often seen as less of a sex toy or gender affirmation object and more of a.. bottom surgery replacement. they are very cool and very intense. There’s differences between different brands but generally it is one object that performs a variety of different functions based on how you wear it and different inserts. For example, someone may buy a prosthetic that claims to be capable of four whole things! Packing, Peeing, Sex and Masturbation. Packing: You put it in your pants. Depending on things you may use a harness or an adhesive to attach the prosthetic to your skin (which can look pretty seamless and last for days at a time which is pretty awesome) Peeing: You may use a stp (stand-to-pee) harness for this part but a prosthetic with stp capabilities is indeed hollow and acts as a funnel so you can indeed pee standing up. Sex/Masturbation: These often come with stiff inserts you put inside of the hollow stp cavity. These make the penis erect and sometimes have a stimulation area at the back of them so the part that presses agaist your genetalia can be stimulated during motions of thrusting/jerking. Some can even ejaculate! it’s pretty neat. But those are generally the things people talk about when talking about packers you can use as dildos. There are many variations of prosthetics that can and cannot do different things, I only really described one function. There are also bendable dildos and dual density dildos- but listen to me. silicone is great, but it can only do so many things. Things it cannot do is shrink in volume or change firmness. So while you could pack with a bendable dual density dildo, it will look more like you have a bent erection or at best a semi than it will a flaccid penis. If that’s what you’re going for, that’s great. But prothetics tend to go the route of a removable stiff insert for a reason.

I hope this made some sense. tldr. good luck and do whatever you want forever! however. packing with a 9 inch hard dildo is going to look like you have a 9 inch hard penis. do with that what you will.

[pannman]

This may seem odd. I'm pretty sure they make realistic packers with devices that can cause elections. (And if not, Vox would probably create one to make money. )

Can I request ftm reader getting one with skin safe glue so he can pleasure Angel Dust? Kind of a sequel to the first smut you wrote. (Obviously Y/N would have to wax down there because glue on body hair HURTS)

Yeah at first I wasn't planning on doing smut requests but it was mostly due to the fact that I'm aroace so it's a little like writing in a foreign language to me but I think I will change it since I'm starting to enjoy the challenge of it and my smut did pretty well.

The Package

Angel Dust x FTM Reader

Cw: smut, boner in public, anal, oral

You were ecstatic when you it came in the mail. You had been wanting to spice things up between you and Angel for a while now. Not that things were getting boring but him being a literal porn star meant that he had more experience than you and he was usually the one with all the surprises. Now it was your turn to surprise him. You opened it up and you were so excited to see the pack and play packer from Voxtech. You were glad you were able to convince Alastor to let them deliver here.

You went into your room and into the bathroom. You read the instructions and with a wax down there, a couple of youtube videos and a special adhesive you're new packer was looking pretty good. Just seeing it gave you a boost of euphoria. You bended it to your liking and put on your pants. You had a pretty convincing looking boner and you went to see Angel. But before you could you were stopped by Charlie. "Hey, if you're looking for Angel he's downstairs for a our lesson." She didn't seem to notice the bulge in your pants and the fact that you were beat red and before you could answer Alastor poofed into existence. "Now what seems to be the issue?" Now... Alastor being the facility manager you had to clear up the delivery with him and to your embarrassment he insisted on knowing what you were ordering. So you tried to be subtle in your attempt to get his help.

"Well, you know how I ordered that... package? Well I just received it and so now 'ahem' is not a good time for me to be engaging in a lesson." Alastor was oblivious at first but saw your face was a deep scarlett before his eyes drifted down and your hopes of his help were probably a bit naive. His smile widened as he look back at you. "Now, now. Everyone downstairs is waiting. Why don't we head down together. You have an obligation towards this hotel and I'm sure Angel will be VERY happy to see you." What an asshole.

You made it downstairs and sat promptly next to Angel. You tried your best to listen to the lesson before your boyfriend started up a conversation. "Hey, babe what took you so long?" He asked. You smiled at him "just working on something" you continued to listen but unbeknownst to you Angel just then happened to notice what was going on between your legs and you guys were starting to match. You felt his hand on your thigh and you looked up to see him giving you a lustful look. Angel removed his hand and you missed it immediately. He turned to Charlie and raised his hand feigning a look of unease. "Char-charlie I'm not feeling so good." Charlie stopped. "Is everything alright." She asked "I think I might be sick. Can y/n take me to my room?" Charlie fell for it easily. "Of course. Y/n could you please help Angel to his room. Take all the time you need" Angel was glad to hear that. And so were you.

