#@my instructor you bih

[cinanamon]

How tf can someone demand respect when they know nothing about respecting others themselves

[sailorvinusmoved]

✨ uh oh! bad ending.

REPOST AND FILL IN WITH DETAILS ABOUT YOUR MUSE AS IF THEY WERE A CHARACTER IN A DATING SIM.

🌙 ( insert his sultry n sexy character theme song for when you reach his scenes. )

name: virote srisati. their profession: dance instructor, art therapist, local exorcist and spooky fighter by moonlight, fashion killa by daylight! where they can be found: studios, museums, metaphysical shops, parks, wandering the streets at night, cemeteries, art supply stores, trader joe’s, fighting soccer moms at whole foods over the last barley and bean salad, outside 7-eleven crying. or in a bathroom crying. crying somewhere. favourite food type: anything ultra spicy he has no spice limits, thai, chinese, cuban, japanese, will occasionally crave taco bell. that’s a lie… he will often crave junk, but won’t act upon it so he just dies inside. has a sweet tooth for unusual ice cream flavors like jalapeno-pineapple. favourite alcoholic drink: pink and red moscato, tokaji, plum wine, peach bellini, amaretto sour, glitter and trash ( gin, vodka, sprite. ) favourite trait: humor... listen, he loves when a man can make him laugh. first off, he doesnt laugh very much. if you can make him laugh, you’re in. as noted earlier, he doesnt give a shit about having sweet nothings whispered in his ear. tell him some crazy shit! make him crack tf up! also he likes men that can get aggressive and turn a bitch inside-out when needed. tough guys. a man who can hold shit down. who aint afraid to grab someone and break their fucking neck. that’s hot to him, babey! where they would go on a date: anywhere that isn’t uptight! hell, he’d be shocked someone wants to go on a date with him at all. ideal gift: candles, crystals, origami paper, art supplies in general, flowers, his favorite foods. super in luv w. the idea of being given things like handmade soap or jelly / jam from the farmer’s market. would die if he was given a single piece of fruit like a mango. that’s intimacy! and sharing it? bih… tf… that’s sexy to him. if you wanna get him married to you right away just tell him you donated money to a charity or something. if you buy him gucci or louboutin, aka what he considers k-mart for rich people with no taste, he will call the cops on you. when will they drink alcohol: there’s a 30% chance he’s already had two glasses of wine before leaving the house, tbh. not enough to get tipsy or drunk, but enough to just forget he’s had enough of everything. how many dates until they go to bed: depends on the date and who’s his dating partner. he doesn’t think sex is absolutely sacred so it don’t even gotta be a date! you bored? wanna get freaky? he’s game. though, he may wait a bit if he thinks he’s falling in love. also, you think he’s gonna make it to the actual bed? no, he’s sleeping on the floor with a volume of tokyo mew mew on his face. he just rly likes sex... it’s recreational, in his eyes.

✨ TAGGED BY: :) ✨ TAGGED BY: lit’rally.... if u wanna do it then b my Guest,

[jae-ffrey]

🌸 50 Questions Tag 🌸

tagged by this wonderful person, right here 👉@taurusjaehyun 💗 hope you're doing well, dear! loved the new fic btw 🤭💞

What takes up too much of your time? being on my phone

What makes your day better? food especially if im craving something and i get to eat it

What’s the best thing to happen to you today? getting tagged to do this 😂

What fictional place would you like to go to? Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry (From Harry Potter) or Wakanda (From Black Panther/MCU)

Are you good at giving advice? I think so, since a lot of my friends irl ask me for advices.

Do you have a mental illness? I used to have anxiety, I still do tbh, but it's a lot worse when I was younger.

Have you ever experienced sleep paralysis? ONCE, AND IT WAS SCARY

What musician inspired you the most? Bruno Mars, BTS, Yeng Constantino

Have you ever fallen in love? Yes

What’s your dream date? Anything related to the night sky and space like, stargazing while on a picnic or going to an observatory

What do others notice about you? im smart yet clingy cuz i give too many hugs apparently 🙃

What’s an annoying habit you have? getting second hand embarrassment on everything everybody does

Do you still talk to your first love? yes, cuz we're currently together?

