#Caregiver Mach

[comfort-tears]

CG Mach x Little Pilby ideas/headcanons?

I think mach would be a good mama to pilby, but also be a bit more stern with them when needed.

🪻 CG! Mach & Little! Pilby hcs 🐛

— 🪻; Mach barely discovered what age regression is, however, she tries to inform herself to help Pilby in whatever they needs.

— 🌷; Pilby calls Mach as "Momma" or "Miss M.", sometimes they also calls her "Miss Purple" (this because of her outfit)

— 🪻; She usually calls Pilby like: "little one", "apple bloom", "honeybun"...

— 🌷; Mach makes sure that her little caterpillar carries their blanket, she knows that its their comfort object...

— 🪻; Pilby lives with Mach, has their own room, although sometimes they likes to sleep in her room.

— 🌷; Oh! They also knows that when their playtime is over, they should pick up their toys.

— 🪻; She notices certain behavioral changes when Pilby wants to be Little.

— 🌷; She taught Pilby to make signs to indicate when they wants to be Little or needs help.

— 🪻; Mach has drawings of Pilby in her office, some hanging, others kept in a drawer, she keeps them safe.

— 🌷; Wherever they go, she always takes them by the hand, and in some cases carries them.

— 🪻; Although she is not expressive with words, her actions speak more for her. Whether with a kiss on the forehead, pats, hugs or even picking them up.

— 🌷; However, she is very loyal to the rules, if she knows that her caterpillar misbehaved, she gives him a time out.

At the end of the time out, she sits down with Pilby and they talk to find out what happened.

— 🪻; Mach always makes sure her little one is well fed and rested!

— 🌷; Sometimes when she is very busy, she uses a babysitter to take care of Pilby (this part is free interpretation)

— 🪻; They share activities, either at tea time, or even, Pilby takes momma by the hand to play with them.

— 🌷; Mach doesn't mind working while she has Pilby sleeping on her lap.

— 🪻; When Pilby cries or has a sensory crisis, she tries to help them, either by taking them away from the place to a safe place.

— 🌷; Mach usually brushes her little caterpillar's hair.

— 🪻; Pilby is a secret Little, so Mach knows not to force them.

I plan a oneshot of them in the future! I loved making them hcs, Don't hesitate to write to me if you need anything else (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

[soft-tiny-bb]

me fictional CGs!:

naven nuknuk (epithet erased)

cedric the sorcerer (sofia the first)

gregory house (house m.d)

DRretro (regretevator)

mach (regretevator)

rodger (dandy's world)

teagan (dandy's world)

AM (i have no mouth and I must scream)

p.ai.nter (pressure)

[care-puppy]

Regressed pilby being put to bed in their crib/nursery by caregiver mach. I wanna ask for bottle feeding and pilby being a bit fussy over It just wanting to keep playing with their toys. Thank you I'm sorry if it's weird ah!

Not weird, don't worry!

"Sweetheart…" Mach said quietly, as Pilby was hugging their pink teddy bear. They were surrounded by pillows which helped them sit, surrounded by a lot of stuffies. They slowly turned their head towards Mach. "Time for beddie bye…" Mach sat on the bed. Pilby whimpered, hugging the bear even tighter. They seemed to be very fussy about going to their crib. They shook their head, their antennas lowered. Mach sighed softly. "Pilbert, i know you want to keep playing with your toys… But it's bedtime…" Pilby whined quietly, and their eyes watered a bit. They were very, very fussy at the moment. Mach knew Pilby wasn't the type of someone who would throw a tantrum, but they could be very fussy. "Baby, i never wan't to harm you… I care for you a lot, sweetheart…" Mach muttered, caressing Pilby's cheek. She wiped their tears away, as they looked at her with puppy eyes. "So, will you listen to me?" Mach asked, and Pilby nodded. "First, we need to give you milkes…" Mach gently picked Pilby up, and walked towards the kitchen. She opened the fridge and took out the carton of strawberry milk. Then, she poured some of it into the tiny kettle - Pilby prefered milk to be warm. After a short time, Mach poured warm, pale-pink drink into the bottle. She took of Pilby's pink pacifier and gave them the bottle. Pilby started suckling it, closing their eyes. Mach slowly swinged them, which made them feel like they were in the cradle. She hummed a lullaby for them. She smiled softly. Pilby was such an angel… After Pilby finished the bottle, Mach walked towards bedroom and put them into the crib. Pilby was now very sleepy. They yawned, as Mach covered them in a blanket. "Goodnight, Pilbert…" Mach kissed their forehead. Pilby fell asleep before Mach closed the door…

[rils-little-blog]

REGRETAVOR: my Pilby and Mach headcanons!

thought of an age regression plus disabilities headcanons for those two.

more info under the cut!