You pretended to help Angel to the elevator. He leaned against you heavily which perfectly hid one of his lower arms grabbing at your crotch. You blushed redder than the walls of the hotel and as soon as the elevator doors were closed Angel's lips met yours. He began grinding into your bulge and the friction set your lower half on fire. You grinded into him back. Running your hands up his body while he did the same to you. You both abruptly fell on each other when the doors opened again. You made your way through the hallway and Angel fiddled with his keys impatiently and unlocked the door.

Once you were in you swiftly closed the door behind you and pushed him down onto the bed. "Pretty ballsy having a boner in the middle of Charlie's lesson." Angel grinned. You laughed nervously "Uh huh, I totally did that on purpose" you began to unzip your pants and pull them down. "So, you went through all this trouble to surprise me?" He sounded flattered but also in a teasing sort of way. You removed your boxers and his eyes nearly popped out of his skull. "So big. I can't wait to feel every inch inside me" he started undressing as well.

You closed the distance between the two of you and kissed his lips while he took off his clothes. You were about to climb on top of him but he stopped you. "Let me suck on it" he insisted. You nodded and straddled him. He leaned down and kissed the tip before slowly taking it all in. Though you couldn't feel anything the sight sent shivers down your spine and turned you on like crazy. He sucked on it and to your surprise started to rub Circles into your clit. You ran your hands up and down his body out of instinct and clenched at the feeling. He stopped eventually and you pulled out some lube and applied it just to be safe.

Once that was done he laid down and you climbed on top of him. He spread out his legs and you aligned the tip of it with his hole before slowly working your way in. Further and further each time you pulled out a bit and then bucked your hips sending it back in. Angel's hands were all over you. Two on your body. One around the back of your neck and one exploring your hair. You gasped when one of his hands twisted at your nipples. "You like that?" He asked. You nodded and sunk into a kiss.

Your tongues exploring each other's mouths before you began rutting into him. Thrusting and running your hands up his body. He moaned in pleasure muffled by your lips. You removed your mouth from his to passionately kiss up his neck as you continued to with your steady pace. He moaned again this time loud enough for you to hear his delicious voice. You thrust harder. "Yeah harder!" He whined in pleasure. You snapped your hips back and forth harder and faster. Angel wrapped all four arms around you so you wouldn't stop. You grinded against him you could hear his breath picking up. You bucked into him a few more times before pulling out.

He opened his eyes to look at you and plead with you but what you had in mind you were sure he would love. "I wanna taste you" you spoke. He smiled still breathing heavy "do it baby" you climbed down his body so your face and his length were level. You knew he was still close so you didn't waste time. You took in his cock. You kept taking it in more and more till you almost gagged. You began to bob your head up in down. You felt his lower set of arms grab your head helping push you into a pace. He whimpered and groaned. Bucking his hips and making you gag each time which made you press your thighs together involuntarily. "Yeah! Just like that!" He praised. "So close mmmff."

You felt his cock twitch in your mouth and heard his breath hitch before he cummed. He emptied his load into your mouth and you waited until he was done before looking him in the eye and swallowing.

You were glad you made that purchase you thought. But to your surprise it wasn't over. "Now, it's your turn baby" he grinned before turning you around and pushing you onto the bed. "After all that you did to make me feel good, neither of us are leaving this bed till I return the favor." Well, you thought.... Charlie did say take our time.

[ftm-helper]

tips for dealing w dysphoria!!

this might not help everyone, but these are some tips n tricks that have helped me w dysphoria! 1. clothes!! if u can't get gender affirming clothes, try ur best to get gender neutral clothes!! if you're ftm like me, i suggest wearing your trousers quite low, even if they're not designed to be low waisted, it helps hide any hip curves!! n baggy shirts help me too, to hide anything my binder doesnt. i go to a support group for trans kids, and they have a free clothes rack, you can donate clothes or take clothes and they won't tell ur family or anything. even charity shops/thrift stores are good! if you dont like the clothes there or can't afford them, dont be afraid to ask your friends! the worst thing they can do is say no, unless you're not out to them

