#...and sometimes that means they exit those communities as a new person

[astropookie]

astro thoughts pt blablabla 🫴🏼

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Leo mercury + 6H, she’s a perfectionist and has such a creative, intelligent and confident mind. she’s PRACTICAL and knows her worth -describing a friend-.

Uranus/Neptune retrograde could mean struggle to exit a toxic group, “friends”.

Mercury retrograde not necessarily represents obvious or visible problems/conditions with speaking, stutter or dyslexia, etc. I’ve noticed they could seem rude, too direct, not diplomatic, they could have difficulties explaining themselves. they could generalize often or they don’t ask about certain things bc they’re ashamed.

when your mars is in their 2H you feel so comfortable with them. in other words, the other day I hooked up with the person I share this synastry and I felt incredibly comfortable, seeing each others naked and don’t feel ashamed or judged. idk it’s funny to me, I’ve never felt that way -casual situation-, like I could even fart and he won’t even judge. too explicit I’m sorry 😭. I’m gonna stop with the mars 2H synastry

I’ve read a lot of comments about black moon in lilith 7H that says they could be part of a 3rd party or be “the other women”. I have that placement in my natal chart and already a couple of times my friends who end up a 2 year relationship propose me to be their sneaky link. also, it could mean that the girlfriends/ boyfriends/partners of your friends could be jealous of you, the Lilith 7H person.

9H stellium in solar return signifies improvement, learning, to expand your horizons, to start a new period of high/education/learning.

in this whole period of time I’ve learned about my needs and how to communicate them (Chiron 3H in solar return): for example, I’ve seen people and I wanted something casual but didn’t know how to make myself understood. I didn’t even know what I wanted, so I’ve learned it during this period. It doesn’t count only in situationship stuff, it’s an example.

Uranus 4H in Solar Return: yes, it doesn’t mean you’ll end up moving to another country. I’ve seen a CHANGE in my family dynamic. believe me, if my “me” from one year ago observes my family dynamic now, she would be SHOCKED.

Solar return mars conjunct Part of Fortune: yes, I’ve been 🤓📚🫦

Solar moon square uranus: I was a good girl all that time 🥰 I was suffering, struggling so hard so things will be in order, pretty and diplomatic… My feelings and ideas didn’t match what I usually used to do: do whatever I want (uranus ruled). I wanted but my subconscious was telling me to keep calm so all the trust or time i gave to build that environment won’t be wasted. then, unintentionally, I broke that diplomatic environment after my birthday. it felt really good, like it was me again😩

natal saturn 1H why so conservative and traditional? I’m not affirming is a bad thing but this placement often behaves exaggeratedly, too disciplined/formal. they could be too focused on what should be and how things should work instead of appreciating the whole situation. they could end up judging others too much, evidencing the amount of criticism they have on themselves.

pluto 9H not everything has to do with politics. -yes and no, it’s debatable-. my point is, relax, sometimes life it’s not how you wanted to be. let things be🧘‍♀️

Lilith (mean) 5H you were the experiment of your parents, don’t you?

Node trine Jupiter tells me you can overcome challenges in your life even if you have a lot of chiron aspects in your natal chart 😭 idk if it’s understandable. What I mean is that the universe has your back, this aspect goes through deep experiences that have the previous mentioned effects on them.

Ascendant - Mercury aspects: job that has to do with communication 🤪 too obvious but I’ve noticed. lawyer, publicity, etc.

sun opposition sun synastry: opposites attracts.

pluto opposition juno natal tells me you have to work first on yourself to enter a relationship, to solve those control issues. also meaning that if you didn’t work on yourself, you could have being the one directing the relationship.

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❀ Based on personal experience and what I’ve analyzed in my surroundings

❀ English is not my first language

❀ I’m not a profesional astrologer

Thank youu. baibaiii🫣🫶🏼💋

Do not copy. Please give me credits.

[pigeontheoneandonly]

Sometimes We Get What We Deserve

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She doesn’t look how Jack expects.

She’s tall, for one.  Jack’s not. But then, she was fed so many experimental diets as a kid, so many whacked-out theories about whether high protein or fasting or which micronutrients would enhance her biotics, and then there were the hunger strikes and how she learned to make herself throw up on the scientists as one of the few options for getting even—well, it wouldn’t shock anyone if it stunted her growth.  But still, she’s tall, this woman sitting in the docking bay.  She’s going to be looking down at Jack when they talk. Unless Jack sits down, too, so she stays sitting, and then they’ll both be sitting down and that’ll make it worse if Jack bolts.  Jack’s the type who always wants an exit strategy.

Her hair’s brown and cut in a tight cap.  Everything about her seems tight, closed-off, wary.  Jack respects that even as her stomach flops over the littlest bit in recognition.  Green eyes. Freckles, everywhere.  Thin mouth with a coating of nude lipstick.  Jack touches her own bright red lips, and then drops her hand, angry.  She loves the way she looks.  She loves that it scares people, better armor than anything Hahn-Kedar ever produced, loves how it tells her story in a way only the people she wants to read it can understand.  But she’s self-conscious now.  Angry to be worried what this woman will think, angry that she wants, desperately, for her to like her.

Angry that she’s been standing here ten minutes studying her face to avoid looking at her hands, which are twisted around a small rainbow quilt in her lap.  Jennie embroidered on the corner.

Jack’s not Jennie. And she’s angry because it’s better than being scared that this woman will need her to be.

Finding her wasn’t simple, not with the war on and communication in tatters across the galaxy. Jack had done all the legwork herself. Just like she always did everything herself.  A little private project to distract her from how her kids kept getting hurt, ignoring that it was those kids who made her start in the first place.  That and those Shadow Broker files Shepard silently passed her way.  Fuck Shepard, anyway.  

That’s when Jack almost walks out.  But nobody, not the fucking Cerberus scientists, not the prison guards, not any of the people who tried to subjugate or use her up along the way, none of them ever got to tell Jack she was too scared or too helpless.  She doesn’t even get to tell herself that.  So she squares her shoulders and walks across the concourse.

All she told her was new information had come to light concerning her daughter’s death.  She wasn’t sure she’d even show up, not for a baby dead since she was three years old.  She sure as hell didn’t expect the goddamn blanket. Maybe Jack will just leave it at that—tell her she died in Cerberus custody as a child.  Because maybe that blanket means she’s not strong enough, not like Jack is.  

But the choice is taken from her.  As she comes into her line of sight, their eyes meet.  Just for a moment.  And this woman—this stranger clutching a twenty-year-old handmade quilt that says Jennie—leaps to her feet and screams.  And Jack goes rigid with terror.

And that only makes it worse, fear feeding on fear, because she doesn’t freeze.  She always, always acts.  But she’s paralyzed.  And that woman screams like her life is getting sucked out through her toes and everyone in the concourse turns to stare and Jack can’t move.  

Out of the corner of her eye, some opportunistic bystander pops open an omni-tool, recording the drama in hopes of cheap hits on the extranet.  Jack wants to break his arm.  That feeling is normal, familiar, and she wants to feel normal like lungs want oxygen, so she turns her head and so the woman with the blanket gets inside her personal space before she can do anything about it.  Her fists light up blue without any conscious intent.

But her hands, this woman with the freckles and baby blanket, her baby blanket, clutched under her arm—her hands are lifted to Jack’s face, hovering over her skin in little grasping twitches, like she knows she can’t touch her and it’s just killing her, every second, but she doesn’t touch.  Her eyes looking down at her are crazy.  Jack recognizes that, too, in the same way as a singularity opening in the next room sends skitters down her nerves like ants.  

Every instinct she has is ringing alarm bells at top volume.  If she calls her Jennie, she’s going to punch her—

Then her mother says, voice breaking, hands cupping the air around her cheeks—  “Your dad had tattoos, too.”

And Jack breaks. Her face falls into her mother’s shoulder like it remembers exactly what to do, and her shoulders heave, and her mother’s arms are around her and her cheek is in the strip of ponytail on top of her head, and for a moment, the woman who never had a childhood gets to be a little girl.

