#‘it’s the 80s it’s unrealistic’
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I swear, the stupidest argument I've ever heard against byler is "but the actors would be uncomfortable kissing!"
Babe. I'm gonna hold your hand while I say this. It's part of their job. They're acting.
#my qualification for saying this is that I've been doing theater for 10 years#im speaking from experience#nevermind the fact finn HAS kissed a man on screen before#wtf is this argument#it's up there with “It's unrealistic cause gay people didn't exist in the 80s”#pardon???#byler#byler tumblr
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Btw I fucking hate that queer media is so oversaturated with tragedy and misery that people feel comfortable saying that queer joy is “unrealistic” as if that isn’t overtly homophobic. Never mind the fact that the “unrealistic” story in question has multiple portrayals of homophobia and the mental health issues that come from a childhood of being bullied for your sexuality. But no, experiencing happiness even once is too much for queer people to ask for. Having a happy ending and the boy you love loving you back has never happened for a queer person once ever. And you’re an ally—ok.
#this is about heartstopper and byler specifically#heartstopper#byler#stranger things#‘it was the 80s’ you’re homophobic.#the 80s weren’t EASY for queer ppl but it wasn’t impossible to fall in love#this isn’t about ppl who don’t ship byler it’s about ppl who say it’s unrealistic for Will to find love#whether with Mike or with someone else
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you remembered, quite observant |hidden agenda ep. 1
#hidden agenda#hidden agenda the series#joong archen#dunk natachai#aka very convoluted flirting strategies#i really like how needlessly chaotic this is already#i'm not even sure i want to get an explanation why joke doesn't directly hit on him before starting this whole thing#but i enjoy how charmed he is but also isn't so unrealistically enfatuated that he'd let bs slide#and i am not certain how airheaded zo is to not catch the i love you in mandarin by joke#love the petulant way he grabs his coffee (also in a way that screams 'I drink take out coffee a lot' - which probably is just dunk)#hmmm#first time i am watching a show with joongdunk and i enjoy them#some of the show feels a bit like it was made 2 years ago but it is pretty solid and i like the silliness of it all#i just hope nita doesn't have to suffer under their combined weirdness - i felt sorry when zo ripped the strap on her bag after not accepti#ng her refusal#but i appreciate that the show knows that he isn#t perfect - he did slap joke after all#also: i changed the font i used which took up 80% of the time working on this aka 25 minutes#still not 100% sure but the text reads crisper than on my older sets
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I think that part of what like. kills me about the whole media literacy and critical thinking aspect of enjoying media these days is that people refuse to like. contextualize that
A. Bad media can still hold significant meaning to people
B. Media made for a demographic you aren’t apart of is not inherently bad media
C. Media made for and consumed by the opposite demographic is not inherently shallow or flawed nor is it above criticism for its media tropes either.
#unimportant thoughts#i dont feel like dropping specifics in post but like. people online drive me legitimately insane#good example is Ready Player One. its an okay book but people LOVE to hate on it for being a shallow nostalgia grab for old male demographic#and like. yeah. but also comsider that it Was written earnestly by a man in that demographic? and that people enjoyed it???#and maybe im soft hearted but my Dad was a nerd in the 80’s so both of us reading that book and comparing our experiences with it and#learning about his childhood from him. it was awesome yk??? was the book groudbreaking or particularly moving? no#are there a lot of fair criticisms you can make about the book regarding its poorly written female characters and painfully male tone#throughout? absolutely. its not the most vile piece of media its barely mediocre and its not the best thing since sliced bread either#and it kills me because instead of being able to have conversations like thay#people just attack and attack and attack and ATTACK#I don’t know i think the rise of this booktook wattpad level romance smut is another big part of this#are those books incredible? no. definitely not. are they decent? yeah theyre fine enough#are their characters shallow; do they follow tropes; are the characters clearly romanticized objects for us to googoo eye over? yeah#so fucking what??? they arent winning pulitzer prizes theyre just popular online and easily accesible#people love consumbable media thats not an inherently bad thing#and i think its hypocritical for people to defend one and attack the other or even to attack both#media doesnt exist to be appropriately Deep and Meaningful before people are allowed to consume and enjoy it#like. i think theres a LOT of levels of undestanding compassion and respect that people need to reach before these conversations are worth#anything. because right now it really feels like girls and boys arguing back and forth on the playground over whos show is better#anyways. i could go on but i wont.#bottom line i suggest you take a deep look at how ‘realistic’ and ‘meaningful’ the media you enjoy actually fucking is before you start#critizing other media for being too shallow or unrealistic depictions of something#hate to break it to you guys but 90% of fictional characters are fictional and dont act like people irl ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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clandestinerip intern this april 27th i hope you go back to your roots and post the most unhinged post of all time, please it would be funny.
