#<- OP’s tag is sorta relatable

[solarianvoidthearoace]

Someone put it into words!

I was literally walking with a social worker-in-training, and I make an effort to not be “the approachable girl next door” and YET

Like, literally standing next to a cuddly little dude who wants to become a social worker

And people ask the 5’10” autistic* with the RBF

Not my fault I have “approachable girl next door” energy, despite being not a girl and so socially awkward it’s a diagnosed personality disorder

I have green hair and I want to dress more punk/ alt/ emo, have some mercy

* I only mention my autism here because I feel like I’m “visibly autistic”, I’m standoffish and can’t hold a conversation unless my AuDHD brain is excited about it in some capacity; otherwise my AvPD and social anxiety are too much

forget Resting Bitch Face, I have Resting Competent Face. People see me and think ah yes she can point me to the nearest train station. Fellow grocery shoppers ask if I know what kind of butter they should buy. If a strange man speaks to me on the street it is literally always an inquiry and never a catcall. Once someone randomly asked me what an equinox was and after I told her she nodded and said "you seemed like you'd know." why am I assigned oracle at random interaction

[julieemarine]

So far, I have made designs for Yuna and her teammate Minori on Gacha Life 2.

I’m still in the process of making their other teammate (SPOILERS: it’s a boy) and leader (SPOILERS: it’s a woman), so stay tuned.

[bunniesbearsandadventures]

Okay nerds I have decided to make a moodboard tag game of my own!

Its sorta like a get to know OP related mixed with some random stuff

Square 1: favorite time of day

Square 2: favorite aesthetic

Square 3: a color that describes you

Square 4: a favorite quote

Square 5: current obsession, show, movie, book, anything

Square 6: favorite texture

Square 7: favorite outfit, or an outfit you wish you had in your closet

Square 8: any world universe, or place you see yourself living in

Square 9: favorite flower

Andddd here is mine:

Here are some no pressure tags:

@peachyhellaverse @jade-argetlam @mossthebogwitch @evenstaredits @fizzyxcustard @capynul @foxxy-126 @possibly-in-wonderland @snowyerebor @urlocalweirdperson1232 @lore-gore @mcfrickinglosingit1870 @alastorsgoldie @deadgrrlwalking @toothlessgiroux @kpopgirlbtssvt

And anyone else who wants to join :3

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[our-persodivergent-experience]

about this blog !!

hey ! this is a new our-[x]-experience blog !!

it is our-persiodivergent-queer-experience, for anyone who has a/multiple personality disorder and is queer !!

mod is a minor, and goes by all alternating pronouns !! iam also a system though, so please keep that in mind !! this blog is run by mod clown (it/its for this blog iguess but idont really mind what you use !! just use a variety of pronouns please !!)

submission rules

on this blog youcan share bad experiences, good experiences, weird experiences, anything !!

please keep your asks to persodivergent culture experiences/submissions only, or at least being persodivergent related !! i'd also enjoy it if you didn’t ask for advice but idont mind !! just dont expect it to be 100% accurate :oP

please dont involve discourse in your asks. anything like that will be deleted !!

please use tone tags !! /not forcing

this blog is about sharing persodivergent and queer persodivergent experiences !!

(just a heads up !! asks dont necessarily have to be queer, youcan send persodivergent asks without anything related to be queer, its just that this blog mainly focuses on that !! i just sorta intended on it being somewhat queer related but idont really care !! youcan send non-queer related asks, with just a persodivergent experience of yours, but please do not send any asks that are queer and not persodivergent related !!)

this blog is open to all clusters a, b, and cs :o)

though here ido not have a dni, id prefer terfs, homophobes, transphobes, ect dont interact with this blog. also please do not interact if youre abelist, you believe in narcissistic abuse, any clusture b abuse, or really, any pd abuse. thank you.

this blog is inspired by all those lovely our-[x]-experiences and "[x]-culture is" blogs out there !! please make sure to check them out, theyre all so lovely !! /not forcing

the persodivergent flag

anon claims are allowed here !!

tags for some great blogs i recommend !! @our-queer-experience @our-transgender-experiences @hpdcultureis @hpdculture-is @schizotypal-culture-is @schizotypalpd-culture-is @schizoid-culture-is @narcissisticpdcultureis @borderline-culture-is @little-stpd-things

(sorry for the tag !! please feel free to ignote and ask to be removed !!)

[starbberryblue]

oh. oh wow.

