#BC IT COMES FROM A TERF??
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babe, be careful ur being a bit loud about hating feminine men and men who cry :// your misogyny and queerphobia are showing :///
#:)))))#iykyk#sirius black#fandom stuff#if I see one more ‘fem twink sirius who whines and cries abt chipped nail polish’ im actually going to cry#you’re not insulting sirius#you’re insulting REAL PEOPLE#you’re making a fucking mockery of ppl who cross dress who are feminine#let’s not even talk about sirius is often used to portray gender fluidity#really you’re choosing SO hard to stick to a canon version of sirius ??#bc it’s masculine??????#BC IT COMES FROM A TERF??#rather than supporting different version that show diversity and helps people be themselves#that tells me all I need to know about you.
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if i hear one more person unironically identifying themself as afab or amab I'm gonna start biting
#theres times where it's useful to delineate (e.g. talking about the ways nb people are treated depending on which sex they're assumed to be#born with)#(tho i would argue that it's not agab per se but rather assumed current sex)#but PLEASE can i stop seeing people earnestly calling themselves ''afab nonbinary''#OR ALSO implying that they have some innate understanding of womanhood based on how they were raised#I've come across a bunch of nonbinary spaces online#where it's maybe 90% self-identified afab people#and they always have this undertone of ''well‚ we're not women‚ but we Understand™️ by virtue of our assigned sex''#which‚ maybe it's just me‚ but it always implies that trans women & transfems somehow are barred from understanding misogyny#bc of the fact that they were raised as boys & don't have the right body parts#(the ''''right'''' body parts lemme be clear)#um yeah basically my whole issue with it (other than that it's basically recreating the gender binary‚ including the ''inexorably tied to#biological sex'' part)#is that it misgenders transmascs & trans men (me lol thats why i get angy abt it) by implying we have some sort of inherent connection to#womanhood by virtue of our sex at birth#and also feeds into the exact thing that terfs like to say; that trans women will never really understand sexism & that they're interlopers#bc they ''are amab'' / ''are male fakers''#anyway.#o.#trans#transsexual#transgender#afab#amab#agab#transphobia#transmisogyny#<- these guys mostly for the stuff in the tags in case people have those blocked & don't wanna hear me talking abt it#transmasc#transfem
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this is why it's impossible for trans women to be TERFs (as much as i see other tme people throw that accusation around) bc TERFism is very specifically and purposefully built upon transmisogyny + oppression of trans women. TERFs don't "hate men" or think men are inherently evil lmao they hate TRANS WOMEN + the "hating men" shit as said is a misgendering smokescreen used to make it seem like TERFs on some level have a sort of "justification" when in actuality it's pure bigotry plain and simple
#jay text#this idea tries to soften TERF ideology into something where OBVIOUSLY it's transphobic to say trans women are actually men#but TERF women are just doing it bc men are dangerous for women so you can kind of see where they're coming from can't you ):#transmisogyny
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just need to vent about the Olympics
#Saw the shittiest take saying “on top of the emotional distress on imane imagine how much in danger she is back home”#are you stupid? no seriously. are you stupid?#You think the entire goddamn country who sent here to the Olympics and the mena singing her praises didn't already know about the yx thing?#“oh i meant like bc of the trans allegations and yk”#literally go fuck yourself#don't make the cost of yout activism the demeaning of arab countries and painting us as savages#some of you are too comfortable showing your racism and ignorance under the guise of supporting queer identities#surprise surprise! us in those “barbaric uncivilised” countries don't go throwing people over roofs bc of trans allegations#Yes women can dress as manly as they want and hijab is never forced. Do you ever think before you speak??#Women like imane are welcomed and common in arab countries#the transphobes we have here are the same fucking ones you have in the west! how come yours is special and civilised terfs???