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Gruhakaryam - The Creation Of Human Life

BRIEF

Emotions are thought of as something that lets you feel about things, in a good way or bad - but it just isn’t all about it. The factors that led to your emotions and the factors that your emotions will result in, all matters which are more important and worthy of attention and being taken into consideration, for the sake of which this article is put forth.

LET’S BE MORE SPECIFIC!

How often do you have a conversation or at least be prone to topics that everybody seems to know but are not often spoken about?

Being aware of such things isn’t only important but also life-changing if known at the right time or beforehand -only to save some regrets later on in life😌

Since the heading read 'let’s be specific’, let us actually be🤷‍♀️.

What picture comes to your mind when you hear the word 'Sex’? Adding to it, 'sex intended for having a baby?’.

Does it sound more like a taboo topic? Or like a physical act? Or Lovemaking?Or even just 'baby making' ??

Let’s know the science behind it…

SCIENCE BEHIND THE PICTURE YOU CREATED IN YOUR MIND

"Making Baby" in itself is more than just an act. It is like planting a tree for which we need seeds, soil, time, and right nourishment and most importantly is spiritual too. Why?

Because what else can you call for the creation of new life?

And when it is about a new life you are thinking of, isn’t it necessary you give in a lot of good for the same?

Before knowing what I mean by 'good’, let me state some things that study proves.

Ayurveda believes that the reproductive health of both men and women is dependant on plasma, blood tissue, muscle tissue, fat tissue, bone marrow, reproductive tissue. Nourishing these plays a vital role in having a healthy child.

Factors like obesity, emotions, stress, metabolism, and lifestyle contribute to not only the baby’s health but also the mother’s during pregnancy and conceiving. So having a healthy routine and being mindful adds a lot more to the picture.

With the changing times, maintaining a work-life balance has been a challenge for working couples.

Adding value lessons to one’s own life, practicing gratitude, fulfilling one’s wish rather than having a baby as a wish — work, since it is not only the sexual fluids that are exchanged but feelings and emotions that are!

CASE STUDY

FOOD AND LIFESTYLE — Overhearing a conversation between a doctor and a father who had just witnessed a stillborn, made evident that — a healthy diet is something everybody knows must follow but neglect without being aware of the after-effects. “ I witness 50–60% of stillborns — all of which are because of food habits the present lifestyle has brought up,” says the doctor. So act before it’s too late.

STRESS — A sole problem creator can make anything go from everything to zero. So it is advised to be totally stress-free for 4 months, especially during the act.

Negligence and lack of knowledge on the above-mentioned result in various kinds of miscarriages and pregnancy loss like chemical pregnancy, ectopic pregnancy, blighted ovum, first-trimester miscarriage, molar pregnancy to name a few.

PREPPING UP

Think of it this way. Since you are convinced that the Creation of life isn’t simple, it involves a lot more than planning. But what else to act upon?

WHAT CHANGES ARE TO BE MADE?

Have a calm mind. Meditate for having a peaceful state at least for three to four months. Follow a healthy diet throughout this duration and I can’t stress enough how much chanting or listening to value-based stories helps. Chanting of mantras and listening to them rejuvenates the nervous system and makes you feel refreshed. The exchange of emotions and happiness comes before the exchange of fluids. Appreciate each other daily. Read, listen and place yourself in the good surroundings that will naturally make a positive impact on thoughts, mindset, and fluids. Exercise regularly along with motivating each other to exercise. Perform Pranayamas. Engage in a soothing massage once every three months (Panchakarma is recommended as a result of which the three doshas namely Vata, Pitta, and Kapha are balanced). Be filled with a sense of positivity, enthusiasm, and gratitude in the air!

Be a genuine helping hand for the conceiving partner because the biology of childbirth that a mother undergoes in itself is very complex yet beautiful.

After three to four months, being aware of the monthly cycles of your partner, schedule a getaway, be life-enjoying and refreshed to cut off all the baggage that is weighing you down.

Rather than expecting a baby to be a solution to your already existing problems, solve them among yourselves to create a peaceful life for your offspring.

It is said that even the food cooked by a person with anger and agitation creates an ill effect on the people who feed on it. Guess what effects should your mind with stress, guilt, anger, turmoil, and a body being unhealthy, have on the newborn and the mother about to conceive!

Women suffering from PCOS, PCOD, Endometriosis, and any underlying factors that deteriorate infertility must live a health-conscious life from the start and your first job after conceiving is to find a good doctor and get it scanned on the very first day of your pregnancy confirmation to avoid life-threatening consequences like Ectopic Pregnancy. Find out the reason for the problem you are facing and then act upon it by changing food habits, lifestyle, environment. Great understanding between the partners, supporting each other mentally as well physically in highs and lows, being the caretaker when the other one fails to take care of themselves, sound cliche but not worthy of being ignored.

TAKING OFF

With all this being said, let’s hope for the evolving mindsets to understand this complex process to be no more complex if acted upon wisely and responsibly🤞🏻

Miracle of Life