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samirafee · 1 year ago
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#MAJA🐱❤️TINY ME & MY VERY FIRST LEASH (10 weeks)🐈🪢
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murdochautismmoments · 1 year ago
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Just establishing my own timeline here
Murdoch had an alcoholic & (not physically) abusive father. (Who was still alive as of season 1.) (They had lost touch until partway thru season 1.)
Born in Nova Scotia. Grew up there & liked spruce beer.
Father was a fisherman.
Mom passed away when he was a little kid (I'd say 5-7 years old?)
Murdoch was taken away by nuns. Dad wanted to write but didn't know where.
Murdoch kids lived with their aunt.
fr keegan. William burned down his shed at 12 & rebuilt it in the month all by himself. Youth was a daydreamer.
Um when he was an altar server there was a shipwreck & then started taking notes for fr keegan. Also a birth in the room next door. tf dude. He know how to pray in some latin. Witnessed a woman dying & telling her confession?? Also there was a bunch of money in the hem of the coat. Taught him deduction.
Yo shik he’s solving his first murder investigation at 12 years old!
Keegan left nova scotia right after murdoch
He left home at 17 to go to a logging camp.
18yo  murdoch’s friend (didn’t) kill someone on a night he was drunk. Later, he held someone down while his leg was being amputated (from getting it caught in a log jammer). Still has nightmares 30y later
(between 62 & 65 this guy was killed. It was 35 years ago. Present day is 1897-1900 as of season 4)
He also had a job as a ranch hand at some point.
He has a sister who joined a convent at 14 & joined cloistered nuns in Montreal.
He is roman catholic in a city of protestants.
He went to college at some point where he met Eddy Cullen & were they both planning on joining the seminary? -- “So u’r a detective now?” ‘beats logging. I tried to write you at the seminary after jesuit school.’ “nah I got married.” -- so they went to jesuit school together, will went logging, eddy went to the seminary, then they lost touch. right? -- “still do any boxing?” ‘no I see enough of that in my career (on the streets).’ “I thought fr obrien beat it out of you.” ‘did a week ever go by that we didn’t see the inside of his office?’ “no” -- so he was a boxer & he got in trouble often. -- “fancy a pint?” ‘i’m on duty, maybe another time /lie’ “body is still the lord’s temple eh will?” -- ‘I haven’t spoken to him in 20 years’
Or he learned from the Jesuits
He was a boxer at some point.
Lumber camp "up north" from Montreal, stayed two winters, & then a logger mentioned being a constable so Murdoch applied.
Joined police force 10 years before S1.
5 years as Constable, "acting detective" at station 4 for a bit (2y), full detective 3 years before show began.
Bachelor in s1, engaged to Liza but she passed 1y before show began. Gave her a silver horse. She gave him his watch on his bday.
S1: 2 years ago come March 12th Julia & William started working together
S1 "I only attend once or twice a week," & "confession as often as possible" but later:
"every Sunday?" 'yes!' *lie detector* '...kidney stones'
Hadn't seen his dad in long enough that dad barely recognized him.
s5e8 turn of the century soon (also faked anna fulford’s death)
S5 is 1899
murdoch weighs about 160lbs bmi abt 23
s7e12 1901 8 years ago 1893 they did a murder; year julia & william met; year she became the coroner; one of the first murders they worked together
Murdoch season eight (8) was there in the constabulary for 12 years WITH brackenreid
Ok so S10 we know Murdoch's sister is dead
Just getting my history in order, ignore me
Julia Ogden
Mentor was dr osler
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spacenutspod · 11 months ago
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This week nearly saw two secret spaceplanes launched within days of each other. After ground systems concerns and then weather delays, the US Department of Defense’s X-37B vehicle had its OTV-7 launch on the Falcon Heavy USSF-52 mission scrubbed from its initial planned attempt on Dec. 11. Starlink Group 6-34 was also scrubbed that same day and again a day later due to high-level ground winds, during what turned out to be quite a volatile week for planned launches. As we go to press, a double header looks to be back on, this time on the evening of Dec. 28 with both a Falcon Heavy and a different Falcon 9 launch scheduled within five hours of each other. If the current schedule stays as-is, this Falcon 9 flight, Starlink Group 7-9, will be SpaceX’s 300th mission and poignantly its last of this year. China launched two of its tallest active rockets this week within a fraction over 24 hours of each other. The Chang Zheng 2F/T launched China’s own equally secretive CSSHQ spaceplane on Dec. 14 for its third flight. This was followed the next day by the first and only launch this year of a Chang Zheng 5 carrying the Yaogan 41 reconnaissance satellite from the Wenchang space launch center into a high elliptical orbit. At 52 and 57 meters tall, respectively, these are beaten in height by the less frequently flown Chang Zheng 2F/G at 58.3 meters. This is next slated to launch the crewed Shenzhou 18 mission to the Tianhe core module of the Tiangong space station in May next year. A third Chinese mission launched another experimental craft three days later when a Hyperbola 1 Y7 took a reusable cargo spacecraft on its first orbital test for AZSPACE’s DEAR-1 mission. Conical in shape, this craft is designed to take up to 300 kilograms for up to a year in orbit. The Hyperbola rocket family has been a focus this last week following the release of video from the Hyperbola-2Y hop test, and pathfinding for the planned reusable Hyperbola 3 vehicle. r o l l b a c k SpaceX personnel at LC-39A prepare Falcon Heavy for rollback into the HIF – additional work is needed before launch. – @NASASpaceflight pic.twitter.com/COicRHUsbY — Max Evans (@_mgde_) December 13, 2023 With the delays to both the USSF-52 and Starlink 6-34 missions the SpaceX goal of 100 launches this year has shifted from being tight to unobtainable. Nonetheless, its record number of launches and overall achievement has been incredible, including its 200th successful droneship landing with Starlink Group 7-8 just a couple of weeks ago. As things currently stand, it will have achieved 98 Falcon missions this year. Its ambitious goal of 144 intended launches next year implies an increased cadence that would average 12 per month. Achieving this also requires an increase in return-to-launch site (RTLS) missions, including Starlink missions with an optional RTLS profile. The delayed Starlink Group 6-34 finally launched on Dec. 17 at 11:01 PM EST (04:01 UTC on Dec. 18), lifting another 23 Starlink V2 Mini satellites into low-Earth orbit. Elsewhere, Rocket Lab’s Electron launched “The Moon God Awakens” mission on Dec. 15, the third in a planned series of 36 synthetic aperture radar (SAR) satellites for iQPS, and Rocket Lab’s first for this customer. The satellite will use radar to map the Earth every 10 minutes, in all weather conditions, including through clouds. This was Rocket Lab’s tenth and final launch of the year following a short pause in flights after the unexpected anomaly during the “We Will Never Desert You” mission in September. A Soyuz-2.1b rocket launched the second of ten planned satellites in the Arktika-M meteorological constellation on Dec. 16. This will utilize a highly elliptical Molniya orbit to maximize its time monitoring the higher latitudes of the Arctic region, while also providing emergency rescue communications capacity. This busy week in space also saw three days of delay in the undocking of Cargo Dragon CRS-29 due to weather. It finally left the Harmony module of the ISS on Dec. 15, following a one-month stay, after which it splashed down off the coast of Florida. New Shepard | NS-24 On Dec. 18, Blue Origin’s uncrewed NS-24 mission launched at 10:43 AM CST (16:43 UTC) from Launch Site One at its West Texas spaceport. This was the first launch of New Shepard in over 15 months since the failure of an engine nozzle on the uncrewed NS-23 mission triggered an auto-abort on Sept. 12, 2022. The vehicle was subsequently grounded until the FAA concluded its investigations this September citing 21 corrective actions. 33 science and research payloads and other cargo are also on board, including 38,000 postcards sent to Blue Origin’s “Club For The Future” which will be returned to their senders, stamped “Flown to Space,” as keepsakes. LAUNCH! New Shepard Return To Flight (uncrewed). Overview:https://t.co/EMspknqAYE Livestream:https://t.co/yZ3QqTD5Ij pic.twitter.com/1xoS6cNIsB — Chris Bergin – NSF (@NASASpaceflight) December 19, 2023 Alpha | Fly the Lightning On Dec. 20 at 9:18 AM PST (17:18 UTC), Firefly will launch its Alpha vehicle on the “Fly the Lightning” mission from SLC-2W at Vandenberg Space Force Base, in California. This mission will place Lockheed Martin’s new wideband electronically steerable antenna (ESA) integrated onto the Terran orbital nebula satellite bus. Massing in the hundreds of kilograms, this payload will be used to demonstrate ESA’s fast on-orbit sensor calibration and deliver these rapid capabilities to the United States warfighters. It is expected that this payload is calibrated in a fraction of the amount of time that traditional payloads take, but little info has been given so far. Soyuz 2.1a | Cosmos (Unknown Payload) On Dec. 21, at 08:00 UTC, Russia will launch an unknown payload from the Plesetsk Cosmodrome, in Russia. The payload will be placed into a Sun-synchronous orbit. Falcon 9 Block 5 | SARah 2 & 3 Squeezing into the schedule just before the weekend, and is due to lift off from SLC-4E at Vandenberg on Dec. 22 at 4:56 AM PST (12:56 UTC). The booster has not yet been declared but will be landing back at LZ-4. Details of the mission are scarce as this is a secretive government project. The pair of remote sensing satellites have been built by Airbus for the German military and use synthetic aperture radar (SAR) technology. They will be placed into a sun-synchronous orbit where they are intended to fly in formation with their predecessor SARah 1, building out the SAR-Lupe constellation. Falcon 9 Block 5 | Starlink Group 6-32 On Friday, Dec. 22 at 11:00 PM EST (04:00 UTC on Dec. 23), SpaceX will launch yet another 23 Starlink v2 Mini satellites into low-Earth orbit from SLC-40. As usual for these group six missions, the second stage will conduct two burns to reach the planned 285 by 293-kilometer initial low-Earth orbit. Over the coming weeks, the satellites will undergo checkouts, and raise their orbit to the 530-kilometer circular orbit at 43.00 degrees. Soyuz 2.1v/Volga | Cosmos (Unknown Payload) On Dec. 26 at 18:00 UTC, Russia will launch an unknown payload atop a Soyuz 2.1v/Volga rocket. This mission will lift off from Site 43/4 at the Plesetsk Cosmodrome, in Russia. PSLV-DL | XPoSat Also due in the final days of 2023 are the XPoSat mission to be launched on a PSLV-DL from the First Launch Pad at the Satish Dhawan Space Centre in India. This is its first dedicated X-Ray Polarimeter mission to study various bright astronomical sources in extreme conditions and consists of two payloads massing 480 kilograms, which will be deployed into low-Earth Orbit to perform spectroscopy and polarimetry. The mission is scheduled to launch on Dec. 27 at 9:00 PM EST (02:00 UTC on Dec. 28). XPoSat ahead of launch. (Credit: ISRO) Falcon Heavy | USSF-52 At this time the revised launch date for this mission carrying the X-37B is Dec. 28 7:00 PM EST (00:00 UTC on Dec. 29) giving us, once again, the prospect of a double header launch with a Falcon 9 also lifting off two hours later from the West coast. This will be the fifth and final Falcon Heavy launch of the year, and the first time it has flown this secret spaceplane. It’s the fourth flight for the X-37B Vehicle 2 itself, which previously flew on the OTV-2, OTV-4, and OTV-5 missions. Its sibling Vehicle 1 is the craft that spent the record 908 days in orbit on OTV-6 but Vehicle 2 spent an impressive 779 days on OTV-5 and, to date, every mission has exceeded the length of its predecessor. While details of its target destination are classified, we can surmise from the lack of a grey thermal protection stripe on the second stage that the mission is will not be inserting its payload into a geosynchronous orbit (which would require extra flight time and this stripe to help maintain propellant temperature), nor is it heading due east. One possibility is that it could be destined for a highly inclined, highly elliptical orbit. Side boosters B1064-5 and B1065-5 will be supporting this mission and will both return for a landing at LZ-1 and LZ-2, while the center core B1084 will be expended. These side boosters are due to be expended on its next Falcon Heavy mission, Europa Clipper, next October. Falcon Heavy launching on the Psyche mission. (Credit: SpaceX) Falcon 9 Block 5 | Starlink Group 7-9 Delayed from a planned Dec. 15 launch, this mission will now fly in the evening on Dec. 28 at 9:09 PM PST (05:09 UTC on Dec. 29) from SLC-4E at Vandenberg Space Force Base. This flight will carry only 21 Starlink V2 Mini satellites into low-Earth orbit. The booster for this mission will be B1082 on its inaugural flight; it is expected to land on the droneship Of Course I Still Love You. As with all missions for this particular shell of the constellation (“Group 7”), this mission will send the satellites on a southeastern trajectory into an initial orbit of 286 x 295 kilometers at a 54-degree inclination, raising later to a circular 530 kilometers. With no further schedule adjustments, this flight would be SpaceX’s 300th overall mission and its 96th of 2023. Falcon 9 Block 5 | Ovzon-3 After some schedule reshuffling following scrubs earlier in the week, this communications satellite massing 1,500 kilograms for the privately funded Swedish/US Ovzon company is due to launch now on Dec. 22 at 4:46 PM EST (21:46 UTC) from SLC-40 at Cape Canaveral Space Force Station. The satellite is declared to be the most powerful satellite to be placed into geostationary orbit (GEO), taking three to four months to transition to an orbit inclined by 59.7 degrees east and with an apogee of 36,000 kilometers. It has been in development since late 2018 in response to increased demand in under-served regions for mobile broadband connectivity. Using a combination of patented high-power beams and smart software, Ovzon-3 will be able to cover a third of the Earth from that vantage point with its steerable spot beams. The booster for this mission has not yet been declared but is planned to return to the landing site for an early morning touchdown at LZ-1. This is uncommon as there’s not usually sufficient propellant to land anywhere other than a drone ship for transfers to GEO, so we anticipate SpaceX has been streamlining, with the mission possibly seeing a tweaked burn profile like on Crew-7 and Starlink 6-24 recently. (Lead image: Falcon Heavy ready to launch X-37B. Credit: Max Evans for NSF.) The post Launch Roundup: scrubs deny SpaceX its 100 Falcon launch goal; look to end the year with a 300th mission milestone appeared first on NASASpaceFlight.com.
