#“be yourself and be unique!” Messages but no “community togetherness and being part of a group is worthwhile actually” messages

[wemlygust]

I wish I could collect and make a bonfire out of all the motivational posters I remember from junior high and highschool. Gen Z/"kids these days", do they still inflict those atrocities on you?

[doveheartsanctuary]

Welcome, My Dovelings! 🌺

Hello there! I'm so glad you've found your way to my little corner of the internet. You can call me Mama Dove, and I go by she/her. As a young adult passionate about self-shipping, I'm here to create a safe and nurturing space for anyone who needs a listening ear or a friendly heart.

This blog is all about connection and support. Whether you want to share your self-shipping experiences, vent about your feelings, or simply talk and gush about your beloved or what's on your mind, l'm here for you! While I'm not a professional therapist, I genuinely want to listen and help in any way I can. I know what it feels like to be alone in this community, which is why I created this space-to ensure no one feels unheard or isolated.

I want to emphasize that this space is about kindness and respect for all perspectives. We may not all share the same views, but my nest is open to everyone seeking comfort and connection.

Thank you for joining me on this journey. Let's spread our wings together and create a community filled with love and understanding. I can't wait to hear from you!

Mama Dove's Rules for My Dovelings 🌺

Alright, my dear Dovelings, let's talk about some simple rules to keep our nest warm and cozy!

Be Kind: Treat each other with kindness. Remember, we're here to support one another! Be Respectful: Everyone's journey is unique, and we all deserve respect. No Hate on doubles: My dear non sharers, refrain from any negativity towards those who do share. No Hate on Non-Sharing either: And my dear doubles, please extend the same kindness towards non-sharers. Use of F/O Names: To keep our space safe and free of hurt feelings, I kindly ask that you don't use your F/O names in discussions, especially if they overlap with others. This way, everyone can feel comfortable sharing their experiences.

Oh, and yes, my Dovelings, I have a F/O who loves me dearly, my Noble One, I'll refer to him by this nickname to keep things cozy and personal 🌸

A Note to My Dovelings 💌

I'm here to listen to your vents and thoughts! I won't just post your messages with tags; I'll respond personally because your feelings matter! Feel free to use any emojis you like when you come back! I want you to express yourself however you feel comfortable 🌸

That's all, my sweet Dovelings! Let's make this a loving and supportive community where we can all feel at home. Thank you for being part of our nest!

[leveloneandup]

Christen Press Is 'Taking Everything One Step at a Time' After Injuring Her ACL: 'Looking Forward to the Future'

After injuring her ACL in 2022, Christen Press is remaining positive — especially after the 2023 World Cup is coming to an end.

"Being able to watch the World Cup this year was extremely stressful, but it is a shooting star experience that only few can feel that pressure. But being able to play in the World Cup is allowing yourself to excel at sports for your country. I feel fortunate to have gone this long without an injury, and I look at it optimistically moving forward and continuing my career. I am taking everything one step at a time but look forward to the future and getting back with my team, Angels FC," the 34-year-old exclusively tells OK! while talking about her involvement with Degree’s Change the Field campaign, which aims to create safe and inclusive environments for girls of color on and off the field.

The athlete, who always knew she wanted to play soccer at a young age, is looking to change the game for others.

"I think representation is really important. I am very proud to be a part of a generation of player with increased diversity of players in our national team because I think when girls can see people that look like them on the field making it to that level, it does make you believe. I think through work on Degree’s Change the Field campaign as well, it is important for us to come together and do the work to make everyone feel more included in this sport," she shares.

"I think that sports has an amazing opportunity to create change and I have created a business that is the intersection of sports business and equity. The whole idea is that we need to re-image the infrastructure of women's sports — it was built for men, made by men and they have given women’s sports the back hours, the extension room and it does not fit. We can see this in how you cannot find women’s games, we have little information on what's going on in women's sports. The content is buried and subpar. Women’s sports has this incredible opportunity to tell stories and create change, it is quite unique," she adds.

Since Press is so passionate about changing the landscape for women, talking about Degree’s Change the Field campaign was a no-brainer.

"As a Black woman and professional soccer player, I am committed to using my own voice and platform to inspire girls of colors to keep joining the sport, but also inspire the sport’s leaders to foster inclusive and diverse atmospheres for these girls. Degree and I share a passion for advancing the sport toward a more inclusive environment, which is why I hope my message encourages coaches, players and leaders alike to implement Degree’s inclusivity modules in their communities. Degree’s free ‘Girls Can’ training modules will help equip coaches, teachers and community leaders with the skills and knowledge to ensure that equal opportunities in soccer exist for women and girls everywhere," she expresses.

"It is important to shed light on this issue and create a more inclusive world. It is extremely important to me that soccer is a diverse and inclusive sport. We are taking a step in the right direction. Degree’s Change The Field program is an opportunity to talk about how we can come together and make a change. We all grow up differently and it is important to look at that when focusing on the business of sports," she continues.