#And stop calling her khalif for fucks sake. learn how arabic names work before butchering them with your ignorant self centered naming systm#Imane is her first name. Khalif is her FATHER'S first name. You're calling her by her father's first name NOT her last name#arabic names go with your first name first. father's first name second. grandpa firstname third then great grandpa THEN last name#call her imane and stop embarrassing yourself bc you're just calling her by a man's name. her father's#“trans allegations” as if our people take the west media seriously rather than a circus show at best. You're repeating old news.#And even if there were. People here are actually a community nurtured on kindness. even the most conservatives mind their business#We're raised on being a community. strangers are your brothers and sisters. Live and let live#But your goddamn media takes stories of religion extremist and paints ALL of us like that. and your tiny brain actually believes it#Hey! you know those gay stories on my blog you've been reading? They were written by a savage arab oh no!#They were written by someone who lives in those dangerous arabic countries! oh no!#You don't know our culture. You don't know our beliefs. You will never grasp our ideals bc they were weaved from kindness and helping others#So don't fucking talk shit about things you know NOTHING about. You don't know the queer arab struggles#the same bad apples you have there we have here. shitty people are shitty regardless of nationality#But actually we do have some etiquette and considerations for others here. We don't go throwing bricks at queen tourists do we?#So why would we do it to our own people you sad excuse of a human
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heyyy, not sure if you were aware, but the op of that "girlhood isn't walks of shame" post is like. ACTUALLY a terf :x
Worm, i checked through the account a bit now and it does seem to be radfemmy, but like. I hope this won't get misunderstood, but i feel like it'd be a bit dishonest for me to delete a rb of a post i agreed with with the reasoning being "i don't agree with everything the op has said" yknow? If that makes sense. A post criticising tiktok bimbocore feminism is a post i agree with, regardless of who made it
#not a big fan of terfs but i hope the whole thing makes sense like#i agreed with the post and to act as if i didn't bc the op posts things i don't agree with feels dishonest#and counterproductive bc it's natural i won't agree with everyone on everything#i'm not voting for them i'm just taking what i agree with from them etc etc#i also hope this doesn't come across as aggressive (??)#it's hard to like have tone come across in text but the whole ''i can agree with 1 thing with someone and disagree with 99 things#but it won't make me say they're wrong ab the 1 thing too''#is something i believe in nd tend to follow but at the same time i wanna say i appreciate this and i think of you as a friend#so i gen hope none of this came across as rude or idk talking down or anything of the sort#that said rbs off bc i trust you and my mutuals but i don't trust tumblr as a whole to not take my words out of context hdbsbdhdjd
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Basically I think we need "transsexual fagdyke" posting that doesn't rely on the unspoken idea that the "dyke" part comes from being born with a vagina
#i notice this a lot abt most of the Omg The Genderfuckery! posts on here lol#like yes i Am a gayboy And a dyke but also the dyke part does not come from the pussy. it's a state of mind !!#idk trying to finalize my critique of 'butches and trans men are the same bc of the inherent womb trauma of girlhood terfs fuck off' lol#'butches' are never specified as cis either lol#open mick night#lgbt#gender#i say all this bc as a trans GUY it makes me kinda dysphoric lmao. like even before getting into the other shit#the idea that 'vagina + taking testosterone = Inherent Genderfuckery' is gaining a little too much popularity for my taste lol
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Hey bestie, no need to answer this, but I saw u reblogged something from roach - works, and I just wanna let u know that she's a major terf
oh!!! thank you for this fr. i'm answering this bc i just wanna say that i don't have shinigami eyes and i'm on mobile most of the time, so these pointers are much appreciated <33