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gecko-s-greenhouse · 1 year ago
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updated list of topics:
how to create a healthy work environment. (the short version: consume any/all media that anne helen petersen puts out)
what does giving employees an honest chance look like? (related: performance reviews in a tiny company)
valuing humans over success.
who takes the blame/carries the responsibility/suffers the consequences when the right people aren't hired in a timely fashion?
cult of personality.
illogical promotion structure.
and others that i'm sure will spring to mind.
well, i had a nice, trauma-free weekend, but thanks to linkedin, it's time to dive right into today's topics:
qualities of a good manager, revisited:
8a. i commit to soliciting feedback from my employees, not taking it personally or getting offended, and doing my best to incorporate it. my goal will be to create a positive work culture where my employees feel heard and valued, and know that it's safe for them to express their needs without risk of irrational negative consequences.
illogical promotion structure.
half of what i'm operating on here is secondhand information. but when has that ever stopped me before? i'll indicate what information came directly to me with (1) and what's secondhand with (2).
(1) i was handed a document of "work expectations" (or something to that effect) describing the responsibilities of each title/tier and requirements to be promoted from one level to the next. of note: the step up from scientist to senior scientist requires 2y of industry experience following any academic experience (no distinction b/w fresh PhD and some postdoc experience).
(2) prior to the development of this document, a woman with 5y of postdoc experience was offered the senior scientist title (and commensurate higher salary) during recruitment, but upon arriving on-site, discovered that her title/salary would just be scientist.
(2) after the publication of the expectations document, a different woman with 1y of postdoc experience, after having worked at the company for 8 mo, was promoted to senior scientist.
(1) also after the publication of the document, a man with many years of industry experience was hired as a senior scientist, but after 8 mo at the company, was promoted to associate director. several things of note: 1, biotech titling has an additional step between senior scientist and associate director that he skipped right over (principal scientist); 2, (2) he had previously let his personal feelings get in the way of managing his direct reports and had gotten someone fired apparently because he couldn't handle feedback; and 3, (2) the company PTO policy was changed from unlimited to a countable number of days because this very person had abused the policy, taking a 2 month european summer vacation.
what makes me mad: why did this person, who abused the pto policy to the extent that the company had to change it, get a huge promotion when i wasn't allowed to take any pto and got fired?
honestly, i was more mad when i first discovered this two hours ago. since then, i have unfollowed the parties in question on linkedin, and honestly all the anger has left my sails.
i think for anyone looking in at the antics in this company, it's all insane, but when compared with the past behavior of the parties in question, it's all well within the norm.
as usual, i wish everyone at the top only failure and misery, and i hope that the early career scientists can get out before it's too late for them.
to be continued.
a thread about my shithole job
when i asked my therapist about workplace trauma and how to move forward from it, she suggested setting some time aside to feel my feelings and journal about it. so that's what i'm going to do, because i'm determined to move on from all the ways that i was mistreated at that shithole job now that it's been 5 months (lol).
for context, my first job out of my PhD was at a tiny startup of fewer than 10 employees. i felt lucky to land the job because the biotech job market was in a bad place at the end of 2022 (it's worse now at the end of 2023), and luckier still because the company sang a (lying) tune about company culture that i bought into. the job ranged from okay to a total dumpster fire and i'll get into the details below, and then after 5 months, i was unceremoniously laid off. (alternately, my entire team of 2 was unceremoniously restructured.)
and because i signed a non-disparagement agreement to get my severance, i can't tell you the company's name. i assume not all of these issues occur at other companies,
topics that i want to cover:
my own timeline of events.
company retreat.
what i wish i had said to my shitty ex-manager when she fired me.
cult of personality.
how to create a healthy work environment. (the short version: consume any/all media that anne helen petersen puts out)
dating among the c-suite.
"i'm not here to make friends."
qualities of a good manager.
respecting time off.
i regret not taking more time off.
what does giving employees an honest chance look like?
valuing humans over success; failure is always on the table.
and others that i'm sure will spring to mind.
today's topics:
company retreat.
for context, about 2 months into my time at this company, we went for a 3 day/2 night ski retreat.
the invite went out after i had accepted the position, but before i had started, so i felt like this was "mandatory fun" and forced team bonding time that i had to attend (even though the text of the email said no pressure!), so i accepted, but made clear from the beginning that i am not a skiier and would not be joining the downhill skiing activities.
come the week of the event, work was a flaming shitshow. we were in our first sprint week at this startup, and two new hires were visiting from oot so we had to entertain them and make it seem like work was chill even though we were working overtime.
actually being on retreat was fine, i guess? we did cabin activities, they went skiing and i did other snow stuff. it was awkward but manageable. the CEO covered activity fees for only the downhill skiiers, so i, notably not in this group, had to pay my own way for tubing, skating, and snowshoeing all by my lonesome.
i now regret not asking for my activity fees to be covered also.
we get home, and the CEO sends out a group photo. that was taken at the top of the ski mountain.
let that sink in for a moment.
ask yourself, who was not included in the picture?
and to make matters worse, i was never, at any point during this retreat, invited to be in a group photo.
that was the first time i cried over this shithole job, and the first time that i told myself that i wasn't going to care anymore. (first time? because i wasn't good at holding myself to it.) startups want their employees to be part of a shitty family, and i was no longer having it.
to make matters worse, when i was being hired, the CEO had fed me a lying story about how "we're not like other startups" and want to focus on employee well-being over the other cultish aspects of stereotypical startup culture.
what i wish i had said to my shitty ex-manager when she fired me.
i don't appreciate being patronized. the first thing she said to me was, "this may come as a surprise, but..." haha no, this was not a surprise in any way, shape, or form. i've known that you wanted to fire me from that joke of a performance review* (more on this later) a month ago, right up through this meat grinder of a so-called "second chance" you've given me. i guess i am only surprised that you fired me right in the middle of a field trial where i'm a member of the team of two that handles every sample that comes through.
just because you don't like what my data says doesn't mean it's bad data. 'nuff said.
if you're restructuring, why can't i be absorbed into another function of the company? why do you have to look me in the eye, lie to me and tell me that you think i'm a great scientist, but apparently not one who can learn how to contribute to other functions that i am fully capable of doing and you know it?
what's this bullshit about "effective immediately"? (don't @me about MA at will employment, i know the law but i'm talking here about decency, which i guess is a foreign concept to you.) shouldn't i be given a couple days to tie up loose ends, tell you how to find my shit, and say a non-rushed goodbye to those of my colleagues who i did come to like? and ESPECIALLY because i had requested several days of pto THAT YOU HAD APPROVED starting literally the next day? this feels like a move for YOU, so you don't have to look at me any more than you have to after you made this decision.
also, in the state of massachusetts, it would be polite to lay people off with enough lead time that they can acquire health insurance in a timely manner. assembling the necessary documents takes time, and the last day to sign up for the next month's coverage is the 23rd day of the prior month. lesson learned: negotiate a severance package that includes health coverage. again, i understand that decency is a foreign concept to you.
what gives you the right to play games with people's lives? this thought really took shape as my nutbag ex-manager continued to arbitrarily fire people, including one on an O1 visa. consider my situation: i had been at this company for 5 months and got laid off. any decent manager looking in would see this and immediately recognize that the problem is with the company (funding?) and the management rather than with me, a young scientist who hasn't even been given the standard amount of time to fuck up learn the ropes (1 year) before being shown the door. alternately, what gives you the right to brand me as someone who behaves poorly? (because that's the only other reason a stranger would think that i was laid off so quickly?) for example, my friend and former colleague, upon finding out that i lasted only 5 months at the company, immediately asked if the company was having money problems, but he's someone who knows me and knows that i'm not a jerk, but that's not immediately obvious to a stranger. what gives you the right?
you are running your company into the ground. i don't care if your science is impeccable (it's clearly not based on my data), but it's clear to me that your company is going to fail if you keep treating your employees like this. the consensus among former employees of the company, both the ones who were laid off and the ones who left of their own volition
i hope you fail. i will gleefully eat my popcorn WHEN it happens.
also, i want my stuff back. (i wouldn't have forgotten it if you'd given me more notice!)
to be continued.
also, am i supposed to talk about my feelings too? overwhelmingly angry that at an incompetent inexperienced and scared manager treated my life/career/future as a gigantic joke to her, but also disappointed in myself that i signed on in the first place, and sad to have lost a year that i could have otherwise spent building my career to this total nonsense. bad times all around.
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quefish77 · 3 years ago
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Fic Writer's Game
I do love a good tagging game :P Let’s see how this goes!
1) How many works do you have on AO3?
174 … but about 30 are drabbles, and 10 or so are links to YouTube videos … Wow, that’s a lot though.
2) What’s your total AO3 word count?
431, 858. That feels … gosh it feels like a lot, but then I think about my fics and I’m like, “That’s it?” LOL … I guess things feel bigger than they are sometimes :D
3) How many fandoms have you written for and what are they?
Two. Good omens, and one HP. The HP was written about 15y ago, and then I started in on GO 2y ago. And one GO/RHPS crossover lol
4) What are your top five fics by kudos?
1. Effortless Intimacy – The first fic I wrote for GO. An Ace romantic fic post Apocalypse failure.
2. An Angel, A Demon, A Sybian – PWP and exactly what it says on the tin LOL
3. When the Demon Bought a Sybian – PWP prequel to #2 hahaha
4. First One is Free – What ended up being the first fic in my Professional Dom Aziraphale series. Crowley trying to masturbate, and Aziraphale lends his voice to help him out before making a quip about he usual service fee.
5. Ineffable Kinktober 2019: Day 6: Tail – Some D/s playtime, gentle Dom Aziraphale asks for Crowley to manifest a tail for playtime. PWP.
5) Do you respond to comments, why or why not?
Yes. Whether it is a keyboard smash, an emoji, or long comment, I always reply. Although, there has been a time or two where someone was bingeing and leaving comments on each chapter, which were lovely ‘thank you’s’, and I did wait and respond to the last one referencing all of their comments.
6) What’s the fic you’ve written with the angstiest ending?
Human Incarnate. After the trials, Heaven strips Aziraphale of his divinity, and he becomes mortal. He and Crowley try to live their best life until the inevitable happens. Which does, of course. I can’t even think about the last chapter without crying.
7) Do you write crossovers? If so what is the craziest one you’ve written?
I’ve only really written one crossover. The Rocky Omens Picture Show. Crowley and Aziraphale end up at Dr Frank-n-Furter’s castle and are brought in from the rain for a very brief visit.
8) Have you ever received hate on a fic?
No hate, but AngelFoodBaking.com readers were quite polarized on the ending and I don’t think people agreed with me, but being a crackfic, there wasn’t really ‘anger’.
9) Do you write smut? If so what kind?
Yes. I’ve written Ace sensual “smut” (Effortless Intimacy had lots of skin touching and kissing, nothing more, and I also did a 'genitalia-free masturbation' scene in 12. In Water), and I have written PWP unapologetic pornsmut (A New Building Isn't the Only Erection in the Area).
10) Have you ever had a fic stolen?
Yes, recently actually. About 3 weeks after I published a fic, I got a ping that I may want to have a look at a new fic WIP that had just dropped. By the time I finished reading the chapter, I already had multiple people reaching out to me, warning me, asking me if I knew about this … stuff like that. My beta confronted the other writer whose response was “I didn’t think it was too similar”, and then they deleted it. I checked my kudos, the other writer had dropped kudos on my fic 4 days earlier. *Their* beta had the response that they didn’t know how I could think that, and many people defended me that it was “Change enough so the teacher doesn’t know you cheated”, but definitely my fic, with one actual change. (Aziraphale was being abused in the other fic, in mine he was woefully underinformed but in a cute/cracky kind of way, not sinister). I had over 20 other writers who read both agreeing with me, I sent blind copies of both chapters to a teacher, a few friends, a copy/proofer friend of a friend … I knew I had been stolen from, but if there was any doubt from anywhere, I would have felt terrible. Every person who read them had differing opinions on content, if they liked it, ‘this felt better’, etc. Some of my friends preferred the other one. But every person came back with, “Whoever wrote first was stolen from.” … This wrecked me for a week. Being stolen from, having someone insist I had falsely accused someone of stealing, waiting for all the results to come back from blind readers. The other writer ended up ‘reworking’ and reposting, and I haven’t even clicked on it.
