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Interesting to note that, compared to how many people want to show solidarity with the refugee community, there's like 0.1% of that support for the racist lies it is rebuking. It's also interesting that they jump immediately to calling me tranny, faggot, and hoping I die of AIDS, in that it demonstrates exactly how toxic solidarity is to these idiots that at the merest online post suggesting it as a worthwhile value and they hiss and spit their vilest and most boring of venom.
Got some assholes repeating those vile racist lies on my post about how JD Vance is telling vile racist lies, so I guess that's three folks blocked and three new folks on my list of people I hope shit themselves to death.
#I'm not having a Great Time Online or anything#But there's like five of these dipshits and they're all in a line#Having blocked them directly won't help on this post but will likely avoid nearly as bad a repeat next time#Also fucked up that blocking someone doesn't remove your post from their blog#Kinda sucks that they're mostly reblogging it down the chain from one guy who I already blocked and reported#But because T&S is glacially paced over here if it ever shows up that also means I'm on my own in terms of my post and note hygiene#But may at least get a few dickheads banned for a little bit eventually although I'm not holding my breath#I'm just saying on bsky when you block someone they are blocked as hell and it is the best block feature I have used in a while#And with the exact same level of tool on here I would be dealing with about half as much from these assholes#If not less
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@ii-neg-confessions is really stupid
IMPORTANT UPDATE!; @II-NEG-CONFESSIONS IS BANNED (on tumblr)!! ALL CAN REJOICE!!!!!
@ii-neg-confessions is kind of what it sounds like, a blog about inanimate insanity to spread hate and negativity and I feel like people shouldn't be so open to absorbing hate all the time
I wrote a better worded version on my phone but the drafts thing apparently doesn't work so take this kind of lazy one instead cause I don't really wanna spend any more of my time on this earth trashing an admin on a confessions blog who most should know is just a negative nancy hater who needs to get off they damn phone
time to "see through the bullshit" and "simply call out this bullshit" instead of "mindlessly consuming slop and following the herd"! /quoting their blog
also if you are gonna say "ohh don't give them them attention that's what they want" hold that thought cause this post isn't FOR them, its to educate ABOUT them and show people they're stupid. Its your choice if you wanna block them. Also, this is my space to criticize whatever I want, block whoever I want, etc. so I'm gonna post this rant here and let people act under their discretion.
anyways more under the cut
update on 12/09/24; rephrased/added context to some stuff in the Adam Katz segment.
update on 12/09/24; added a funny thing at the very end of the post.
update on 12/10/24; removed Adam Katz segment for correcting and editing.
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This is one of those things that when I read it I audibly said " are you fucking serious" cause truthfully I don't think they are being serious here.
To make fun of people that are POSITIVE? you actually must be absolutely MISERABLE to make a whole word to try and describe people who are positive in a negative light. I don't have much else to say here other than they must be genuinely sad with their life to do this.
small bomb break just to preface something
I'm not gonna go into their blog and criticize every word they have ever said, because I simply don't want to, but feel free to add onto this in the comments or re-blogs, cause I think its important to acknowledge this person and see them for who they are... and act accordingly of course.
anywayyy...
death threats (I'm gonna talk about that)
I've seen a lot of the OSC unanimously say that Mil has sent death threats to the II crew which I believe is true considering their overwhelmingly negative behavior and opinions towards most people who like ii/the crew themselves. I wanna of course start by saying that (as obvious as it should be) DEATH THREATS ARE NEVER OKAY! In some places in the world, even online they can be ILLEGAL!!! Its never okay to tell someone that you are gonna kill them, or that they should kill themselves, no matter how bad you think their YouTube show is, or how true you think your preconceived notions about peoples life or political stances are, death threats of any sort? NEVER OKAY! The fact that they went out of their way and spent that time (and most of their time) blatantly hating on this thing that was never about or for them is really disgusting.
Some more stuff I wanna say (in bullet point form!)
I never will say that I don't think its okay to have negative opinions or state said opinions, but from what I can see from this entire blog, its more than that. Its more than sharing criticism, its spreading hate about something a lot of people hold dear to them for no other reason then the fact that you hold hate in your heart
I'm pretty aware that Mil has some issues, whether that be relationship, familial... its none of my business. If she's reading this, just know there are people who can help, help is always available to you.
for a blog that's all for "seeing the truth" you really love to delete everything you don't agree with (even if its negative)
using art and not taking it down even after asked to is really rude, everyone should know that.. well except for Mil, who still has the post up
people calling everything that is appealing to the audience "fanservice" is so stupid is that the only word you know? do you only know how to use buzzer words to catch your audience instead of giving genuine points?
I was gonna say some more but I got distracted, and also I'm already sick of their shit so
okay bye bye!
p.s. ; a hefty handful of screenshots I didn't wanna write a whole paragraph saying they're shit to
this one is just sad to read like who hurt you
blatantly threatening a hack against AE's channel (also illegal)
shit like this makes me believe that this account is ragebait
more "posies" talk (makes me giggle)
looking pretty defensive to me (definitely a dream stan)
self indulgent insert but uh maybe its cause cobs is in the show hmm idk maybe though
death threats arent okay even if mil sent them to others (it will only repeat the cycle)
this is just funny to me, the ii crew has gone back and deleted scenes that aren't good, they have said they were young at the time and they are growing and changing people and apologized for what they did, what else do you want? do you want them to beg for forgiveness at your shoes?? you're fucking weird.
""digital footprint" isn't real" says a lot
what do you mean?? they're hating WITH YOU!!!! just because they can see good in the show doesn't mean they're corny! full post here
maybe because the songs are... musical inspired... maybe you just hate fun... (they literally say they do what am I talking about)
hating for no reason again (and ignoring everything anon said except for the thing that caught their eye; hatred)
okay I'm done, Mil is exhausting, @ii-neg-confessions is exhausting, I'm forever a "posie" I guess
if you read this far also... hi! thank you for reading all of this and educating yourself! remember that despite their hatred, there's still lots of love and care in this world and you deserve the most of it! please get some water and a snack, and have a wonderful day!! <3
okay that's my rant bye
p.s.
stop following me, mil
#inanimate insanity#ii#object show community#osc#object shows#osc community#osc discourse#discorse#ii confessions#ii neg#ii negativity#animationepic neg#inanimate insanity negativity#inanimate insanity neg#posie tears#posie#info
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Oh Orla….Thing that cracks me up about these puritan idiots is… they’re simping for fictional special forces operators, you know, people who’s job is to potentially kill people. Sure they’re a very flowery, sensationalised version and there’s nothing wrong with not liking the stuff you or I write (block, move on, go do your maths homework kid.) My stuff isn’t for everyone, and that’s fine I respect all opinions if handled properly.
But… use your fucking brain; eg. your softboi sweetie uwu coffee shop AU version of Simon Riley is so far removed from reality, that you have no ground to stand on as to what’s ‘right’ in terms of fanfic.
