#/gen /srs

[iristhemuse]

Journalers..HOW DO YOU PEOPLE DO IT???

No really , like, how do you make your life so interesting you can say a different thing that happened every single day??Like do you guys just randomly have the most incredibly exciting life ??Cuz when i journal it's always the same 3 things that happen every single day, how do you people manage to idk go out every other day , buy a ton of cool but kinda useless stuff just for the pretty of it?? :""l

[ozkarrzen]

Hi guyz can you give me disabled sans headcanons or just any headcanons in general for any sans I'm in the hospital rn I need to cope

[dusk-the-cat]

Wait is Walter a woman or not /gen

[guckies]

I could be talking utter nonsense but I feel like a reason blue’s wins are never praised or celebrated by others is because everyone else is fighting with honour and frankly blue’s loud actions aren’t honourable.

First Win they were violent the entire day, killing other which caused a big rift between them and Red because they were ended up just killing people with nothing.

Second Win they got most points by spawn killing Jaiden which although jaiden entertain. Red didn’t really like nor did green despite elquackity doing it but he is an outlier and imposter so shouldn’t be counted.

Third Win two team members didn’t listen to their elected leader which harmed their rep (even if they don’t believe in the leading system proposed) and possibly doomed their friends.

[fluffyfairyzz]

gender envy

[thevirgodoll]

Sometimes I think about how society genuinely rewards hyper-independent behavior. It’s more acceptable to be avoidant and detach than it is to go inward. Wanting connection during a tough time gets met with a lack of perspective. It breaks my heart to see so many people lose their support systems.

And, honestly, I’d say that hyper-independent response has risen due to the pandemic. We were all detached from each other and missed out on intimacy. As a response, there is a longing for connection but a gap in knowledge as to how frequent and how proximal that connection should be.

There’s also a loss of empathy because everyone’s for themselves and have had to be for so long. This is why people are afraid to share their struggles with their close friends in fear of “dumping”. I hate how no one knows the difference between dumping and venting due to these armchair psychologists on TikTok, Twitter, etc. And, yes, there’s a possibility that you can cross the line but avoidant behavior will only isolate you even more and rob people in your life of the opportunity to give you love.

Friends are supposed to be there, and while all of our friends may show up differently, this obsession with extreme avoidance (often disguised as self preservation) is why people have so much trouble keeping their friends in their 20s. Boundaries are always important to discuss because they are the foundation of so many relationships.

At the same time, the key is recognizing these needs while allowing friends to support you in a time of need. The key is taking the time to schedule ~friend dates~ and talks. The key is trusting yourself to trust others, and working on whatever is in the way of that. This is how you nurture closeness…at this age it takes dedication and courage because education won’t always be a commonality to do the work for us. Eventually, we will have to learn proper communication skills and that is only possible if everyone looks in the mirror to address emotional immaturity.

We have to show our friends we love them, we need them just as much as a romantic dynamic. It’s unwise to ignore that humans have always had some form of platonic connection… to convince yourself that that is not necessary is a first class flight to self sabotage.

What I’m trying to say is attachment and detachment must coexist in a balance. An extreme of one or the other is a trauma response. Avoidance truly is suppression disguised as safety in a room full of traps.

[luvely-pearl]

Autistic girls are the hottest 💯

໒꒰ྀིっ˕ -˶꒱ྀི১ shy until i start info dumping an then i get overstimmed an zone out? doing the same thing the next day bcs im not sure what level friendship were on? but yeahh i do think im cute an sexy too

[kittykittyanon]

closing asks for now!!! i have way too many and i need to go through all of them without having everything pile up.

please, please,, PLEASE do not send me donation asks. i cannot help. i am a minor with no access to anything that would help me send money to anyone.

having people beg me for help in my inbox and sometimes even my DMs is affecting me. i feel guilty not being able to do anything and it's seriously getting to me. i understand being in a position where you have to ask for help as this is a time of need,, but i am FOURTEEN YEARS OLD. this site is my safe space, and i feel like it's selfish of me to ask this,, but please do not tag me in donation posts or send me asks or anything of the sort.

i have my own problems to deal with outside of this. i will be deleting donation asks.

[eddsworldbish420]

Hey guys?

If you think I'm fucked up, come to me first and talk to me before you block me and just say "Oh they're a horrible person" so I could atleast have a chance to say something about it or give more context. Thanks 😊

[oh-look-a-homosexual-punk-bitch]

Is anyone else's paranoia so bad because of there mom, cuz she makes mine so much more worse than it already is, cuz she knows a lot of people and if they see me in public without my mom or dad they are designated reporters for her, sometimes she'll even call them and tell them where I'm going and it always makes me feel like I'm being followed and watched, and listened to, it's horrible, I can't sleep sometimes because of it

[detentiontrack]

Not having an eating disorder anymore is so awesome. Like I had a long exhausting day and just wanted my favorite pizza. And now I’m in line waiting for my pizza and then I’m going to go home and eat my pizza without worrying about calories or gaining weight or “making up for it” tomorrow. I might even have the leftover pizza for breakfast tomorrow <3

[marzisntbritish]

i want to die.

[poptartregreteva]

skibidi toilet fans:

[davidthephoneguy]

why did no one tell me the majority of steamboat willie is just mickey treating animals poorly to make a duet with minnie before gleefully drowning a parrot with a potato?

[toasterghostie]

Hey what flower do pigeons like? Need answers asap

[junos-cacophony]

i feel like i use tone tags too much sorry if it gets annoying