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Judyhoppsl0vr69 destroying me with his music isn't something I'd think would happen, but here we are.

Song: Hickey by Nik Salah

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He needs his cane to walk...😭😭😭

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I hit 1k followers on twt this morning so to celebrate I made old man t4t yaoi w/ jayvik 🙂‍↕️

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me too, Viktor—

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"there is beauty in imperfections"

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i have nothing to say except i’m coping !

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Clean version of a comic I drew in history class

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support lgbt books

my intersex childrens book has pre orders available BUT if youd like to support but dont want a copy yourself you can donate a book to schools/libraries or you can donate whatever amount in my tips/donation section and add a note that its to support sending free books to kids.

donate a book: https://ko-fi.com/c/a888295eec

repost so more people can see this

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Did you know that you can believe systemic misandry on its own isn't real while also believing marginalized men are in fact oppressed in a unique way due to their manhood intersecting with their marginalized status... woa.. waow.. wow... and.. maybe they should have words for that..

Not to mention. Not allowing marginalized men to have words for specific kinds of bigotry they face further perpetuates the patriarchal idea that male experiences are 'the default'.

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It was an important step for trans communities when the popular understanding of someone being trans shifted from "person who transitions sex and/or gender" to "person whose gender differs from the one assigned at birth" to leave transmedicalims in the dirt and be inclusive of "non-transitioning" trans people but i really think it's about time for a shift to "Being trans is a subversion of what gender is expected of you by cisnormative society" (as @status-quo-hater put it) to stop assigning significance to assigned sex/gender and be inclusive of trans intersex experiences that don't fit the current binary many perisex trans people cling to of "transfem = amab & transmasc = afab"

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Yes, absolutely dismantle the gender binary. BUT dont forget to dismantle the sex binary too. Intersex people exist and they regularly get ignored in both queer and non-queer spaces. There are NOT only two sexes, and us perisex trans people CAN NOT forget that or else we will become like our oppressors, people who say there are only two genders and that what you are born as is what you must stay as. Intersexism must be stopped.

Love you all and have fun destroying society’s utterly limiting expectations of our minds and bodies 🫰

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Woke up to "well intersex people need to work on being less transmisogynistic if they want us to be less intersexist" and I'm going to fucking puke acid in someone's eyes I swear

Us being "transmisogynistic" is saying intersex trans people (women, men, and beyond) can look different from perisex trans people in lived experience and physical attributes and that we can identify however the fuck we want regardless of what perisex trans ppl think. Yall being intersexist is upholding the medical and social eradication of intersex people. Fuck all the way off.

You all are afraid of what has happened to us happening to you. So you uphold our eradication hoping you won't be fucking next, thinking we have power over you. Intersex people survey to have worse quality of life overall in every aspect than perisex trans people of every comparible group. Y'all are fucked towards intersex people and do not want to do better.

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The progression from "I don't think afab people can be transfem" to "I don't think intersex people can be trans" is absolutely fascinating to watch unfold

Alternatively, it can also go from "I don't think afab people can be transfem" to "Intersex people existing is an inherent threat to trans people" which is scary to watch unfold

Like the amount of shit I've gotten about me "sounding like conservative propaganda" because I've talked about my experiences with being coersively reassigned male and being put on hormones. Or me having a complicated relationship with my sex and gender being used to call me a T*RF.

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edit: forgot to say this when first writing the post, but this method is not viable for folks on t!

edit 2: perhaps “not viable” wasn’t the right way to phrase it i just want to make people aware. do what you want just be careful and stay aware of the risks 👍

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intersex childrens book

I have been working on my intersex childrens book this year and it's almost ready to be published, I'm worried though bc it will be banned 100%. I also need the funds to help pay to get as many copies as I can before they prevent that from happening.

if you have the means to and would like to support an intersex author, I have pins/stickers available, I have art available, and I also have donations open.

its also intersex day of solidarity/rememberance so...

also if you want notifications about my book bc you're interested in purchasing it, you can sign up on my website

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"your absence from historical records is hilarious" is the most vile and disturbing thing that you could say about any group of marginalized people, yet someone really thought that was okay to say about trans men. absolutely revolting.

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Perisex people making AGAB synonymous with a person's "actual sex"/body parts has been a horrendous blight on recent queer theory.