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Exactly this, fiction is not reality so the content of “problematic” books or other works of fiction (such as the Gor series) shouldn’t matter, especially given the fact that you don’t know if someone who likes it likes it because they’re some evil sadistic monster or if they like it because they find the concept hot or if they like it for trauma related reasons, so treating all fiction like a life guide to reality ignores all the other people who like it for fun or like it because of trauma

If it’s not your thing, don’t read, simples

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I’d tell antis to go fuck themselves, but they would call that “problematic” too

If you are someone who believes that you shouldn't ship characters that "act like siblings"--

Please describe to me what interactions between two characters who are not related signal to you that to you that they "act like siblings" and explain how those interactions differ from interactions that could be and are otherwise read as romantic in fandom ships.

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Oh, and age regression is also culturally demonised just like “problematic” shipping is

I hate when anti's try to suggest better coping mechanisms: (tw mentions of, sh and suicide and possibly sa idk where the line goes from implied to mentioned, word "you" not aimed at anyone specific)

"get therapy" I've been in therapy once for something unrelated and constantly lied. I don't know why but lying feels like an instinct sometimes, it's something I'm trying my best to work on but my best bet on why I was doing it then is because seeing people worried about me makes me want to commit.

"listen to music" I do. It's a temporary distraction, and half the time not even that. I've hurt myself listening to music. It does not do shit to help.

"physical activity" I am very heavy on my feet so when I do stuff, and my parents work full time from home so if I try indoors I cause issues, and it's British autumn getting to winter so outdoors is not a reliable option, and even in summer it feels far too hot for me to function. Also the feeling of sweat makes me want to skin myself alive.

"meditate" I am autistic, anxious, possibly ADHD. You fucking expect me to clear my head. You fucking expect me to have a calm moment without starting to think about everything bad in my life and how it's all my fault.

"age regression" I do involuntarily and it doesn't help.

And more on getting therapy, that would involve telling my parents. Which would involve saying all the complicated and difficult stuff that makes me want to end myself out loud, I've told one friend and even then I had to send it to them through text even tho we were right next to eachother because saying it out loud feels impossible. And my parents won't let me text things to them if it can be said out loud.

Most coping mechanisms they suggest would need my parents help at some level to at least attempt

"Go on a walk" doesn't help, gives me more time to overthink.

"Talk to friends" I have one friend I feel close enough to discuss that with and I barely see them anymore so when I do see then the last thing I want to be doing is talking about something as serious as this.

"Gardening" British weather, very small garden, it's getting to autumn, it would raise too many questions from my parents, I don't know how to ask for stuff.

"Just distract yourself" you understand distractions are temporary. And the moment they go away it'll go back to how everything always is.

I just need them to understand I have something that for once I think has a chance of helping. Even if it is unhealthy it's far more healthy than cutting myself, imagining my own death or sitting on my windowsill and thinking about jumping.

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So I found what controversy this is a reference to and holy shit antis are disgusting

Dear antis its not normal to wish gruesome death and torture on strangers. Please seek help.

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Oh wait you are a proshipper

Sorry hard to tell these days

Whoops!

Dear antis its not normal to wish gruesome death and torture on strangers. Please seek help.

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Me when someone criticises the kinks shown on MY BLOGS

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Telling someone to kill themselves over fictional characters isn’t normal. It’s weird. Please seek help

Dear antis its not normal to wish gruesome death and torture on strangers. Please seek help.

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They’re actually making up people to be retroactively mad at

Antis have, like… no lives

Sigh.

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Or even if they’re not a minor in canon but is “minor coded”

*cough* Jemima from Cats *cough*

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Yeah, see

Transphobe

All I’m saying is thank goodness I decided to take down my gender identity from my main’s blog header otherwise he would call me a freak of some sort

ooooh he’s gendercritical… that makes a lot more sense

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Who are you talking to? Me? Because if you’re talking to me I didn’t bring up the idea first

Vyachki is the one who made it about paedophillia being ‘accepted as valid’ even though it’s not

Vyachki pushed a false narrative, not me

WOMP WOMP KILL YOURSELF

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Yeah, like it or not if your honest response to consenting adults engaging in kink is “eww, shouldn’t be allowed” you are a fascist. Simple as

No, please, do tell me how my disgust response towards rape kink is somehow fascist. Feel free to really let me know that I have no right to consideration or empathy because if something makes you horny, it's above all reproach.

no it sounds like you get it already

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BDSM and kink built Pride

One of the most popular pairings in queer BDSM is Mommy/Little Girl or Daddy/Little Boy (or even Mommy/Little Boy or Daddy/Little Girl)

Guess where those pairings come from

Incest and ABDL

“We need more freaky gay sex” MEANS we need more FREAKY gay sex

Purity Politics

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That this is the fault of rape culture

WOMP WOMP KILL YOURSELF

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I eroticise controlled living all the time as it’s comforting to me to not need to worry about a million things at once, instead to just worry about looking pretty, sex, and maybe some tasks that need to be done

I’m literally in one of the best universities in my entire country. Like…Top Twenty good

I'm a disabled person who has never had much control over her own life. There are lots of other people in the same boat as me.

Some people turn this into indulgent fantasies about gaining full independence with limited support/interference from other people/characters. Some people eroticize the independence, their sexual fantasies being about having control, lots of communication, and being in charge of what happens. They want a more realistic fantasy where they don't overshadow or take advantage of anyone else.

Me, I turn this into indulgent fantasies about the control my life is under being fun and nice. Having support and my needs met by others, and also now I get sex out of it. I eroticize my lack of control, my sexual fantasies being about my partners being in charge and just knowing how to make me feel good. I want a more fantasized fantasy where I don't have to consider all the real life things that I should be doing if these were relationships happening in the real world.

Both of these are valid. Never assume someone isn't as smart or as good a person as you because they cope and fantasize in different ways than you.

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If anything, the leftist responses to things like Vaush’s loli accusations prove that the left is not moving to normalise paedophillia but is rather cracking down on it, while the right ignores or rewards paedophiles on their side (Gaetz, Fuentes, etc)

WOMP WOMP KILL YOURSELF

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No, literally no

Even the most braindead of the fringe left disavows and the LGBTQ community has been very clear that paedos can’t sit with us

WOMP WOMP KILL YOURSELF