[jasper-is-autistic-old-blog]

howdy! today i wanna talk about the aac system i use and go over how i use it

im currently using the app Coughdrop on an Amazon Kindle Fire 7. the version from 2022 i believe, which i think is the most recent. it was the least expensive new tablet i could get.

it's in a foam case that looks like Spiderman! i chose all black because it's unobtrusive and goes with my aesthetic but it was also available in red with black eyes and some other colors

i currently use a board called vocal flair 112. i previously used quick core 112 and this is similar, but has a built in on screen keyboard. which means i get less buttons on the home page but it's fine because i found myself pulling up the keyboard frequently to fill in the gaps even with that many buttons.

here's a screenshot, i haven't edited this page, i just use it as the default:

i don't actually make it speak aloud often when im out in public. the person with me who's supporting me (usually my mom) reads my screen if i need to talk to someone else. this is almost purely out of anxiety. the fear that someone will not hear me the first time, that they wont listen or won't understand, that someone will overhear a robotic voice and stare, etc. but it's an improvement over my previous method of texting my mom, pointing at menus, and mumbling or whispering until i either gave up or she finally managed to hear me.

i use this feature in coughdrop to have her read the screen:

it's found under the "repeats" section. it makes a large button you can press to voice the selection or you can have someone else read it.

i also quickly wanted to show my two "advocacy" boards. one is a premade board that ive edited and the second is made by me from scratch. i think im going to combine them eventually, but ive been lazy about it

these don't reflect my current "public use" pronouns, but that's fine.

my speech has always been pretty intermittent and unreliable in some situations, but more recently ive experienced some skill regression that makes it harder than ever to use verbal speech. even when relaxed and comfortable, typing or using aac is easier for me. and when even slightly stressed or overwhelmed or even overly happy or excited, it's very hard to impossible to get any words out.

im hoping to get better about actually using the voice feature instead of showing people my screen. the only time ive ever actually used aac to communicate with a stranger i showed them my screen. i have a lot of anxiety about not being heard which im sure comes from the fact that my voice doesn't always work and that's pretty scary at times. it seems im both afraid of not being heard and being heard but being made fun of or dismissed. im not sure what would be worse.

anyway, sorry for the anxiety tangent.

im hoping to get a strap for the case soon so it's easier to carry around. i tend to have several things with me at all times, my phone, talker, Nintendo switch, my small backpack, and a stim toy or comfort item. it's nice when i manage to cut back on what im carrying and it works out well, but sometimes i just need all those things to get through a situation.

i don't actually own the coughdrop app. im using a free version. it times out after about 15 minutes and you have to exit and enter again, as well as other premium features not being available. i was hoping to eventually save up for it but the price has increased recently to the point where it is out of my budget. maybe if i get a job eventually? even then im not sure if i can justify the cost. the monthly price also went up, which sucks. c'est la vie.

if you have any questions at all, im happy to try to answer! inbox or ask box or reblogs or anything works.

thanks for reading!

[southeastasiadiary]

Day Twenty-Five: A Day in the Life of the Other Jim Thompson

There are those who say I lack the ability to be spontaneous. Or perhaps they'll admit that I can be spontaneous as long as every detail of my spontaneity is carefully planned and approved at least three months in advance. But to these naysayers, I say, “Ha! Let today be proof you couldn’t be more wrong.”

I awoke in Chiang Mai with every intention of calling today’s entry “Repositioning #5” because that was the agenda set for the day: “Transfer by private car without guide from your hotel to the Airport to take a flight to Bangkok (10h10-11h35). Upon arrival at the Airport, please head to the exit gate and look for your driver who will be waiting for you, holding a welcome signboard with your name on it. Then, you will be transferred to your hotel in town by a private vehicle.”

The transfer to the airport and then the flight to Bangkok went according to plan. But then I met my local guide, Rich (or maybe Mr. Rich; I’m not sure whether “Rich” is a personal name, a family name, or merely a pseudonym; I expect the latter), a really friendly young man with an almost Cambodian permanent smile and a love of laughter. While we were waiting for the car, he said, “I have a suggestion. Your hotel room won’t be ready for several hours yet. You are scheduled to visit the Jim Thompson House on your last day. Why not visit it today instead? Then we’ll go get lunch. By that time you could check in.”

That idea sounded terrific to me, so off we set in a midday Bangkok traffic jam to reach the Jim Thompson House.

Now, I have wanted to see this house since long before I ever thought I’d actually travel to Thailand, and I wanted to do so for the silliest possible reason. Back when I was a graduate student and a newly-minted college professor, one of my preferred means of relaxation were to read “noir,” hard-boiled mystery novels like The Killer Inside Me, The Getaway, A Hell of a Woman, and The Criminal. The author of all these novels was Jim Thompson. So, when I discovered that Jim Thompson lived much of his life in Bangkok, disappeared under unusual circumstances, and lived in a place sometimes referred to as The Jim Thompson Mystery House … well, that was a place that intrigued me.

There was only one problem, however.

The Jim Thompson who wrote the novels and the Jim Thompson whose house is in Bangkok were two entirely different people.

The owner of the house was an architect who worked for the OSS (the predecessor of the CIA) during World War II. One of his last intelligence assignments was in Bangkok, and he fell in love with the city. He decided to live here permanently. Then, discovering that the cottage industry of making Thai silk was about to die out, he became fascinated with the fabric and the designs often printed on it. He took samples to New York and showed them to friends of his who edited fashion magazines, and they began to feature Thai silk in some of their designs.

Thompson’s big break came when “The King and I” was first a hit on Broadway and then made into a movie. All of Yul Brynner’s elaborate costumes were made of “Jim Thompson silk,” and the former architect/former spy now had a third career: fabric merchant. As his wealth increased, he bought six houses (four from Ayutthaya, the former capital of Siam/Thailand, and two from the Muslim community of weavers just across the river in Bangkok who wove his cloth) and joined them together into an East-meets-West mansion on the banks of one of the klongs (canals) of the Chao Phraya River.

All was well and good until Thompson took a vacation to the Cameron Highlands of Malaysia in 1967. Then, on March 26, he went out for a short walk … and was never seen again. The cause of his disappearance (and presumed death) remains a mystery. Some say he was kidnapped and then murdered, a random victim of a random crime. Others say he was still doing espionage work and was investigating something to do with the war in Vietnam, causing himself to be killed by an enemy agent.

And that, you have to admit, is a far more mysterious ending than that of the author Jim Thompson who simply died of a stroke at the age of 70 in 1977 after a lifetime of alcoholism.

The architect/spy/fabric exporter Jim Thompson, on the other hand, had filled him home with Thai art, such as this rare wooden Buddha (most Thai Buddhas are bronze)

and this sandstone Buddha.

He also collected ceramic works, like these pots that have no lid:

They are actually filled through a hole at the bottom.

Like the Confucius Cup in Hoi An, it's the level of the liquid itself that keeps it from running back out through the bottom. The claim is that, without a lid, the contents don’t oxidize as quickly and thus remain fresher longer.

Thompson’s dining room table consisted of two Chinese gaming tables set side by side.

His living room is open and spacious, looking like the perfect place to relax and read a novel by the other Jim Thompson.

His bedroom is set off from the rest of the house by a set of doors that once led into a pawnbroker’s shop.

In his bedroom are two horoscopes. The one on the left is his birth horoscope. The one on the right is (reportedly) a prediction that something sinister would occur when he was 61 years old. He was born in 1906 and disappeared in 1967, so …

His bedroom was simple and elegant.

Traditional Thai houses are built on stilts to protect the furnishings from flooding. Today the area beneath the house, which would have been plain in Thompson’s time, is decorated for visitors like me.

At the end of the tour, Rich suggested that we get sandwiches in the Jim Thompson Cafe. There were four sandwiches on the menu, and I ordered the ham and cheese. Unfortunately, the cafe was out of everything except tuna salad, so Rich said, “How about a tuna salad sandwich?”