The beta also had the unmitigated gall to say this to a chatroom full of writers: "The first chapter has certain resemblances, which is not surprising given they were writing to the same prompt." .… meaning that they were completely discarding the ‘two cakes’ theory in favor of the ‘there is no such thing as originality’ theory. Which … to a room of writers, is a BOLD statement to make. So, I tested that theory. If I, one person with only one brain, could come up with multiple completely different takes on a single prompt. I am up to three active WIPs posted. If I can not copy myself, I sure as fuck expect a completely separate person to be able to not copy me. The Series can be found here: The Doctor Will See You Now.
11) Have you ever had a fic translated?
Not that I know of 😊
12) Have you ever co-written a fic before?
Sort of? It was more that @caedmonfaith and I were ripping back and forth in Discord and then she put it in actual words like a real writer and asked if she could post it (which, of course?!) The Grammar Lesson
13) What’s your all time favourite ship?
Definitely Aziraphale and Crowley.
14) What’s a WIP you want to finish but don’t think you ever will?
The Courtship of Crowley. It had so much potential, and I feel terrible every time I see it in my docs ☹
15) What are your writing strengths?
I think I have very good character voices. Even if the surrounding bits aren’t as good as I think they are, I think the spoken parts are good 😊
16) What are your writing weaknesses?
I have a problem with letting an action stand on its own in a sentence without adding more. “He pulled on his trousers and checked his phone.” “He made breakfast and then sat down.” I think that I need to break up my sentences more, I abuse ‘and’ and ‘then’ a lot.
17) What are your thoughts on writing dialogue in other languages in a fic?
I have put in other languages a couple times, and I am always paranoid that someone who speaks that language is going to call me out for obviously using Google translate because it syntax’d terrible lol
18) What was the first fandom you wrote for?
HP – Snermione.
19) What’s your favourite fic you’ve written?
Droit du Seigneur (medieval transgender Aziraphale) was probably the most … meaningful? It hit a lot of personal points of gender identity, sexuality, etc. Much in the same way that Effortless Intimacy did. The funniest thing I ever wrote was probably It’s Technically Just Sweat. Crowley’s tattoo and Aziraphale’s ring have a tryst. But, beyond a shadow of a doubt, the best thing I have ever written, and will never top, is The Perfectly Unproblematic Good Omens Fanfic.
So, tagging @tawnyontumblr and @caedmonfaith, @redundant-angel, and whoever else is interested!
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find it elsewhere: fft | ao3 | ff.net | hpff learn more: chaos universe link to other chapters: 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15 link to missing moments: 5.5, 7.5, 8.5, 15.5
pairing: Lily Luna Potter / OC genre: AU, Humor, Romance rating: mature audiences
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Victoire Weasley is a masters student in infectious diseases handling a devastating break up with her girlfriend of two years. Lily Potter is a first year law student navigating a figurative minefield that is the star quarterback’s unrequited affection. Molly Weasley is pursuing her bachelors in engineering while pining over her best friend - who doesn’t seem to realize it.
Three women, three vastly different lives, all coming together with group chats, family dinners, and a whole lot of chaos.
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Mollz: Attachment: 1 Image Mollz: plz see that on april 18th at 7:29pm i did indeed say that law school was going to be hard
lawyerlilz: Attachment: 1 Image lawyerlilz: you're forgetting that 2mins later you said "work hard, play harder"
SEPTEMBER 15TH, 2021
'the dopest house' (foxyroxy, freddieboy, jamesatron, moollywoobbles, rose) 5:27pm
moollywoobbles: @jamesatron, how did you get into my room? moollywoobbles: i s2g, i have a lab tomorrow moollywoobbles: i'm not doing this moollywoobbles: FINE I'LL DO IT moollywoobbles: but i will get my REVENGE!
freddieboy: why don't you ever ice me? freddieboy: i'm starting to feel left out
jamesatron: PAYBACK FOR LAST PARTY jamesatron: YOU LEFT ME IN THE BATHROOM ALONE jamesatron: I WOKE UP IN THE DARK AND THOUGHT I DIED
moollywoobbles: that was @rose, and im offended you mixed us up
rose: he was fully naked and covered in vomit, i thought he'd be better off lying on the linoleum than causing irreparable damage to our carpets
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'literal chaos fire' (lawyerlilz, Mollz, VickyBaby) 8:49pm
lawyerlilz: two weeks in and i'm already drowning in work lawyerlilz: why did you guys let me go to law school?
Mollz: i told you it was gonna be hard Mollz: but did you listen? Mollz: no
VickyBaby: you actively supported her in this
Mollz: Attachment: 1 Image Mollz: plz see that on april 18th at 7:29pm i did indeed say that law school was going to be hard
lawyerlilz: Attachment: 1 Image lawyerlilz: you're forgetting that 2mins later you said "work hard, play harder"
Mollz: and i stand by both statements
VickyBaby: why do i feel like you're currently drinking
Mollz: james managed to hide another ice in my room when i was in class today Mollz: and after that i decided that having one drink was weak Mollz: i'm a few in
lawyerlilz: it's 9pm lawyerlilz: on a wednesday
VickyBaby: weren't you just complaining about your lab tomorrow? VickyBaby: and don't you have like a bajillion classes always?
Mollz: work hard, play harder baby
VickyBaby: never call me baby again
lawyerlilz: IT'S LITERALLY YOUR NICKNAME
Mollz: DON'T WANT ME TO CALL YOU THAT, DON'T NAME YOURSELF THAT
VickyBaby: alright, alright! damn, calm down... VickyBaby: seriously though, don't you have an early morning lab
Mollz: yeah but it's just circuits Mollz: and malfoy said the basics of it all is done Mollz: i just have to do the write up
lawyerlilz: i wish we had partners for contracts lawyerlilz: thinking is hard
VickyBaby: like disease ecology is easy? VickyBaby: we're looking at ebola right now VickyBaby: did you know the r0 is too low in humans for it to spread effectively? VickyBaby: but gorilla populations are absolutely decimated by it
lawyerlilz: how does Teddy stand you?
Mollz: she puts out
VickyBaby: actually... VickyBaby: i think Teddy and i are on a break...
Mollz: WHAT?! Mollz: what does 'i think' mean? Mollz: you've been together for like 2 years Mollz: and why didn't you tell us immediately?!
lawyerlilz: molly, shut up lawyerlilz: a 2y relationship just ended, she's entitled to her alone time
VickyBaby: actually...
Mollz: WHAT NOW?! Mollz: STOP STRESSING ME OUT I HAVE CIRCUITS LAB IN THE MORNING
lawyerlilz: i thought you just had to do the write up lawyerlilz: don't make me text scorpius and tell him that you're drinking the night before class lawyerlilz: again lawyerlilz: his roommate's gonna ask to talk to me lawyerlilz: again lawyerlilz: and i'm going to have to turn him down
lawyerlilz: AGAIN Mollz: AGAIN VickyBaby: AGAIN
VickyBaby: yeah, we know VickyBaby: i don't understand how you don't find that man attractive VickyBaby: starting quarterback AND captain?
lawyerlilz: i think that mollz drinking in the middle of the week is a bigger issue than my love life lawyerlilz: especially considering it's only her first week
Mollz: i'm taking ordinary differential equations Mollz: why wouldn't i start drinking Mollz: and the big issue here is Vic's love life, not how much fun i have
VickyBaby: ... Teddy and I are taking a break VickyBaby: because she's going to America on exchange VickyBaby: she's leaving in a week
Mollz: i'll key her car Mollz: i'll get xander to hack into the school's system and fail her Mollz: i'll ruin HER ENTIRE LIFE
VickyBaby: plz don't do that
lawyerlilz: who's keeping snuggles?
VickyBaby: the cats staying with me VickyBaby: if she'd fought me on that i would've let molly's wrath free
Mollz: i'll still do it
lawyerlilz: as your cousin, i'd help lawyerlilz: as your soon-to-be-lawyer, plz don't
Mollz: james says he's in Mollz: also james is already on his way to her place Mollz: and i might be with him
VickyBaby: MOLLY, DON'T YOU DARE
lawyerlilz: i'll tell Scorp lawyerlilz: don't think i won't
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(Lily Potter, Scorpius Malfoy) 9:26pm
Lily: molly's drunk Lily: and probably doing illegal things Lily: just thought you should know
Scorpius: lilz! it's me! Scorpius: james and i were a little too tipsy so malfoy's driving the car Scorpius: :)))
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'literal chaos fire' (lawyerlilz, Mollz, VickyBaby) 9:32pm
lawyerlilz: VickyBaby she's recruited Scorp lawyerlilz: this isn't gonna end well
VickyBaby: don't worry, Teddy moved home like 2 weeks ago
lawyerlilz: so they're going to be doing illegal things lawyerlilz: AT A STRANGER'S HOUSE?!
VickyBaby: oh shit
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'old fogies' (Fred [the smart dumb one], James [the older twin], Lily [ur 15mins older], Molly [the dumb smart one], Rose [the granger], Vic [the science beb]) 9:35pm
Vic [the science beb]: @Rose [the granger] @Fred [the smart dumb one] Vic [the science beb]: WHY DIDN'T YOU STOP THEM?
Rose [the granger]: they promised to do all the house chores until Christmas
Lily [ur 15mins older]: SO YOU GAVE THEM THE KEYS?! Lily [ur 15mins older]: THEY'RE DRUNK!
Rose [the granger]: Scorpius was 100% sober and i specifically asked them not to tell me what they needed the car for
Lily [ur 15mins older]: THEY'RE GOING TO TEDDY'S HOUSE
Rose [the granger]: i don't see the issue here
Vic [the science beb]: Teddy broke up with me to go on exchange Vic [the science beb]: also she doesn't live there anymore Vic [the science beb]: and they don't know that
Rose [the granger]: OH NO
Lily [ur 15mins older]: OH NO IS RIGHT Lily [ur 15mins older]: also, where's @Fred [the smart dumb one]
Rose [the granger]: HE'S WITH THEM
Rose [the granger]: FUCK Lily [ur 15mins older]: FUCK Vic [the blonde beb]: FUCK
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'the dopest house' (foxyroxy, freddieboy, jamesatron, moollywoobbles, rose) 9:54pm
rose: GUYS STOP rose: THAT'S THE WRONG HOUSE rose: TEDDY DOESN'T LIVE THERE ANYMORE
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(RosieBear, ScorpiStud) 9:55pm
RosieBear: i will kill you RosieBear: you cannot be serious RosieBear: babe, i will actually murder you
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(Lily Potter, Scorpius Weasley) 9:55pm
Lily: SCORP STOP Lily: IT'S NOT TEDDY'S HOUSE
10:02pm
Lily: SCORPIUS MALFOY I WILL END YOU
10:08pm
Lily: I'M NOT AN ACTUAL LAWYER YET I CAN'T DEFEND YOU
10:17pm
Lily: SCORPIUS!
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'the dopest house' (foxyroxy, freddieboy, jamesatron, moollywoobbles, rose) 10:23pm
freddieboy: hey @rose freddieboy: so bad news is freddieboy: we may have gotten caught freddieboy: the good news is freddieboy: campus cops' golf carts are terribly slow
rose: WHAT?!
freddieboy: we'll be home in 5 freddieboy: plz open the garage freddieboy: we don't know if they saw the license plate
rose: i am not going to be an accomplice
moollywoobbles: scorp wants to remind you that it looks bad on politicians if they're married to a criminal
freddieboy: and he said that he'll finally start watching Grey's with you
rose: it's open rose: and i hate you all
freddieboy: love you toooooooo
jamesatron: <3
foxyroxy: hey guys, remember when you promised you would pick me up after my night class? foxyroxy: think you could still swing by? foxyroxy: you won't even have to stop, just open the door and i'll jump in
jamesatron: FAST AND FURIOUS BABEYYY
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50 QUESTIONS YOU’VE NEVER BEEN ASKED
Tagged by: @thehonorarybeaumont 💛
What is the color of your hairbrush? Purple on the brush part and the other side is an array of different colors
A food you never eat? Asparagus, canned tuna, scallops, cooked salmon, peas
Are you typically too warm or too cold? I seem to be always one or the other
What were you doing 45 minutes ago? Reading fan fic at my desk at work lol
What is your favorite candy bar? In Canada we don't call chocolate bars candy bars but I know what you mean so I'm gonna say Caramilk or Twix.
Have you ever been to a professional sports event? Yes last year I went to a WWE show for Monday night Raw. First time going to see a sports event live.
What is the last thing you said out loud? Probably said hi to someone lol
What is your favorite ice cream? Omg so the Ben and Jerry's tonight dough is so good, but I basically like any ice cream as long as it's not strawberry
What was the last thing you had to drink? Orange juice
Do you like your wallet? Sure
What was the last thing you ate? A date square
Did you buy any new clothes last weekend? Nope
The last sporting event you watched? See answer 6.