[inside0ut-dotnet]

On World Refugee Day, which is celebrated every year on June 20th, we stand in solidarity with refugees worldwide. This year’s theme, “Solidarity with Refugees – For a World Where Refugees are Welcomed,” emphasizes the collective commitment to providing refuge and support for those displaced by conflict, persecution, or disaster. The LGBTQ+ community faces unique challenges and dangers in many parts of the world, making them particularly vulnerable to violence and discrimination.

It’s essential to recognize and honor LGBTQ+ refugees, celebrating their resilience and contributions to creating an inclusive society. Approximately 40% of the world’s refugees live in countries where LGBTQ+ individuals face legal persecution. Shockingly, 64 countries globally criminalize consensual same-sex relations, with penalties ranging from imprisonment to the death penalty. Unfortunately, LGBTQ+ rights have regressed in Africa and Western Asia in recent years, with new bills criminalizing or increasing penalties for homosexuality introduced in several countries.

Advocacy and awareness can make a significant difference in the lives of LGBTQ+ refugees. By raising awareness about their struggles and advocating for their rights, we can help create a more inclusive and supportive environment for them to seek refuge and rebuild their lives. By eradicating hate, prejudice, and discrimination, we can ensure that they find refuge and hope. Let us extend our solidarity beyond borders, transcending nationality, religion, and culture, as we work together to create a more compassionate world.

There are several ways you can show your support for LGBTQ+ refugees on World Refugee Day and beyond. You can donate to organizations that provide support and resources to LGBTQ+ refugees, volunteer your time to help them navigate the asylum process, or simply educate yourself and others about their experiences.

HIAS: HIAS provides legal services, including free advice and representation, to those fleeing persecution based on sexual orientation or gender identity.

Immigration Equality: This organization offers legal and material support to LGBTQ+ people seeking asylum and refugee status in the United States.

Refuge America: Dedicated to empowering and supporting LGBTQ+ displaced individuals and refugees.

These organizations play a crucial role in creating safe spaces and advocating for the rights of LGBTQ+ refugees. 🌈🌍

Standing in solidarity with LGBTQ+ refugees sends a powerful message of support and acceptance. It lets them know that they are not alone and that there are people who care about their well-being.

By coming together to advocate for LGBTQ+ refugees, we can make a real difference in their lives and help create a more inclusive and compassionate world for all. Let's stand together on World Refugee Day and every day to support and uplift LGBTQ+ refugees around the globe. 🌈

[beneaththeskybeyondthestars]

The ✨Metaphysical Magic✨ of BTS 💜 방탄소년단

If you're like me and deeply inspired by BTS, then you know there's something truly mystical about their music and presence that goes beyond just being fans. Let’s dive a little into the rabbit hole and into this enchanting world together!

Symbols and Archetypes

First off, let’s talk about the incredible symbolism in BTS’s work. Their "Love Yourself" series is a perfect example. It's all about self-discovery, acceptance, and love – universal themes that we all relate to. These themes mirror the archetypal journeys we often explore in tarot, making their messages resonate deeply with us. Every lyric and visual tells a story that we can connect with, almost like looking at a tarot card and finding a piece of our own story within it.

Astrological Connections

The BTS members have shared their astrological signs with us, adding a whole new cosmic layer to their personalities. RM’s intellectual Virgo energy, Suga’s dreamy Pisces vibes, Jimin’s charming Libra balance, Jhope's Aquarian genius, Jin's Sagittarius wisdom, V's Capricorn earthiness, and Jungkook's Virgo perfectionism – it’s like each member brings a unique star quality that we can relate to on a spiritual level. Knowing their signs helps us connect with them in a more personal and mystical way, almost like they’re celestial guides on our journey. As a band that was born (debuted) on June 13th, BTS are collectively a Gemini, which explains their versatility, charm, humor, multi-hyphenated talent, and how they keep us laughing, delightfully guessing and always surprised with what they will do next, both independently and as a unit. Like the sign, they are energetic, impulsive, and often change their appearance, as well as being great communicators who share their feelings with us, making it easier for us to understand them. Gemini is also considered the teenager of the zodiac, and for us ARMY, they will truly be Young Forever!

Numerology and Destiny

Let's not forget numerology! The number seven is so important for BTS – it represents the seven members and is seen as a symbol of completeness and perfection in many spiritual traditions. Fans (including me!) love finding patterns in release dates, album titles, and significant events. It’s like following a cosmic breadcrumb trail that leads to deeper meanings and connections, making us feel like we’re part of a grand, destined plan.

Energy and Vibration

Have you ever felt the energy at a BTS concert? It’s pure magic! Their music isn’t just something you listen to; it’s something you feel. According to metaphysical principles, everything vibrates at a certain frequency. BTS’s songs, filled with messages of love, hope, and resilience, vibrate at a high frequency that resonates with our hearts. This energy can uplift and heal, creating a powerful experience for all of us.

Transformation and Healing

One of the most beautiful aspects of BTS’s influence is their ability to transform and heal. So many of us have found comfort and strength in their music during tough times. Although I first became aware of BTS in 2019 when I heard the song and saw the video for "Boy With Luv", it was 2020 when I became a true ARMY and without question, they helped me make it through that difficult period. It’s like having a cosmic friend who understands and supports you through their songs. This aligns perfectly with the metaphysical view of music as a form of therapy, reaching into our souls to provide healing and growth.