I really appreciate the PTSD representation of Kabru Dungeon Meshi because very often traumatized characters end up leaning heavily into the "flight" portion of "fight or flight" but the reality is, many of us get pissed off when we're scared, or have the urge to hit back when we're triggered. It's easy to understand why: a scared person is easy to empathize with. An angry person--a violent person--is less so.

I have PTSD and it's taken a long time for me to get comfortable with the anger that wells up when I'm afraid. Like Kabru, when I get triggered, there's an immediate wash of, I'm going to fucking kill them.

Like Kabru, I never act on this impulse. It's just there in my brain, trying to take control, so it can protect me.

When Kabru is triggered and thinks, desperately, Maybe I should kill him! in order to avoid eating monsters, the scene is played for laughs. But under the inherent comedy of the moment (which I can recognize even if I can't make myself laugh along) is the reality that Kabru is deeply traumatized and is trying to manage his emotions so he doesn't endanger his relationships. For Kabru, a character built to maneuver with ease around the social interactions of humanoids (using the DnD term here), his past is not just a justification for his desire to close the dungeon; it's not just a way to create tension with Laios; it's not just an avenue for him to connect with the Canaries. Kabru's past and his lack of coping with it actively sabotages his relationships and even puts him at renewed risk, just like real PTSD! And I just think that's neat! sob.

[physics-of-one-piece]

Hello! I absolutely love your posts, they're so informative and funny, and very useful - for science! Can I request a Robin hands post? Also a Corazon one to see how he matches up compared to Doffy?

Also, and I might regret asking this non-anonymously, but seeing as we receive the girls' boob sizes as "vital statistics", for equality reasons I would also like to request that we get some "vital statistics" for the men. For science. Also I just think it would be really funny to know considering how huge some of the men in OP are.

And please feel free to tag me in anything Law, Robin or Doffy related :D

Thank you and pelase keep up the good work!! It's genuinely so interesting and entertaining.

Thank you so much! I'm glad you're enjoying them! ❤️

I genuinely wonder if you are reading my mind, because I am planning to post Corazon's hand size clculations on his birthday. He deserves to be loved 💜 So, yeah, that's definitely coming! There's also his Silent that I plan on explaining down the road, which is by physics standards, sorta similar (only by the physics related to the sphere he puts up) to Law's. I think Oda purposefully made Rosinante have a sphere like Law 🥹

Anyway, Cora's hands are definitely coming!

Aaaa, I love Robin, I'll add her to the list.

Oh, don't worry, we are DOING the "vital statistics" for One Piece men 100% 👍🏻🫡. I'm 100% doing that.

Welcome to the taglist for Robin, Law & Doffy!

Thank you for the support and the kind words! I'm glad it's fun! ❤️❤️

Sending hugs!

[mavis-merry-magnolia]

for monogatari, top three favorite characters and ops so far? :3

MY FAVORITES SO FAR YOU SAY? Well after thinking on it for a bit. I...put a LOT more thought into it than I thought I would, so for the sake of tags i'm gonna put this under a read more fdkjhfgd.

For the characters i'd say it's...

3 - Tsukihi Araragi. I made a sorta short post about her a few days ago that goes over a lot that I like about her, but to sum it up here...she's just such a fun character to see on screen with all of her varied designs with each arc. It makes for great visuals, and a good indicator of what point in time an arc takes place in when the series gets funny with it's chronology! Her straightforwardness as a character is such a huge strength that helps her stand out too, given how many layers you typically have to observe and peel back for other characters in this series. And her bluntness in conversation serves an amazing double purpose as both a tool for comedy, and for pushing forward other characters around her like Koyomi and Nadeko.

2 - Shinobu Oshino. It was actually really hard to decide this one, if only because there's SO many characters that I love to death. But I think Shinobu fits this spot perfectly. I really wasn't all that impressed with her in Bakemonogatari in the sense that like. I KNEW she was popular but didn't see why watching the series back as a teen. Also her hat was stupid and i'm glad she stopped wearing it. But unlike when I was a teen, Kizumonogatari was out, and my group decided to watch in Book Order...and then it clicked Oh. I see why Shinobu is so popular now. It made me understand just how big of a deal her choosing to speak again in Nisemonogatari was. And with Meme departing from the story, I think having her take his place as the Apparition Encyclopedia was a GREAT decision, not only because of her physical bond to Koyomi allowing her to appear whenever, it also gives us her AMAZING dynamic with him too. I genuinely love what a like....Scooby Doo problem solving duo they've become by the point of the story i'm at now. And as Onimonogatari taught me, there's STILL so much more of her to learn about. Also her laugh is cute. Ka-ka-ka!

