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[world-of-wales]

The Duke of Cornwall visited The Warren House Inn at Postbridge, Yelverton which has been a rest point for travellers since the 18th century. The fire at the inn has alight since 1845, when it was first constructed || 17 OCTOBER 2024

[8ightisfate]

[jurnalweli]

Mengapa Menyapih

Abang, sebutan saat ini untuk anak pertamaku akhirnya ada di titik menyapih. Kurang lebih sekitar 3 bulan sebelum genap 18 bulan pada 6 Oktober 2024 pelan-pelan kusounding sebelum tidur meskipun tidak setiap hari, "Bang, nanti di usia Abang 18 bulan atau 20 bulan disapih ya." Sampai beberapa kali sounding ia pun merespon dengan anggukan. Tak jarang kutanyakan juga, "Abang, nennya masih ada?" Ia menggelengkan kepala. Beberapa kali kuulangi pertanyaan yang sama jawabannya tetap dengan gelengan kepala. Aku tak tahu pasti apakah jawaban itu benar adanya.

Mengapa aku menyapih sebelum 2 tahun?

Aku memutuskan menyapih Abang secara sadar dan tentunya dengan beberapa alasan. Meskipun kuakui aku lebih banyak mencari pembahasan di youtube tentang bagaimana menyapih dengan cinta atau istilah lebih kerennya weaning with love daripada mencari tahu tentang mengapa menyapih sebelum 2 tahun. Bagaimana hukum menyapih dalam islam? Bagaimana menurut ilmu kedokteran? Apakah menyusui anak wajib 2 tahun? Apakah ada dampak menyusui saat hamil? Dan pertanyaan lainnya yang baru muncul setelah aku mendapatkan pertanyaan dari salah satu teman sekolahku tentang apa pertimbanganku menyusui Abang di usia 18 tahun selain tandem.

Aku pernah membicarakan tentang menyapih Abang kepada suami tapi memang tidak intens dan terlihat bahwa tidak ada sanggahan yang kuartikan bahwa ia menyetujui keputusanku karena aku yang lebih tahu kondisi Abang ketika menyusu. Lalu kujawab pertanyaan temanku sesuai dengan kondisiku. Ada beberapa hal :

Karena aku sedang hamil. Usia kandungan saat menyapih Abang ±28 weeks yang artinya memasuki awal trimester ketiga. Alhamdulillah meskipun hamil kondisiku cukup baik. Aku tidak mengalami kontraksi ataupun flek sehingga sebenarnya jika tetap ingin menyusui masih diperbolehkan menurut dokter. Tapi jika terjadi 2 hal di atas maka hentikan menyusui.

Tandem. Menurutku yang mana belum merasakan demikian, tandem akan lebih sulit. Aku harus menyusui 2 anak sekaligus. Rasanya akan lebih sulit bagi Abang untuk tiba-tiba berbagi. Mungkin aku akan berhadapan dengan emosinya yang bisa jadi merasa bahwa telah direbut oleh adiknya.

Memudahkan dan mempersiapkan. Memasuki trimester 3 yang artinya ±3 bulan lagi menuju persalinan. Aku tidak tahu apa yang terjadi jika menyapih di waktu yang sangat dekat dengan HPL. Oleh karenanya, aku hanya ingin mempersiapkan hal itu tanpa dadakan dan ternyata perjalananku Allah mudahkan. Aku sempat berpikir jika Abang masih sulit disapih, aku tidak akan memaksanya dan akan tetap melanjutkan menyusui. Ternyata berbanding terbalik dan proses menyapu tetap berlanjut.

Melanjutkan alasan ketiga dimana hari pertama sapih Abang sudah tidak lagi menunjuk untuk nen. Ia hanya menangis sewajarnya dalam artian sebentar. Melihat hal ini seolah Abang sendiri juga mau disapih maka aku juga mengikuti keinginannya.

Aku merasa bahwa beberapa bulan terakhir Abang menyusu untuk mencari kenyamanan. Bisa disebut Abang hanya ngempeng. Hal itu membuatku tidak nyaman karena ia tidak menyusu dengan seharusnya. Aku juga lebih merasa sedih jika menyusui sambil bermain HP.

