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[notherpuppet]

Will we ever see jealous Al / jealous Luci in MDN?

Oh oh, and considering how fleeting and shallow Alfie's "love" is, does he get jealous when people try to get with his prey of the day?

(no i don't crave the angst of jealousy tropes what do u mean why are u looking at me like that these are normal questions)

I think we’ve seen jealous Alastor a few times in My Deer Nanny

As for Lucifer in My Deer Nanny, I think he’s more of the type to get sad or feel left out. I can see him being pridefully possessive, but I don’t know if I’d peg him as a jealous type

(And Alfie would not feel jealous, but vengeful. He’d treat it as a game to win. He’s a monster)

[genderqueerdykes]

A bunch of intersex people on here got pissed and blocked me because I said that PCOS is a serious condition that requires medical treatment a lot of the time. They were arguing saying "People just don't like how it makes you look, they hate that we don't look cis! It doesn't need medical treatment at all!"

Except it does. PCOS raises your risk for cancer, it causes pre-diabetes, it makes your hormone levels all fucky, not to mention the acne! The list goes on and on. But apparently I am intersexist for pointing those things out. Literally every other person I know with PCOS has been blown off by doctors and left to suffer, like they will have incredibly painful cysts and insulin resistance and doctors will drag their feet and make excuses not to help? "Just lose weight." "Pain is normal it's probably cramps"

I had to fight so hard to get them to realize I had an actual cyst and that was why I was in so much pain! The treatment is for your health, like laser hair removal is aesthetic but the actual medical treatment is IMPORTANT. I fucking hate that people are saying you should forgo it entirely. They are spreading medical misinformation.

But apparently I'm intersexist. It pisses me off. I'm not the only one either I've seen them dog piling others who point this out. Can you say something on this? People are going to put themselves needlessly at risk just to prove that they're intersex enough, "you're only gaslighted by doctors into thinking you need medical treatment". It's so fucking stupid. It's not the same as genital mutilation or surgeries on intersex babies. It's for your fucking health...

god i just let out the longest, most existentially exhausted sigh. i am so sorry you had to go through this. this is 100% those people assuming the absolute worst and jumping on you for it. i actually have a lot to say about this as well, so thank you for taking the time to send this ask.

this is reactionary behavior. there is no rationale, only emotion. i think they are misinterpreting you on purpose in order to be able to go off on you. i think that's all there is to it. like they're reading what you're saying and going "oh so you think all intersex people should try to have their conditions 'CORRECTED'???" and crying intersexism, failing to realize that a lot of intersex variations are literal health conditions that can and do make a person sick. these are fucking MEDICAL CONDITIONS, y'all! it's not JUST about your genitals & hormones! it's not JUST your secondary sex characteristics! hormones affect so much more than just your primary and secondary sex characteristics, they actually affect way more of the body than most people realize!

i'm not afraid to say it anymore, but a lot of intersex people on here are just straight up fucking bullies. i actually do not interact with too many other intersex bloggers on here because i do not like the amount of hostility & outright transphobia. so many intersex bloggers on here are proud to be transphobic as fuck. like it just absolutely fucking disgusts me that so many intersex people on here are taking the route of rude disenfranchised asshole who thinks it's okay to be mean as fuck to other queer people because we don't have a lot of visibility. that's not other queer people's faults. stop assuming every other queer you meet is going to be intersexist. stop pouncing on people who aren't hurting you.

They were arguing saying "People just don't like how it makes you look, they hate that we don't look cis! It doesn't need medical treatment at all!"

THIS is what's intersexist as hell because a lot of people with PCOS do not have an outward appearance that would indicate that they have an intersex variation. a lot what goes on with PCOS happens inside your body. how the hell are you supposed to be able to see someone's cysts just by looking at them? you have no idea if that "perisex cis woman" standing next to you at the grocery store is actually perisex, or if they shave their facial hair and make sure they don't look like they have a five o' clock shadow because they don't want facial hair. some intersex people DON'T like "looking intersex". some people get body dysphoria from their hormonal imbalances. not every intersex person "LOOKS" intersex.