How many exes do you have? 1, we lasted for 1 and a half months 😃. He broke up with me, thank god.

How many songs are in your playlist? I have like 200+ songs in my favourites playlist.

What instruments can you play? uhh i can play the recorder? 😂 other than that, none, zero.

What do you have the most pictures of? NCT, mostly jaehyun

Where would you like to go before you die? i actually do not have one in mind, but i guess to Spain?

What’s your Zodiac? Cancer sun (astrology zodiac), Metal Dragon (chinese zodiac)

Do you relate to it? At some points yes, but am not as vulnerable as people think a cancer is.

What is happiness to you? Being with my whole family (btw my brother's now here so yey! we're finally complete after 18 years), Being with my closest friends, Being able to make new friends, Discovering new music/songs, Food that are actually good, and many moreeee

Are you going through anything right now? nothing too big of a deal, I'm just anxious cuz my grades aren't out yet and most of my instructors are out of town.

What’s the worst decision you ever made? i honestly don't know cuz there's a lot 😂

What’s your favourite store? H&M, bershka, Stradivarius, Zara. basically, all stores where i get my clothes from 👌

What’s your opinion on abortion? neutral. as a future nurse, i choose not to have an opinion on it.

Do you keep a bucket list? YES, i have a notebook just for it although i kinda forgot where i kept it ahahahaha

Do you have a favourite album? the BTS Love Yourself albums

What do you want for your birthday? a car even though i still dont have a license

What are most people’s first impressions of you? they mostly think I'm serious cuz i tend to have like a glare type of look (i have poor vision okay?) but tbh im a huge softie idk what they're talking about

What age do you seem according to most people? early 20s

Where do you keep your phone while you’re sleeping? on a table beside the headboard of my bed, so like when i lie down it would be above my head, if that makes sense

What word to you say the most? i used to say "b*tch" in most sentences (e.g "b*tchhh, you would NOT believe....) nowadays i do self-censoring and go "bih/bish/bith","gurl/bruh", or "sis". other times i use terms of endearment (sweetie, honey, bby, etc.)

What’s the oldest age you would date? 6 years older than me

What's the youngest age you would date? 1 year, MAX

What job/career do most people say would suit you?  Anything medical related tbh (they're not wrong tho)

What’s your favourite music genre? i really do not have a favorite genre. it really depends on my mood, but i do listen to a lot of pop and R&B

If you could live in any country in the world, where would it be? Spain or Canada

What is your current favourite song? Legs by Eric Bellinger (warning: it is explicit, so i dont recommend listening to it if you're not into smutty hoe things 🤧)

How long have you had this blog for? I've had it for about 6 months now 😲

What are you excited for? I'm excited to watch Avengers: Endgame with my bf

Are you a better talker or listener? Listener 👂

What is the last productive thing you did? doing my whole family's laundry 🙃

What do you want for Christmas? i honestly do not know 😂

What class do you get the best grades in? Academic Writing

On a scale of 1-10, how are you feeling right now? a flat 7

What can you see yourself doing in ten years? Working on a patient's case as a Forensic Nurse

When did you get your first heartbreak? when my grandma died

What age do you want to get married? maybe in my 20s. somewhere in your mid-30s, there may be a decline in fertility 🤭 and we wanna, ya know, keep the family bloodline going or whatevuh

What career did you want to have as a child? Nurse, Doctor, Chef yes, all at once

What do you crave right now? Spicy Chicken Ranch Pizza 😋

I'm tagging y'all @sunshine-jaehyun 💕 @seofter 💕 @nctream 💕 @ouryoonoh 💕 @jaehyunay 💕 cuz i wanna know you better! but of course only if you want to 😗💕💗

