#(passive aggressive tone)

[iamnmbr3]

Voldemort: Avada Kedavra!

Voldemort: Dinner, Nagini.

Nagini: Tf am I supposed to do with this? It’s already dead. Can you at least wiggle it around or something so it’s appetizing?

[aro-culture-is]

aro culture is getting really annoyed with the relationships unit in your sociology class because the whole thing is just 100% amatonormativity.

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if think your teacher, professor, and/or TAs might be interested in discussing the concept, I have some idea of bringing up the topic?

I'd personally say something like, "Hi, During our section in sociology around relationships, I couldn't help but think it would be interesting to discuss how a sociological theory called "amatonormativity" might relate to these lessons. I gathered a few sources from the professor who coined it, a thesis written on it, and a law review written about the connection between it and laws in the USA. There's some connections between its use in feminist thought and in queer theories, and I'd love to know your thoughts about it. I personally was thinking of when [specific statement] was said, and how I would apply this theory. I hope it's as interesting to you as it is to me."

Coiner's current webpage: https://elizabethbrake.com/amatonormativity/

Thesis: https://vc.bridgew.edu/honors_proj/330/ (click download in upper right hand corner for the PDF, depending on the individual it may be worth downloading and sending that rather than a link)

Law Review: https://uclawreview.org/2022/06/09/amatonormativity-in-the-law-an-introduction/

[unsiredtribrid]

I love Callie so much from the very first scene she's in 😭 and I love how you can tell that Shauna actually does love her very much and vice versa

[flipflopitstimetomakeart]

regretevator redesigns & rewrite, part 4: infected

i am not the biggest fan of the whole “scene infected” thing that the fandom (and yeucc?? this stuff is canon????) decided to adopt, so instead i made him very plainly represent the time period he’s supposed to originate from: 2016! this man is the epitome of 2016 fashion and humor, and i love it.

btw, in this au, infected goes by “kasper”, and the infection he has does not control his thoughts, just his immune system. LOL

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[brian-kinney-apologist]

"why are people drawing this instead of that depicting characters in a way I personally dislike 😤😤😤???", "why are people writing fanfics about characters/ships I hate??🤬🤬🤬🤬", "why do people only talk about this character/ship 😡😡??", "why-

yeah I too wonder why people online decide to spend their free time to talk/create things dedicated towards their favourite characters/ships instead of just spreading negativity 🤔🤔 yeah there's nothing you can do about it except for complaining non stop 😔😔😔 oh wait!!! I have a solution!!!! go create your own memes/gifs/fanfics/drawings/think pieces or just shitposts about YOUR favourite characters/ships/any form of media in general instead of always complaining about people just minding their own buisness and demanding that every little thing in the fandom is catered to you specifically, hope this helps 🙏🫶

[ayiemojis]

More!!

/mj (mostly joking) - /nbh (nobody here)

/nuay (not upset at you) - /dpn (deadpan)

/fcl (further clarification) - /hv (half venting)

/npa (not passive aggressive) - /or (over explaining)

/rtq (rhetorical question) - /unrelated

I’ve still got a ton back logged I’ll post in time :3

[ask-the-turnabout-terror]

How does it feel to hug Miles?

“It’s nice to hold someone you love. Even better when they hug you back.”

[notasapleasure]

Here's a bit of history! The British PM told a female opposition MP to 'calm down, dear'. That's a fact, and so is the divided response to his words. Some felt it meant nothing; others thought it was an indication of what a patronising wankstain David Cameron was.

We all have our narratives of this little moment, but I must say I fall into the camp who thought it was indicative of a club of insecure posh boys telling jokes about the yucky girls. Aka 'bitches', as this lovely historian who I have now blocked puts it :)

[rouge-fauna]

I think you’re talking about these posts [here & here], I don’t know if there have been others.

