livinglikearuna

[livinglikearuna]

spill the tea dianxia

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[livinglikearuna]

Gender discussions with my mom can either be life changing or depressing smh

hey yall so like I just had a convo w my mom and we were talking about gender. Heavy topic yeah. Then I like mentioned how baby boys can also be dressed in like pink dresses and stuff and she lost her shit. Like she was comparing it to if a man bore his chest in public, to a woman bearing her chest in public. And said that there were some limits to breaking gender boundaries.

Then I had a thought. The reason women can't bear their breasts in public, and men can, is because of the oppression women face. Even though a woman's breast has more use and is needed for a baby's growth, they are sexualized and seen as sex organs, when they are just a secondary sex characteristic.

And I also thought that, if putting dresses on baby boys was bad, because the children didn't have any say or will on it, then isn't dressing them up in the more traditional boy clothing also bad ? What about the clothing that has very gross and creepy writing ? What about the baby's clothing that had things like, heart breaker or ladies' man written on it ? Was that not also a bad thing because the children do not have any free will to reject or accept those clothes ?

Why is it that a simple dress is seen as unacceptable?? Why is it that a baby's clothing can cause discourse in people ??

I mean back in the medieval times boys were put in dresses, even in Asian (I am Asian) cultures dresses were common. So I don't think there's anything wrong with putting a baby boy in a dress, but my entire fam thinks it's disgusting haha

[livinglikearuna]

I absolutely love just how many time-travel fix-it fics there are in this fandom

[livinglikearuna]

hey yall just tryna ask for help looking for this one danmei I read like agesss ago

I don't really remember much but I do know that the mc is a sickle young man with 3 older siblings who are like suuuper protective of him, and there's like a cherry tree or sumn planted in front of his window then one day it like goes away I think and he meets the ml.

As much as I remember at the end of the book they revealed that the mc was actually an immortal who died, and the ml was his disciple who fell in love but tragedy✨️ so no feelings were communicated.

Oh and there was this one other guy who tried to kidnap the mc, and he's revealed to also be a disciple who fell in love with his master but it was pretty one sided.

The only name I remember is Ling ? Lin ? Ye something along those lines, would do me the world if someone knows something. Thank .

[livinglikearuna]

lmaooo yall check out this goofy ass wwx pic i found on pinterest T0T

credits to the og artist who made this absolute masterpiece been trying to find them

[livinglikearuna]

wish i had seen this sooner so i could purchase ... too late lmao

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the drawings are amazing girl ! you could do comics and comissions at this rate !

Hey guys, Happy Pride Month, and shout out to these two ragged dolls 3 & 4 from the movie called “9”, created by Shane Acker himself and released f September 3rd, 2009. I watched the movie three days ago, and I loved it! I can even also confirm that there are Binary sexual>