Collective Consciousness and Synchronicity

Lastly, let’s talk about the amazing BTS ARMY. We’re a perfect example of collective consciousness. Our synchronized activities, from streaming projects to charitable acts, show how connected we are. This unity creates a powerful force that enhances our individual and collective experiences, making us feel like we’re part of something much bigger.

So it is easy to see that the metaphysical aspects of BTS are real and true. Their music and presence go beyond entertainment; they touch our souls and connect us on a spiritual level. Whether through symbolism, astrology, numerology, or the energy they emit, BTS has created a legacy that transcends the physical world. It’s a journey of transformation, healing, and growth that we all share.

Thanks for joining me on this mystical exploration. Stay tuned for more cosmic insight and adventures and Beneath the Sky, Beyond the Stars Tarot. Keep shining and embracing the magic around you! Keep Loving Yourself and Speaking Yourself!

With love and light, I Purple You! 보라해

💜 Gabby 🌌💫

[lericekrispie]

DIGITAL GRIMOIRE- TAROT WORK

Tarot is a powerful and easy tool for everyday witch work. Reading Tarot flexes your intuition muscle, helps you learn insight about yourself and the world, and can be a tool for spells. When working with Tarot, it is important to remember that there are no coincidences, from the message, what card you choose, to even the deck. 

It is important to introduce and cleanse a new deck. Think of a deck as a new pet, or a new roommate. Decks don’t always hold spirits, much like how every object doesn’t hold a spirit, but as witches we mostly only pick up decks with spirits or beings attached to them. Decks are lightning rods for spirits to be interested and attracted and to bind to, with the unique advantage of being a witches tool with the ability to communicate. When you first get a new deck, treat it as a guest in your home. You wouldn’t take a new dog into your house and immediately start commanding it to sit, over and over again. If you get a new deck and immediately try to use it, it’ll be confused, overwhelmed, and start to distrust you. Some more experienced decks may be able to handle the shock, but it doesn’t lay a good base of foundation. 

With a new deck, you want to give the deck time to adjust, as well as cleansing it. A week is about a good time to give a deck typically, but sometimes it can go faster or slower based on what the temperament and spirit is like. It may take longer if it is shy or may not vibe with your frequency at the moment. It may go shorter if it is really enthusiastic and loves talking to people. Ways to get to know your deck is by learning and evaluating its cards, sleeping with the deck under your pillow or in your bed, or meditating with it. You can also just put it in a bag and let it come with you throughout your day, so it can see how you are as a person. 

To cleanse your deck, you are going to want to use smoke, air, knocking, or vibrations. You can smudge, incense, or smoke on your deck, or you can breathe on it and imagine blowing all the dust and bad energy off of it like blowing out a candle. You can knock on it three times, like you're knocking out the bad energy. Or you can ring bells or chants, just like with other sound cleansing. You can also marinate* a deck as well, this works particularly well with shy decks or shell shocked decks or stubborn decks, however, an enthusiastic charismatic deck might become shell shocked from such experience. You should cleanse your deck whenever it asks to, or whenever you feel like other energies have muddled and distorted the energies in the deck and prevents messages from coming forward clearly. Marination is to set a deck to a completely flat frequency, so if a deck enjoys the energy it has going on you should only do the other forms of cleansing and not something so intense. 

Your deck might want you to know its story before you start working together, or it might not. Some questions you could ask it include

What type of spirit are you?

What is your card?

Do you know what my card is? How do you perceive me?

Did you have a life before attaching to this deck? What was it like?

Like with deities, you will come to learn what decks do and don’t like. For my Moon Deck, Astrid and Ester, they like rose petals and moonlight and crystals to charge. Dahlia likes peace, serenity, and a candle to work, and Mist likes cat imagery and crystals. I had one deck that was given to me as a challenge from a deity to conquer who hated his box, and demanded that I throw it away as soon as possible and I just carried the cards around loosely. Some decks will be of higher demand, as my challenge deck required to be on my person when I was at work. Some decks will be lower demand, like Dahlia who only comes out when she wants to give healing advice. Even if you aren’t doing Tarot consistently, some decks just want to be a part of your life and held, like Jupiter, my Light Elder Witch’s main deck. 

Quirks concerning decks can happen as well. Decks can decide that they don’t like you, and that you are actually supposed to be the delivery boy to give the deck to the correct person. Your deck can decide that you are not powerful enough to wield it, and may make you wait, possibly years before it decides you are at its level. Your deck can have multiple spirits in it, like my Moon deck with two women, Astrid and Ester. If your deck is particularly power hungry or malicious, it can try to eat the spirits within your other decks and may need to be separated and have consequences. 

Decks have a tendency to fit within relationship standards, like Astrid and Ester seem to be my girls, like roommates, best friends, or sisters. While Dahlia seems to be an older mentor or guide, but still one of the girls. However, Mist seems to fit the role of a child, referring to me as mom and to my Elder Witch’s as his Aunties. If you need to, with a deck that is not behaving, you can put your other decks with seniority or higher power by or on top of that deck to have that deck talk and remind them of what’s allowed and what’s not allowed.