1 - Tsubasa Hanekawa. Given my current icon, banner and...I dunno, HALF of my monogatari reblog tag, is this a surprise? I wanna write a whole entire post dedicated to her someday once I finish the whole series and read the novel versions too, but Hanekawa is just...okay, to try and keep it short. She's easily one of the most dynamic characters in the entire cast. As soon as Bake episode 1 starts, you already know that her and Koyomi have a history together, we know something was up with her and the story just, teases it all through Bake until it comes to a head in Tsubasa Cat. Kizu pulls the camera back to see how her friendship with and love for Koyomi began (and they're SO fun and sweet becoming friends with each other the whole arc), Nise shows that she's...SAYING she's changed, even though we know she really hasn't, before NekoBlack helps us establish the Full Picture of who Hanekawa is, and finally showing her FINALLY learning and growing for REAL in NekoWhite. I'd be doing a disservice if I didn't mention Black Hanekawa as well, for being a hilarious charatcter in her own right, and adding in a special degree of personal relatability to me personally in how i've experienced things in my life. She's just...I have so much more to say but she's just REALLY special to me is all.

And i'd like to give special mentions to Kaiki Deishuu and Sengoku Nadeko. I have no doubt that Nadeko is gonna be a top fiver by the end, but I wanna see the Conclusion of her main arc since Otorimonogatari is really only the beginning of it. And Kaiki is just a really fun character to think on with his faker philosophy, and he's a delight whenever he shows up just doing mundane things like eating donuts or being a weird uncle for Kanbaru.

As for my favorite OPs, this should go quicker i'd say...

3 - Platinum Disco. It's...It's Platinum Disco. It and Renai Ciruclation are like THE Monogatari songs right? At least they were when I was a teen. It's peppy, it's upbeat, it's got some fun clashing lyrics, the visuals are so iconic that the series itself memed on it, it's...it's Platinum Disco. You know?

2 - Mousou Express. For a song that I heard for the first time...lemme check...FIVE days ago? It shot up insanely high on my list. I feel kinda bad mentioning Renai Circulation twice in a row without it actually being one of the answers, but the way that Mousou Express just...flips Renai Circulation on it's head, both in the lyrics being far more openly possessive and obsessive than the cutesywootsie lyrics of the original, and the visuals quite literally being made up mostly in part of Renai's visuals in reverse...it sets up the turn Naedko's character is going to be taking AMAZINGLY, even before her spiral fully begins partway through the arc (from Our PoV anyway). Kanahana's singing is also just...top notch.

1 - Chocolate Insomnia. Given my current icon, banner, half of my monogatari reblog tag and...my answer above, is this much of a surprise? Much in the same way that Mousou Express is an amazing indicator of the direction Naedko's character would be going, Chocolate Insomnia is SUCH an amazing indicator of not only where Hanekawa will being going in the arc, but an amazing look back on how far she's COME since the beginning of the story. Opening with a heartfelt apology, before literally singing about the realizations she's come to by this point in the story, set to a FAR more openly hopeful and cheerful sounding song compared to her other two openings it's...it's just a masterpiece of a song. I love it so much.

And special mentions to Marshmallow Justice just being a really fun opening with REALLY good vocals from Eri Kitamura. And to White Lies for just being one of the most GORGEOUS openings visually. Absolute treat for the eyes to go with the more subdued song and vocals.

[funeral--pyre]

Pinned.

Hey. I'm Onslaught, you can also call me Dabi if you want. Or some variation of my URL--your choice.

I'm a fictive of Dabi from MHA if it wasn't obvious. I'm in the @interstellarsystem, we're diagnosed with DID, quoigenic, and have like 400-something members. If you want more about us as a collective, go to that blog.

More under the readmore.

Ask - System Blog - Main Blog - Our Site - Warning Tags

Identity:

I'm alterhuman. Both on account of being a fictive in an already alterhuman system, but also as my own individual identity aside from that. I'm questioning some sort of thing related to the Pokemon Reshiram. Not sure what that is yet. I'll figure it out.

I'm also disabled. Bodily, sure, but I have my own shit going on. I have intra-hallucinations, and I have a harder time breathing when in front than the rest of us. I also got some sorta intra-dermatillomania thing going on.

I align with being terrorpunk. So basically don't expect me to make myself paletable for you.

