#(by this I mean getting sexually harassed)
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It’s important to express yourself.
#han rambles#yes my vans are on their last legs#I will wear them until they’re literally falling apart#had a lovely lunch with a friend#and then had the beautiful experience of being female presenting on public transit#(by this I mean getting sexually harassed)
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I don’t think you didn’t ‘like’ Brain so much as you weren’t really sure what to do with the character, especially since he wasn’t utilized very much. I think now that you’re writing one you’re liking him more!
Coulda sworn I responded to this earlier but ANYWAY
I think you make a great point actually, writing about him has definitely led me into a better perspective of him and a better understanding of his character as well
Also I think part of my initial hatred was because I got into Top Cat through the 2011 movie where he's very flanderized and just played for jokes and literally just 'the dumb one', once I actually got my hands on the series I realized my horrid mistake and now he's my liddol scrunkly precious little baby boy my little lad i wanna give him scritchies so BAD AAUUUUUGH
#i need them all to be real NAOW#top cat#top cat 1961#brain top cat#my BOY#my LAD#i desperately wish he got a full episode about him#i mean yeah there's BHC but I'd rather not watch him get assaulted and sexually harassed by Kitty Glitter#fuck Kitty Glitter fr beats her up#he did slay in that belly dancer outfit fr though#Gay Ass Cat™ /very affectionate#whenever ppl write a TC fic they always either flanderize him or pay zero attention to him and I would like to have a word with these people#and his LAUGH#HIS SILLY LITTLE GIGGLE#FUCK OMG HE'S SO FUCKING CUTE I'M GUNNA STRANGLE SOMEBODY
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I’m seeing a theme amongst the series I focus on
A theme of “can’t touch my love interest”
Mo O’Brien: “Damn Agnes, that sounds rough. I had it the same for a while, Bob and I couldn’t even sleep in the same bed until I got this convenient MacGuffin”
Mhari Murphy Grey: “Same here, it wasn’t quite so bad for me but we still had to be careful until the America thing happened.”
Agnes Montague: “Didn’t get that far. I kissed him and his face came off. Too embarrassed to call him again, I think he thinks I’m dead. Then there was Jude, who always melted.”
Charlotte ‘Chuck’ Charles: “I’ve gotten good results from plastic wrap…?”
Cassie Brewer/Agent First: “Agnes, don’t you think you should have…warned him about that? If you knew it could happen? Alex couldn’t really have hurt me but at least he checked first. What’s the Uruk phrase? Intended consent?”
Mo: “Informed. Informed consent.”
Agnes: “Look it was the heat of the moment okay”
Archivist Julie: *was not invited to brunch because everyone else is thoroughly disturbed by her*
#this is dumb and they would not say that but I had to get it out#nobody is passing the bechedel test here but the whole conversation is about partners so I’m not bothered#Ramona would have come along but the deep ones are legging it so she had to cancel#I like that this implies Agnes has cross-setting friends lol#the laundry files#the magnus archives#pushing daisies#I’m not tagging Julie’s setting it’s better this way trust me#I think Thomas would have loved hearing about the white violin tho#Cassie and Mhari aren’t friends but they get along for Mo’s sake#not just bc Mhari hates alex i rather think she spent enough time dealing with creepy tech bros that Cassie’s casual slurs#Annoy her. Stop calling people Uruk Cassie it means ‘ugly subhuman slaves to be’ Cassie#While Cassie is like ‘so your response to me getting sexually harassed was to tell my boyfriend#to ‘not let me throw a snit over it’ huh?Tell me why I shouldn’t whip out the parrying dagger right now#then their drinks start boiling and they both shut up#agnes montague#chuck charles#Julie is so hardcore even the lightless flame would be afraid
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this might be a hot take... but if you care about disavowing media made by bad people out of fear of looking like a bad person yourself more than you care about actually doing good things... you might have your priorities (and your morals) screwed up a bit :/
(see my tags for more of my thoughts on this topic! please try to avoid making make bad-faith assumptions about what i mean!)