2. binding/tucking/packing,, i've found that binding and packing are some of the best ways to feel more at home in my body, but binders can be expensive, and cheap ones arent usually very good for you. i'd suggest body tape for my trans boys blessed with small chests, it doesnt really bind, but it holds things in place! u can watch tutorials on youtube but i'll link one just for u right here! the actual tutorial starts at around 1:36. https://youtu.be/Itzspq5K0z8

as for packing, you can buy an actual packer, or just use a balled up pair of socks! it might not make much difference but honestly just knowing i have that bulge has helped me a lot! i used to use socks, and it's quite easy to use, but remember they're there when you use the toilet,, ive dropped mine in countless times. i use a packer now and i love it so much, it adds the perfect bulge for me, and i wear boxers with a sort of pocket at the front to hold it in place!

when it comes to tucking i dont have any experience, but if you do a bit of research im sure you can find something!! just whatever you do....DONT USE DUCT TAPE!!!!!! that applies to all of u honestly. with stuffing a bra or something, you can buy adhesive silicone bra fillers from basically any store that sells female clothes! they'll add at least a little bit of cup size and if you have a bra, it'll make your chest look perkier and help fill it out a bit! plus once again, socks work for that! you can fold them, roll them, whatever you find works best!

3. friends!!!!!!!!! GET URSELF GOOD AND CONFIDENT FRIENDS!!! if ur out to people irl, and you get misgendered in public with friends, it can be so so uncomfortable to correct people! if you have confident friends/partners, you should ask that they correct people for you! you shouldnt have to go through any of it alone <3

more about friends !! find friends who are similar to you, but opposite! as a trans boy, i have quite a few mtf friends, and i've given my old clothes/bras etc to them, and they've given me boxers, shirts, and colognes!!

i really hope this has helped a bit!! dont stress yourself out, im here for anything you need and i'm always willing to help <3

[tryingtobecomeselfmade]

Gendercat Packers

I have never thought that I would ever purchase a gendercat packer ever in my entire life. I thought it did not have enough detail for what I personally preferred and I was kind of turned off to them. Then I saw their product and met their owner at the Philadelphia Trans Health Conference.

 So the first thing that really surprised me was NOTHING on the prosthetic is painted. Okay, so what? That means that there is different color silicone inside your prosthetic making it so the color will never fade. Although I love transthetics, they have given me my favorite product so far, their paint does eventually fade or fall off making me more dyphoric. 

Two: The self adhesive genuinely works. I was so skeptical but even after hundreds of dudes had these willys on their hands, it still stuck enough on my hand to really wip it around and yet it never fell off. Huge pro! I have used adhesives in the past and I am just not a fan of the feeling of free forming adhesive.

Three: You receive a free pallet of silicone samples. FREE. Because they want you to get the best color you possibly can. If you do not find the exact color, you email the owner and he makes you new silicone samples and sends them to you.... FOR FREE. 

Four: The payment plan is DOPPEEEEEEEE. Probably the only company in the entire world that lets you recieve your prosthetic before you are done with the payment plan. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WAIT TO HAVE THE FUNDS. I REPEAT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WAIT ANYMORE. As transmen or nonbinary folk, we spend forever waiting for everything whether its hormones or surgery, Gendercat DOES NOT MAKE YOU WAIT.

Will post a review once my peen gets here. Consider supporting this amazing company. Plus their packers are so squishy and nice.

[genderoutlaws]

I'm halfway through lou Sullivan's daries and I'm curious about where someone in 1975 Wisconsin might have gotten a binder. He mentions mail ordering for a packer but never says where he got his binder and I'm curious if he made it himself or purchased one. Do you have any information on that?

i’m not sure but i’ll definitely look into it. my first guess honestly is that his binder might’ve been something dangerous or unsafe like ace bandages since that was the most popular and accessible option for most people back then.

edit: in his ftm crossdressing guide published in 1985 he mentions binders as such -

“BREAST BINDING Although most advice to the female-to-male on this subject involves ace bandages — or worse! — adhesive tape, there are much easier and more comfortable methods to flatten your chest. Basically you want to do the opposite of what Frederick's of Hollywood's cleavage bras do — instead of pushing the breasts up and together, you want to push them down and apart.