Tags:

#op

#rb

#art of me

#sourceposting

#sourcemates

#mha

#pokemon

#aesthetic

Most of those are self explanatory. For content warning tags, check the link at the top of the post.

Boundaries:

I don't care who interacts. I'll block you if I want to. Don't care what your identity is really. Contradictory, problematic, whatever. I have my own issues and I don't see a need to list out a huge DNI when I can just press a button to get rid of the problem.

For the sake of everyone else though--I'm queer, alterhuman, disabled as fuck and just generally not "normal". If you're not hurting anyone else you're fine to be here. Assholes looking to cause issues will be blocked.

As for source shit, interact if you want. I don't care. Just don't make your fandom shit or your own memories something to do with me. I'm not source separated, I just want to be treated like a person and not your blorbo.

[the--plant]

OP I DO HEMA TOO AND SEEING THIS ON MY DASH FILLED ME WITH SO MUCH EXCITEMENT OMG AND I HAVE SOMETHING RELATED TO SHARE (also if you wanna compare where we get stuff from hit me up)

when I was buying my gambeson, I decided to check out the deal of the day section and found one that was my perfect size for much cheaper

except

it's description said it was blue and yellow and came with an "added patch"

I initially thought it was going to be more muted colors and I could just sorta subtly be supporting my local basketball team's colors. When it shipped I realized it was very bright blue and yellow. so now I'm very boldly supporting my local basketball team. Go golden state warriors!!

the added patch turned out to not to be the Warriors's logo, a dragon, another hema place, or anything else I expected to be. it turned out to be a name tag. a name tag that says JEREMY on it. my name is not Jeremy. the people at my club know this. so for me, someone not named Jeremy, who has never in their life supported a basketball team before, to show up in a bright blue and yellow gambeson emboldened with the name JEREMY on it, was a sight. Jeremy has now become his own identity that I simply use on occasion. I would say he has since become a bit of an icon in our group.

if I'm getting hema pants, they must continue the trend. I am Jeremy

in HEMA (aka historical european fencing), much of the sport is done with fencing masks on, so identifying your clubmates during sparring or tourneys is just based on gear. you know, what color their jacket and pants are, what patches they have on it, how is their mask painted. If someone borrows someone else's jacket it's legitimately jarring, like having someone with an entirely different body type and way of moving stealing your friend's face.

Once i read about historical fishermen in the north sea and how they each had a specific hat pattern that their buddies would use to identity them while they were bundled up. It was so much part of their identity that they were often buried wearing those hats. The gear is like your name, a visual identifier of YOU when you do not have a face.

anyway, back when I was buying gear i got my pants in ELECTRIC blue. I figured i was gonna get a black or grey jacket. but HEMA gear is kind of expensive because it's all custom- or handmade, so instead of spending $400 on a new jacket I picked up one secondhand for like 20. Except the only jacket that fit me was bright, SCARLET red. And I already had my expensive, new, custom, BLUE pants. I look like a damn rocket pop or like, a mixed Icee. I was like, shit! I should switch my jacket before i become the rocket pop guy!!!

Long story short, not only am I now the rocket pop guy, the color scheme has bled into my entire wardrobe. Every-fucking-thing I own is red and blue. I look like a french revolutionary. I look like a founding father in a school play. I have become a northern fisherman in my stripey hat. Now, even if I DO get a new jacket, I feel like I GOTTA buy it in red, yk? Otherwise they won't recognize me. Maybe I won't recognize me. I'm the rocket pop guy!!!

[tartrazeen]

I'm trying to puzzle out what I like and don't like about Tumblr's interface. 🤔 As much as I enjoy what it is, there are certain itches it doesn't scratch.

What I Like About Tumblr's Functionality:

- Blocking is excellent and encouraged and easy

- Moves fast

- Refreshing the dash is a satisfying wave of new posts that were made as I was reading everything else

- Get to sneak and snoop around the tags and comments on people's posts

- Get to start completely new chains of conversation by picking up from a particular part of the reblog chain

- Get to preserve the original message by reblogging it for posterity

- Melting pot of all of my interests on a single dash

- Filtering lets me keep my mutuals' interests from overwhelming me 😝

- I like that I'm interacting with people I've actively chosen to follow, because it puts a virtual face to a name rather than having me wander faceless crowds of users

- Blocking someone instantly gets that current post off my dash, too

- Can sorta prune back to certain parts of a chain to cut out parts that I don't like

- I like the video player 🤷🏽‍♀️

- I like getting an activity feed that shows me when someone replies to me, so I can reply to them too

What I Don't Like About Tumblr's Functionality:

- Blocking someone doesn't keep every single mention of them out of my sight. If someone reblogs them, or from them, I see their name again.

