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Tactics Moving FORWARD!

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We’ve come a long way in the fashion industry as far as size representation goes. Unfortunately, the norm is still a size zero, and it doesn’t deviate much from that. But at least they’re trying! And maybe still failing. Gabourey Sidibe (who is known for her outstanding performance in Precious) was recently involved in a photoshoot for Harpers Bazaar and compared to the rest of the models, she looked extremely out of place. While other models wore sleek fall wear, Sidibe was dressed in black leggings, a black top, a red jacket and some kind of Persian rug that doubled as a head scarf. The spread was meant to celebrate diverse beauty in terms of race, body size and age. Seemingly, the magazine encompassed all of that and although the layout was beautiful, they didn’t spend much time on Sidibe. In my opinion, it was lazy work. They didn’t take her seriously enough. As a serious actress, she deserved a serious outfit. What she is wearing is not ...

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This one resonates. Tired of starting over.

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This appears to be a good step in the right direction!  :) 

Sorella Swim, a lux fashionable swimwear and resortwear brand for the curvy woman is featured on CBS's Entertainment Tonight. Jessica Petersen, founder and d...

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Day 2 and 3 Recap. .. a little delayed.

1. Did you stick to your plan today?

Day 2 --- I did! Though it was pretty difficult because I went to get my brakes on my car replaced and discovered a problem with the battery, which led to me sitting at the Honda dealership for a LONG time. I had packed a hardboiled egg with me, not anticipating I would be gone for so long, by the time I got home I was pretty close to a headache and feeling pretty exhausted. 

Day 3 --- For the most part, until my improv team came over for poker night. Then I had 2 mini taquitos, some Spinach Artichoke Dip, and chips. And wine. I did make the conscious choice that if I were going to make this a sustainable thing this time around that I would allow myself some fun. I will definitely have to watch this to make sure it doesn't get out of hand or that I easily excuse myself derailing the final goal. 

2. What physical activity or workout did you do today? 

Day 2- See above Car issues.  I had time to go to Pop Physique before work but I chose not to. 

Day 3 - Pop Physique with AMY!!! Man, sweated like a crazy person! we had a smaller class today full of people who have been going to Pop for a long time, which makes Amy lead a harder class and I LIKE it! 

3. How do you feel today?

Day 2 - I was very sensitive and didn't respond well to teasing from my co-workers, I'm not sure if this was just me in general today or if it was because of the reduced calories I have been taking in. 

Day 3 - Yesterday was a good day! I can already feel my body responding to eating healthier and my jeans fit a little better. Amazing how quickly your body is like, YES! This is what I want to do! 

4. Did you learn anything new about yourself?

Day 2 - I learned that I can simply walk away and not engage those that are teasing me or being mean to me. I simply chose to stop listening and it felt better. 

Day 3 - I love to sweat. Not necessarily something  new that I didn't know, but I remembered that I love it! 

5. How do you feel about this journey so far?

Day 2 - Pretty good. 

Day 3- Trucking along, feeling good!

6. Is there anything you want to do differently?

Day 2 - Prepare a little bit better, even when not expecting to be out of the house for such a long time. 

Day 3 - Not give in so easily in social situations, have a stronger sense of willpower!

7. COMPLIMENT YOURSELF RIGHT NOW! 

Day 2 - You're pretty AND smart. 

Day 3- You are a great hostess and throw fun gatherings! 

8. Additional Comments? Be better about doing the recaps at the end of the Day! :) 

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Day 1 Recap

  1. Did you stick to your plan today? - I started the plan today and talked myself into having a piece of pizza that was left over from last night, that I ate as a "last meal" of sorts. I allowed myself to have this piece today because I paid for it, and because I figured its always best not to go cold turkey on Day 1, not when I have to work until 12:30 or 1 am. I've done this before and there just comes a time that your body shuts down and says, "Nope. Time to sleep now." and I definitely didn't want that to happen tonight at work.

2. What physical activity or workout did you do today? I went to a Pop Physique class that kicked my arse. I was sweating like a crazy person today! I love Amy as an instructor most of the time, but Amy on a Sunday, I don't know what it is about that day that amps this girl up but her workouts are always unbelievably hard on Sundays.

3. How do you feel today? I felt pretty good today. Good energy. Not bad focus. I got a lot done this morning.

4. Did you learn anything new about yourself? - If I close my eyes in workout class I can actually stay in positions longer and workout harder. There is something about looking at myself in the eyes that enables me to wuss out or give up. If I close my eyes, I can feel everything, but can't see how hard it is. Today in class Amy said, "You will always give up long before your body will." Why is that? What a messed up thing for our minds to do to our bodies. Tricksters.

