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me hearing about someone or something being queerphobic in some way and wanting to know what happened: 🤨☕
me when the "queerphobic" stuff in question is just people being supportive of contradictory labels and other identities that most people don't understand, and the drama is just exclus people complaining about harmless stuff again: 😒🫗
#if i see one more person say that ''weird'' identities are queerphobic i'm gonna explode#sigh.... it's just more people being exclusionary again... what else is new....#anti exclus#anti exclusionist#sorry for being discoursey lately#i don't like when people make a big fuss about harmless stuff they don't understand-#-and immediately label it as ''bad''#i'm very supportive of people with ''contradictory'' labels and funky experiences with gender and sexuality-#-and i want to make that clear on this blog#i'm annoyed that people are still making drama over literally nothing in the year of our lord and saviour sans undertale#please stop arguing over labels when us queer people are literally getting our rights written out of existence by lawmakers.#this is the last discourse thing i'll rant about this week i swear
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Yes, people who don’t take it personally when you don’t reply are great, but like, we all understand that that’s a grain of salt thing, right? Like if you ghost your friend back-to-back-to-back when they reach out to you, they’re going to eventually give up. We know that, right?
If you don’t reply multiple consecutive times when someone messages you trying to have a conversation (not just sending a random thought/meme/something casual), you are ghosting that person, and it’s not on them to keep using their energy to reach out to you.
(AND before you come for me just know I say this as someone who is a notoriously bad texter, and who is super bad for remembering to reply to texts.)
#med mumbles#it’s one of those things that I’m like yes I agree but like#it’s also normal for people to be hurt if you just never reply to them#like I am SO bad for getting distracted and not replying to texts#and a lot of the times I send out random texts/messages and immediately forget I sent them and don’t care if I get a reply#but there’s a big difference between not replying to ‘I ate brie today and it was a biblical experience’ and not replying to like#specific personal conversations someone is trying to have with you#that’s just my two cents#BTW I did not put the mature label on this? not sure how that happened.
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Let's not treat Emily like she is somehow a threat to David/Matt, please. She is a very well written, complicated and interesting character who deserves to be acknowledged more than just "threatening a yaoi ship".
She is going through a lot and she does not deserve to be hated on just because she's not playing the demure, meek girl who lets people step on her. She's been manipulated, betrayed and dragged through Hell, her flipping her shit is completely understandable.
And she does not deserve to be treated badly when fucking Matt Grotto betrayed, lied to, neglected and STABBED the guy he was in love with without much (if any) fandom backlash.
Emily deserves so much better treatment and I hope that people come to see her as the wonderfully intricate character she is, instead of just a side character to the "Matt and David Love Story"
#the grotto#thegrottopod#the grotto podcast#this has been eating at me for a while actually#people have been so mean to emily for no reason#matt has done so much worse but he gets the baby treatment#while emily has a mental breakdown and is immediately labelled as a bitch because ???#she came back from the dead after being manipulated by a bad actor and everyones moving on without her#she's allowed to feel hurt and upset about that#especially towards matt#i love matt but he is selfish and awful and not a good person either
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in my perfect world everyone makes so many lesbian muses the men then have to deal with the exact same behavior when every single post ever written isn’t about dick.
#CLAWS RETRACTED.#[real talk: I’m a lesbian transmasc little enby guy. but my gender? is lesbian. it’s how I explain it. my attraction to women is a part of#my innate gender. that’s just how it is and the two things inform one another. heteronormativity is still so alive and now everyone can put#it under progressive little labels where the character is bisexual but everything that’s focused on for miles is the hetcoded shit. it’s a#cool little thing people do now. it went from when I was a kid and ‘there’s no such thing as bi you’re just confused’ to ‘everyone is bi#because it gives me points but I will never meaningfully observe the queer aspect of that identity and it can make me seem comfortable with#queer identities’. it’s lip service so much of the time. and I never ever ever say you’re only valid if you write bi characters in a#queercoded relationship. bisexuality is forever valid always even if you’ve NEVER been in a queer relationship. but this is writing and#real bisexual people (I’m not even bi I’m literally a lesbian) have experiences irl that make them feel shitty#when they see them boiled down to shallow. a lot in the same way I get upset when I see lesbian relationships brushed off or ignored in#spite of my own excitement toward the ship. MY POINT IS that lesbians are completely ignored by this point and I can say this both irl and#on here because when you live a life that excludes men from your romantic space you’re basically illegal. it drives me fucking insane. the#way anyone can make a fucking whitebread ass man on this site and their inbox will be exploding but you make a lesbian and you have to pad#quietly around because from jump you’re already worried about how people will perceive you and you KNOW they won’t be immediately welcoming.#this is an irl thing in such a big way and I’m a NEW YORKER. but the fact that this exists in the rpc? truly I miss when we just wrote and#enjoyed things and this wasn’t a cesspit of discourse instead of an actual creative community. like. I went to college to study boring#theses that couldn’t keep my attention. I slogged through litcrit theory. do I love it? yes. but some of yall really just wanna be on#debatebro YouTube and not in the actual rpc. it’s wild. everyone’s a philosopher but no one wants to meaningfully engage. and if they do#they want to in either bad faith or basically hardheaded ignorance about an issue. someone’s 2 seconds from rping destiny.#swear to fucking god if I see one person make an asm.ngold joke I will cry.]
