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💭this month i will worry less

🌕this month i will pray more

💗this month i will love myself more

🧁this month i will make the best of each day

🪷this month i will live more mindfully

🌙this month i will practice gratitude

🎀this month i will start the journey of being myself, unapologetically

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No one gets them like I do

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something about spiderwebs is just really dreamy ngl

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ֹ ִ 🌿 ֹ 🦋 ֹ 🫧 ֹ ִ

i am a magnet for good luck

i am a magnet for good luck

i am a magnet for good luck

i am a magnet for good luck

i am a magnet for good luck

i am a magnet for good luck

i am a magnet for good luck

ֹ ִ 🐞 ֹ 🌸 ֹ 🧚🏽‍♂️ ֹ ִ

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｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ ﾟ. 2024 will bring blessings.

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SEND THIS TO OTHER BLOGGERS YOU THINK ARE WONDERFUL. KEEP THE GAME GOING ♡♡

TYSM AWWW

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Know your worth

Anger can be an appropriate emotion. But you’re letting too much people trigger it when you argue often.

Feminine stands up against wrong doings & injustice. Anger is appropriate & arguing can be too. But choose your battles wisely. When will it be productive to argue with someone online over a comment? Almost never.

When people disrespect us, it’s easy to want to yell or lecture them about how they cannot treat you this way.

Don’t explain what you won’t tolerate, just don’t tolerate it.

Your absent presence is the punishment they need. A person who’s disrespectful to you isn’t listening with an open heart to your anger or feelings. If they cared about your feelings, they wouldn’t be treating you this way.

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Displine is a muscle

If you don’t exercise your self discipline you will never grow it. But just like lifting actual weights, you don’t start off with the heaviest weight. That is not sustainable. You will quit because it’s too hard.

Doing one hard thing, is exercising your self discipline.

What’s hard for you can even be something as “small” as going to bed at a set time. Doing I push-up. Spending 10 minutes reading. One step forward will take you to your destination. Zero steps will not.

Each time you do something hard, that you don’t want to do, you’re building momentum for bigger goals. You realize to get, you have to give.

But to get you have to want. You have to want whatever it is, enough for yourself, to be uncomfortable & do things that aren’t instantly gratifying.

Pressure is what creates the diamond.

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moodboard| vibes i'm going for in the new school year xoxo

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Stop waiting to be perfect to start living

Everyone has insecurities. Some to the point where they are crippled by them. Insecurities control their life, & stop them from new experiences.

Your fear of being seen is not valid. Life is not about making sure others think highly of you. Trying to control what others think will have you struggling your whole life. Let go of the fear of being seen in your own skin. There are people who love you at every state you’re in. Despite if you have blemishes or not. You deserve to live life freely without fear of judgement.

Some skills to combat this:

Detox from looking for flaws

Stay a sinks away from the mirror. Stop taking obsessive photos, etc.

Opposite action

Going out despite how you feel about yourself in that moment.

List of qualities

Making a list of qualities you have that are non physical that people admire about you.

Journaling

Journaling good memories of fun times with people you love. Remind yourself that you are logeable at all stages of life & your physical self is the least interesting thing about you.

Reminder

Remind yourself that anyone who has judged you in a way to bring you down, is not a good person, or someone who is enjoying life. People know how to say deeply hurtful things, whether they are “true” or not.

Get value

Get value outside your physical self. Est-ce able acts & hobbies that build skill show you you’re capable of so much outside of how you appear.