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Fictofamilial
[PT: Fictofamilial]
Fictofamilial, is a Familial orientation and an umbrella term on the afamilial spectrum for anyone who experiences exclusive Familial attraction towards fictional characters, a general type of fictional characters, or whose Familiality is influenced by fictional characters.
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[Tag] @radiomogai & @liom-archive
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sugawhaaa · 2 months ago
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WOOYOUNG X READER
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BRANCHES
Chap+er On€::
💉•{C@rdB0@rD}•💉
Warnings//genre:: DRUGS, mental disorders, violence, needles, suicide, alcoholism, cursing
Pairing:: patient!Wooyoung x fem!bodied!reader
A/N:: this was inspired by @no1likenas on janitor.ai! I actually love this so much and it might be a long serious but I have the attention span of a toddler so idk also anyone wanna be tagged in the next part???
Atz masterlist:: 💊
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Today is your first official day as a nurse at this asylum. The past few days were all introductions and getting familiar with the building and routine of the system. However, you had a run-in with one of the patients yesterday. He had somehow escaped from his room and was on a run for it. He walked right into you and you both stumbled over but he quickly got back up and continued to run. You stood there unsure what to do.
Another nurse passed you chasing down the man with a syringe containing a familiar liquid. Based on the needle itself and the color and consistency of the liquid you assumed it was some kind of sedation injection. You knew that this situation didn't involve you and you shouldn't get involved.
You were later informed that the man was named Wooyoung and he had a record of breaking loose, being violent, and getting sedated. He had these theories in his head that the nurses were trying to slowly kill him off with the drugs they were giving and injecting into him. Staff and doctors believed he had a very strong case of delusional disorder, most likely persecutor, and perhaps something else, though Wooyoung was nearly impossible to test. Any equipment or suspicious questions would set Wooyoung off and he'd become resilient in sharing anything, or he'd plainly lie.
In his teenage years, he was diagnosed with an anger disorder but the specific type switched between doctors. Some said he had a conduct disorder whereas others said it was more likely oppositional defiant disorder. He was on a mix of pills, switching between all kinds along with battling depression and childhood trauma. When he hit the age of 19, he had a psychotic breakdown and murdered his father and siblings. He was unable to kill his mother because of his emotional attachment but she committed suicide not long after the accident.
Wooyoung was on a run from the police for a while but it took only a few weeks for the police to find him. Ever since, he's been in mental institutions and asylums. His final placement is here, though if things don't improve he may be sent to a higher leveled asylum under the same branch.
You close the folder containing all of such information about Wooyoung.
"So, will you take on the task of treating Jung Wooyoung?" Your new boss, Seonghwa, looks up at you through his glasses on the other side of his desk. "I'm aware you were assigned to other patients previously but I believe, based on your record as well as his, you will be able to...handle, wooyoung better than others," he explains, his gloved hands resting on the desk. You take a deep breath as you consider his offer. "You have until tomorrow at 3 pm to decide. I won't force you to take on Wooyoung but I heavily encourage it," he nods his head and you look up at him, determined.
"I'll take him. Will he be my only patient?" You ask as you look back at his file.
"Yes. Wooyoung requires an outrageous amount of attention, especially if he caters to you," Seonghwa explains, "but your pay will remain the same," he explains. After some paperwork and legal talk, Seonghwa takes you to meet Wooyoung in his room, though his room looks more like a cell. Numerous locks and pins need to be entered in in order to open the door.
Once the heavy door swings open your eyes fall upon Wooyoung wearing a whiteout outfit as he lays on his bed, throwing a bouncy ball at the wall and back into his hand repetitively as he lays back on his bed, head draping down the side. "He likes to play with those, though they are rather hard so be careful," Seonghwa states calmly.
"I like them because it's the only shit you fucking give me!" Wooyoung sits up and throws the ball at Seonghwa's head, though he excellently dodges the throw.
"Wooyoung, this is Y/N, she will be your new nurse," Seonghwa gestures to you and suddenly you feel like you're looking at a dart and you're his target. Wooyoung's eyes scratch up and down your body and you can't tell if he's eyeing up prey or simply looking at you.
"Okay," Wooyoung scoffs, laying back down; this time his head rests against the pillow.
"Well that went well..." Seonghwa sighs and Wooyoung instantly sits back up.
"Stop treating me like an animal!" He barks, jaw clenched.
"My apologies," Seonghwa bows his head and Wooyoung stifles and angry growl in his throat.
"Look at you, hiding in the doorway because you don't know when I might snap and just go...savage," Wooyoung rises to his feet, long black hair dangling in his eyes. "Stop poking a stick at a feral beast and fucking shoot it," Wooyoung's voice is rough and angry, rage built up inside him. Seonghwa then closes the door.
"He's in a foul mood today," he explains as he clips in some of the locks. "If it makes you feel better there is a window you can watch him through but he can't see you there," he explains, "if you'd like to see his natural behaviors and such, it is available," Seonghwa then carries on with his business and you watch the ball on the floor roll with the wind of Seonghwa's movement. You crouch down, picking up the rubbery and nostalgic toy before turning back to look at his door. You considered giving it back to him but you worried that he would think you're treating him like a dumb dog.
Instead, you make your way to the room Seonghwa mentioned. It has all the information about Wooyoung, his medications, and the codes for his locks in there as well as the window. You sit down at the desk and look at the array of bottles of medication laid out and the syringes within arms reach on the wall. You sigh softly and browse through the names of his medications.
As you peacefully read there's a loud bang on the glass, startling you. You drop one of the bottles on the floor. As you go to pick it up Wooyoung begins to lick the glass, trailing his tongue along the entirety of the glass, creating a long streak of saliva. That's when you realize. You've bit off more than you can chew. Wooyoung really is more out of it than you thought. He then bashes on the glass again.
"I know you're watching me~" he grins as he claws at the glass. "Always watching me through that manipulative glass, too afraid to look the beast in the eye," he spits onto the glass as you go up to the glass. You see him then wind up for an aggressive kick, his boot clashing against the glass. You then hear the door open behind you and you jump to look at him.
"He's an interesting character huh?" Yeosang smiles softly before coming to stand beside you, watching Wooyoung fight the glass. "He does this sometimes. We believe it's because of his anger issues but it wouldn't surprise me if it's a behavior from his delusional disorder as well," he explains as Wooyoung shows his middle fingers to the glass, he knows someone is there so he displays all his rage.
"What exactly is his delusion?" You ask, turning to look at Yeosang. He sighs softly before looking back at Wooyoung.
"I think it'd be best if you heard him explain but I'll tell you the basis," Yeosang continues to look at Wooyoung's behaviors as he talks. "He believes we are slowly trying to kill him. "Pill by pill" in his words," he explains and your eyes widen.
"That's why he doesn't take his meds?" You ask and Yeosang nods.
"He has this belief that the government wants him dead and that's why he's here. He claims that he's heard staff talking about his death but I think he's trying to twist our words to convince himself his theories are true," He explains as Wooyoung moves to the door, pulling on it hard before kicking it and shouting some PG words. "Would you like to accompany me to give him his final meal of the day?" Yeosang smiles and you nod.
Yeosang leaves you to watch Wooyoung, make sure he doesn't hurt himself or escape somehow while Yeosang gets his dinner plate. When Yeosang returns the two of you make your way to Wooyoung's room. You open the door and take the plate from Yeosang. You see Wooyoung sitting on the center of the floor, staring at the wall.
"I've brought you dinner. I've heard you like this meal hm?" You smile and Wooyoung turns from the center of the floor to look at you.
"God I was starving," he stands up, approaching you warmly. All of that rage he executed earlier is now somehow...erased. This is the first patient you've been genuinely scared of because he's the most unpredictable bastard in the world. "Yeah, this is the best meal this shithole offers. The potatoes taste like cardboard but it reminds me of my mom's cardboard potatoes," Wooyoung takes the plate and sits back on the floor.
"Where I come from potatoes were included in almost every meal and they were always locally grown. I've never had cardboard potatoes," you chuckle and Wooyoung looks up at you, seemingly confused.
"You're not missing out much," he shrugs as he shovels some potatoes into his mouth. You look back at Yeosang who gives you a thumbs up and Wooyoung rolls his eyes before turning his back to you.
"You wouldn't let me try some?" You squat down to his level. He turns to look at you again and you can tell he's thinking hard. His jaw is clenched as he looks you up and down, eyes pausing at your breasts for a moment.
"I guess," he shrugs, handing you the plate and spoon with a rounded end and unbreakable metal. You take a scoop of the potatoes and try not to touch your lips with the spoon. Wooyoung watches you with rapt attention, his eyebrows narrowed in focus. "Taste like shit?" He smirks as you swallow the potatoes. They do really taste like cardboard....
"Kind of yeah," you chuckle, "they taste just like cardboard..." you rise to your feet again, and Wooyoung attempts to look up your skirt a little but it's just too damn long. He pouts slightly before looking up at your face. "Would you like something to drink?" You ask Wooyoung before turning to Yeosang. "What do we have to offer?" You ask him.
"We have milk, water and apple juice though I think it's expired," Yeosang replies.
"Milk or water?" You bend down to talk to Wooyoung again.
"Milk I guess," he shrugs before continuing to it his food. "Now shut up and let me eat," he turns his back to you again and you can't help but smile. You've made such progress with him already. You get some milk for him and when you return he still has his back faced to you. You set the cup beside him and head for the door. "Y/N," he says your name for the first time. You turn back to look at him.
"Yes?"
"Can I have seconds?" He holds up his empty plate and you smile. You go to the kitchen to get him some more and find the staff are actually quite friendly. You return to Wooyoung with a new plate of food and he gratefully takes it and eats again. You return to the watching room with Yeosang.
"He's never asked for seconds before, this is quite a big deal," he turns to you with his spinning chair.
"I think he likes me," you smile as you sit in the second chair, watching Wooyoung eat.
"It's a good start at least,"
To be continued
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wanderingskemetic · 5 months ago
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🦁Subtle Sekhmet Worship💊
Greatly inspired by @khaire-traveler's wonderful subtle worship series, which can be found here.
Learn self-defense, weapons included or not
Take care of your body physically to the best of your ability (shower, eat well, get a good amount of sleep, etc.)