- Doesn't encourage long-form reading into a single topic (kinda why I want to bring forums back)

- Some folks can pick up from a particular part of the reblog chain and run wild with it, even if there are corrections made later

- Can't correct an old post that someone else has reblogged (I wouldn't mind a way to have a "This post has been changed since it was part of this chain" setting that I could flip on, which would that let you go to that particular post and see the new version of it)

- If someone doesn't tag something, I can't filter it (I'd love a way to suggest tags for OP, so the community can collectively tag it for filtering purposes thereafter)

- Can't hide a post I hate without blocking the OP :/

- Can't block an OP if the account was already deactivated :/

- Can't prune back to certain parts of a reblog chain if the part that I want to prune back to has its account deactivated

- Video player and galleries are on a fuckin' hair trigger of swiping down to the next 'related' video that I did not want to see, which restarts me at the beginning of the video or gallery

- Video player sucks at pausing

- The only way to see what other people are saying about posts I've reblogged and added on to are to stalk them like a stalker :(

[extervus]

This isn't gonna be very concise as I'm about to go to sleep but this is my one millionth reminder that like if a post engages in any sorta like gender essentialism or any other form of like saying "[men/manhood/thing related to men/etc] is worse than [woman counterpart]" like even if it's being framed as a joke, you've GOT to think critically and realize that there's a 95% chance that op is a te.rf/ra.dfem of some sort. And I know/hope/understand/whatever that most of my mutuals know this already, but it seems to be a common thing that folks kinda keep... slipping up on. Toooooo often have I been finding posts in my recommended section (as in, posts that many mutuals/people I follow have been interacting with) that are some form of gender essentialism (usually passed off as a joke or some sort of "deep" social commentary), and when I go to OP's blog it's almost always a fucking ter.f. Either outright obvious or easy to see with just one search thru their blog. Like come on now. The most recent post I saw folks throwin around was the daddy issues trauma vs the mommy issues trauma one where op is like "daddy issues are obvious cause he's obviously the supervillain but mommy issues are nuanced and deep and emotional and yadda yadda." Like I feel like that one should be obvious. Not only in the text itself, but also in the fact that op had the og post tagged with "radb.lr." Not to mention the fact that their blog is FULL of ra.dfem shit, despite the they/them pronouns in bio, which based on their anti-nonbinary posts, are prolly one of the many tactics to trick the people that only skim over a person's blog without looking further into thinking they're not a te.rf. But that's a whole other can of worms. Anyways I just think that maaayyybeee folks should try to be a lil more careful on what they engage with in terms of like being good allies to your transfem friends/mutuals/followers cause this does feel like something that should be the bare minimum to do. Just a thot

[insaneinspireddreamer]

I have three assignments to finish, an exam to study for, too many WIPs to count but this bitch really just cranked out 600+ words on a piece I haven’t even started yet

It’s a concept and I just wrote a random thing smack in the middle of it. I’m—

[alvie-pines]

#yeah the thing is#people make this argument that it like normalizes csa#or is part of some slippery slope thing for abusers#but that is simply not what the (small amounts of inaequate) research we have shows#ESPECIALLY with written media#which is a VAST majority of the time written by people who are either just Processing Taboo Shit Through Fiction (valid)#or were victims of CSA themselves#is it nasty when its sensationalized or not taken seriously?#sure#all forms of violence and exploitation can be addressed badly in fiction#but we tend to put CSA (and sexual violence in general) in this totally separate moral category#and it doesn't seem to have done us a ton of good in society#among other things because it makes us unable to recognize when real abuse is happening#because the people involved are in fact not Monsters (tm) which is what we somehow expect#sorry to ramble in your tags OP#and if you really don't want to be involved in Discourse i will totally delete this i feel sorta bad for reblogging given your next post#but honestly this is super important and should be shouted from the rooftops#csa#pirate exception

great addition here. i want to focus on this for a second:

#but we tend to put CSA (and sexual violence in general) in this totally separate moral category #and it doesn't seem to have done us a ton of good in society

this is extremely true, and i think its worth mentioning that the placement of CSA and SA into a separate category a) stems from puritan ideals that place sex into its own unique category of human behavior while also demonizing it in most cases, and b) has been for AGES used as a tool to oppress minorities, and to justify the oppression of minorities. i actually deleted a part of this response where i talked about pedojacketing; my personal experience with this is as a queer person, but a similar thing also happens to, for example, POC, who are often treated as more sexual and sexually aggressive than white people in the same scenario. im sure you've heard of emmett till, who was accused of being sexually aggressive towards a white woman when he allegedly flirted with her, resulting in his brutal murder at the hands of several white men. he's famous case, but nearly 25% of lynching victims were accused of sexual assault.