Age regression headcanons:

Pilby is little and Mach is their caregiver (gf/partner). But if Mach is busy, Split can be their caregiver or babysit them for now. Their pacifier looks like:

Disability headcanons:

Both Pilby and Mach are disabled! (Pilby is an wheelchair user and Mach is deaf)

(let me know in the comments or reblog if there's any mistake I make)

Credits: animated divider, bow divider, SFW interaction only divider

[littledinomax]

Hey meine Lieben,

Ich bin Max bin 22 Jahre jung und bin ein kleines Little im alter von 3 Jahren.

Ich bin schon lange auf der Suche nach einem Caregiver bzw. Mami oder Papi, vielleicht wenn jemand interesse hat und man sich besser kennt auch eine Beziehung hihi!

Ich suche eine Person, die mir die Geborgenheit und Liebe geben kann, die ich in meiner Kindheit nie bekommen habe.

Das Kommt auf dich zu:

Wenn ich im Littlespace bin bin ich in meiner Welt wo ich so sein kann wie ich möchte und meine Kindliche seite zeigen möchte also ist es nicht einfach nur auf mich aufzupassen sondern auch mich zu Wickeln oder mir eine flasche milch oder multisaft zu geben. Auch ist es bei mir der fall wie denke ich bei fast jedem Little das ich sehr gerne Kuschel oder aber auch mal meine ängstliche Seite zeige wenn ich angst habe. Ich mag es auch sehr mit Mami oder Papi zusammen zu spielen oder auch einfach nur einen Kinderfilm zu schauen oder zu basteln. Auch gehört es für mich dazu, das ich ab und zu Mittagsschlaf mache denn kleine Littles sind schnell müde wenn sie so viel erleben hihi. Was auch nicht Fehlen darf, ist das Mami oder Papi wenn zeit da ist mir eine Gute Nacht geschichte vorlesen oder mir ein einschlaflied vorsingen/summen. Wenn Mami oder Papi damit einverstanden ist freue ich mich auch wenn wir mal einen Ausflug machen.

Mein Letzter Punkt ist, das Mami oder Papi natürlich auch dafür sorgen müssen, dass windeln und so weiter Vorrätig sind. Aber nach absprache steuer ich definitiv dazu aber das klären wir dann wenn ihr mit eurem Little privat redet hihi.

Du bist immernoch da🥰

Mein Teddy hat mir gerade zugeflüstert, das er sich auf euch freut genau so wie ich hihi!🥺

Wenn ihr Fragen habt ob zu meiner Person oder dem Thema generell habt keine Angst, ich beiße nicht🥺🥰

Nadann vielleicht bis bald und wir vermissen euch!🥺

Euer Max und Teddy Leo🧸🥰

[foulbearobservation]

avalil au where lilith is the grim reaper and she keeps trying to go get ava to drag her down to death and every time ava is like hang on let's play a game and if I win you let me have a little longer and lilith's like. fuck it, I'm my own boss I guess I can let this happen. and she just keeps losing to ava and every time ava asks for just a little longer lilith just lets it happen because she's very whipped (if you ask her she is honoring the letter of their agreement). until one day ava's more morose than usual (she got murdered by her caregiver. she's not super into this whole "living" thing as much right now.) and lilith is like. hey let's play checkers and ava's like girl if it's my time to die then I don't rly have a lot worth living for so I'd by alright with dying right now actually. and lilith has this moment where she's bodyslammed with the realization that she's not okay with ava dying so she lets ava go again and ava goes back to life (as graceful as ever, which is to say her consciousness slams back into her body at mach 3). then there's like a stretch of years and years and years where lilith doesn't see ava at all and she's like ??? and then it's been 50-60 years and then lilith finds ava again except this time ava loses their little game (it was ava's turn to choose. she is deliberately bad at chess) and lilith is like. I'm sorry I have to take you to the great beyond. and ava's just like, it's not scary with you next to me.

