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scars in fiction: I got this trying to save my lover from an assassin- but tragically, I was too late. now I carry the mark of my failure with me always, and I can never forget~

scars in real life: so I was trying to open macaroni sauce with a paring knife

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Tintin remembers what comes after 15.

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“Sea grapes are the new sea bass” OH YOU MOTHER FUCKERS

NOTHING WILL E V E R BE THE NEW SEABASS

BITCHES LAST DIVING SESH I GOT ZERO (0) SEA GRAPES. 

LAST FISHING SESH? 4 SEA BASS.

SHUT THE FUCK UP.

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Hey ! Got a little story with this one.

tl;dr : please at any social gathering, take safety measures for both your safety and the safety of your group. (meet at a rendez vous point in case you're lost, the phone in your hands firmly so you can hear the notifications, have someone responsible for the group (doesn't mean that you won't have any !) etc etc). ESPECIALLY if you're a group of minors.

I was at a pride walk not too long ago, to advocate for our right to marry (I know, in 2021, big yikes). I went in alone, but got to know a group of youngsters (I'm talking 20-25 people, maybe even 30 at some point), and I was easily the oldest. It didn't say much, because I was, and still am, 17. The group kinda got split up, merging into group of around 5.

Under the cut for social anxiety, panick attack, and irresponsability.

I was just chilling with the group, insisted on sharing our phone numbers in case of an emergency and to find each other in case we got lost, when this teen come to us, really panicked. I knew something was wrong, and when I got to tell her what's going on, she said that she lost her friends that she came with, and she both hates and is scared of people. She was having a really bad panic attack. I'm talking shaking, wide eyes, almost crying kinda deal.

I took her aside, with as little people around as possible, and did my best to calm her down. First trying to make her concentrate on my voice, but I soon saw that wasn't absolutely working. I asked if it was alright for me to touch her, she said yes, and I took her hand.

I read from a fanfic that one character used the grounding technique to calm another character from a panic attack. It was my first time dealing with a panic attack this big, me being the helper, and I read that line a few weeks to a months prior to the events.

I did my best. I fucked it up at some point, because the word for smelling and feeling is the same in french. We got a laugh out of it and she managed to calm down. She was still shaking, but compared to her prior state, I took it as a win.

I took her number and told her to text me immediately if anything happened. With this story I'm also gonna touch on another touchy subject ;

If you're a minor and you're going into a big social gathering without an adult, please, I beg of you, take safety measures (meet at a rendez vous point in case you're lost, the phone in your hands firmly so you can hear the notifications, have someone responsible for the group (doesn't mean that you won't have any !) etc etc). To protect yourself, the group, and especially people with social anxiety. Nominate someone to be the responsible one if someone doesn't naturally take the place.

Because what I heard from that poor teen, is not acceptable. She was from another country, first time in the city (it's a gigantic city for my country), and had already almost got lost/forgotten from her group earlier that day. I almost blurted out that they don't really seem considerate for friends, but I held my tongue. It wasn't my place. My place was to help her find her group, and make them aware of just how irresponsible that was of them.

We found 'em, and lemme tell you, she was running to them and started ugly sobbing. They thought she was faking it, and I simply shook my head, trying my best to not eviscerating them too much.

I took each and every one of them aside, and made it very clear that if this happened again, and I find her lost and panicked in this event, I was gonna find them and we were not gonna be friends. I was livid. Still am to this day.

Anti anxiety.

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do yall look at your keyboard when you're typing

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For you berry, I don't know all of them but for you it's more like. Dumb hoes. But most importantly : attractive dumb hoes. I think more of the : "haha they dumb" then the "oh fuck oh shit they're actually brilliant, we're doomed". And for the intelligent one it's more like "listen i knew you were smart, but you're scaring me".

Here are mines :

What are y'all assumptions ?

Tagging everyone that wants to participate !

Imma start my own ask game:

Ok now I tag: @saudade-mayari @kissmekakashi @mal-adaptive-daydreamer @lemony-snickers @depressedhatakekakashi @lilacte @toshibaby

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Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

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Baguette

I love graphic tees, you can wear full sentences on your body. To strangers, that sentence is everything they know about you, it’s literally your only interaction with most people. Make sure your shirt says something important to you.

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when i was in middle/early high school my best friend and i ran an entire RP universe through a complicated network of over 100 fake facebook accounts working in real time, characters fighting in the chat with each other and causing drama on the feed and relationship statuses changing and updating profile pics and everything, different browsers on the same computer logged onto different accounts and running the whole thing like a real time grand strategy game we had documents we had charts we had relationship maps we had character arcs and we were so good with making it seem legit we were in it for the realism and it was just the two of us doing this, and at our school for mentally ill kids everyone else was 14 and doing drugs and getting pregnant and getting suspended for knifing each other in the parking lot but we just minded our own and 100+ fake people's business and stayed out of trouble and let me just say. facebook's rules nowadays would never let any of that fly and that's the greatest tragedy of all we could never pulled any of that off now but 2012 was a different beast. you had to have been there

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Instead of commissions, I'm doing voted-upon crowd-funded projects now!

Vote for the first pairing here

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reblog and put in the tags what you are currently hyperfixating on

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mcdonalds gave me the boys toy in my happy meal and ive been transgender ever since

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Oh shit 2022 is in 4 months please i havent processef 2020 yet-

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Baya Weaver - The Knotty Bird, Rewild with ABD / Woodnote Films

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where is that renaissance painting with those two fellers and a giant fucking random skull on the floor that looks like it was accidentally stretched out in photoshop