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it’s crazy how easy it is to be respectful of other people’s opinions even when you disagree.

i’m looking at you sjm fandom

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i know music is not something i talk about often (ever) on here. but the grammys were SO DISAPPOINTING. anyone who lost against beyoncé was robbed. not sorry.

billie, sabrina, taylor, chappell, charli, and everyone else deserve apologies tbh

who knows how much they paid the academy for that shit to win

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ONYX STORM SPOILER!!!

You might be angry when you realize I didn’t wake you to say goodbye. But it’s only because I no longer fully trust my ability to walk away.

—Recovered Correspondence of His Grace, Lieutenant Xaden Riorson, Sixteenth Duke of Tyrrendor, to Cadet Violet Sorrengail

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Starfall

Art: giannyfili

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Do you plan on drawing Jurdan anytime soon? ❤️🥹

I love Jurdan way too much to not draw them 🤭

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Violence, Xaddy and their dragon family 🖤

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and yall praising eris are just as bad !!! mor is not “shady” and he’s not a good guy for slut shaming her even if she was “shady” !!!

people might “it’s not that deep” this but i think it’s concerning the amount of hate feyre has been getting in the last few years.

it used to be really popular to criticize tamlin, now new readers wont allow folks to say fuck tamlin without ten of his annoying fans being like “but rhys did this” “but feyre was mean :(“ “he deserves a redemption arc”

the rise of misogyny and victim blaming in this fandom normalizes this behavior irl. would you see an abused woman who talks back to her abuser, he shows physical violence towards her, and tell her “well you knew he would react that way. why would you provoke him?? YOU’RE THE MANIPULATIVE ONE.”

especially with the rise of alt-right talking points on tiktok, conservatism, and misogyny. you can’t convince me there isn’t a problem with the way people hate on feyre to prop up her abuser.

acotar and acomaf chronicle feyre’s journey through being a lonely girl who falls in love with a man that promises her safety when she’s never known that, and then becomes controlling and wants to hide her from the world and disempower her. it’s not up for debate. it’s not subtle, it’s very on the nose for an abusive relationship. tamlin didn’t just change over night, you were viewing him through feyre’s rose colored glasses.

when i re-read acotar, i was struck by the fact that feyre and tamlin had maybe two serious conversations where they got to know each other before they were in love. feyre has more serious conversations with rhys in acotar and is able to be herself way more with him, and she notes that herself.

it’s scary to see how misogynistic female dominated spaces in book fandoms can really get, especially with misogyny on the rise in young men. does thinking that eris or tamlin are interesting mean you hate women? no, but when you hate on their victims and treat them noticeably more charitable than you do for female characters it does!

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why is it so common that stardew valley players if they love seb they also love haley (im one of them i must know why i love both)

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yes the book boyfriends in fourth wing yes i agree, however !! THE WOMEN

violet, MIRA, rhiannon, imogen, even cat in a toxic way

everyone is so hot i love being bisexual

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me thinking about little xaden who loses both his parents but his mother by her own choice :(

he was just a baby

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*explaining ACOTAR to the boyfriend*

Me: so they have these things called mating bonds-

Him: *gentle gasp* like penguins?

Me: exactly like penguins

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any of my acotar loving followers pls send some love over to my wonderful mutual & friend @highbabyofthenightcourt because she’s got some NASTIES in her comments rn

and i know yall are all so kind and lovely and supportive ��🏻🫶🏻

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what an interesting view you have on the story & characters, just out of curiosity when was the last time you actually interacted with the source material ?

im looking at you tamlin stans & ic haters tbh

(i saw someone else post something similar and it just needed to be said again)

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"Sometimes I feel like there's a hole inside of me, an emptiness that at times seems to burn. I think if you lifted my heart to your ear, you could probably hear the ocean. The moon tonight, there's a circle around it. Sign of trouble not far behind. I have this dream of being whole. Of not going to sleep each night, wanting. But still sometimes, when the wind is warm or the crickets sing... I dream of a love that even time will lie down and be still for. I just want someone to love me. I want to be seen. I don't know. Maybe I had my happiness. I don't want to believe it but, there is no man, Gilly. Only that moon." Horror Character Appreciation - Sandra Bullock as Sally Owens in Practical Magic (1998) dir. Griffin Dunne

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if y’all are still hating dain at this point,, did you read the books?

yes in fourth wing i hated him, but he’s grown. he’s just a kid who was seriously misled by his father, who he thought he could trust (because, obviously you’d assume you can trust your parent?) and he very quickly learned that his father is not to be trusted and he apologized and is working on being better

dain redemption arc is SO GOOD

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the hell-spawn dog literally guarding the gates of the underworld: no one ever plays with me :(

annabeth chase, crying: thats the saddest thing i've ever heard