Every piece of fanfic is technically inaccurate to the character and how they’d act and that’s fine, that’s what it’s for, for fun. Just stop acting like grown adults that give plenty of fucking warnings on their blogs and posts about the dark nature of their work are the weird ones when you can’t even comprehend the actual nature of the media you’re consuming 😂
Also… know how they never actually go things with consequences? Like… say how some aspects of the porn industry harm REAL people? Yeah, nah, they’re fighting the good fight, making such a difference to the world with their vague posts about you/us writing a non existent soldier as something short of a fairy, angelic prince ahahahaha.
absolutely, you're so right about this -- it's the fact they're more worried about dark fiction writers than actual victims of SA and rape. they don't actually care about them, they just can't handle someone else having another opinion, or writing something that's not made for them. it's beyond immature, and insulting those who use it as coping mechanisms, telling them to go to therapy, it's childish (reading non-con to cope is a great coping mechanism, some therapist's may recommend it. and, they're clearly not thinking about how hurtful and damaging their words are to survivors and victims of SA, telling them they're gross for liking it, while claiming to support victims is immature.)
i'm 100% not saying everyone has to enjoy my work, but don't go out of your way to make multiple posts about me, naming and shaming me for the content i produce. if they really cared about victims of SA, they wouldn't be insulting victims for enjoying non-con.
and you don't need to like my work, but you also don't have to send me paragraphs upon paragraphs on why you think i'm disgusting, how you hate me, ect... 1. i won't bother reading it, it's pathetic and useless, these hate anons are too close-minded to understand the reasoning behind my work. 2. i'm not going to take a hate anon seriously. i know they're sending it out of spite, jealousy or anger.
simon being a cute, little barista isn't very accurate either, but that's the whole point of fiction; it's NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BE ACCURATE. we all have our different headcannons, there's no need to shit on mine because it doesn't align with yours!
thank you for the support, minty :33 i appreciate your thoughts and the message 💗🫂
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oof ya'll we are in for it now. it's time... for puffin's hot take on softblocking. because yes I am and always will be salty about this shit, come fucking fight me and my anxiety-ridden existence.
firstly. I softblock inactive and archived blogs. I think that's chill. but I also always say I'm doing that, so in the event I accidentally softblock someone I didn't mean to and they check my blog like ??? they'll see that post and be like ah okay, it was a mistake.
now. for the love of fuck, why do people say they softblock when unfollowing folks in their rules but also state they do not want to be contacted if they unfollow you ? this is why I have anxiety. like, if you're gonna get offended every time someone messages you to make sure it wasn't an accident or glitch just block people.
and yeah, that is probably where 90% of my anxiety comes from, and why I struggle to reach out to people. because me, popping into someones DMs to make sure it wasn't a mistake gave them the ick and they decide to vague about me or block me anyway. grow the fuck up. and stop assuming the worst about people !
because you know what ? your self-righteous "ew don't talk to me after cutting you off" like tumblr isn't a glitching hellsite / mobile tumblr isn't an accidental thumb-swish away from deleting your blog is not friendly to your neurodivergent followers who struggle to understand situations and approach people.
because being disgusted by someone's genuine concern is shitty. if I come to you like, hey... it's because I noticed, and it mattered to me, and I managed to overcome the anxiety telling me everyone secretly hates me. you being rude about it isn't sexy, and it isn't cool. like, good for you. you're no longer being haunted by my lame ass.
listen. I understand that anxiety exists, obviously. but if that whole situation up top gives you anxiety then you should just block people. and also, if you are softblocking folks but aren't comfortable with them contacting you about it ??? copypastas bitch. a simple "hey, thanks for reaching out ! I did mean to softblock you, nothing personal, just please don't contact me anymore or follow me." goes a long fucking way, because if they then choose to keep pushing it ? you've set your boundaries, they're the asshole now, not you.
because the sentiment I see a lot is "I don't owe you an explanation" and I agree with that 10,000% !! do not come to me asking about why I blocked you or your friend or whatever else, I will not tell you, I do not have to tell you. but re: the copypasta I provided above ? no reasons, just facts. the only explanation you do owe someone is a clarification of the situation, aka setting your boundaries. no one needs to know why those boundaries are being set, in fact I fucking applaud you for setting them, but you do need to communicate that those boundaries are there.
SOFTBLOCKING ISNT ENFORCING A CLEAR BOUNDARY. softblocking is a petty ass way to rid yourself of someone. the metaphor I often see used is its the equivalent of scooping up a spider in your house on a piece of paper and putting it outside. I don't know about ya'll, but when I'm removing a critter from my home that I do not want in it I am actively talking to it and explaining the situation, even if it doesn't understand me, because I want it to know I mean it no harm and please don't come back. guys, no fucking joke, I wished a wasp a merry fucking christmas when I had to remove it from my house because I felt so bad my cat had been torturing it. wasps probably don't celebrate christmas !
point being, I communicate my boundaries to the spiders I'm taking out of my house like they're going to respect them. ya'll should do the fucking same. grow up. we all have anxiety. we all struggle to understand and accept certain social environments and interactions, especially online. we're all doing our best.
don't be a fucking asshole if you softblock someone and they want to make sure it was purposeful. in fact, don't be an asshole to anyone. there is no valid reason to be an asshole to anyone in the rpc, jfc.
also yes, if you softblock me I will block you, because I do not have the mental endurance to deal with the "they hate me" monologue spiraling through my silly little brain. because too many times I have experienced scorn and disgust and hate at being reached out to about softblocking and that has cemented in my brain, more than the anxiety it was a mistake. like just fucking block me, then.
so like. either don't softblock folks or grow up and communicate your boundaries, idk. and don't be an asshole, as previously stated.
this probably doesn't make any sense and has errors in logic / rationale but it's my anxious, frustrated ramblings so fuck it
final thoughts: please don't softblock me ! thanks
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let's go over this briefly.
colin (who is like five years older than me) was very mad at me for having a screenshot of a post he made about me [with url removed] on top of my blog
i was concerned for his mental health (because i told him to stop looking at my blog since he said it triggered him and he said he could't) so i sent a signed ask to nana (because he had replied to one of colin's posts). i didn't know he had me blocked, because of how sideblogs work
i screenshotted nana's posts because, again, he was addressing me by name. i removed the URL. he sent me off-anon asks, to which i replied, let's be honest, with a lot of restraint (considering people were going about triggering my OCD and threatening violence against me). in retrospect, i should have answered the asks privately. i admit answering the asks was a mistake.
i did not ask evie/treat to make that account or do anything she did. you can reference my response to her "confession" post. she admitted to pretending to be my friend to gather information about me.
the reason i asked octo to keep the document private was due to having my URLs visible in the document. it was modified and then i told her she could release it if it became necessary.
i have reciepts, which are available upon request
i don't ship the twins together 🤷♂️ not that that matters
i also have a therapist.
sincerely ~@phantasm-discourse
Oh, well, my dearest proship/neg.
Considering we first found you as "anti-anti-otonokoji-twins", surely you can understand why it's believed you shipped them.
As well as that, why the fuck would you need to go on an alt account to send an ask to nana if you didn't fucking know you were blocked.
Nana addressed you by name because you signed yourself off. By name.
I don't know JACKSHIT about Colin or what he was doing, I just know you went to nana about it and Nana was uncomfortable with you.
And what confession post, the ones treat hid on the same alt they harassed nana on? I didn't take two fucking looks at that stupid ass account. I can't remember if it blocked me or I blocked it, but I was shown the screenshot through someone else.
And to my knowledge, the only asks nana sent were "please just leave me and my friend alone" repeatedly..
Also, your urls became public and involved way before the fucking document, you can't hide that much.
"treat was working to get closer to me" sure, maybe! But treat might as well have been working to protect you by going SOOOOOO FAR back into Nana's posts to find something from. Gasp! When he thought a popular ship in the fandom was 100% fine!
Also, what's up with you going to reys comments all like "you're obsessed" as if he isn't being given submissions to post, as well as people responding to him just as "obsessed" as he supposedly is.