Literally every other person I know with PCOS has been blown off by doctors and left to suffer, like they will have incredibly painful cysts and insulin resistance and doctors will drag their feet and make excuses not to help? "Just lose weight." "Pain is normal it's probably cramps" I had to fight so hard to get them to realize I had an actual cyst and that was why I was in so much pain! The treatment is for your health, like laser hair removal is aesthetic but the actual medical treatment is IMPORTANT. I fucking hate that people are saying you should forgo it entirely. They are spreading medical misinformation.

100%. this has nothing to do with you saying that someone needs to have their intersex condition "corrected". i can't believe someone would just tell you that while you're trying to convey that you quite literally needed medical care. PCOS can be a very painful condition to live with. as a teenager, i was having such heavy periods that i was having to change pads every 45 minutes. i HAD to see a gynecologist about it. i had low iron. it was making me anemic from the amount of blood i was losing. it wasn't just a routine trip to the OBGYN, i was having a serious medical issue and i needed help for it. i wasn't trying to "CORRECT" my intersex condition, i was trying to address a symptom that was caused by my intersex condition. now THEY tried to "correct" it with estrogen, but that's not what i was trying to do. i just wanted to stop suffering.

and you're right about diabetes & insulin resistance. this is extremely common in PCOS. hormones heavily affect that part of your health. like what, are people expecting someone with PCOS who develops diabetes to not seek treatment for it because that would be them "CORRECTING" their intersex condition and being "intersexist" somehow? was me seeking help for bleeding so much i was anemic intersexist? this is ridiculous. a lot of intersex variations come with health problems. we're not saying that being INTERSEX is a health problem, but intersex variations can CAUSE health problems, and nobody should have to just deal with that because it's somehow intersexist to seek medical care.

i'm really sorry you experienced that. on god, so many of the intersex bloggers on here are just straight up bullies. i'm just saying it. it's people taking other people's lives personally and getting offended when another intersex person doesn't shut up and listen to them and agree with them blindly. i've seen way too many intersex people on here who are proud to be aggressive assholes. why are we doing this to other intersex people? we shouldn't cannibalize our own. god fucking damn. it's not community if we're tearing each other apart.

let other intersex people decide what they do and don't do with their bodies. if the way another intersex person governs their body upsets you, move the hell on. stop making it their problem.

im so sorry you had to go through this anon. you deserve to be able to talk about YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE AS AN INTERSEX PERSON. it find it absolutely disgusting that there are people on here who want to try to talk for you instead. unreal. i hope you have a great week anon, stay safe, and i hope that things are going better for you in terms of your health.

[squeakitties]

Hi I love ur art (turns u into a creature of some sort)

whoa...

[rwac96]

Ask, Original Farmer

What is the story between Farmer Jaune and City Girl Bleiss? It seems that is what Ren was implying.

Ren: *exhales* "Bleiss, the walking scandal of the Schnee family, practically seduced Jaune."

Jaune: *holding and bouncing a fussy baby boy* "Okay, I'll admit, I got lovestruck...well, for her twin sister."

Ren: "Who's technically already in a relationship, so Bleiss decided to show Jaune how much 'better' she was than Weiss."

Jaune: *holds his son close* "Well, I felt loved by Bleiss, even she can be pretty profane."

[pookapufferfish]

dragon gator?

toasty, i would cuddle this gator

[corviddusk]

I know most likely these aren't from actually trans people and are just crypto-terfs larping (like come on why wouldn't this be the best thing for a terf to pretend to be) but I'm going to address this as if it were from an actual person instead of subhuman filth. I am not answering the ask directly as I have blocked and reported this person for both racism and transphobia towards me.

Let's start this from the beginning. I'm a mixed native/white intersex woman who was raised as a boy and man, has masculine physical and sexual features, was placed on testosterone as a teen, and identifies now as transfem. You 100% agree that I would be transfem but now magically cannot be because I was AFAB when I was a baby and that marker didn't change me being raised as a boy. I have been aggressively forcibly forced into the role of a man and degendered like the rest of my sisters. But it means less to you because of one minute privilege I have that I still acknowledge because I'm not a cracker trying to pretend I'm the most oppressed person in the room.

