queersys

[queersys]

Queer system blog is taking a long hiatus for personal problems, not sure if it will be for a month or till the last year, but it will be a big one, sorry for the problems that can cause

Until I'm back from hiatus the inbox will be closed for everyone

[queersys]

queer system culture is we got like every letter of lgbtq+ in our system, lesbians, gay man, trans man, bisexual, asexual, genderfluid, agender... the list goes on

You're really collecting them all bro /pf /j

[queersys]

Conversation between 🦕 and 🦈. 🦕 was gonna try and draw some of us and was peering into headspace for itm

🦕: babe, can you look here for a second?

🦈: yes, baby, what's up? (Cue "them big ol' eyes")

🦕: -gay panic-

No drawings have been made, he switched out a few minutes ago and is still reeling

(🦈🦕system)

Awww that's cute, the gay panic it's the funny touch but over all that's cute

[queersys]

Queer system culture is being blurry and worried with sysdoubt all day because you're not even sure who you are, until SUDDENLY, the main queers co-front properly and the following happens:

🦕(in-sys laying on top of 🦈 but the body is laying face down on a rug): okay, I feel that I can get attention now

🦈: cool

🦕: are you giving me attention?

🦈: I am giving you attention, yes

🦕: cool -continues to do absolutely nothing for another 20 minutes-

I... Um... Mysterious ways, I guess.

-(another member of the 🦈🦕system who was to witness these two)

Queers to the rescue 🗣

[queersys]

Queersys culture is having both AroAce and allo orientations throughout the system that make sex life and deciphering crushes/the difference between romantic and platonic attraction a NIGHTMARE /lh

This sounds so difficult ngl

Our main fronters are asexual so it's more easy but having both allo and a-spect at the same time can be a really nightmare to understand what the feeling is lmao

[queersys]

Queer sys culture is being bodily/collectively transmasc with a complex gender ID but when kids at school try to mess with us by asking "what's your gender identity" (because they find it funny for some reason) we just tell them "yes" or "no" (depending on the day) because we find their confusion funny.

like yeah our gender ID is already confusing as is (due to being ND/a system mainly) but we like to confuse people even more >:3

Ok but the yes and no response gives me a lot of FNAF mangle vibes sorry 😭 /pos

You want to reach a new level of external confusion, I respect that pff

[queersys]

Chilling in bed on a late morning and my partner waking up cuddled on top of me, staring at me with a shocked expression for a long while and when I'm about to ask him what's up, he just blurts out "oh my goodness you're my husband" and starts sobbing I love him I love him I love him (he sometimes gets hit with the realisation again and again and gets so overjoyed he cries) -🦈

Aww, that's pretty sweet, I think it's wholesome everytime someone realize you're their partner in such a cute way

The good part is that this realization makes him happy

[queersys]

queer system culture is having more male alters but an AFAB body and telling people at school that we're a lesbian so that the male perverts in our class don't act all creepy with us

bonus: polyamourous in-sys relationships and partner systems :D

(can we claim 🪳🌈 for anon signoff?)

Well that's definitely a strategy, I've never thought about it anytime soon /pos

Polyamorous relationships with the system context rock

[queersys]

chat i love my bf sm

hehe hes so amazing <3

-⛈️

How cute <3

[queersys]

Disabled queer system culture where your in-system partner is more accident-prone when fronting than most other alters so you're constantly holding his hand in co-front to give him some stability because I don't like seeing him hurt

-🦈

Aww this is so sweet, I'm happy you're there to help him with the front stability <3

[queersys]

me and my in-sys partner often use the labels of husband and wife (mostly to be silly) so we occasionally get mistaken as straight couple but we are a nblnb couple where one of us prefers fem terms (that's me!) and the other prefers masc or neu terms

That's such a silly confusion I can agree

But also kinda sad that because of the term preference people might automatically think you're straight, but if that doesn't bother you it's fine at the end

Prefered terms don't have to align with your gender, just be free, use what you like and be happy!

[queersys]

queer system culture is being a transfem alter in an afab body and being fucking happy about it. like hell yes finally I have tits

Live and let live girl, don't let sad people tell you you're not valid because of it

Just don't claim to have the struggles of a transfem in the outside world, but outside that you're hella valid!

[queersys]

Queer system culture is — I have NO clue what word I would use to describe my relationship because nothing quite fits (boyfriend? pairmate? partner? twin flame?) but I know I love my headmate SO SO SO much I adore him he’s the bestest omg

You can make your own term!

One of our alters with his past partner didn't like any of the labels that existed so they just call each other "my -alter name-" and it was kinda sweet to see it

In any way, hope you and he be together and happy for a long long time!!

[queersys]

My favorite thing about being a queer system is that the only two female presenting alters (me, a gxrl alter, and a femme enby) are the “transmasc protectors”, our body is AFAB, we're legally male, and collectively agender seeking male presentation, and we're beginning to transition, and a lot people think that transitioning will makes us sad and cause dysphoria for the female alters, but that is not our case, we want the comfort of the transmasc alters, so it doesn't matter if our voice gets graver, we grow beards, muscles, or we're a walking lumberjack, that doesn't take away the femininity of the female alters and if it gives comfort to the male alters, it makes us very proud. Let's go boyssss 💅

That's actually pretty nice and sweet of you

People have to understand that is not always about dysphoria when transitioning when comes to the point of alters identifying like the gender/presentation the body was pre-transition

I'm happy for you that want the best for the rest of the alters, and it's true, transitioning doesn't erase your femininity! Hope the best at transitioning and good luck for you, the other fem and the masc presenting alters !!

[queersys]

By the way, you may put 🦕 and 🦈 anons together as anon, since it's the same system, I figure itll make it easier?

Oh i does make it easier haha

But I'll probably just use both tags and the mixed one

[queersys]

Oh, he doesn't mind at all the spooks! It's loving bullying we give each other. 🦕 is very jumpy but he's is quick to take revenge on me and attacks back with kisses hahaha Sometimes he'll just keep me in his arms like a lap cat to cuddle while he's fronting 🩷

-🦈

Oww that's cute, then I'm glad you guys have a healthy relationship going on :3

You sound like such a cute and great couple!

[queersys]

Queer sys culture is being in a mlm relationship with someone in our partner system but looking like a lesbian couple lol -🪲🦕(from 🌰🎪)

Looking like the opposite kind of relationship sounds freaking wild

Well it doesn't matter at the end, that doesn't erase you're a mlm couple and your hella valid