And also, does your therapist know you don't see an issue with shipping siblings, or shipping adults with minors, or shipping abusive relationships?
Are they fine with it? Doesn't seem like a good therapist to me, as someone who's had multiple therapists.
I don't know what triggers your ocd. Hell, this is the first time I'm hearing about you having it
Let's just say we both see how it went differently, because I'm too tired to put up with some fucking twenty year olds bullshit while I'm trying to fill out a job application. And octos too sick to deal with this.
And for the love of God, leave rey alone. Leave people alone for not liking your piss poor opinions.
Also, you knew I had you blocked, so why the fresh fuck are you deciding to block evade?
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right.
A year ago a transwoman I know was banned from Tumblr after she kept following up on the removal of one of her side-blogs. This harassment against transwomen has existed for quite some time.
Okay. I am going to offer some heartfelt advice. This is what I would be doing to Tumblr if I somehow won Powerball and bought Tumblr.
#1. Expand the number of reasons for Reporting a post. Include reasons such as transphobia, racism, anti-LGBTQ sentiments, antisemitism, online bullying.
#2. Set up teams of three mods of the same minority to investigate the report. That means three Jewish people would look into antisemitic posts, three LGBTQ+ people would investigate anti-trans and anti-LGBTQ+ sentiment, three black people would investigate racist content.
#3. Set up a punishment for habitual false reports. So if someone keeps flagging posts against LGBTQ+ people, they get a time-out of 24 hours, and also are blocked from viewing the content of the person they reported. Honestly, it should be a Two Strike situation.
#4. Set up a Reward System for successful reports of Porn Bots. Give us a free Crab that we can put in a post. These damn Porn Bots are a far greater threat to the financial viability to this website than all of the transwomen in the world, and your boss should realize that rather than harass transwomen for the crime of existing. Seriously. He wants this site to be financially viable? Then HE SHOULD BE PUTTING SIGNIFICANT EFFORT INTO ELIMINATING PORN BOTS AND THEIR ILK. I am reporting 3+ bots that label themselves Critical Role, Life is Strange, Nature, Science, and more every single day, just about. I also have these Bots showing up and Following me frequently. This is not a nuisance. This is a financial threat to the viability of the website. The Porn Bots are the true enemy of your owner, even if he doesn't acknowledge it.
#4a. Actually remove the Porn Bots.
#5. Post a policy that Tumblr is not and will never sell images found on the site to any AI-iteration site. We do not want our stories or art stolen in training these theft programs. And given that there is the growing trend to protect art using programs that poison the data so that AI cannot effectively use it, so selling the data isn't going to benefit your owner much because the AI programs are going to be fucked over. And if you try to steal stories from us? The legal fees from lawsuits will make any attempt at making money from us will eliminate any financial viability. Do not go this path.
I hope you know, your owner's antics has damaged the financial viability of Tumblr far more than any transwoman has. An increasing number of people are looking into alternatives. This brouhaha has poisoned the site for a number of us, and this Staff post in response is not going to convince anyone that things are going to change.
But if you follow the steps I put forth? It might help with damage control.
For those of you working at Tumblr... I feel bad for you. If Tumblr feels increasingly toxic to us transwomen using Tumblr, I cannot help but wonder how any transwomen and LGBTQ+ people working for Tumblr must privately feel. You take care of yourselves.
A message from a few of the trans staff at Tumblr & Automattic:
We want trans people, and LGBTQ+ people broadly, to feel welcome on Tumblr, in part because we as trans people at Tumblr and Automattic want it to be a space where we ourselves feel included. We want to feel like this is a platform that supports us and fights for our safety. Tumblr is made brighter and more vibrant by your presence, and the LGBTQ+ folks who help run it are fighting all the time for this, for you, internally.
A few days ago, Matt Mullenweg (the CEO of Automattic, Tumblr’s parent company) responded to a user’s ask about an account suspension in a way that negatively affected Tumblr’s LGBTQ+ community. We believe that Matt's response to this ask and his continued commentary has been unwarranted and harmful. Tumblr staff do not comment on moderation decisions as a matter of policy for a variety of reasons—including the privacy of those involved, and the practicalities of moderating thousands of reports a day. The downside of this policy is that it is very easy for rumors and incorrect information about actions taken by our Trust & Safety team to spread unchecked. Given this, we want to clarify a few different pieces of this situation:
The reality of predstrogen's suspension was not accurately conveyed, and made it seem like we were reaching for opportunities to ban trans feminine people on the platform. This is not the case. The example comment shared in the post linked above does not meet our definition of a realistic threat of violence, and was not the deciding factor in the account suspension.
Matt thereafter failed to recognize the harm to the community as a result of this suspension. Matt does not speak on behalf of the LGBTQ+ people who help run Tumblr or Automattic, and we were not consulted in the construction of a response to these events.
Last year, the "mature" and "sexual themes" community labels were erroneously applied to some users' posts. An outside team of contractors tasked with applying community labels to posts were responsible for this larger trend of mislabeling trans-related content. When our Trust & Safety team discovered this issue (thanks largely to reports from the community), we removed the contracted team’s ability to apply community labels and added more oversight to ensure it does not happen again. In the Staff post about this, LGBTQ+ staff pushed to be more transparent but were overruled by leadership. The termination of a contractor mentioned in the original ask response was for an unrelated incident which was incorrectly attributed to this case. We regret that the mislabeling ever happened, and the negative impact it has had on the trans community on Tumblr.
Transition timelines are not against our community guidelines, and weren’t a factor considered by the moderation team when discussing suspensions and subsequent appeals. We do not take action against content that is related to transitioning or trans bodies unless it includes violations of the Community Guidelines.
When it comes to the experience of trans folks on Tumblr encountering transphobic content, and interacting with bigoted users, we understand and share your frustrations. Tumblr’s policies, and Automattic’s policies, are written to ensure freedom of speech and expression. We prohibit harassment as defined in our Community Guidelines, but we know that this policy falls short of protecting users from the wider scope of harmful speech often used against LGBTQ+ and other marginalized people.
Going forward, Tumblr is taking the following actions:
Prioritizing anti-harassment features that will empower users to more effectively protect themselves from harassment.
Building more internal tooling for us as Staff to proactively identify and mitigate instances of harassment.
Reviewing which of the tags frequently used by the trans community are blocked, and working to make them available next week.
We’re sorry for how this all transpired, and we’re actively fighting to make our voices heard more and prevent something like this from happening again in the future. We know firsthand that having to deal with situations like this as a Tumblr user is difficult, particularly as a member of an already frequently targeted and harassed community. We know it will take time to regain your trust, and we’re going to put in the work to rebuild it.
We appreciate the space we have been given to express our concerns and dissent, and we are thankful that Matt’s (and Automattic’s) strong commitment to freedom of expression has facilitated it.
We will continue to fight to make Tumblr safe for us all.
— This statement was authored by multiple trans employees of Tumblr and Automattic.
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Studio Thoughts 2024MAR01
I've been thinking a lot since first finding out about the MidJourney deal Tumblr is taking. I've been wanting to make this post for just as long. (This sounds ominous, but it's not.) (Cut for a giant wall of text. Massive rambling.)
I don't know what to do. I've made an infinite number of new accounts across all the different social media I can find. I had to make a sheet to keep track of all the different websites I've joined. The thought of trying to post and maintain 20 accounts minimum to cover myself depending on where people flee to is overwhelming. I'm already averse to updating the accounts I have now. It takes too damn long as it is. (I need to set up PostyBird for the love of god. It doesn't work on a lot of mainstream sites, though.)