Fun fact I wasn't invalidating anyone, even if that post was made during a psychotic meltdown, it was actually a valid expression of frustration with the trans community that has been recently overtly intersexist and hateful towards people like me. Fae was speaking on specific conditions and subsets of intersex experience that they clearly don't have. According to her having a period means they can still be transfem of course UNLESS you had your genitalia surgically altered or they pretend it wasn't there of course. Clearly because she wasn't mutilated she gets to be seen as an "actual" trans person and I'm not allowed to be. I should just accept being partly mutilated (or at least I have signs of IGM) makes me no longer a true transsexual, isn't that right?

I see you also are telling me what my gender is "allowed" to be. Oh I can't just not be transfeminine, I'm forced to be third sexed as intergender against my will. You are literally third sexing a transgender woman in this and yet pretend you aren't a raging transmisogynist.

And here we go the fucking audacity of your white ass to mock my people and bring them into this? What the fuck is wrong with you. I'm sorry but if you think two spirit is anything like transfeminine as a label you're just genuinely racist. Two Spirit is specifically an umbrella term for anyone who fills specific tribal roles around gender that are not in line with Western conceptualizations of male and female. I am not two spirit because I haven't connected deep enough to figure out the specific practices and if I will fill those roles. Two Spirit is more than a gender and more than transness it is a cultural and often spiritual role that holds massive weight. This is disgusting.

Transfeminine people are those who are transitioning to be seen as feminine or female. This includes socially, medically, and legally. Which I am doing. Transfems are not a sacred role in a culture that's continually genocided the way two spirit people are. Transfems are not a fucking unique special club that bans intersex people who were assigned F or X at birth because you think getting your scrotal tissue cut in half is a privilege (being assigned F and identifying with it is a privilege as it makes some things legally easier but it has no bearings socially or medically when you're physically not a perisex cis woman and we're raised male). Two Spirit isn't a fucking club either. It's sacred.

I fucking despise fully white people.

[ogrepoppenangleaksofficial]

Hey so it has been a good bit since the Patreon has been updated, but I hope you guys don't mind giving brief status update on the various projects going around? Doesn't need to be a full essay, just a quick debrief is good.

SOONER RATHER THEN LATER

[ttrpg-smash-pass-vs]

shout out for using so many fem arts of creatures! huge win for the lesbians in the audience to see big scary women 😍

Pathfinder's always been good about consistently switching up the sex of its monsters, which is a wonderful win for us!

[azelmaandeponine]

People saying that Stan would not get a high school diploma even if he wasn't kicked out and that he didn't seem to cared about it, since he was going treasure hunting with Ford. And that he was a slacker, and in the classes that he didn't shared with Ford he was the worst.

I just want to say: If Stan was not kicked out, he would heve been able to explain to Ford what actually happened with his machine and apologize and then Ford would have helped Stan to pass the exams. And I think that the expression of sadness was that Stan made while hearing the principal talking about how "he would be lucky to graduete" show us that Stan did cared about getting his diploma. Also, Stan was just a "slacker" because anyone really bothered to encourage him to study on his own.

Yeah. If it hadn't been for Filbrick, Stan and Ford probably would have been able to sort their shit out. It might have taken a while, but they'd probably be able to do it.

And exactly. Stan was failed by the system. Hard.

[notherpuppet]

How would feel if Radioapple became canon? Loves your art btw

hmm, depends. i'm pretty easy to please as an audience member tho lol. i'm not much of a critic

i think it would be awesome if alastor has nothing broaching a romantic relationship for the duration of the show. i think that's a playa moveee~~~

but it would also be intriguing to see any kind of ace relationship rep, so i think that could be cool too

i think it'd also be cool to see open marriage rep and anything that just subverts the heteronormative and rigid family structures that are so popular in society (for some reason, idk, capital maybe??? i don't get it)

[plutopools]

Hi! I just came to say that i love your art so much and, also, asking if you could do any recopilation of your favorite artworks of Lola, or even of moonstrings too? Have a good day!