Stand up for family members blood or otherwise and friends (keep in mind they might be in the wrong)
Take your medications, if any; take medications as needed
Practice standing up for yourself; speak your mind and assert your personal boundaries
Hold others and yourself responsible for their/your actions; apologize or make amends when possible/appropriate
Take care of a sick loved one or someone who is having a hard time
Learn about and uphold Ma'at
Make a playlist or listen to songs that remind you of her or you think she'd like
Make a collage/moodboard/pinterest board/similar collection of photos and images you associate with her, especially if some of the images are your own
Wear a piece of jewelry or other clothing item that reminds you of her
Light a candle or incense that reminds you of her (safely)
Carry a picture of her in your wallet, pocket, phone case, etc. or as a phone or computer wallpaper
Have lioness, weapon, sun, or fire imagery
Freely express your emotions in healthy ways
Light a bonfire in her honor; gather with loved ones around it or sit alone in peace
Making a list of your personal strengths and things you're proud of
Exercise a little, even if it's just stretching
Allowing yourself to express your anger and frustration; sit with and feel your feelings
Playing combat-based video games
Start your morning by stretching your muscles or doing some light exercises if you can
Learn about/research health conditions that you or your loved ones have; get a better understanding of these things
Clean anything you regularly interact with
Look into healthy coping skills for any anxiety, depression, trauma, etc. - anything that can improve your mental/emotional well-being
Support humanitarian organizations, especially medical or veteran related ones
Sunbathe
Watch sunrises and sunsets
Go on walks on sunny days
Destroy depictions of A/p/e/p this can be as simple as drawing it on a piece of paper and tearing it up
Do something hard or challenging, especially if you've been putting it off, or it needs to get done
Learning archery
Learn about your healthcare options and medical rights (HIPPA in the US)
Donate blood
I may add more to this list in the future. Suggestions are always appreciated.
Link to the Kemetic Subtle Worship Masterpost
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cipherjuice-bioexorist · 3 months ago
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ITSSSSS SHOWTIME-!!
NAMES CIPHER-JUICE! BUT PLEASE, CALL ME JUICE! or beetle. for some reason we just- started calling me beetle.
Multiverse's NUMBER ONE!!! BIOEXORIST!!
Gotta problem with the living? JUST SAY MY NAME 3 TIMES! OR DRAW MY WHEEL!
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technically, i aint a bill, so DONT CALL ME ONE!.
Basic backstory: juice always had issues. As a child he caused problems for the fun of it. Not only that, he could see beyond the 2nd dimension, he could see the stars, the favorite that he saw being Betelgeuse.. after the destruction of his home, leaving it as nothing but ash, billy is left alone. As he grew older and dropped the first name, he learned he was pretty damn good at getting rid of the living. He's not quite alive, but he's not quite dead, and he's haunted by his past mistakes. He knows what he's done. And he avoids it by being a major P.O.S! and oh man does this guy got DRAMA! Current story: after one too many job FUMBLES, He decides to lay low in a dimension. little does he know, that dimension was housing his old pal @imthebestcharacter618. Juice plays it cool and pretends like he hasn't been gone for years. pretends he and steve hadn't... well, you know. @imbackbilly HATES our man beetle, and is also salty that beetle is his daughter's favorite <3. after a argument with steve, and both sides apologizing, saying words that they.. didnt say before, Steve moves in with beetle! its just like old times. they both missed this, missed each other. but its completely platonic guys! they both swear it! beetle is just uh- a little 'sick', ya know? can a ghost get sick? Wow! Get a load of THIS GUY! finally he's dating Steve! Only took us a few trillion years! They ain't perfect, far from it, but their happy. Steve makes Beetle want to be a better man and Beetle makes Steve feel.. safe.
Fun facts about him:
🪲 Based on the Beetlejuice cartoon, with influences from the movies!
🪲 calls everyone toots or Babes, no matter your gender. WILL call you it more if he knows it bothers you
🪲 he doesn't have a set universe! Kinda just floats around, pay check to pay check
🪲 a bigger scam than Stan/j
🪲 will flirt with any and all fords. He finds it funny to make em fluster or piss them off
🪲 breaks the 4th wall for fun. He knows what you are btw.
🪲 doesn't TECHNICALLY have his own Ford. He did have a Ford he made a deal with before that Ford basically locked his ass out of that dimension.
🪲 do not let him into any kitchen it will be gone when he's done
🪲 not evil, not good either. He's just here to fuck around and have a damn good laugh.
🪲 his existence was the fault of a fever dream and @the-triangle-witch/hj
Quick rules 🐦‍⬛💊
-no nsfw. Self explanatory. Flirting and sex jokes are fine tho
-no hate speech.
-bully the character not the mod
-respect the pottery
-have fun
-respect the pottery
warnings: this blog might have triggering topics such as but not limited to;
intense paranoia/panic attacks
childhood trauma
possible cptsd?
so. much. arguing.
unresolved emotional conflicts
low self esteem
Abuse
and plenty of self loathing!
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awkward-anxiety · 2 months ago
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1x1 RP Request
Hey there! My name’s Teddy, but you can also call me Theo, Ted, or Tedster—whatever feels right! I’m 23 and looking for a long-term, detailed roleplay partner who loves angst, slow-burn romance, and deep character development just as much as I do.
I’ve been roleplaying since I was around 17, starting on Amino before moving to Discord. I took a small hiatus last year due to personal issues, but I’m back and ready to start writing again. I focus on quality over excessive length and love exploring my favorite characters in unique and compelling ways. If you enjoy in-depth storytelling, found family dynamics, and emotional intensity, we’ll probably get along great!
🐶 Bungou Stray Dogs
✨ Experienced: Dazai Osamu ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: Ranpo, Fyodor, Sigma, Chuuya, Ango, Oda, Fukuzawa, Mori 💕 Ships:
Soukoku (Dazai x Chuuya)
Fyozai (Dazai x Fyodor)
Ranpoe (Ranpo x Poe)
Decay Trio (Fyodor x Chuuya x Dazai)
Mersault (Sigma x Dazai x Fyodor x Nikolai x Chuuya)
Odango (Oda x Ango)
FukuFuku (Fukuzawa x Fukuchi)
FukuMori (Fukuzawa x Mori)
🐢 Rise of the TMNT
✨ Experienced: Donnie ⭐ Intermediate: Raph, Mikey, Leo 🔹 Beginner: — 💕 Ships: —
😈 Hazbin Hotel
✨ Experienced: Alastor ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: Vox, Lucifer 💕 Ships:
RadioApple (Alastor x Lucifer)
RadioStatic (Alastor x Vox)
AppleMedia (Alastor x Lucifer x Vox)
🚲 Stranger Things
✨ Experienced: Mike Wheeler ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: Jonathan Byers, Steve Harrington, Jim Hopper, Joyce Byers 💕 Ships:
Byler (Mike x Will)
Jopper (Joyce x Jim)
Stoncy (Steve x Jonathan x Nancy)
🎈 IT
✨ Experienced: Richie Tozier ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: — 💕 Ships:
Reddie (Richie x Eddie)
Stozier (Stan x Richie)
PolyLosers (Any mix of the Losers Club)
Stenbrough (Stan x Bill)
🕵️‍♂️ Sherlock (BBC & Moriarty the Patriot)
✨ Experienced: Sherlock Holmes (BBC & Moriarty the Patriot) ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: Mycroft (BBC), William Moriarty (Moriarty the Patriot) 💕 Ships:
Johnlock (Sherlock x John)
🛹 Sk8 the Infinity
✨ Experienced: — ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: Reki Kyan, Joe, Cherry 💕 Ships:
Renga (Reki x Langa)
CherryMacha (Cherry x Joe)
🔥 Moriarty The Patriot
✨ Experienced: Sherlock Holmes ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: William Moriarty 💕 Ships:
Sherlock x William Moriarty
🦸 MCU
✨ Experienced: Peter Parker ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: Tony Stark, Harley Keener, Stephen Strange 💕 Ships:
Parkner (Peter Parker x Harley Keener)
IronStrange (Tony Stark x Stephen Strange)
🐦 The Goldfinch
✨ Experienced: — ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: Boris Pavlikovsky 💕 Ships:
Boreo (Boris x Theo)
💊 Be More Chill
✨ Experienced: Jeremy Heere ⭐ Intermediate: Michael Mell 🔹 Beginner: — 💕 Ships:
Boyf Friends (Jeremy x Michael)
🌳 Dear Evan Hansen
✨ Experienced: Evan Hansen ⭐ Intermediate: Jared Kleinman 🔹 Beginner: — 💕 Ships:
Kleinsen (Connor x Jared)
Sincerely Three (Evan x Connor x Jared)
Treebros (Evan x Connor)
🧳 Book Of Mormon
✨ Experienced: Kevin Price ⭐ Intermediate: — 🔹 Beginner: — 💕 Ships:
McPriceley (Kevin Price x Connor McKinley)
🌈 Falsettos
✨ Experienced: Marvin ⭐ Intermediate: Jason 🔹 Beginner: — 💕 Ships:
Whizvin (Whizzer x Marvin)
📜 Hamilton
✨ Experienced: Alexander Hamilton ⭐ Intermediate: Thomas Jefferson 🔹 Beginner: John Laurens 💕 Ships:
Jamilton (Jefferson x Hamilton)
Hamilsquad (Hamilton x Laurens x Lafayette x Mulligan)
Lams (Laurens x Hamilton)
📖 Plot Ideas & AU Preferences 📖
I love character-driven narratives, emotional arcs, and unique settings! Here are a few plot ideas I’d love to explore, but I’m always open to brainstorming something new:
🌙 Post-Storyline AUs – Could be based right after the initial plot took place or even years after it took place. 
🏠 One Stayed, One Left – One character moved away while the other stayed behind. Maybe they’ve become a parent, or they’re lonely and stuck in the past.
👥 Foster Care AU – One character is almost 18, jaded and angry after being in the system too long, while the other helps them open up. (Works best as a Platonic RP TBH)
🎓 Teachers AU – They reconnect or meet as teachers in the same school.
🌲 Summer Camp Counselors – A chance meeting at a summer camp leads to something deeper. 🎭 Artist x Theater Kid – Opposites attract in an artsy way!
🌀 Group Therapy AU – They meet while working through their personal struggles.
🔄 Body-Swap AU – Chaos, hilarity, and emotional introspection!
🎓 College AU – A fresh start, new friendships, and navigating adulthood together.
⚠️ Boundaries & Triggers ⚠️ 
I love writing angst, but I do have a few limits:
🚫 No excessive gore/violence – I can handle some, but not in large amounts or suddenly.
🚫 No gun-related topics – Guns make me extremely uncomfortable.
🚫 No hospital settings – Please avoid this theme.
🚫 No car crashes – I have a major issue with this topic.
🚫 No animal abuse – Shouldn’t have to say this, but I’ve been proven otherwise.