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this is a certified emoticon moment
#ft. snipers no good very bad day (this is what ill label part four from now on) (i will forget this immediately)#tf2#team fortress 2#tf2 comics
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omg my twitter is full of those posts policing "dont simp for skelly hes 16 weirdoo" and im just!!🔥🔥🔥
#i dont even like him enough to simp for him#but these fandom polices needs to calm down its a fictional age???#idc that skelly is 16 actually i'll still think hes 20+#its just the way the ppl there immediately labels is just aughh i dont wanna say bad things but its immediate mute and block lol#do any of them realize that the character ages literally dont impact anything kn chaarcter lore and story 💀#hes immediately being listed as “ dont ship him w leona 😩😩 ” n i feel like 🙄🙄🙄#i dont ship anything proship but i feel like ill be labelled as one just bcs my#pov on fiction is similar to concept of proship (aka fiction doesnt reflect your morality/reality)💀
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why is like every single gwuncaner insanely misogynistic and racist to courtney like their life depends on it.
like if you're bawling your eyes out about a fictional teenager that just so happens to be a woc being abusive then turning around and closing your eyes when the white guy she abused (was in a pretty mutually toxic relationship with) is similar amounts of fucking weird to two different girls get your priorities checked.
like honest to god i could not care less what characters other people on the internet like to play dolls with and imagine kissing i just think its in super poor taste to say omfg i fucking hate courtney total drama shes (insert weird racially charged language. insert comparing real human beings who like a fictional character to insects and saying you want to kill them) ok man. what. get help.
dislike or like whatever you want HONESTLY. I DO NOT CARE. im not 12 years old and i could not care less if you prefer a different fucking made up scenario where fictional characters kiss. at the end of the day literally 0 of this ship war fucking matters i promise you, i just want a similar energy back and not combination misogyny and racism fuled remarks towards the liking of a FICTIONAL FUCKING CHARACTER. THAT DID ZERO THINGS TO ANY REAL LIFE FUCKING PERSON.
Harassment of any real life fucking person about anything that they like in fiction is way more harmful than whatever happened in fiction that theyre defending. LOL!
#draft from last night#ps talks#posts that make me sound like im defending proshippers when i dislike those guys as much as the next person#i am just extremely extremely EXTREMELY anti harassment. bc im someone that cares about human beings lives#and i care about my ability to ignore randoms and made fun of them to my friends in dms when i see smth i dont like. lol#anyways wutevz. bawling my eyes out bc i dont like when people are meanies. sad face#its also not lost on me that a ship with a woc is immediately labeled as bad by these people. yeah lets replace her w some white ass bitch#i love weird white ass bitch x weird white ass bitch who have 0 morals or personality in common. true love❤️#SORRY IM HATING SO BAD. like seriously ship whatever you want but dont do it in front of me if its gwuncan bc im#gonna vomit all over you. sorry. just how it goes. hope you understand
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some of yall badly need 2 apologize 2 patricia taxxon lol. yall are fucking awful.