in my personal experience as a queer person, i was personally accused of pedophilia on frankly ridiculous grounds at 18, as an mlm trans person, and this was used as justification to harass me across platforms and send me intentionally triggering content (the people harassing me knew that pedophilia was a trigger of mine). current lawmakers in the US are trying to legally define being trans as a sexual act and thus being trans in public (around children) as CSA, while making it easier to give sex offenders the death sentence, and they are winning ground.

conservatives will label us and our content as pedophilic, and once they do, they can get away with doing anything they want to us, up to and including killing us.

this is because people's brains turn off when it comes to sex-related crimes. they are thought of as uniquely depraved, and thus doing anything to someone accused of one can be justified in the public eye.

before someone accuses me of pissing on the poor, i want to emphasize that i don't think sexual assault or CSA is okay in any way. i am saying that sexual crimes should be in the same moral category as other types of abuse; they should be treated equally. because putting sex crimes in their own "uniquely depraved" category makes it easier to justify doing horrific things to people accused of them, who are usually minorities.

i think this mindset bleeds through into our talks about fiction. people will accept depictions of graphic abuse based on their principles, but the moment sex crimes are involved the pitchforks come out and those principles are promptly abandoned. i think this is a symptom of the way our society thinks about sex and sexuality, and the way sex and sexuality are still seen as degenerate in a way other activities are not.

i kinda agree with you, but what if a person writes pedophilic/csa texts? i don't think it should be allowed. even if it's fictional it's still cp and it pisses me off so much when people say it's fictional so it's fine

sigh.

look dude, do you know the person? do you know why theyre writing it? do you know how they feel about it? do you know who they are outside of their writing?

no, you probably dont. you dont know if this is someone writing about their trauma, or sexualizing their trauma (which is a legitimate way to cope with it, dont argue with me just because you have icky feelings about it). you dont know the author's intent (and you cant ever know for sure). you dont know if someone is exploring their fear. there are a million and one reasons for someone to write a story about a dark topic.

furthermore, fiction doesnt inherently hurt anyone. it just doesnt. there is no moral value to writing a story where CSA occurs because none of those characters are real and not a single real-life person has been harmed.

can it be triggering? can you find it disgusting? can you avoid it like the plague? certainly. i do. its a trigger for me.

but my trigger is my responsibility. i dont read stories involving CSA in any way shape or form. i ask people to tag it. and i never have to see it. crazy how simple that is. thats not sarcastic, i actually love how simple it is.

[cloudysfluffs]

hellooo!! my name is cloudy (she/they) (adult), and this is my tkl blog!! &lt;3

my main is @cloudyssskies​ and my art is @cloudysarts​ <3333 so if you see the first in ur notes thats me, and if you wanna look at my not tkl related art you can go to that blog!!

i take reqs for tkl art and tkl hcs!! i used to write fics but ive sorta lost my touch with it since its been so long </33. so dont be afraid to shoot me a request!! i LOVE getting them, even if i dont always do them :] if you’re curious what i take requests for, you can check my interest tab under the read more!!!

this is not a kink/fetish!!!!!!!!! do NOT interact if you like tckling in a sexual context, it makes me super uncomfortable!!!!!!!!!!!! it is a coping mechanism and just for fun!!!!!!!!!!!!

DNI if you are an nsfw blog, a terf, transmed, exclusionist, lgbt-phobic (including anti neos/zenos), discourse blogs, proshipper (meaning if you ship ANYTHING involving inc//est, pedo//phillia, ab//use WHATEVER, even if its an ‘au’ or ‘aged up’, or defend those who do), think RPF (real person fanfic) is ok, and pretty much anything else youd see in a typical dni. get off my blog!!!!!! zero tolerance policy!!!!!!! i check the blog of whoever interacts w my content and youll get blocked on sight!!!!!!! ||| every once and a while i post about how tkl drama is incredibly fucking stupid or generally shit on the community for being creeps (i do not interact with it and don’t consider myself a part of it) so if you dont wanna see that you can block the tag: ‘disc horse’

ANYWAYYYY, ive put a list of my interests under the read more!!!! in no particular order, my hyperfixations change rlly fast </3 feel free to send requests for anything you see on here :]