Semua pertimbangan adalah pertimbangan yang ringan. Lalu temanku membalas yang seperti ini,

Ketika aku membaca kalimat termasuk perintah syari atau satu hal yang perintahnya seperti perintah sholat. Mak deg. Seketika aku berpikir dan merasa, "Aku berdosa dong." Lalu aku kembali mengingat perjuangan menyusui bahwa aku pernah di masa kesulitan, banyak mengeluh, bahkan sampai menangis karena menyusui yang tidak nyaman. Pelekatan dan posisi belum benar. Aku teringat bagaimana aku berusaha datang ke konselor laktasi untuk meminta bantuan. Aku juga teringat ASIku yang baru keluar di hari ketiga dan baru di hari itu anakku kususui. Aku teringat bahwa meski sakit aku sangat ingin menyusui anakku secara langsung dan bukan menggunakan dot. Sampai-sampai aku bertanya kepada suami, "Aku bukan ngga mau nyusui Abang kan, Yan?" Mulanya ia jawab bercanda yaitu iya tapi lalu ia menenangkan kalau aku tidak seperti itu. Kusampaikan semua yang kurasakan sejak awal menyusui Abang. Apakah aku berdosa?

Apa yang temanku sampaikan dan di hari itu aku teringat kembali perjuangan menyusui adalah saat menyapih ini hampir dikatakan berhasil. Pikiranku melayang lagi, "Udah berhenti masak kususui lagi toh selama ini Abang benar-benar tidak meminta, tidak menunjuk untuk menyusu."

Lalu kubaca kembali buku yang Prophetic Parenting bagian menyapih, kupahami pelan-pelan. Lalu kucari referensi lain sebagai ilmu meskipun aku telah menyapihnya. Dari sekian yang kutonton kusimpulkan bahwa selama ada musyawarah antara suami dan istri tentang menyapih diperbolehkan dan bahasan tentang jika terjadi perceraian adalah pembahasan yang berbeda. Tidak ada pula yang menyebutkan bahwa menyusui 2 tahun adalah sebuah kewajiban dan jika tidak dipenuhi akan dihukumi dosa. Sesuai dalam artian di Al Quran bahwa memang menyusui 2 tahun itu dianjurkan.

Pelan-pelan aku mulai tenang, semoga keputusanku tepat dan membawa kebaikan untuk semua. Aku tidak berdosa dan tidak perlu merasa bersalah. Aku telah melakukan yang bisa kulakukan dari perjuangan menyusui.

Lalu apakah kamu memiliki pengalaman menyapih sebelum 2 tahun? Bagaimana pendapatmu tentang hal itu? Kita saling sharing, yuk!

[ultineeet]

Daily Nagoriyuki 17102024

[lilianita53]

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[oceanlaurents]

cerejas entre dúvidas.

"é melhor falar ou morrer?" você me perguntou. incrivelmente risonha. e perigosa. "morreria de angústia se eu não falasse." respondi. "e se falasse?" rebateu. "morreria de vergonha." eu tinha dúvidas quanto a aquele sorriso duvidoso. dúvidas quanto ao caminho que seu olhar fazia das minhas mãos, ocupadas rabiscando traços de uma rua incrivelmente comum e que hoje, se tornaria memorável, até o canto da minha boca. me sentia observado. sentia que a qualquer momento, morreria de indigestão de palavras. naquele momento, eu tinha tanto a falar. no entanto, não havia nada que eu pudesse fazer. "tenho uma impressão que você me olha como se eu soubesse de todas as coisas que existem. como se eu soubesse de tudo." "e você não sabe?" falou perto demais. mais do que deveria. "a verdade é que não sei de quase nada. se soubesse o quão pouco sei sobre as coisas que realmente importam." "o que realmente importa?" um silêncio melancólico se instaurou ao redor. o cheiro doce de cereja que vinha de seus lábios trazia todas as respostas pelo ar.

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[hooplife]

17102024

Und mein Haupte neige ich vor der Liebe und in Demut erkenn ich, ich weiß doch nichts. Öffne mein Herz vor der Welt und sag, ich liebe dich. 

[gvtted-gutz]

> 17102024 persona wip

[abbyew20]

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[lstupiddummy]

#17102024

Cảm giác này mhoong phải lần đầu bị từ chối offer.

Nhưng vẫn buồn

Nay là 15/9 âm lịch.