[heavenlywonder]

today my yoga instructor made us all clap at the end of class and she said something along the lines of “you are so strong for coming here today” and i literally wanted to cry like BIH you have no idea

[hellobiancalaborin]

     “Creativity is the greatest rebellion in existence.”    ―      Osho,            Creativity: Unleashing the Forces Within   

           In the following paragraphs I will discuss how this course met my original objective, what I learned from the course content, and how I may apply it either personally or professionally. My original goal for this month was to lock in my resume, EPK, and broaden my skills in business. Over the last four weeks I have met each of my goals. I have two solid resumes, I learned how to create an EPK, and I learned many business skills. Some of the skills I have learned over the course of the month are salary negotiation, festival planning, and how to research companies for networking and job opportunities.

           One of my main goals was to create a resume I’m proud of. This goal was met and because of that I am now able to apply to companies I am interested in. Aside from applying to jobs and being able to forward my resume, I am now able to apply these skills and preparation techniques onto my music career. Some of these skills include creating EPK’s, portfolios, and negotiating salary. As a creator in general these are lifelong skills, I will carry with me forever.

           As I reflect and look back at my first mastery journal, I realize that I have met many if not all of my personal and educational goals. Some courses were more technical then others and some were hands on. Over all, these last twelve months have been fun and life changing. I am now in a position to take on more than one role as a creator and I have the proper business skills that will allow me to do so. I have skills that will allow me to be successful in my field of work and earn what I am deserving of. Or like Peter, would say ‘what I negotiate’.  

           In conclusion, I’d like to say Thank you, Full Sail and all instructors, for an experience of a life time. I felt like I was in a 12-month internship and I couldn’t feel more excited and prepared for my future. Thank you, Peter for answering every and all of my questions. Although these lectures were extremely early, I enjoyed every bit of the information and advice given. Thank you for also creating workshops within your lectures to allow us to practice and apply these same skills you teach. All the best. 

references: https://www.goodreads.com/author/quotes/2856822.Osho

https://www.google.com/search?q=creative&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjQ4KChmuXiAhUlVt8KHXA4DC8Q_AUIECgB&biw=1389&bih=953#imgrc=JoLCDYQS-j-boM:

[womenartists2-blog]

Annie Leibovitz:

To be photographed by Annie Leibovitz is to have “really made it” a consensus of the many who have been captured on film by her talents. Annie Leibovitz a Rolling Stone, Vanity Fair and Vogue magazine photographer has led an incredible and interesting life. Leibovitz was born in 1949 in Connecticut.  As a child, she was introduced to the arts by her mother who was a modern dance instructor. Leibovitz’s father was a lieutenant colonel in the U.S. Air Force and the family moved every few years. Leibovitz was interested and talented in art.  She attended the San Francisco Art Institute where she began to study painting. She began an interest in photography and was soon noted for her local talents. She was offered the chief photographer job for Rolling Stone magazine in 1970. In 1983 she began to work for Vanity Fair and later for Vogue. She has specialized in photographing celebrities, politicians, and the rich and famous.

Over the years, Leibovitz has worked with many artists and art organizations, such as the American Ballet Theater, and Mikhail Baryshnikov. She has compiled books of her photographs and exhibitions of her photographs have appeared at galleries and museums all over the world.

She has the ability to enhance the characteristics of her subjects while communicating personalities and being able to capture exact moments (The Art Story).

She has won numerous awards, including a Lifetime Achievement Award from the International Center of Photography, the Wexner Prize and the Centenary Medal of the Royal Photographic Society in London.

Examples include one of her favorite female subjects; Angelina Jolie and the couple Yoko Ono and John Lennon. The Ono and Lennon shot was taken the very day that Lennon was assassinated.

Leibovitz lives in New York with her three children and at age 66 continues to be active in photography.