[a-side-of-agere]

☆ Regressor Doppio Dropscythe Headcanons ☆

Here are some of my personal hc's when it comes to him being an age regressor! Thought of these as I was working on his moodboard and just thinking of them makes me happy ( ⸝⸝´꒳`⸝⸝)

(Note: While these are headcanons I have for him as a regressor, that does not mean I don't/can't see him as a caregiver! Lots if not all characters tbh I don't ever really think too strictly as an "age regressor" or as a "caregiver" only. I tend to just think of them as well... them, and depending on if I'm thinking of them from the lens of being an age regressor, caregiver, or flip I adjust accordingly. Like for example, while I have done multiple things with Doppio as a regressor, the first time I thought of him in terms of agere related things was actually as a cg in a personal secret fic idea (which I loved and still love and need to write but I'm so rusty orz).

Anyways, onto the headcanons!

- Personally I would say that 95% of the time when Doppio regresses he's in the little kid range of 4-6! (though more often then not he's in the upper ages of 5-6)

- Energetic. So energetic. Way too energetic depending on who you ask. Doppio is always moving around when he's regressed. Whether it be simply tapping his hands on a table or running mach speed through a playground, something is always in motion.

- This is probably why one of Doppios favorite activities to do when regressed is to go out to parks and other high energy places like arcades, trampoline parks, etc. Places where he can be free to be active and have fun (and burn off some energy in the process)! I like to think that playgrounds (whether indoor or outdoor) even become a bit of a subtle positive trigger for his headspace.

- Has a very active imagination when regressed. Shouldn't be a surprise with how active his brain and imagination is when big as well. Playing pretend, acting, telling stories are all along Doppio's alley.

- He also enjoys drawing, but definitely prefers doing more "arts and crafts" type of art! Especially if it includes glue :D

- He has two specific plush toys that he especially loves when regressed and are his best friends. A black wolf plush and a small chick plush. Definitely comfort items that work on both big and regressed Doppio and are for SURE helpful to have when caring for him.

- Earlier I said 95% of the time he regresses between 4-6, and that's cause 5% of the time, usually if only ever when he feels really sick, exhausted, and/or due to really negative emotions, he instead slips way younger, usually to baby age of <1 to maybe 1 and a 1/2 maximum.

- While not always, due to the usual circumstances in which he tends to slip this young its more often then not involuntary, and sometimes acts more along the lines of vent/upset regression. Expect lots of tears, whimpers, clinginess, fussiness, and maybe even a couple flailing fits.

- Other than that, the activities of baby Doppio aren't usually much more than sleep, sleep, and more sleep. Not a lot of movement, nor lots of noise or activity. Just a very tired 'eepy baby.

- His really young headspace is very rare to come by for others, even within his close circle. Not only from circumstance but also because Doppio feels a little more embarrassed with it compared to his usual regression due to how "out of character" it is for him. In his words as he puts it, being "super lame and uncool".

- Despite his worries, his friends never mind. Xsoleil especially, no matter if he is regressed or not, will always be happy to take care of one of their own <3

[ddlg-deutschland-kontakte]

Daddy DL/Caregiver im Großraum Stuttgart sucht Little Girl

Ich bin 38 Jahre alt und ein sensibler feinfühliger Mann mit viel Herz und Ruhe und einer auch durchaus weiblichen Seite. Oder wie eine Freundin über mich sagte: Sehr harmoniebedürftig und ein lieber Kuschelbär.

Als Besitzer einer kleinen Firma in Stuttgart bin ich trotz allem von Natur aus ein Alpha und wo nötig auch Dominant und durchsetztungsstark. Ich stehe mit beiden Beinen fest im Leben, bewohne eine 75 qm Wohnung in einem der schönsten Vororte von Stuttgart für mich alleine. Es liegt mir im Blut sich um andere gut zu kümmern und viel zu geben.

