#AdoptionJourney

[caesarandthecity]

The Pain of Bullying That Started at Home

My adoptive father saw me skating on a pair of borrowed roller skates from the neighbor. I was so happy because I had finally learned how to skate. I didn’t have my own pair, and my adoptive parents would never buy me one, but still, I wanted to learn. José, feeling sympathetic and after my persistent requests, bought me a pair. They weren’t my size; in fact, they were much bigger, but I loved them anyway. I had my own roller skates.

On the first weekend, I went out with all the other neighborhood kids to skate on a busier street. Unexpectedly, I fell and scraped my legs badly. It was a nasty accident. Afraid of being beaten by my parents, I rushed home and went straight to the shower. Since it was the weekend and everyone was home, they found it strange that I went to shower in the middle of the afternoon. My adoptive mother interrupted my shower, barging into the bathroom and seeing the injuries. Instead of helping me, she became furious and started beating me violently. I was screaming in pain, and as if that wasn’t enough, she grabbed a loofah and scrubbed my wounds so hard that I passed out in the shower.

I only remember her oldest daughter saving me and rushing me to the emergency room. Of course, I was forbidden from mentioning that my mother had beaten me. I simply explained that I had fallen and received treatment.

When I returned home, all the neighborhood kids were at my house, wanting to know how I was. However, Isabel made sure to tell them that I had passed out in the shower because she had beaten me. Most of the kids started bullying me because of the story—a bullying that was deliberately instigated by my adoptive mother.

One of the strategies my adoptive mother used to control me, to ensure I would never want to leave the house, lose friendships, and become isolated, was to speak badly about me to everyone around—friends, neighbors, colleagues, bosses, everyone she could. How many times did I catch her badmouthing me while I left her alone with a friend? Because of this, I started to believe that I was a horrible person, because in my mind, if my mother said it, then it must be true—I must have been a horrible child, a cursed teenager.

But deep down, something inside me screamed that none of it was true.

[davidwfloydart]

Love is abundant! ❤️❤️ #adoptionjourney #prematurebaby #abandonedbeauty #babygirl #loveislove #lovestory #kindnessandcompassion (at Catalina Foothills, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CpfoRVOLdHo3HXsUm0xDlOO8WaFgYYxnOMBHfQ0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[theadoptionoption]

#Repost @globalpositivenews --- Divorced in her early 30s, Katie Page, CO, decided to make some changes in her life. She switched jobs and bought a four-bedroom house but she felt unhappy.⁠ +⁠ An email from a local church made Katie think about becoming a foster parent. At first, she fostered Grayson - a 4-days-old boy who was exposed to drugs and abandoned in the hospital. About a year later, Katie officially adopted him.⁠ +⁠ Just a few weeks after Grayson’s adoption, the same hospital asked the single mom if she would foster Hannah - another 4-days-old child.⁠ +⁠ Katie noticed the first name of the baby’s mother was the same as that of Grayson’s birth mother. This was too much of a coincidence so she requested a DNA test. She was stunned but at the same time delighted to discover that Grayson and Hannah were biological siblings.⁠ +⁠ Needless to say, Katie adopted Hannah as well, but this story doesn’t end there. In July 2020, she adopted a third child, a boy named Lewis Jackson Page, and he also has the same birth mother as Grayson and Hannah.⁠ +⁠ The four of them are now one big happy family.⁠ --⁠ h/t: The Sun⁠ Photos: @woodandgraceblog⁠ --⁠ Originally posted in 2020⁠ •••⁠ @globalpositivenews⁠ @globalpositivenews⁠ @globalpositivenews⁠ .⁠ .⁠ .⁠ #caring #heartwarming #positivepsychology #globalpositivenews #news #somegoodnews #tanksgoodnews #Positivenews #positivenergy #positivity #onemillionactsofgood⁠ #mademecry #imnotcrying #imnotcryingyouarecrying⁠ #adoptionislove #adoptionjourney #adoptionstory #siblingslove #siblings👫 #singlemommy #singlemomlife #singlemoms #familylove❤️ #familymatters https://www.instagram.com/p/Ck3dNL1uUiM/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[doggiedayoutnc]

🐾 The Heartwarming Bond Between a Rescue Dog and Its Owner 🐾

There's something truly magical about the bond between a rescue dog and its owner. 💖 These special relationships are built on trust, love, and a second chance at happiness. When you adopt a rescue dog, you're not just saving a life; you're gaining a loyal companion who will change your life forever. 🐕‍🦺 Let's dive into the beautiful journey of adopting a rescue dog and how it creates a unique and unbreakable bond! 🐶❤️

🌟 1. The Journey of Healing Together 🧡

Adopting a rescue dog often means welcoming a pet with a difficult past—whether it’s been abandoned, mistreated, or lost. 🥺 But with patience, love, and understanding, both the dog and its owner embark on a journey of healing together. 🕊️ For the dog, it means learning to trust again and finding a forever home. 🏡 For the owner, it means discovering the joy of giving a second chance and experiencing unconditional love. 💕

🌟 2. Building Trust Through Patience and Love 🐾🕰️

Rescue dogs might need time to adjust and feel safe in their new environment. But the process of building trust is incredibly rewarding. ❤️🐕 The little milestones, like the first time a dog feels safe enough to cuddle or confidently explores its new home, are moments of pure joy. 🌈 These moments of growth and trust help deepen the bond between dog and owner.