For dark themes, there needs to be buildup – If a character struggles with something like depression or suicidal ideation, I prefer realistic character development instead of it happening randomly.
📌 RP Style & Preferences 📌
✅ I only RP canon characters – No main OCs (I allow side character OCs, but they must be discussed first).
✅ I write in third-person – I’d prefer if my partner does the same.
✅ No script-style RP – No asterisks for actions or “hfjskdj” in dialogue.
✅ Character ages must be 17+ for romance plots and 18+ for NSFW content – No exceptions.
✅ I prefer partners 18+ but am willing to RP with younger partners as long as the RP stays appropriate.
✅ I match responses but prefer semi-lit to literate – I start off with longer responses but may shorten them as we get comfortable.
📩 Interested? Let’s Chat! 📩
If any of this sounds like your vibe, DM me here or on Discord (@awkward_anxiety)! I love OOC conversations and brainstorming, so don’t be afraid to reach out. Let’s create something amazing together!
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longeyelashedtragedy · 7 months ago
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Writers Truth & Dare Ask Game:
🍓, 🍄, 🛼
finally getting around to answer these asks -- I blame my job for how long it took 😭
🍓 ⇢ how did you get into writing fanfiction? 
I'm not sure because the first story I ever wrote and completed was a fanfiction! Weirdly it was a school assignment, my third grade teacher basically asked us to write fanfic lol (we had to write a story based on the book we'd read in class). I took it in an interesting direction and realized how powerful it was to be able to create the exact thing you want to read. Pretty much everything I've ever written since age 8 has been fanfic. I think I love how you don't have to create the world building or the buyin or even in many ways a plot or anything. You can get right to what you love--the characters and/or the world. I feel weird being so unable to write original fiction but I'm more of a being invasive and nosy about people's personal lives and being endlessly curious about emotions and motivations person and less of a storyteller so it kind of makes sense.
🍄 ⇢ share a head canon for one of your favourite ships or pairings
This is in a chapter that will be published in future--I'd say about a 3rd of it is written already--but Dangerous AU Mikel's parents kind of see right through Granit? I mean, they certainly don't know the details, but they tell Mikel they don't approve of his new boyfriend, that there's something wrong about him. Mikel explodes and gets extra defensive and accuses them of being homophobic, which they point out is false--they've been pretty accepting of Mikel since Mikel came out to them. Granit also does not like his parents because Granit has disdain and distrust for any sort of parent-figure. I guess they have to accept Granit in the end, but their opinion is irrelevant to Mikel by that point.
🛼 ⇢ describe your latest wip with five emojis
omg I just finished one 😭 so here's two WIPs I've been thinking about:
🔪🔫🩸👨‍❤️‍👨🇽🇰 (we all know what this is!!!)
🇨🇾🍸💊🤫🏳️‍🌈 (in the lampardverse...)
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worthymindpsychiatry · 1 day ago
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Holistic Therapy Programs | Mind Body and Wellness Center | Psychiatrist Westchester NY
Emotional well-being isn’t a destination—it’s a journey. And like any journey, having the right guidance and support makes all the difference. Our practice is designed for individuals seeking transformative healing through evidence-based treatment, integrative care, and deeply personal connection.
Located in the heart of Tarrytown, NY, we specialize in holistic therapy programs tailored to nurture every aspect of your mental and emotional health. Our philosophy blends traditional psychiatry with mind-body wellness, allowing you to align with your highest potential and reconnect with your innate worth.
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🧠 What We Do: Whole-Person Psychiatry
We offer a wide spectrum of psychiatric and therapeutic services designed to support every stage of your healing journey. Our treatment philosophy is grounded in the belief that true healing happens when we address the mind, body, and soul as one interconnected system.
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Healing isn’t linear—and it’s not one-size-fits-all. That’s why we work as a mind body and wellness center, emphasizing the interconnection between emotional wellness, physical vitality, and spiritual growth. Whether you’re managing stress, navigating trauma, or seeking greater clarity, our work invites you to explore inner alignment and wholeness.
We hold space for both clinical precision and soulful exploration. Our treatment plans often include:
Trauma-informed care
Breathwork and grounding practices
Inner child and shadow work
Integration of altered states of consciousness
Lifestyle and nutrition coaching
Psychoeducation on neurobiology and emotional resilience
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💡 Why Choose Us?
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Healing happens in safety. Our space in Westchester, NY is designed to be warm, welcoming, and judgment-free—so you can bring your whole self to the work.
👩‍⚕️ Meet the Clinician Behind the Practice
Our founder is a double board-certified psychiatrist with years of clinical experience and a passion for transformative healing. Her work bridges science, soul, and deep human connection. She believes in guiding patients not just toward symptom relief—but toward radical self-acceptance and true emotional liberation.
Drawing from psychodynamic theory, neuroscience, and transpersonal psychology, she creates a therapeutic experience that is both grounded and expansive. Her approach empowers individuals to reclaim agency over their healing process, using both conventional and holistic methods.
🌟 Who We Serve
Whether you’re navigating a major life transition, experiencing emotional overwhelm, or seeking clarity after years of struggle, our practice is here to support you.
We specialize in treating:
Depression and Major Mood Disorders
Generalized Anxiety and Panic Attacks
PTSD and Complex Trauma
OCD and Intrusive Thought Patterns
ADHD and Executive Functioning Issues
Grief, Loss, and Emotional Burnout
Life Transitions and Existential Crisis
We work with adolescents, adults, and professionals who are ready to dive deeper into their healing and find meaning beyond their symptoms.
📍 Serving Westchester and Beyond
If you’re looking for a psychiatrist in Westchester NY, our practice offers in-person sessions in Tarrytown as well as telepsychiatry across New York State. Whether you're local or looking for virtual care, we're here to support your healing from wherever you are.
🌀 The Power of Altered States in Healing
Some of the most profound breakthroughs occur when we step outside the ordinary and access expanded states of consciousness. Using modalities like Ketamine-assisted therapy, guided visualization, and somatic integration, we support clients in exploring the deeper terrain of the psyche—where insight, release, and transformation are possible.
These therapies are not just about altered states—they’re about integrated states. We help you bring the lessons, clarity, and insight from these experiences back into your daily life.
🧭 Begin Your Journey Toward Wholeness
Our care is rooted in the belief that healing is your birthright—and that within each of us lies a deep, unshakable worth. Whether you’re new to therapy or returning after years of inner work, you’ll find a supportive home here for your growth, curiosity, and courage.
💖 In Conclusion
At WorthyMind Psychiatry, we’re more than a clinic—we’re a space for self-discovery, emotional liberation, and lasting transformation. Through a combination of psychotherapy, psychiatric expertise, and holistic therapy programs, we help you access the most powerful healer of all: the one within.
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Stages of Breast Cancer: Understanding Each Stage for Better Awareness and Treatment
Stages of Breast Cancer: Understanding Each Stage for Better Awareness and Treatment
Breast cancer is one of the most common cancers in Indian women. Early detection and timely treatment can save lives. To understand how serious the cancer is, doctors classify it into different stages.
In this blog, let us explore the stages of breast cancer and how it affects treatment and recovery. If you're in Pune and looking for expert guidance, consult Dr. Pratik Patil, an experienced Breast Cancer Specialist in Pune.
🔍 What is Cancer Staging?
Cancer staging helps doctors describe:
How big the tumour is
Whether cancer has spread to nearby lymph nodes
Whether it has spread to other parts of the body
This helps in planning the best treatment.
🩻 Stage 0: Ductal Carcinoma in Situ (DCIS)
Cancer cells are limited to the milk ducts
Non-invasive
No spread to surrounding breast tissue
Often found during routine mammograms
Treatment includes surgery and sometimes radiation
⚕️ Stage 1: Early Stage Invasive Breast Cancer
Tumour size: Up to 2 cm
Cancer may or may not have spread to nearby lymph nodes
Still considered early-stage
Treated with surgery, radiation, and sometimes chemotherapy
Early detection at this stage has very high survival rates. Book an Appointment with Dr. Pratik Patil for regular breast screening in Pune.
💊 Stage 2: Larger Tumour or Spread to Lymph Nodes
Tumour size: Between 2 cm to 5 cm
Cancer has spread to 1–3 nearby lymph nodes
More aggressive treatment needed
Combination of surgery, chemotherapy, radiation, and hormone therapy
🧬 Stage 3: Locally Advanced Breast Cancer
Tumour is larger than 5 cm
Has spread to several lymph nodes or nearby skin/chest wall
Not yet spread to distant organs
Treatment includes neoadjuvant chemotherapy (before surgery) followed by surgery and radiation
Some patients may benefit from targeted therapy or immunotherapy
This stage needs expert care from a Medical Oncologist in Pune like Dr. Patil, who customizes your treatment based on tumour biology.
⚠️ Stage 4: Metastatic Breast Cancer
Cancer has spread to distant organs such as lungs, liver, brain, or bones
Called advanced or metastatic breast cancer
Not curable but manageable with lifelong treatment
Treatment includes targeted therapy, chemotherapy, hormone therapy, and immunotherapy
Dr. Pratik Patil offers advanced treatment options like targeted therapies that help patients live longer with better quality of life.
 Importance of Early Detection
The earlier breast cancer is detected, the better the outcome. Here’s what you can do:
Perform monthly self-breast exams
Go for annual mammograms after age 40
Consult a cancer specialist if you find a lump or nipple discharge
🏥 Best Breast Cancer Care in Pune
Dr. Pratik Patil is one of the top breast cancer doctors in Pune, offering the latest treatment options and emotional support.