What is your favorite flavor of popcorn? I mean usually just buttery popcorn but I do also like ketchup seasoning, or if I go fancy and get Kernels I think it's called I'll get like a buffalo or jalapeno. Cheesy popcorn is good too. Literally any popcorn is good.
Who was the last person you sent a text message to? My cousin
Ever go camping? Yes, but only for 1 night or else I'll die. Can't handle being outdoors for much longer.
Do you take vitamins? No but I should
Do you go to church every Sunday? Not since I had to for Sunday school and I only did that for two years to prepare for communion and conformation.
Do you have a tan? I wish, I'm too pale rn
Do you prefer Chinese food or pizza? Omg how you gonna do me like that. I'm a bad Italian if I dont say pizza so pizza lol but I am obsessed with chinese food
Do you drink your soda with a straw? Not unless I buy a fountain soda and they give me a straw lol
What color socks do you usually wear? Usually black
Ever drive above the speed limit? I don’t drive.
What terrifies you? Heights, snakes, horses, raccoons, scary bugs
Look to your left, what do you see? Sanitary hand wipes lol
What chore do you hate? The only chore I really do at home is laundry
What do you think of when you hear an Australian accent? How sexy it is
What’s your favorite soda? Coke
Do you go into a fast food place or just hit the drive through? Go in cause I dont drive
Who’s the last person you talked to? Didn't I answer this? I said hi to a colleague lol
Favorite cut of beef? Steak, is that a cut of beef idk lol
Last song you listened to? Love me or leave me by Little Mix
Last book you read? I dont even know
Favorite day of the week? They're all the same now anyway but I guess Saturday cause I don't have to go into work and I still have another day off the next day
Can you say the alphabet backwards? Doubt it
Do you like your coffee? This is phrased weird but no I don't drink coffee
Favorite pair of shoes? I guess my filas even though they annoy me a bit
At what time do you normally go to bed? Around 10
At what time do you normally get up? Anywhere between 6:30 and 8, depending when I decide to go into work.
What do you prefer, sunrises or sunsets? Both are pretty but I'm more likely to catch a sunset
How many blankets are on your bed? 3, I sleep under two but theres a small throw at the foot of my bed.
Describe your kitchen plates: lol this is weird, they're just plain white
Do you have a favorite alcoholic beverage? Yeah I like mojitos, and I recently got into gin and tonic with cucumbers, and my go to is usually a vodka red bull
Do you play cards? Not lately cause of social distancing but yeah I do
What color is your car? Again, I don’t drive.
Can you change a tire? I don’t even drive so no. Theres too many fkn car questions.
What is your favorite province? Lol I dont have one... I live in Quebec but its definitely not that.
Favorite job you’ve ever had? I really liked working as a hostess at a restaurant but it ended badly how I quit so idk. My hospital job now I've had for 2y is pretty good though.
How did you get your biggest scar? Only have one scar, it's on my left forearm on the inside. When I was really young I climbed up my aunts fence cause she was talking to her neighbor and she yelled at me to get down and it cut my whole arm. Now it's just a small scar cause obviously my arms grew but yeah lol
What did you do today that made someone else happy? Nothing I barely spoke to anybody today lol it's also 10:40 am lol
Ok so I'm tagging: @the-power-of-potter @let-it-make-you-stronger @mariss-ugh @sleepyfaceandsnark @shameless-us-addict and who ever else feels like doing this
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RULES: answer the questions, and tag the people you want to get to know better!
i was tagged by @winksys <3
1.NAME: eva
2.NICKNAME: vava
3.ZODIAC: sagittarus
4. HEIGHT: 171 cm
5.LANGUAGES: french, english and german
6.NATIONALITY: french
7.FAV SEASON: summer
8.FAV FLOWER: roses
9.FAV ANIMAL: dogs
10.FAV SCENT: FOOD
11.FAV FICTIONAL CHARACTER: ummm sherock or maybe bucky barnes
12.COFFEE, TEA OR HOT CHOCOLAT: milk
13. AVERAGE SLEEP: seven hours
14. FAV COLOR: beige
15. DOGS OR CATS: dogs
16. NUMBER OF BLANKETS: one
17. DREAM TRIP: greece(with dier)
18. BLOG ESTABLISHED: 2y ago :D
19. RANDOM FACT: eriksen and vertonghen said hi to my mother last summer(at munich)
20. GENDER: female
21. SEXUALITY: pan
22. HARRY POTTER MORAL COMPASS: ravenclaw
23. WHERE R U FROM: france, alsace, close to strasbourg
24. WHY DID U START YOUR BLOG: raura content lmao
25. MOST RECENT ALBUM PLAYED: the neighbourhood-wiped out!
@sitkowski @extra--time DO THIS IF U WANT MY FRIEND
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Why are narcissistic co-workers very dangerous to your job?
I can answer from experience…
THANK GOD my immediate co-workers are as empathic and compassionate and passionate about their job as I am… that really helps when someone in the workforce is a clear Narc… when things happen that absolutely don’t make sense… you can have a meeting of the minds and compare notes to see you’re all not crazy…
But it wasn’t always that way… our building was left forlorn and in need of a pick me up. Our former supervisor was a strong leader, but very clear they weren’t staying long. Morale was at an all time low… the new Supervisor swept in as a savior with promises of trust and new faith in a family atmosphere- said everything we wanted to hear- basically…no more lies… we were going to fix this place brick by brick and bring it back to what it was…
Lie after lie… people were pit after one another… things didn’t make sense… adults were fighting… and friendships nearly breaking up after years… until people got together and started to compare stories… and friends made up… and the more trustworthy people confronted each other and the supervisor with a witness… and the cards started to fall…
I can tell you… as forlorn and as low as the morale was… where I work is insanity now… when my supervisor speaks, it’s all about me me me… and it’s amazing how everyone figured it out on their own… everyone was divided…and is slowly coming back together again… unbeknownst to the boss bc they are so self centered… BUT… it is not a nice place to work in. It is vengeful and cruel and like being with middle school girls all the time… not fun.
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What usually happens when a person begins to set boundaries with someone who is used to getting his or her way?
Two years ago, I had this friend of mine — who'll often make plans to meet spontaneously at a place and time of his choice. And I would just go along with it. I had just gotten out of a low-key abusive relationship and felt like a miserable piece of crap. I thought I wasn't worth having any sort of o…
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How do narcissists deal with authority figures?
Initially, I find that they bow down to them - they are obsequious, and kowtowing, and try to play to their superiority. They try and influence them to see their point of view. If this does not work, they will challenge them and their position - if they can. Be not confused - they never hold them in…
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When will the empath walk away from a narcissist? The reason an Empath will leave a narcissist varies upon personal preference such as how they’re being treated and how knowledgable they are about NPD.. Not everybody involved with a narcissistic will choose to leave.. Some victims of abuse will stay,…
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How do I get over the feeling of wanting to text the narcissist? All my messages were ignored after discard but I still want to message him & almost did saying I missed him. How do I stop? Is it a bad idea to message? I feel like the narc sometimes.
That is very normal, so don’t feel bad about it. And the fact you feel bad about anything means you aren’t a narcissist. This person you feel like badly texting is fake. They have created an identity to reel and hook you in. The first key to moving on is realizing this. You are loving a mirage. That…
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What happens when a grade A supply discards a narcissist?
After 24 years of marriage to a narc, I left, and I filed for divorce. Here’s my input, my advice, and a bit of my experience.
Short answer is they will rage and try to destroy you. While the experience is unsettling, you need to weather the storm. Since all narcissists follow the same behavioral patterns, there’s no other way to reach happiness and freedom from your narcissist. BUT many have gone before you and I am one such survivor. It is worth it.
Here’s some advice. If you are not married or don’t have kids together, you’re lucky. Cut off all access they have to you and walk away. Block them from calling/texting you and block them from all social media, then make all social media private and remove all of their close friends from your social media. If you are divorcing or have kids together then learn the art of grey rock, and only communicate in written form, especially if you’re going through a divorce. If divorcing with kids, I highly recommend only communicating via a court monitored app like TalkingParents. This last bit of advice may take some time to digest, but cut ties with all of the friends you have in common, especially if they maintain their friendship with the narc. They are all flying monkeys, even if they unwittingly don’t know it. Trust me, in time you won’t regret it.
Learn to forgive the narc. This sounds strange, but remember they have a disorder. Learning to forgive them is for you, not them. The process will shift your mental perception of the narc and the circumstances. I can only say that when I learned this, I completely gained control over everything. She no longer has any control over me, her trigger attempts are now humorous to me, and all of the games that her legal team attempts of intimidation and control fail. In fact, the last time her attorney attempted to intimidate me, just a few weeks ago, I laughed at him. Pissed him off to no ends, which is just so sweet and warming.
Here’s the crappy middle part of the story though. She withheld visitation with my daughter. I spent nearly 6 figures getting custody back, well worth it though and my daughter understands the whole story, for reference she’s almost 15. The narc and her attorneys filed a trumped up Temporary Restraining Order against me. When that failed, she attempted to file trumped up criminal charges against me with the police. Luckily the police saw right through her and refused her attempts. She has smeared me to anyone and everyone, even bizarrely telling the girl who cuts my hair that I am a racist. She attempts to ruin any interaction we have surrounding our daughter; graduations, awards ceremonies, banquets, etc. It’s a bizarre attempt to show dominance and gain narc supply but all it does is demonstrate further to our daughter how nuts she is. She defies court orders. And sadly the list goes on.
The only thing I maintained from our 24 year marriage is the close relationship that I have with my sweet kiddo, and it’s stronger than ever! I’m also happier and more in control of my life than I’ve been in a long long time.
There is a ton of support out there if you are considering leaving a narc, so face your fears head on and go for it. Weather the storm and you will be stronger and wiser than you’ve ever been. Become a survivor!
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What happens when you try to go back to a narcissist who’s giving you the silent treatment and has a new supply?
You will be ignored completely or you will be told off again. Your narc will tell you to leave them alone, that you’re being annoying, clingy, a stalker, that you need to move on and get over it. You will ruthlessly be told that they explicitly want nothing more to do with you and can’t understand w…
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Do you think that a narcissist’s worst nightmare is an educated empath?
Yes! Because educated empaths can spot a narcissist almost immediately. And empaths avoid narcissists like the plague. They won’t talk with them or engage with them in any way. If the narcissist persists, the empath will block the narcissist. Narcissists crave attention. Educated empaths won’t give t…
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How does the narcissist “feel” once if they realise that the empath sees them for what they are?
Highly empathetic people, people who lean into the energy/vibes of others, or people who easily pick up on the emotions of others have a strong advantage over narcissists. Face-to-face conversation with a narcissist is the best time to lean into what is going on underneath. Your intuition is your friend, and it will be nudging you quite often when dealing with a narcissist.
Focus in and the truth will reveal itself. It is almost like being in two places at once. Sure, you are looking the narcissist in his/her face. Sure, you are hearing the words that are coming out of the narcissist’s mouth…but you can also pick up on his/her negative energy (even while you are talking, even when the narcissist is silent). You can also sometimes pick up on the insincerity and aggression surrounding his/her words.
The narcissist is a fool in many different ways, and is no match for those who are able to lean into what is going on underneath. The narcissist will come to realize that you are picking up on what is going on underneath, time and time again. Many narcissists are emotionally guarded and try very hard to keep their fragility/vulnerability to themselves, so he/she will be very uncomfortable when you reach out.
Narcissists feel “naked” when you are able to reach their fragility/vulnerability, and they will quickly pull away, like a turtle pulling its head into its shell. You will notice the narcissist’s discomfort if you are able to pin him/her down. They will know that you are able to see through them, and they do not like this.
They do not like having to take a look in the mirror, and when you confront them with their behaviors/actions, you are forcing them to do this. They will attempt to gather themselves, but they will panic. They may attempt to change the subject, maybe crack a joke or ask you a random question. They are quite afraid of emotional intimacy, and some are quite afraid of being negatively judged.
Some know that you will eventually see what they are trying to hide, and some do seem to know when their time is running out. Some entirely collapse when it becomes clear that you have seen through them for the last and final time. Some truly fear abandonment, and will do everything in their power to drag you back into their toxic mess.
Some will desperately attempt to re-gain a sense of control…to pull the wool over your eyes…to reel you back in. They will lose all control. Contradict themselves. You will hear GO, but you will also hear STAY. They will tell on themselves, tell you of what they are really wanting you for. You will feel their desperation, as they attempt to charm and flatter you back into their caves.
You will FEEL the battle between the false and true self. The false self disintegrates, and the true self comes bursting through. The narcissistic balloon deflates.They are begging you to put them back together during collapse. You must take back what you have said. You must promise that you will not leave.
Think of it as a baby crying out for comfort, crying out for his/her mother as she walks out of the room. You will sense that they want your pity. It will all seem like a very intense, very pathetic display of desperation. You have won if you are able to witness this and walk away with your head held high.
“I owe you nothing. I’m chasing you. I resent you. I wish you would have chased me. You rejected me. I’m too good for you. You’re not on my level. I need to find someone who is on my level. I’m rejecting you. You’re a good person. You’re beautiful. You turn me on so much. Please stay. I’m confused. Find someone else. I have nothing to offer.