I want to share my art, but I don't want that to mean that I'm giving up my rights to it so some fuck can shove it into his dataset to create images and act like they're superior to something made by a real human and the human experience. I've opted out of the 3rd-party sharing option that they gave us, but I know that doesn't mean anything without proof. If they were giving data over that they shouldn't have from private conversations and password-locked blogs, they're not going to give a shit if someone toggled a setting. The whole issue with these datasets is the lack of consent to begin with, so why would they stop Now. I don't even know why they plan to pay Tumblr for the data in the first place because how much of it has already been scraped before they decided to tie it up in a bow for them?
I hate that people just parrot "Nightshade and Glaze!!" as if they're not open-source software that the tech bros can reverse engineer with the available coding. (As well as being easy to remove/get around in the first place.) Not to mention the stupid amount of processing power to use them, if they even work on the type of art you're putting into it in the first place. Even if they worked for your art, they're not accessible to everyone. That's not fair to artists who don't have or can't afford the highest-end PC parts. And even if they Worked to prevent AI it would only be a matter of time before they Didn't, like the constant fight UBlock is having with blocking YouTube's new coding to prevent ad blockers.
I'm just tired. I'm tired of feeling that the modern internet hellscape is just not meant for artists because the algorithms expect you to post as much as possible in order to get seen. I'm tired of artists finding a place to settle only to feel the need to move again and again because they just want their work and themselves to be respected. I miss old DeviantART when it was still a giant hub and community for artists instead of the shell it is today. I still see a lot of people still posting when I check in every now and then.
I don't know what the answer is, because I know data scraping for generative models isn't going away. I can only hope that it cannibalizes itself into hot garbage by taking in generated images that weren't tagged as AI. I would love it if all the wild shit people post on here could make the dataset completely unusable.
At the moment it looks like the only thing I can do is continue to watermark my art heavily and post low-quality versions. I've never had a large enough following to worry about art theft, but I can't control an all-consuming bot scraping everything.
I've been toying with the idea of making my own website and it's seeming more and more appealing. I've seen that you can make your own Patreon-adjacent subscription setup and have a pay-to-access feature. I don't know if that could help prevent scraping or if there are methods to get around that, too. Can bots scrape Patreon itself?
I'll need to update my LinkTree with all the other hundreds of sites that I'm on I guess. I was hoping that this long-ass post would help me come to some sort of conclusion or peace. I think I just gave myself more work to do. I also feel bad that my only other text post here is so hopeful, only to be slapped down immediately in this one.
TLDR: I'm gonna keep posting but like, I'm Not Gonna Like It. MidJourney Sucks. Tech Bros Suck. Ya'll can eat my entire ass.
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I’m sorry rex… doesn’t actually care for his brothers and only acts as he does to “fit in”…. You are messed up in the head. You’re hinting at the fact that if they didn’t have inhibitor chips in place that it would be acceptable for them to feel attracted to each other.
Rex’s character is driven fully on the basis that he cares about his brothers. He risks his rank and life to save echo, he feels crushed by hevy’s death even after just meeting him, and he cries in season 7 IN FRONT OF HIS COMMANDER because he is faced with killing his brothers.
You seriously scare me if you skew your beliefs to think that this thought process is okay. They are brothers, and he cares for them as brothers.
// This is the only message I'll answer about this matter, any subsequent messages about this will be deleted and if you persist in sending these types of messages then I'll have to block you. I don't want to deal with this kind of discourse in any of my blogs.
This is in response to this post.
Hello there anon, thanks for bringing this up & for the wonderful misinterpretation of my words and posts. I really appreciate that!
The post is long, so I'll put a read more here!
To start this off, what you've read is my interpretation of the canon, that's my headcanon for my take on Rex. Which as the post even starts stating, it is my biggest divergence from the canon. Also, I fail to see where I mentioned clone/clone ship in that post. Spoiler alert: I really wasn't talking about that, at all. But thanks for twisting my words in that regard, to suit your freaky narrative and skewed perception of me.
Furthermore anon, I have already addressed those points in some older HC posts of mine. Here's my introduction to this terrifying take on Rex, and would you look at that! He cares about the other clones! (this post is also a compliment to them!) He just doesn't view them as brothers, both as a self-preservation method (getting too attached to anyone in a context of war is extremely bad) and also due to the inhibitor's chip doing. Also, when I say that his views on the clones change after the chip's removal, I never said he'd start viewing them as siblings all of the sudden.
It's no different from what I've done with my Plo koon & the Wolfpack, he doesn't view them as his children (as the popular fanons entails) in order to prevent any form of attachment to them. This is my Headcanon, my interpretation.
Listen, I'm new to this RPC, and I'm certain that no one (besides those I got to plot with so far) are familiar with my style of RPing. But I have a huge aversion to any kind of unplotted pre-established relationship, even those that are canon. Because, I don't like enforcing shit that could go against someone's portrayal, and I hate having shit forced upon me. I like plotting & discussing stuff with people, I want to build stuff with my partners. That's what Roleplay is supposed to be.
I'm sorry that your reading comprehension skills rivals a toddler's, maybe you should improve that, instead of pointing fingers at complete strangers on the internet.
Also, I'd like to point you to a key detail in my Rex's rules:
Do you see that? Can you read it? I'm not looking to write clone/clone ships. While yes, I'm open to it, if someone shows up and demonstrates interest on it. Otherwise, I won't write or post anything about it, because that's not my goal with my take on Rex. But guess what, anon? No one so far that I've come across is interested in it, and I gasp do the unthinkable! I respect their boundaries, and plot with them anything else, but romance. Ironically, I have discussed about boundaries earlier this week.
OH THE HORROR!!! 3SPOOKY5ME!!!
Anyway, I think I've addressed everything I wanted to. So, in conclusion: anon if you feel so fucking unsafe with my mere existence & disagreements over a popular interpretation of the canon, then please leave. Softblock me if we're mutuals, block me, do whatever you want in order to feel good with yourself. Curate your own experience. Because this blog is no one's safe space, but my own. If you're going to give me this treatment, then your presence isn't welcomed here. You'd be right, if I had ever forced that stuff upon anyone, I write with. But as it stands, that hasn't happened, and it won't happen because I always discuss & communicate with my partners. If they say no, then that's it! I know right, that's such a wild concept!
With that, I'll end it here with this meme. Because, I'm honestly sick and tired of people like you, taking advantage over the fact that English isn't my native language. Just so you can twist my words, to suit your weird ass narrative <3
Have a good day, and happy holidays!
#anon are u writing that callout on me is that going to be my xmas gift this year#long post#ooc /#anonymous#anon that's not the gotcha moment u were hoping for
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As someone who has been on CF, had to use it longer than I wanted to due to extreme financial difficulties, subsequently stopped using CF, and fully supports boycott efforts... this post brought up some interesting thoughts for me.