-under///tale

-delta///rune

-little sh///op of hor///rors

-the night///mare before christ///mas

-cor///pse bri///de

-rob///ots (the 2005 blue sky movie sdfjk)

-co///co

-le///go bat///man

-beetle///juice

-five nig///hts at fred///dys

-five nig///hts at fred///dys the MUSICAL (the ran///dom enco///unters one)

-the mark///iplier cinematic universe

-cath///erine: full///body

-wic///ked/the wiz///ard of oz

-the star///kid hatchet///field series 

-who fra///med roger rab///bit

-por///tal

-ha///lf li///fe

-spi///es are fore///ver

-mirac///ulous lady///bug (but i havent rlly been keeping up with the lore)

-hlv///rai

-sa///m and ma///x (all iterations except for the comics)

-ev///il de///ad (all three movies, all the old games, the musical, and MOST of the TV show B) havent seen the last season tho oops- also ive read like 3 of the comics hksdf)

-ml///p: fim

-gra///vity fa///lls

-the mo///nkey island franchise

-reg///ular sh///ow

-the o///wl ho///use

-dh///mis

-ri///ck and mo///rty

-adven///ture ti///me

-haz///bin ho///tel and hel///luva bo///ss (I THINK THESE SHOWS ARE OBJECTIVELY BAD AND I DO NOT LIKE/SUPPORT VIVZIEPOP)

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Izzy’s Dag-Dag The Artist… Tag

By @morgynemberisagenderfluiddaddy

~ Rules ~

Show us a rendition of yourself in your own art! Can be anything! Sims render? Random stick figure? Picrew? Go nuts! (Just be sure to tag the artist if you use someone else’s picrew!!!!) Tag the blogs you want to know, and don’t be a dick that’s it! Also, feel free to answer as vague or in-depth as you want. And if you don’t want to answer a question for any reason just don’t vibe with it! Skip it if you wanna! Also make sure you tag me and use #dagdagtheartisttag so I can see it!!!!!!!!

This is a bit long so i’m just gonna...

~Questions~

1.) Do you prefer to be referred to by your name or blog name? Both are fine! I don’t care much about what people refer to me as in general and have had someone on here call me lily once

2.) Where are you from? I won’t say exact, but I live in the middle of USA (I can’t wait to move-)

3.) Do you have pets? 👀 Yes! 3 dogs and 2 cats, tho only one cat is truly “mine”

4.) Tell us about your “dream”. uhh like where I want to be in life? what I want to do? um I’m still working on the exact job title, but I wish to do research at a natural history/science museum (sorta like archives or collections manager, but neither of those are quite right i think). Otherwise, I just hope to adopt and even foster kids cause my life would not be complete without little ones :3 (spouse/partner optional lol) 

5.) Aside from art, what are your hobbies? Randomly researching things that grasp my attention, games...lots of games, reading, watching tv, coloring (wait does that count as art-), uhhh spacing out

6. )Does anyone irl know about your blog? yeah, but mostly just know about, not like see my posts i guess

7.)Do you know anyone from your blog irl? not outside of just chatting on discord

8.) What are some fun facts about you? I’ve had some poems published before (it was with entering a poetry contest), I have surprisingly good balance, my brain is not properly awake/functioning until 10am which has led to me almost using soap as toothpaste a few times too many, I have a birthmark on my finger (bonus: it sorta changes color/how noticeable it is depending on how hot or cold I am lol, i call it a mini thermometer cause of this), apparently Lion King was my Disney movie obsession as a kid...oh and I have a certificate in cryptozoology lolz

9.) What’s your day job? i work as a private nanny/glorified babysitter (i don’t live with them or drive but work regular hours through week and as needed; even join the occasional vacation with them)

10.) Do you have a celebrity look alike? i don’t think so; a girl in high school once said I look like Cameron Diaz tho-

11.) What’s your aesthetic? for my blog I think it’s becoming like dark academia meets cottage core?? idk for myself...who knows

12.) What kind of artist are you? the tired kind lol

13.) How did you get into your form of art? if we’re looking at sims, uhhh well I just happened to learn about cc one day, then happened upon simblr, saw edits, and thought I’d give a try cause I can’t draw but I need a creative outlet so this worked for me

14.) What do you watch/listen/read/anything else while you create? if I do anything, its listen to music; music is generally random based on what I feel like but more recently its been 2d anime groups (idolish7, hypnosis mic, etc)

15.) What is your favorite of your own creations so far?  lets see...this, this, and this edit wise I think

16.) How would you describe your art style? idk chaos

17.) What is more satisfying to you coloring or outlining? coloring, I like coloring 

18.) What meme would you use to describe yourself?