#attacking her during an extremely vulnerable period of self introspection#saying that shes 'having a meltdown' for not immediately wanting to label herself as plural and taking issue with how ppl discuss it#which is like. extremely valid btw. u do not have to be plural to notice how fucked up and awful these communities get.#and pressuring her into doing so bcs apparently if somebody does not want to label themselves with a serious mental condition#that must mean theyre 'invalidating' you#god yall suck. yall suck so fucking bad#youre all so reactive and impatient and senselessly defensive
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I love how my mom will be like "yknow maybe you have adhd" and then you list to her the symptoms & she's be like "you don't do that" and the symptom in question will literally be the reason I nearly bombed grade 10 maths
#'everyone does that & for it to be a disorder it had to be destructive' IT WAS#& still is but not as bad now I'm not in high school (that particular symptom)#she does the same to my brother like. oh he's not hyperactive he was just a young boy in a classroom setting not suited for him#he got in trouble for being destructive all the time. he was labeled a problem student#you literally made his a fidget toy out of a pipe cleaner so he wouldn't cause problems in class#you also had to sometimes tie him to his chair to get him to eat dinner like#boys will be boys ig?#like maybe we don't have adhd but she immediately dismisses the possibility#anyway it's annoying#bella talks
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okay I severely misjudged spaghetti guy he’s actually just really cool
#okay so I came to this flat and he wasn’t here. greeted by a very dirty flat with shit all over the kitchen counters over cling film#I meet first my other flatmate who told me he stays in his room constantly bc of previous bad flatmates#has literally just a saucepan and some salt in the kitchen. so I’m like okay spaghetti guy potentially not great but could just be#how this guy is yknow#on Tuesday I get an email back saying he’s coming back from Norway tonight looking forward to seeing you feel free to use the kitchen sauces#rlly friendly message that I wasn’t expecting. I also didn’t know he’d been on a trip i just knew he wasn’t there bc his door was open#(to a REALLY nice room. multiple rlly nice plants (which he has little care labels for!!!) and it’s tidy and pretty#and he’s got a sheep teddy on the bed)#meanwhile I am in my own head bc I don’t wanna cook in the kitchen until I can clean it and I can’t clean it without moving his shit and#I haven’t seen him yet to talk abt it and I can’t bring myself to talk to him immediately bc I’m dying#and embarrassed as hell by how I’ve been cooking in my room with a microwave and air fryer (loud) and sneaking my shit out of the kitchen#but then yesterday I DO talk to him!! and he’s super friendly!! actually interested in having a conversation and Good at it.#and then he’s cooking and like. spaghetti burns but I’m not there for long and seems to be a mistake (he made the same thing for lunch today#and did Not burn the spaghetti) and is otherwise clearly competent bc the food smells Good and despite leaving a few things out it’s like#washed up stuff isn’t dirty and the sides are better despite still under cling film. more a case that he’s spread out than he’s messy#and now today we talked and i offered to hold onto some shit over summer bc complicated situation that boils down to he’s flying back home#and he cant take all his stuff and had to choose between chucking stuff/having literally nothing this weekend. like sleeping on the sofa etc#and then cleans the whole flat?? which I’m assuming a good chunk is his mess? but he did not need to do that. could’ve easily left#bc there are two people still living here who would’ve had to deal with it and he doesn’t know either at all#and THEN tonight we talk abt food which is fun bc we both ordered stuff. and he offers me some honeydew melon bc he’s been gorging himself#these past two days to finish it before it goes bad/he leaves which is also really sweet#and JUST NOW. I take my headphones out after finishing dinner and hear the sweetest fucking guitar#he plays the gentlest like dreamy sounding acoustic guitar I’ve heard in my life in his room (door closed by the time I leave)#this is actually just a really cool dude#now that the kitchens clear I’m gonna cook tomorrow and will probably offer him some bc otherwise he’s gonna be eating out all weekend#he has extra takeout for tomorrow night but might want smth Sunday#regardless I am just. huh??? left a bit stunned bc of the u turn my opinion of this guy has taken. bc my opinion of him was a reflection#of my discomfort moving to this weird dirty basement flat with two people I didn’t know#well. idk where to go from here. I think I’ll start by talking to him more this weekend. bc holy fucking shit.#luke.txt
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The fact that I see so many Jewish people afraid to speak out about antisemitism and turning off reblogs when they do because they’re scared of what will happen to them if their post leaves Jewish circles, really shows how fucked up and antisemitic some goyim have gotten. Goyim need to better.