Ich habe erfahrung mit einer ADBL Beziehung die fast 11 Jahre! gehalten hat... leider ist sie kurz vor Corona wegen verschiedenen Umständen zerbrochen. Ich schreibe hier definitiv nicht zum Spaß oder um "mal zu gucken" sondern meine es ernst und suche auch etwas ernstes.

Windeln mag ich gerne an meinem Gegenüber sehen, ich mag das Knistern und den Geruch des Kunststoffs sowie den Geruch der Creme und des Puders... Ich möchte gerne Liebe und Geborgenheit geben und freue mich wenn ich das von meinem Little Girl zurück bekomme. Gerne möchte ich mit dir auf der Couch kuscheln und spielen und mich um dich kümmern und vielleicht deine lieblings-Kindersendung ansehen. Als Daddy weiß ich natürlich wenn es Zeit fürs Bett ist oder für einen Windelwechsel aber ich kümmere mich auch um dein Leibliches wohl. Ich bin ein guter Koch und verwöhne dich auch mit leckeren Speisen. Ich spiele Gitarre und kann dir auch dein Lieblingslied spielen. Egal was die Welt da draußen macht, bei mir kannst du dich fallen lassen.

Ich selbst trage auch gerne mal eine Windel, da ich das Gefühl "eingepackt zu sein" gerne mag. Little bin ich selbst aber nicht, schon der klassische Daddy. 

Statur ist Daddy-like... Bart mit leichtem Daddy-Bauch, habe aber noch volles Haar (blond, länger) und ein paar Tattoos. 175 cm und ca. 86 kg. Bilder kann ich bei ernsthaftem Interesse gerne senden.

Du weißt nicht wie du mich anschreiben sollst?! Ein einfaches "hey hallo..." reicht, den Rest mache ich :-) 

Kik: WindelDaddy85 Telegram: Chaoscommander85

[comfort-tears]

Little Pilby art/Hcs please? <333

🐛 Little Pilby Headcanons 🐛

— 🎠; Pilby's little age is 3-5 years old.

— 🎪; Pilby has a fluffy blanket! One which they always carries with them when they is in agere.

— 🎠; They is a non-verbal, usually babbles or points to ask for things.

— 🎪; A very sensitive little caterpillar. Sometimes they may just sob or even cry because they misses their mom so much.

— 🎠; Enjoys eating sweet things, although they prefers apple pieces. Also enjoys drinking apple juice in their sippy

— 🎪; Likes to wrap themself in the sheets, pretending to be in a cocoon.

— 🎠; Has a small collection of stuffies and porcelain clown dolls.

— 🎪; Their has coloring books and lots of crayons, also paints with their fingers.

— 🎠; When finishes drawing, looks for Mach to show her their drawing.

— 🎪; Mach is their caregiver, although she is aware that Pilby is very shy about their agere, she always tries to support them and take care of them.

— 🎠; Mach usually distracts the little caterpillar by telling them stories. The afternoons are story time.

— 🎪; Split for a while was their cg too.

— 🎠; If they grabs something with their lower hands, they won't let go.

— 🎪; Sometimes they hides in the boxes together with Jaova.

— 🎠; They has playdates with Poob and Prototype!

— 🎪; When they feels overwhelmed, hugs their own tail, usually rocks to calm down.

— 🎠; Enjoys seeing the flowers, it brings back memories of when they was with their mother.

If you need anything else, don't hesitate to send a letter! (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

[ril-sillyart1st]

MY RULES AND BONDARIES!

DO NOT INTERACT!!

LGBTPHOBIC, racist, sexist, fatphobic, ableist, pedo/MAP, zoophile, anti-furry, anti-neopronouns/xenogenders, proshippers, Israel supporters, ask box donations, anti-agere (age regression), entirely NSFW account WITHOUT SFW side account or warnings to it (s🍓xual content, gore art, etc), mean user, ybc fans, supports problematic person/group, ageplay/DDLG/etc, fujoshis/etc, blank account (no pfp, no bio or sus bio, no bg, no pin intro, etc)

Before you follow:

I'm sensitive, easily overwhelmed, introverted, socially awkward (sorta)! Please be gentle, kind and patient with me! /srs /gen I have an love hate relationship towards NSFW and gore art just to mind you. Please use tone tags when talking to me! (a list of tone tags), especially for /gen, /nbr, /nay and /nm if you're going to say "wtf" or something similar to that at me without full context (it makes me really confused and scared to wether you're mad at me or saying it rather in a negative way! /Gen) My general content is mostly SFW most of the time! But for anyone who's agere but only want completely SFW then my other account is @rils-little-blog (Not very active there tho!) But my account (this main account) isn't exactly safe for users under 12 or maybe who are age regressors (if little space); I swear a lot (but I censor it with emojis), I might reblog/blog something suggestive or slightly NSFW (but this will be rather rare and I would put TW tags to it!), I might do candy gore art (rarely draw stuff like that!). If I did something wrong please kindly and calmly tell me in a most gentle, kind way of tone! /srs I sometimes like to use "!" At the end of my sentence! But it doesn't always mean I'm yelling or screaming at you. /gen Be at least 16-18+ user! I don't want my followers to be younger users. /lh /srs I like childhood shows just to mind you! I'm a multifandom user. I'm a furry and will sometimes make furry art/content! I will block anyone I don't like even if they didn't do anything bad! (My reasons is because I find you or them uncomfortable! /Gen) Please DO NOT tag me in serious topics (ex: war, abuse, drugs, etc...) as I get easily overwhelmed and get anxious by that! Please only tag me in tag games! (especially if it's agere game) /srs /gen If you saw me in games (Roblox, Pony Town, etc) please don't RP or even say hi to me as it will make me feel uncomfortable and nervous! /srs /gen If I unfollow you it's either: I accidentally unfollow you, you did something bad, you're not very active anymore, quitted, I don't like the blogs you make anymore. Which I know the last one sound icky to some but y'all can't just control me on who I follow and unfollow sometimes. if I ever unblock you it's either because I'm giving you another chance or I forgot what you did. (Though I'll blocked you again if I got uncomfortable) I'm quite picky at some things sometimes. I'm quite honest sometimes. I might make unfunny jokes so be prepared for that! (Both are sfw and sometimes a bit suggestive and nsfw) This account is btw one of those "ask the characters and creator" blogs!

MY LIKES/INTEREST:

my interests: blaze and the monster machines, team umizoomi, childhood shows, regretevator, blaze x crusher (blasher/fire strike), watts x starla (wattsla/starlight), zeg x stripes (zepes/fluffy dino), crusher, blaze, split x bive, mark x wallter (wallmark), lampert x infection/kasper, pilby x lampert, poob x pest, mach x dr retro x folly, splatoon, marina, marina x pearl, frye, frye x shiver, agere game post, sanrio, kuromi, shark, mlp

likes: (when caregiver to little/agere me): attention, affection, comfort and reassurance!, getting compliment, cute stuff like plushies! :3, genuine safe stimboards video, ASMR, reblogging and commenting my blogs, getting asked if I'm okay or asking about my AU characters or maybe my OCs as well, Fluttershy, agere edits, agere (wholesome) post, squishmallows

MY DISLIKES:

dislikes: getting ignored, being mean, horror, war related post, donation related post, vent related post, rant related post, NSFW, my post flop, feeling overwhelmed, loud noise, being alone, getting angry or yelled at me, unsafe stimboard, school, group of people, haters, people who hate what I like! :(, Taylor Swift and her fans

Rules:

If I interact with someone or something problematic, please tell me in my ask box instead! (With full real genuine proof of it!) I don't like Helluva Boss and Hazbin Hotel but normal fans and nice anti of the show/Viv can interact! please don't ask me to be moots with you! /nbr (because I'm uncomfortable with it. /Gen), I'm comfortable when we get to know each other first before fully being friends! /srs Please always credit my works PROPERLY! (art, animation, story, edits, etc), Ex: credits to *insert my username* Though you may trace my art in PRIVATE only as I don't want to see! I will get uncomfortable if you did post your traced art of my art in public. /Gen /srs Please don't force me to reblog something I don't want to see! (ex: serious topics, reblog bait, etc...) I get overwhelmed by it. /srs /gen y'all can get inspired by my ideas and stuff but don't do it heavily (aka entirely copying it!), unless it's a trend. No NSFW fan made stuff of my OCs, persona (aka ME!) and my AU characters! No making headcanons of my OCs, persona (aka me!) and my AU characters! please don't ask me for donations, here's my reason why (in link). Please be at least active and interactive with me! /nf /lh (just saying that because I felt lonely and ignored)