Là sinh nhật mình theo lịch âm đó.

Buồn. Nhớ. Trống vắng.

Mình không muốn cảm xúc này tiếp tục :(

[meduso-kaj-maro]

『⚝』 17102024 『⚝』

Today is hot.

Feels like I'll turn into a sticky blue puddle any time if I can't regulate the heat around my space any longer.

Since today is a full moon, I already predicted getting mad jolly as well as needing more showers to wash off my sweat... Among other freaky things.

By the start of 2024 I was trying to create my personal grimoire so I had to keep track of lunar cycles and the seasonal calendar.

That reminds me... I really have to stock vials of salt. October is a hectic month for me, so I had to perform tonnes of cleansing rituals and good luck/protection spells.

[world-of-wales]

The Duke of Cornwall speaks about Princess Orla Wales as he meets Louise Harland and her Cocker Jack - Jax during his visit to Duchy College Stoke Climsland in Callington, Cornwall (requested by anonymous) || 17 OCTOBER 2024

[8ightisfate]

[jakez19]

https://odysee.com/@etresouverain:c/OH1-17102024:2

Info Libre - Mini live du 16 octobre 2024

[lilianita53]

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[torentialtribute]

Golf news: Tiger Woods QUITS Northern Trust tournament before second round with back injury

Tiger Woods QUITS tournament for the second round with back injury sustained over long-term fitness

The 43-year-old withdrew to the second round after completing the pain

Woods has played 13 tournament rounds since winning the Masters in April

He remains hopeful that he will participate in the BMW Championship next week

By Alec Fenn For Mailonline

Published: 17:46 BST, August 9, 2019 | Updated: 17:46 BST, August 9, 2019

Two days after downplaying your fitness concerns, Tiger Woods was forced to withdraw from the Northern Trust prior to his second round at Liberty National.

Woods struggled Thursday with an opening of four past par 75 after he had limited himself to chipping and nine Wednesday's pro-am due to stiffness in his back.

In a statement released Friday, the Masters champion wrote: & # 39; Due to a slight oblique load that led to pain and stiffness, I have to withdraw from The Northern Trust.

Woods shows his disappointment after injury saw him withdrawing before the second round

Woods limited himself to chipping and on the back nine moves of Wednesday's pro-am

The 47-year-old had previously shot a first round four when he fought with back stiffness

& # 39; I went for treatment early Friday morning but unfortunately I still can not participate. I want to thank the fans of New Jersey and New York for their support and remain hopeful that I can compete in the BMW Championship next week. & # 39;

Woods said Wednesday that he & # 39; smart & # 39; found. approach not to make full shots during the second half of the 18-hole pro-am, adding: & # 39; This is sort of how it is. Some days I am stiffer than others. & # 39;

The 43-year-old has only played 13 tournament rounds since he won his 15th major title in Augusta National in April, two years after undergoing career-saving spinal fusion surgery.

Woods followed a missed cut in the US PGA Championship with a top-10 finish in the Memorial Tournament and a draw for the 21st in the US Open, but then took a month off before taking the cut in the Open championship.

Woods admitted that he had little choice but to play a limited schedule.

& # 39; It took me a lot to get myself into position to win the Masters. , said Woods, who has undergone four knee surgeries and four back surgeries during his illustrious career.

& # 39; I want to play here as long as possible and you have to understand if I play a lot, I won't be here that long. & # 39;

Woods has only played 13 tournament rounds since winning the Masters in April

He says he needs to play fewer tournaments to extend his career

Woods is expected to rank 28th in the FedEx Cup stand down the 34th and would therefore need a good performance in the BMW championship, if he is fit enough to play, to climb back into the top 30 and that ify for the Tour Championship.

The former number one in the world is the defending champion in Atlanta after he defeated Billy Horschel with two shots on East Lake for his first victory since 2013.

Woods flew directly from Atlanta to Paris for the Ryder Cup, but looked tired and failed to win one point, as the United States was easily defeated by Europe in Le Golf National. a consistent start to 2019 for his emotional Masters triumph, 11 years after his last major title in the US Open of 2008.

Friday's withdrawal will inevitably cause speculation that the Masters will be the last hurray of a remarkable career represented, but Woods will be determined to prove the doubters again and summarizes his pursuit of Jack Nicklaus & record of 18 major titles.

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