You would think that, with all the plays I acted in earlier in my life, I could better conceal my emotions. But frankly, my face is often a dead giveaway for whatever I’m thinking even when I believe I’m being perfectly composed. So, less than a second after asking this question, Rich said, “Okay. We can find another place.”

Apparently, Rich can be spontaneous, too.

[irenerielle]

A message from the universe

Hello! This message is for you! it's a long read, but please read it if you feel called to do so.

Messager: Archangel Gabriël "Shimmer with diamond light. Express your creativity."

Something big needs to be exposed. It's lurking in the depths and creating tension. You may be hesitant to be honest and truly yourself or say what you really want to say. It may be tempting to pretend like nothing is wrong, but you can feel the pressure. You are at a phase where you are called to find out exactly what you are made of. Gather your inner strength and determination to move past the challenges for the sake of your own growth. Believe in yourself and your gifts and learn to work with what you haven't developed as well so you can become stronger. Your faith may be tested, but there is always a reward!

You may find yourself drawn to people and situations that feed your imbalances rather than those that counter them. Are you cossiping? Are you blaming others? Are you "stewing" on a person or situation, only making things worse? Ask yourself how you can break free and cool down. You are sensitive, please don't pretend the heat isn't getting to you. You may have become materialistic, lazy and dependent on others. There is inherently nothing wrong with this, just be careful! Are you still making practical, realistic decisions--if any at all? Your own growth and the thngs you've been working on trying to build may have stopped. Are you using your money and resources wisely? Are you second-guessing yourself? Ask yourself if you still want to work or are you stuck in just wanting to recieve?

Don't be afraid of emotional expression or traversing difficult terain. You already have -and will- overcome many challenges in your life. These experiences enrich you, giving you stability, strength and depth that is rare. Try to find and connect to the feminine forces of compassion and communication. They can be a beacon in your darkest hour. You are being guided to explore new areas of groth and potential that you normally wouldn't have considered. Perhaps you feel like traveling or connecting to others? Consider different ideas that spark inspiration and could give your life more meaning and substance. Be exited for what's to come and do the things you've been wanting to do for some time now! Don't just talk about it, but do something to put it into action! Easier said than done, of course, but it'll be so worth it!

Find balance between your own wants and needs and those of others and what you do for them. Find the right people to help you and make up your own mind about your situation rather than being too influenced by others. You absolutely can find things that fulfill you and the sense that you have found your source of happiness. What is it that brings you bliss? What will complete the picture for you? You can do what your heart desires and don't forget to enjoy the now. However, also ask yourself who or what is the "devil" in your life right now. Negative thinking? An unhealthy obsession? Toxic behaviour? It is time for you to cut these loose. But please remember not to be too hard on yourself. It is ok to treat yourself sometimes, it won't harm you. And sometimes rebelling a little agains something you are supposed to do can be good for the soul. You may have a hard time letting things go. Consider getting help or treatment.

You are on the right track, but you need to go steadily. Knowing that you are worthy of your desires is crucial here. Opportunities open up when you believe in yourself. Dig deep and move past negative comments from others. No matter what happened in the past, if you ar aiming to manifest something for the good of everyone concerned, you can do it. Good self-esteem will also boost your manifesting powers, so love yourself more. Know your own worth and others will too. Be true to your values. This may be a good time to review how much you have agreed to carry on your plate. You are capable of multi-tasking and juggling, but should you? And if so, for how long? Consider these questions wisely. Be confident and share your light and ideas with others. Dont hold your enthusiasm back. You are at a point in your life where you are getting a chance to infuse new meaning and adventure into your everyday activities. Try something new! Lear something new! Go on that trip and meet new people! Your potential is limitless! Just make sure you are honest with yourself and the truth of your current circumstance or behaviors. You may feel the cold hard slap of truth and that can be hard, but that doesn't mean you should avoid it. Are you trying to escape and find the easy way out? You may also what to question the motives of others around you.

And to close, a final message form Gabriël: You are the dreamer, the artist, the poet and the romantic. You are sensitive. You are the intuitive. These are your gifts! You can help to heal others and yourself! Write, paint, make music or do journaling!

Use your creativity.

[politics-and-philosophy]

Hey, not to be "that guy" but idk if the only reason Trump won Oklahoma is because Natives were disenfranchised.

Source: https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/2024-elections/exit-polls

Now, that poll was only in 10 states, but it was 10 key swing states, meaning these were the people whose votes actually kinda mattered, and they voted more conservative than the white folk. Even this larger study looking at house district votes found that only 56% of Native Americans voted for Democrats. That's about on-par with swing state college grads, at 55%, and is lower than both Latinos at 64% and Asians at 66%.

Like most POC groups, Native Americans are not a monolith who vote lock-step for Democrats. There is a lot of conservative Natives, because a lot of marginalized people will vote against their own self interest if they lack the education to know who is actually out there working to improve conditions. There's also a lot of conservative Natives because racism, homophobia, transphobia, and general distain for poor people exist in Native communities too. Here's a recent study showing New Mexico Natives value things such as 'self-determination,' 'libertarianism,' and 'Reaganism.'

(Yes, they specifically said "Reaganism")

Yes, racist gerrymandering exists, and yes, racism hurts education outcomes in reservations, but these places are not that much more liberal than they look. Solving gerrymandering won't make Oklahoma blue unless it comes too with good civics education that teaches people how to understand politics, and a societal expectation of broadening horizons which encourages people to meet those who challenge their preconceived notions. This is not just a story of these poor disenfranchised Natives who are too poor or uneducated or systemically punished to vote for Democrats, which is frankly kind of a demeaning narrative to push. This is a story of a multifaceted group who have faced historic oppression, but are not themselves defined by it and do choose of their own free will to sometimes vote for conservatives and bigots.

On a personal note, I grew up 15 minutes from the Choktaw reservation, and regularly saw huge Trump signs when driving through it. But I also saw their health center open its doors to nearby white communities when the Covid Vax came out, because the reservation had a surplus and the nearby communities had none. No group is a monolith. So maybe before you go calling folk racist for a post that is calling out rightly how conservative policies harm their constituencies, you do a bit of your own digging, and don't assume all folk of one race vote the way you want them to.

[abhishek-gupta]

Flight Attendant Careers: Everything You Need to Know

For those with a passion for travel and a love for working with people, becoming a flight attendant can be the ideal career. The role combines adventure, customer service, and the thrill of exploring new destinations. But a flight attendant’s life goes far beyond the beautiful photos and layover snapshots. It’s a career filled with hard work, adaptability, and strong communication skills, where no two days are alike. In this blog, we’ll cover what it takes to build a successful career as a flight attendant career, from the unique demands of the job to how you can break into this high-flying profession.

Why Choose a Flight Attendant Career?

The allure of becoming a flight attendant often starts with the desire to travel and experience new cultures. Flight attendants have the unique opportunity to see the world, often with discounted flight benefits for themselves and sometimes even for family members. The job also offers flexibility and variety that’s hard to find in a traditional 9-to-5 position. With routes changing daily, flight attendants experience new destinations, meet diverse people, and create memories around the globe.

Beyond travel, the role offers a deep sense of purpose. Flight attendants ensure passenger safety and comfort, often being the first line of response in emergencies. Knowing you are trusted to handle medical situations, assist nervous flyers, and enforce safety protocols gives flight attendants a meaningful sense of responsibility and pride.

The Responsibilities and Demands of the Job

While there’s plenty of excitement, being a flight attendant is far from easy. The job is physically demanding, requiring attendants to be on their feet for long hours, often in cramped spaces. Early mornings, late nights, and weekend shifts are typical, and because airlines operate year-round, flight attendants usually work on holidays.

The work begins well before takeoff with pre-flight briefings. Flight attendants review flight details, go over safety protocols, and discuss any special needs passengers, such as unaccompanied minors or individuals requiring medical assistance. During the flight, they handle everything from serving food and beverages to managing passenger complaints, while always keeping an eye on safety.

