#(Advice

[promptcorner]

Beans, dudes, just post and talk about the shit you love— no need to overthink about algorithms and shit!

Im sorry but it is so funny how people outside of tumblr view us. Like why are the tiktokers treating tumblr like some professional ass website you need to do extensive prep before you begin posting on. And the follower farming advice is so fucking funny to me when this is the website where people actively hate getting new followers

[thatsbelievable]

[hellothisisangle]

i am BEGGING pLEAse would you be so kind to post the speedpaint/process/tut on how you did that gorgeous portrait of cae in ur latest post 😭🙏 I'm doing an art study on my fav artists and I can't wrap my head around how you do your arts. THANK YOU IDOL 🙏

Sure! 99% of my timelapses end up on TikTok because I basically use it as a video editor, then I’ll try to cross post them on insta and youtube

Link: https://youtube.com/shorts/nySUIBpdxi0?si=7iwq4m-QvQBB6hq0

Nowadays, I start with a pale blue for his skin to make that sort of midnight-tone come through. I’ve also been playing around a lot with overlays- like lighting color burn and dodge, and adding paper texture on top. All the little lines are individually drawn. Still hate rendering hair, that hasn’t changed. Also I’m not sure if anyone has noticed, but I drew one good set of horns 6 months back and I’ve been reusing them ever since 😅

[philosophybits]

Kindly receive those who are willing to give good advice; but not those who upon every occasion are eager to flatter. For the former truly see what is advantageous; but the latter consider only the opinions of their superiors, and imitate the shadows of bodies by nodding assent to what they say.

Epictetus, Fragments

[skubic]

"Holding a grudge against someone is like drinking poison and expecting them to get sick"

- B. Shoesmith

[honeytonedhottie]

ehmm.. hie.. sis... i don't really know how to frame this question i have because.. u see .. I am not really a girl but.. I wish (desperately) I was born one .. unfortunately, I can't even indulge into feminine things in real life but dearly I wish I would atleast feel the femininity in my heart and I don't know I can achieve that.. i mean.. if u understand what I really mean.. but I hope u get it... ohh and your posts are really something.. keep up the good work sis..

hey angel 💖 before i continue i just wanted to tell u that ur so valid and everything u feel matters and thank you for trusting me and sending me this ask 🫶🏽.

EMBRACING UR FEMININTY (FOR YOU) ;

🍦 make a playlist with all the songs that make u feel pretty and dreamy

🍦 if no one goes thru ur phone/journal, write letters to the girl in u. call urself by the name that u love and immerse urself in it

🍦 moisturize ur hands, putting on chapstick. if u can, put on clear nail polish and if u cant just imagine/pretend

🍦 fill ur pinterest w ur dream outfits, aesthetics etc

🍦 and lastly be nice to yourself, talk kindly to yourself cuz u deserve to feel lovely and sweet and feminine

sending you the biggest virtual hug and all the girliness ur heart desires, ily sis 💋💕

[marsha-landlord]

Marsha you are breaking so many laws (ignoring the murder cos it was probably justified) somebody is gonna call the DAs office or sue u at some point just sayin girlie

I will cross that bridge when I come to it.

[preservationofnormalcy]

You know, that’s a good thing to keep in mind. It’s not super likely - Redcaps as a group are rare in the USA due to some disagreements between the Old Courts and the North American Seelie Court chairfae Jack B Nimble, but it’s worth looking at.

However, also keep in mind that the Redcap’s ability to handle iron makes them outcasts in some Fae circles, depending on the Court politics. They’re often exploited for this ability for the same reason.

I’ve never met a Redcap, but I hear they took to the goth clubs pretty hard, on account of the big stompy boots.

[thinkpink212]

Something I’ve started to repeat to myself is the quote “The universe requires nothing of you.”

A warning against entitlement, expectation, or the illusion that life owes us anything. Nature does not promise fairness. The world isn’t waiting for us to succeed, to be happy, or to feel fulfilled. It just is. As cold as it can feel, it can also feel freeing, depending on how you look at it. No one is coming to save you. Purpose is something you create, not something guaranteed. Comfort, meaning, love — all must be cultivated intentionally. It’s a humbling and liberating statement. If the universe requires nothing of you, you’re free to shape your existence however you choose.

[thatsbelievable]

[itsaspectrumcomic]

Hi, I'm Victor.