#the more cryptic the pic accompanying it the better#movie from the 80s with the queerest soulmates of all time perfectly mirroring their current bullshit#mixed in with an injoke we'll learn about next tour cycle's banter#but i'll also take clandestinerip captioning it in a way that one ups the hiatus tweet from 2012#you know the one: 'happy bday patrick i'm glad i lost my virginity to you'#or a nice selfie of the two. but that seems the most unrealistic option of all
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How are you feeling? How is life treating you?
Hi there o/ tbh not great, I stepped away from tumblr for a bit because I was doing too much doomscrolling, and it was crushing me into anxious inaction/despair instead of reminding me to do what I can. possibly a skill issue
#joking about the skill issue. i have diagnosed anxiety Issues lol#and i really did not need to see people going ‘but these other people have it worse!’ when that’s been a cognitive distortion living#in my head rent free for over a decade. lol!#whatever. making myself miserable helps no one. donating and then closing the tab before looking at 20000 other fundraisers does.#also trying to adjust to new meds and 80% of the way to a new diagnosis. but at least work is good!#except for the aforementioned anxiety about how I’m gonna get Fired for showing up late by 10 minutes (unrealistic)#sorry for possible tmi. I’ve tried to keep this blog soup focused but at this point it’s pretty much my main#i figure like. one (1) ventpost acceptable#thanks for the ask :^)#ladyjazzhands
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In order to prove my point I think it might be time to make a long post on the AIDS metaphor
#i have one sitting in the drafts but never finished it#realizing that ppl may view the show in a certain lens because they dont see the metaphor its portraying and thats fine#if something is hidden under metaphor then its not supposed to be easily noticeable#and i cant just say ‘oh theyre doing an aids metaphor’ and then not provide evidence so you know what. thats what im gonna do.#putting the unrealistic and fun nostalgic show that doesnt critique the 80s at all accusations to rest#robin rambles
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St. Elsewhere season 1 it's 1983 so his face and voice is absolutely fuckin Amadeus, and and Denzel Washington's character is amazing and he keeps calling him "boy" but Tom is literally a year older than him it's ridiculous, and and it's all so fuckin emotional... He gets shot and has memory loss and and oh the voice cracking, choked out words "I want to die" and I wanted to die myself because look at them both look how pretty he is ohmygod and his lush fluffy hair... i swear to god All i wanted, was just to happily enjoy watching this damn thing and make gifs... I was not expecting all this pain, I am torn
#MY HEAD IS EXPLODING I CANNOT LOOK AT HIM#they should have totally made out#these pics are not even in order because I AM SORRY I was panicking I JUST#i just wanted to make gifs THAT WAS ALL OMG#oooooohmygoooooddddd#it is not only unrealistic but ILLEGAL to look THAT PRETTY AND CUNTY after getting shot near to oblivion and survive#Tom Hulce#i dont even know what to say in the tags#i want to cry#let me cry just like#i am dying#my emotions overtook everything i cant even make gifs i am so emotional right now#his fuckin hair#my queer king#st elsewhere s1#denzel washington#st. elsewhere#st elsewhere#amadeus#amadeus 1984#i am tagging this amadeus i dont fuckin care im here ALONE ANYWAYS I DO THIS FOR ME AND MY KING#COMMAND ME MR HULCE MY LIEGE#I would die for him#ohmyfuckinfuck#this is so ridiculous#GOD DID FAVOR MY KING MADE HIM SO BEAUTIFUL AND GAY#i just i just wanted to MAKE GIFS WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME#What did i do to deserve this#80s tv#Thgop
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Okay, last post before I try to sleep
Let's be real, those kids from Stranger Things should have been bullied way harder
It's the 80s, try to act like it at least a little bit maybe?
80s sucked for a reason
#i'm tired#stranger things#Idk. Just even from season one it was a little unrealistic how everyone treated end#And the fact that nobody was doing horrible 80s stuff made season four out of place and dumb#Which. Season four is already dumb#night
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just checking in how's the war going? you're losing? damn that's crazy..
#idk why they want this 80% frozen wasteland whose value is almost all overseas anyway like#the factory towns and mines are probably going to be reclaimed by the countries they are physically in lol#but i guess the philosophy with the coalition is to take anything you can get especially when they are in a weak position#land and manpower above all else yk#^doing some mostly irrelevant worldbuilding as you can see lol#and also incoherent because i do not have a very deep understanding of politics or history AT ALL. yet#<not that it's meant to be entirely realistic either bc 1 fantasy world with magic and shit#and factions with some level of unrealistic motivation bc its cool#and 2 its so unbelievably complex i feel like its very difficult to have it be reasonably “accurate” + irrelevant to the story as well#but it is fun to think about :3#my ocs
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Daniel’s waiting out in the parking lot, leaning against Johnny’s car as he waits for him and the rest of the Cobra’s to come out from the competition.