[care-puppy]

Regretevator Fanfic Requets are open 🎉✨💖

Headcanons

PartyNoob is a toddler regressor and a playmate

Pest is a flip (caregiver lean) and a kitty regressor

Lampert is a caregiver

Infected is a flip (big brother caregiver and a toddler regressor)

Bive is a flip (mama caregiver lean), regresses around 5-7

Split is a mama caregiver

Both Wallter and Mark are father caregivers

Pilby is a baby/newborn regressor

Mach is a mother/big sister caregiver

DrRetro is a babysitter

Ships are PartyBeetle, Spive, SkaterLight, Wallmark, HammerHonk (Pilby x Mach)

I WILL WRITE:

Fluff, hurt/comfort and happy fics

Platonic relationship fics

Romantic relationship fics

Y/N fics (Y/N can be a regressor or a caregiver)

SFW

I WON'T WRITE:

NSFW stuff

Any variants of DDLG, ABDL or age-play

Any other k1nks or f3ti1sh stuff

Darkship stuff

I hope you read the rules!

[sanctamariafaridabad]

What is the Most Popular After School Activity?

Whenever the final school bell rings, parents and other caregivers ask themselves what to do with their little ones. Do the kids have any home activities for children or are they more into organized games? The choices are innumerable and it is a question that has perplexed many educators and parents alike. Sancta Maria International School, an IB curriculum school in Faridabad, offers holistic learning beyond the classroom. This article explores the most popular after-school activity and why children love it.

The Significance of After-School Activities

Ultimately, after-school activities define a child’s overall development. They allow children to explore their passions, acquire new skills, and find new friends besides those in class, among others. Furthermore, such events help kids to relax and unwind from a tiring day at school, thus lowering stress levels.

Opening Up Pathways to Creativity

It’s crafts for kids that tops the list as one of several different favorite choices! Who would ever think that paper, glue, and scissors could produce so much joyfulness and inventiveness? Crafts for kids provide an outlet for self-expression while aiding fine motor skills and problem-solving abilities. Painting or pottery allows them to let loose their imagination and create something extraordinary.

This is art-based child development according to our international school. In this regard, there are multiple crafting activities which form part of our after-school program including DIY jewelry making through to paper-mache creations. Our trained teachers carefully supervise students’ exploration ensuring safety.

Getting Active with Fun Activities for Kids

Crafts rank above fun activities for kids which promote physical movements, among others, second on the popularity scale. Children can engage in soccer, dance, or martial arts during out-of-class hours, hence frequent active body movements by these young ones. These sports ensure pupils’ good health by strengthening both their balance, coordination, and fitness levels.

According to Sancta Maria International School, physical activity is essential for the all-round growth of a child. Besides soccer, basketball, and gymnastics, we also offer other numerous activities in our after-school program. This aids in shaping their personality, building confidence, and independence as they are handled by trained instructors and coaches.

The Rise of Digital Learning

Digital learning has recently increased its popularity as an after-school activity. There are several online educational platforms where children can access educational resources from home. The benefits that come with digital learning include flexibility, convenience, and personalization among others.

Our belief is that the 21st century needs a lot of digital teaching at Sancta Maria International School, an IB curriculum school in Faridabad. Some of these materials are made available through our after-school program such as online interactive games, quizzes, tutorials, etc. Our dedicated teachers help learners navigate the digital world by providing necessary support, enabling them to acquire lifelong skills for this century.

The Verdict is a Surprising Revelation

But what is the most common after-school program? One may be surprised about it. The most prevalent children’s after-school choice according to a recent study is… (drum roll)… staying at home! Yes, kids love being at home doing things that make them joyful. These include different sorts of children’s crafts, fun activities for kids, and other alternatives.

At Sancta Maria International School, we reckon that every child has his or her talents and hobbies. Therefore, we have planned an after-school program that will work on each kid individually in terms of his or her cognitive development. Generally, the most popular after-school activity is a manifestation of the child’s personality and creativeness. Craft kits for kids, play for children, or digital study, everybody has their own interest.