(I go extremely off topic and rant for far too long for no reason, so feel free to ignore lol)
For perspective: CF was monumentally helpful for me during the time I used it. I didn't make a large amount of money, around $50-100 in the months I was active, but for someone who has a job yet is always in the red- the benefit of that couldn't be understated. CF helped keep me on my meds and without it I probably would be in a way worse state right about now. But at the same time, the way I was treated when I did use it was... pretty terrible. Getting told you support the genocide & torture of children, and feeling like you, personally, are the reason they are suffering because you're trying to survive yourself is fucking awful. (Not to mention the odd ducks straight up lying that I didn't support the boycott because I criticized the methods and pointed out misinfo, but that's another story) Which- mind- feeling bad doesn't compare to the suffering of Palestinian people by any stretch of the imagination. But I feel like people here don't really realize how normalized that was a few months ago, how disproportionate the reaction was compared to the "crime", and... frankly, how little it did to change anything. In fact, it actually kind of hurt the cause, because Overwolf got to put out that bullshit statement about how the boycott was full of bullying/harassment and misinformation. Which... it kind of was, so that wound up overshadowing the actual criticism. And they used that as a shield, and some people that left CF went *back* to it after everything was "cleared up". The impact of that effort was... minimal at best.
Some smaller (relatively) creators like myself stopped using CF or put alt links, either because the impact to income wasn't large or because of the obvious moral issue. But that is not the norm. All of the biggest creators on CF then, including the mod squad, are still there. They've been making money throughout. They haven't acknowledged shit so far, and they likely won't in the future. Them speaking out about this will do nothing (from their perspective) except attract negative attention to them, and they'll need to give up their sizeable income. They absolutely will not let that happen just because people on tumblr are putting them in lists and sending angry asks. They will block you, remove your reblogs, and move on. The age of anonymous blogs actually having the power to run people out of the community at a whim is over. Tumblr simply does not have the influence.
Shame can be a powerful tool, yes. But shame only works if you're invested in the community you're in- which most paywall creators are not, and have not been, for years. Especially not on tumblr. You have to actually care about the reaction of others to be ashamed, and if you're not even looking at it, how can you be? They also generally tend to have such reputations in the community- such as big script modders, creators that have been creating/popular a very long time like ah00b, etc- that they're a bit too big to fall. (Mostly because simmers are terrible at actually stopping using cc of problematic people, even scammers and doxxers, but I digress.) They've learned that they can weather any scandal simply by being quiet and collecting their checks. Which has, sadly, kneecapped most of the boycott efforts so far.
So what can we do? I think raising awareness about what the boycott is, why it exists, and who is using CF, isn't a bad thing. That's not what I'm saying. But I don't think it's solving the problem. Simblr, again, is very niche. We're a very small minority of even PC simmers now. There are people that only engage with cc through CF, patreon, and other sites. The continued posts here are mostly moving through the same circles of people that already agree with them. And... sadly, mostly funneling hate to smaller creators that depend on that income far more than the ones actually making bank & contributing the most to Overwolf. Those are the only people caring enough to stop using CF, and overall, I think more harm is being caused to those creators than Overwolf, income wise. The current method of boycott is messy, kind of confusing, and ultimately not hitting the targets that it should be. It's... well, it's very simblr, I'll say that much.
I think that the scope needs to be narrowed a little bit, and that that would actually widen the reach. Instead of making a wide list of everyone that uses CF, for the purpose of sending them messages until they stop using it, I think it should be more focused and easier to consume. And I believe EA should be at the very center. Let's not forget that the partnership with Overwolf wouldn't even exist without EA, and that they make more money from this than anyone else, cc creators included. And yet I see very little ire towards them for this compared to, I don't know, releasing hollow expansion packs or buggy patches. Why are there no posts about an EA focused boycott, possibly including/reaching out to sims influencers, youtubers, streamers, the biggest cc creator collaborators, etc? Why is it always just the occasional paragraph about how CF users are the worst human beings to exist on the planet ever, a half-assed list of tumblr cc creators, floods of asks, back and forth reblog spats, and an air of moral superiority? Is that still all tumblr can do in the year 2024? The best and most useful thing I've seen so far is the blog that re-uploads the files from CF. That was good work and I'm sure it's a lot of effort to maintain. The only limiter is that the reach is probably small, and it'd probably be handy to continue to encourage creators themselves to add alt links too.
...I also believe that bringing EA to the forefront will help unite a lot of people in the community. Everyone knows they're dog shit, and efforts towards a company are a lot easier to sell than individual creators- which may be tied to memories, parasocial relationships, financial difficulties, and who knows what else. Trying to get people to stop using cc, again, even by the worst of freaking humanity is like impossible for some reason. Especially if you try to get them to stop using ALL of their favorite stuff, which let's be frank, usually includes most of the people using CF. They MIGHT use an alt link (like from the aforementioned blog), but most people aren't going to bother when they're cc shopping, especially not for pretty much every single thing they're downloading from various creators. That's why I think the boycott should be focused on EA and a small list of cc creators- the mod squad, and/or the top five to ten earners/downloaded or something- and then maybe sprinkle in some of EA's largest collaborators across platforms, such as the highest earner youtuber, streamer, etc. Add in that not downloading from/using CF in general is *preferred*, but not a rule, and continue encouraging creators to add alt links rather than requiring them to move off the platform completely, and compliance will probably go way higher. If you let them add alt links, there's a much higher chance that the revenue will be split that way, to at least impact Overwolf some, than of the creator just removing all their content (spoiler: they're not gonna do it).
The general public likes clear goals that are easy to follow, not near impossible tasks like boycotting nearly every creator *and* EA *and* numerous other companies in their everyday life (as, let's remember, Overwolf isn't the only target nor the main target of any boycott list). I know it's tempting to just say "fuck it, comply with everything perfectly the way I want or nothing", but that's not realistic- and chances are, if you play it like that, you're gonna get the nothing. We gotta work smarter here, not harder. And like the OP says, focus our energy in alternative ways. Give people different options than just cutting off income completely, cos they ain't gonna do it. Or they simply can't do it. Will people contribute to causes like this, through donations and awareness, and even boycotting some companies? Sure. Will they do a complete boycott of everything they like, or sacrifice their entire (or a big portion of) income for it? No. No, they won't. That's not realistic and simply will not happen, no matter how much anyone wants it. And I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that most of you wouldn't quit your job either, putting yourself in threat of homelessness or denying yourself medical care because of it, no matter what you say on the internet. (Y'all can't even stop downloading cc from bigots and doxxers, much less quit your jobs... but anyway) Whether that's the right or wrong thing for anyone to do, that's kinda just the reality of the situation. So, you have to change your expectations, your goals, your demands, to be closer to reality. Raise awareness, encourage alt links, download from other platforms, and lift up creators that don't use CF. And whatever amount of energy you spend doing that, put double into assisting in spaces outside of sims tumblr or other niche fandom spaces. It isn't that I think efforts here are pointless or not worth doing... just that, you'll probably have a lot more success making a difference that way.
I want to be clear re: Curseforge:
I am not justifying support for the IDF.
I am not here to flame/call out/cause hate or harassment to anyone.
I am not saying that anyone who has content on Curseforge is intentionally and actively supporting the IDF.
And I also believe that last part is vital for our community to consider.
My point to all this is... In this world in which we live, it's only going to get more and more difficult to ask people to part with what sources of income they can get their hands on. I want to urge our community to continue to put energy toward assisting people in need, and organizing IRL, as much as we are able; rather than putting energy toward future shame campaigns online that ultimately accomplish nothing.*
If someone chooses to stay on Curseforge, move on. Put their content on alternative sites. Focus your energy on spreading information and resources to help the people who need it.
Spend your energy on the people who need and deserve that focus.
*- listing creators that are on Curseforge and including alt links to their content is fine imo, as long as we encourage people not to go send hate. We can only hope that people will change their minds eventually, BUT, they are FAR LESS LIKELY TO DO SO if people demand immediate moral purity at the end of a torch and pitchfork. Those people are not the ones we should be angry at.