#melonposting#there is a good case for not wanting to associate with something on account of the creator being harmful. sure whatever#but people have talked at length about the sort of moral ocd that it promotes when that idea is fervently preached and enforced#i don't know about you but i think there's a big difference between#a) not wanting people to associate with something because the media itself spouts harmful rhetoric#and because its bigoted creator both benefits from people engaging with the books and is idolized by many of the books' fans#and b) not wanting people to vocally enjoy ANYTHING made by ANYONE who's held any harmful ideology at any point#because doing so 'inherently' supports and spreads those harmful ideologies#it's true that you cannot separate the art from the artist#but good people can make bad art and bad people can make good art. artistic talent is not inherently correlated with the artist's morals#the goodness/badness of a person CAN seep into the art they make. and it often does. and that can affect one's enjoyment of it#but even then there's nuance to be had on how to deal with it#like my hero academia for example. when i started watching it in middle school i didn't know how misogynistic it would be#of course i ended up seeing it in the show (and god it's so misogynistic)#and i ended up learning that the 'joke' sexual-harasser character is a self-insert for the creator#which of course i could never get behind. the creator is undeniably a horrible guy#at the same time though the show means a lot to me and i've gained a lot from watching it#i won't elaborate here on how but believe me it isn't superficial. if you want to ask me about it i'd be happy to share#i can hold both in my mind. the disgust and the enjoyment. i don't think those have to be mutually exclusive#of course not everyone is like that; you could immediately stop liking the show on discovering the gross stuff. and that's your prerogative#i don't know... i agree with the values behind avoiding media made by people known to have moral failings#and in some cases (like harry potter and jkr) i fully endorse the values and the practice. but such cases are very specific#but in most cases i fear the practice is misguided and unnuanced and ultimately unhelpful in fulfilling one's values#it is largely a philosophical matter: about how an individual regards their moral standing in the context of themselves and other people#which is important to discuss - especially in our globalized internet age! speaking of which feel free to disagree with me#if you want to have a civil discussion i'm more than open to it#but no matter how important this matter... there are way more important ones in the world. especially right now#calling out people who watch a youtuber who said something bigoted 5 years ago does little to stop that bigotry overall#just have good morals and practice them! support oppressed people! be thoughtful and understanding and compassionate!#callouts and dni lists rarely make for impactful advocacy!!!
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man like i loved macdennis and i still do but the obnoxiousness of some shippers has put a sour taste in my mouth like i get people want to see the ship they like be Real And Canon On TV but it's getting weird and reeks of entitlement and not being able to see past your gay ship being gay. and tbh the idea of macdennis going canon doesn't excite me as much anymore because i just know if it did happen people are not going to know how to fucking act and make it weird!!! glob is fucking weird btw don't do that. i know ship and the potential of canon can be exciting but i need people to step out of their macdennis echo chamber and think about the way they talk about these real life men. like part of me doesn't want on screen, undeniable macdennis at this point because of the way people treat rob and glenn as dolls and extensions of their characters i KNOW people are going to be fucking weird if they get content like that
#this is more about sunnytwt so not a vague btw#like maybe they wont give a shit and do macdennis anyway but since that is completely hypothetical#i don't actually think rob and glenn owe us any kind of on screen relationship/affection for the sake of the greater good#of gay representation or whatever#because people are so fucking weird and fetishist about glob like they're not real men with wives and children#it's not about being obnoxious on twitter at this point...like it's homophobia and fetishization!!! harassment!#so many fucking mlm gay shippers or whatever don't actually know how to behave when it comes to the idea#of men actually being queer and being together#because their only experience of it is from reading ship fanfic or whatever#yeah im getting mean with it. be normal about queer men and mens affection and friendship#and stop treating real people like characters and feeling entitled to their sexualities
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no yeah i love when tumblr doesn’t let me edit a post i reblogged. definitely won’t drive me crazy that i missed a word in the tags and it changes the meaning of the sentence
no yeah tumblr is such a cool and very functional app :)
#‘if you don’t’ and ‘if you do’ mean very different things#while i of course feel like i am going to die when my partner and i are fucking (bc she is relentless and sadistic)#i actually meant that if she doesn’t fuck me asap i will die. because we don’t get a singular moment alone#because we live in a fucking hellhole of a house where our downstairs neighbors can hear us 24/7 apparently. which is horrific to think-#about lolololol i’ve literally been sexually harassed by one of our neighbors downstairs who’s a felon and chronic angry alcoholic#and the only time we get to fuck is when we dogsit for my mom a few times a month. 😅#ANYWAY I HATE THIS APP ONLY BEING HALF FUNCTIONAL#h.txt
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It’s possible to criticize something primarily enjoyed by women without being misogynistic and also just because something is primarily enjoyed by women that doesn’t make it above criticism. Especially when most of the people giving in depth, valid, well thought out critiques. Are also. Women. It doesn’t matter that things like Twilight or true crime or Taylor Swift (damn the three T’s if you will) ect. have a lot of female fans, people are still allowed to call out the harm they’ve caused and they aren’t inherently misogynistic for doing so. This isn’t about quality or whether something is worth enjoying or not, this is about the way these things impact other people in real life and those things should be acknowledged.
