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21.022024 Wednesday

Irritating customer care calls

Now - a - days its becoming very normal and easy for organization of various fields to do a phone call to people and advertise their product or scheme or plan. Today we are bound to give our phone no at every place we buy products .. We can't even ask them from where they got our number because they will not answer that.. (talking about the places we dont give our phone no directly).. At every shop we purchase something the first thing they ask is give your phone no.. It is generally understood that its for safety purposes or to avoid any fraud .. Is the purpose really fulfilled?? Aren't we still afraid of cyber theft and cyber scam?? And coming to my phone call topic.. Its becoming very easy for companies to hire young age girls and boys, make them sit with a phone and make calls to customers...I really pitty on those boys and girls who cant find a job and do anything with their life and end up working in those call centres whose purpose is to only irritate the citizens.. Big to small every level of organizations are upto this marketing strategy..The salon(brands n general) where we go for our services they also call and advertise again again ... Poor banks and finance agencies to sell a credit card.. Etc

Aapko call karna inka janm sidhha adhikar hai... And many times they also dont stop themselves from showing their frustration if they are not treated well by you... Aise jatayenge jaise aapke upar daya kar rahe hain... Yes if we have given any where a query or searching something on internet we give our phone no and wait for a call, but these unnecessary calls.???.. Yes we can take some calls if we are free or in a mood to hear something ... But not always... In online shopping world also.... Once you shop and then they start to send you flurry of SMSes after the shopping ,delivering all finished also.. I will end my piece with a story recently happened to me.. It goes.... And we while fulfilling the duty of being a supportive wife end up answering all the nonsense... Pata nehi sabke husband kya karte hain lekin mere husband toh aise hi karte hain.. Aur he doesn't even spend time on internet to find where to stop the calls even after my highest level of anger.. This post may help me n persuade my husband to do that help to me...

Before couple of days in the evening I got a call from an unknown number... There was a girl that side and started saying mam I am calling from so and so jewellery shop from janpath, Bhubaneswar... I then asked her 'you have called from that jewellery shop?? Why you have called me?' She replied 'mam there is sale going on in our store.. Come and do purchases' I said 'there is sale going on in your shop so you have called me!! I will talk to you but dear will you please tell me from where you got my phone no?? Because as far as I know I have not given my number anywhere asking that I want to buy jewellery.. If you tell me the source we will never give our no at those places.. '' she then got irked as I have mentioned earlier and told 'my manager gave me the number, if you are not interested you can hang up.. " I said ' if I am not interested u r saying.. You have already called me talking to me, I am giving you my time, now you are saying if I am not interested!! Call your manager I will ask the source from where he got my number .. " She was reluctant.. Then very nicely I told her "being a responsible citizen I asked you this question... Try to understand, I know you are doing your job and in your personal life also you may be facing these problems, so please convey this message to your manager that one madam told me these things.. You are not even the shops where we have given our number not even a national level jewellery chain.. Your advertisements are coming daily on tv.. Seeing those we can go and purchase. why are you calling us personally.. If every jewellery shop, grocery shop, hardware shop start calling on our phone numbers jeena toh duswar ho jayega... please cheer up and understand what I am telling.. Be a responsible citizen.." 😊 Then she hung up.

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Dt 20.11.2023

world cup defeat lessons

They always teach us a lesson.. But we never learn... At the exact time we always forget our skills... Yuvraj Singh was trained in Australia.. So had that conviction to win matches and give the fullest... Each time they defeat us in itself they give a message in which area we are weak at... But we go and do the same... Yes we have the best crowd, best support system, crores of motivators but we are the most demotivated ones... Yes we have improved through time but we are always ready with excuses for our under performance... Pat Cummins said he would like to take the credit of silencing a huge crowd and he did that... When will we rise above our weaknesses and stand tall in own eye rather than other 's eye.??. Yes we are always there to cheer support and put our hearts out when comes to pouring love... And with that we need introspection... Self analysis and conviction...

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18.11.23

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Afternoon thought… a good question ….whats in your mind… Really gives ample opportunity to express yourself…. Well whats in my mind is… We cant enforce anybody to behave us in a certain way… Even if it works, it works for certain period of time or may be superficially when the softer one cant voice their opinions… We cant demand our children to behave in a polished manner to us or to be always full of respect for us when we dont portray any ideal character in front of them…. Just because I am now in my comfort zone and I can say anything to my daughter whatever I feel like I shouldn't do that…. I sometimes get a reality check when I feel mom of her any friend is doing something better than me.. I suddenly apologize my daughter and assure her to be better version of myself next time.. This is one good thing I do, so I mentioned.. I may be doing several wrong things.. . We cant be best… But we can try to be better… Same thing applies to her father also… I just cant teach my daughter to respect her father irrespective of whatever he does… He has to live upto something thats worth admiring…. I am talking about little little things of life. Not big achievements or big prizes… We cant be just carelessly waiting for some serious service from our children because we brought them to world.. And yes it was certainly not their decision… Its our decision…..

It applies to every relationship… Taking for granted is the biggest mistake we do in relationships… The feeling should come from within… Even if it doesn't we can work on it… We should just be honest to ourselves and in relationships also��..not superficial… .. And love unconditionally our near and dear ones… That solves half of the problems…..Introspection is not a bad thing… 😊😊😊😊

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