📍 Visit him at Jupiter Hospital, Baner 📞 Book your appointment: 9637439163 🌐 Website
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When I imagined life with teenagers, I seriously underestimated how much time I’d spend just trying to decode what they were saying (cracked? Sigma? Crash out?) and their cryptic emoji use (what does the skull mean again?): all part of the supreme effort I put into not seeming uncool. Sure, at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter if they think I’m cool — I’m their parent, not their friend — but like most parents, I still want my kids to think I’m at least a little bit “with it.” (Ironically, I probably just proved that I’m not by using that exact phrase.) Related story From Homework to Housework, Here’s What Teen Girls Like Me Think of the Tradwife Trend The truth is, part of being a teenager is skirting rules, pushing boundaries, and rolling your eyes at your parents. We did it too, remember? Now that we’re on the other side, it feels different — but it’s the same teenage attitude, just dressed in new packaging. And thanks to technology we didn’t grow up with, it’s harder than ever to understand … or interpret. Case in point: Netflix’s recent movie, Adolescence. When the film’s plot revealed that teens use seemingly innocent emojis to communicate deeper, often secret meanings, parents everywhere took notice. Emojis, those tiny expressive icons that adults typically see as harmless, can sometimes carry troubling messages among teens. And the film’s creators have said that the show itself is based on an amalgamation of real-life cases. So, are emojis and their hidden meanings indeed worth worrying about? We asked experts — and teens themselves. Why Emojis Matter Emojis aren’t just fun icons — they’re a core part of how teenagers express emotions, intentions, and hidden meanings. Teens are naturally wired to seek independence and carve out a sense of privacy, and emojis have become one of their favorite tools to do just that. They’re a quick, subtle way for teens to express themselves while keeping parents (and other adults) comfortably at arm’s length. It’s like their own shorthand: part self-expression, part social gatekeeping. The ever-changing nature of what’s cool on platforms like TikTok only accelerates this. Viral trends and memes constantly reshape what emojis mean, so just when we think we’ve figured one out, it shifts into something completely different. Teens also use emojis with layers of humor and irony, which lets them talk about sensitive or even taboo topics without spelling anything out. It’s smart and subtle — and for parents, it can feel like trying to crack a code that changes daily. “TikTok has made emoji usage a lively, meme-like language that circulates quickly and changes constantly,” Dr. Paul Daidone, Medical Director at True Self Recovery, tells SheKnows. “It’s become more ironic and performative — emojis can be employed opposite of their literal meanings, so cultural literacy trumps real comprehension.” Common Emojis with Hidden Meanings Here are some emojis that teens often use in ways many adults don’t expect: 🍃 (leaf emoji): often referencing marijuana or vaping 😮‍💨 or 😤 (exhaling face): smoking or vaping 👍 (thumbs up emoji): a sarcastic, passive-aggressive way of saying “Sure, OK.” 🥀 (wilted rose emoji): someone is being “emo” or melodramatic 💀 (skull emoji): an extreme reaction: dying of laughter or embarrassment 🛒 (shopping cart emoji): references vape cartridges 😺 (cat emoji): references female genitalia 🌽 (corn emoji): code for explicit content or pornography 💊 (pill emoji): referencing drugs or prescription misuse 🎣 (fishing pole emoji): “fishing” for compliments or attention 🍒 (cherry emoji): used with sexual connotations 🔌 (plug emoji): indicates a source or dealer for drugs 🍜 (noodle emoji): can be used to indicate nude photos (“noods” = nudes) Misinterpretation of emojis by adults can lead to confusion, missed opportunities to address serious issues, or unnecessary conflicts. It’s crucial that we strike a balance between respecting our teens’ privacy and staying on top of things enough to recognize potential warning signs. “On one hand, emojis can help teens express themselves, especially when they don’t know how to put their feelings into words. It can be a way for them to share emotions and thoughts they’re still figuring out,” Dr. Sal Raichbach, LCSW, PsyD, tells SheKnows. “But it could also be problematic — especially if they use emojis to hide or mask things they’re struggling with. Since adults might not always understand the hidden meanings behind certain emojis, it can make it harder for parents or teachers to intervene when necessary.” Should Parents Be Worried About the “Secret Language” of Emojis? Still, say our experts, teen emoji use is most likely to fall into the self-expression category. “Be informed, but not panicked,” reasons Dr. Daidone. “There are some emojis used to signal dangerous feeling or behavior, but the vast majority of teens use them either playfully or as group slang. Context is key — emojis rarely tell the whole story.” Caitlin Severin, LMFT & cofounder of CultivaTeen Roots, echoes this. “Parents need to remember that online trends are rooted in building culture and not necessarily secrecy and harm,” she reminds us. What Does Gen Z Say About Their Emoji Use? I polled members of our SheKnows Teen Council, as well as my own teen boys, to get their take on emoji slang — and whether it’s as potentially worrisome as some parents might believe. Unsurprisingly, the consensus was that adults tend to overthink it. “That’s how you can tell a show was written by adults,” quipped my 17-year-old, Cameron, referring to Adolescence and how Gen Z communication gets misinterpreted by, well, people who aren’t Gen Z. Even the star of Adolescence, 15-year-old Owen Cooper, admits the hidden meanings of emojis as referenced in the movie were not on his personal radar: “I was glad I didn’t have an idea of what was going on — the emojis and the meanings behind them. I had no clue,” he told The Hollywood Reporter. “And I don’t think my friends knew, but it’s obviously happening across the country. It’s not a made-up story.” While emojis can have alternate meanings, all of the council members we spoke to reported that most of the time, they aren’t being used for shady dealings — especially not to the degree portrayed in Adolescence. “I don’t use emojis to keep secrets from adults,” says Sophia, 16. “Although emojis can have semi-hidden meanings, I never use them to send hidden messages.” A 15-year-old council member who preferred to remain anonymous echoed this sentiment: “I think I have some emojis that are inside jokes, but not necessarily to ‘hide’ something.” A perfect example of adults misinterpreting an emoji is one we heard time and time again from nearly all of our Gen Zers: the crying emoji (😭), which has evolved far beyond its literal meaning. “If someone found what you said funny or was telling you about something funny that happened, they usually use the crying emoji,” reports 18-year-old Ajani. “Adults definitely misinterpret ‘😭,’” says Gabby, 16. “Usually, teens are using it for something funny, but adults think that it means you’re actually upset.” And don’t even get them started on the cry-laughing emoji (😂) — one of my personal favorites. “The cry-laughing emoji is just an old person thing,” says my son Coby, 15. “It’s now largely viewed as passé,” agrees 16-year-old Meera. “It doesn’t really represent how Gen Z expresses humor anymore.” The idea that emoji meanings aren’t fixed and are often layered with irony came up repeatedly. But don’t feel bad — even though our teenagers are light-years ahead of us when it comes to navigating the changing trends, sometimes even they get confused. “Certain emojis will turn pretty quickly from stuff that I can use to something overused,” says my 19-year-old, Colin. “If parents are seeing it, it’s probably already too late. It goes from something cool to the same emoji or expression being used ironically to make fun of the people who say it.” He offers up the same advice about AI: If ChatGPT has picked up on an emoji, its moment has already passed. How to Bring Up Emoji Use With Your Kids (So They’ll Actually Talk About It) Among the experts we spoke to, one piece of advice was unanimous: When questioning teens about emojis, approach is everything. “Open-ended, non-judgmental dialogues will always lead to better outcomes in conversations with teens. Try, ‘I saw something about emojis having different meanings online — what are your opinions on that?’ Or just a low-stakes question like ‘What’s your favorite emoji to use?'” advises Severin. “You can also try asking, ‘Can you help me learn more about emojis? Are there any that have ridiculous meanings?’ Respond in a light way and not out of fear or accusations, which might shut the conversation down.” Dr. Daidone also recommends open-ended questions to kickstart a conversation. “Begin from a position of curiosity and not doubt,” he says. “Ask questions like ‘What’s going on with this emoji trend?’ or ‘What is it that other people your age believe it’s about?’ to encourage discussion and not interrogate. Teenagers are more likely to be open when treated with respect.” And just as we might tell our teens to watch their tone, we also need to watch ours. “It’s important to keep the conversation light and open, so your teen doesn’t feel judged or like they need to hide things. If you ask about emoji meanings or trends, do it in a way that shows you’re genuinely interested in understanding their world, not policing it,” says Dr. Raichbach. “When they see that you’re genuinely trying to connect and understand them, they’ll be more likely to open up with you.” Here’s What We Should Actually Worry About Experts also agree that the thing we need to worry about most goes much deeper than emojis. “Behavioral challenges such as increased secrecy, withdrawal, low social engagement, and lack of interest in previously held hobbies or passions, deserve your focus more than any emoji messages,” says Severin. “If decoding emojis is the focus, I believe we are missing the point. While awareness and staying informed is absolutely crucial, I think the greater focus needs to be on helping our children feel comfortable enough to share concerning information with us,” says Lindsey Gray, cognitive behavioral expert and Head Teen Coach of The Attitude Advantage Program. “Secrecy comes in when kids feel the need to hide something due to shame, embarrassment, or an overall lack of mental, emotional, or social safety. If we can dispel the potential for those issues, then decoding becomes something we have to worry about much less.” Though Adolescence may present a worst-case scenario, and your teen probably isn’t using emojis in a nefarious way, the film’s impact on parents — and their need to check in more closely with their kids — is undeniable. “One hundred percent of people that have approached have said, ‘Thank you,’” Stephen Graham, who also stars as Eddie, the father of the accused boy, as well as being the movie’s co-writer and co-producer, told The Hollywood Reporter. “A good few dads have said, ‘It’s really made me look at myself. As soon as I finished watching it, I went into my kids room and I gave them a cuddle, and we’ve started to talk. I ask more questions.’” Source link