#goyim can’t interact with this post if they don’t derail it#or get antisemitic#that involves calling out antisemitism around you#and listening to Jewish people#you should be speaking out against antisemitism because you won’t face anywhere near the level of hate we do when we do it#we are immediately labeled bad Jews when we do#and once you get labeled a bad Jew goyim will justify directing any violent antisemitic bigotry your way#up to death threats violence and even saying Jews deserve to be r*ped#all things I’ve heard or seen happen to Jews ☝️#jumblr#jewish
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me feeling bad about being unaligned with binary gender and then i think about how Guz would just Get It right off the bat because honestly idk how it's such a hard concept for ppl to grasp 😭 and it makes me feel a little better fdsfjkl
#i feel bad sometimes like oohh ur such a special snowflake for not being feminine OR masculine oooh u wanna be special so bad#no you Made-Up-Person-in-my-Brain. no i dont want to be special actually fdsjkl#i really wish this was just normal. i so badly want to just be normal#honestly i start thinking ''maybe i should just be okay with being considered feminine or masculine. i should just pick one i guess''#but no !! neither fit right !! both make me uncomfortable !!#i do understand the concepts of both but i exist outside of them somehow! and idk why thats so difficult for ppl to grasp!#it is just a little lonely seeing posts talking about ''feminine ppl or masculine ppl'' like. okay i dont fit either of those. damn.#and it feels alienating bc i guess ppl dont know unaligned folk exist! transneutral is such a rare label to see talked about!#''this is nonbinary inclusive bc im saying masculine and feminine :)'' WHAT IS SO HARD TO GRASP ABOUT NON-BINARY. ITS RIGHT IN THE NAME!#why are u re-inventing the gender binary !!!!!! u just changed the words ur using for binary gender WHAT 😭😭😭#i think maybe i resent that i have to force myself into one category or the other for other ppls comfort tbh fdsjkl like. can i just exist.#but i do think Guz would genuinely just understand it immediately. not just because i Want him to LOL.#he'd be like ''ohhh theres a word for that? hell yeah that rules. i'll have to see if a few of the grunts heard about this shit yet''#bc im sure there'd be a wide range of queer kids on the team LOL#if u get a bunch of misfits together ur going to have like... a LOT of queer ppl in the group FDSJFKL#dandy.cmd#vent //#💜so good at being in trouble
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hit a rough patch processing my gender in the past few days & have been feeling down about not being able to talk about pretty much any aspect of my identity without tacking on seven disclaimers and a vocab quiz 😮💨 wish I could just put the identity crisis on hold until I finish my finals
#personal#a classmate asked me if I had a lover and I said fuck no I’m ace as hell and immediately felt like a Bad Ace™️ even though it was true#can’t just talk about being ace bc that’s aroallo and sex-favorable erasure#can’t just talk about being aro because I also don’t want to fuck#can’t talk about being aroace without explaining the SAM even though I can’t split my own identity bc that’s aroallo AND alloace erasure#can’t talk about sex- or romance-repulsion without clarifying that I’m not judging my friends for having/wanting relationships#can’t pin down my gender with one label so I feel like a fraud using all of them#can’t talk about being socialized female without distancing myself from the first 22 years of my life#can’t be annoyed about being parsed as a butch lesbian because god it was a compliment and it’s not like I’m actually a man right?#but also can’t explain why it’s weird to think of women (or anyone) being attracted to me because that’s? basically homophobic I guess?#idk man I’m just tired#I’ve got so much other stuff on my plate rn it’d be great if This One Thing was easier
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where’s that post about how you know you’ve got too many followers on tumblr when u start to get violently transphobic asks out of the fcuking blue
#also is it bad that my immediate reaction is exhaustion instead of anger#also i can’t even claim the label trans i am very solidly enby/agender#this person just hates that i’m a creepy lil beast ig#ava rambles
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im gonna start pulling my hair out everytime people call tacomic a "proship"
#shut up cupid#kangel.txt#while i dont exactly obsess over them i think it sucks when ppl just reduce the ship as something problematic#this doesnt apply to just tacomic btw this applies to any pairing that have been called a proship just bc 1. someone doesnt like it and#needed an excuse to make people feel bad about enjoying relationships that are complicated but not overall toxic or 2. people think that#a pairing is immediately toxic to them when two characters have argued#if you dont like tacomic or have them discomfort then whatever just dont purposefully try to make people feel bad for shipping them#sorry for the huge ass rant im just sick of the label 'proship' being thrown around like hell#anyways doomed yuri for the win!!!!
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me and yasmin talked about how basically in yasmine's story his trauma/etc is not that relevant bc its about his actions and feelings in the present and the consequences. while oppositely my ocs story is not about their actions in the present at all and mostly only about the consequences of a polarised "100% healthy vs 100% trauma" childhood. so i thought thats funny and complementing each other
#(and rly obvious if u know mbti stuff but i just dont have energy to talk about it on tumblr when theres always some person who will#be like omg mbti bad! without understanding yes the tests are bad and some usages are bad but manually studying the theory is not bad#ppl always tell me “i dont like labelling” then immediately go on to be like “this person is bad bc i dont understand them”#yeah my friend thats exactly why understanding how different ppls brains work is great#anyway Ni dom making story about overarching patterns and consequences vs Fi dom making story about passion and control
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