#preemptive soury for the rant. guess my meds finally kicked tf in. and im at my computer so keyboard access vvv#caveat i WILL say that i have a sideblog that specifically reblogs terf-specific rhetoric but it is an archival blog for research purposes#archival bc in the past i've been looking at blogs that end up being deactivated or change to a name i dont know#and research bc i've been interested in understanding the sociology/psychology behind it for a while and how other bases of discrimination#(eg acephobia and anti-pornography) tie into their sets of beliefs. as well as having the privilege of a strong foundational academic#background in these topics that i am perfectly capable of disputing each argument point if need be#this also provides me with a set of dogwhistles that may not be as obvious to the larger tumblr population (eg i have a strong suspicion#that 'natal female' is a dogwhistle in the context of academia. yes this comes from reading actually published articles. if that sounds#familiar to anyone. yes this is heavily rooted in that one that tries to propose 'rapid onset' gender dysphoria but used an insanely biased#sampling population for their statistics. which was the basis of the entire paper. i want to ask how some of this shit even gets published.#but then like. there's the AI rat penis so. anyways)#saying this bc i occasionally DO have anxiety that i will accidentally reblog something to the wrong blog. and it's moreso the concern of#not wanting to spread misinformation and bigotry without a critical deconstruction behind its rationale.#that sideblog is there and tucked away for storage purposes only. please let me know if ive accidentally reblogged smth to this blog#ask#Anonymous#edit damn wtf. i dont even follow them whhh. tumblr's GOTTA stop just. randomly putting shit on my dash. god
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i have my benefits of not being out as trans (which is. only one really but it is not being harassed because i dont attract attention) but it fucks with my sense of self
#i am genderless. i am some sort of man. i am a girl that wants/tries on a costume so she can play as a most minimal pastiche of a man#i am nothing and i am agender#i am a liar that lies about being a woman. i am still a woman when strangers perceive me as anything but (something that i want from them)#i almost feel like i prove terf's point about “poor confused girls” just by existing.#i know this is not true but holly shit actually expressing myself in the way i wouldv've wanted physically would've fucking helped#which admittedly. i dont even try with it nowadays. as much as i want it and perhaps maybe need it it feels hopeless to try#and its not even just physical part. i just dont know how to describe it#i should not just give up on it because some motherfuckers above just fuck shit up and sometimes specifically target people like me.#i should resist. and yet#the binary gender mixing with a feeling that i lie forever and ever (whish is admittedly big bc i usually dont feel bad about act of lying)#i see posts that are akin to “trans person / people please dont kill yourself we need you/you all”#and i just keep thinking why. whats the point. is it a much of a loss really if some One Random trans kills itself#or i should just rot until a day. an opportunity when i can finally make myself#and the obvious answer is that i Should work for that day to come. i in fact stoked to start hrt i am not afraid of transition#but with stuff just stacked against it. what the point#i cant in good conscious call myself trans just even in general at this rate tbh#mauv's meowing
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Why tf did a t*rfs post just show up on my dash as 'based on ur likes' like alright, what secret t3rfs post did I like....
#And also it was lowkey a 'heartbreaking! The worst person u know just made a good point' type of post#Bc it was calling out terfs here being Hella biphobic which is true IN GENERAL BY DEFINITION ... But It was one of them complaining#So like the call is coming from inside the clown car 🤡🤡 being there and being a hateful prick was ur choice soooo#*playing the world's tiniest violin*#wow anna said something#anna's shitposts
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getting to the point where i've gotten a bit wary of those posts along the lines of 'this pride month let's stop focusing on meaningless discourse and talk about actual real problems facing the queer community' because it's not always obvious whether they mean 'meaningless discourse' as in 'don't worry about other people's labels and let queer people live' or is it 'this discourse is fake and stupid and meaningless and doesn't matter at all'?
it's like the way people will reduce acephobia to "discourse", this attitude of trivializing actual bigotry and acting like it's not a big deal or a real problem in queer spaces when it very much is!
