kittywaffles97

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Reblog to give prev a fucking break holy shit y’all

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“it sounds like you’re justifying their actions-“ i am. they’re a fictional character. i’m okay with anything they do all the time. hope this helps.

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i just do not trust any discussion on this site about the morality of kink or relationships or sex cuz on one occasion I was accused of being a pedophile because I'm seven inches taller than my husband (who is only a year younger than me), on another occasion i got called a pedophile cuz I reblogged anime art of a girl and her belly button was showing, got called a pedophile for dating a girl who was also in her 20s that I wasn't even dating, someone told me I was an evil transmisandrist cuz I wrote a forcefem post that was actually aimed at transfems and the post below them calling me a predator was a pro kink positivity post, every call out lists completely innocuous kinks that have nothing to do with anything, and one time a 14 year old transmasc got called out for being a bit of a creep and the entire site was reading these sexting conversations between them and other teenagers and sexually harassing them both and mocking their kinks (kinks which are 100% tame by the standard our current niche online culture).

And this is just barely scraping ice off the tip of the iceberg for this kind of shit, but every time I see someone try to talk about how a kink is immoral or something I'm just like. Man idk youre sounding a lot like the anti belly button guy.

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anyway the actual point of fandom is to inspire each other. reading each other's fics and admiring each other's art and saying wow i love this and i feel something and i want to invoke this in other people, i want to write a sentence that feels like a meteor shower, i want to paint a kiss with such tenderness it makes you ache, i want to create something that someone else somewhere will see it and think oh, i need to do that too, right now. i am embracing being a corny cunt on main to say inspiring each other is one of the things humanity is best at and one of the things fandom is built for and i think that's beautiful

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if you're worried about the new ToS for AO3, please remember that you are primed to distrust because of the way politics are intertwining with the internet right now. remember to look into definitions yourself, fact check, and look through the logic lense before jumping to conclusions.

AFAIK right now, the update clarifies terms that have already existed. it's not changing as much as it is clarity-rewriting. i'm still looking through the legalese (law student, i'm learning as I go) and I will be checking in again later, but don't despair.

however, don't get lax. download fics, connect with the authors, build out your communities. comment and bookmark and save, and please don't stop writing.

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i am FULLY against the sentiment that we don’t owe anybody anything. we owe people common decency. we owe people respect if it has been given to us. we owe people apologies & explanations when we hurt them. i don’t care.

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reading progressive sex ed caricatures with accurate and detailed and realistic diagrams of sexual organs + shows their variation, but all i can think about is how there is no discussion of what srs is besides the fact that it exists

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Are you proship or antiship? Me personally I'm antiship but it's just a matter of personal opinion and proship is ok too.

Incest is fine IRL but in fiction it's abhorrent and should be banned

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Wife

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bro gay ppl cannot break up normally

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I respect your defense of bisexual woman and all but I just don’t want to put my mouth somewhere I know a dick has been

Yall out here acting like these girls’ pussies be haunted by the ghosts of penises past, this ain’t a Dickmas Carol, be so fucking for real

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