If you are small busted, one method is to simply buy a wide elastic band sold to control “midriff bulge” ... Except, instead of wearing it around your waist, pull it up around the breasts, tuck- ing them under your arms as much as possible. Wear an undershirt or a dark shirt over the binder so it is not visible through your clothes.

If large busted, you might try this method: Use a girl’s “trainer bra” to hold the breasts up to the level where a man's pectoral muscles would bulge, higher than the normal bustllne. Separate the cups of the bra by taking apart the material between the cups an inserting a strip of cloth. This holds the breasts away from the front of the chest, leaving the breastbone flat. Over this, wear a spandex elastic undershirt ... Then wear a T-shirt and your shirt. The result Is very convincing and still breathe-able.

Sorry to say, no binder that does its job is really comfortable.”

[axolom]

FTM Tutorial: How To Wear A Packer

The majority of people who use packers are those who are transgender or non-binary. When you’re a part of the trans* community, your mind and/or body can sometimes be your worst enemy. Axolom helps transgender and non-binary people access their gender euphoria instead of dysphoria. There are many options we’ll go over when we explain below how to wear a packer.  Just to make sure we’re on the same page, let’s start with why trans* people wear packers and what packers are:

What Are Packers?

Usually created out of silicone, packers are phallic (or penis-shaped) prosthetics some people use to create the appearance of a bulge in pants. For some back in the day, cis-guys used socks to make their own bulge look bigger. The transgender application in my experience similar: to combat dysphoria and/or boost confidence.

Some people use packers as a way to subtly validate themselves throughout the day. These packers can be a major piece of the puzzle when it comes to taking on bottom dysphoria for people across the world. Many trans* people use packers as a tool to keep their minds from saying negative things. If we can master our minds and retrain our thought processes to be positive, it can be a major game-changer in our day-to-day lives as transgender and non-binary people and, in some cases, save lives.

What Styles/Types Of Packers Are There?

Here, Axolom offers cut, uncut, flat back, and curved for AFAB anatomy. The cut and uncut are circumcised and uncircumcised respectively. The star feature is the back which has two inner half-moon shapes that allow your anatomy to rest in these indentions flat on the body. You want to be comfortable with your packer and have it feel like an extension of you. You can also have packers that double as other products like STPs (Stand to Pee Devices), pleasure edges, or products to be able to make prosthetics erect. But How Do I Wear A Packer?

Let’s say you already have a packer in mind but don’t understand how it can attach to the body. There are a few different ways you’re able to:

Adhesive

The Axolom product Monsieur Wiggle Super Soft Packer also has a tab that may be adhered to the body using these reusable sheets allowing for a free feeling of natural movement. You can purchase adhesive sheets, but if you’re tight on cash, you can always tuck the tab under the elastic band of your underwear or one of the next few options.

Harnesses

From minimal straps to velcro with snap buttons, you can get all types of harnesses to wear underneath your underwear. The key is to make sure your harness feels secure and people often go with these because they know and trust that these won’t fail. The worst-case scenario for any person using prosthetics is it falling off, especially in public. If you’re not one for extra layers, the other options might be better choices.

Snug Boxer Briefs

The most accessible option found locally is often boxer briefs. Their snug fit and pocket for junk support are ideal for a pouch for your packer so it remains against your body as it should. It’s important to pay attention to the pouch size, open/closed fly, and material because you want it to be comfortable and breathable down there. Stay sanitary people!

Speciality Boxer Briefs

In the last decade, there has been an increase in transgender and nonbinary products to aid in your battle against dysphoria and/or self-esteem. Companies such as RodeoH and FtM Essentials offer a variety of packing boxer solutions that are made just for keeping your packer in place. Often this is the go-to answer for people who want the security of a harness but the comfort of boxer briefs.

Impact

According to its second annual National Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health, The Trevor Project discovered some disturbing stats about gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, and other gender nonconforming young Americans between 13-24.

“48% of LGBTQ youth reported engaging in self-harm in the past twelve months, including over 60% of transgender and nonbinary youth.”

As this wasn’t enough to be concerned about, 40% of those surveyed said to have seriously considered attempting suicide during that period, and of these young people who identified as trans or nonbinary, more than half said they strongly considered ending their lives.

