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[natterz-patz]

stop being aloof.

⭑𓂃 get out of lala land and shift!

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CHAPTERS 1. what is being "aloof"? 2. why does it affect your journey? 3. "how do I fix it?"

1. WHAT IS BEING "ALOOF"?

Take a look at yourself from a mental angle. What do you think about? Throughout the day, I'm sure your thought process changes ever so often, but really, really think about it. What has most of your attention?

People with different interests and events in their life will have different answers. You, I assume, want to shift. Whether its for the first time, or again, you just want to shift. You're ready to go to any length, try any method, find any tip...

Here is where the problem lies. When you do these things, seclude yourself in a bubble where only shifting matters, affirming every second, doom scrolling on tumblr or tiktok every chance you get, searching through a method masterlist on reddit every night, doing (and I'm sure butchering) attempt after attempt. Ask yourself, aren't you tired?

You distance yourself from the rest of the world. Work, school. Family, friends. Even your health.

"No, it doesn't matter. I'm going to shift anyway."

You are detached. You are excusing your every mistake with shifting. You are dwelling on something so much that it's like you're living in your head. This is being aloof, people (in the context of persisting (or should I say chasing) your desires). This is what it is.

2. WHY DOES IT AFFECT YOU AND YOUR JOURNEY?

There are two ways you look at shifting in this perspective. a) You hate it and it's starting to feel like a chore but you still somehow have motivation and you don't want to stop until you get there or b) You're just really obsessed and want your dream life right at this moment because you just hate living in your CR.

Right! Let's discuss how these mindsets absolutely destroy your life and will never make you shift.

A) Shifting = Chore (you must do it)

You push away all other (probably more important) duties to shift/meditate/affim/whatever

You literally neglect yourself (not putting your needs first)

Ruins your perspective on shifting (just makes it seem like it shouldn't be fun)

Messes up your relationships

B) Obsessed Shifter (you choose to do it)

Exactly what the title is (you're so obsessed with everything connected to shifting)

Non-stop thinking/daydreaming about your DR (disconnects you from important things in your CR)

Promotes negative talk/thoughts about your CR self

Both of these perspectives are horrible. Why?

I'm sure you can already understand by reading, but more in-depth...

When you fixate on shifting (or even anything) this much, you start to force it. Aware of it or unaware of it, it starts to feel like you're pushing it. Shifting is supposed to be a smooth, fluid transition to the 4D, but when you tie all this pressure to the subject, all this work effort and decision making, it creates a block. You make your consciousness think this transition is the biggest hassle known to man when it's really not. And that kicks you into a rut that you aren't sure how to get out of.

I promise you if you forget about your DR for just a moment and pay attention to your surroundings, who you are here in your CR, what you like to do, what you're doing in this moment, you'll feel much better. Rested, almost. This is because you are focused on the NOW, nothing more, nothing less. You aren't worried about the attempt you're about to do later in bed. You are mindful, and that is all you need to take you to your DR.

You are too focused on what you need to do to shift, you aren't actually shifting. You aren't shifting because you aren't shifting. Literally!

Chapter takeaway? All this hyperfixation affects your success because you are distracted from what you are supposed to be doing. You aren't supposed to dwell on if something will work. You're supposed to do it so that it CAN work.

3. "HOW DO I FIX IT?"

"Alright, this all sounds pretty bad, but I can't end a bad habit if I don't know how to fix it!"

Right, right. How do you stop this and get yourself on the right track? I got you.

1. Minimize time spent thinking of your DR (or shifting in general)

Once a day, I want you to sit down and imagine your DR. In full detail or not, it doesn't matter. All I want you to do is be aware of it. Tell yourself you are there, then after as long as you feel like, get up and continue your day.

Just for this small amount of time, you are thinking about your DR. Only then. For the rest of the day, keep yourself busy. No tumblr, no tik tok, no reddit. Nothing. It's just you, the people and the events in your CR. That's it.

If you are planning to shift that day, well then good. Decide that in the morning before you start your day. Otherwise, not even a thought about shifting should erupt from your mind.

And if it does, that's okay. But you need to shake this thing of always thinking about your DR. Once you do, you will shift. Promise.

2. Practice self-love and build self-concept

Usually, the people who are always finding a guaranteed way to shift are people who don't believe in themselves. They think that if something is 100% going to work, their opinion on a subject won't matter because it is bound to happen anyway.

To some extent this is true, but it's not a healthy way to think. Focusing on your self-concept can change that! Instead of thinking about shifting, think about you. Take a warm bath, drink your favourite beverage.. You'll realize there's much more to living than just your DR.

Also, once you're confident in yourself, anything you think will shift you, will!

3. Be happy with your situation (express gratitude and stay positive!)

I know it might be hard, especially if you feel like you're stuck in your journey, but you need to keep your head up.

99% of gamblers quit before their big win. "When will my big win happen?" That's the fun part. You'll never know until it actually happens. That's why when you stop thinking so much about it, time passes quicker and you effortlessly receive what you want.

Incorporating gratitude into your thought process is good too. At the end of the day or in the morning, whichever you prefer, take a notebook and write down all you are grateful for. Just write it all down until there is nothing else to put on paper. Then read through it out loud, one by one like, "I am grateful for the support I receive from the people around me."

As you say each sentence, feel the actual feeling of gratitude in you. The more you do this exercise, the more you will actually realize how lucky and deserving you are.

CONCLUSION

Phew! What a long one.

Two good hours of writing and I'm not sure it's as clear as I would have liked it to be (I overthought about it a lot lol).

As you continue your journey, remember to stay aware of what you have now. Take care of yourself and your people and enjoy life for what it is now. Don't get into your head, "I have to shift now!" this and "I need my dream life now!" that. Ground yourself and know that where there's a will, there's a way. You'll be home before you know it.

Asks are open! Go ahead and ask questions if this was confusing...

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Love,

Nattie