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GALDSY/GLADLES IS AN EMOTIONAL ABUSER AND MANIPULATOR.

Please read through the document before making an opinion. The document is 400++ pages for a reason.

Reshares are very appreciated

TRIGGER WARNINGS: Emotional abuse, discussions of self harm and suicide, eating disorders, mentions physical abuse through parent, mentions of child grooming, transphobia, misgendering, ableism

TLDR below cut!

Gal would be refered to as G, and Maya would be refered to as M.

About M:

M comes from a emotional and physical abusive household and has no prior social circle before and during the course of the relationship. M has an ED (bulimia) and also comes from a low income family. M is autistic, has depression and cptsd.

Beginning:

- G n M were in relationship from 02/03/23 - 12/03/24 (DD/MM/YY)

- During this period, G would be both emotionally abusive and manipulative towards M

- M was in a pedophilia relationship with an older women who had been grooming her for 3 years when G first met M

- G would then proceed to get M out of that relationship in the pretense of not approving of the relationship in nature (G already had feelings towards M and made M chose between their friendship or the relationship)

During the RS

- M was highly codependent towards G as M has no other support system outside of the RS

- This would lead to G slowly mistreating M due to the power imbalance of the rs

- G would be dismissive towards M's feelings and interests during the relationship

- G would find M's interests annoying -> M would stop talking about it -> G would only be less cold, annoyed and angry when they slept tgt -> M would do everything to please G so G would show care -> M shaped her life based on what G wanted

- G would constantly lovebomb M with gifts. G would usually buy gifts for M if they had any disagreements

- G would often threaten to break up with M whenever M brought up things -> G would then proceed to lovebomb to move on from the matter

- M's ED is also caused by the financial struggles at home -> restrictive eating -> G starts paying for food -> M becomes reliant on food from G

- G would comment on the bones on M's body -> Causing M the need to feel more validated to be as thin as possible

Bday incident:

- It was G's bday and G was overseas

- M had been having depressive episodes -> tried to hold back for G's bday -> M couldn't take it anymore and fell into an episode -> M felt extremely suicidal

- M confided in G about this

- G tried to dismiss the fact -> G asked why M couldn't do this on another day

- G implying M was selfish for feeling suicidal on G's bday

- G was saying M was selfish and ruined G's bday

- G would then proceed to imply M was at fault for the whole thing

- M was literally contemplating suicide the whole day

- G kept going "Stop" "Listen to me" "Stop" "Do you feel guilty"

- Ended on G going "don't kill yourself or whatever"

- This event would lead to G constantly bringing it up that M "ruined" everything

After the Bday

- M eventually confided to a friend about what happen -> G said that the opinion of the friend changed M's view on what happened

- Friend said G was being emotionally manipulative about the situation

- G started accusing M of ruining that day again and kept blaming M

- G didn't listent to what M had to say

- Eventually M would apologised and admit is her fault -> G finally calmed down and showed affection

- G would keep getting M to apologise for being "terrible"

- Causing a cycle which M would bring up an issue -> G would threatened to break up -> M begging for G to not leave and saying sorry multiple times -> G eventually showing affection

WHY BREAKUP?

- G told M that she was bored of her

- G would claim that there was ‘no more spark’

- G admitted that she saw M as a burden

- M reached out to strangers on discord to ask for their opinion

- was informed that everything that had been going on was emotional abuse

- M was pushed to break up with G

AFTER THE BREAKUP:

- both decided to stay in contact as friends

- 2 weeks after breaking up, G tried to guilt trip M into meeting up in real life with her. M said no.

- M and G met up multiple times after the breakup

- During the meetups, G would constantly touch M without permission (lean head on shoulder, hold arm, bump shoulders etcetc.) M was uncomfortable but didn’t say anything (there was a witness for this)

- long story short G lovebombed M with gifts and affection and made M dependent on her again but more purposely this time.

- G then withdrew everything

- G became cold and distant again and M has to beg for affection again

Others:

- G would constantly misgender a trans person and have ableistic humor with her friend group. (The group would often throw the r-slur)

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A dump of new/old wips and sketches

Enjoy ✨️

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More of the Jones sibling shenanigans + Erma!!

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For today's random post: A Venus au that mostly lives in my head and with a small few discord friends. Might go into more detail about her later or if I'm asked about it. Still a fresh au tho.

I do not have a name for this au yet

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The Do’s & Don'ts of interacting w/ content creators, & other people you don’t know well mutually I slapped together for Twitter.

This ended up being more Don'ts than Dos but I feel like people need more help learning what NOT to say once they stray away from simple compliments and questions.

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↑ Vivid April and Casey Redraw!! ↑

HUH?! I originally thought I drew the right one a long time ago but i checked it and it was only 2 months ago?!

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... just throwing this out here as well, while I'm at it!

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Competitors and their art, as well as details for next week's mini tournament, are below the read more!

@polyphemus--venus art here! - @dykeraphael art here!

@less-depresso-more-espresso art here! - @writing-biting art here!

@justaturtleindisguise art here! - @aspen-washere art here!

@galaxitix art here!

Please give all art appreciating notes to the original posts!

Next week's mini tournament theme will be "Maskless girls"! All five main tournament art slots are taken, which leaves five open spots for new submissions! If you wish to participate please DM me with a link to the post with the art in question! Its first come first serve, unfortunately, and main tournament participants' submissions of other art will count as an open spot if someone else wants it, so please try to keep that in mind, especially if you're a later submitter!

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Just some lil lads and the chaos that follows

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HRGJJFJDHSGGSGSJZ THESE TWO CUTIES HAVE BEEN EATING AT MY BRAIN SO ENJOY

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the fear of "faking" in both online & iRL mental health spaces can be so all-consuming. what if i'm faking this all for attention? what if i'm deceiving everyone? am i a liar?

listen: faking is a concious choice. if you didn't decide to fake your disorder, then that's not a possible truth.

however, you might be mistaking.

mistaking certain symptoms for other disorders, mistaking normal things for symptoms, etc. does that make you "bad"? not at all! you're allowed to make mistakes. it's alright if you end up being wrong. you aren't doing anything "bad" by misinterpreting the complex issues that come with mental illness.

this is all very tough to navigate. the goal is not to label every single part of yourself correctly forever. the goal is to feel better, even a little bit.

take care <3

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I literally am in love w/ your artstyle!! That's it that's the whole ask, your art is extremely pretty tho- /gen

HSJSHSHSHSHHSHDH THANK YOU

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Dresses!

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El appreciates the cookie!!

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flock together, love each other

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El may not have made it in time for @ultimatebabygirlsupremebattle , but that won't stop her from supporting her fellow babygirls!

Other gorgeous characters belong to: @boy-icky, @donnietheterrapin, @dykeraphael, @probably-not-a-rutabaga, @glitter-alienzzz, @crystallizabethine, @terrapinnnn, @less-depresso-more-espresso, @teenagemutanttransgenderturtles, @newtmntfan, and @mushtoons

I put as many Leo's as I could! Just know there are many others that also deserve support!!

I hope I tagged everyone and good luck!!

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My transfem Leo...Leah!!!