Please have sex with me. I’m lost. I’M FUCKED UP AND DAMAGED. I can’t do a relationship. Everyone hates me. I’m so horny for you right now. Everyone leaves me. See? You hate me too. Please stop seeing through me. I’m a liar. I’m the shit. I haven’t followed through with anything in my life. I thought you were my mommy. I have no money. I’m so horny. I wouldn’t want to use you. I’m a victim.
Okay, I’ve been trying to use you. Can I use you for sex or? Why did mommy leave me? You remind me of an Egyptian princess. I’m emotionally unavailable. Don’t leave. My life is a mess. I just recently started to care about my life. I’m tired of people fucking with me! I WILL be successful! You can’t stop me! Everyone will bow down to me one day. I don’t need your help. Okay, I need your help.
I’m scared! Please comfort me. I don’t know what I’m doing. Come on, relax. Let me take advantage of you. I’ll make time. Please feel sorry for me. I’ll see you next weekend, okay?! Hey, I think sweet things about you…yeah, I don’t know…sweet things. That sounds good, right? Damn, you’re sexy as fuck. I get hard just talking to you.
Come on, chill. Stop reminding me of who I really am. So you’re staying then? HA! See? I’m the shit. Wait.. it’s because I’m the shit, right? Yeah, that must be it! I GUESS you can see me again…you know, it’s hard work..being an extraordinarily busy man and all. Mommy’s back! Mommy’s back! I now give you permission to see me again 😎”
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Being Alone, Cats, and Children: Lobo # 61887 Meet Loso! This handsome buddy needs a new home! Loso is a well mannered young man, he loves to cuddle, is friendly and affectionate and happily playful in the yard 442 1bs MANHATTAN ACC INTAKE DATE: 05-04-2019 Meet Loso! This handsome buddy needs a new home! A volunteer writes: Sweet Loso is only about a year old, but he's already trying to be "the Goodest Boy". He is well-mannered, appears to be house-trained, is easy to leash, and thrilled to sniff everything he can get his heart-shaped nose on. Loso is interested in treats and human attention without being pushy. During our time outside together, he very much enjoyed playing with toys, though didn't quite get the hang of bringing the tennis ball *back* for fetch. No matter, his enthusiasm was contagious, and I got in my exercise as both thrower and retriever! Loso is a gorgeous young dog, mostly smooth black with a soft white chest, underbelly, face, and paws. Are you the family or person to help Loso become the Best Boy of all? He has so much to discover and so much to give, and would love for you to give him a chance. Loso is waiting in adoptions at the Manhattan Care Center, where you can meet him today. MY MOVIE: Loso and Cranberry in Playgroup https://youtu.be/GnP_jpYqUB0 LOSO, ID# 61887, 1 yr old, 44.2 lbs, Manhattan Animal Care Center, Large Mixed Breed Cross, Black / White Male, Owner Surrender Reason: surrendered due to moving, owner cannot bring Loso with her. Shelter Assessment Rating: LEVEL 3 No children (under 13) Medical Behavior Rating: OWNER SURRENDER NOTES - BASIC INFORMATION: Loso is a large mixed unaltered male approximately 1 years old who owner has had him since he was a puppy. Owner had to surrender due to moving and cannot bring Loso with her. Loso was last seen by a vet at Petco about 4 months ago. He previously lived with 2 adults. Loso is friendly and outgoing when strangers approach. He will allow you to pet him once he sniffs around for a few seconds. Loso has been socialized with children on the street but owner stated she will not allow him to come close due to him jumping on the children and him not knowing his own strength. Around other dogs Loso use to be okay with them. He was relaxed, respectful and playful, however now he will snap if another dog comes near him while on a walk. His owner did not have any cats in the home so behavior is not observed. Loso isn't bothered when she takes his food, toys or treats away but unsure how he will react if anyone else tries. He has no bite history and his previous owner describes his energy level as high. Other Notes: Loso is protective of his female owner. He will bark and growl whenever someone would approach. Loso isn't bothered when owner holds/ restrains him, given a bath, brushing his coat or pushed off furniture. He will allow you to trim his nails but after awhile he will pull away. When unfamiliar people approach his home or on a walk he will bark. Has this dog ever had any medical issues? Yes Medical Notes Owner stated he has food allergies but did not provide any proof or vet documents. For a New Family to Know Loso is friendly, affectionate and playful. He has a high activity level. Owner's favorite thing about Loso is he loves to cuddle. Los's favorite activities are running around the home, being around family and going outside on walks. When you're home Loso follows owner around from room to room and be in the same room always as owner. He loves playing tug with squeaky toys. He is kept indoors only. Loso was fed dry food 2 times a day, brand Pedigree. He is house-trained when walked on a set schedule. He prefers to go potty on grass and cement. When left alone, he is well be-behaved unless left alone for a few hours, then he will pee and poop in the home and chew on furniture. He has never been crate trained. Loso knows the commands sit, come, down and shake. For exercise, Loso loves slow walks on leash. INTAKE NOTES – DATE OF INTAKE, 4-May-2019: Behavior upon intake: Loso was curious around the counselor. He would sniff but sit by his owner after awhile. He had a loose and wiggly body. Counselor was able to scan for a microchip, pet, collar and take a picture. BEHAVIOR NOTES Means of surrender (length of time in previous home): Owner Surrender (In home for 1 year) Previously lived with: Adults Behavior toward strangers: Friendly and outgoing Behavior toward children: Jumps up on them Behavior toward dogs: Snaps at them if they come near him on a walk Resource guarding: None reported Bite history: None reported Housetrained: Yes Energy level/descriptors: Loso is described as friendly, affectionate, and playful with a high level of activity. Other Notes: Loso will bark and growl if a person approaches him or his owner. SHELTER ASSESSMENT SUMMARIES - Date of assessment: 6-May-2019 Summary: Leash Walking Strength and pulling: Moderate Reactivity to humans: None Reactivity to dogs: None Leash walking comments: None Sociability Loose in room (15-20 seconds): Distracted, does not approach Call over: Approaches with coaxing Sociability comments: Sniffing room Handling Soft handling: Tolerates contact Exuberant handling: Tolerates contact Comments: Not relaxed, moves away a few times Arousal Jog: Follows (loose) Arousal comments: None Knock: Approaches (exuberant) Knock Comments: Jumps up Toy: Grips, firm Toy comments: None PLAYGROUP NOTES - DOG TO DOG SUMMARIES: 5/5-5/7: When introduced off leash to the female greeter dog, Loso approaches, sniffs, follows the greeter. 5/8: Loso engages in some play with a playful female dog, still primarily attempts to mount. INTAKE BEHAVIOR - Date of intake: 4-May-2019 Summary: Loose body, allowed handling MEDICAL BEHAVIOR - Date of initial: 6-May-2019 Summary: Tucked tail, trembling, growled and barked when touched ENERGY LEVEL: Loso is described as having a high level of activity. We recommend long-lasting chews, food puzzles, and hide-and-seek games, in additional to physical exercise, to positively direct his energy and enthusiasm. BEHAVIOR DETERMINATION: Level 3 Behavior Asilomar TM - Treatable-Manageable Recommendations: No children (under 13) Recommendations comments: No children: Due to being reported to bark and growl when some people approach him when he is with his owner, we recommend an adult only home. Potential challenges: Fearful/potential for defensive aggression On-leash reactivity/barrier frustration Potential challenges comments: Fearful/potential for defensive aggression: Loso is reported to bark and growl when some people approach him when he is with his owner. At the care center, he displayed this behavior during his medical exam. Please see handout on Fearful/potential for defensive aggression. On-leash reactivity/barrier frustration: Loso is reported to snap at dogs that approach him while on walks. He should not be allowed to greet dogs while on leash. Please see handout on On-leash reactivity/barrier frustration. MEDICAL EXAM NOTES 6-May-2019 DVM Intake Exam Estimated age:1-2y Microchip noted on Intake?y Microchip Number (If Applicable): History :owner surrender Subjective: Observed Behavior -tail tucked, staring, hackles up. muzzled. growled and barked when touched. Evidence of Cruelty seen -n Evidence of Trauma seen -n Objective T = P =60 R =wnl BCS 5/9 EENT: Eyes clear, ears clean, no nasal or ocular discharge noted Oral Exam: clean teeth PLN: No enlargements noted H/L: NSR, NMA, CRT < 2, Lungs clear, eupnic ABD: Non painful, no masses palpated U/G:2 testes MSI: Ambulatory x 4, skin lesion on forehead. ear tips also thickened. skin tag on flank left side CNS: Mentation appropriate - no signs of neurologic abnormalities Assessment: mild pyoderma Prognosis:good Plan:cephalexin 500mg bid x 10d SURGERY: Okay for surgery * TO FOSTER OR ADOPT * If you would like to adopt a NYC ACC dog, and can get to the shelter in person to complete the adoption process, you can contact the shelter directly. We have provided the Brooklyn, Staten Island and Manhattan information below. Adoption hours at these facilities is Noon – 8:00 p.m. (6:30 on weekends) If you CANNOT get to the shelter in person and you want to FOSTER OR ADOPT a NYC ACC Dog, you can PRIVATE MESSAGE our Must Love Dogs page for assistance. PLEASE NOTE: You MUST live in NY, NJ, PA, CT, RI, DE, MD, MA, NH, VT, ME or Northern VA. You will need to fill out applications with a New Hope Rescue Partner to foster or adopt a NYC ACC dog. Transport is available if you live within the prescribed range of states. Shelter contact information: Phone number (212) 788-4000 Email [email protected] Shelter Addresses: Brooklyn Shelter: 2336 Linden Boulevard Brooklyn, NY 11208 Manhattan Shelter: 326 East 110 St. New York, NY 10029 Staten Island Shelter: 3139 Veterans Road West Staten Island, NY 10309 * NEW NYC ACC RATING SYSTEM * Level 1 Dogs with Level 1 determinations are suitable for the majority of homes. These dogs are not displaying concerning behaviors in shelter, and the owner surrender profile (where available) is positive. Some dogs with Level 1 determinations may still have potential challenges, but these are challenges that the behavior team believe can be handled by the majority of adopters. The potential challenges could include no young children, prefers to be the only dog, no dog parks, no cats, kennel presence, basic manners, low level fear and mild anxiety. Level 2 Dogs with Level 2 determinations will be suitable for adopters with some previous dog experience. They will have displayed behavior in the shelter (or have owner reported behavior) that requires some training, or is simply not suitable for an adopter with minimal experience. Dogs with a Level 2 determination may have multiple potential challenges and these may be presenting at differing levels of intensity, so careful consideration of the behavior notes will be required for counselling. Potential challenges at Level 2 include no young children, single pet home, resource guarding, on-leash reactivity, mouthiness, fear with potential for escalation, impulse control/arousal, anxiety and separation anxiety. Level 3 Dogs with Level 3 determinations will need to go to homes with experienced adopters, and the ACC strongly suggest that the adopter have prior experience with the challenges described and/or an understanding of the challenge and how to manage it safely in a home environment. In many cases, a trainer will be needed to manage and work on the behaviors safely in a home environment. It is likely that every dog with a Level 3 determination will have a behavior modification or training plan available to them from the behavior department that will go home with the adopters and be made available to the New Hope Partners for their fosters and adopters. Some of the challenges seen at Level 3 are also seen at Level 1 and Level 2, but when seen alongside a Level 3 determination can be assumed to be more severe. The potential challenges for Level 3 determinations include adult only home (no children under the age of 13), single pet home, resource guarding, on-leash reactivity with potential for redirection, mouthiness with pressure, potential escalation to threatening behavior, impulse control, arousal, anxiety, separation anxiety, bite history (human), bite history (dog) and bite history (other).