Decks can be talented at different things, such as spirits can be talented at different things. In my Moon deck, Astrid works with personal relationships between people. She likes to see how human relationships form and interact, and she likes to give advice on such. Ester, in the Moon Deck, likes to talk about the future. Whenever she shows up in a reading, which is less frequent then Astrid, it means something down the line is going to happen. Dahlia is only to be used for healing, and she doesn’t like people interpreting or putting her cards upside down. Mist likes structure, when you give him directions on Tarot spreads, and is overall well rounded. He also likes to stick his nose in places it doesn’t belong and tell you information that people don’t want you knowing. My Light Elder Witch has a deck named Pippins that is to be used for fortune telling but only big important life events, and my Dark Elder Witch has a deck that is a Cursed deck and holds a Vampiric Spirit that is used in baneful spells. Some people in life will be called to have a full roster of many different decks, like me and My Elder Dark Witch, while people like my Light Witch feel like they only need one or two. It’s all about what you are made for and what feels right- what your soul journey is supposed to be. 

The best way to learn Tarot is to do your own research with your own deck, so I’m only writing down information that one may not know from research alone. Have fun!

*Marination refers to putting herbs and cleansing spices and items into a box with the thing you want to marinate and leaving it there for a couple of days without disturbance. For example, for my Friday the 13th spooky deck Mist, I put in cinnamon, berry bush branches and dried berries, fall leaves, and a black handkerchief to wrap him up in.

[mecchantheotaku]

Hey! I’ve got a game you might like but I also saw your post about wanting it shown so I’ll try to describe it as best as possible, it’s called sky:children of the light, it’s a social adventure game which can only be played with WiFi but has really really pretty graphics, you play as a clay child (I think? Idk what they’re made of exactly lol) freeing spirits and exploring different realms of a massive sky kingdom, meeting new people (the most wholesome community I’ve ever seen btw met like only one toxic person in my now 3 years of playing) and doing quests during seasons which are by the way greatly designed mostly. (might feel pressured to buy in app purchases here and there but don’t worry most seasonal stuff comes back eventually!) The game has a great and unique soundtrack for each realm and there are also silly emotes to express yourself with which you can collect from the spirits you free (mentioned further up somewhere) and the more spirits you free the more ways inside realms open up. (Just a heads up the end isn’t really the end but you’ll see if you check it out! And don’t stress if you loose something you’ll get it back!) that’s about all I can tell without spoilering too much(?) the social part of the game is completely your decision too since chat isn’t unlocked before you unlock it per candles (something you get from collecting light) with a friended player or sitting on a bench with a lot candle together with a stranger, it’s also the game I play to calm down after a long day, it’s really relaxing, if you check it out tell me please I’d like to know, but if not it’s fine too I won’t mind don’t worry! sorry if there are errors in this message my English isn’t the very greatest as it’s not my first language. Have a great day! your anon :] (scared of my user being anywhere lololol)

Luckily for you, I already know a bit about this game. A friend of mine plays it (or at least used to, haven't heard much about it from her for a while).

The game does look interesting, but if I do play it, it won't be for a bit. I always get nervous to play new games.

[brainstreamjournal]

Kindness in the Chaos: Navigating Burnout and Stitching Back Together

Hey there, fellow traveller in this chaotic journey we call life. Burnout, you know, that uninvited guest that sneaks in and decides to camp out, draining every ounce of energy and joy we have? Yeah, it's become quite the regular companion in our fast-paced world. But amidst the whirlwind, there's a shining light—a beacon of hope called kindness. Let's chat about it, peel back the layers of burnout, and see how these simple, heartfelt acts of kindness can be the secret sauce to bouncing back.

So, my own burnout saga? Picture this: days blending into a haze of deadlines, responsibilities piling up until I felt like I was on the brink. And then, out of nowhere, these unexpected acts of kindness became my saving grace.

A classmate, sensing my silent struggle, dropped a calming tea blend on my desk without saying a word. Small, right? But it meant the world. A friend's heartfelt message on a particularly rough day? It was like a soothing balm for my frayed nerves. These acts, no strings attached, wove threads of connection that are helping me stitch my spirit back together.

And burnout itself? Oh, it's a silent storm, no doubt. Signs are subtle but pack a punch—constant fatigue, a growing cynicism towards work, and that overwhelming feeling that life's just too much. It's like an unwelcome companion on this crazy journey we're all on.

But here's the cool part—in the midst of burnout's turbulence, acts of kindness pop up like little beacons of light, guiding us towards recovery. A surprise lunch from a friend, a handwritten note of encouragement, or a supportive gesture from a colleague—these seemingly small things? Huge impact. They weave a tapestry of emotional support, creating a sense of community that's gold when navigating the stormy seas of burnout.

Now, empathy? That's the superhero power in responding to burnout. Friends, family, coworkers—just being there without judgment, offering a shoulder to lean on, or lending a hand. It's like creating a safety net that makes the falls during challenging times a bit softer.