🌟 3. The Power of Companionship 👩‍🦰🐕

For many owners, rescue dogs become more than just pets—they become true companions and family members. 🐾💕 Whether it’s snuggling up during a tough day, going for long walks, or simply being there as a calming presence, the companionship of a rescue dog is unmatched. 🐕 Rescue dogs are known for their deep loyalty and understanding, often sensing when their owners need comfort the most. 🤗

🌟 4. Promoting Emotional and Mental Well-Being 🌿🧠

The emotional support provided by a rescue dog can be life-changing. 🐕‍🦺 For those dealing with anxiety, depression, PTSD, or loneliness, having a rescue dog by your side can make a world of difference. 🌍💚 These dogs often have a way of grounding their owners, helping them feel more present and calm. 🌟 The simple act of petting a dog or having a furry friend by your side can release oxytocin, the “feel-good” hormone, reducing stress and creating a sense of well-being. 🧘‍♂️

🌟 5. A New Lease on Life for Both 🌄

When you adopt a rescue dog, you give them a new chance at life. 🐾 But in many ways, they give you one too. 🥰 This mutual rescue—where both the dog and the owner find new purpose, joy, and love—creates a bond that is incredibly special. The experiences you share, from learning to trust again to celebrating small victories, create memories that last a lifetime. 🕊️

🌟 6. Advocating for Rescue and Adoption 🚨🐕

By adopting a rescue dog, you also become an advocate for the cause. 🗣️ You help spread awareness about the importance of rescuing and adopting pets in need. 🌍 Your story can inspire others to open their hearts and homes to a dog looking for a second chance. 🐶❤️

💬 Final Thoughts: Rescue Dogs Change Lives! 🐾

Adopting a rescue dog is one of the most rewarding experiences you can have. Not only do you give a dog a chance to live a happy, love-filled life, but you also gain a best friend who will stand by you through thick and thin. 🐶💪 The bond you form is a testament to resilience, trust, and the incredible healing power of love. 🌿💕

📢 Share Your Rescue Story! 🐕‍🦺

Do you have a rescue dog? We'd love to hear your story and see photos of your furry friend! Share in the comments below or tag us in your posts using #RescueDogJourney! 🐾💖

[cutebarkingcat]

"Adoption vs. Rescue: Choosing the Perfect Path to a Furry Friend"

Why Consider Adoption? Giving a Second Chance Adopting a pet from a shelter or rescue organization means giving a second chance at life to an animal in need. Many animals in these facilities have experienced hardships, yet they still have a lot of love and joy to offer. By adopting, you can be a part of their journey to a better life. Variety of Choices Animal shelters often have a wide…

[openadoptionfamilyservices]

This week, the New Yorker published the long-form article “Living in Adoption’s Emotional Aftermath.” Transracial adoptee and adoption consultant Angela Tucker participated in this piece, which was thoughtfully reported and written by Larissa MacFarquhar. In Angela’s words, the article is “truly adoptee-centered, nuanced and powerful … it’s one of the strongest pieces on adoptee perspectives to date.” Visit Angela’s blog at The Adopted Life to read about her experience being a part of this piece, and be sure to check out her link to the New Yorker article, which also has an audio version available! https://tinyurl.com/3ee43dpu

[africstyleinitiatives]

Facebook memories..... from one of my previous kids in foster care 🫠🫠🫠🫠🫠 #fostercare #adoption #foster #fosterparents #fosterfamily #fosterlove #fostermom #thisisfostercare #fostercareawareness #fosteryouth #fosteringsaveslives #fostering #adoptionjourney #family #nonprofit #fostertoadopt #love #adopt #adoptdontshop #fostercareadoption #fosterkids #adoptionislove #children #fosterchildren #adoptionrocks #fosterparent #giveback #fosterparenting #community #adoptiveparents https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp2-MO3JUv_/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[hollymarlow]

#adoption #fostercare #fostering #kinshipcare #socialwork #socialworkers #adoptionsupportuk #adoptioncommunity #adopters #fostercarers #adoptionsupport #adoptionjourney #adoptiveparent #adoptivemum #adoptivefamily #adopting #adoptionsupportnetwork #therapeuticparenting #diversebooks #inclusion #inclusivebooks #socialworker https://www.instagram.com/p/CofmS06MMPQ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[oddballcattoys]

Hey, Vern(a)! This is the Tornado Twins' proud and very loving mama. She is named after our favorite Ernest movies of the 80/90s. Verna is a former "feral" cat that had been abused & abandoned at a campground we lived at a few years ago. We made quick friends with her when we moved in, and when it turned cold out, she moved herself in! She has 3.5 legs but the way she scurries around and climbs you wouldn't know! Verna also LOVES wearing fashionable collars & bandanas! She found the stash I had in the bedroom, and carried this one around crying hysterically until it was put on her. Then she was all purrs! 😹 She is quite the cuddler too! Who says "ferals" will never make good pets?! All it takes is love, kindness, patience, trust and understanding. ❤ . . #cutiepie #formerferal #feralcat #blackcatsrule #blackcatsmatter #adoptionjourney #Verna #catportrait #catbandana #meowdeling #kittylove #catmama https://www.instagram.com/p/Cll3YobJzjN/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[jamybechler]