We've all been conditioned in a world where resources are precious. People choosing to stay on Curseforge is a SYMPTOM, not the CAUSE. Focus on actual lives that need our help, and on our IRL political and community movements.
#reblogs#anachrosims#ceci speaks#ceci speaks a lot more#negative#the curseforge issue#overwolf boycott#curseforge boycott#this is way too long for no reason#i couldve went on even longer tho#it keeps striking me how similar this issue is to the paywall dilemma#in terms of action i mean#a bit like pulling teeth aint it#anyway#just me mulling over ideas again#i wish i had the spoons to really organize and manage some of this effort but...#le sigh#maybe some of my perspective might help?#nonsims#text
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I think i need to update my rules on my blog here.
So here they are.
These are boundaries i need to address and put because i feel like i didn't really make much of a rules post. Plus i feel i need to state these rules and boundaries because i have been having some weirdos on my blogs before and i wanna make sure its safe. Not just for me the admin but also anyone else on my blog.
Please respect the following.
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DNI if you are a minor and not allowed or not comfy with nsfw content. I can not stress this enough. All my content is aged up or is for mature audiences
DNI if you are a j*nadio,g*omis,or j*otkak shipper. (Any other ship regardless whether i like it or not is fine,tho im not fond of josuyasu because i genuinely see them as bros and fam so its weird to me they are not problematic so they can stay,so as long as they respect i dont see them as romantic to each other.i dont do avpol but the fans are not problematic for the most part so eh more less not my cup of tea but their fine. But those other ships are not cool with me) we do not do probships here. 🚫 if you even dare ship i*c*st or any of that shit. To the garbage can you go. Get off my blog and never return. AGAIN IF YOU DO PROBSHIPPING. GO AWAY PLZ.
DNI if you are against lgbt rights and the community. No this doesn't mean disagreeing with a ship or hcs,politely disagree and move on. Dont go throwing slurs at me or others because you got pissy with me or my followers hcs. This means actual problematic behavior and homophobia,transphobia,etc. So in other words no TERFS ALLOWED BITCH! NO IFS ANDS OR BUTTS. You can disagree with a hc,you do not throw slurs at someone for having said hcs. You absolutely do not have to like my hcs,but you do not throw your homophobic,transphobic,sexist bullshit at me or anyone else karen.
I will not tolerate racism or racist behavior towards him or me or anyone on this blog regardless of their ethnicity or background. You got a problem kyle? Theres the door. We dont do that here. Regardless of what you think or say. I will not tolerate that behavior FROM ANYONE. Thnx. (My irl boyfriend is a a moc and bipoc. So this is especially important for me to say. I shouldn't have to. But i will anyways)
I am only human man,i dont post as often,and i make mistakes. Go easy on me im still growing and learning as much as y'all. Whatever grace,dignity and respect is left on this hellsite. Please keep it. So if i make a mistake,i apologize in advance.
I like some villains in jojos. No i do not condone their actions. I can't believe i have to put this. But still. I do not condone the actions of jojo villains,i do want them to get their ass whooped and learn their lessons. But i love to explore ideas that are dark and not for the faint of heart. Or explore and idea of where they get betterish and have fluffy happy good times. So again if you are squick with this and or are a minor. DO NOT FUCKING INTERACT. Thnx
I do self shipping. Majority of the time. All my shipping is mostly self shipping anymore. So if you dont like that content. Do not follow me.
If you are caught disrespecting me,my followers,or anyone else on this hellsite. I will block,report,and fire the biggest muda and or ora on your ass. So please respect the wildlife here.
I don't do askboxes anymore due to harrassment i got in the past on this site. I also can't for the life of me fix my messages. So i apologize in advance for this.
If i missed anything let me know.
But i think that should cover it and sounds reasonable. But for any reason. If Anyone don't feel comfy here for whatever reason. Politely and please inform me. Maybe i can discuss it with you. If i share anything from someone that is problematic and harmful. Let me know asap, i will remove the post.
And you don't have to follow me for any reason just because im a jojo blog. Follow me because you like the content i make or share. Thank you.
But thank you for your time.
#Rules#admin rules#blog rules#PSA#psa from admin#admin notice#my blog rules#interaction rules#jojos bizarre adventure#jojo blog#boundaries
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UPTADE ON ANGEL
WE HAVE FAILED TO UPLOAD THIS BLOG FOR A VARIETY OF REASONS, BUT WITHIN THE TIME WE HAVE RECEIVED A MULTITUDE OF MESSAGES (WELL OVER TWENTY) FROM VICTIMS OF ANGEL AS FAR BACK AS 2015/2016 AND EARLY AS THIS YEAR. (THESE INDIVIDUALS HAVE ASKED TO REMAIN ANONYMOUS, SO WE WILL NOT SHARE NAMES)
WE HAVE GAINED A LOT OF NEW INFORMATION FROM ANONYMOUS VICTIMS ON HIS PAST BEHAVIOR INVOLVING THE PROMOTION OF EUGENICS AND WATERING DOWN THE SERIOUSNESS OF A SCHOOL SHOOTING THAT HAPPENED NEAR THEN (AGAIN, PAST BEHAVIOR, BUT STILL DISGUSTING TO THIS DAY)
ANGEL IS CURRENTLY ACTIVE ON THE TUMBLR BLOGS @/IPOKEMEW AND @/MAGICMORIA KEEPING UP A WHOLESOME AND HARMLESS PERSONA. DON'T FALL FOR IT.
ANGEL IS NOW GOING BY TOFFEE AND MAXX. IF ANYONE WITH THESE NAMES JOINS YOUR SERVERS, PLEASE BE WEARY.
THE MOST RECENT MEDIAS HE WAS OPENLY INTO WERE THE OWL HOUSE AND LEGEND OF ZELDA. HIS KINLIST AND CARRD URL KEEPS CHANGING FREQUENTLY SO IT'S HARD TO TELL EXACTLY WHEN IT IS REALLY HIM, BUT MOST HIS LISTS, CARRDS AND BLOGS HAVE A RECURRING AESTHETIC AND THEME INCLUDING SANRIO, LOVECORE, CUTESY ANIME, AND GENERAL THEMES OF PINK.
HE IS MOST ACTIVE ON DISCORD WITHIN THE KIN COMMUNITY, SO IF YOU RUN A KIN DISCORD, BEWARE. (HE'S ALSO KNOWN ON MULTIPLE OCCASIONS TO ASK TO MOD SMALLER SERVERS TO "HELP THEM SET UP AND GROW" BUT THEN SIMPLY DICTATE THE SERVER AND TRY TO MANIPULATE OTHER MODS AND MEMBERS)
ANGELS MOST RECENT KNOWN DISCORD IS THIS, BUT IT IS LIKELY HE HAS MOVED SINCE. STILL LOOK OUT.
A LOT HAS OCCURRED, MUCH OF WHICH EVIDENCE IS HAD. ANGEL HAS DEVELOPED A HABIT OF DELETING HIS OWN MESSAGES THAT HE KNOWS HE WILL BE CAUGHT RED HANDED FOR, SO IT'S HARD TO KEEP TRACK.
SCREENSHOTS THAT WERE ABLE TO BE RECOVERED WILL BE PROVIDED IN A LATER POST AFTER INNOCENTS HAVE THEIR IDENTITIES PROTECTED.
FOR PREVIOUS BEHAVIOR PLEASE READ ALL THE LINKS HERE. CONTENT WARNING ON BLOG DESCRIPTION, ITS A FUCKING LOT.