5. How do you feel about this journey so far? I am feeling a little daunted by the journey. I'm nervous that I am going to fail again, because I've done this before. I've achieved some great goals and got  down to a Size 8 before, but wasn't prepared for the different attention that I got and quickly gained some weight back, keeping me comfortably safe. Damn fear.

6. Is there anything you want to do differently? - I want to actually stick to the diet and not allow myself to be talked into cheating so easily.

7. COMPLIMENT YOURSELF RIGHT NOW! - I kicked ass is Pop Physique today. I felt very strong and I was and am so proud of myself!

8. Additional Comments?

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Questions to Be Answered Daily

During this journey I will answer these questions at the end of each day. (Inspired by 40 Days of Dating) www.40daysofdating.com 

1. Did you stick to your plan today?

2. What physical activity or workout did you do today?

3. How do you feel today?

4. Did you learn anything new about yourself?

5. How do you feel about this journey so far?

6. Is there anything you want to do differently?

7. COMPLIMENT YOURSELF RIGHT NOW! 

8. Additional Comments?

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Procrastinate much?

Dear Hollywood,

It's Day One. 

Today I am planning a weekly menu, going shopping and cooking a lot of the menu in order to have everything ready to go and to alleviate failure caused by my busy life. 

So far today I've set up an About.Me profile, revisited my Pinterest Page and caught up on the Facebook . . . Seems about right. 

Love,

Elizabeth

Check it out . . . http://about.me/elizabethmihelich

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The Beginnings. . .

Dear Hollywood, 

I had my Jennifer Aniston moment. Lose weight, or never have the career you are capable of having. Regardless of who it comes from, the unfortunate truth behind it, or my own desire to do just that, it stings to hear those words. 

Let me rewind and explain how this went down.

I wrote a short film that I raised money for. It's ready to go, my team is ready to go. The only thing we still need to put into place is the gentleman that will be starring opposite me. We have a very specific type in mind for my co-star, besides him being handsome, relatable, down to earth and a guy that a girl would go to great lengths to hang on to, we also want a "name" actor. We don't necessarily NEED one, but because we want to do a great run on the festival circuit having a name actor with great credits can increase the amount of festivals that you get into, giving our film greater exposure and the increased opportunity for more people to see it, so we are seeking a name actor.  

When my director went to a producer who has connections to a great talent that was recently in a blockbuster movie he was hit with this, "You have one problem with seeking a guy like that to play opposite Elizabeth . . . her weight." The producer insisted that no A-List up an coming actor would match himself with someone who isn't his equal in a part opposite him. He also brought up the reality that movie-goers would check out, disengage from the story because they wouldn't believe that a guy like that would date or be involved in an intense, serious relationship with a fatty like me. J.T. (the director) bless his heart got into an argument with this producer insisting that this was B.S., that we could change the industry standard by doing just that. Producer countered and insisted that people like Altman, Spielberg, Nolan could challenge the norm but a director who is up and coming and making shorts simply could not. 

J.T. summoned me in a meeting and summoned his own courage to let me know what had happened. He didn't want to, but he did it because I'm a producer as well as the writer on the project and wanted to give me ALL of the facts, enabling me to protect the project as a producer, not just as the actress in the project. He also knew that as a friend it was worthwhile for me to know how I'm being perceived in the industry. 

I want you all to know that this is not news to me. I have been told this since I auditioned for an agent in Colorado when I was in college. "Lose weight, get in shape, then we'll sign you. I want to see how big your dream is." Asshole. I reacted then in anger and refused to do it. I can do this without doing that. I don't need to be a certain size to be successful in Hollywood. . . here's the thing, you do. I do. Not everyone has to Melissa McCarthy has found success at the size she is, but I guarantee that if she LOSES any weight her team is going to FREAK out. . . It works both ways. 

J.T. presented me with two options. . . 

Option 1: We make this movie, adjust casting a little and we would do it in August as we had planned to and we would make a great film.

Option 2: We wait 4, 5, 6 months and I spend the time getting into great shape and we film then, with the type of person we've always had in mind for the role. 

He stressed to me that the decision was mine and we would make the film regardless of the decision I made. The question is, what do I want to do with this short? Do I want it to be a calling card for the "leading lady" or just a great short film that we had fun making and showcases my dramatic acting ability as a character actress?

I've been in Hollywood auditioning for awhile and I think there is confusion as to where to put me. I'm too pretty to be the quirky best friend, but too chunky to be the leading lady. I've been on hold and avail multiple times for multiple projects and something isn't clicking. Is this it?

I have decided to go for it. Option #2. Tomorrow I begin. Everyday I will follow my journey here, answering the same questions. 

I would love and value your input, thoughts, ideas, conversation about this whole topic?

If I lose weight will you love me Hollywood? If I lost weight will I love myself more?

Love, 

Elizabeth