But above all, flight attendants are trained safety professionals. In an emergency, they’re the ones responsible for guiding passengers, operating emergency exits, and providing essential care until help arrives. This responsibility makes the job rewarding but also requires a high level of emotional resilience, as flight attendants must stay calm and in control under pressure.

Essential Skills for Success

To thrive in this field, certain skills are non-negotiable:

Customer Service: Flight attendants are customer service experts, skilled at managing diverse personalities, handling complaints, and creating a welcoming environment.

Communication: Clear, calm, and confident communication is key. Whether making announcements or managing emergencies, flight attendants must be able to deliver information in a way that passengers understand and trust.

Problem-Solving: On any given day, a flight attendant might face delays, difficult passengers, or even medical emergencies. Quick thinking and sound judgment are crucial for navigating these situations.

Adaptability: The unpredictable nature of airline schedules means flight attendants must be flexible. Rescheduling, dealing with jet lag, and adjusting to new routines are all part of the job.

Teamwork: Working closely with the crew, flight attendants ensure smooth service and safety throughout the flight. Cooperation and clear communication with team members are essential.

These skills are often honed through experience in customer service roles. For those without customer service experience, volunteering or part-time work in hospitality or retail can be a great way to start.

Steps to Becoming a Flight Attendant

Meet the Basic Requirements: Most airlines require applicants to be at least 18 or 21 years old, have a high school diploma (a college degree is a bonus), and meet specific physical and health standards.

Craft a Winning Resume: Tailor your resume to emphasize your skills in customer service, teamwork, and adaptability. Include any language skills or certifications like CPR that may make you stand out.

Apply to Airlines: Look for job openings on airline websites and apply online. Be sure to research each airline’s unique hiring process, as it can vary. Some airlines conduct initial assessments, including personality tests and video interviews, before moving on to in-person interviews.

Ace the Interview: The interview process for flight attendants often includes group exercises, role-playing scenarios, and one-on-one interviews. Airlines want candidates who are personable, composed, and able to handle stressful situations.

Complete Training: After getting hired, new hires must complete rigorous training, typically lasting 4-8 weeks. This includes safety procedures, emergency protocols, medical training, and customer service basics. Passing the final assessments is essential for certification.

Begin Your Probation Period: Most airlines require new flight attendants to go through a probationary period where they work as reserves. During this period, flight attendants are on call and may not have set schedules, making it a challenging but necessary phase.

Climbing the Career Ladder

For many flight attendants, seniority is a key factor in career advancement. With seniority, flight attendants gain access to more desirable routes, flexible scheduling, and leadership positions like lead flight attendant or purser, which come with higher pay and responsibilities.

Many experienced flight attendants may also get the opportunity to work on international flights, which often come with higher pay and extended layovers in exciting cities. Specializing in business or first-class service is another way to advance, as this requires a higher level of customer service and offers additional benefits.

The Lifestyle of a Flight Attendant

Being a flight attendant is a unique lifestyle that requires adjusting to frequent travel, time zone changes, and irregular schedules. Here are some tips to maintain balance:

Rest and Recovery: Managing jet lag and sleep deprivation is essential. Many flight attendants swear by routines to keep their energy high, including healthy eating, regular exercise, and prioritizing rest whenever possible.

Stay Organized: Flight attendants often use planners and apps to manage their schedules, track flight details, and plan layovers in new cities.

Enjoy the Layovers: Although layovers vary in duration, they offer the chance to explore new places. Many flight attendants use layovers to immerse themselves in local culture, which can be one of the most rewarding aspects of the job.

Pros and Cons of a Flight Attendant Career

Being a flight attendant has its share of highs and lows. On the plus side, it’s an adventurous career that offers travel opportunities, camaraderie, and a sense of purpose. Flight attendants meet people from all over the world, create lasting friendships with crew members, and gain valuable life skills in communication and problem-solving.

However, the job can be physically and emotionally demanding. Irregular schedules, long hours, and being away from family and friends are common challenges. It requires a great deal of flexibility, patience, and resilience to adapt to the lifestyle.

Is It the Right Career for You?

Becoming a flight attendant is perfect for those who crave travel, thrive in dynamic settings, and enjoy helping others. It’s not for everyone, but those who love it find the work immensely rewarding. As you consider this career path, think about whether you enjoy engaging with new people daily, handling high-stress situations calmly, and working on a flexible schedule.

Conclusion: Reaching for the Skies

A flight attendant career is unlike any other, offering a chance to see the world, develop strong customer service skills, and be part of an ever-evolving industry. It’s a lifestyle filled with unique challenges but equally unique rewards. If you’re ready to embrace an adventurous, fulfilling career and bring positivity and professionalism to every flight, a career as a flight attendant could be the perfect fit.

[wexarethewalkingxdead]

“you can’t tell me what to do.” (Jamie/Carol)

reverse jealous / possessive meme - @aerospectrum

NO LONGER ACCEPTING!

“you can’t tell me what to do.”

Carol had been apprehensive about their relationship changing since she had returned to Alexandria and brought him with her. She and Jamie had gotten close out in the wild with it being just the two of them. They had learned to rely on one another. It wasn't easy for her to trust strangers anymore, and it had taken weeks for her to let him in. And now that she'd introduced him to the people in Alexandria, he was like the shiny new toy. "We should probably head home. It's getting late."

Truth was, Carol wanted him away from one of the other newcomers that had only been in Alexandria for a couple months. The lady tried to attach herself to every available man that came through the community, and Carol didn't trust her.

Jamie was enjoying the music and small talk of the get-together that they'd thrown to welcome him, and he wasn't ready to head back to her place for the night. Truth was, he wasn't tired, and it had been a long time since people had so easily accepted him. "You can't tell me what to do." Those weren't the words that he meant to say, but he could tell from the look on her face that they were most definitely the wrong ones to have said.

Carol nodded, letting her lips fall into a straight line before she turned on heels and left him standing there. She had seen the look in his eyes change after he'd spoken so she knew that he knew he'd fucked up. He was right. She couldn't tell him what to do. She wasn't his mother. So she'd leave him to enjoying his night. It wasn't as if she had any real claim over him. The sharp stab of pain that she felt deep in her heart was something she hadn't felt in a long time. She didn't look at anyone else as she moved through the room and exited the building to head home.

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She barely made it to her small front porch before her legs started to tremble. The emotion had taken over her. She wasn't a jealous person, but she was damn certain that was the feeling she'd been experiencing when she watched the younger woman stand close to him and talk and touch his arm as she smiled and laughed at all the right moments. She hated it.

She moved up the steps, forcing herself to fumble with the door knob as she tried to push all thoughts of Jamie Dutton out of her mind. He wasn't hers. She had no claim on him, and the sooner she got that through her head, the better off she'd be.

Jamie had been right behind her almost every step of the way since she'd left the party. He reached for her elbow as she managed to turn the door knob. He pulled her back against his front. "I didn't mean it the way it sounded." His hand moved from her elbow to snake around her waist as he held her there. His mouth and nose were close to her ear, panting softly from the exurtion of having to almost run to catch up to her.

She wanted so badly to push him away, but the way he made her feel had been the only thing keeping her going out there. Her body relaxed, leaning heavily against him. "Then why did you say it?"

He slowlly turned her to face him. He had no words to explain why he'd said it, but he knew that he'd never make that mistake again. She mattered to him. Sure, it had felt good to have the young, beautiful woman interested in him, but he could see right through that for what it was. She was wanting someone to protect her. The only person Jamie wanted to protect was Carol.

His hand moved to her cheek, stroking it gently before he leaned in and pressed their foreheads together. "We both know I'm not that smart when it comes to women."

She then melted into his arms, wrapping her arms around him as her head tucked against his shoulder and neck. She nodded. "You are pretty stupid sometimes," she teased.