And in the chaos? Self-compassion is the lifeline. Taking a moment for yourself, embracing self-care rituals, and admitting, "Hey, I've got limits too"—these are acts of kindness directed inward. Because let's face it, being kind to yourself is a powerful strategy in weathering the burnout storm.

As we all navigate our unique burnout battles, the ripple effect of kindness spreads beyond our own experiences. Sharing stories of resilience and kindness inspires others to create a supportive tapestry in their own communities. It's like fostering a culture where everyone feels seen, heard, and supported in their journey to recovery.

In the grand tapestry of burnout and recovery, kindness is that golden thread that binds us all together. So, let's reflect on the impact of shared stories, acts of kindness, and the power of empathy. Together, let's cultivate a kindness-driven approach to burnout. Each small act? It's a stitch in the quilt of resilience, a reminder that even in the darkest moments, kindness has the power to illuminate the path to healing. 🌟

[z4g4dk4nft]

Unleashing the Power of the C1PH3R NFT Collection: A Journey Beyond Imagination

Welcome to an extraordinary adventure that transcends the boundaries of art and cryptography. In this blog post, we invite you to explore the mesmerizing world of the C1PH3R NFT collection. Brace yourself as we delve into the breathtaking artworks, cryptic riddles, and the unparalleled thrill that awaits you. Get ready to unlock the secrets and unleash the power of your imagination.

The Enigmatic Artworks:

Prepare to be captivated by the sheer brilliance of the C1PH3R NFT collection. Each artwork is a masterpiece that pushes the boundaries of creativity, blending symbolism, and hidden messages seamlessly. These digital artworks are not just static pieces; they are gateways to a world of possibilities. Through intricate design and meticulous attention to detail, they challenge your perception and beckon you to unravel their secrets.

Cryptic Riddles and the Quest for More:

Within each C1PH3R NFT lies a unique cryptic riddle, a gateway to the next steps in your journey. As you collect and engage with these exceptional NFTs, you'll find yourself embarking on a quest for knowledge and discovery. Solving these riddles will unlock the path to attaining a piece of our highly anticipated limited collection. Get ready to challenge your intellect and immerse yourself in the thrill of the unknown.

The Power of Raffle Tickets:

In addition to the excitement of solving riddles and collecting remarkable NFTs, the C1PH3R collection offers another layer of exhilaration – the power of raffle tickets. With every NFT you acquire, you earn a ticket that puts you in the running for extraordinary rewards. The top three contestants, chosen at random based on the number of tickets they hold, will have the opportunity to claim exclusive prizes. Imagine being among the few who get to own the animated version of the completed masterpiece, a true testament to your passion and dedication.

The Intersection of Art and Cryptography:

The C1PH3R NFT collection is more than just art; it is an exploration of the interplay between creativity and cryptography. Each artwork holds secrets waiting to be deciphered, blending the worlds of aesthetics and hidden knowledge. By immersing yourself in this collection, you not only become a collector of remarkable digital art but also a participant in a larger narrative that embraces the magic of cryptography.

Embrace the Journey:

As you embark on this journey into the C1PH3R NFT collection, you'll discover a community of like-minded individuals who share your passion for art, cryptography, and the unknown. Engage in discussions, collaborate on solving riddles, and celebrate the joy of discovery together. The journey is as much about the destination as it is about the connections and experiences along the way.

Unleash the power of your imagination as you step into the enigmatic world of the C1PH3R NFT collection. Marvel at the breathtaking artworks, decipher the cryptic riddles, and unlock the secrets that lie within. With every NFT you collect, you inch closer to claiming extraordinary rewards and becoming part of an exclusive community. Embrace the journey and let the boundless possibilities of C1PH3R ignite your passion for art, cryptography, and the limitless realms of the imagination.

[charlotterhea]

I love reading SSHG and think the two work so well together, but honestly seeing the amount of hate not just for snape but for people who ship this is makes feel almost guilty or like I’m wrong for liking this ship. Even tho I only ship them when Hermione is of age and in like AU situations where Severus survives the war and everyone’s of age. Sorry to dump this on you but I’m curious if you have any advice on how not to care about people being shitty about the ship? Like it’s all fiction so idk why people get so heated about it lol

Hey Anon!

Don't be sorry, it's absolutely fine. :) I'm sorry that the hate the ship gets makes you feel guilty. I'd like to say 'you don't have to' but that's usually not the way it works (although it's true, there are zero reasons to feel guilty for liking a fictional pair of people and even less for hating on people who do). It makes me sad that fandom can get so railed up about some characters that are not even real. Being intrigued by a dynamic doesn't make you a bad person, reading stories about dynamics that are considered problematic in rl doesn't make you a bad person. In rl, nobody would consider someone liking the book 'Lolita' a bad person, and most of the Snamione fics out there are not even remotely close to what happens in that book, not even when they begin with an underage Hermione. That's uniquely a fandom thing, one of the negatives. Since I ended up first and foremost in the Snapedom part of Tumblr (and a little bit more in the Snarry corner of it at that - though I don't know how I got here, I don't even really ship them 😂) I didn't get or witness hate towards Snamione shippers so far. But if that changes I'm pretty sure I will make extensive use of the block button. ^^ I'm too tired to let myself be dragged into some misguided purity bullshit and since I don't want to interact with people that spread hate because of two fictional characters anyway, I would just yeet them out of my field of vision and go on shipping whatever makes me happy.