I'm not gonna say what I did was right, you are correct I should probably just not respond to asks getting me to talk about other people. I will say for these two posts those people had already blocked me I’m pretty sure, so it’s kinda hard to talk directly to them in that case. And I was not doing so anonymously and had not blocked them so I wasn’t hiding what I was saying. I did not follow them, I am not part of the innitor community, and not that that makes it right but I do think it is kinda different. Though you make a good point, perhaps we should stop this pattern of responding to asks about other blogs and such.

Still, the biggest thing to me I realized, back in elementary school when I first dealt with this, was that honestly all the time we talk about people behind their back. Talking about people when they aren’t always in the room is kinda just inevitable and part of socializing, however I think the important part is how you are talking about other people. It’s when you are insulting them, talking negatively about them to people they know, spreading false information and so on that it becomes not okay. Hopefully that makes sense.

In these cases I merely focused on the lore. I didn’t insult them or talk shit about them, as a person, as a blog or say their takes were stupid or they are stupid or speculate about their trauma or mental history. I just talked about reasons why I disagreed, or saw things differently and why we might see things differently. They were also not the only ones I saw to say similar things so I think in my mind I was making more of a general discussion, not trying to target them specifically. I didn’t post beyond that about them. But you are right, regardless it was probably not the right way to go about things.

But just to be clear, if I am a hypocrite it is not my intention. I haven’t vague blogged anyone or meant to vague reblog anyone. I think this week is pretty much the first time I’ve ever been not naming, passive aggressively talking about blogs, and even then I’m not trying to insult them, trying to cancel them. I’m just expressing that before you go off about how I’m stupid and unable to have a discussion about it, the very least you could’ve done was give me an opportunity to try.

[crabussy]

whoever sent sunny that cruel ask I really really hope you realise how much that hurts. as if we don't fucking go through enough living life with a disorder as stigmatised as this. only a few people in my life know that I have OSDD because it faces so much stigma. they make fucking horror movies where the killer has my disorder. I don't understand how someone can feel so much malice towards a stranger that they will not only send them an ask basically implying that they Don't Exist and are Pretend, but also take a jab at their identity too?? why are you so unkind? there was nothing forcing you to go out of your way to make a strangers day worse by telling them that they don't fucking exist. systems and fictives have been recognised by psychologists for years. I am recognised as a system by TWO professionals, including a psychiatrist. They both acknowledge sunny's existence because they are professionals in the field of psychology who actually know what they're talking about. you are expressing so much confidence with your ignorance it makes me feel sick. I've turned anons are off on sunny's blog, he's distraught. you disgust me. I am so glad I will never know you.

[storybookhawke]

I don't know what the article was but you don't deserve to be treated that way. I hope all the anon assholes scatter now that anon is off. Good luck!

I didn’t even say anything negative :’) I just was conflicted that a gameplay mechanic I adore was taken out.

Thank you for your kindness (and great use of gif!)

[mangora]

Who cares about ship and character discourse. Frolic. Be free. Valid criticism is important but also don’t be afraid to look on the bright side for once. Think about Svetlana ‼️

[the-crystal-femmes]

Just so you know if, anyone ever gets concerned over one of my posts or wants to check on me like that's going to ever happen, my ask box is always open. I know some of the things I post are depressing as shit, unfortunately, and I don't.. Really know if anyone actually gives a fuck but, I'd just like to state that.

[twistedtoms]

Turning off anon asks for a bit because the person decided to come back and saying all the stuff they did 👍I'm glad my response was good, I'm glad it was understood despite waking up and answering while I was still out of it- saying I was defensive and unable to take criticism is just utterly untrue though lol- The only thing I had an issue thing was the writing bad part before I could clear the air- also me being unable to read tone through text with a one read and no once over. Anyways, that's it for that ordeal- it is what it is and I honestly don't care. Think what you want of the anon you mentioned tho, not my business

[ayiemojis]

/pa - passive aggressive — get well soon

And/or — I miss

Graduate — graduation

Toss — throw

I’ll miss you — yeet