Um. So I've been following the autism and ADHD tag lately. I've found my personal problems very relatable with all the other people here. At school, I'm very quiet and the parents have been reported that I'm extremely silent by my teachers to my parents. ( People assume I'm arrogant and reserved, I'm really not). I don't know how to express my self, at all. I have burn outside for no reason, and sometimes I feel like I'm not real or fall apart. I just feel. Detached.

Now, I don't know if I'm mentally disabled. But if I am I want to take steps and try what best for me. I've been trying to get my parents to take me to a counselor or doctor to see if I have... anything. But they are convinced I'm normal, since the doctor at my birth told them I was. They I want to convince them that I'm a retard for attention just like " the other kids do nowadays". I find myself helpless ,and alone. I just don't know what to do.

Any tip?

Hi Victor! I'm sorry your parents aren't being very understanding 😔

If you relate to a lot of autistic or ADHD traits, firstly I want to say you are very welcome to consider yourself part of the community even if you're unable to access a diagnosis right now. Self diagnosis is valid ❤️

Something that helped me when I was first questioning my own neurodivergence was joining discussions online (or just lurking) on places like r/autism on Reddit and discord communities, and following neurodivergent creators on Tumblr and Instagram. It made me feel less alone to know I wasn't the only person feeling that way. Recently I've been watching @candy.courn, @iinsidemyhead_ and @trevorcarroll on Instagram if you're looking for somewhere to start :)

Have you tried showing your parents resources about neurodivergence, or showing them the listed traits and comparing them to your own? Examples from specific events in your life may help them understand. I've found the National Autistic Society website helpful as it has information, articles and videos from the experiences of other autistic people.

You could also try showing them comics you relate to (mine or any others) to help describe your experiences.

Autism has a genetic component, which can often mean if a child is autistic there's a likelihood that at least one of their parents are as well. This can make it extra difficult to convince them since they've likely gone through their whole life undiagnosed and assumed everyone feels the same as them, so when you come to them with your own autistic traits they assume everyone else has them too which means it can't be autism...right?

I've had lots of discussions with my mum about this and although she was resistant at first, she did eventually start to understand and realised that she's probably neurodivergent as well 😊

If convincing your parents isn't possible at the moment, are there any counsellors or teachers at school you feel you can talk to? They may be able to support you themselves or direct you to more local resources without you having to go through your parents.

Just to add, you mentioned sometimes feeling detached or not real, which to me sounds a lot like dissociation. I usually get that in response to being very anxious. When you feel that way, it might help to use grounding techniques - something that helps me is wrapping myself up really tight in a blanket or squeezing a fidget or a toy. There are lots of others as well like doing a body scan or the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method, but I'll let you research those because I realise this is becoming a bit long 😅

Anyway, I hope I've been able to help a little. You are not alone ❤️

[onehundredwishesss]

Reasons why you have a low self-esteem:

• You don't know who you are

• You don't know what you want

• You don't have any hobbies

• You don't learn new skills

• You don't get out of your comfortzone

• You depend your happiness on others

• You don't improve your appearance

• You don't do any physical activity

• You don't work on your mindset

• You are surrounded with the wrong people

[honeytonedhottie]

How many self concept affirmations you use ? What are those affirmations ? Do you listen to any sons to level up your self concept ?

i dont count the amount of self concept affirmations that i use, i do self concept work in the morning. so i'll either listen to self concept affirmation tapes (i record my own voice rampaging on the parrot app and then i just listen to that looped in the morning) or i'll just be talking in my mind like "omg im being bombarded by my manifestations im so powerful". some things that i LOVE to say are

🎀 the world is my oyster and reality is my playground

🎀 i am THEE best at literally everything, i am THEE most beautiful girl in the whole planet (etc, whatever u want just say that ur the most _)

i love to talk about myself in every aspect when im working on self concept like, in relation to my manifesting abilities, my beauty, my intelligence, my talents, my love life... so depending on what im focusing on i'll lean into it, etc etc so just say whatever u want as long as it aligns with what u want for yourself. if u dont know where to start u can find self concept rampages or affirmation tapes on youtube and take what resonates! 🌟💕

[angstandhappiness]

Nothing special, for mine. Just the generic one.

This website is too mobile focused these days. Reblog and tell me what your desktop/laptop background is.

[marsha-landlord]

Thoughts on cannibalism? Could b a good disposal method

I am conducting research into cannibalism at the moment.

I am a vegetarian but I guess it does not count if it is Human meat.