#Caring!charlie

[greykolla-art]

Unstoppable villain, meet immovable agent of friendship!

I was wondering in what circumstances Charlie would just OFFER her soul to Al.

And he would short circuit as all his manipulation plans become unnecessary.

Cause Charlie cares about her friends and if they need help she won’t hesitate.

[bioethicists]

it's very important to understand how a personality disorder diagnosis functions in the psychiatric system, even if you identify with the diagnosis or find it useful.

personality disorders on your medical record will be used to discredit anything you say or do. they indicate "don't bother listening to this person; apply treatment regardless of their wishes but also they're probably manipulating/attention-seeking so maybe don't bother treating them". needing support becomes attention-seeking. behaviors that would be treated + supported in someone without this diagnosis are ignored or treated as manipulative. providers are instructed to "withdraw warmth" (a real thing in the DBT provider's manual, btw) in response to self-injury or suicidal ideation.

if you have been dx'd with a personality disorder professionally, you likely understand this.

now, here's the important part: this is not an issue of 'stigma' against a politically neutral, pre-discursive True Disease which is being Unfairly Maligned. these diagnoses were formulated based on the idea that some patients cannot be trusted, that some patients seek care too much. they are applied to patient charts as a justification for withdrawing care or as a dismissal of someone "not getting better" fast enough. in the uk, they are often employed by the nhs to shame or problematize people who use large amounts of nhs resources, arguing that receiving a lot of care through the nhs is a negative behavior stemming from a disordered personality.

there are elements of personality disorders which resonate strongly with many people, including myself, but you need to be clear-eyed about the origins + functions of this diagnosis. as a whole, they were created + function as ways to discredit + mistreat noncompliant or "difficult" patients. 'reclaiming' them is not going to change how they function systematically- it is going to make it easier to engage in this systematic neglect by evoking 'ableism' or 'stigma!' when people question the utility or application of the diagnosis.

[emirrart]

24,07,2024

allan self care cards allan self care cards

bonus:

edit because people won’t shut up about it: yes floss your teeth at least once a day if you can, and wash off the toothbrush when you’re done brushing. ok? ok.

[crying-over-gay-dramas]

My favorite gays fr

Edit: I KNOW STOLAS AND CHARLIE ARE MORE POWERFUL THAN BLITZØ AND VAGGIE THAT'S NOT THE POINT ITS ABOUT THE VIBES AND THEIR PERSONALITY shdhshdhfhfhfha

[potato-lord-but-not]

Y’all get the silly podcast men in your stockings this year <3

[eterosis]

"You can't headcanon ... as aroace! They have a partner!" Where did your "Aroace people can still date!" go

[spitinsideme]

wamted to do vaggie drawing practice, made it into chaggie .. what can i sayb... chaggie took over . go lesbians !! vaggie is too hot charlie cant focus on killing exterminates

[shaylai]

Charlie, girlie, maybe don't trust the irredeemable serial killer?

[narliee]

no kiss? hug first.

[stopper-my-heart]

Nick stroking Charlie's hand with his thumb

[charmingradiobelle]

People tell me shipping charlastor is bad meanwhile literally every single frame they’re in together looks like this

[westywallowing]

they fell in love in october🥰🍁 (not that I remember what month it actually was)

[random-lil-illing]

i had a vision,,, asexual dps fans what do we think

[puppmeo]

Okay so im watching Hazbin to have something to talk to my little brother about: Why is all the content im seeing NOT about Charlie and Vaggie. They're so neat

[potato-lord-but-not]

assorted (18+ they’re getting freaky with it) ourthur doodles on pillowfort wowie

[charpim4ever]

the heat is killing me bru 💔💔 (also small comic for funsies hehe,)