So that would be my advice for you: Enjoy the things that make you happy and block everybody that wants to spoil them for you. Life's too short to feel guilty over some harmless shipping that doesn't mean anything anymore as soon as you go offline. Look out for people that ship Snamione as well and enjoy the ship with them (me for example, I need more Snamione on my feed 😁). And if you found some Snamione blogs that you like and love to follow - stop looking into the ship tag. It seems like a lot of hate is there, spread by blogs that hate the ship and use the general ship tag instead of the anti tag. I almost exclusively consume the posts on my dashboard and find new blogs through the ones I already follow (which might be the reason for all the Snarry blogs... huh! 😆). So far, that seems to work fine to avoid hate. You are not obliged to read the hate or to expose yourself to it. Use the tools the sites give you to block and/or delete what makes you feel bad. Find your cosy corner and enjoy it. :)

I hope I could help you. And don't hesitate to leave a message! I'm here for the community. 😊

[tistje]

What Does It Mean to “Be Yourself” as an Autistic Person

As an autistic person, I find myself constantly balancing between what I want and what others expect of me. “Why can’t I just be myself?” is a question I often ask myself. The message to ‘just be yourself’ is everywhere – in the media, from friends, family, even from doctors. Yet, this advice often feels paradoxical – it sounds easy, but feels anything but simple to me.

When I look online for ways to become closer to my true self, I notice how often ‘being yourself’ is praised as a response to the curated perfection of social media. It’s a call for authenticity and vulnerability, a pathway to a healthier, more fulfilling life. But what does this look like for people like me? Can we walk that same path?

The Challenge of Authenticity in a Complex World

For many, authenticity means the freedom to express themselves without constraints. But for me, that path is strewn with obstacles I can’t always avoid. Over a decade ago, I wrote on this blog about this very topic, noting that society often makes it difficult for autistic people to just “be themselves.” Our world has subtle, unspoken standards of ‘normalcy,’ and these can exert pressure on us in ways we might not even notice.

In my daily life, I constantly feel the tension between ‘being who I am’ and ‘meeting expectations.’ Deep-seated stigmas around autism, my own fears and desires, and the relentless search to define myself all contribute to the challenge. What does ‘being myself’ actually mean, and when do I feel most like myself?

Question for the reader: Do you ever feel this tension between being yourself and meeting expectations? What does authenticity mean to you?

The Tension Between Openness and Concealment

A dilemma I frequently face is whether to disclose my autism. Openness can foster understanding, but it can also invite misunderstanding and stereotypes. Sometimes, I choose to keep my autism to myself, fearing judgment. Yet hiding this part of me feels like self-betrayal – it creates a divide between who I am and who others believe me to be.

There are rare moments when I feel the safety to truly be myself, and it’s in those times that I feel most at peace with who I am. In those moments, I don’t have to play a role or wear a mask. But outside that safe environment, it often feels like I’m trapped in a role that doesn’t fit me.

Reflection for the reader: Are there times when you feel you’re playing a role that doesn’t fit you? What stops you from being fully yourself?

Autism and the Mirror of Society

Society constantly reflects back to me how I ‘should be,’ and these expectations weigh heavily on me. The media often portrays autistic people as socially awkward or emotionless. While I know this stereotype isn’t true, it influences how others interact with me. It feels like I’m trapped in an unseen identity that others have crafted for me.

Friends and family may only know me as ‘that autistic person.’ Although they mean well, their preconceptions sometimes act as a veil I must work through to be truly seen.

A Complex Community: Authenticity Isn’t Always Easy, Even Among Autistics

Ironically, even within the autism community, authenticity isn’t always easy. We each carry our own unique stories and needs, and sometimes that diversity creates misunderstanding. While our shared experience of autism can bring us together, it also brings differences that can be challenging to navigate.

Discussions within the community about issues like self-diagnosis, the role of non-autistic allies, and the impact of trauma highlight the complexity of being authentic within the group. For me, the balance between authenticity and adaptation is an ongoing journey, even within spaces where I might expect unconditional acceptance.

The Impact of a Medical Record: Is This Really Who I Am?

My diagnosis, encapsulated in medical records, tells only a part of my story – often the most challenging moments. These descriptions are meant to guide healthcare professionals, but they only reflect fragments of who I am. When I look at myself, I don’t just see limitations; I see strength, resilience, and talents. The words on paper cannot capture my full complexity.

The issue is that some professionals treat these records as the absolute truth and continue to see me through that lens. While I understand the necessity of this structure, breaking free from the limitations of these documents is an ongoing struggle.

The Weight of Stigma: How Stereotypes Constrain Us

One of the greatest obstacles to self-identity is the stigma surrounding autism. Restrictive stereotypes are still common in society: autistic people are often seen as lacking emotional awareness, or as socially awkward. These images limit my ability to express my true self. Thankfully, awareness of autism is growing, but change is slow. Still, I hold on to hope that someday society will see us as individuals, with unique qualities and stories.