[queenspg]

PG in Hitech City Hyderabad | Queens PG

When it comes to finding the perfect Paying Guest (PG) accommodation in Hyderabad, especially in the bustling tech hub of HITEC City, the options can be overwhelming. Whether you’re a working professional or a student, securing a comfortable and convenient living space is crucial. HITEC City, known for its thriving IT parks and corporate offices, demands accommodations that cater to the fast-paced lifestyle of its residents. This blog will guide you through what makes a PG in HITEC City, Hyderabad, the ideal choice for your living needs.

Why Choose a PG in HITEC City?

HITEC City is a prime location in Hyderabad, home to major multinational companies, IT giants, and a plethora of start-ups. Living close to your workplace not only saves time but also reduces the stress of daily commuting. A PG in HITEC City offers proximity to these workplaces, making it an attractive option for professionals. Here’s why choosing a PG in this area can be the best decision for you:

Proximity to Workplaces 🏢

Most PG accommodations in HITEC City are located within walking distance or a short commute from major IT parks like Cyber Towers, DLF Cyber City, and Raheja Mindspace. This convenience allows you to maximize your work-life balance, giving you more time to relax and less time spent in traffic.

Modern Amenities 🌟

PGs in HITEC City are equipped with modern amenities to ensure a comfortable stay. You can expect facilities like high-speed Wi-Fi, fully furnished rooms, 24/7 security, housekeeping, and laundry services. Many PGs also offer additional perks such as gyms, recreational areas, and common kitchens, catering to the needs of today's tech-savvy professionals.

Vibrant Community 🤝

Living in a PG in HITEC City means you’ll be part of a vibrant community of like-minded individuals. Whether you’re new to the city or have been living here for a while, the social environment in a PG allows you to network, make friends, and share experiences with people from diverse backgrounds. This can be particularly beneficial for those who are new to Hyderabad and looking to build connections.

Affordable Living 💰

Compared to renting an entire apartment, staying in a PG in HITEC City is much more cost-effective. You can enjoy premium facilities without the burden of high rent or maintenance costs. PGs offer flexible payment plans, often inclusive of utilities, making budgeting easier for residents.

Safety and Security 🔒

For many, safety is a top priority when choosing a place to live. PGs in HITEC City are known for their secure environments, with features such as CCTV surveillance, secure entry points, and on-site staff available around the clock. This is especially reassuring for those living away from home for the first time.

Types of PGs Available in HITEC City

HITEC City offers a range of PG accommodations to suit different needs and budgets. From basic shared rooms to luxury single-occupancy suites, there’s something for everyone. Here’s a look at the different types of PGs you can find:

Shared Rooms: Ideal for those who prefer a more budget-friendly option and don’t mind sharing space with others.

Single Occupancy Rooms: Perfect for those who value privacy and are willing to pay a little extra for a room to themselves.

Luxury PGs: These come with premium amenities like air conditioning, attached bathrooms, personal storage spaces, and sometimes even in-house dining services.

What to Consider When Choosing a PG in HITEC City

Before you make a decision, it’s important to consider a few key factors:

Location: Ensure the PG is close to your workplace or educational institution to minimize commuting time.

Amenities: Make a list of must-have amenities and check if the PG offers them.

Budget: Determine your budget and find a PG that fits within it while still offering good value for money.

Security: Check the security measures in place, including CCTV, security guards, and entry/exit protocols.

Reviews and Ratings: Look for reviews online or ask current residents about their experiences to get a better understanding of the PG’s reputation.

[tonybryantt]

Managing Erectile Dysfunction with Silditop 100: A Comprehensive Approach

Dealing with the challenges of Erectile Dysfunction (ED) can be a daunting task, affecting not just a man's physical health, but also his emotional well-being and relationships. The good news is, you're not alone in this journey. In this article, we'll delve into a comprehensive approach to managing ED with a game-changer called Silditop 100. Let's embark on a path to rediscovering intimacy and vitality.

Understanding Erectile Dysfunction

Before we dive into solutions, let's demystify Erectile Dysfunction. ED isn't just a physical hiccup; it's like a complicated puzzle with psychological and physiological pieces. It can stem from stress, anxiety, or even an underlying medical condition like diabetes or hypertension. The numbers might surprise you – ED affects a significant chunk of men, impacting their self-esteem and relationships.

Silditop 100: Mechanism of Action

Enter Silditop 100, your potential ally in this battle. But how does it work its magic? Silditop 100 is a phosphodiesterase type 5 (PDE5) inhibitor, a fancy term that essentially means it boosts blood flow where it matters most. By relaxing those blood vessels in the right places, it helps you achieve and maintain an erection that's ready for action. Think of it as your secret weapon, ready to revitalize your confidence and performance.

Comprehensive Approach to Managing ED with Silditop 100

Picture this: a well-thought-out strategy that tackles ED from all angles. Step one – consult a healthcare pro. This isn't a battle you need to fight solo. They'll run tests, decode the potential causes, and map out your personalized plan of attack. Silditop 100 has its role, but it's just one part of the story. Lifestyle tweaks come into play – a balanced diet, regular exercise, and stress reduction can boost your battle readiness.

But wait, there's more! If underlying health issues are in the mix, let's address those too. Hypertension or diabetes, you're on notice! Psychological support is like armor – therapy or counseling can help you face the mental hurdles. And here's a novel idea – bring your partner onboard. Communication is key; a united front makes a formidable team.

Keep tabs on progress, stay connected with your healthcare provider, and be ready to adapt. This is a journey, and sometimes the path may need a tweak. Remember, it's not just about the destination; it's about reclaiming the experience along the way.

Potential Challenges and Considerations

As with any mission, challenges may arise. Silditop 100, while often effective, might not be everyone's cup of tea. Individual responses vary, and there could be interactions with other medications. Setting realistic expectations and addressing concerns head-on can smooth the ride.

Alternative Treatment Options

Silditop 100 is a star, but there's an ensemble cast of erectile dysfunction treatments. From other oral medications to injections and devices, each has its role to play. Discuss with your healthcare provider to find the best fit for you. It's like choosing the right tool for the job – a personalized approach for a personalized issue.

Lifestyle and Preventive Measures

Now, let's talk prevention. Just like maintaining a car can prevent breakdowns, a healthy lifestyle can lower your ED risk. Watch your diet – nutrients like antioxidants, Omega-3 fatty acids, and whole grains can boost blood flow. Exercise isn't just for your muscles; it keeps your blood vessels in top shape too. And stress? Show it the exit door. Meditation, yoga, or even a hobby can do wonders.

Conclusion

ED might be a tough opponent, but remember, you're tougher. Armed with Silditop 100 and a comprehensive approach, you're not just managing ED – you're reclaiming your vitality. Consult your healthcare provider, personalize your strategy, embrace lifestyle changes, and involve your partner. This isn't just a battle; it's a journey towards renewed intimacy and a more fulfilling life. Here's to embracing the future with confidence, one step at a time.

[enactoflife123]

Bystanders SAW best.

Have you ever heard, read, or just saw a relationship that bounds to break or just never gonna work?

Like those stories of rich heiress eloping with some hoodlum against her parents better wishes. Cutting off all contact with her parents, friends, and loved ones. Only to end up miserable later on as years passed.

Either there is money issues or tinted rose view fade off or violence by the guy she fell in love with? The list could go on.

But as most people like to do, rather than reaching out for help with social workers, police, parents or anyone else. A lot of these ex-rich heiress prefer to suffer in silence or seek other source of "help". Drugs. A new love affair. Etc.

Honestly, I just can't wrap my head around the ideas of these series of actions...

Why can't she listen to her parents' advice? Why can't she just communicate better?

I read countless of stories that revolve around love. Love has many different meanings in all these. Like the theory that Lily's love for Harry protects him from the killing curse. Or the love that caused a person who has everything lost everthing in trying to achieve a love life with the person they like. Love that causes people to do extreme actions like stalking, murder, kidnapping, lies, and MANY MORE.