19.) What character from any media form do you most identify with? oh gosh uhhhh there’s a few but I’ll say Iori and Sogo from Idolish7 since they come to mind first lol. Iori is a fellow aquarius who hides his interests and agonizes over past slipups even a year later, others have legit moved on but he’s still stuck on it (that was true moment I was like “omg you are aquarius” lol cause yeah meee). Sogo i heavily relate to as well cause he’s,,,very nice and hides his own feelings, putting others before himself (but when right buttons get pushed, he can be scary lol) so yeah, those two

20.) If you were on the run, what would you change your name to? I’ve never thought of this...no clue

21.) Have you ever or do you want to change blog names? I have changed names, yes; I used to be silverine-sims but after a time i didn’t ~vibe~ with it

22.) God forbid Tumblr decides to pull a MySpace and lets us have page songs, what song would you choose?  page songs like adding playlist to blog? i mean its possible already with bit of coding and I used to have one set up but uh one song huh? gosh um I guess Twisted Hearts by tasuku hatanaka; it was op for Moriarty the Patriot s2 and I’m pretty obsessed with it rn 

23.) Oh yeah, I’m still on the MySpace train and I’m starting discourse! Who’s your top 8? my brain refuses to think and rank; i have trouble with choices and that extends to favorites,,

24.) Did you understand those references or did you have to look them up? (I’m fully aware I’m ancient, but are you?) i know of myspace but otherwise i have no clue what all it entailed

25.) One last question; why are you like that? I grew up watching Secret Saturdays, He-Man, Teen Titans, Danny Phantom, and Spongebob idk what to tell ya ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Dag dag?

Now tag tag!!!

I know not all of you will do this or was tagged by izzy already but I’m tagging everyone I can think of anyway-

@cyansimblr @neriney @lunchsims @waysims @klayde @sinfulwunders @void-imp @ladykendalsims @lazysunjade @almost-spring @smolteabirb @lunaziie @clumsyghostie​ and uh uh anyone else cause its too early and my brain just quit

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Do you mind expanding more on this post (post/657118903103799296/pendraegon-white-people-will-really-be-like)? When you have time/mental energy for it? I guess I follow people who don't really you know, post like this, or just generally miss out on anything that's like this kind of interaction/reaction.

Words are failing me here so I hope I'm making some sense...

hiii anon!! sure thing. i mean, this topic of infantilsation of asian men is quite a complex one bc at surface level, its sorta like, "well what's the big deal in a white person calling a man of colour a baby and treating him like one?" but. there is. and its not a new phenomena either. and being asian myself, i sometimes just .. feel so sorry for asian men when it comes to this.

op's post was, i'm guessing, relating to asian male actors in the cdrama industry. i'd extend that out to male kpop idols too, bc i've seen a Tonne of that happen with them too. this idea of "he's a Baby" and "he can Do No Wrong" and "i Need to protect him!!". like. i understand if that's how a white person may feel towards asian male characters in tv and film, i get that. but towards asian men irl? no, there's really no need for that. they're a grown male adult, they know what they're doing. and it does not help that these grown asian men have to "act cute" and "do aegyo" for fanservice purposes (and you gotta understand that is Very Specific to asian people as a whole tbh), which only further pushes infantilising them/us as a whole, even when they themselves do not wanna do that. but the minute a grown adult asian man wants to be sexy and act his age, its ... too scandalous. biggest example? wonho.

and that then further reiterates my point i made in the tags: that the masses of white people are attracted and drawn to A Certain Type of asian men. they can't be too built and muscular and they can't be too brown or dark skinned and they're iffy about facial hair on them. they have to look "squeaky clean" and "petite" with just enough muscle. and then when these asian men do things that are gnc, which - fyi, has existed in the asian culture for centuries and centuries - white people Lose It. if a skinny looking, lighter skinned asian man decides to wear make up and jewelry and paint their nails and dress in a more feminine/gnc manner, then white people lose it and find that sexy and go on about Genvy. but if a broader, muscular asian man that's darker skinned and has facial hair decides to do that, its unacceptable bc it doesn't Look Right on them. do you see what i mean? they're both asian, so why does it Look Right on one but not the other?

and this isnt even all of it. but yeah, i hope it makes things a little more clearer!