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When I imagined life with teenagers, I seriously underestimated how much time I’d spend just trying to decode what they were saying (cracked? Sigma? Crash out?) and their cryptic emoji use (what does the skull mean again?): all part of the supreme effort I put into not seeming uncool. Sure, at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter if they think I’m cool — I’m their parent, not their friend — but like most parents, I still want my kids to think I’m at least a little bit “with it.” (Ironically, I probably just proved that I’m not by using that exact phrase.) Related story From Homework to Housework, Here’s What Teen Girls Like Me Think of the Tradwife Trend The truth is, part of being a teenager is skirting rules, pushing boundaries, and rolling your eyes at your parents. We did it too, remember? Now that we’re on the other side, it feels different — but it’s the same teenage attitude, just dressed in new packaging. And thanks to technology we didn’t grow up with, it’s harder than ever to understand … or interpret. Case in point: Netflix’s recent movie, Adolescence. When the film’s plot revealed that teens use seemingly innocent emojis to communicate deeper, often secret meanings, parents everywhere took notice. Emojis, those tiny expressive icons that adults typically see as harmless, can sometimes carry troubling messages among teens. And the film’s creators have said that the show itself is based on an amalgamation of real-life cases. So, are emojis and their hidden meanings indeed worth worrying about? We asked experts — and teens themselves. Why Emojis Matter Emojis aren’t just fun icons — they’re a core part of how teenagers express emotions, intentions, and hidden meanings. Teens are naturally wired to seek independence and carve out a sense of privacy, and emojis have become one of their favorite tools to do just that. They’re a quick, subtle way for teens to express themselves while keeping parents (and other adults) comfortably at arm’s length. It’s like their own shorthand: part self-expression, part social gatekeeping. The ever-changing nature of what’s cool on platforms like TikTok only accelerates this. Viral trends and memes constantly reshape what emojis mean, so just when we think we’ve figured one out, it shifts into something completely different. Teens also use emojis with layers of humor and irony, which lets them talk about sensitive or even taboo topics without spelling anything out. It’s smart and subtle — and for parents, it can feel like trying to crack a code that changes daily. “TikTok has made emoji usage a lively, meme-like language that circulates quickly and changes constantly,” Dr. Paul Daidone, Medical Director at True Self Recovery, tells SheKnows. “It’s become more ironic and performative — emojis can be employed opposite of their literal meanings, so cultural literacy trumps real comprehension.” Common Emojis with Hidden Meanings Here are some emojis that teens often use in ways many adults don’t expect: 🍃 (leaf emoji): often referencing marijuana or vaping 😮‍💨 or 😤 (exhaling face): smoking or vaping 👍 (thumbs up emoji): a sarcastic, passive-aggressive way of saying “Sure, OK.” 🥀 (wilted rose emoji): someone is being “emo” or melodramatic 💀 (skull emoji): an extreme reaction: dying of laughter or embarrassment 🛒 (shopping cart emoji): references vape cartridges 😺 (cat emoji): references female genitalia 🌽 (corn emoji): code for explicit content or pornography 💊 (pill emoji): referencing drugs or prescription misuse 🎣 (fishing pole emoji): “fishing” for compliments or attention 🍒 (cherry emoji): used with sexual connotations 🔌 (plug emoji): indicates a source or dealer for drugs 🍜 (noodle emoji): can be used to indicate nude photos (“noods” = nudes) Misinterpretation of emojis by adults can lead to confusion, missed opportunities to address serious issues, or unnecessary conflicts. It’s crucial that we strike a balance between respecting our teens’ privacy and staying on top of things enough to recognize potential warning signs. “On one hand, emojis can help teens express themselves, especially when they don’t know how to put their feelings into words. It can be a way for them to share emotions and thoughts they’re still figuring out,” Dr. Sal Raichbach, LCSW, PsyD, tells SheKnows. “But it could also be problematic — especially if they use emojis to hide or mask things they’re struggling with. Since adults might not always understand the hidden meanings behind certain emojis, it can make it harder for parents or teachers to intervene when necessary.” Should Parents Be Worried About the “Secret Language” of Emojis? Still, say our experts, teen emoji use is most likely to fall into the self-expression category. “Be informed, but not panicked,” reasons Dr. Daidone. “There are some emojis used to signal dangerous feeling or behavior, but the vast majority of teens use them either playfully or as group slang. Context is key — emojis rarely tell the whole story.” Caitlin Severin, LMFT & cofounder of CultivaTeen Roots, echoes this. “Parents need to remember that online trends are rooted in building culture and not necessarily secrecy and harm,” she reminds us. What Does Gen Z Say About Their Emoji Use? I polled members of our SheKnows Teen Council, as well as my own teen boys, to get their take on emoji slang — and whether it’s as potentially worrisome as some parents might believe. Unsurprisingly, the consensus was that adults tend to overthink it. “That’s how you can tell a show was written by adults,” quipped my 17-year-old, Cameron, referring to Adolescence and how Gen Z communication gets misinterpreted by, well, people who aren’t Gen Z. Even the star of Adolescence, 15-year-old Owen Cooper, admits the hidden meanings of emojis as referenced in the movie were not on his personal radar: “I was glad I didn’t have an idea of what was going on — the emojis and the meanings behind them. I had no clue,” he told The Hollywood Reporter. “And I don’t think my friends knew, but it’s obviously happening across the country. It’s not a made-up story.” While emojis can have alternate meanings, all of the council members we spoke to reported that most of the time, they aren’t being used for shady dealings — especially not to the degree portrayed in Adolescence. “I don’t use emojis to keep secrets from adults,” says Sophia, 16. “Although emojis can have semi-hidden meanings, I never use them to send hidden messages.” A 15-year-old council member who preferred to remain anonymous echoed this sentiment: “I think I have some emojis that are inside jokes, but not necessarily to ‘hide’ something.” A perfect example of adults misinterpreting an emoji is one we heard time and time again from nearly all of our Gen Zers: the crying emoji (😭), which has evolved far beyond its literal meaning. “If someone found what you said funny or was telling you about something funny that happened, they usually use the crying emoji,” reports 18-year-old Ajani. “Adults definitely misinterpret ‘😭,’” says Gabby, 16. “Usually, teens are using it for something funny, but adults think that it means you’re actually upset.” And don’t even get them started on the cry-laughing emoji (😂) — one of my personal favorites. “The cry-laughing emoji is just an old person thing,” says my son Coby, 15. “It’s now largely viewed as passé,” agrees 16-year-old Meera. “It doesn’t really represent how Gen Z expresses humor anymore.” The idea that emoji meanings aren’t fixed and are often layered with irony came up repeatedly. But don’t feel bad — even though our teenagers are light-years ahead of us when it comes to navigating the changing trends, sometimes even they get confused. “Certain emojis will turn pretty quickly from stuff that I can use to something overused,” says my 19-year-old, Colin. “If parents are seeing it, it’s probably already too late. It goes from something cool to the same emoji or expression being used ironically to make fun of the people who say it.” He offers up the same advice about AI: If ChatGPT has picked up on an emoji, its moment has already passed. How to Bring Up Emoji Use With Your Kids (So They’ll Actually Talk About It) Among the experts we spoke to, one piece of advice was unanimous: When questioning teens about emojis, approach is everything. “Open-ended, non-judgmental dialogues will always lead to better outcomes in conversations with teens. Try, ‘I saw something about emojis having different meanings online — what are your opinions on that?’ Or just a low-stakes question like ‘What’s your favorite emoji to use?'” advises Severin. “You can also try asking, ‘Can you help me learn more about emojis? Are there any that have ridiculous meanings?’ Respond in a light way and not out of fear or accusations, which might shut the conversation down.” Dr. Daidone also recommends open-ended questions to kickstart a conversation. “Begin from a position of curiosity and not doubt,” he says. “Ask questions like ‘What’s going on with this emoji trend?’ or ‘What is it that other people your age believe it’s about?’ to encourage discussion and not interrogate. Teenagers are more likely to be open when treated with respect.” And just as we might tell our teens to watch their tone, we also need to watch ours. “It’s important to keep the conversation light and open, so your teen doesn’t feel judged or like they need to hide things. If you ask about emoji meanings or trends, do it in a way that shows you’re genuinely interested in understanding their world, not policing it,” says Dr. Raichbach. “When they see that you’re genuinely trying to connect and understand them, they’ll be more likely to open up with you.” Here’s What We Should Actually Worry About Experts also agree that the thing we need to worry about most goes much deeper than emojis. “Behavioral challenges such as increased secrecy, withdrawal, low social engagement, and lack of interest in previously held hobbies or passions, deserve your focus more than any emoji messages,” says Severin. “If decoding emojis is the focus, I believe we are missing the point. While awareness and staying informed is absolutely crucial, I think the greater focus needs to be on helping our children feel comfortable enough to share concerning information with us,” says Lindsey Gray, cognitive behavioral expert and Head Teen Coach of The Attitude Advantage Program. “Secrecy comes in when kids feel the need to hide something due to shame, embarrassment, or an overall lack of mental, emotional, or social safety. If we can dispel the potential for those issues, then decoding becomes something we have to worry about much less.” Though Adolescence may present a worst-case scenario, and your teen probably isn’t using emojis in a nefarious way, the film’s impact on parents — and their need to check in more closely with their kids — is undeniable. “One hundred percent of people that have approached have said, ‘Thank you,’” Stephen Graham, who also stars as Eddie, the father of the accused boy, as well as being the movie’s co-writer and co-producer, told The Hollywood Reporter. “A good few dads have said, ‘It’s really made me look at myself. As soon as I finished watching it, I went into my kids room and I gave them a cuddle, and we’ve started to talk. I ask more questions.’” Source link