After reading so much of these stories that has characters with tragic ending because of love. I grew scared. WHAT IF I fell in love and just did ridiculous stuff and hurt my parents.

But then I realized, I could just build a healthy habit of communicating with my parents. I realized that when I introduced my future partner to my parents, I would carefully listen to their inputs. Don't let my emotions get in the way.

Sometimes, bystander just Know Best.

Honestly, I want to talk more about relationships and family that is more on the parents side. I guess it could wait?

Let's just finish this off. I can't wait.

And for parents, I really hope you can make it clear to your children that you will always support them. Don't disown your child for just trying to love someone they shouldn't (toxic and all). THAT will actually cut off a lot of their emergency exit, their life jacket. It might also cause them to just take extreme actions similar to eloping.

Even if you disapprove the relationship and cannot reason with them that ended up in a fight with your child. Still let them know you will be there for them, Always.

Of course, you can mentally prepare them long before the "meeting with parents". Perhaps something similar to:

"Hey, let me tell you a story. ......... . I don't want that to ever happen to us, okay? When the time comes, I just want you to hear us out and know that we will still love you no matter what."

That's communication. It's a magic power that people tend to not use for reasons such as pride. Even Naruto won many of his fight with communication.

[dailyaudiobiblechronological]

2/27/2023 DAB Chronological Transcription

Numbers 8-10

Today is the 27th day of February. I'm Jill. Welcome to Daily Audio Bible Chronological. It's so good to be here with you. It's my joy to be reading the Bible in chronological order for us, to us and with you as a community, individually, collective, actively and together, we do this in community. It's a pretty special community to be involved in, if I'm just being honest. The majority of what we do is behind a screen and a microphone, really not face to face with this community. But when we do events such as Israel, such as formerly the More gatherings, such as the family reunion, we get to see that community and action. We get to see the love, the care that is there, that is evident. And I'm telling you, if you've never been to an event, you have to take my word for it. But it's something very special to, to lay eyes on and to see Tangibly. And I think being a part of it, you can feel it through the prayers, through the phone calls, but to see it walked out in person is, for lack of a better word, it's just really special. So when I say I am honored to be a part of this community, I truly mean I am beyond words that I get to be here reading the Bible, here sharing that role with my daughter. But for us, it's a humbling role. It's my joy and it's a true honor to do that. So let's do just that. Today we're reading Numbers, chapters eight, nine and ten. 

Commentary:

Okay, so we're in the Book of Numbers. And Numbers is a book of recorded numbers and specific events that took place, hence its name, Numbers. Sometimes it's so easy, we just miss it, right? It is sometimes called the Fourth Book of Moses. And we see order happening. We see order being established for a specific group of people, for a specific place and time. And God is instructing Moses. Moses is leading the people. They are celebrating the first year of exiting Egypt and being a free people. And so God is guiding them by a cloud during the day and fire at night. And we see very specific instructions for the Israelites. And so as of right now, it seems to be a quite orderly operation. I mean, so much so that they were unsure of how to proceed when they came in contact with a dead body. And so they go to their leader, Moses, who then consults with God, and God gives them an answer. It seems to be a really good scenario as of right now. And so with every turn of the page and new day, we will see how the story unfolds and see how the Israelites, a freed people, a chosen people, people set apart to be holy unto the Lord so that God will be their God and they will be his people. We're going to stay in the story and see how this story unfolds. So Father, we thank you for Your word today. And we thank you that in a world of chaos, sometimes in a life of chaos, you bring order to that chaos and we can be invited into that order. And sometimes it takes work, sometimes it's a very foreign concept to us. So I pray that with Your help, we would be in tune and aligned to your voice. So that some things that are disheveled, things that are just all over the map.

Prayer:

God, would you give divine strategy to those whose lives seem chaotic or feel just out of the reach or out of the grasp of order? God, I pray for first of all, the comfort of the Holy Spirit to calm the overwhelming feelings that just make us quit and make us feel hopeless, that it's too big to take on. And I pray, Father, that the Holy Spirit would come, guide, counsel, direct those who need to make necessary steps to bring order into their lives, starting with prioritizing. What is the most important thing first, I think that we can ask this of you and you can help us, and that you are not too far from reach and that you care about order in our lives, so that we're not running and trying to chase and keep up with chaos. And for those that even just need an extra set of hands that need tangible help, Father, I pray for divine strategy that the helper would send help, and we know that you are able to do such a thing. So we thank you here today for these words that align to our hearts. I pray that you would give us the strength to begin. You pray this now in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Amen. 

Announcements:

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It's located up at the right hand corner. Or look for the Give icon on the website if you need prayer. If you'd like to pray for someone that's previously called in several different ways for you to do so, 800-583-2164 you have two minutes on the mobile app if, once again, you're utilizing the app itself sorry. You have two minutes on the prayer line. If you're utilizing the app, hit the Red circle button. It's also located up at the top right hand corner of that mobile device. When you're on the chronological line, make sure you hit Submit. Then turn that little wheel over to Chronological to make sure that it gets to the right channel. If you send it to the wrong channel, we cannot retrieve those calls. So just take that extra second or two and make sure that you turn it over to Chronological. If you would like to reach out to a fellow Dabber, we ask that you use our social media platforms designed for that. Daily audio bible. Look for the red windmill. That is the official Daily Audio Bible page on Facebook and Instagram. DAB Friends is a place that you all can communicate back and forth. Daily Audio Bible Chronological and DABC friends. And then my own personal little place that I love to connect with women. Daily Audio Bible Women. Check that out. Just go to the pages like the page, hit the little thumbs up button. Whatever it is or it might be, follow and you will make sure that you're getting any and all updates or announcements that we might put out to the community. There, there. That's it for me today. I'm Jill. We'll turn the page together tomorrow and it's going to be a great week. I'm super duper happy to be back with you, and I super duper love you. Until tomorrow. I'm Jill. Love one another.

Community Prayer Line:

Good morning, Daily Audio Bible Chronological. Today is Saturday, February 18, and I am Teresa, and I'm calling from North Carolina, and this phone call is in response to Nydia and her son Nick in New Jersey. Nydia my sister. I am pretty sure that we know each other and we go way back prior to 2003 in North, New Jersey. But I'm calling today to lift up you and your son and I'm praying that let's just go to God and prayer. Your Heavenly Father. I just pray for Nydia. And I pray for Nick. And Lord, I pray that Nydia continues to stay strong and that she continues to lift you up and she continues to praise you, Lord, and that she continues to lean on you for everything that she needs for her son Nick. Lord, being a 20 year old child in this world is just something that's unprecedented these days. We have stuff coming in from the left, the right, the front, the back, the top, the bottom, social media, gaming, news. Everything is just so negative and so it's easy to be in a place where it's dark and negative and where we struggle. Lord, I just ask that you equip nick that you protect him, that you put a shield of armor over him and that all he can see is light and not dark. God, we just know that you work all things together for the good. We know that you put us together for a reason today lord, I know that I recognize Nidia's voice and her name for a reason Lord. So Lord, we just praise you in all of it. In Jesus name we pray. Midia, a lovely sister. I hope you're doing well.

Good morning fellow DABers, I just listened to February the 23rd in China you were talking about Lent so I've decided to lay down the negative self talk and replace it with the word of God and to try to focus on things that are good. I need your prayers a menopausal and I struggle with depression anyway and I'm alone and I have no mate and sometimes I just wonder what God's purpose is for me. So I really do need your prayers. I love you all fellow DABers and I pray for you and listen to you every day. Blessings from Oklahoma.