For this reason, Sancta Maria International School, one of the leading IB program schools, offers broader programs apart from the usual curriculum-based learning. One such example is our after-school initiative which exposes children to various activities aimed at improving their intelligence quotient (IQ), emotional growth, and social adaptation.

So, what are you waiting for? Encourage your child to explore their interests and passions, and discover the joy of after-school activities.

[ddlg-deutschland-kontakte2]

Suche einen lieben CG/Daddy :)

Hii also ich weiß eigentlich gar nicht was ich genau schreiben soll... Aber versuche es einfach

Ich bin Pia, bin 19 und suche einen Caregiver/Daddy.. aber wir können auch erstmal einfach nur schreiben miteinander und bin ein Little aber hab noch keine wirkliche Erfahrung, wär auch schön wenn mir jemand noch viel erklärt drüber :)

Ich erzähl einfach mal bisschen was von mir

Hobbys von mir: hmm ich liebe Pokemon aber wenn du dich mit Pokemon nicht auskennst ist das ok xd zocken generell ist cool und ich gehe gerne spazieren!! Hab auch viele Plüschtiere und Pokemon Sachen! Ansonsten hab ich leider kaum richtige dinge die ich mache...

Leider hab ich auch paar Psychische Probleme und hab kaum Freunde, deswegen ist es generell toll einfach auch jemanden zum schreiben zu haben

Kontaktieren kann man mich jederzeit über Discord, heiße dort: pik4chw

Einfach Freundschaftsanfrage schicken :) wäre cool wenn das hier jemand liest und sich meldet

[saidunknownz]

FOLLY CAREGIVER !!! I LOVE THIS

now i needa see folly regressed mach cg..

Hot take (I am wrong)

Just some sleep deprived doodles because I really love Folly already

[prince-honeypaw]

I’m sure we’d all love to hear some CG!Toshinori!

♡ Most certainly!

♡ Toshinori is a man of many hats. Former #1 Hero, ex-Symbol of Peace, eighth holder of One for All, teacher, father figure- Why not toss caregiver on top of all that shebang?

♡ Seriously, this guy has got to be a workaholic or something, because he seems to pick up a new responsibility at every corner.

♡ Being a caregiver though? Probably one of the healthier responsibilities a guy could take on.

♡ Yagi still holds this desire to take care of people and be someone that others can rely on, so taking care of someone in their headspace could really fill that void.

♡ He'd probably stumble through it a bit at first and try to get as much information as he can because of it!

♡ Absolutely great with nourishing a little's imagination. He's seen and done a million and one things- of course his stories will be taken to heart.

♡ And, since he was super dramatic and grandiose in his All Might persona, to the point of being very campy, he can sometimes be allowed to play pretend- health permitting, of course.

♡ Kind of a sucker for his baby.

♡ Sure, he was a hero and could ignore a monologue from just about any villain in favor of laying down the law, but with his little one? Puppy eyes are his kryptonite.

♡ He's so tall, all the good forbidden stuff is ALWAYS out of reach. The absolute cruelty 😔

♡ However, he lacks the strength he once had as a hero- But, he still has his reflexes!

♡ This usually works out well in some cases (I.e.): Pacifier about to drop on the floor, little pushing their plate off the table, something getting knocked over, etc.

♡ But, sometimes his little will scamper up to him and his instincts say: Catch, clown.

♡ And, well. 🤡

♡ The guy's made of papier mache and well wishes, it's just his lot in life.

♡ He's still a competent caregiver and fuels the flames of imagination Impeccably.

♡ Physically affectionate to his core, he'll dole out head pats like it's his job.

♡ Can and will spoil his baby with whatever they might want if they ask politely!

♡ Has pictures of his little in his wallet, and he will show them off if he's allowed.

♡ If his little needs a leash, he might end up getting drug across the parking lot.

♡ Again, composed of popsicle sticks and hope.

♡ Loves to be called dad in any form!

♡ His go to nicknames for his little are: Sunflower, cub, baby, little one, young "name".

♡ 10/10 Caregiver, can't get enough of this dude.