ON MULTIPLE OCCASIONS, LIED ABOUT OR DOWNPLAYED THE TRAUMA HE CAUSED OTHERS TO APPEAR THE ONE WHO WAS IN THE RIGHT
ON MULTIPLE OCCASIONS, TRIED FLIRTING WITH PEOPLE WHO WERE NOT INTERESTED (WHILE HE WAS STILL IN A RELATIONSHIP. THIS SEEMS TO BE A RECURRING THING)
TRIED FLIRTING WITH A MINOR (MINOR IN QUESTION IS UNCOMFORTABLE WITH US SHARING FURTHER DETAIL, SO WE WILL NOT TO PROTECT THEIR IDENTITY AND RESPECT THEM).
CONSTANTLY PROVIDED OTHERS WITH LINKS TO THIS BLOG CLAIMING HE HAS "CHANGED", THEN PROCEEDING TO BEHAVE THE EXACT SAME WAY.
ATTEMPTED TO PRY PRIVATE INFORMATION SUCH AS ADDRESSES AND HEALTH INFORMATION FROM PEOPLE HE "BEFRIENDED"
IS STILL VERY OPEN ABOUT HIS DESIRES TO HARM SMALL ANIMALS SUCH AS CATS... WHILE ALSO PERSISTENTLY TRYING TO CONVINCE PEOPLE WITH CATS TO LET HIM MOVE IN WITH THEM.
A MINOR THING BUT STILL EVIDENT OF HIS DISREGARD FOR THE COMFORT OF OTHERS, BUT CONSTANTLY MADE FUN OF AND BELITTLED OTHERS FOR BEING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH MEDIA HE WAS A FAN OF (ON ONE OCCASION IN A SERVER ANGEL MODDED, WHEN SOMEONE ASKED HIM TO REMOVE AN IMAGE THEY WERE UNCOMFORTABLE WITH, ANGEL DELETED THEIR MESSAGE AND PERSISTED WITH THE IMAGE)
ANOTHER TELL ON HIS RECENT BEHAVIOUR BEING NO BETTER, HE WOULD REPEATEDLY ASK PEOPLE TO LET HIM KNOW WHEN HE WAS MAKING THEM UNCOMFORTABLE IN DISCORD SERVERS, BUT WHEN PEOPLE DID LET HIM KNOW HE WOULD BLOCK/DELETE/BULLY THEM TO THEIR FACE OR BEHIND THEIR BACK ABOUT IT
AND, INCREDIBLY, WHEN OTHER PEOPLE FOUND OUT OF HIS AWFUL PAST AND PRESENT ACTS, HE WOULD GET INCREDIBLY CROSS WITH THEM AND ACT THE VICTIM.
MORE POSTS WILL COME AS MORE INFORTMATION IS GATHERED, AS STATED ABOVE SEVERAL VICTIMS HAVE COME FORWARD SHARING THEIR EXPERIEMCES FROM AS EARLY AS 2015 TO AS LATELY AS LAST MONTH.
BE SAFE OUT THERE. BLOCK, AVOID. HE DOESN'T KNOW WHEN TO STOP.
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look. im going off anon for this, which is something i never do tbh. i ship sk. i ship it like hell. but i like kl too, and when i saw that post, i laughed. it was a good joke, and tbh i was like "wtf why cant u see keiths hand maybe he IS holding lances hand". people go on and on about klantis, but there are sheith shippers who take it way too fucking far sometimes. you don't deserve hate or problems for that. you seem like a genuinely nice person who doesn't deserve crap for what you ship. (1)
¡you deserve as much happiness with your ship as we get with ours. as much as id like things to be canon, i realize that it might not be, and no matter what, no one deserves to be hated on or pestered because of what they ship. klance is a damn beautiful ship, and some sk shippers need to realize that by harrassing people over ships, they have sunk to @ntis levels. so you keep on shipping your great ship and dont listen to what anybody has to say about it. youre doing amazing sweetie. (2)
ALSO another thing that some sk shippers need to realize is that kl shipper =/= anti!! sure, it's definitely a thing (oh boy is it a thing) but just because someone ships kl doesnt mean theyre an anti! sometimes the sk side of the fandom can be pretty damn hypocritical too, and it pisses me off. sk is a good ship. kl is a good ship. one ship is not inherently better than another, even in regards to whether or not itll be "canon". just let people enjoy what they want! sorry for venting a bit. (3)
OH FRESHLY BREWED JUNIBERRY??
(for context, here’s the s8 poster shitpost in question, here’s me popping off, and here’s me popping off part 2 electric boogaloo i was MAD last night akdsjfjksakfj)
i’m gonna start of by saying that i don’t think this is actually an s/k vs k/l situation? because this behavior is NOT a thing reserved to s/k shippers, it’s just that as that ship has exploded in the past year so has the number of people who are s/k shippers doing this so it just feels like it, but i see it across the board. it’s not s/k thing and i don’t want it to be labeled as such. it’s just that because s/k has become so big you can find more examples of it than if you went searching in s/l, a/l, p/l, etc. could some of that behavior be s/k vs k/l? i’m sure you’d be hard pressed not to find at least one person like that out there, but i actually believe this stems from more of a non-k/l shipping fandom issue than anything else.
i feel like i should address what counts as ant¡ behavior, especially as an ex-ant¡ myself. but that’s probably a post i’ll make separately from this one though as i want to be able to word it correctly and make it so that people don’t feel like i’m coming for them or their ship. the fact is that some people genuinely don’t recognize their behavior for what it is because it’s almost been reinforced that they’re doing the right thing by so many for so long they’ve let themselves go unchecked and because of that it’s just spiraled out of control.
but yeah, just because someone ships k/l doesn’t mean they’re an anti! i think that sometimes people just jump the gun, and honestly i’m not going to make excuses for them anymore. the thing is it’s not even that every sha/adin shipper has been personally harassed for their ship, because statistically that’s just not possible. i really don’t think people are writing anons, @ ing in posts, etc to every single sha/adin out there. and before you come for me saying i could never know what it’s like, i have had my inbox flooded by both sides, i have been vagued about by both sides, i have had call out posts, sha/adin twitter memed me (briefly, but tbh im not mad about that IT WAS FUNNY), i was on vld.flops, and at one point i’ve had law enforcement involvement (to be fair, that was for ant¡s coming after me, not sha/adins) like i’ve been through that. that’s personal harassment. and yeah, seeing ant¡s post mean stuff in the tags, seeing them go after your favorite blogs or your friends, and in general just... their overall disrespect towards people in general is pretty bad, but none of that warrants you walking around with a chip on your shoulder or being able to just ‘go off’ at any and all times. even if you have been personally harassed once or even multiple times, you don’t get to do it back. that’s not how you enact change.
anyways, if you don’t like k/l and k/l shippers that much, and seeing them reminds you of bad things, i don’t blame you at all, but that really doesn’t excuse shitty behavior. as we say in the pro ship side of things, blacklist is your religion, and if you need a more heavy duty option (that removes the post entirely from your dash, as in the whole ‘this post is blocked because xyz’ won’t even show up the whole thing is just gone), xkit is free! if seeing it bothers you that much, don’t go scrolling through the tags, don’t go scrolling through blogs, don’t go after people bnf vague, and if you do see something, just scroll past it. in all honesty by commenting you’re just worsening the already oozing, festering, cluster fuck that is this fandom even if that post in question is by a hateful person, and that’s the at best scenario. at worst, you look like a dumbass who takes everything way too seriously by picking on a person who just made a shitpost for fun.
thank you so much for the encouragement, it really means a lot especially knowing that you’re part of the s/k fandom. having that support and knowing that not everyone is just going to think i’m a raving, rabid k/ancer uwu for getting upset over constantly being unfairly jeered at does help a great deal! im just... tired of feeling dread when my ask box lights up, or my stomach getting sick when i scroll through my activity feed. i know im usually a low sodium blog (and we will be returning to low sodium hours shortly) but i think this is something that needs to be talked about. people shouldn’t be able to get away with this behavior.