Hey DAB family this is Justin out of Indiana just calling to leave this prayer on this prayer line as well. Just goes like this dad family pray this prayer to the great God above the Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost. Love this prayer. I have started in small town Indiana but I pray it goes global and covers everything americana thank you to Cam for prayers from OK prayers that you protect her every day in every way. Prayers to the Hardens who started this vision for reading His Word and always allowing us to listen. We give thanks for the safety of their family on their trip. We thank you for picking us up when we trip or slip we read of our exodus we choose no other gods before you carve images and false idols we let go of them too. We refrain from taking our Lord's name in vain and if you're not resting on the Sabbath then we ain't the same. We honor our mothers and fathers hold murderers accountable. The temptation the enemy is capable of is insurmountable. We stray from cheating, stealing and lying to walk like yeshua we're always trying. We need not covet what we do not need but we have all we need in you. So we beg, pray and plead. Please hear this prayer from my friend Megan from Florida who lost her friends to DCs. Her life spiraled out of order. I'll be at your grace to bring Esther back to her with mercy. She's parched from missing the others. Lord is she thirsty. Please quench your thirst, god. Take away her hurt. Reuniting children with good parents is our loudest battle cry. Not to be shoved in some system, kept isolated or die. We must protect our children, no matter the cost. Help every voice that can't be heard feel comforted when lost. Only from the grace of the good Lord above can we end child trafficking. And all it takes is some love. Megan, we call for your protection. May every angel watch you again. In Christ's name we pray it's. In Jesus name. Amen.

Good morning, DABC family. This is Kim from California. I'm calling because we really need prayer for my marriage. My husband and I have been having a very hard time. We live in a very rural part of Northern California. The storm hit us quite badly. I also lost my car to the floodwaters. He's had health problems. I've had health problems for both seniors and it just seems to be one thing after another. And he's having an especially hard time with it because he's a bit older than I am and his health is really affecting him. He's been healthy his whole life and now he's dealing with health issues. I have them too, but not like he has them. And it's hard. We don't have any power right now. The winds took our power down. It's been toothless for the second day during the storms. We were out of power for seven days in a row. And then a few other days the internet has gone. It's difficult. The internet has become a utility now and it's difficult to live without it. And we end up taking things out on each other. And I just pray that you will help us in our marriage to be kind to each other, to just love each other, to be there for each other and to praise God for all that we have, including you, DABC family. Love you dearly and I thank you so much for your praise. Be blessed. This is Kim in California.

Hello, my wonderful DABC family. This is Covered in His Blood, aka B for Mississippi. You guys, I just learned that I am insulin resistant and I do not want to be on any kind of medicine. So I need you guys to pray for me and pray with me that I'm able to just resist to reverse this just by diet change. And I know that I can do this without medicine. Yes, he did call me in medicine, but I am refusing to get it, refusing to take it. I'm just going to change my diet and just exercise more and hopefully when I go back in three months, my levels will be normal. I need you guys to please pray for me and with me. Thanks in advance. I love you guys.

[akaraboonline]

The 8 Most Important Things Women Discovered After Having Affairs

Infidelity is no laughing matter, but it occurs more frequently than you might think. An innocent crush on someone can turn into much more and end up ruining a relationship, whether you're in a failing marriage or you're becoming increasingly bored with your life. Furthermore, keeping secrets can be extremely stressful, as can keeping track of a slew of lies. If you're thinking about having an affair or have already begun one, here are The 8 Most Important Things Women Discovered After Having Affairs

1. Humans are capable of anything

You can tell yourself that you have a strict moral code and set of values, but there are certain situations in which we will end up doing things we never thought we were capable of. Even if cheating contradicts who you believe you are and you believe you are "better than that," an affair will sweep that self-righteous attitude out from under you.

2. It’s a way to distract yourself from your own life

Although reading a book is a healthier way to escape into fantasy, people frequently choose an affair. Whether they're bored or unhappy, having an affair is the simplest way for them to divert their attention away from everything that's wrong in your relationship. It's a popular drug because it can elicit strong emotions such as intense cravings and painful withdrawals.

3. You can easily end up where you never thought you would

Whatever your reason for starting an affair, there is always a reason. You can always find a way to justify it. Usually, the reason is related to an existing issue in your relationship, so you should look into that first. While we're all doing our best, it's important to consider what you feel is missing in your relationship and what you can do about it. Instead of having an affair, you can either work on the problem or mutually end the relationship with respect.

4. Communication and trust are key

You may cheat because you are unhappy in your relationship, feeling neglected or unwanted. Many people cheat in order to feel more powerful and in control of their relationships. That is why a lack of communication and mistrust in a relationship should always be investigated.

5. Guilt isn’t worth it

Many people can recognize that infidelity is wrong and put a stop to it. Keeping that big secret from your partner, on the other hand, may cause you to feel crippling guilt, which can have serious consequences for your health. After all, high stress levels are harmful to everyone. Even if you've realized that having an affair isn't worth it, keep in mind that you can't control how bad you feel about hurting someone, whether you reveal the affair or keep it a secret.

6. The best sex of your life can have regretsIt's impossible to argue with.

The sex that comes with an illegal affair can be incredible. Despite having a mind-blowing time in bed, you're also having a lapse in judgment, and being sloppy with your secrets means you might and probably will get caught. Go for it if you're okay with potentially ending the relationship or causing long-term alienation.

7. Be brave and take the jump when the relationship is over

Although it may be tempting to continue cheating and staying in an unhappy relationship, it is not in anyone's best interests. Instead, it's time to be brave and admit your affair. If you can't do that, at least give the other person the option of terminating the relationship based on pre-existing concerns. Unhappy couples stay together for longer than they should, but happiness should be your primary goal in life, and sometimes the best way to regain that joy is to end an unhappy marriage.

8. An affair can be necessary to leave their spouse

Leaving a marriage or long-term relationship can be extremely difficult, and exiting an old relationship is much easier if you're entering a new one. That is why many relationships end because a partner abandons their love for someone else. While those new relationships may not last, they can help you start a new chapter and get over your ex faster than if you were left alone.   Read the full article

[thedaveandkimmershow]

I was thinking about endings and beginnings once Christmas Day slipped passed us. I was thinking about the idea in the context of the "New" year. The ending of the old. The beginning of the new as if we hit a reset or restart button. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how there are so many of them. These arbitrary start and finish lines that adorn our months, characterize our years, and inform our lives. Annually, some. Capriciously, others. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how, when you're young, school is the first thing outside of your parents to convince you that there are things that last forever. Like your friends. I mean, who wouldn't say their best friends in first grade wouldn't be their best friends forever if asked?

But of course life is what it is and people move how they move and I had a lot of friends during my elementary school years who were from military families. And, since a lot of my best friends were from those families, I only had them for maybe two years. That... was our "forever". And then new friends would show up on base and the whole thing would start over. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how the end of grade school was a sign of things to come, a sign that simply leaving a school building meant leaving friends behind. Which was true for the transition to Jr. High. High School. University. And trade school for creatives. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how people have left my solar system just as I've left theirs... because they pursued different ambitions in life. They were running down other academic tracks. They were chasing different careers. They sometimes had massively different expectations for their lives and the quality of those lives. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how you imagine people to be permanent fixtures in your life but that.

Is not.

A safe bet. For literally random, non-nefarious reasons. Because life happens. And at different points in that life, the people you imagined once to be permanent fixtures are no longer there. But in that same breath you realize that people you never even knew existed...

Are suddenly stars on your show. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how we personally and professionally immerse ourselves in our passions. And, in so doing, we join others who share those passions and, as we explore and learn and perfect, we find ourselves inside a group, a team, a community... braving those same passions.

Together.

Because as we pursue different paths, different careers, different lives, different futures... we're drawn toward certain people and away from others just like they're drawn to us and away from others. Call it the side-effect of growing up, if you will. Of transforming. Of emerging.

Call it the cost of becoming you. Because that’s really what it is. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and "All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players; they have their exits and their entrances, and one man in his time plays many parts.”

William Shakespeare, right?

"As You Like It”, Act II, Scene VII.

Exits and Entrances.

Comings and Goings.

Endings... 

And Beginnings.