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When I imagined life with teenagers, I seriously underestimated how much time I’d spend just trying to decode what they were saying (cracked? Sigma? Crash out?) and their cryptic emoji use (what does the skull mean again?): all part of the supreme effort I put into not seeming uncool. Sure, at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter if they think I’m cool — I’m their parent, not their friend — but like most parents, I still want my kids to think I’m at least a little bit “with it.” (Ironically, I probably just proved that I’m not by using that exact phrase.) Related story From Homework to Housework, Here’s What Teen Girls Like Me Think of the Tradwife Trend The truth is, part of being a teenager is skirting rules, pushing boundaries, and rolling your eyes at your parents. We did it too, remember? Now that we’re on the other side, it feels different — but it’s the same teenage attitude, just dressed in new packaging. And thanks to technology we didn’t grow up with, it’s harder than ever to understand … or interpret. Case in point: Netflix’s recent movie, Adolescence. When the film’s plot revealed that teens use seemingly innocent emojis to communicate deeper, often secret meanings, parents everywhere took notice. Emojis, those tiny expressive icons that adults typically see as harmless, can sometimes carry troubling messages among teens. And the film’s creators have said that the show itself is based on an amalgamation of real-life cases. So, are emojis and their hidden meanings indeed worth worrying about? We asked experts — and teens themselves. Why Emojis Matter Emojis aren’t just fun icons — they’re a core part of how teenagers express emotions, intentions, and hidden meanings. Teens are naturally wired to seek independence and carve out a sense of privacy, and emojis have become one of their favorite tools to do just that. They’re a quick, subtle way for teens to express themselves while keeping parents (and other adults) comfortably at arm’s length. It’s like their own shorthand: part self-expression, part social gatekeeping. The ever-changing nature of what’s cool on platforms like TikTok only accelerates this. Viral trends and memes constantly reshape what emojis mean, so just when we think we’ve figured one out, it shifts into something completely different. Teens also use emojis with layers of humor and irony, which lets them talk about sensitive or even taboo topics without spelling anything out. It’s smart and subtle — and for parents, it can feel like trying to crack a code that changes daily. “TikTok has made emoji usage a lively, meme-like language that circulates quickly and changes constantly,” Dr. Paul Daidone, Medical Director at True Self Recovery, tells SheKnows. “It’s become more ironic and performative — emojis can be employed opposite of their literal meanings, so cultural literacy trumps real comprehension.” Common Emojis with Hidden Meanings Here are some emojis that teens often use in ways many adults don’t expect: 🍃 (leaf emoji): often referencing marijuana or vaping 😮‍💨 or 😤 (exhaling face): smoking or vaping 👍 (thumbs up emoji): a sarcastic, passive-aggressive way of saying “Sure, OK.” 🥀 (wilted rose emoji): someone is being “emo” or melodramatic 💀 (skull emoji): an extreme reaction: dying of laughter or embarrassment 🛒 (shopping cart emoji): references vape cartridges 😺 (cat emoji): references female genitalia 🌽 (corn emoji): code for explicit content or pornography 💊 (pill emoji): referencing drugs or prescription misuse 🎣 (fishing pole emoji): “fishing” for compliments or attention 🍒 (cherry emoji): used with sexual connotations 🔌 (plug emoji): indicates a source or dealer for drugs 🍜 (noodle emoji): can be used to indicate nude photos (“noods” = nudes) Misinterpretation of emojis by adults can lead to confusion, missed opportunities to address serious issues, or unnecessary conflicts. It’s crucial that we strike a balance between respecting our teens’ privacy and staying on top of things enough to recognize potential warning signs. “On one hand, emojis can help teens express themselves, especially when they don’t know how to put their feelings into words. It can be a way for them to share emotions and thoughts they’re still figuring out,” Dr. Sal Raichbach, LCSW, PsyD, tells SheKnows. “But it could also be problematic — especially if they use emojis to hide or mask things they’re struggling with. Since adults might not always understand the hidden meanings behind certain emojis, it can make it harder for parents or teachers to intervene when necessary.” Should Parents Be Worried About the “Secret Language” of Emojis? Still, say our experts, teen emoji use is most likely to fall into the self-expression category. “Be informed, but not panicked,” reasons Dr. Daidone. “There are some emojis used to signal dangerous feeling or behavior, but the vast majority of teens use them either playfully or as group slang. Context is key — emojis rarely tell the whole story.” Caitlin Severin, LMFT & cofounder of CultivaTeen Roots, echoes this. “Parents need to remember that online trends are rooted in building culture and not necessarily secrecy and harm,” she reminds us. What Does Gen Z Say About Their Emoji Use? I polled members of our SheKnows Teen Council, as well as my own teen boys, to get their take on emoji slang — and whether it’s as potentially worrisome as some parents might believe. Unsurprisingly, the consensus was that adults tend to overthink it. “That’s how you can tell a show was written by adults,” quipped my 17-year-old, Cameron, referring to Adolescence and how Gen Z communication gets misinterpreted by, well, people who aren’t Gen Z. Even the star of Adolescence, 15-year-old Owen Cooper, admits the hidden meanings of emojis as referenced in the movie were not on his personal radar: “I was glad I didn’t have an idea of what was going on — the emojis and the meanings behind them. I had no clue,” he told The Hollywood Reporter. “And I don’t think my friends knew, but it’s obviously happening across the country. It’s not a made-up story.” While emojis can have alternate meanings, all of the council members we spoke to reported that most of the time, they aren’t being used for shady dealings — especially not to the degree portrayed in Adolescence. “I don’t use emojis to keep secrets from adults,” says Sophia, 16. “Although emojis can have semi-hidden meanings, I never use them to send hidden messages.” A 15-year-old council member who preferred to remain anonymous echoed this sentiment: “I think I have some emojis that are inside jokes, but not necessarily to ‘hide’ something.” A perfect example of adults misinterpreting an emoji is one we heard time and time again from nearly all of our Gen Zers: the crying emoji (😭), which has evolved far beyond its literal meaning. “If someone found what you said funny or was telling you about something funny that happened, they usually use the crying emoji,” reports 18-year-old Ajani. “Adults definitely misinterpret ‘😭,’” says Gabby, 16. “Usually, teens are using it for something funny, but adults think that it means you’re actually upset.” And don’t even get them started on the cry-laughing emoji (😂) — one of my personal favorites. “The cry-laughing emoji is just an old person thing,” says my son Coby, 15. “It’s now largely viewed as passé,” agrees 16-year-old Meera. “It doesn’t really represent how Gen Z expresses humor anymore.” The idea that emoji meanings aren’t fixed and are often layered with irony came up repeatedly. But don’t feel bad — even though our teenagers are light-years ahead of us when it comes to navigating the changing trends, sometimes even they get confused. “Certain emojis will turn pretty quickly from stuff that I can use to something overused,” says my 19-year-old, Colin. “If parents are seeing it, it’s probably already too late. It goes from something cool to the same emoji or expression being used ironically to make fun of the people who say it.” He offers up the same advice about AI: If ChatGPT has picked up on an emoji, its moment has already passed. How to Bring Up Emoji Use With Your Kids (So They’ll Actually Talk About It) Among the experts we spoke to, one piece of advice was unanimous: When questioning teens about emojis, approach is everything. “Open-ended, non-judgmental dialogues will always lead to better outcomes in conversations with teens. Try, ‘I saw something about emojis having different meanings online — what are your opinions on that?’ Or just a low-stakes question like ‘What’s your favorite emoji to use?'” advises Severin. “You can also try asking, ‘Can you help me learn more about emojis? Are there any that have ridiculous meanings?’ Respond in a light way and not out of fear or accusations, which might shut the conversation down.” Dr. Daidone also recommends open-ended questions to kickstart a conversation. “Begin from a position of curiosity and not doubt,” he says. “Ask questions like ‘What’s going on with this emoji trend?’ or ‘What is it that other people your age believe it’s about?’ to encourage discussion and not interrogate. Teenagers are more likely to be open when treated with respect.” And just as we might tell our teens to watch their tone, we also need to watch ours. “It’s important to keep the conversation light and open, so your teen doesn’t feel judged or like they need to hide things. If you ask about emoji meanings or trends, do it in a way that shows you’re genuinely interested in understanding their world, not policing it,” says Dr. Raichbach. “When they see that you’re genuinely trying to connect and understand them, they’ll be more likely to open up with you.” Here’s What We Should Actually Worry About Experts also agree that the thing we need to worry about most goes much deeper than emojis. “Behavioral challenges such as increased secrecy, withdrawal, low social engagement, and lack of interest in previously held hobbies or passions, deserve your focus more than any emoji messages,” says Severin. “If decoding emojis is the focus, I believe we are missing the point. While awareness and staying informed is absolutely crucial, I think the greater focus needs to be on helping our children feel comfortable enough to share concerning information with us,” says Lindsey Gray, cognitive behavioral expert and Head Teen Coach of The Attitude Advantage Program. “Secrecy comes in when kids feel the need to hide something due to shame, embarrassment, or an overall lack of mental, emotional, or social safety. If we can dispel the potential for those issues, then decoding becomes something we have to worry about much less.” Though Adolescence may present a worst-case scenario, and your teen probably isn’t using emojis in a nefarious way, the film’s impact on parents — and their need to check in more closely with their kids — is undeniable. “One hundred percent of people that have approached have said, ‘Thank you,’” Stephen Graham, who also stars as Eddie, the father of the accused boy, as well as being the movie’s co-writer and co-producer, told The Hollywood Reporter. “A good few dads have said, ‘It’s really made me look at myself. As soon as I finished watching it, I went into my kids room and I gave them a cuddle, and we’ve started to talk. I ask more questions.’” Source link
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crazy that this went from a goofy blog where we gave questions to a goofy Beetlejuice and bill cipher fusion to a genuinely kinda heart aching character who you can feel for because despite being VERY CHAOTIC, and VERY MORALLY GREY, you can still understand him. You understand his fear, his paranoia, his care.
Idk yapping
🐦‍⬛💊 no no anon ur so right.
Seriously, I made Cipherjuice on a whim because I saw him in a dream after thinking about the Beetlejuice cartoon for a little too long that night. I didn't expect to absolutely adore him sm. It's so interesting to write him too, especially when I really get to lean into his chaoticness. I definitely lean more into the Beetlejuice style of chaos more than bill though, cuz I know Beej WAYYYY more. Tim Burton was my childhood, I'm afraid gravity falls was NOT.
Also I just find beej more entertaining because his chaos isn't really malicious, it's just to be FUNNY. And that's what makes me like him so much, especially in the cartoon. God I LOVE YOU TOON BEEJ YOUR SO FUCKING WEIRD 💜💜 .
He's also really fun to write emotionally, because neither bj or bill really have visible emotions beyond a base level, so I kinda get to experiment with how it would work.
But if that was all Beetle was, he would be way more boring. Ngl he's more based on bill and bj rather than a fusion at this point because he's very different from both of them. Hell, he ACTIVELY DISTANCES himself from being a bill. Yeah.