#the fact that women making these critiques often get accused of#internalized misogyny or being a ‘pick me’ or trying to appease men#is a whole other issue#I’m tired of seeing people defend genuinely harmful things with ‘oh so women can’t enjoy ANYTHING’#like that defense does not hold up when other real life people are being harmed.#I understand the whole thing of womens’ interests often being mocked and belittled#but that doesn’t mean you get to spread misinformation pry into people’s private lives sexually harass actual humans beings and continue to#perpetuate racist stereotypes#those things are wrong no matter what#your fandom and your hobby is not more important than the lives of real people
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wow some people are assholes
#(some dude tried to get handsy with me in the train)#i mean sexually harassing people on trains is already definitely asshole behavior. thinking it's funny when the person you're harassing#tells you in no uncertain terms that they want nothing to do with you and yes they are absolutely sure that they don't want to fuck you?#clearly asshole behavior.#doing all this at SIX AM? what is WRONG with you !!! i got four hours of sleep and then you pull that shit !! bitch make an appointment and#come back tomorrow !#also still can't believe he asked me where i was going and actually expected me to answer like bitch why the fuck would i tell you that#anyway. whatever. he didn't actually end up touching me and i'm safely home i'm just pissed off
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Arrogant Kenobists like you drove Karen Travis out of Lucasfilm because you couldn’t stand hearing the truth about your precious Mary Suetopia, the Jedi Order. You don’t deserve to call yourself people, much less Star Wars fans!
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I should block her. I really should block her.
….fuck it.
One: It’s Karen Traviss, with two S’s at the end. If you’re going to put a writer up on a (imho completely undeserved) pedestal, you might as well spell her damn name right.
Two: Karen Traviss was not driven out of Lucasfilm. She quit, because George Lucas decided to take Mandalorian culture and clone culture in a different direction that what she’d written in her novels and she was throwing a tantrum to try and change his mind.
Three: Mary Suetopia is such an antiquated term that TvTropes merged its page under plain Utopia years ago.
Four: AllTheTropes still has a Mary Suetopia page, and notably, the Jedi Order is not on it, but Traviss’s Mandalorian society is. This is because the Jedi Order does have a few flaws that make it feel like a natural, interesting society in Lucas’s films, while Traviss makes her Mandalorian culture so perfect, upstanding, and idealistic that it becomes uninteresting. And aren’t you the one who’s always blathering about perfect, heroic characters being uninteresting, Domina?
Five: And on that note, aren’t you the one calling yourself a Lucas purist on your Ao3 account? That would be as utterly nonsensical as if I were to say, “oh, I’m a Tolkien purist and I think Rings of Power is the most faithful adaptation I’ve ever seen of the Silmarillion, which I have totally read and understood.” Karen Traviss is not George Lucas; saying that her stories supersede George’s canonical vision necessarily makes you not a Star Wars purist.
And lastly: I meant it when I said to find something else to do with your time, Domina. If you can’t find work or a boyfriend, try a physical hobby! I like knitting and cross stitch, myself; maybe you could try crochet? Or macrame?