He had seen Johnny win, third time champ and looking so unbelievably happy about it. Daniel had wanted to run onto the mat and congratulate him, wanted to jump into his arms and kiss him stupid while their friends laughed and made fun.
But Daniel couldn’t do that, not in front of all those people and in front of Johnny’s sensei. He knew the man meant the world to the blond and if he lost him because Daniel couldn’t help himself… well he didn’t wanna think on that.
He snapped out of his thoughts when there was raucous laughter and cheers from the entrance. Daniel looked over, smiling wide as he spotted the guys all pushing and shoving each other, Bobby holding a second place trophy proudly.
(I had a thought that Johnny could walk out with Ali under his arm and either Daniel gets the wrong idea and runs or! Daniel suddenly remembers that they made a deal that their relationship was just for convenience, Johnny using him to make Ali jealous and Daniel taking the chance to at least have a memory of being with him.
So he smiles and waves, ignores the panic in Johnny’s expression to congratulate him and then Ali when she reveals she might give Johnny another chance. The guys knew about it of course, look between them all awkwardly for a long moment as Johnny tries to figure something out and Daniel looks for an escape. Dutch, surprisingly, is the one to give it to him, offering him a ride home. Johnny gets jealous despite knowing he has no right to be.)
Johnny comes out last, looking around the parking lot as if searching for someone. When he spots Daniel a wide smile breaks across his face, already jogging toward him without a care for what his friends are saying.
Daniel expects him to come to a stop in front of him, pat his shoulder or show off his trophy or something. He certainly doesn’t expect the hands on his waist lifting him up and spinning him around, loud laugh escaping them both as it happens. Johnny puts him down but keeps close, the happiness rolling off him absolutely infectious as Daniel smiles back.
Johnny’s the one to initiate the kiss, not paying a single mind to anybody in the parking lot or the way their friends whoop and holler like a bunch of children. Daniel smiles through it, hands wrapping around the taller’s neck as he feels fingers dip into the back pockets of his jeans.
#fic prompt#prompt#fic#johnny lawrence#daniel larusso#lawrusso#karate kid#cobra kai#80's lawrusso#two prompts in one#cobra kai boys#au#daniel doesn't enter the tournament#established relationship#people are accepting here and i dont care that its unrealistic#stfu
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fighting for my life
#80/20 rule is kicking my ass why does the last 20% TAKE SO LONG#the fic is DONE why isnt it DONE#aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa#anyway. got 2 chapters in drafts on ao3 rn#was hoping to get it all done today but prob unrealistic#hoping half today half tmorrow#there are 9 chapters as it looks now#i think some of them might break in sorta weird places but i dont really care#and some are double the lenght of others but we can live with that#if im posting them all at the same time it doesnt matter
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I know Vanessa learned that the games were just a cover up for real events in HW1, but I love the idea that Gregory and Vanessa shit on the old games because the lore is "super unrealistic and totally bullshit", only for them to realize later that the "lore" was real life and everything that happened in them actually happened
#Chip Chatter#they say it's unrealistic as if they weren't *both* brainwashed/infected by a crusty old endo from the 80's that can mimic anything and#everything it see's/hears
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Ah yes, realism the thing I watch the Sci-Fi Supernatural Fantasy Nostalgia show for
#I grow tired of complaints that a happy ending would be unrealistic#especially when it comes to Will being happy and gay in the 80s#like just say you're homphobic and go \#stranger things#byler
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what is school doing to me why am i all “oh wah wah i’m missing out on prom another high school experience that i’ve missed” boy you hate events what are you saying.
#raii talks a lot#hardest thing in the world to be a boy who hates events but has an unrealistic idea of high school because of 80s movies or whatever#of course you miss out on things it came free with your lack of social bonds#i mean realistically i hate loud noises and busy places but unrealistically id sure love to hang around and be good at talking with people#this is so funny i’m so funny takes bite out of glass and throws myself into a wall what if no one remembers my name eats drywall
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media that i cant believe all takes place in ohio
Glee
Heathers
Doom Patrol
The Goofy Movie
#also that ap bio tv show#also wasnt paper girls in cleveland?#the impala from spn had an ohio plate for awhile a fact that made me insufferable in middle school#AND THAT YA BOOK ABOUT THE ALIENS?? i remember that vividly cuz there was a blizzard in that book and i was like unrealistic !#there hasnt been a blizzard here since like the 80s#but seriously ohio needs to stop creeping up in media. its not that cool. jumpscare every time#mine#hell is real
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