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When I imagined life with teenagers, I seriously underestimated how much time I’d spend just trying to decode what they were saying (cracked? Sigma? Crash out?) and their cryptic emoji use (what does the skull mean again?): all part of the supreme effort I put into not seeming uncool. Sure, at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter if they think I’m cool — I’m their parent, not their friend — but like most parents, I still want my kids to think I’m at least a little bit “with it.” (Ironically, I probably just proved that I’m not by using that exact phrase.) Related story From Homework to Housework, Here’s What Teen Girls Like Me Think of the Tradwife Trend The truth is, part of being a teenager is skirting rules, pushing boundaries, and rolling your eyes at your parents. We did it too, remember? Now that we’re on the other side, it feels different — but it’s the same teenage attitude, just dressed in new packaging. And thanks to technology we didn’t grow up with, it’s harder than ever to understand … or interpret. Case in point: Netflix’s recent movie, Adolescence. When the film’s plot revealed that teens use seemingly innocent emojis to communicate deeper, often secret meanings, parents everywhere took notice. Emojis, those tiny expressive icons that adults typically see as harmless, can sometimes carry troubling messages among teens. And the film’s creators have said that the show itself is based on an amalgamation of real-life cases. So, are emojis and their hidden meanings indeed worth worrying about? We asked experts — and teens themselves. Why Emojis Matter Emojis aren’t just fun icons — they’re a core part of how teenagers express emotions, intentions, and hidden meanings. Teens are naturally wired to seek independence and carve out a sense of privacy, and emojis have become one of their favorite tools to do just that. They’re a quick, subtle way for teens to express themselves while keeping parents (and other adults) comfortably at arm’s length. It’s like their own shorthand: part self-expression, part social gatekeeping. The ever-changing nature of what’s cool on platforms like TikTok only accelerates this. Viral trends and memes constantly reshape what emojis mean, so just when we think we’ve figured one out, it shifts into something completely different. Teens also use emojis with layers of humor and irony, which lets them talk about sensitive or even taboo topics without spelling anything out. It’s smart and subtle — and for parents, it can feel like trying to crack a code that changes daily. “TikTok has made emoji usage a lively, meme-like language that circulates quickly and changes constantly,” Dr. Paul Daidone, Medical Director at True Self Recovery, tells SheKnows. “It’s become more ironic and performative — emojis can be employed opposite of their literal meanings, so cultural literacy trumps real comprehension.” Common Emojis with Hidden Meanings Here are some emojis that teens often use in ways many adults don’t expect: 🍃 (leaf emoji): often referencing marijuana or vaping 😮‍💨 or 😤 (exhaling face): smoking or vaping 👍 (thumbs up emoji): a sarcastic, passive-aggressive way of saying “Sure, OK.” 🥀 (wilted rose emoji): someone is being “emo” or melodramatic 💀 (skull emoji): an extreme reaction: dying of laughter or embarrassment 🛒 (shopping cart emoji): references vape cartridges 😺 (cat emoji): references female genitalia 🌽 (corn emoji): code for explicit content or pornography 💊 (pill emoji): referencing drugs or prescription misuse 🎣 (fishing pole emoji): “fishing” for compliments or attention 🍒 (cherry emoji): used with sexual connotations 🔌 (plug emoji): indicates a source or dealer for drugs 🍜 (noodle emoji): can be used to indicate nude photos (“noods” = nudes) Misinterpretation of emojis by adults can lead to confusion, missed opportunities to address serious issues, or unnecessary conflicts. It’s crucial that we strike a balance between respecting our teens’ privacy and staying on top of things enough to recognize potential warning signs. “On one hand, emojis can help teens express themselves, especially when they don’t know how to put their feelings into words. It can be a way for them to share emotions and thoughts they’re still figuring out,” Dr. Sal Raichbach, LCSW, PsyD, tells SheKnows. “But it could also be problematic — especially if they use emojis to hide or mask things they’re struggling with. Since adults might not always understand the hidden meanings behind certain emojis, it can make it harder for parents or teachers to intervene when necessary.” Should Parents Be Worried About the “Secret Language” of Emojis? Still, say our experts, teen emoji use is most likely to fall into the self-expression category. “Be informed, but not panicked,” reasons Dr. Daidone. “There are some emojis used to signal dangerous feeling or behavior, but the vast majority of teens use them either playfully or as group slang. Context is key — emojis rarely tell the whole story.” Caitlin Severin, LMFT & cofounder of CultivaTeen Roots, echoes this. “Parents need to remember that online trends are rooted in building culture and not necessarily secrecy and harm,” she reminds us. What Does Gen Z Say About Their Emoji Use? I polled members of our SheKnows Teen Council, as well as my own teen boys, to get their take on emoji slang — and whether it’s as potentially worrisome as some parents might believe. Unsurprisingly, the consensus was that adults tend to overthink it. “That’s how you can tell a show was written by adults,” quipped my 17-year-old, Cameron, referring to Adolescence and how Gen Z communication gets misinterpreted by, well, people who aren’t Gen Z. Even the star of Adolescence, 15-year-old Owen Cooper, admits the hidden meanings of emojis as referenced in the movie were not on his personal radar: “I was glad I didn’t have an idea of what was going on — the emojis and the meanings behind them. I had no clue,” he told The Hollywood Reporter. “And I don’t think my friends knew, but it’s obviously happening across the country. It’s not a made-up story.” While emojis can have alternate meanings, all of the council members we spoke to reported that most of the time, they aren’t being used for shady dealings — especially not to the degree portrayed in Adolescence. “I don’t use emojis to keep secrets from adults,” says Sophia, 16. “Although emojis can have semi-hidden meanings, I never use them to send hidden messages.” A 15-year-old council member who preferred to remain anonymous echoed this sentiment: “I think I have some emojis that are inside jokes, but not necessarily to ‘hide’ something.” A perfect example of adults misinterpreting an emoji is one we heard time and time again from nearly all of our Gen Zers: the crying emoji (😭), which has evolved far beyond its literal meaning. “If someone found what you said funny or was telling you about something funny that happened, they usually use the crying emoji,” reports 18-year-old Ajani. “Adults definitely misinterpret ‘😭,’” says Gabby, 16. “Usually, teens are using it for something funny, but adults think that it means you’re actually upset.” And don’t even get them started on the cry-laughing emoji (😂) — one of my personal favorites. “The cry-laughing emoji is just an old person thing,” says my son Coby, 15. “It’s now largely viewed as passé,” agrees 16-year-old Meera. “It doesn’t really represent how Gen Z expresses humor anymore.” The idea that emoji meanings aren’t fixed and are often layered with irony came up repeatedly. But don’t feel bad — even though our teenagers are light-years ahead of us when it comes to navigating the changing trends, sometimes even they get confused. “Certain emojis will turn pretty quickly from stuff that I can use to something overused,” says my 19-year-old, Colin. “If parents are seeing it, it’s probably already too late. It goes from something cool to the same emoji or expression being used ironically to make fun of the people who say it.” He offers up the same advice about AI: If ChatGPT has picked up on an emoji, its moment has already passed. How to Bring Up Emoji Use With Your Kids (So They’ll Actually Talk About It) Among the experts we spoke to, one piece of advice was unanimous: When questioning teens about emojis, approach is everything. “Open-ended, non-judgmental dialogues will always lead to better outcomes in conversations with teens. Try, ‘I saw something about emojis having different meanings online — what are your opinions on that?’ Or just a low-stakes question like ‘What’s your favorite emoji to use?'” advises Severin. “You can also try asking, ‘Can you help me learn more about emojis? Are there any that have ridiculous meanings?’ Respond in a light way and not out of fear or accusations, which might shut the conversation down.” Dr. Daidone also recommends open-ended questions to kickstart a conversation. “Begin from a position of curiosity and not doubt,” he says. “Ask questions like ‘What’s going on with this emoji trend?’ or ‘What is it that other people your age believe it’s about?’ to encourage discussion and not interrogate. Teenagers are more likely to be open when treated with respect.” And just as we might tell our teens to watch their tone, we also need to watch ours. “It’s important to keep the conversation light and open, so your teen doesn’t feel judged or like they need to hide things. If you ask about emoji meanings or trends, do it in a way that shows you’re genuinely interested in understanding their world, not policing it,” says Dr. Raichbach. “When they see that you’re genuinely trying to connect and understand them, they’ll be more likely to open up with you.” Here’s What We Should Actually Worry About Experts also agree that the thing we need to worry about most goes much deeper than emojis. “Behavioral challenges such as increased secrecy, withdrawal, low social engagement, and lack of interest in previously held hobbies or passions, deserve your focus more than any emoji messages,” says Severin. “If decoding emojis is the focus, I believe we are missing the point. While awareness and staying informed is absolutely crucial, I think the greater focus needs to be on helping our children feel comfortable enough to share concerning information with us,” says Lindsey Gray, cognitive behavioral expert and Head Teen Coach of The Attitude Advantage Program. “Secrecy comes in when kids feel the need to hide something due to shame, embarrassment, or an overall lack of mental, emotional, or social safety. If we can dispel the potential for those issues, then decoding becomes something we have to worry about much less.” Though Adolescence may present a worst-case scenario, and your teen probably isn’t using emojis in a nefarious way, the film’s impact on parents — and their need to check in more closely with their kids — is undeniable. “One hundred percent of people that have approached have said, ‘Thank you,’” Stephen Graham, who also stars as Eddie, the father of the accused boy, as well as being the movie’s co-writer and co-producer, told The Hollywood Reporter. “A good few dads have said, ‘It’s really made me look at myself. As soon as I finished watching it, I went into my kids room and I gave them a cuddle, and we’ve started to talk. I ask more questions.’” Source link
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When I imagined life with teenagers, I seriously underestimated how much time I’d spend just trying to decode what they were saying (cracked? Sigma? Crash out?) and their cryptic emoji use (what does the skull mean again?): all part of the supreme effort I put into not seeming uncool. Sure, at the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter if they think I’m cool — I’m their parent, not their friend — but like most parents, I still want my kids to think I’m at least a little bit “with it.” (Ironically, I probably just proved that I’m not by using that exact phrase.) Related story From Homework to Housework, Here’s What Teen Girls Like Me Think of the Tradwife Trend The truth is, part of being a teenager is skirting rules, pushing boundaries, and rolling your eyes at your parents. We did it too, remember? Now that we’re on the other side, it feels different — but it’s the same teenage attitude, just dressed in new packaging. And thanks to technology we didn’t grow up with, it’s harder than ever to understand … or interpret. Case in point: Netflix’s recent movie, Adolescence. When the film’s plot revealed that teens use seemingly innocent emojis to communicate deeper, often secret meanings, parents everywhere took notice. Emojis, those tiny expressive icons that adults typically see as harmless, can sometimes carry troubling messages among teens. And the film’s creators have said that the show itself is based on an amalgamation of real-life cases. So, are emojis and their hidden meanings indeed worth worrying about? We asked experts — and teens themselves. Why Emojis Matter Emojis aren’t just fun icons — they’re a core part of how teenagers express emotions, intentions, and hidden meanings. Teens are naturally wired to seek independence and carve out a sense of privacy, and emojis have become one of their favorite tools to do just that. They’re a quick, subtle way for teens to express themselves while keeping parents (and other adults) comfortably at arm’s length. It’s like their own shorthand: part self-expression, part social gatekeeping. The ever-changing nature of what’s cool on platforms like TikTok only accelerates this. Viral trends and memes constantly reshape what emojis mean, so just when we think we’ve figured one out, it shifts into something completely different. Teens also use emojis with layers of humor and irony, which lets them talk about sensitive or even taboo topics without spelling anything out. It’s smart and subtle — and for parents, it can feel like trying to crack a code that changes daily. “TikTok has made emoji usage a lively, meme-like language that circulates quickly and changes constantly,” Dr. Paul Daidone, Medical Director at True Self Recovery, tells SheKnows. “It’s become more ironic and performative — emojis can be employed opposite of their literal meanings, so cultural literacy trumps real comprehension.” Common Emojis with Hidden Meanings Here are some emojis that teens often use in ways many adults don’t expect: 🍃 (leaf emoji): often referencing marijuana or vaping 😮‍💨 or 😤 (exhaling face): smoking or vaping 👍 (thumbs up emoji): a sarcastic, passive-aggressive way of saying “Sure, OK.” 