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Things you wish you knew in your early 20's:

• You're still young and you have time

• Don't let anyone put pressure on you

• Avoid marriage and children until you're really ready for it

• At some point you're responsible of your own thoughts and actions

• Start working out and level up your appearance

• Ask yourself if this friendship is good for you

• Don't pressure yourself to get into a relationship

• Educate yourself, learn a new skill and get a hobby

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Signs you're not moved on yet, even though you think you do:

• You keep on thinking about them (especially negative things about them)

• You start talking to someone else in a short amount of time

• You don't take your time reflecting about the situation (what went wrong, what you've learned about this)

• You still follow them on social media or you have their number

• You look for them in everyone else

• You listen to music that reminds you of them

• You haven't deleted old photos yet

• You're afraid of seeing them with someone else

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What is currently happening in Indonesia:

• A lot of Indonesians are protesting against rising unemployment, rising cost of food and education, higher taxes and a new housing allowance for parliament members that are 10 times higher than the minimum wage in Indonesia.

• Affan Kurniawan was a delivery driver who got killed by police. He got ran over by an armoured police vehicle. He wasn't participating in the protest, he was trying to deliver a food order.

• A lot of Indonesians are speaking up about the issues on different social media platforms, but they got censored and restricted by the government.

• Please like, comment and repost this to increase awareness about the current issues in Indonesia.

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How to never feel bad about your body ever again

• Start working out: walking, or doing pilates, or going to the gym... you'll always feel better afterwards.

• Take care of your hygiene: Shower regularly, take yourself to a sauna or a hammam once in a while, use body creme, body oil and other body products. Get your body shaved or waxed if you want to.

• Explore yourself: Get to know what you like and don't like, don't be shy to look at yourself without clothes on. You deserve to get to know yourself in an intimate way, without feeling guilty.

• Be picky about your clothes: Buy clothes that match your body size, skin color and that make you feel good, inside the house as well. Don't feel bad to spoil yourself.

• Be picky about the men you date and who you're intimate with.

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don’t let anyone tell you different.

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Things you shouldn't think about

• What people think of you

• What your crush or partner is doing

• What the future would look like

• Worst cases scenarios

• Misinformation that people spread about you

• Past relationships

• People that are no longer in your life

• Past versions of you

• Things that people did to you in the past

• Embarrassing moments of you

• Which results you'll have on your test

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privacy is the last true luxury. to be able to live your life as you choose without having everyone comment on it or know about it.

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How to NOT lose your job because of social media:

• Hide your work badge

• Don't show where the money comes from

• Hide personal information of your coworkers

• Hide personal information of your clients

• Hide sensitive information of your company

• Don't film your workplace, or places that can be easily recognized.

• Don't talk bad about your job

• Don't talk bad about your coworkers

• Don't talk bad about your company

• Don't post too much personal information about yourself

• Ask yourself what your manager would react if you post some type of content

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These type of people will make you feel ugly and bitter (avoid them at all cost)

• They play the victim all the time

• They don't recognize their own mistakes

• They like talking bad behind other's back

• They don't take responsibility of their actions

• They don't like you for who you are, but what you can do for them

• They talk to you just to spread more personal information about you to others

• They make you feel worse about yourself

• They make you feel excluded from their circle

• They don't want to improve themselves

• They project their insecurities onto you

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How to shut up your brain

• Focus on your breathing, what you see, what your hear and what you feel

• Do something with your hands like colouring, knitting, drawing or playing an instrument

• Focus more on creating something on social media instead of consuming content

• Take a step back from ragebait content

• Take a step back from people who don't make you feel good or who makes you overthink a lot

• Reflect on what kind of food you eat and move your body regularly

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Is it possible to live a happy average life?

• It really depends on how you describe 'average'

• working a 9-5 job is average for me, but it creates routine and stability which makes me happy

• There is not only rich in money, but there is also rich in experiences, rich in relationships and I value them more than money.

• I desire to have a lot of money, but I'll also be fine if I have a normal amount of money, as long as I can pay my bills, do my own things and not have to overthink about money.

• I don't necessary buy clothes from luxury brands, I buy clothes with good quality, clothes that match my body type and my skintone.

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maybe growing up is just becoming who you were at 14 again but learning how to love her this time

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Signs you're not ready to be a mom yet (it's for your own good)

• You're not ready to take responsiblity of your child (mentally, physically and financially)

• You're not ready to make time and energy for your child

• You're not ready to prioritize your child's wants and needs

• Your relationship with your partner is inconsistent

• You're afraid you don't have a good support system who will take care of your child

• You're afraid your child will have a different mindset, experiences and goals than you.

• You don't want your child to look and act like your partner

• You think a child will fix all of your problems

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How to stay healthy and hot while having a boyfriend (boyfriend air is real)

• Take care of your appearance: Especially the basics like hair, eyebrows, lips and nails.

• Take care of your skin: get to know your skin better and find some skin- and bodycare products that matches your skin and skintone.

• Eat healthy food: Make time to cook healthy meals for yourself and enjoy some delicious meals with your boyfriend. Balance it out.

• Move your body regularly: Take a walk, go for a small workout at home, or show up to the gym. That way you'll feel much confident in your body and in your relationship.

• Prioritize yourself: Take some rest, pursue your hobbies, do something outside of your relationship.

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