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Women are more likely to die following a heart attack - why?

Largely due to different types of heart attack causing different symptoms. In women, a more ‘subtle’ heart attack is more common. 

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“There wasn’t a time when he “dressed” and didn’t get an erection. Even after he started taking internet bought hormones. If anything, the thought that he was chemically transforming himself into “a woman”, held immense erotic charge for him…

…I know from bitter experience of reaching out, that the primary concern is for the welfare of the trans partner, who must never be questioned as the most oppressed creature to walk this planet.

This is a double whammy to those women experiencing abuse, intensive gaslighting, and erasure of their right to name their reality and to set boundaries. Thee is no such thing as a line in the sand when it comes to trans desire. He gota have what he gotta have…

…It often feels like no one want’s to hear the woman’s story…

…In one session [the therapist] grasped on to an incident of “misgendering” that had happened in her presence (I had said something like “Why can’t he understand?”). He had fled from the room in a dramatic tizzy of tears. She stated to me in a firm voice that she is prohibited from working with couples where there is domestic abuse. In other words, I was being accused of being an abuser. This almost drove me mad with pain and self-doubt …what if it really is me? Am *I* an abuser?…

…Then I pretty much stopped seeing female friends at all, since when I tried to go anywhere without him, (telling him that it was “women friends only ”), he would pout and huff and often cry, “It’s because I have a penis, isn’t it?”. When I was away from him he would text and phone me constantly. When I got in he was nasty to me…

…When the kids weren’t around, his idea of relaxing at home was to potter about in a micro-mini and high heels, affecting a “sexy wiggle” and doing this weird thing with his hands and wrists when he spoke. I told him that women don’t go about dressed like they were about to nip down to a disco *all the time*…

…I was always arguing with him about what women *actually* wore, and how sexist his stereotypes of women were, but he would insist that he was dressing like any other “girl” (despite the fact that he is a 47 year old man)…

…For all his faux “girly-ness”, the feminine side never extended to practical, everyday stuff that most adults have to do to get by – like helping with housework. He literally told me “I can’t do housework because I might break a nail – my long nails are important to me”. Turned out he couldn’t carry heavy bags or lift heavy stuff either, cos he wanted his upper body muscles to wither away so he would be “more like a girl”. I told him lots of women have muscles. He told me that wasn’t “the kind of woman” he wanted to be. Of course not – how nice it must be to get to pick and choose…

…He spent thousands and thousands of pounds on clothes, make-up, “beauty products”, laser hair removal and internet hormones. I still can’t see a television ad for make-up without an involuntary shiver down my spine. He would go months without giving me any contribution to the home. Apparently he had “expenses”, and anyway, I wouldn’t have sex with him, so why should he?…

…His story began to change in subtle ways – aided by his community of internet advisors. Now he said he had been dressing since three years old. He now had distinct memories of wishing he was a girl from around the age of five…

…I tried finding help online, but nobody wanted to acknowledge that these delusions are harmful. Rather, I was told * I* had to be educated, that *I* was “phobic”, that I should learn to embrace this. Women were telling me this as well as the trans borg.

Had feminism changed so much? What had happened to the idea of women being central to feminism? Why can’t women see that these are men???

I was told that I was “homophobic” AS WELL AS “transphobic” because I refused to call myself a lesbian. WHAT?? He is a man!! What madness was this???…

…I believe that what women go through in these relationships is a form of emotional violence, and that work needs to be done to raise awareness among not just the wider public about what really goes on within many of these relationships, but also services that support survivors of male violence.

This is not “woman on woman” relationship abuse, and should not be treated or recorded as such. We should not be afraid to see this for what it is – male entitlement. Male violence.

No woman who is being abused needs to be told to have compassion for her abuser.

Women’s enforced compliance with male delusions, needs to recognised for what it is.

Misogyny.

Abuse.

Erasure.

I’m standing up and saying ENOUGH. “

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Constellations / Signs of the Zodiac.

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Voyeurism is another case of a crime that is perpetrated almost exclusively against women that is not taken seriously. “Peeping toms,” or voyeurs, have been too-frequently viewed by police as harmless, and the police have often, therefore, advised women to ignore them and to simply close their curtains or blinds in response. However, studies have shown that a significant percentage of men who participate in voyeurism have admitted to having had sexual contact with a pre-pubescent child (52 percent) and to having raped an adult woman (37 percent). It turns out that, although police tend to not take voyeurs seriously (and they have been the light-hearted subject of many cartoons and commentary), much of the time these men are engaging in “rape testing,” that is, assessing the likelihood that they could get away with rapind the woman they are observing. Certainly, many men who rape participated in voyeurism prior to raping.