#and every time i see people in the notes of those posts agreeing and also spouting exclusionist bullshit#like yeah on some level arguing about whether bi lesbians exist doesn't matter bc it's not gonna change the fact that they do#and also that it's not anyone else's business HOWEVER it does matter on some level bc that 'discourse' actively hurts queer people#and i can't articulate this well rn bc i'm home with a migraine but i just...it kinda reminds me of how terfs will talk#like guys come on stop talking about this *redirecting away from their own bigotry*#like i've seen it. also any kind of exclusionist rhetoric WILL lead you down the radfem pipeline eventually so#win rambles
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people will say 'transandrophobia/transmisandry isnt real youre just a wannabe mra' and then say t4t is for trans girls only
#this is what allowing 'men are gross and icky' terf rhetoric into the trans community turns into#note: i have issues with the terms transandrophobia and transmisandry bc theyre co-opting transmisogyny#and the experiences arent the same#perhaps some kind of -essentialism or -separatism but its definitely not 'misandry' bc misandry doesnt exist#this post inspired by a post in the trans guy tag that says misandry is cute and t4t means tgirl for tgirl only#its long been observed that trans men will sometimes become misogynistic in an effort to distance themselves from their agab#it seems we're running into this with some (SOME) trans women now that want to distance themselves from their own agab#unfortunately trans men are largely ignored/forgotten/talked over when it comes to transphobia or trans visibility#this is something that the community needs to unite for bc the more we let our oppressors divide us the easier we are to eradicate#rant over
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Why tf is tumblr showing me terf shit “based on my likes” no tf they’re not dumbass bitch! [the rest of this transcript has been redacted so the tumblr ceo doesn’t try and sue this user]
#nice blocklist in the notes on that one tho#strangest part was the terf screenshotting a twt from a racist clout chaser who tried to be a trans right wing mouth piece#but had to stop bc the chuds wouldn’t stop misgendering her lmaoo#‘I never thought the leopards would eat MY face’#dumb ass bitch#anyway#terfs eat shit and die#praying that user falls into a well and never comes out#transmisogyny
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she's doing it again
https://www.tumblr.com/lionfloss/714587856710008832/havekat-is-a-terf?source=share
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this assumption that IM the one going around sending ppl, mainly TRAs, messages about havekat is beyond insane and so unfounded. she has repeatedly fingerpointed at me & it’s borderline insulting how much she projects her own stupidity onto me. why would i be so stupid as to link *my own blog* to a bunch of TRAs & call myself a “fellow terf” or whatever that anon referred to me as? that’s also putting me at potential risk of harassment & if i wanted to be anonymous, i would’ve simply not linked my own blog??? like? it’s not adding up. at this point her incessant need to pin this on me after she repeatedly blatantly lied about me is making me suspicious of her. why does she want to push the idea that i’m behind this? is it to discredit what i’ve said and to paint me as malicious? im not gonna pretend to feel sorry for her or care that this is happening to her bc she had no issue being racist, lesbophobic, a compulsive liar, etc and then emotionally manipulating ppl to get away with it, but i’m also not invested in any of this enough to send anons to countless ppl about her.
if she wants to pretend that i made up her being rad-bad-etc i can happily unblock her and screen record me scrolling thru our dms bc i don’t take kindly to someone lying about me the way she lies about herself constantly ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ but other than that, i truly do not care half as much as she thinks i do, i dont check her blog & i don’t send ppl anons nevermind combing thru her notes on havekat to tell every blog that reblogged from her that they reblogged from a terf. unlike her, i don’t have the time nor energy for that.
#i’ve dmed like 1 mutual to tell her that rad-bad is racist. 1 person sometimes dms me the insane lies rad-bad continues to spew#that’s the extent of it.#havekat#she might be stupid enough to constantly talk to herself on her side blogs but i’m not stupid enough to send anons linking to my blog while#calling myself a terf. my blog has been subjected to more TRAs recently and anon hate from them bc of this too i reckon.#the anon behind it should come forward or sth bc i’m tired of her trying to act like it’s me. but for all we know she’s that anon herself.
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tfw the person u got into an argument with bc they got up in a knot abt u calling ppl bitches “bc it’s a misogynistic slur” has ‘u can’t defeat a bad bitch’ in their bio and says troon even though they are very much not trans!!! cherry on top of the shit cake
#terfs are…something else man#shawty was out here comparing me to some random dude they knew that made rape jokes like cmonnnn#god has very funny ways of working I’ll tell u that#plus all the shit I got on *that* post came from people who came to ME!!!#you come to MY post to bitch abt how *I* hate women bc i used a silly word to describe how it’s disingenuous to use the patriarchy to ..#..critique people…and IM the misogynist!!#yeah u could make the argument that my use of the word was a bit tasteless but honestly it’s not that big a deal#terfs literally just don’t like when u point out the holes in their “feminism” bc then they’re just transphobic sexist weirdoes#also if u categorize womanhood purely thru suffering i BEG u to go outside and spend some time w women#im not even a woman but if i thought abt transness purely thru a suffering lens i would be wayyyy less happier#giz rants
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the first time i ever saw the word radfem was back when the dancestors were coming out and someone used it to refer to latula/porrim
#this was when like#punny ship names were in vogue#remember when people called. jaderose guns and roses. and then literally took grimdorks from john/rose in an act of m/f hate#caused a lot of tag confusion people were so mad very funny thing that happened that doesnt matter at all bcs. fake nerd thing#i still think roxygens a pretty good one of those clever pun ship names a lot got pretty wordy and annoying. real clunkers#i mean hell we're so far removed i forget rosemary was one of them but like what does. rosemary the spice have anything to do w them lol#it did lead to rosemarried as a term back when the wedding upd8 happened so i guess it all comes full circle#i dont think it was meant bigotedly to be clear at the time this was like. the era when terf and radfem were considered separate entirely
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hey are you a terf ? you've been reblogging stuff from radfems ...