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This site uses cookies to improve your experience and to provide services and advertising. By continuing to browse, you agree to the use of cookies described in our Cookies Policy. You may change your settings at any time but this may impact on the functionality of the site. To learn more see our Cookies Policy. OK Business ETC The42 The Daily Edge Search siteSearch Dublin: 2 °C Sunday 10 March, 2019 Homepage Irish Politics International Voices Family Culture Business Brexit My Feed RSS TagsBROADBAND COMMUNICATIONS COMMUNICATIONS MINISTER DAVID MCCOURT DAVID MCCOURT – HEAD OF THE GRANAHAN MCCOURT DENIS NAUGHTEN GONE LEO CULLEN NATIONAL BROADBAND PLAN See other tags Denis Naughten has resigned as Communications Minister He made the announcement in the Dáil this afternoon. Oct 11th 2018, 3:09 PM 62,053 Views 115 Comments Share968 Tweet Email2 Image: Leah Farrell EMBATTLED COMMUNICATIONS MINISTER Denis Naughten has announced he is to resign his position. He made the announcement in the Dáil this afternoon. Speaking in the Dáil this afternoon, Naughten said he had a meeting with the Taoiseach last night, in which Leo Varadkar asked him to reflect on his position. “The Taoiseach does not have confidence in me,” he said. Naughten said he was left in a difficult position, where the opposition had not called for him to step aside, nor had the Taoiseach, but added that he had to reflect himself. Do I wait for that decision myself, to resign, or do I wait for someone else to make that decision for me? He said the outcome “is more about opinion polls than telephone polls. It’s more about optics than fibre optics”. Naughten has been in the spotlight following revelations about a dinner he had with the head of the only group bidding for the National Broadband Plan contract. Naughten admitted to attending a dinner with David McCourt – head of the Granahan McCourt consortium – in New York in July, while yesterday it emerged that the minister facilitated a lunch in the Dáil for McCourt’s daughter in April. He told the Dáil today that he had offered to pass over the NBP process to his junior minister, or to another line Cabinet minister, but this offer was refused by the Taoiseach. Source: TheJournal.ie/YouTube Speaking to TheJournal.ie today about the matter, Varadkar revealed that while he was still seeking clarity on protocols that prevent the minister from influencing the procurement process, he was nonetheless happy with the explanation Naughten gave him last night. He said: “I don’t have all the information yet. I’m certainly satisfied with what he said to me last night at the meeting. “I just need to look at the communications protocol for myself and need to hear from him if he has any further information to share with us.” After his speech the minister left the chamber. Source: TheJournal.ie/YouTube Speaking after his resignation today, his counterpart in Fianna Fáil, Timmy Dooley, said he had “great sympathy” for Naughten today, and for his family and constituency. A number of TDs have called for the Taoiseach to come before the Dáil this afternoon. On a side note, the Department of Communications website is down. Short URL Tweet this Share on Facebook Email this article About the author: Christina Finn @christinafinn8 [email protected] See more articles by Christina Finn Contribute to this story: Leave a Comment Send a Correction Read next: 'An unprecedented number': 1,700 buildings in Dublin are awaiting protected status 661 Views Introducing our new podcast: The Explainer 2,076 Views One Irish person among 157 dead after Ethiopian Airlines plane crashes en route to Kenya 81,660 Views COMMENTS (115) This is YOUR comments community. Stay civil, stay constructive, stay on topic. Please familiarise yourself with our comments policy here before taking part. WRITE A COMMENT dB O'Neill 6y Oct 11th 2018, 3:10 PM Good. 660 Ger Murphy 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:13 PM @dB O’Neill: I think he has no option given poor judgement. 300 Dáithí O Raghailaigh 6m Oct 11th 2018, 3:27 PM @dB O’Neill: Varadkar throwing anyone in his way under the Bus. Power is a Drug..? 248 SEE 13 MORE REPLIES ▾ Tony Stack 6y Oct 11th 2018, 3:14 PM Wow a resignation , this is not normal for Ireland 573 Midland Celt 5y Oct 11th 2018, 6:36 PM @Tony Stack: He was effectively sack and in disgrace. 17 James O'Brien 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:11 PM More to hide now running away. 318 prop joe 3y Oct 11th 2018, 8:06 PM @James O’Brien: so is the contract still valid? No real change unless there are a few bids. One bidder for a multi-million euro contract. 7 dB O'Neill 6y Oct 11th 2018, 3:11 PM Good call, 186 Desmond Wisley 6y Oct 11th 2018, 3:12 PM There goes my high sped broadband 186 Niall Donnelly 6y Oct 11th 2018, 3:14 PM @Desmond Wisley: ask O’Leary or O’Brian. They’ll help ya out!! 114 Niall Donnelly 6y Oct 11th 2018, 3:16 PM Lowry & O’Brien. Ha Typos 115 SEE 3 MORE REPLIES ▾ Kenneth Carroll 5y Oct 11th 2018, 3:12 PM More Brown envelopes??? 197 Go way ba willu 1y Oct 11th 2018, 4:36 PM @Kenneth Carroll: It’s over Leo… 43 Sean Murphy 4y Oct 11th 2018, 3:12 PM Do TDs/ministers still get a pension if they resign early? 179 Dave. 2y Oct 11th 2018, 3:14 PM @Sean Murphy: Standard issue. You could burn down the Dail and you’d still get a pension. Literally no accountability. 410 Roger McGowan 1y Oct 11th 2018, 3:23 PM @Dave.: That pension goes up every time the Dail gives them selves a pay rise too 171 SEE 2 MORE REPLIES ▾ Paddy Murray 7y Oct 11th 2018, 3:27 PM Funny when the communications minister has to resign over his lack of communications with his boss with regard to his communications with a potential supplier . I hope I am communicating this properly 186 Dave Doyle 5y Oct 11th 2018, 3:23 PM Dennis will look after him. Just ask Brian Cowen. 182 Wayne Scales 7y Oct 11th 2018, 3:20 PM It wouldn’t be a surprise if more was to come out.Hopefully Minister Murphy follows suit. 171 Mr E Oct 11th 2018, 3:45 PM @Wayne Scales: and Leo needs to reflect on all these scandals while he has being Taoisock 88 Kenneth Hayden 4y Oct 11th 2018, 3:11 PM Bye bye. 167 iComment Oct 11th 2018, 3:24 PM The civil servants who were at this dinner in New York where the minister was present should also resign….The Moriarty tribunal spent 14 years investigating the last big communications contact the state gave out….They strictly advised how ministers and civil servants should behave in the future… 193 Gary Kearney 4y Oct 11th 2018, 3:45 PM @iComment: Finally somebody said what everybody misses. It is like an episode of Yes Minister. Same thing happened to Shane Ross, of all people his department screwed him over on Bus Connects 56 Kj bar 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:11 PM It never ends….. 149 Johnny Mason 1y Oct 11th 2018, 3:13 PM The calm before the storm ? 119 Trevor Hayden 1y Oct 11th 2018, 3:19 PM Let’s see, before revelations come out about millions in bribes. 116 Dermot Lane 7y Oct 11th 2018, 3:44 PM @Trevor Hayden: there is only one player in the arena for this contract, why would they pay him bribes? 29 Trevor Hayden 1y Oct 11th 2018, 3:55 PM @Dermot Lane: To ensure the others are put off. Siemens and water metering, we’ve seen this all before. 88 SEE 1 MORE REPLY ▾ Shane O Malley 6y Oct 11th 2018, 3:21 PM Yesterday Leo backed his man in parliament , last night F/G mouth organs were on RTE radio and TV3 telling us what an honourable he was, at the same time Leo was telling the minister he had no confidence in him 136 Sean Conway 4y Oct 11th 2018, 4:00 PM @Shane O Malley: Think leo wants an election. i hope it backfires on him and FG/FF. 60 Séan Ó Nuanáin 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:13 PM Buíochas le Dia. Is féidir linn rud éigin maith a dhéanamh don timpeallacht anois 74 Stephen Boland 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:15 PM @Séan Ó Nuanáin: yep 29 sb 6m Oct 11th 2018, 3:28 PM @Séan Ó Nuanáin: da bleedin spanish? 16 SEE 2 MORE REPLIES ▾ Brian Lonergan 5y Oct 11th 2018, 3:21 PM Take a few more of them with you! 92 Squiddley Diddley 2y Oct 11th 2018, 3:14 PM Fianna Fáil Lite 70 Mark 4y Oct 11th 2018, 3:13 PM That stank to high heavens 121 James Keogh 2y Oct 11th 2018, 3:30 PM It is unfortunate that it has come to this but, it is what it is. It would appear that the Minister ran away with himself and his self-assumed status. It was not an honourable resignation it was an escape route chosen to avoid serious questions and he leaves a Bigger Question, Who is going to carry the Churn now and explain his errors and mis-judgement. 64 Joseph Dempsey 5y Oct 11th 2018, 3:30 PM Leo should be embarrassed but of course won’t be, not a few hours after offering fullsome 100% support of his Minister, this happens. No doubt Leo’s communications unit will be in over drive trying to spin the unspinable, just hope Michael Martin will develop enough balls and call an election, enough of this lecerious government 109 jim dee 6m Oct 11th 2018, 3:24 PM varadkar ,coveney the whole lot of them had complete confidence in him one hour ago, what a shower of absolute shysters 143 @mdmak33 4y Oct 11th 2018, 3:43 PM About time,and the contract must be put on hold,DOB involvement puts a cloud over the whole process,he is being investigated by CAB and the ODCE for god sake for criminal activity. 82 mursim 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:32 PM On the bright side. He’s independent – he needs to withdraw support from the government. We need an election – particularly after this abortion of a budget. 67 Patrick James Walsh 4y Oct 11th 2018, 3:21 PM Micheal Martin was devastating on this at leaders questions in the Dail yesterday. Can`t believe that these ministers have handlers, special advisers, and media and PR people employed as well as the full armory of the dept and the civil service at their beck and call, and they still manage to do idiotic things like accept offers of dinner etc, which are clearly designed to gain access to the Minister who has the gift of deciding the bid in question. 98 James O'Brien 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:26 PM Storm Denis 41 Jc Nulty 5y Oct 11th 2018, 3:59 PM He was told last night when he met the taoiseach that he either resigns or he would be sacks, not one senior goverment minster was in the house when he resigned he was left out to dry by theses blue shirts get them out and call a election 51 Sean Conway 4y Oct 11th 2018, 3:41 PM And FF don’t see anything wrong with naughton. 48 Martin Meyler 5y Oct 11th 2018, 3:25 PM Well. That’s a unexpected but welcome development. 37 Charliegrl80 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:45 PM The newest government scandal and properly lots more of them to come – shame we still have politicians in the Dail willing to stay or support these scandals. And this is not about €37 this is about what and who is involved. 39 P Quinn 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:38 PM Varadkar knee that this would become a potential cause for an election and therefore asked the minister to go. Varadkar knows FG will suffer at the polls 37 Charliegrl80 3y Oct 11th 2018, 3:48 PM @P Quinn: it’s still an election issue even though naughten resigned, as the people involved are still holding the contract. 29 Tom's 1y Oct 11th 2018, 3:35 PM Tell us what his exit package will be. 30 Mark Plunkett 6m Oct 11th 2018, 3:48 PM Well well well amazing what a few hours can do,Leo the liar quoted yesterday he had no problem supporting him,what a joke,ah well nice pension,off to the sun without a care in the world.the usual run of the mill in the dail. 45 Maurice Dodd 6y Oct 11th 2018, 9:48 PM @Mark Plunkett: lieo 2 Barry O Toole 1y Oct 11th 2018, 3:18 PM Leo wont allow any dung stick to his socks 77 PJ Berry 4y Oct 11th 2018, 4:00 PM Absolutely no loss 28 WoodlandBard 2y Oct 11th 2018, 3:15 PM What’s wrong with having dinner? That aside, yes I feel it needs someone else in that job. It was going nowhere. 26 Do the Bort man 2y Oct 11th 2018, 3:18 PM @WoodlandBard: My thoughts exactly, I guess there may be much more to this story that would have leaked of he hadn’t resigned. 79 WoodlandBard 2y Oct 11th 2018, 3:18 PM …. but who else is there to get the rural broadband out? 13 SEE 3 MORE REPLIES ▾ Tadhg Kelleher 7y Oct 11th 2018, 3:23 PM The nbp comes to fruition the same time mobile broadband providers claim 97% coverage. Now some lucky divil is going to get half a billion for the last 3%. There was never an nbp…. 28 John McCann 6m Oct 11th 2018, 4:01 PM Leo the Liar. Denis the Crook and the other Denis being investigated by CAB. It’s just like going back 20 years. FG putting 2 fingers up to the voters and Mehole Martin as spineless as ever. They’re all a shower of crooks. Would almost vote for the Shinners, only joking! But we now need an election to clear out the bad apples. 46 Jc Nulty 5y Oct 11th 2018, 4:08 PM Come on fianna fail lets see what you will do now or will you still sit on the fence and do what you always do and abstain thats why the people put you in to do nothing you will get your answer when there is a election. 33 Paddy Murray 7y Oct 11th 2018, 3:27 PM Funny when the communications minister has to resign over his lack of communications with his boss with regard to his communications with a potential supplier . I hope I am communicating this properly 23 BK 2y Oct 11th 2018, 4:28 PM On the same day she has been “vindicated” by Charleton Tribunal here comes Frances Fitzgerald back in cabinet to save the day .. ….what will FF do then ? 18 Yourmam McCarthy 1y Oct 11th 2018, 4:17 PM You wouldnt see Simon Harris resign. You would want a crowbar to get rid pf him. 31 Dave Moran 7y Oct 11th 2018, 4:43 PM Ill bet there is a lot more to this….? 18 Nigel o'Neill 2y Oct 11th 2018, 4:35 PM Just look at all the headline articles on here today!! They make for some very very sorry reading for us as a people. Corruption and incompetence stamped over so much of what’s going on at the higher end of state authorities…the question is, will we rubber stamp it and keep the status quo or will we actually action real change!? 25 Sean Conway 4y Oct 11th 2018, 4:46 PM Is this a coverup because of the charleton report coming out today? 