Karla Mantilla, Gendertrolling: How Misogyny Went Viral.

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appreciatinge some dirt today

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The little autogenerator that could. XD

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The word “moist” is the Number One universally reviled word in the English language due to both its definition and the way it sounds. Similarly gross words include

chunks

curdling

squirt

munch

bulbous

pustule

sink

squirm

slippery

Which got me wondering, can I elicit the same emotions with words that have no meaning? And the answer is “Yes, yes you definitely can.”

So here it is: words and phrases that elicit “thanks, i hate it!” by sheer negative sonority

scrungo

beesechurger

mingus

hurgling

tungus

Scrimmy Bingus and the Crungy Spingus

slurm

chungus

crungle

gunch

But did you know you can make it even worse by combining them??

bucket of curdling chunks

the pustulous gunch muncher

your squirming tungus

this crungy beesechurger

a squirting chungus

the slurm sink

a slippery mingus

And my all time favorite

m y ⠀m o i s t ⠀s c r u n g o

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Women: I want a man who cares about me.

Men: That’s why you single.

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When one demographic (white males) holds a position of authority for so long, the authority tailors to the needs of that demographic. What is "justice" suits those who are white and male. Whether they blatantly look after their own or whether their biases make them more sympathetic to those like them, it is the unfortunate truth that judges will judge via their own perspective. And without empathy, or confronting their biases, they may show more compassion to those like them.

Too often do cases of sexual assault and horrific murder come up and it is framed a crimes of passion, the result of rejection, or the fault of the victim for "asking for it". It's because the perspective that is judging is from that of a male. Someone who does not worry about harassment everytime they leave the house. Someone who does not often have to fear assault from their peers or loved ones. Someone who isn't constantly seem in the subconsciius of society as something that can be potentially posessed and claimed.

They only fear false accusations, the shame that can cut down future opportunities, and a reputation that lessens their access to others. And so in respect to him it is all framed.

can we do away with the narrative that ted bundy was this charismatic mastermind?

people who knew him growing up said he never fit in, was socially disconnected and weird, and constantly tried to frame himself as better than he was.

he wasn’t constantly wooing women—he had few girlfriends and one his victims who survived his attack literally described him as creepy. his college sweetheart dumped him for being pathetic, directionless, and insecure. the women who wrote him love letters had clear issues with men and were warped into finding “bad boys” attractive.

his victims were not won over by his charm—he either broke into their homes at night, attacked them when they were alone, targeted children, or played the part of a cop or man with a broken arm in need of help loading something into his car. he used violence and subterfuge, not charm, to hurt women and girls.

one of his lawyers described him as unpleasant and blatantly self obsessed. if you listen to his interviews, he sounds blatantly fake, like someone trying too hard to seem intelligent, normal, and likable. it’s a facade and not even a good one.

the media created the image of a charming man because he was a white, average looking, conservative dude and that automatically put him in a positive light in their eyes.

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#same energy

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im REALLY really not trying to be mean but I dont think ppl know what Tops and Bottoms are

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Within patriarchy, men are raised to feel that they are entitled to women and their attention and devotion. Rejection is something we all have to accept. When we ask something of someone, especially in the realm of intimacy, we MUST respect the other persons ability to decline. It is sadistic to ignorr their rejection and force or coerce them to accept.

Likewise, the externalization of the dissapointment of rejection as a fault of the person who rejects you is misplaced and too common in male behavior. Even in other realms, it is a knee jerk thought in men "how dare this woman reject me" which is inherently sadistic.

Its why anyone who deals with men knows to be wary of the interaction. Because if he develops feelings, his sense of entitlement when rejected can escalate to cruelty. "If I can't have you, then no one can."

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it takes at most 3 seconds of thinking to realize that it’s impossible for misogyny to be based on anything but the reality of femaleness. idk how else to explain why little infant girls are choked, drowned, raped, cut up, dehumanized, banned from education, groomed into a role as some man’s personal servant, if it’s all based on a set of pronouns that they aren’t even grown enough to verbalize yet. as if anyone waited until little baby girls settled on a gender identity before going ahead with the decision to work her to death like a cow. what a waste of anyone’s fucking time