Axolom knows how much of an impact it can make on people’s quality of life as transgender and non-binary people who want to learn how to wear a packer. I can tell they want to make the lives of transgender and non-binary people easier so we lose less precious transgender souls. And that’s what this is all about. I’m very glad I crossed paths with Axolom and I appreciate you taking the time to read this post.

As always, sending you love and light.

Axolom Team.

[packersale]

via FTM Garage Sale so don't reply on Tumblr, click on the link above. "

Only worn twice ever since I purchased it and it's been sitting in my drawer, so essentially like new. Super SUPER comfortable, believable bulge, incredible and realistic hang, modeled off an actual cis penis, one of my favorites, but I don't really wear packers that often, or at all anymore. Also great for everyday wear, 24/7 wear, and during sports/at the gym. Will sterilize and remove the adhesive. $170 with FREE shipping within the U.S. Email ftmpackersales@gmail.com for any questions The 4RLZ-jr 3" measures approximately: Length along top of shaft: 3.5 inches - 8.9 cm Length along bottom of shaft 2.5 inches - 6.5 cm Girth: 3.5 inches - 9 cm Diameter: 1 inch - 2.5 cm Width: 2.75 inches - 7cm (across widest part of scrotum) Profile: 2.5 inches - 6.4cm (from back of scrotum to furthest protruding part of the shaft in supersoft) Weight: 5.25 oz - 150 g -non-shiny -realistic feel -integrated color (NO PAINT PEELING OR WEAR) -natural weight -adhesible and self adhesive -over 200 natural skin tones -100% silicone -latex free - will not stain garments -no odor -100% made in the USA

P.S: I'm also selling a WeVibe Sync, if getting both, I'd throw in a generous discount + free shipping for the two.

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[ukftm]

Tips for FTM individuals: If you get a tear in your packer/STP, the BEST way to fix it is by using silicone adhesive!

Thanks for sharing!

~ James

[queercondensed]

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Packing Guide v1.0

This is the second guide I’ve developed for DysphoriAid, a project meant to create simple and printable guides for transgender people on the topic of dysphoria-relieving items. This packing guide includes basics, where to buy packers, making your own, Do’s and Don’ts, and additional information. It was developed with the help of a coworker and friend Richard Cole.

Click here to find the link to download the most recent version of this resource and the other documents Queer Condensed has to offer.

As always, the original files may be requested for modification via an ask to this blog. If you download, please reblog!

The text can be read below the readmore, formatted in the intended reading order.

First / Front Page

DysphoriAid Packer Sheet Online v1.0

Trusted Companies - Make Your Own - Do’s and Don’ts - Further Info

The Basics, What to Keep in Mind, and Where to Buy

A packer is an item used to replicate a bulge and occasionally other features associated with having a penis for those born without one. There are multiple reasons why someone would choose to pack, including lessening dysphoria, improving body image, and increasing personal safety in public places and for people who are expected to “pass” as a non-transgender man. Making the choice to pack can be very personal and not everyone who “could” pack will or wants to. Discomfort with or a lack of a need to pack doesn’t make anyone any less transgender or nonbinary, nor does packing make anyone more transgender or nonbinary.

The decision to pack starts with the decision of one’s price range and what one would like from a packer. There are three main times of packers: soft packers, pack n plays (packers that can also be used for sex via an insertable rod), and pack, play, and pees (packers that can be used for both sex and for peeing in a standing position). Usually, the ones with more uses are more expensive. Packers come in many different materials, sizes, and colors as well. Packers made from porous material and can easily soak up bacteria and dirt, which can cause urinary tract infections and skin problems, but can be more comfortable for the wearer. Silicone packers are more durable but still need to be cared for. When it comes to size, bigger is not always better. There are definitely large packers, as there are definitely people with large penises, but smaller packers give a more realistic look and are often more comfortable to wear. Finally, most packer companies offer a range of skin colors, but finding one to match your exact skin tone if desired may make the search for a packer take more time. It is possible to recolor some packers, look for a link in “Additional Information.”

Most people who own packers own a variety of accessories as well. Packers, especially the lower-end ones, do not stay in place well. Harnesses and special underwear can be used to keep them from falling out. Pack and plays cannot be used for the “play” function without a harness. Most packers can be cleaned with soap and water, but some companies and some materials warrant special cleaning solutions. Going to websites listed in the next paragraph and the “Additional Information” section can help you make an informed decision and show you what else you need along with a packer.