14 Frainc Ó Broin 5y Oct 11th 2018, 3:39 PM I never heard of him! Must have communicated it badly. 11 Insider at RTE 1y Oct 11th 2018, 3:32 PM Boxer for cabinet 10 Donal Desmond 3y Oct 11th 2018, 4:50 PM Fitzgerald back in the good books… Naughten resigned… lucky day for the blueshirts. 11 Rich Walsh 4y Oct 11th 2018, 4:50 PM Here we go again. Same oul story. Another election probably. Such messing and the Irish taxpayer gets screwed again. Sad really. 15 Arron 4y Oct 11th 2018, 5:41 PM Dinner together…. another one.. Christ.. no responsibility in public service whatsoever across the board. Country will never change. Good luck 10 Rory J Leonard 5y Oct 11th 2018, 4:38 PM It’s sad that an honorable, innocent, decent, hard working, but very naive man is taken out like this. With all the spin docs and comms consultants around Gov you would have thought that a Min would have been forewarned and properly briefed on protocol in these situations, especially given past history and costly failings in the granting of such monstrous government contracts in the past. The Inv House putting the deal together in NY also has a lot to learn…in doing business with Govs in EU and needs to educate itself on the relevant protocols. Who decided that having the birthday bash in the Dail restaurant was a good idea? By Mr. N. being a gentleman and hospitable to his guest on a biz mission, it has cost him his job. Zero comp for a €500m Gov contract needs careful handling 9 John Blessing 4y Oct 11th 2018, 7:47 PM @Rory J Leonard: Honorable, innocent, decent, hard working???? He’s loves brown envelopes !! 7 Dave Moran 7y Oct 11th 2018, 4:41 PM Have to say I’m surprised. Not at all normal in our political system..? 8 David Van-Standen 5y Oct 11th 2018, 5:36 PM Well this can only mean, that there will soon be yet another announcement by yet another Minister for communications, of a plan to roll out broadband nationwide…. 7 Mari 2y Oct 11th 2018, 4:16 PM U had no choice …u were wrong.. 7 eddie horgan 1y Oct 11th 2018, 6:15 PM He had to resign when it came out that he had more than one meeting. Beggars belief what he was thinking 8 gmac84 4y Oct 11th 2018, 7:31 PM All previous dealings he has had should be looked into like his cosy meetings with Eirgrid. 5 Karen Lynch 2y Oct 11th 2018, 4:50 PM A very big issue is that Eir and Siro have been left cherry pick where they will deliver to, whilst neighbours within a couple of hundred meters are with nothing. I live 10kms from Cork City Centre, 4 kms from Blarney. Not a “ribbon route” and not “a one off house”. 1.5 yrs ago, my neighbours were provided with full FTTH by Eir, whilst the remaining 400 meters stretch of road, housing 9 houses, 7 apartments and a busy pub/restaurant, were left with less than 1mg. Next tranche of houses over 2 miles away. No joined up thinking, ultimately leaving to the tax payer under the NBP to pick up the tab. My 13 yr old, 1st yr son has Dysgraphia, and uses Ass Tech, for all his educational needs. I hope he won’t be through college by the time any NBP is delivered. 7 John Blessing 4y Oct 11th 2018, 7:44 PM Brown envelope Scu&%^g, goodbye and take all the rest with you please? 6 Tony Kennedy 3y Oct 11th 2018, 6:32 PM Varadkar says he asked him to resign . Naughten says he offered to resign . ???? 5 eastsmer 6y Oct 11th 2018, 5:12 PM SICK OF FF FG LAB TRAITORS 16 Daire Friel 7y Oct 11th 2018, 7:11 PM Now maybe we will get a minister who will concentrate on the climate change and environment part of his role rather than the communications part which seemed to be what this minister spent all his time on 3 The Red Devil 7y Oct 11th 2018, 4:24 PM No my high spee…………..d ……………..broad…..ba….nd dam u Dennis naughton 7 Maurice Dodd 6y Oct 11th 2018, 9:47 PM Always looked like a sleeveen looking crook 2 Ludie Creech 4y Oct 11th 2018, 10:06 PM I think Russia is somehow involved 1 Grainnewhale 6m Oct 11th 2018, 11:14 PM Very unprofessional 1 Brian harris 1y Oct 11th 2018, 4:23 PM Good. 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Apparently, Benadryl, and Cats: 24723 years old, 79 lbs BIG SMILING HUNK Capone Handsome, young. friendly Capone is at the Brooklyn shelter waiting for his happy ever affer-NEUTERED & Ready To Go **** TO BE KILLED – 5/7/2018 **** Handsome Hunk Capone is a Giant Teddy Bear! <3 CAPONE is a handsome and friendly young man whose been surrendered to the Brooklyn shelter. He's waiting patiently for his second chance with a great family that will love him and teach him and never let him down. Please help us share Capone for his happy ever after. A volunteer writes: There is nothing remotely gangsta about Capone besides his size. This handsome boy instead brings to mind rainbows, teddy bears and sunshine. Already a staff favorite, Capone has the power to make everyone smile and give him impromptu hugs just by walking through the corridors — word of his good nature and sweetness has spread far and wide. He loves his walkies (pulling a bit to get outside — he can be strong as well as sweet), and giving paw to the many new friends he has made here. He's clearly ready for that one-on-one connection that made him such a great people dog to begin with. We would love for him to find it with you. Please ask for Capone in Brooklyn today. Another volunteer writes (as per Capone) <3 “Take me to your wonderful home today? Ok, let’s shake on it!” Love, Capone Capone ID# 24723 Brooklyn Animal Care Center Sex: Male Age: 2 years old Size: Large Length: Short Is Vaccinated: Yes Coat Type: Thick Primary Color: Brown Secondary Color: White Weight: 79.4 lbs. Intake Date First Stay: 04-08-2018 Intake Date Second Stay: 04-18-18 CAPONED WAS RETURNED AFTER 1 DAY Spayed / Neutered Yes SHELTER ASSESSMENT: EXPERIENCED HOME No young children (under 5) No cats Single-pet home Recommend no dog parks OWNER PROFILE This animal came from: Giveaway Basic Information: Capone is a 2 year old male who was not neutered prior to coming into the shelter. He has no known health issues or injuries ans has not seen a vet recently. He was given to the owner a year ago and was surrendered due to the land lord not allowing pets. Previously lived with: 1 Adult How is this dog around strangers? Capone is friendly and outgoing when meeting new people. He does jump on guests so small children need to be careful around him. He has a high exuberance level. How is this dog around children? Capone is friendly with children but due to his size and energy level he should not be in a home with young children. How is this dog around other dogs? Capone has interacted with dogs at the park and gets along well with them. If any dogs shows aggressive behaviors towards him he will become fractious. How is this dog around cats? Capone has not lived with cats but his owner stated that he will chase cats he sees in the street. Resource guarding: Capone does not have any resource guarding behavior. Bite history: Capone does not have a bite history. Housetrained: Yes Energy level/descriptors: Very High Other Notes: Capone's owner was able to bathe and groom him but he has not tried to trim his nails. Capone is not bothered by being pushed off the furniture or disturbed while sleeping. He will alert bark when someone approaches the house or yard. Has this dog ever had any medical issues? No For a New Family to Know Capone is described as being friendly, affectionate and very playful. He has been an indoor dog and likes to follow his owner around when he is home. He likes to play with all kinds of toys and games, and sleeps on his blanket on the floor. He eats both wet and dry food and is house trained to go both outside and on newspaper. He was crate trained when he was younger but has out grown his crate. He knows the commands sit, come, lay down, and high five. He walks on leash for exercise but does pull very hard. BEHAVIOR NOTES Intake: Capone has a very high energy level during intake and did not sit well, but was friendly and seeking attention. Means of surrender (length of time in previous home): Owner surrender (in previous home for 1 year) Previously lived with: Adult (1) Behavior toward strangers: Friendly, outgoing, exuberant, may jump up for attention Behavior toward children: Friendly, exuberant Behavior toward dogs: Gets along well with dogs at the dog park Capone's owner stated that when Capone is at the dog park interacting with other dogs, he behaves friendly and playful, until another dog begins to behave "aggressive" or "fractious." His owner stated that he will in turn act aggressive. When asked what that meant the owner stated if another dog begins growling or snapping, Capone will do the same behaviors back, but, as long as the other dogs "play nice" he will 'play nice" too. Behavior toward cats: Chases cats he sees outdoors Resource guarding: None reported Bite history: None reported Housetrained: Yes Energy level/descriptors: Capone is described as friendly, affectionate, and very playful, with a very high activity level. SAFER SCORES: Date of assessment: 10-Apr-2018 Look: 1. Dog leans forward or jumps up to lick the Assessor's face with tail wagging, ears back and eyes averted. Sensitivity: 1. Dog stands still and accepts the touch, eyes are averted, and tail is in neutral position with a relaxed body posture. Dog's mouth is likely closed for at least a portion of the assessment item. Tag: 1. Dog follows at the end of the leash, body soft. Paw squeeze 1: 1. Dog does not respond at all for three seconds. Eyes are averted and ears are relaxed or back. Paw squeeze 2: 1. Dog does not respond at all for three seconds. Eyes are averted and ears are relaxed or back. Toy: 1. Dog settles close, keeps a firm grip and is loose and wiggly. Dog does not place his/her body between you and the toy. Summary: Capone came into the assessment room loose and wiggly, he was friendly and affectionate towards the handlers. Summary (1): Capone's previous guardian reported that he will play respectfully with other dogs but if they correct him or challenge him, he will react back. 4/9: When off leash at the Care Center, Capone greets the female helper dog with a slightly stiff, still stance and closed mouth. He walks away, then returns with the same stance but offers a quick play bow. The gate is opened and he immediately flanks her and mounts her side, placing one paw on her shoulder and freezing. He does not respond to any interrupters and needed to be physically removed from on top of her. Date of intake: 8-Apr-2018 Summary: Friendly, attention-seeking, active Date of initial: 8-Apr-2018 Summary: Social, energetic, difficult to handle due to activity ENERGY LEVEL: His previous owners describe Capone as a high-energy dog, which matches what we have seen in the care center. He may need guidance to learn how to appropriately channel that energy when he becomes overstimulated. He will need daily mental and physical stimulation and exercise, and force-free, positive reinforcement-based training may help him to learn impulse control and to train desirable behaviors that can be rewarded. BEHAVIOR DETERMINATION: EXPERIENCE (suitable for an adopter with some previous dog experience, especially with the behaviors outlined below) Recommendations: No young children (under 5) No cats Single-pet home Recommend no dog parks Recommendations comments: No young children: Due to the behavior seen in the care center (lack of impulse control and exuberance), we feel that Capone may be intimidating for young children at this time given his exuberance, size and strength. We believe a home without young children would best set him up to succeed at this time. Single-pet home/No dog parks: Due to the concerning behaviors that Capone has shown during playgroup (see GROUPBEHAVIOR SUMMARY), we feel that Capone should not visit dog parks and be the only resident dog. The Behavior Department recommends that he be socialized in a more controlled setting until his behavior towards other dogs can be further addressed. Reward-based, force-free training can be utilized to help Capone associate dogs with things he enjoys like toys or treats. No cats: Capone is reported to chase cats he sees outside. For the safety of the cats, we recommend against a home with cats or where he may come into contact with cats. Potential challenges: Basic manners/poor impulse control Potential challenges comments Basic manners/poor impulse control: It is recommended that default behaviors such as "Leave it", "Sit/Stay", "Down" are reinforced to substitute any frustration and teach Capone to control his impulses instead of simply reacting; proper management is also advised. Force-free, reward based training only is recommended. MEDICAL EXAM NOTES SECOND STAY / INTAKE 04/18/18 19-Apr-2018 DVM Intake Exam Estimated age:2y Microchip noted on Intake?y Microchip Number (If Applicable):911002001373910 History : return one day. prev treated for dermatitis and otitis Subjective: Observed Behavior -playful, jumpy, wags tail Evidence of Cruelty seen -n Evidence of Trauma seen -n Objective T = P =80 R =wnl BCS 5/9 EENT: Eyes clear, ears clean, no nasal or ocular discharge noted Oral Exam:clean teeth PLN: No enlargements noted H/L: NSR, NMA, CRT < 2, Lungs clear, eupnic ABD: Non painful, no masses palpated U/G:neutered MSI: Ambulatory x 4, skin free of parasites, no masses noted, hair loss on tail–previous tx for pyoderma CNS: Mentation appropriate – no signs of neurologic abnormalities Assessment: healthy, resolving pyoderma lesion Prognosis:excellent Plan:no additional tx MEDICAL EXAM NOTES FIRST STAY – INTAKE 04/08/18 15-Apr-2018 Progress Exam History : o/s 4/8. Started on gentizol and benadryl for allergies and otitis externa. 4/9-started on trazodone 4/14-neutered Subjective: BARH. No csvd. Neutered yesterday and surgical site is cdi. Dermatitis and otitis have resolved. Objective EENT: Eyes clear, ears clean with ointment AU, no nasal discharge noted ORAL: Clean adult dentition, pink mm ABD: SNP, NMP H/L: NMA, RR, Lungs CE UG: MN, neuter site cdi MSI: Ambulatory x 4, healthy haircoat, small patch of alopecia with scaling on dorsal tail-no erythema or prutitus CNS: mentation appropriate – no signs of neurologic abnormalities Assessment: Apparently healthy Plan: Continue to monitor while at BACC Last day of benadryl and gentizol Continue carprofen until 4/17 Prognosis: Excellent 14-Apr-2018 Spay/Neuter Summary Pre-surgical exam, anesthesia, and surgery performed by ASPCA. Green linear tattoo placed on ventral abdomen. 