🥀 (wilted rose emoji): someone is being “emo” or melodramatic 💀 (skull emoji): an extreme reaction: dying of laughter or embarrassment 🛒 (shopping cart emoji): references vape cartridges 😺 (cat emoji): references female genitalia 🌽 (corn emoji): code for explicit content or pornography 💊 (pill emoji): referencing drugs or prescription misuse 🎣 (fishing pole emoji): “fishing” for compliments or attention 🍒 (cherry emoji): used with sexual connotations 🔌 (plug emoji): indicates a source or dealer for drugs 🍜 (noodle emoji): can be used to indicate nude photos (“noods” = nudes) Misinterpretation of emojis by adults can lead to confusion, missed opportunities to address serious issues, or unnecessary conflicts. It’s crucial that we strike a balance between respecting our teens’ privacy and staying on top of things enough to recognize potential warning signs. “On one hand, emojis can help teens express themselves, especially when they don’t know how to put their feelings into words. It can be a way for them to share emotions and thoughts they’re still figuring out,” Dr. Sal Raichbach, LCSW, PsyD, tells SheKnows. “But it could also be problematic — especially if they use emojis to hide or mask things they’re struggling with. Since adults might not always understand the hidden meanings behind certain emojis, it can make it harder for parents or teachers to intervene when necessary.” Should Parents Be Worried About the “Secret Language” of Emojis? Still, say our experts, teen emoji use is most likely to fall into the self-expression category. “Be informed, but not panicked,” reasons Dr. Daidone. “There are some emojis used to signal dangerous feeling or behavior, but the vast majority of teens use them either playfully or as group slang. Context is key — emojis rarely tell the whole story.” Caitlin Severin, LMFT & cofounder of CultivaTeen Roots, echoes this. “Parents need to remember that online trends are rooted in building culture and not necessarily secrecy and harm,” she reminds us. What Does Gen Z Say About Their Emoji Use? I polled members of our SheKnows Teen Council, as well as my own teen boys, to get their take on emoji slang — and whether it’s as potentially worrisome as some parents might believe. Unsurprisingly, the consensus was that adults tend to overthink it. “That’s how you can tell a show was written by adults,” quipped my 17-year-old, Cameron, referring to Adolescence and how Gen Z communication gets misinterpreted by, well, people who aren’t Gen Z. Even the star of Adolescence, 15-year-old Owen Cooper, admits the hidden meanings of emojis as referenced in the movie were not on his personal radar: “I was glad I didn’t have an idea of what was going on — the emojis and the meanings behind them. I had no clue,” he told The Hollywood Reporter. “And I don’t think my friends knew, but it’s obviously happening across the country. It’s not a made-up story.” While emojis can have alternate meanings, all of the council members we spoke to reported that most of the time, they aren’t being used for shady dealings — especially not to the degree portrayed in Adolescence. “I don’t use emojis to keep secrets from adults,” says Sophia, 16. “Although emojis can have semi-hidden meanings, I never use them to send hidden messages.” A 15-year-old council member who preferred to remain anonymous echoed this sentiment: “I think I have some emojis that are inside jokes, but not necessarily to ‘hide’ something.” A perfect example of adults misinterpreting an emoji is one we heard time and time again from nearly all of our Gen Zers: the crying emoji (😭), which has evolved far beyond its literal meaning. “If someone found what you said funny or was telling you about something funny that happened, they usually use the crying emoji,” reports 18-year-old Ajani. “Adults definitely misinterpret ‘😭,’” says Gabby, 16. “Usually, teens are using it for something funny, but adults think that it means you’re actually upset.” And don’t even get them started on the cry-laughing emoji (😂) — one of my personal favorites. “The cry-laughing emoji is just an old person thing,” says my son Coby, 15. “It’s now largely viewed as passé,” agrees 16-year-old Meera. “It doesn’t really represent how Gen Z expresses humor anymore.” The idea that emoji meanings aren’t fixed and are often layered with irony came up repeatedly. But don’t feel bad — even though our teenagers are light-years ahead of us when it comes to navigating the changing trends, sometimes even they get confused. “Certain emojis will turn pretty quickly from stuff that I can use to something overused,” says my 19-year-old, Colin. “If parents are seeing it, it’s probably already too late. It goes from something cool to the same emoji or expression being used ironically to make fun of the people who say it.” He offers up the same advice about AI: If ChatGPT has picked up on an emoji, its moment has already passed. How to Bring Up Emoji Use With Your Kids (So They’ll Actually Talk About It) Among the experts we spoke to, one piece of advice was unanimous: When questioning teens about emojis, approach is everything. “Open-ended, non-judgmental dialogues will always lead to better outcomes in conversations with teens. Try, ‘I saw something about emojis having different meanings online — what are your opinions on that?’ Or just a low-stakes question like ‘What’s your favorite emoji to use?'” advises Severin. “You can also try asking, ‘Can you help me learn more about emojis? Are there any that have ridiculous meanings?’ Respond in a light way and not out of fear or accusations, which might shut the conversation down.” Dr. Daidone also recommends open-ended questions to kickstart a conversation. “Begin from a position of curiosity and not doubt,” he says. “Ask questions like ‘What’s going on with this emoji trend?’ or ‘What is it that other people your age believe it’s about?’ to encourage discussion and not interrogate. Teenagers are more likely to be open when treated with respect.” And just as we might tell our teens to watch their tone, we also need to watch ours. “It’s important to keep the conversation light and open, so your teen doesn’t feel judged or like they need to hide things. If you ask about emoji meanings or trends, do it in a way that shows you’re genuinely interested in understanding their world, not policing it,” says Dr. Raichbach. “When they see that you’re genuinely trying to connect and understand them, they’ll be more likely to open up with you.” Here’s What We Should Actually Worry About Experts also agree that the thing we need to worry about most goes much deeper than emojis. “Behavioral challenges such as increased secrecy, withdrawal, low social engagement, and lack of interest in previously held hobbies or passions, deserve your focus more than any emoji messages,” says Severin. “If decoding emojis is the focus, I believe we are missing the point. While awareness and staying informed is absolutely crucial, I think the greater focus needs to be on helping our children feel comfortable enough to share concerning information with us,” says Lindsey Gray, cognitive behavioral expert and Head Teen Coach of The Attitude Advantage Program. “Secrecy comes in when kids feel the need to hide something due to shame, embarrassment, or an overall lack of mental, emotional, or social safety. If we can dispel the potential for those issues, then decoding becomes something we have to worry about much less.” Though Adolescence may present a worst-case scenario, and your teen probably isn’t using emojis in a nefarious way, the film’s impact on parents — and their need to check in more closely with their kids — is undeniable. “One hundred percent of people that have approached have said, ‘Thank you,’” Stephen Graham, who also stars as Eddie, the father of the accused boy, as well as being the movie’s co-writer and co-producer, told The Hollywood Reporter. “A good few dads have said, ‘It’s really made me look at myself. As soon as I finished watching it, I went into my kids room and I gave them a cuddle, and we’ve started to talk. I ask more questions.’” Source link
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🧠 Breaking Free: A Complete Guide to OCD Treatment
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is more than just being neat or liking things in order. It’s a real mental health condition that can interfere with everyday life. Thankfully, with the right approach and support, recovery is possible! 💪 In this guide, we’ll explore what OCD really is, common symptoms, and effective ocd treatment options available today. You can discover ocd treatment via https://cayacare.com/.
🔍 What is OCD?
OCD is a mental health disorder characterized by:
Obsessions – unwanted, intrusive thoughts or fears (e.g., fear of germs, fear of harm).
Compulsions – repetitive behaviors or mental acts (e.g., excessive cleaning, checking things repeatedly) performed to relieve the anxiety caused by obsessions.
It’s important to note that OCD isn’t just a personality quirk — it’s a diagnosable and treatable condition that affects millions worldwide 🌍.
🧾 Common Symptoms of OCD
Here are some signs that someone may be struggling with OCD:
Constant fear of contamination or dirt 🧼
Excessive hand-washing or cleaning 🧽
Repeated checking (e.g., locks, stoves, lights) 🔐
Need for symmetry or exactness 📏
Intrusive thoughts that are violent or disturbing 😨
Repeating actions a certain number of times 🔁
Avoiding places or situations that trigger obsessions 🚷
🧠 How OCD Affects Life
OCD can take a serious toll on a person’s life. It can:
Interfere with work, school, and relationships 💼🎓❤️
Cause distress, guilt, or embarrassment 😓
Lead to isolation or depression 😞
Result in hours of daily rituals that disrupt normal life 🕒
But the good news? Effective help is available — and recovery is very possible. Let’s talk about ocd treatment options.
🧰 Effective OCD Treatment Options
There are several evidence-based treatment methods for OCD. The most successful plans often include a combination of therapies and medications.
1. 🧠 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT is the most common and effective therapy for OCD. It focuses on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors.
Helps recognize and challenge obsessive thoughts
Teaches new ways to respond to compulsions
Can significantly reduce symptoms over time
2. 🌀 Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)
ERP is a special type of CBT that involves gradually exposing someone to their fear and preventing the compulsive response.
Considered the "gold standard" for OCD
Helps reduce anxiety over time
Teaches resilience in the face of obsessive triggers
3. 💊 Medication
Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) are the most commonly prescribed medications for OCD.
Helps regulate serotonin levels in the brain
Often used alongside therapy for best results
May take 4–6 weeks to show effects
4. 👩‍⚕️ Psychiatric Support
Working closely with a psychiatrist or mental health professional can help tailor a treatment plan and monitor progress.
Adjusts medications as needed
Provides emotional and medical support
Ensures consistent follow-up and care
🏠 Self-Help Tips for OCD Management
While professional help is crucial, self-care and lifestyle changes also play a role in managing OCD.
📝 Keep a journal – track triggers and progress 🧘 Practice mindfulness or meditation – helps reduce anxiety 📱 Limit compulsive behaviors – set small, achievable goals 👥 Join a support group – you’re not alone! 🛏️ Maintain a healthy sleep schedule – sleep impacts mental health 🥦 Eat well & stay active – physical health supports mental wellness
💬 Supporting a Loved One with OCD
If someone close to you has OCD, your support can make a huge difference. Here’s how to help:
Be patient and listen without judgment 🤗
Avoid enabling compulsions 🚫
Encourage professional help and offer to go with them 🧑‍⚕️
Educate yourself on the condition 📚
🌟 You're Not Alone
If you or someone you love is struggling with OCD, don’t lose hope. OCD is a treatable condition, and with the right approach, people can regain control over their lives.
To learn more or explore personalized care options, check out this detailed guide on ocd treatment at Caya Care.
🚀 Final Thoughts
OCD doesn’t define who you are. With courage, the right treatment, and support, healing is not only possible — it’s probable. Don’t hesitate to reach out and take the first step toward freedom. 💖
Explore this website to know more about ocd treatment.
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