“Things happen in front of you. That's perhaps the most wonderful and mysterious aspect of photography. It seemed like you just had to decide when and where to aim the camera. The process was linear and it never stopped. That's still true, although I've traded in my need for always taking pictures. I can't let them go by sometimes now and just be there.” ― Annie Leibovitz, quoted in Annie Leibovitz at Work

 Photograph of Angelina Jolie by Annie Leibowitz 1999

Image @ https://www.google.com/search?safe=active&q=annie+leibovitz+photography&tbm=isch&source=univ&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwihlpvpq8nhAhUQHqwKHW0zCa4QiR56BAgKEBM&biw=1366&bih=657#imgdii=XSmSehO7GNfFPM:&imgrc=xN37uTwYdRp3ZM:

 Photograph of Yoko Ono and John Lennon by Annie Leibowitz 1980   

Image @ https://www.1stdibs.com/books/annie-leibovirz-photographs-1970-1990/id-f 568118/

 Citings 

Leibovitz, Annie. Annie Leibovitz at Work. 2008 Random House. Accessed       4/11/2019

The Art Story. “Annie Leibovitz: American Photographer”. n.a.,   n.d.https://www.theartstory.org/artist-leibovitz-annie.htm. Accessed 4/11/2019

By:Stephanie Bird 

[decoding1432]

“It’s patriarchy”

I’ll be making lots of comparisons throughout the post in order to illustrate better my point. Lauren said it: “It’s rampant sexism”. On the media, on the GP’s perception, on the production process, on the industry in general.

Let’s start with some basics....

BB released an article back in early 2015 where it was described Why Can't Modern Girl Groups Land a Radio Hit? These modern GG more like 5H & LM. In this written piece there are several statements that undoubtedly caught my attention. Starting with the last paragraph:

When I asked Biddle why he thinks One Direction enjoy more stateside success than girl groups, he echoed Wiegenstein's sentiment. "I don't know 100 percent. I guess it's because those boys are 'cute'? It could be as simple as that."

How sad it is that we exist in the midst of 21st century & still there are people that prefer “pretty faces & looks” over talent– btw this comment is not triggered to 1D in the slightest, I have nothing but respect for them– I just mean this in a very generalised form.

It’s not secret that a girlband has to work 10x harder to get a quarter of the recognition a boyband gets.

Similarly, a girl group isn't as easy to promote as a boy band. "In terms of teen magazines, the idea of marketing different members of boy bands is easier," says Anna Louise Wiegenstein, a former pop culture instructor (and Little Mix fan), who's giving a talk on One Direction fan culture at the National Pop Culture Association/American Culture Association Conference in April. "There's the 'funny one,' the 'mysterious one' -- it's easy to make quizzes and profile pieces around them."

When marketing a girl group to teenage girls, Wiegenstein continues, it's harder to tap into those teenage hormones. "When you're talking about a group of girls, they target the brands around personalities," she says. "It's more like, 'Which one would be your friend?' And there's less of a fantasy aspect to that."

Leaving aside the marketing strategy (which is true, bc how many times we have seen someone in the fandom say “I’m more like Lauren” or “Dinah & I would get along” etc.), I want to focus in the use of “teenage hormones”. Hormonal is always associated to the female self. Which leads me to jump into the media field:

Here a contrast on how media reported 5H x Camila vs. 1D x Zayn

Informing about the “We don’t talk to our ex-bandmates anymore” moment.

In contrast to Camila’s report, Zayn’s one has got this “scattering element”, if I can call it like that. The “chunky girls” & “Gigi Hadid” features helped to divert the viewer’s attention from the main point. Just look at the comments section from the two videos & the difference is pretty self explanatory….

Sadly the more problematic the situation evolves around the girls, the better. For boys, the situation is showcased in a much lighter form even if the conflict is tighter over there.