If everything written here sounds confusing and convoluted to you, there’s good news - transgender and nonbinary people have been packing for decades and companies are more than willing to help you understand their products. The Tool Shed (toolshedtoys.com) is an LGBT-owned business that focuses on sex positivity and safety and offers a good selection of packers in a clean layout, including the popular first-time-packer line Mr. Limpy / Softie. TranZwear (tranzwear.net) is a transgender-owned business that focuses mostly on packers and packer accessories. A note for TranZwear however: the site may be difficult or impossible to navigate for those with reading or sensory difficulties due to the general uncleanliness of the design. For the extreme end of quality and price, look at the transgender-owned Transthetics (transthetics.com).

Make Your Own / Packing Without a Packer

Sometimes, purchasing a packer is not feasible for any number of reasons. So, here are some alternatives! All the rules to regular packing - found in the “Do’s and Don’ts” section - should be followed even when not wearing an official packer. These methods are often helped by the use of the specialized underwear made for packers.

NOTE: Never ever use tape or adhesive to secure a packer of any type. Surgical glue is used in some cases, but only for prosthetic packers and only by trained medical professionals.

Second / Back Page

Option #2: Fill an unlubricated condom about halfway with some sort of gel, like hair gel, and tie it off tightly at the desired length. Place within another unlubricated condom or two, typing those off as well. Cover with a sock or other sleeve to reduce tugging and catching. Place in a jock strap or tight-fitting underwear. Watch for tearing and leakage, replace often.

Option #1: Roll a pair of socks into itself to create an oval-ish shape, manipulating the socks until a desirable bulge is achieved. Stick the faux-bulge into your underwear, securing it with safety pins if there’s concern of it falling out or losing its shape. Not always realistic-looking, but cheap and easy. Use thin socks to reduce heat.

The Do’s and Don’ts of Packing

Do

Wash your packer every day after wearing it with at least soap and water

Try out different placements and ways of securing your packer to find out what fits and feels comfortable

Look at examples of cisgender men and other packing transgender people online for placement reference, like underwear models

Listen to your body and make sure your packer isn’t overheating or hurting your genital region

Replace your packer if it becomes damaged, worn out, or cannot be cleaned properly

Look up reviews and videos on packing and specific packers and accessories before buying

Dust non-hommade packers with cornstarch before wearing to lessen the dirt and hair they pick up

Experiment if resources permit you to

Don’t

Leave your packer in a damp area or where bacteria is likely to flourish

Expect other transgender people to always feel comfortable talking about their packing experiences

Place tape or adhesive anywhere near your genital area

Trade your packers with other transgender people, especially if they are pack and plays or pack, play, and pees.

Feel discouraged if a popular packer isn’t right for you

Boil silicone / cyberskin / thermal gel packers, as they will melt

Ignore the directions of the manufacturer or seller - they know best!

Use non-skin-safe cleaning materials on your packer

Force yourself to pack even if you identify as a trans male or trans masculine

Additional Information

Online*:

A Guide to Packers for Transmen (http://ftm-guide.com/guide-to-packers-for-transmen/)

Hudson’s FTM Resource Guide (http://www.ftmguide.org/packing.html)

Making your own Stand to Pee (http://www.wikihow.com/Make-an-Easy-StP-(Stand-to-Pee)-Device)

Reviews on packing harnesses (http://transguys.com/features/packing-harness-roundup)

How to recolor your packer (http://toysfortransmen.tumblr.com/post/36054626438/how-to-recoloring-your-packer)

*While this info sheet includes both binary and nonbinary transgender people, a great deal of the online resources available for packing only includes language about transgender men. The information is still good for nonbinary people, but readers should be aware of this. Additionally, online guides and resources often include pictures of packers, many of which are very realistic. Keep this in mind when searching on a non-private computer, browsing in public, or if you are adverse to images of penises.

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Updated as of May 18th, 2017

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A huge thank-you to Richard Cole for helping out with the research and links for this information sheet

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Reelmagik 4.5 inch Basic Packer Review

Reelmagik, a LGBT owned and operated company, is one of the leading companies for FTM prosthetics and STPs. Their specialty is in realistic look and feel. They also sell basic packers that are hyper-realistic, which is what I will be reviewing today. Let’s get down to the basics of the product and the company!