No, I'm not a terf, I support trans people 100%. Also terfs are uncomfortably cozy with the alt-right and that's uhhh... a whole other layer of awful.
But I think I may be following a secret terf? Tumblr keeps showing me these posts that are like "liked by someone you're following!" And I follow 4k people so I'm not like. Keeping track of anyone but my mutuals. And some of the posts tumblr shows me are obviously terfy which makes me go HMMMM but then some of them seem fine? So it's hard for me to tell the difference between "posts tumblr reccomends me that are normal and in line with the regular leftist and feminist things I'm into" vs like "posts tumblr reccomends me because they're liked by whatever secret terf I'm following and have suspicious undertones that aren't immediately obvious to me". I'm certainly not intentionally following any terfs or following anyone who publicly identifies as a terf* or puts terf shit on my dash but I'm apparently following someone who doesn't blog about terf shit but LIKES terf shit (and I think it might be a fandom blog so that makes it harder to identify) and then those likes show up on my dash and it's not always obvious that it's terf shit or from a radfem blog-- it's just a random posts from a url I don't know. And sometimes the posts themselves are fine on the initial read.
So pls let me know what the radfem blogs in question are so I can identify and remember them if they pop up on my dash again
*caveat that I've been on this website for 10+ years and follow 4,000+ people and it's theoretically possible that a blog I followed multiple years ago that I never see on my dash now publicly identifies as a terf, but I'm not gonna go through all 4k of my following to try and find out if any of them have become publicly shitty in a way that doesn't affect my dash in the years since I've followed them. People get unfollowed as they bring shitty views to my attention. Hence the conundrum with the undercover terf bc they don't post terf shit, they just like it.
#*but how do you not immediately recognize terf dogwhistles!* you may ask#well. I've found when it comes to any toxic community like terfs or antivaxxers or incels or qanon or antisemitic leftists or WHATEVER#familiarizing myself with the discourse to the point that I'm An Expert In All The Secret Signals is uhhh...#pretty corrosive for my mental health#I'd much rather know Enough to recognize more obvious and popular talking points but otherwise stay a billion feet away#knowing all the Secret Signals involves an engagement with the nuance of their arguments that i am simply not mentally capable of#like it is Too Distressing#and I've found that as long as i can still recognize the more well-known signs of toxicity and steer clear...#i usually successfully avoid coming into contact with the toxicity#and like. I don't think my disabled friend's lives would be better by me becoming an expert in horrific eugenicist arguments and their lingo#nor do I think my trans friends lives would be improved by me becoming an expert on terf language and arguments#total respect for people who do for the purposes of fighting the good fight and warning everyone else#but couldn't be me. I'm sensitive and any amt of cruelty virtriol and toxicity just really Affects me#and my parents are qanon conspiracists so I'm already over the limit from being forced to hear abt whatever new#horrible conspiracy is going thru qanon every week. last week it was that i should Stockpile Food for Sept and Oct bc#Something Might Happen and i should be prepared#and don't i know masks are poisoning the american people? 🙄#anyway props to people who know how to spot a terf from 100 ft based on how they walk#but it doesn't click for me until they open their mouths and start saying gender essentialist shit#(like. when i joined reddit in college I didn't know *gender critical* meant *terf* and was horrified to find out)#so no I don't have every radfem blog memorized so would appreciate warnings abt them#I've mostly been fairly happy in my non-hate-group tumblr bubble#asks
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