We know that in both cases narratives are recycled. However on this side the girls haven’t threw shade thus far, unfortunately media portraits the whole in an almost unforgivable way. For the record there was not really much to report. It’s only about the time Lauren posted the “fake that confidence bih” tweet, only to later explain it was to herself.  Still that was not going to stop them from pulling a video to attract a handful of viewers. The segment starts by quoting the title, which by the way ensures grabbing the spectator’s attention: “Did Lauren Jauregui diss Camila Cabello AGAIN After Grammy After-Party?”

*in my most sarcastic tone* You guys, apparently L shaded C more than once & we didn’t know… I grew three grey hairs with that headline itself.  Right after including Lauren’s tweet to the assumed shade, the only thing they added on the coverage script was a simple “preach girl” 😒😒

Whereas in the 1D side Zayn did throw shade (several times), a public fight on Twitter unleashed & the reporter’s remarks sound nothing like in the 5H coverage. The feud is a lot less magnified. “Ugh! Put the weapons down boys!”. Hell, Clever made sure to shut down the rumours that Zayn had unfollowed the entire band. Note how they even show what happen to be “receipts” while the host says “I’ve put some of my best creeping skills to the test & found out he has not yet unfollowed them so there’s that bit of kinda sorta good news for you & in hope that this won’t ruin their friendship for good.” We can also add how in a poor attempt of diminishing the climax they brought the dolls into the scene. Seriously, I’d love to see them doing something like this when addressing the girls’ drama *sighs* only in my wildest dreams.

Why does media scandalises more the girlgroup’s party than the boyband’s one?

I’ve said this before, but I don’t mind repeating it. Hollywood has used the stigma that “women can’t get along while working” for so long. Plus the infamous stereotypes of our incredible rational society that a girl is constantly hormonal, temperamental & always has to be involved in any sort of catfight with someone from the same gender. There has to be a “bitch” in the story without exception. Inside the entertainment industry, they love taking advantage of this cliché. Not said by me, but coming directly from a very renowned actress…

Jessica Chastain talks sexism in the industry

If the video loads for you, I highly recommend that you watch it. It’s such a short article, nevertheless I’ll be attaching some extracts below:

There was a great myth that I grew up with that women don’t work well together,” Jessica Chastain tells Vanity Fair.

Back when she was promoting The Help in 2011, Chastain explains, “so many of the questions I was getting from the press was about fighting on set—’Was it tough to be on set with all those girls?’ I wasn’t getting those questions with any of the other movies that I’d been involved with.” 

Out of joke, I lost count of all the times I’ve heard this same question with 5H.

Fun fact that I found randomly: Reminder that only 3% of the decision-making in media is made by women. Which means that 97% of how women are portrayed is decided by men.

Always pitting women against each other is what our generation does best nowadays. Clearly mgmt & the label have used this with the fandom. The creation of “-izers” are a great example of this. As well this standard is ultimately what impulses the narrative on a daily basis. Stans went from loving & defending the group with their lives, to only caring about their faves. I know some fans still keep up with each girl & love them all. I have faith in those stans. If you’re one of them, don’t fall for that mischievous game, thank you.

DON’T BE NAIVE, KIDS.

P.S. I leave you the link to others sexist scenarios in the industry. Worth checking each out.

This Is The Kind Of Bullsh*t You Face As A Woman In The Music Industry

99% of women working in the film and TV industries have experienced sexism

I’ve heard, for example, that if a male director is being picky, people say he has a strong vision. With a woman, people will say she is being difficult. It’s also common to assume that kindness is a sign of weakness.

7 Anecdotes From Female Artists Show How Deep Sexism Runs in the Music Industry

"Women in the industry are judged more," Nicki Minaj told Time back in February. "If you speak up for yourself, you're a bitch. If you party too much, you're a whore. Men don't get called these things."

Grimes Says Male Producers Threatened to Not Finish Her Songs if She Didn't Have Sex

Grimes is no stranger to being open about the misogyny and sexism she and other females face in the industry.

Grimes fielded one fan's question, who asked why the topic seems like such a "regular thing" for her to tweet and speak about if she finds it so annoying. Grimes explained it only seems that because of the way the press fixates on it.