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Hey, you can call me Monster or Jonny. This is my fucked up porn blog and horny dumping ground. Dark fantasies and probably unhealthy coping mechanisms. I'm a bisexual switch. Read my FAQ under the cut.
Interests: Gore/Guro, Vore, Cannibalism*, Food control*, impact play, blood play, knifeplay, guns, weaponry in general, blasphemy, intoxication*, dehumanization, degredation, humiliation, praise, and monsterfucking.
*See FAQ
Turn offs- age play and sexualized regression, raceplay, the titles "daddy/mommy", incest play, cnc/consent play.
DNI- Minors (and no dms from anyone under 20), Nazis, Terfs, Homophobes, ect, and people who's blog is mostly focused on consent play (not a judgement, just not my thing). I also probably won't follow back if you feature a lot of stuff on my turnoffs list.
I don't believe in "problematic kinks" as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult, so this is a judgement free zone.
FAQ Below. Read it before sending me a message.
Why are Cannibalism, Food Control and Intoxication asterisked?
They require a bit more explaination. Mostly because Cannibalism and intoxication often have themes of non-consent, and that's not my thing.
Cannibalism as an act of making someone part of yourself, and consentual. Honestly it's something I would consider irl in extremely niche circumstances were it legal. Intoxication as in getting drunk or high to increase sensation and make oneself pliant- going into it fully soberly consenting, not someone spiking a drink or something.
For food control, that's more specific. I have an eating disorder. I cope by sexualizing it. If you find this post from the ED community, don't lie to yourself and pretend half the community doesn't also do it, even if they keep it to themselves. I see the way they write those "light and dainty" imagines, talking about much bigger and stronger people finally taking interest. I'm not stupid and neither are you.
I'm not into starving others, I'm into being encouraged to keep starving myself. And, if you're dealing with these feelings you should probably seek help before engaging with it as a kink. But that's just my opinion. I won't be giving tips.
What the fuck you'd do Cannibalism irl??
I just think that if my buddy is getting a body part amputated and he wants to grill it up and share it, that should be legal. Full body autonomy for everyone, including the weird fuckshit. Yeah I'd try it.
What's your gender?
Transmasc fucking thing. More monster than person.
You violated my DNI
Genuinely sorry about that, I'll delete/unlike the post and if our overall DNIs are incompatible (as in, it wasn't a specific post that was DNI, but your whole blog), I'll go ahead and block you after I remove the offending interaction. I believe in total consent in these spaces and I would never intentionally cross a boundary like that. Shit does happen though, so I acknowledge the harm and will fix it before making sure I can't cross that line again. Thank you for bringing it up to me.
I found your main!
No you didn't. I don't have any other blogs, just this one.
Can I send you pics/Do you send pics?
Yeah, just don't do face reveal. I ask you not post my shit elsewhere, but that's all. I give blanket consent to send whatever you want to me, as long as it's legal.
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1. Sweetie, yes we have. We have reblogged our old messages and specifically told others to not harass and bully, along with repeating that we do not condone slurs/sexism/racism, all that stuff. I was a fucking victim of bullying until high school, online and physically. Don't tell me what is and isnt bullying, especially online. And we've said to not harass multiple times. You're only looking for the things you want to see. Besides - you're the one making a HATE blog. Your caption says "FUCK YOU KCE" with three hearts on either side. You're the hate blog here. If anyone is doing any sort of "bullying", it's you. If khorra loved bullying; as a survivor, I would not be here.
2. We do remove posts. Why put that screenshot? It has nothing to do with removing posts. It just says why we put things in the #kin tag. We don't care what people post as long as it isn't harassment or bullying, again. We just don't remove a lot of posts because...ah...no one asks us to? And when they do - there's no link? We block out URLs as well.
3. At this point it's a "if your opinion doesn't match mine, you're transphobic/ableist/homophobic!". While there are many certain pricinciples that can make you that way, stating that you must have dysphoria to be trans instead of just liking male clothing isn't transphobic. It has every right to be in lgbt tags. Its a trans issue. Get the fuck over it. And I thought I had a guy showing me how "mature" enough I was that the abuse I got wouldn't affect me. Go figure!
4. As a psych minor, she literally knows more about mental health and actually knows her shit instead of someone on tumblr. You would *love* her if she spoke for you, and you hate her because she doesn't. Right? You kinnies always grab for the "my therapist says its right!" And as soon as someone with actual smarts and knowledge comes around and says "no", you cry. The asshole comment is also satire. Have you heard of it? And the fuckin laptop - did you get hurt by someone bragging about a laptop? Really? H-how? She's not trying to rub it in poor people's faces. She has a right to talk about something she likes and owns. Seriously? I also can't afford fancy shit and you don't see me crying.
And oh, about me...you got mad at the ~ as well? Maybe you should take a break from tumblr, dude. I put that there for first, satire, second, I'm a meme loving fuck, and thirdly - of course I'm anti-self DX. Any therapist will say that. I also put all my illnesses there so people can know that I actually have these mental illnesses, so people can't say that anyone who disagrees with them is a "darn neurotypical." Even neurotypical people should have the ability to talk about mental illness, too. (I FUCKIN CALLED IT)
5. I am disabled. I am poor. I am autistic. I am every mental illness up there, and physical illness that also makes me disabled. You don't get to speak for me. And on the topic of making their blogs "safe"...you do realize that those aren't,,,unsafe? None of those are. A good byf does *not* look like that. They talk a bit about themselves, possible triggers, and usual stuff to let others know as well what they could post, and to let others know a bit about themselves - for a warning! And if any one of their followers talks to them - the followers will know what to avoid!
6. Oooominnuuuuuuus! Spoooooooky!!!!
7. None of this is us attacking you specifically. Or attacking specific others. You missed the point.
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-Mod OJ
so you shit stains wanted proof
except you DO support bullying and harassment. you haven’t said shit to stop people from harassing me. you haven’t made any posts defending me like the whole happstablook thing which BY THE WAY i was on tumblr for.
and you do NOT remove posts OR crosstags.
see? “uwu we do it bc kin baddddd” no you don’t you do it because you’r assholes. you also support people not taking down posts or tags.
it is to attack people. and people who struggle to stick up for themselves, its why we need kin or even mogai. so maybe stop attacking the one thing we have going for us.
oh wow, psych minor, youre so smart and you know everything. fucking bitch. your psych classes don’t make you an expert on other peoples lives. also, if you seriously are the kind of person who admits freely “hi i’m an asshole” maybe you’re the problem, not everybody else. and nobody cares that you have a new laptop, not everyone can affort one so maybe stop bragging.
and oj? that little ~ after your prof dx just screams anti-self dx and mental illness elitist.
and THIS? ths is disgusting. it’s ableist. it’s manipulative. it’s making fun of lists people make to ensure their blogs are genuinely safe. don’t.
don’t.
theres more comng
@kincringeemporium be prepared
also all you anons who whined about proof FUCK YOU.
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