Color options: There are five different color options for this packer, which is pretty great for just a packer. 

Size options: They offer sizes from 2.25 inches to 5 inches (2.25, 3, 4.5, and 5). I love the fact that you can get a packer that’s smaller than 5 inches, because those tend to look super huge in pants.

Feel options: The great thing about Reelmagik is that they offer a few different kinds of packers, based on feel. There’s classic, which I imagine is the standard silicone packer feel. There is also the soft, which is what I will be reviewing today. The soft is a bit squishier, and has a very natural feel to it. Even more soft is the lightweight, which has just came out.

Price: These packers are (understandably) on the pricier side. The smallest is $29, and the largest is $59. However, if you get one with a small defect (mine has a super small tear in the back), you can get one for a better price. I got mine for $29, and it was originally $59.

Cut and uncut: The 5 inch packer comes uncut, and the rest are cut. 

Customer Service: Reelmagik has great customer service. When sending me the product, they made a typo that caused the package to be sent back to them before I could get it. When I told them this, they immediately sent it out again with a new shipping label at no extra charge. They are customer oriented and very LGBT friendly (they are LGBT owned and operated as well!).

Aaaand now to the packer itself

Look: 9/10. Oh wow. At first glance, the realism is outstanding. The product looks super real. Even in its packaging, it looks hyper-realistic. The most realistic part is the testicles, because one hangs a little lower than the other. The ridges along the head of the penis are super realistic. I haven’t seen a packer look this realistic before. The only thing that would make this even better is if there were more detailed veins (which is offered with Reelmagik’s prosthetics). Here are pictures of it in the packaging and then out of the packaging:

This picture shows the vein that runs underneath the shaft, as well as the super realistic balls. I love how subtle yet realistic the vein is. I’ve seen a lot of packers with a crazy noticeable vein, as well as one that’s too subtle. This seems just right to me.

Again, the ridge just under the tip of the penis is one of my favorite parts of this product. I was genuinely in awe when I saw it.

Feel: 9/10. Because I got the soft version, this packer is pretty squishy. However, it isn’t as squishy as the Mr. Limpy. When you squish it, it bounces back as quick as actual flesh. The BEST part of the feel is the fact that you can pinch the skin and pull it a bit. It’s so realistic, it is a great relief for dysphoria. It is a pretty delicate product, so just exercise caution when handling it. The delicacy of it makes for a good feel in your pants as well, because it doesn’t feel like you constantly have a boner.

Packing: 10/10. I have never owned a better packer in my life. I cannot thank Reelmagik enough for this. The shape of the product allows for the shaft to sit flat. I can put this in a pair of briefs or boxer briefs and not wear any kind of harness. It looks and feels completely natural in my pants. 4.5 inches is the right size for me because I’m 5′9. I would recommend using tight briefs or boxer briefs when packing with this, just to make sure it doesn’t fall out. You can wear any pants with this, even tight joggers, and it requires little to no adjustment.

 This picture is how flat it sits, without any pressure or anything. I own packers that can sit flat, but this packer is the only one I own that I don’t need to tuck it a certain way for it to stay flat. 

Wash and care: Reelmagik sends a little care card with your packer. Here’s a picture of the card (sorry it’s a bit blurry):

This packer can be dusted with either cornstarch or baby powder. I find that it doesn’t get too sticky, so I haven’t needed to dust it as often as my other packers. A soft wash with water and soap works, just make sure to be careful with the product. I don’t recommend using adhesives with this, because it is super soft. Also, keep it stored in a cool environment to avoid it getting too warm and a tad sticky.

Overall: 10/10. This is the best packer I’ve ever owned. I HIGHLY recommend getting one, at either full or discounted price. I cried when I used it the first time. I can’t guarantee it works for everyone, but I think this product would work for a lot of people.

Harness: not needed, but wear tight briefs to keep it snug. I find that it helps to make it feel like it is part of my body.

Worth the price?: YES, more than ever. I’d buy it full price in a heartbeat

Let me know if you have any questions about this product!