Question for the reader: Have you experienced stigmas in your life? How have these impacted your self-image or behavior?

Conclusion: Toward a Future Where I Can Be Myself

The question "What prevents me from being myself?" is more complex than a simple societal issue. It is a blend of social structures, personal insecurities, and ingrained biases. As an autistic person, I often feel the pressure to meet expectations that don’t fit me. Yet, I believe in a future with space for empathy and understanding.

It’s my hope that my story sheds light on the challenges of living with autism and contributes to a broader understanding. With the right support and an open-minded attitude from those around me, I feel the path to authentic living is within reach, one step at a time.

Call to Action: How can we, as a society, create a world where everyone feels free to be themselves? What steps can we take today to make that a reality?

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AFLW Pride Round guernseys unveiled, and they’re fantastic!

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AFLW Pride Round guernseys unveiled, and they’re fantastic!

Colourful pride and inclusion lead the way as we head into the AFLW Pride Round.

Week seven of the AFLW season sees all 18 clubs celebrate their annual Pride Round.

Pride, respect, love and inclusion are the themes the AFLW clubs are celebrating during this year’s Pride Round.

Teams celebrate and support the diversity and inclusion of LGBTQI+ communities in AFL, both on and off the field.

All 18 teams will don a specially designed pride-themed guernsey as they take to the field this weekend.

Everyone is welcome at the AFL.

Giants co-captain Kat Smith designed the team’s guernsey for their match against Adelaide at Henson Park.

And it has a special connection for the players.

“I think it’s really unique to the whole competition, having a different pride game for their home games.” Kat told us.

“Pride Round is my favourite game. I’ve been a part of the rainbow community since I was 12 years old.”

“It’s always had a special place in my heart. AFL is a place where everyone is welcome.”

Kat admits designing the guernsey was no small feet but very important to her.

“All the different colours of the pride flag are there, so no matter where you identify, you hopefully see yourself there.”

“A key feature was the ‘Never Surrender’ strip on the charcoal guernsey.”

“The rainbow community never surrenders and continues to push for equality and acceptance, and we wanted to highlight that.”

There are five words on the back of the GIANTS guernsey: all-embracing, confidence, togetherness, inclusivity and love.

Kat created these with two of her teammates, who are allies.

“I have no design ability at all. So I had a few conversations and got some ideas.”

“I then sent it through to the team, and they helped put it all together.”

The Western Bulldogs guernsey was designed by the members playing group and features the colours of the transgender flag.

The inaugural Pride Game was established by the Bulldogs and Carlton in 2018.

The Bulldogs, who play Essendon on Friday night, have included trans colours in their designs since 2022.

Based on the club’s white clash guernsey, it has gender-identity symbols featured across the pink and blue hoops in the centre.

These were included to represent the diversity of the LGBTQIA+ community.

The Bulldogs Pride Supporter group is not only excited for this year’s match on Friday but is walking with pride to the match, and you can join them.

You can join them at the western end of the car park from 5 pm.

The group will start to walk half an hour later before the opening proceedings.

Who’s pride guernsey is your fav?

The Roos design was led by former player Ailish Considine, celebrating love and unity.

It features the royal blue stripes and iconic Bounding Roo, lined with the colours of the Progressive Pride flag.

With a heart in the centre of the Roo and the message ‘Love Unites’ inscribed at the bottom of the guernsey.

Port Adelaide’s Pride Guernsey is designed by players Abbey Dowrick and Hannah Ewings.

“It was all pretty foreign for me. Lucky. I had nothing to do with the drawings. I’m horrible when it comes to being an artist”

“I’m just glad that what we thought of came to life,” Ewings said.

Named the Power of Pride, the design represents all who make up the Port Adelaide community.

“I really love the club’s tri-bolt guernsey design, so I wanted us to try to replicate something like that with the lightning bolt but then make it our own as well.”

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“AFLW is all about equality and inclusiveness and it was important to us to incorporate those and some other important words in our design.”

“For me, the biggest thing is just accepting who you are and loving who you are.”

“The Pride Round is always such a special week to see how many people get out in all sorts of colours.”

“You can feel the joy around the football community when everyone gets around each other and loves love.”

St Kilda has an interlocking rainbow pattern that celebrates diversity and acceptance.

This year’s design will be the fourth Pride guernsey the Saints have worn in the AFLW competition.

The Sydney Swans couldn’t wait to celebrate their pride, wearing them this weekend at Henson Park against the Cats.

The Hawks guernsey not only features the rainbow hawk front and centre but also the Hawks Pride logo, highlighting the important work of their supporter group.

With only a few days left before this year’s AFLW Pride Round there are still a few more guernsey designs to be unveiled.

But we can’t wait to see them all shine with pride.

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Navigating the Dating Scene: Expert Advice for Singles

Embarking on the dating journey can be both exhilarating and challenging. Whether you’re new to dating or looking to refine your approach, having expert advice can make a significant difference. Here’s a comprehensive guide to navigating the dating scene with confidence and clarity.