#“anon” asks#tragicfantasy-girl#good. fucking. grief.#Karen Traviss#PLEASE do no get into discourse about her books on this post#I didn’t care for them when I read them#They were fairly boring#Kal Skirata named one of his sons “soulless” and Domina likely thinks he was a perfect father#while she lambasts Obi-Wan Kenobi as abusive for trying to verbally discipline Anakin for sexually harassing a Senator#“Mary Suetopia”#y’know for someone who hates “Mary Sues” as much as tragicfantasy-girl claims#most of her approved characters seem to fit that description#You keep using that term Domina!#I do not think it means what you think it means!#Also no insult meant to Rings of Power fans#unlike some people I understand the transformative nature of adaptation
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had a conversation about gym class with my friend who I went to school with today - it was depressing but also nice to hear that her experience with it (at that particular school) was just as bad as mine.
I don't think the way my school treated gym class was entirely normal tbh. it was completely different to the school I went to after, anyway. and everyone I talked to there only knew gym class to be a pretty fun, lighthearted thing. at my old school it was only about achievement, you had to be perfect, if not you were usually yelled at. and if you couldn't participate because you were feeling a bit ill (but not enough to stay home from school) you were ridiculed and/or insulted in front of the whole class. this happened with every gym teacher we had over the whole 9 years there.
it felt like two hours of punishment, there was nothing good about it. and it made at least the both of us feel like any kind of exercise/sport, especially in a group setting, was terrifying - for years after. even my much more positive experience at the other school I went to didn't make that go away.
#maybe my school really just sucked#I mean I already know it did. but maybe it did in even more ways than I thought#maybe it's a Gymnasium thing. idk. any Germans please feel free to comment if gym class at your school was like this#and it wasn't just because we were bad at sports or anything. I got very good grades in gym class at the other school. and my friend does a#ton of different sports now and everything#I remember there was a girl in my class who got a 1 (the best grade) in every other class and a 4 (out of 6) in gym class. and the teacher#was so fucking awful and gleeful about it. he made fun of her so much.#I'm pretty sure I was about to get a 6 in gym class right before I dropped out - and that definitely played a part tbh. I just couldn't#spend one more second with that gym teacher. he was horrible and gross and mean (and sexually harassed girls at another school! but of#course he was still allowed to teach at our school!! ľ#anyway. gym class was the worst part of my (already not great) life from 11 to 19 so I hope all my old gym teachers break both their legs :)#except one. he was really nice to us and didn't do any of the stuff the others did. but we only had him for a year in between all the other#ones so it wasn't enough :(#like one of our (female!!) teachers would loudly make fun of girls who said they couldn't participate because they were on their period and#in too much pain.#in front of everyone. when we were like 13.#I hate that woman more than any of the others.#lol it's funny how like half of my issues are because of my parents and the other half is because of that fucking school#I will never forgive my mother for forcing me to go there and never letting me change schools even though I asked to for 8 fucking years#personal
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by the way. i went to see barbie today and it was great because im off my meds and running on 3 hours of sleep so every joke is extra funny and every even slightly emotional moment made me cry. but whenever there was like a lull in the film and my mind would wander i just sat there thinking about how violet wine makes no goddamn sense like it just does not make any goddamn sense. i have always since my first read thought that violet wine makes no goddamn sense but for some reason today its hitting me like a goddamn truck
#if i remember the sadeas-with-a-cup-of-violet-wine scene right theres steam coming out of the glass#which is even worse its drunk WARM????? WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!#if navani is in fact drinking a glass of violet with her feasts is her hitting on dalinar and not taking no for an answer#is that better because it means she normally wouldnt do that and shes just living her life free of inhibitions?#or is it worse because it means dalinar is getting sexually harassed by a drunk woman which is like textbook worst situations to be in#im sorry i keep on talking about this my brain is like stuck on this#luke.txt
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Proshippers continue to be dumb as fuck
#‘what do you mean this random antiship flag is anti bullying?? that’s all antiship is?’#like no it fucking isnt get your shit together and learn how to fucking read#99% of antis dont fucking harass people#at least in the circles I’ve been in or around#God it annoys me so fucking much how much they’ll blatantly ignore what antis are saying to point at the few bad ones#all the while pretending no proshipper has ever harassed anyone when I’ve been sent fuvking death threats by them#for saying I think writing stuff sexualizing characters that are clearly depicted is minors for the purpose of getting off to is wrong#x.txt
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