You can purchase a Reelmagik Basic Packer here

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Adhesive STP Packers For Trans Guys & Non-Binary Folks

Adhesive STP Packers For Trans Guys & Non-Binary Folks

The word “Adhesive” means something that keeps attached to something. This article is based on an adhesive STP packer. Let’s make your first purchase in the adhesive STP packers list. We have listed some best STP Packers and best packing underwear according to our research. What is an Adhesive STP packer? Adhesive STP packer describes a stand to pee prosthetics or FTM packers that might be…

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Axolom Squire STP Packer Review: FTM Packer

Axolom Squire STP Packer Review: FTM Packer

At the beginning of our FTM transaction, we find small STP packers at cheap pricing. It’s because we aren’t interested to carry big STP packers in the beginning or it makes us awkward. So, we choose to help the trans guys to have a 3-in-1 STP packer which is small and good for pee and packing. In the case of packing, it also works well. The packer size is 3.7- 4.3 inches. The scrotum texture…

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The following are up for grabs: 5” Axolom Wiggle Gendercat 4” supersoft w/ self adhesive sheet Gendercat 6” Hard w/ self adhesive sheet 6" Realistic STP w/ Erection Rod Painted Jimmy STP Packer Rodeho TRUHK BOXER STP/PACKING UNDERWEAR 2xl Black GC2B Binders 2XL HMU for photos and additional information!

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Happy New Year everyone!

Hope you guys are staying safe and well.

1) Gendercat 4rlz jr 4 inches soft packer.

I love this packer even though I do not always wear it.

It’s in like new condition because of that.

Only selling because I am a smaller guy and need something smaller that makes more sense for my body type and stature.

Have adhesive there installed but let me know if you would like this removed prior to shipment. Realistic bulge and extremely comfortable.

Purchased for $310 with regular shipping and taxes. Selling for $200 + free Standard Shipping. if you need expedited shipping just let me know.

2) Banana Prosthetics Hard Play 5.5 insertable ‘’(with pleasure/sensation sleeve) for wearer.

Trans-owned company and their prosthetics have been reviewed by Chase Ross.

Erection hard like - made from medical-grade silicone and is designed to be durable, flexible, and comfortable. This quality alternative is ideal for natural and realistic sexual intercourse. The details and softness of this prosthesis will satisfy you and enable you to feel more confident.

This is the version with soft balls, and sensation.

Length of the shaft:

5.5" / 14cm

Circumference:

4.7" / 12cm

Weight:

0.73bs / 335g

Selling for $180 + free PRIORITY shipping.

3) WeVibe Sync Wearable Couples Vibrator with Remote & App Control

Never used. Received as a gift. Currently retails anywhere from $145 - $199 + shipping fees and + taxes.

From the manufacturer:

No two bodies are the same. That’s why We-Vibe Sync can be adjusted to fit your unique shape. There are two adjustable points to better target exactly the right spots with more or less pressure. We-Vibe Sync fits comfortably in place even as you change positions during sex.

The remote can change vibration modes as well as the intensity in the moment. Either partner can use the remote and it works up to a distance of 3 meters.

Made for couples, has 2 motors & 10 powerful vibration modes

Smart toy; control it with our We-Connect app or the remote

Waterproof, rechargeable, comes with charging/storing/carrying case

Fully adjustable, both arms are bendable for a perfect fit!

Body-safe product made of high-grade silicone

Only selling for $75 flat + free shipping.

If purchasing everything, happy to negotiate a discount. -//- PayPal only -  please confirm payment email before sending payment. Email ftmpackersales@gmail.com for any questions. Thanks for looking!

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via FTM Garage Sale so don't reply on Tumblr, click on the link above. "I have one gender cat 4rlz jr 4 inch circumsized adhesive packer. The packer has some adhesive marks on the front tab as i was trying to attach a chest hair wig to it. Luckily it comes with some adhesive sheets and the adhesive syringes(i reccomend using these if you want to attach a wig to it). The packer is gently used. Buyer pays for shipping. Im looking for about 140-150$. The back of the tab has some wig hair on it. I tried removing the adhesive that was on but i wasnt successful. Im also throwing in a dark brown chest hair wig to put on the packer.everything is thoroughly sanitized and packed with care. The pump is an LA pump gently used with the trans guy cylinder attachment. Im charging 80$ for the set as this is a top of the line pump brand that goes for 150$. Everything is fully sanitized and clean. Buyer pays for shipping. I do not offer free shipping as the costs vary from state to state . Message me if interested!

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