There are people who will recede into our memories as each year passes. We will remember the details of how we met. We will definitely remember the highlights, the stories, a lot of the things they said. And those things will take up residence in the core of our being. They inform, have informed, who we are. No matter how far back these relationships go or how long they lasted, their great depth is what assures they will exist in perpetuity. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how for most of our lives in general the beginnings have been triumphant whilst the endings have been low key. But that's changing. That's changing because we walked into a stage of our lives where we're beginning to confront exits that happen mid-scene. Exits that make no sense in the context of our lived experience. Or rather our expectations. Exits that leave all kinds of ragged, dangling threads. Emotional and otherwise. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how, once upon a time, there was such a thing as the Kimmer ‘n Dave Show. Just the two of us in a bubble. And we had no problem with it being The Kimmer ‘n Dave Show. It was a pretty fun show.

Then, when Linzy was born and it became Tales of Collison-Ris’s... we rolled with that and have been rolling with it ever since. Nothing like Marriage, Career, and Parenthood to give life that certain, you know, white knuckle thrill. Am I right?

And then our show spun-off The Linzy Show... Linzy’s very own with a largely separate cast of characters and its own plot. I've been thinking about endings and beginnings.

I've been thinking about endings and beginnings and wondering about what kind of stage will 2023 be... given how 2021 and 2022 featured unforseen departures from our lives. A father. A best friend. People who were suddenly gone from our lives in a way that's becoming all too familier. Even 2023 has begun this way with the unforseen, sudden passing of Kimmer's uncle and our efforts to pick up some of the pieces of his life in order to bring the remains of his life to a conclusion. I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings and how this is still the "New" year. A reset, a restart, a new beginning, a new chapter. I was thinking about comings and goings. Entrances and exits. Parts we're playing. And parts we have yet to play.

I do not regret some of what we left behind over the years. Some of what's gone should've been gone.

Neither do I feel anxiety for what's to come even in the shadow of another great loss.

What I know in this space between thankfulness and loss is that this is Life with a capital L. Because of its endings and beginnings. And we are, as we have ever been, reaching for a Life that's worthy of our embrace.

And yes. Sometimes that involves adversity and sorrow. More often than we'd care to weather. Sometimes we have to draw deep from our reserves. And definitely this Life we're pursuing requires stamina.

It demands stamina.

Yet it's what we take with us in our hearts that allows us to continue and continue and continue to shape a world around us that we do wish to see as we continue to learn and to grow.

As we continue.

To learn.

And to grow.

Even.

On this stage of our lives.

I was thinking about endings and beginnings.

[uncanny-tranny]

The idea that trans people "take away" from other queer identities is just transphobia.

The narrative, for instance, that the lesbian community is "losing lesbians" to transition is not based on anything but transphobia; we do not own people, and other people don't owe it to us to be members of our communities. If a person transitions and distances themself from the communities they were once a part of, they are free to do so. Trans people don't owe it to you to live what would, essentially, be a lie to placate to you.

You cannot own other peoples identities.

[userholland]

i saw your announcement and came to ask asap. can you like do a hurt/comfort blurb where reader and tom get into an argument and he goes to sleep in a different place and like he forgets to say i love you but he always says i love you so reader gets upset and they try to make up????? tysm i really love your writing

pairing－ tom holland x fem!reader [hurt/comfort au]

contains－ plain angst, privilege snooty kids, poor communication, sweet and comforting ending (like y'all know gotta go your own way in hsm. its like that. mwah)

word count－ 1k

masterlist | blurb requests open! (nsfw + fluff)

Ironically, it was stressful dating a celebrity (especially one you grew up with from the start). It wasn't only hard to watch the man you love taking on the fame but adjusting to what felt like a new lifestyle.

Sometimes, you wish you could flashback to regular nights without the constant paranoia that a camera was over your shoulder or some celebrity friend would call last minute about a party invite. As exciting as it was for Tom, he didn't realize it had taken a toll on you as well and you'd reach your limit tonight.

The night started out glamorous and grand because Tom's new friends asked him to come to a new bar, supposedly it's going to take off and all so, Tom should pay his mind to it. Suggesting that he could stay in with you after his long day on set, he insisted on going still.

Now, you didn't have a problem with him wanting to do what he wants, you loved going out together, but the people he surrounded himself with weren't favorable. They were loud, entitled, and fresh to Hollywood, coming off as snooty, although you admitted it could be that this is just new to you and you weren't around your "normal" friends.

As much as you wanted to keep on a smile the whole night, it became harder with every word you had to listen to. Tom was having fun, at least to your eyes he was, extending his overtired feeling just to socialize, but you didn't understand most of the conversations since they were clearly about acting.

Just as you wanted to start a new conversation, Angela, his co-star, drunkenly giggled as she asked what you were working on. When answering that you weren't an actor, she acted as if you were a nerd joining the cool kids' table. There was something so condescending about her answer that it boiled your blood.

"I'm gonna go." You blatantly said, not taking the treatment. You tossed your napkin on your chair before leaving toward the exit.

Tom quickly got up, following right behind you and he gently grabbed your wrist right when you got past the entrance, "Where are you going?"

"Home, or back to the apartment." You spat, pulling your arm back.

"Why? We were having a good time-"

"You. You were having a good time. Those people are awful, and I don't care what you say, I just won't take that." You tell him, wanting to scoff at his ignorance.

"C'mon, you're being a bit dramatic." He stated.

"Dramatic? You're all dramatic. Laughing about your camera angles and exposé... whatever that is. You guys sound a bit insufferable. This isn't like you at all."

A few people passing stared at you two arguing so, Tom guided you toward the alley where you could get more privacy and could only hope no one was taking a video or picture.

"Y/N-"

"No, I'm not gonna stay. Frankly, I don't want to be here. I was hoping we got to go back to London and just... feel normal for a few days, but you insisted on hanging out with these kinds of people who hurt my feelings for not being famous. When's the last time you called your friends anyways? It's like... you're a different person."

Tom, offended, rolled his eyes at your comment, "Okay, let's just settle this in the morning and just put on a nice smile and go back in there."

"No, I just can't be here right now." You said, and he pulled back.

"What's that supposed to mean?"

"It means I wanna leave. Are you coming with me or not?" You ask him as if it was a question, but his hesitation with silence following didn't comfort you, "Tom?"

He clenched his jaw, his heart thudding against his chest, "No, I'm not leaving."

You scoff, "Then don't bother coming back if you want to sit around with a bunch of people who only care about your career and not you."

After you turned around to head to the apartment, Tom gulped as he wanted to mutter your name. He so badly could give in, saying he's sorry and that he loved you, but he was so angry that he didn't want to speak it out of a place it shouldn't come from the unsettling stress he felt. It wasn't fair to make him choose, but at the same time, it seemed like a no-brainer. You didn't want to lose each other. Just as he wanted to say "i love you" across the street, you did too, but instead, you two went your separate ways.

－ ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*

In the morning, Tom's eyes ached as if someone punched him deep in his sockets. The dryness under his eyes was unbearable and he only felt pain in his neck and back from how uncomfortable his friend's couch was all night.

You weren't doing so hot either. Leaning over the bed to avoid the pillow and sheets where his cologne lingered, constantly replaying the moment in your head and wishing you hadn't made him choose. You were emotional but so cruel to him with less than a valid explanation.

Both of you fucked up, and it had to be said.

Just as you reached for your phone, there was a knock at the door. As you rolled out of bed, feeling like you were coming down from a cold, you went to the front door and opened it to see Tom standing there with tired, red eyes.

"About last night-"

"No, I'm sorry. I'm sorry." You told him.

He nodded, "I'm sorry too. I shouldn't have just left you... especially without saying 'I love you'." Tom gulped.

"Me too..." You trailed, "Me too."

Without hesitating, the two of you embraced a tight hug as if you'd been apart for years. It wasn't the worst fight you had, but one that you decided to leave each other's sides after vowing to never do that to one another.

"I love you so much." He said against your ear, still hugging you.

"I love you so much too." You whimpered.

He kissed your forehead, not letting you go to make up for the time you were apart. Dramatic as it seemed, you both realized how much you truly adored each other and how special your love was.