1. Understand Your Dating Goals

Define What You Want

Before diving into the dating world, take time to reflect on your goals. Are you looking for a serious relationship, casual dating, or something in between? Understanding your own objectives will help you align your efforts and expectations with potential partners.

Communicate Clearly

Once you have clarity on your goals, communicate them openly with your dates. Being upfront about what you’re looking for ensures that both you and your partner are on the same page, reducing the likelihood of misunderstandings and mismatched expectations.

2. Create an Authentic Online Presence

Craft a Genuine Profile

In the digital age, online dating is often the first step in meeting new people. Create a profile that accurately reflects who you are. Use recent photos and write a bio that highlights your interests, values, and personality. Authenticity is key to attracting matches who appreciate you for who you truly are.

Be Mindful of Your Online Behavior

Your online interactions set the tone for potential relationships. Be respectful and considerate in your messages and interactions. Avoid engaging in negative or offensive behavior, and focus on fostering positive and meaningful conversations.

3. Master the Art of Conversation

Ask Open-Ended Questions

Effective communication is crucial in dating. When engaging in conversations, ask open-ended questions that encourage your date to share more about themselves. This approach helps build a deeper connection and keeps the dialogue flowing naturally.

Practice Active Listening

Active listening involves not just hearing but understanding and responding thoughtfully to what your date says. Show genuine interest in their stories and opinions, and avoid interrupting or dominating the conversation. This skill enhances rapport and fosters a stronger connection.

4. Navigate First Dates with Confidence

Plan a Comfortable Setting

Choose a date location that promotes ease and conversation. Opt for environments where both you and your date can feel relaxed and at ease, such as a casual café or a scenic park. A comfortable setting can help reduce first-date jitters and facilitate meaningful interactions.

Be Yourself

On your first date, focus on being authentic and relaxed. Avoid putting on a façade or trying to impress excessively. Authenticity is attractive and helps establish a genuine connection with your date.

5. Handle Rejection Gracefully

Understand It’s Not Personal

Rejection is a natural part of dating. If things don’t work out, remember that it’s not a reflection of your worth. Everyone has unique preferences and circumstances, and rejection is often about compatibility rather than personal shortcomings.

Move On Positively

Handle rejection with grace and move forward positively. Use the experience as a learning opportunity to refine your approach and continue pursuing meaningful connections. Maintaining a positive attitude will help you stay motivated and open to new possibilities.

6. Build Healthy Relationships

Prioritize Mutual Respect

Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and understanding. Ensure that your interactions and relationships are based on respect for each other’s boundaries, opinions, and feelings. Effective communication and empathy are essential for nurturing a healthy partnership.

Foster Emotional Connection

Focus on building a strong emotional connection with your partner. Spend quality time together, share experiences, and support each other’s personal growth. A solid emotional foundation is crucial for a lasting and fulfilling relationship.

Conclusion

Navigating the dating scene requires a mix of self-awareness, authentic communication, and positive interactions. By understanding your dating goals, creating an authentic online presence, mastering conversation skills, and handling rejection gracefully, you set yourself up for successful and meaningful connections. Remember, dating is a journey of discovery—embrace it with confidence and an open heart.

[monratarot]

Hi, Hopefully this is correct.

I am curious. What is different between me and my fs' exes? Is that an ok question to ask?

Thank you!

W.D, 21/12/2003, Specific event: I went to a concert. 🎨💫🧸

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Ok, so I am going to focus more on your FS because you definitely know how the exes were and you are not going there anymore, only way ahead. I can see that your person is someone private, and discrete that likes to plan stuff without telling others. They use a lot of introspection before making a decision. Also, they are older than you and enjoy solitude, more of an introverted. This person breaks traditions finds a unique approach to a challenge and can even appear as a mentor for you. They can teach you to be patient and to think twice before doing or saying something. They believe that if you want to have a healthy relationship you first need to have some space apart to ultimately grow closer together. With this person, you will learn how to rediscover yourself. You just need to be careful because they might dealt with some trauma in the past and can have some post-traumatic disorder (this can be resolved but it takes some time). They will declare love to you but you need to tell them that you want to see actions, not only words. They will see you as a fresh start and this can help both of you as they are ruled by their heart. So you can be a healer for them(if you think that you don't want to do this is pretty fine for you, it's not your responsibility for something from their past). The good news is that they value traditional relationships and can be seen as a reliable partner if they are going to resolve their past problems. You will see them become more charming, flirtatious, and warm-hearted and this can only bring happiness, security, and sensuality. This person cares a lot for families and children because they want to have harmony at home as they are very nurturing. Keep in mind that you don't need to compromise your beliefs or integrity if you feel that something isn't ok. Angel message: Angel wisdom reminds you that when you aim for a vision without doubt or deviation, it must succeed. Your guidance is to persevere towards your vision. Let everyone's thoughts, words, and actions be directed toward your desired outcome. Nothing is more powerful than focused energy and the angels will see the pure light of your commitment, whether it is to a relationship, a piece of work, a journey, or anything else in your life.

Affirmation: I am committed to my vision. I wish you only the best!🍀

Moni🧚‍♀️