DAWW thank you so much, love! also sure, i can do that :D

thank you so much for the ask <3 you have a good day yourself!

these are my more recent drawings. i still really love how this came out. its so beautiful as a standee

this is by far my favorite painting i've ever done. i need to touch up on the lighting but besides that, i love it.

i made this for my streams, and i was attempting to replicate the concept drawings that tracy did. i still think this has great shape language.

this is also by far my favorite moonstrings piece. if i could go back and adjust it, i'd only fix rocky's arm and lola's hair

i also adore how i drew these two goobers

some honorable mentions:

fun fact: this was my first ever painting of lola. i made the canvas absolutely massive so it look me weeks to finish it. i'd like to redraw it one day

this was for when i had my merch shop up. i don't plan on making merch anymore

one of my first ever drawings of lola <3 i remember having a lot of fun drawing this

[genderqueerdykes]

isn't t4t for like,, TRANS FOR TRANS relationships of any kind?? I mean fuck if you want a word for 'trans lesbianism'/'trans lesbian relationship' transbain is RIGHT THERE!!

yeah exactly i don't know why this is so common, but it stems from people who think that 'trans' means transfem/trans woman only. it'a so old and i don't know why it's so common. t4t just means trans for trans. that includes other types of trans4trans relationship, not just transfem4transfem. it's just nonsensical, why use a general term then? just say what you mean, don't force everyone else to change their definition of trans

[squeakitties]

im curious abt the facination with the tubes outside of the systems they were designed for. what makes the tube appealing without the pneumatics to launch it?

appealing shapes ... ive always been super obsessed with them since i was a little kid idk how to explain it

[axolotl-simulation-maker]

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talking axolotl

@daughter-of-the-author

Greetings, child.

I am indeed an axolotl.

[arahir]

sorry for getting deep but how do you make your life stop feeling meaningless and stuck on the routine and never doing anything memorable and feeling like time and youth is slipping through your fingers and-

i wish i had any easy answers for you! bear with me because this is long.

i think this is truly, the hardest thing any of us will have to contend with: life has no inherent purpose. you're a collection of cells given sentience for a period of time. this can be horrific, or beautiful, and our ways of dealing with this are myriad. some people find god. some people find a more private spirituality. some people throw themselves into work, into art, into family and friends, into some form of legacy, into hedonism. most of us do all of that to various degrees.

this is what i will say: it got better for me after i hit 30. it got better for me when i got good friends and started putting my effort into them. it got better for me when i started indulging hobbies and larks, taking time to seek out and appreciate art in whatever form and making time to make my own, a nice see-saw of creation and appreciation. it got better for me when i accepted that i can be a scientist and an atheist and still find something spiritual and magical and deeply meaningful in the world around me. there's no one answer.

i find it both forgiving and encouraging: there's no inherent purpose, so you really can't mess up in deciding what yours will be. there's no inherent purpose, so any purpose you give your life is more than there was before, and to that end, you can only win. if you do anything to make the world or your life even marginally better by whatever metric you set (and i trust that all of us here are the sort of people who believe good can exist), you've done it. and better, you can keep doing more of it.

so: making time for others, showing appreciation, showing gratitude. call someone and tell them you love them. write a letter. send something to a friend, even a dm. make a date to see someone you haven't in a while. make small talk. study some art, make some art. go somewhere new, even if it's walking down a new street. play a new video game, read a new book, read a fic, watch an episode of a new show. set a tiny, miniscule goal and complete it.

i can say that doing anything will help more than worrying about not having done enough. it's never too late to start doing something, even doing a tiny bit a day of anything is enough, and you can't get it wrong as long as you're trying. and above all, as always, be nice to yourself. it can feel like you've done something wrong to end up where you are, but every decision you ever made in your life, you made for a reason that made sense at that moment and that's not nothing. wherever you are now, you have choices about how you move forward. you can fall back, fuck up, waste a day. it's all going to be fine. find something that brings meaning to your life and pursue it. sometimes that's yucking it up on tumblr, and sometimes it's reading poetry, or going for a hike, or writing a novel, or doing something good for someone or for society. and sometimes it's eating fried noodles. it doesn't matter as long as you're moving forward <333