13-Apr-2018 Pre-Op Exam Hx: Scheduled for surgery at Glendale on 4/14/18. S/O: Dog is BARH. BCS 5/9. EENT – no obvious ocular or nasal discharge; no sneezing or coughing noted. Heart/lungs auscult wnl. U/G – both testicles descended. Amb x 4. Skin/coat – wnl. A: Acceptable candidate for elective sx P: Okay to send to Glendale for neuter on 4/14/18. 12-Apr-2018 Progress Exam Monitor for CIRDC – observed coughing very early in morning 4/11 but not seen during rounds that day S/O: BAR. Very active, attention seeking. Eating well EENT: Eyes clear, no ocular or nasal discharge HL: No coughing or sneezing, normal RR/RE INTEG: Full coat MS: Ambulatory x 4 UG: Male A: No signs of CIRDC observed or reported P: Continue to monitor while at BACC 10-Apr-2018 Progress Exam History : o/s 4/8. Started on gentizol and benadryl for allergies and otitis externa. 4/9-started on trazodone Subjective: BAR. No csvd. Behavior noticed the trazodone has made him too sedate in his kennel. Rec d/c trazodone. Objective EENT: Eyes clear, no nasal discharge noted H/L: Normal RR/RE, eupneic MSI: Ambulatory x 4, dry hair coat with dermatitis on tail CNS: mentation appropriate – no signs of neurologic abnormalities Assessment: Otitis externa Dermatitis on tail Plan: Continue to monitor while at BACC Continue gentizol AU BID until 4/15 Continue benadryl 2.2mg/kg PO BID until 4/15 D/c trazodone Prognosis: Excellent 9-Apr-2018 Progress Exam History : o/s 4/8. Started on gentizol and benadryl for allergies and otitis externa. Subjective: BAR. No csvd. Behavior requested trazodone due to escalation during playgroup. Objective EENT: Eyes clear, no nasal discharge noted H/L: Normal RR/RE, eupneic MSI: Ambulatory x 4, dry hair coat with dermatitis on tail CNS: mentation appropriate – no signs of neurologic abnormalities Assessment: Otitis externa Dermatitis on tail Plan: Continue to monitor while at BACC Continue gentizol AU BID until 4/15 Continue benadryl 2.2mg/kg PO BID until 4/15 Start trazodone 100mg PO BID x7d until 4/16-daily monitoring by behavior and VS Prognosis: Excellent 8-Apr-2018 DVM Intake Exam Estimated age: 2 year Microchip noted on Intake? positive 911002001373910 History : o/s Subjective: BARH Observed Behavior – very sweet. Energetic and difficult to handle. Did well for all medical handling and procedures Evidence of Cruelty seen – no Evidence of Trauma seen – no Objective P = wnl R = eupneic BCS 5/9 EENT: Eyes clear, ears have moderate waxy debris and lichenification of canals, no nasal discharge noted Oral Exam: clean adult dentition, no oral lesions noted PLN: No enlargements noted H/L: NSR, NMA, CRT < 2, Lungs clear, eupneic ABD: Non painful, no masses palpated U/G: MI MSI: Ambulatory x 4, skin free of parasites, no masses noted, dry hair coat with dermatitis on tail CNS: mentation appropriate – no signs of neurologic abnormalities Assessment: Otitis externa Dermatitis on tail Plan: Continue to monitor while at BACC Cleaned ears, applied gentizol Start gentizol AU BID x7d until 4/15 Start benadryl 2.2mg/kg PO BID x7d until 4/15 Prognosis: Excellent SURGERY: ok to schedule for surgery * TO FOSTER OR ADOPT * If you would like to adopt a dog on our “To Be Killed” list, and you CAN get to the shelter in person to complete the adoption process *within 48 hours of reserve*, you can reserve the dog online until noon on the day they are scheduled to die. We have provided the Brooklyn, Staten Island and Manhattan information below. Adoption hours at these facilities is Noon – 8:00 p.m. (6:30 on weekends) HOW TO RESERVE A “TO BE KILLED” DOG ONLINE (only for those who can get to the shelter IN PERSON to complete the adoption process, and only for the dogs on the list NOT marked New Hope Rescue Only). Follow our Step by Step directions below! *PLEASE NOTE – YOU MUST USE A PC OR TABLET – PHONE RESERVES WILL NOT WORK! ** STEP 1: CLICK ON THIS RESERVE LINK: https://newhope.shelterbuddy.com/Animal/List Step 2: Go to the red menu button on the top right corner, click register and fill in your info. Step 3: Go to your email and verify account Step 4: Go back to the website, click the menu button and view available dogs Step 5: Scroll to the animal you are interested and click reserve STEP 6 ( MOST IMPORTANT STEP ): GO TO THE MENU AGAIN AND VIEW YOUR CART. THE ANIMAL SHOULD NOW BE IN YOUR CART! 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This weekend, two teams with contrasting fortunes will take to the field, in the shadow of the Dumbarton Rock for the fourth match day of the Championship season.
  So far, the Sons have one win in all competitions with a single goal victory against Rangers U20, 10 days ago. In other results, they were pointless in the League Cup, held Morton at home, relinquished the lead in Grangemouth for a point and defeated at Palmerston.
  Athletic started this campaign much better than last. They topped their Betfred Cup group and have accumulating as many points (7) as they had on October 22, 2016. If they were to beat Highland League champions, Buckie Thistle on Tuesday, they would be in the third round of the Challenge Cup afore the end of August.
  There is a clear top and bottom half of the table at this early stage. The part-timers would accept fifth at this moment because survival is everything for them. They have no reason to panic yet, but a marquee win could see them kick on. Dunfermline will not want to be the team in that situation.
Kickoff time, ticket prices and where to watch
Ticket prices:
Adults – £20 Concessions – £12 Parent and child – £28
  Match information:
Saturday 26 August, 15:00pm at Dumbarton Stadium.
Team news
Dumbarton:
Grant Gallagher and Mark Stewart (injured).
Dunfermline:
Nicky Clark (fitness).
Referee
Barry Cook.
Games reffed:
Premiership
St Johnstone 1-0 Partick Thistle (2Y).
League One
Alloa Athletic 1-1 Raith Rovers (4Y).
League Cup
Inverness Caledonian Thistle 3-0 Brechin City (3Y). Dumbarton 1-3 Ayr United (1Y). Albion Rovers 8-6 (pens) Hamilton Academical (4Y, 1 pen).
Challenge Cup
Queen of the South 4-0 Airdrieonians.
  What Dumbarton are saying
“Having a full week to train with no midweek game has given us the chance to work on a few things, and I am confident we will see the benefits of that against Dunfermline. We are well aware that they have made a great start, but we are looking forward to it and will make sure that if they do take anything, it will be hard earned.” (Stevie Aitken, manager)
What Dunfermline are saying
“It will be a hard game and might not be as open. They will probably sit in and try and hit you on the counterattack. They have a bit of pace going forward with guys like Mark Stewart and the boy Roy from Hearts as well. We will just have to make sure that we are organised, do not get caught on the counter and do not get caught from a setpiece because they have a lot of height in their team as well. We need to put in a similar type of performance in terms of creating chances and scoring goals.” (Allan Johnston, manager)
Line ups last time out
Table
Complete fixture list
Former Dumbarton players
Andy Dowie (2009-13). Kyle Hutton (2012).
  Last four meetings
Championship:
15/04/17. Dumbarton 0-2 Dunfermline Athletic. 04/03/17. Dunfermline Athletic 5-1 Dumbarton. 29/10/16. Dumbarton 2-2 Dunfermline Athletic. 06/08/16. Dunfermline Athletic 4-3 Dumbarton.
Keys to the game
  Set pieces:
Two of Dunfermline’s three league goals conceded have come from set-pieces. One versus Livingston and the other against Inverness Caledonian Thistle.
Four of the nine conceded have also come from set-pieces. Two direct free kicks, one penalty and the other being in the second phase from a dead ball situation.
What appears to happen is that they get to a stage where they are playing well and are comfortable which allows the mistakes to creep in.
The issue with Dunfermline from set plays is that they look disorganised. No-one got out to quell the threat from a short corner at Almondvale and panic set in against Hearts when they were leading 2-1 with a few minutes left in the game.
It is still early days, and those issues should be ironed out by the individuals, but it is the only credible criticism that you can level at the team as a whole.
Jean Yves-M’Voto and Lee Ashcroft have gave away silly penalty kicks through decisions that puzzled viewers. The defenders are prone to odd mistakes that seen a high number of red cards last season. That is going to be harder to eradicate from the experienced players.
Counter attack:
Ryan Williamson likes to get forward and hit the byline that could leave Alistair Roy and Tom Walsh to exploit that space on any potential counter (see the Falkirk goal). Callum Smith, Dean Shiels, Declan McManus, Joe Cardle and Kallum Higginbotham like to do their work in the final third which could leave Nat Wedderburn a little exposed if they push the ball through the central third of the park. Patience will be key for both sides in the game and not start to force opportunities when they present themselves.
Breaking down the defensive set-up:
So far, Dumbarton have set up in a regular 4-4-2, 4-2-3-1, 4-5-1 and a defensive 4-4-2, which has yielded the better results this season. The back four and goalkeeper are settled with one clean sheet (tied second best) and gave up two goals (also tied second best).
Andy Dowie and Dougie Hill are an experienced pair of center backs flanked by a pair of teenagers who provide energy beside them. It is a yin and yang situation that brings out the best in them.
Craig Barr has stepped up as a number six rather than a centre half to give more solidity in the middle of the park and is paired with David Wilson, who moved from Partick Thistle this off-season.
Dean Shiels starting deeper than the wide men may be key in helping shift Barr and Wilson off their x-axis to create space for Callum Smith to manoeuvre into the open field.
The sheer quality of Dunfermline’s chance creation has seen them finish off nine chances in the space of three games and be the highest scoring team in the division may be enough to see off a good, not great Dumbarton side.
Prediction
Dumbarton 1-2 Dunfermline
Odds
Dumbarton: 2.92 Draw: 2.66 Dunfermline Athletic: 1.00
Best bet
Dunfermline to win and both teams to score: 3.00
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Match preview: Dumbarton versus Dunfermline Athletic This weekend, two teams with contrasting fortunes will take to the field, in the shadow of the Dumbarton Rock for the fourth match day of the Championship season.
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THANK GOD my immediate co-workers are as empathic and compassionate and passionate about their job as I am… that really helps when someone in the workforce is a clear Narc… when things happen that absolutely don’t make sense… you can have a meeting of the minds and compare notes to see you’re all not crazy…
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Short answer is they will rage and try to destroy you. While the experience is unsettling, you need to weather the storm. Since all narcissists follow the same behavioral patterns, there’s no other way to reach happiness and freedom from your narcissist. BUT many have gone before you and I am one such survivor. It is worth it.
Here’s some advice. If you are not married or don’t have kids together, you’re lucky. Cut off all access they have to you and walk away. Block them from calling/texting you and block them from all social media, then make all social media private and remove all of their close friends from your social media. If you are divorcing or have kids together then learn the art of grey rock, and only communicate in written form, especially if you’re going through a divorce. If divorcing with kids, I highly recommend only communicating via a court monitored app like TalkingParents. This last bit of advice may take some time to digest, but cut ties with all of the friends you have in common, especially if they maintain their friendship with the narc. They are all flying monkeys, even if they unwittingly don’t know it. Trust me, in time you won’t regret it.
Learn to forgive the narc. This sounds strange, but remember they have a disorder. Learning to forgive them is for you, not them. The process will shift your mental perception of the narc and the circumstances. I can only say that when I learned this, I completely gained control over everything. She no longer has any control over me, her trigger attempts are now humorous to me, and all of the games that her legal team attempts of intimidation and control fail. In fact, the last time her attorney attempted to intimidate me, just a few weeks ago, I laughed at him. Pissed him off to no ends, which is just so sweet and warming.
Here’s the crappy middle part of the story though. She withheld visitation with my daughter. I spent nearly 6 figures getting custody back, well worth it though and my daughter understands the whole story, for reference she’s almost 15. The narc and her attorneys filed a trumped up Temporary Restraining Order against me. When that failed, she attempted to file trumped up criminal charges against me with the police. Luckily the police saw right through her and refused her attempts. She has smeared me to anyone and everyone, even bizarrely telling the girl who cuts my hair that I am a racist. She attempts to ruin any interaction we have surrounding our daughter; graduations, awards ceremonies, banquets, etc. It’s a bizarre attempt to show dominance and gain narc supply but all it does is demonstrate further to our daughter how nuts she is. She defies court orders. And sadly the list goes on.
The only thing I maintained from our 24 year marriage is the close relationship that I have with my sweet kiddo, and it’s stronger than ever! I’m also happier and more in control of my life than I’ve been in a long long time.
There is a ton of support out there if you are considering leaving a narc, so face your fears head on and go for it. Weather the storm and you will be stronger and wiser than you’ve ever been. Become a survivor!
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