[thanatophobia-thoughts]

Not expressly related to Death Anxiety, but adjacent. On this blog, I do try to show aging and old age in a more positive light, revealing stories of people who are still doing well, in good health, and staying active as they get older.

 As we all know, that’s not always the truth, and we do, eventually, die of old age.

This tends to paint our image of our elders, and for some, this can mean avoidance because seeing them, is like looking in a mirror to our future. We fear that may be our fate one day, and sometimes we may not have the strength to stay by their side through the hard times.

I suppose it is one of the reasons my dad will always be one of my heroes. He helped both of his parents die with dignity in their home, and he became his father’s full-time caretaker for at least a year. My grandmother had a funeral in a church, but my grandfather had his in a bowling alley. My dad took care with both, and what wishes were, or weren’t, left behind.

Not all of it was pretty. Not all of it was finding nice moments to spoil his father with Vienna sausages.

A lot of it was literally wiping his father’s butt after he went to the restroom.

A lot of it was helping him in the bath.

Plenty of it was reminding his father that he was sick, and tempering his own frustrations and agony as he cared for his father so his father wouldn’t see that. My dad has some anger issues, but he did his damnedest to take care of those, and give his father all the care he needed.

It was hard, especially as the memory began to go in his mother and his father.

He did what he could to keep his father socialized at the end, too – his mother went first. He made sure his father went to play bingo, and enjoyed time at a retirement community, even if he wasn’t living there.

He got a small dog, Snickers, because his parents always had dogs – but their last one died some years ago, and they knew better than to get one, given their age and health issues. So he got one, and it was my grandpa’s lapdog. He’s still alive, and my dad was so grateful to him (and his cat, Static), for offering that additional comfort to his grandpa, that he’s going to make sure Snickers lives well.

Static he had a while before, and has already passed on, after many years of being the King Cat and an all around badass.

This is the hard truth of aging for some, and while my dad has admitted some relief, some gratitude, that his dad is no longer in pain, I know he probably would have still cared for his dad for years if it would have kept his father around longer.

The way our American society tends to treat the elderly, by putting them into homes, and isolating them, worries me.

My grandfather was lucky to be taken care of in his home, and able to get out and socialize. I’m fortunate to know of the hardship, and to prepare myself in some ways for it – because that might be my future one day, taking care of my parents. And someone, someday, may have to take care of me.

I think many of us try to ignore and tune this reality out, which plays into gerascophobia – fear of aging. We don’t familiarize ourself with the process, we don’t talk to or see as many old people, and we know that aging = death. It plays on so many problems. We fear losing our minds. We fear losing our physical capabilities. We fear the indignity of aging, because it’s hard to have dignity when, well, you can’t control your bowels or take care of that any longer on your own.

There is a spike in old age and suicide.

There is a spike in old age and depression.

I imagine a lot of that is because of the way we look at aging, and our general avoidance of it – thinking about it, preparing for it, engaging with it. Most of us take ourselves out of the caregiving process by leaving it to others, so we further disconnect from what may happen to us. We leave the elderly in strange environments, to be cared for by new faces, surrounded by strangers.

For some this can be good, and they may flourish with more interaction – my grandfather enjoyed his trips to the community! There are also certainly professional caregivers in the field who deeply care about those in their communities, and try their best to make this transition as positive as possible. They have all my respect, because this kind of work that confronts death and mortality, along with hospice, is hard, and I know that when minds start to slip into dementia or memory loss starts to occur, it gets even harder. You are also a godsend for families that don’t know how to care for their loved ones.

I just think that not knowing how to care is a part of the problem, and not being involved is a part of the problem, and I wish there was more education about it, more open talk about it. I certainly needed to know more about this in school. Like taxes. But you know, I’m really glad I learned how to make paper mache in middle school instead. 

In general, I do not think there is enough conversation about it, because many are of the mindset that “they’ll die soon”…only “soon” may literally be 20 years.

I may only be in my 30s, so 20 sounds like a long time, but in looking at human lifespans I’m not sure how twenty could ever be soon.

So take care in how you think of aging, and the elderly. Check your thoughts on it, and consider what could be done to better not only your future, but the future of your loved ones, and those around you. They are a vulnerable population that I feel we as a society grow increasingly annoyed with, rather than cherish.

Think of how you’d like to be treated.