HAPPY 13TH BIRTHDAY TO JAYLEN! Can't believe it's been 13 years since we welcomed Jaylen into our world. We are so grateful as he's been such a blessing. It seems like just yesterday that we were at the hospital with a newborn child trying to remember all the advice we'd given others on parenting 😀 ‍ #SupermanWasAdopted #NationalAdoptionMonth #AdoptionAwarenessMonth #JaylenBechler #SuccessIsAChoice #Year13 #HappyBirthday #AdoptionAdvocacy #AdoptionJourney #Blessed https://www.instagram.com/p/ClBdSLcOH97/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[childheartadoption]

Adoption is love in action. Share your heart and home with a child in need #AdoptionAwareness #LoveInAction

[davidwfloydart]

#adootdontshop #kindnessrocks #compassion #friendshipgoals #adoptionjourney (at Catalina Foothills, Arizona) https://www.instagram.com/p/CnSRIUlvaJ9ASbSdLRI7tx1K910jTqeA4VGo2c0/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[9dair8]

Brindando un cálido adiós al año con mi maravillosa pandilla felina. Entre ronroneos y travesuras, hemos crecido juntos como familia. Hace apenas 3 meses, dos de estos peludos amigos se unieron a nosotros a través de la adopción, llenando nuestros días de aún más amor y alegría. Cada uno de ellos tiene una historia única que se entrelaza con la nuestra.

Mirar atrás y ver cómo hemos crecido como familia, tanto en número como en corazones unidos, es un recordatorio de la belleza de dar un hogar a quienes lo necesitan. Los pequeños ronquidos, los juegos interminables y los momentos de ternura compartidos nos han enseñado sobre la importancia de la compasión y el compromiso.

Aunque el tiempo pasa rápido, nuestros lazos se fortalecen con cada rincón acogedor compartido y cada mirada llena de afecto. Mientras nos despedimos del año, celebramos el regalo de la compañía gatuna y anticipamos un nuevo capítulo lleno de momentos memorables.

#DespedidaDeAño #GatosEnFamilia #AmorGatuno #AdopciónFamiliar #CreciendoJuntos #AñoNuevoGatuno #Farewell2023 #CatFamilyLove #NewYearTogether #AdoptionJoy #GrowingTogether”

“Warmly bidding farewell to the year with my wonderful feline squad. Amidst purrs and mischief, we’ve grown together as a family. Just 3 months ago, two of these furry friends joined us through adoption, filling our days with even more love and joy. Each of them has a unique story intertwined with ours.

Looking back and seeing how we’ve grown as a family, both in number and in connected hearts, is a reminder of the beauty of giving a home to those in need. The little snores, endless playtimes, and shared moments of tenderness have taught us about the importance of compassion and commitment.

Though time flies, our bonds strengthen with each shared cozy corner and every gaze filled with affection. As we bid farewell to the year, we celebrate the gift of feline companionship and look forward to a new chapter filled with memorable moments.

#YearEnd #CatFamily #CatLove #FamilyAdoption #GrowingTogether #NewYearCat #Farewell2023 #CatFamilyLove #NewBeginnings #AdoptionJourney #CatCuddles

[fincopfnc]

Cryptocurrency adoption: From enthusiasts to mainstream. 🚀🌍 Fincop discusses the ongoing journey of crypto adoption, from early adopters and businesses to its integration into everyday life. #CryptoAdoptionCurve #MainstreamIntegration #EverydayCryptoUse #FincopDiscussion #AdoptionJourney

[intergen-effects-of-adoption]

Hello everyone! I am looking for participants for a study about the intergenerational effects of adoption. I would really appreciate if you could share this on any social media you have. Thanks!

#adoption #adoptionstudy #adoptees #childrenofadoptees #adopteesasparents #AdoptionResearch #intergenerational #intergenerationalresearch #intergenerationaleffects #adultadoptees #effectsofadoption #adoptionjourney

[hollymarlow]

Had a lovely evening chatting with adopters and social workers from @western_bay_adoption this evening, about all kinds of adoption-related topic, including attachment, life story work, contact, and preparing birth/previously adopted children for a sibling joining the family by adoption. I really enjoy talking to adopters, foster carers and kinship carers, so please don't hesitate to contact me if you're a social worker or if you run a support group, etc and would like to arrange a talk. . #adoption #fostercare #kinshipcare #socialwork #socialworkers #adoptionsupportuk #adoptioncommunity #adopters #fostercarers #adoptionsupport #adoptionjourney #adoptiveparent #adoptivemum #adoptivefamily #adopting #adoptionsupportnetwork #adoptionstory #adoptionstories #therapeuticparenting #therapeuticlifestorywork #nationalstorytellingweek #storytelling https://www.instagram.com/p/CoDmkASMuXB/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=